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		<title>By: Why Korean Girls Don&#8217;t Say No: Contraception Commercials, Condom Use and Double Standards in South Korea &#171; The Grand Narrative</title>
		<link>http://www.dramabeans.com/2008/11/actress-faces-jail-time-for-adultery/#comment-75633</link>
		<dc:creator>Why Korean Girls Don&#8217;t Say No: Contraception Commercials, Condom Use and Double Standards in South Korea &#171; The Grand Narrative</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Dec 2008 15:50:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] if not hundreds of thousands of Korean men commit adultery every day. For more on that, see here, here and [...]</description>
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		<title>By: CrimsonWave</title>
		<link>http://www.dramabeans.com/2008/11/actress-faces-jail-time-for-adultery/#comment-74169</link>
		<dc:creator>CrimsonWave</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Dec 2008 19:45:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hold up! I know people are not laying morality at America feet here.

There was a case of a Grandfather and his brother that raped their granddaughter/niece for 7 years and the judge let them off scott free. Oh, and the judge send her back to them because she was mentally disabled and needed someone to care for her.  

How about the case where a bunch of high school boys ran a prostitution ring  and forced high school girls to have sex with them and their friends?  Oh and they took pictures and put it on the Internet.  No one took any responsibility and the parents blame the girls for ruining their sons lives.  I guess they were not concern about their sons turning into rapists and pimps. 

Yeah before you start blaming other countries, how about cleaning up your own backyard first?  

THE ONLY REASON why she faces jail time is that she got caught with a foreigner; nevermind the fact that she also slept with a Korean man but no one cases about that.  Another example on how Korea demonized Korean women with Non-Korean men.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hold up! I know people are not laying morality at America feet here.</p>
<p>There was a case of a Grandfather and his brother that raped their granddaughter/niece for 7 years and the judge let them off scott free. Oh, and the judge send her back to them because she was mentally disabled and needed someone to care for her.  </p>
<p>How about the case where a bunch of high school boys ran a prostitution ring  and forced high school girls to have sex with them and their friends?  Oh and they took pictures and put it on the Internet.  No one took any responsibility and the parents blame the girls for ruining their sons lives.  I guess they were not concern about their sons turning into rapists and pimps. </p>
<p>Yeah before you start blaming other countries, how about cleaning up your own backyard first?  </p>
<p>THE ONLY REASON why she faces jail time is that she got caught with a foreigner; nevermind the fact that she also slept with a Korean man but no one cases about that.  Another example on how Korea demonized Korean women with Non-Korean men.</p>
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		<title>By: dae</title>
		<link>http://www.dramabeans.com/2008/11/actress-faces-jail-time-for-adultery/#comment-74034</link>
		<dc:creator>dae</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Nov 2008 15:53:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i agree in the law that adultery is a crime... women should maintain self respect more than anything else... but yes i too disagree on how the law come out as an avenue for men&#039;s vengeance on women who place a big slap on their ego - men aren&#039;t the only one capable of cheating. i would wait for the day to come when concubinage or those who continuously cheat their wives would be punished as well, put to jail or tagged w/the scarlet letter like how women are treated. how men can be punished only when concubinage is proven but not when their habitually cheating.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i agree in the law that adultery is a crime&#8230; women should maintain self respect more than anything else&#8230; but yes i too disagree on how the law come out as an avenue for men&#8217;s vengeance on women who place a big slap on their ego &#8211; men aren&#8217;t the only one capable of cheating. i would wait for the day to come when concubinage or those who continuously cheat their wives would be punished as well, put to jail or tagged w/the scarlet letter like how women are treated. how men can be punished only when concubinage is proven but not when their habitually cheating.</p>
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		<title>By: Mindy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mindy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Nov 2008 19:01:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>WOW I THOUGHT THAT WAS MRS. KWON, AS IN KWON SANGWOO&#039;S WIFE!! WHAT A RESEMBLANCE!  

ANYWAY I BELIEVE IN SOME JAIL TIME FOR ADULTERS. BUT IF SHE&#039;S JUST CONFESSING SOMETHING IN THE PAST AND WASN&#039;T CAUGHT IN THE ACT THEN I DON&#039;T THINK SHE SHOULD BE DOING JAIL TIME... BUT THEN AGAIN KOREA SEES THIS IS SIN, JUST AS MURDER IS SIN. IF U MURDER SOMEONE AND CONFESSED LATER, YOU WOULD DO JAIL TIME FOR SURE.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>WOW I THOUGHT THAT WAS MRS. KWON, AS IN KWON SANGWOO&#8217;S WIFE!! WHAT A RESEMBLANCE!  </p>
<p>ANYWAY I BELIEVE IN SOME JAIL TIME FOR ADULTERS. BUT IF SHE&#8217;S JUST CONFESSING SOMETHING IN THE PAST AND WASN&#8217;T CAUGHT IN THE ACT THEN I DON&#8217;T THINK SHE SHOULD BE DOING JAIL TIME&#8230; BUT THEN AGAIN KOREA SEES THIS IS SIN, JUST AS MURDER IS SIN. IF U MURDER SOMEONE AND CONFESSED LATER, YOU WOULD DO JAIL TIME FOR SURE.</p>
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		<title>By: your average girl</title>
		<link>http://www.dramabeans.com/2008/11/actress-faces-jail-time-for-adultery/#comment-73842</link>
		<dc:creator>your average girl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Nov 2008 16:58:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;Responding to Jessica (#22)&lt;/b&gt;

I&#039;m not Korean, so the only exposure I have to Korean culture is through movies and dramas. Of course I am NOT saying that &quot;Korea must be like this because such-and-such drama showed such-and such.&quot; I know better than to stereotype a culture based on something like a drama. 

HOWEVER, we must all admit that media is often a reflection of a culture. American movies give foreigners a glimpse of American culture-- how sex-obsessed Americans are, how much emphasis Americans put on physical appearance, how materialistic we can be, what our standards of beauty looks are, what sort of humor we prefer, our definitions of gender roles, what we think of gay/lesbian relationships, how we perceive teen pregnancy (think Juno, Jamie Lynn Spears and Sarah Palin&#039;s daughter), etc. 

American dramas/media/TV are not shy at all about including sex (even between teenagers) while Korean movies tend to be more conservative. Wouldn&#039;t we both agree that this is a subtle reflection of both cultures? Americans are very open in general while Koreans (like most Asian countries) tend to be more conservative when it comes to sexual relationships-- or at least, Asian countries frown upon one night stands and promiscuous sexual behavior more than America does. 

So my statement above was simply saying that there I have observed a trend in Korean dramas, and therefore I believe there must be a motivation or cause for this trend. I could be entirely wrong-- maybe Korean men are SOOO loyal that script writers are fed up with the loyalty and writing dramas about divorces, affairs, etc. 

However, while I am not Korean, I can tell you that the Chinese have the same double standard for men and women. It&#039;s fine for a man to be divorced, but if a woman is divorced, it&#039;s like she has some evil mark on her. The Taiwanese apparently have a similar law regarding adultery, but once again, I am sure many women overlook their husband&#039;s affairs because they cannot afford to get a divorce-- for many women, they would have to find a job though it&#039;s so hard to do once you&#039;ve been out of the work force for several years and the only marketable skill you have is cooking and cleaning, they would be looked down upon in Asian society, etc. 

Therefore, I do believe some of these Korean dramas ARE pointing out the inequalities, injustices and double standards in society by subtly addressing them through the media. In America we have movies that address issues like teenage birth and racial stereotypes, so why can&#039;t Koreans have movies that address social issues that exist?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>Responding to Jessica (#22)</b></p>
<p>I&#8217;m not Korean, so the only exposure I have to Korean culture is through movies and dramas. Of course I am NOT saying that &#8220;Korea must be like this because such-and-such drama showed such-and such.&#8221; I know better than to stereotype a culture based on something like a drama. </p>
<p>HOWEVER, we must all admit that media is often a reflection of a culture. American movies give foreigners a glimpse of American culture&#8211; how sex-obsessed Americans are, how much emphasis Americans put on physical appearance, how materialistic we can be, what our standards of beauty looks are, what sort of humor we prefer, our definitions of gender roles, what we think of gay/lesbian relationships, how we perceive teen pregnancy (think Juno, Jamie Lynn Spears and Sarah Palin&#8217;s daughter), etc. </p>
<p>American dramas/media/TV are not shy at all about including sex (even between teenagers) while Korean movies tend to be more conservative. Wouldn&#8217;t we both agree that this is a subtle reflection of both cultures? Americans are very open in general while Koreans (like most Asian countries) tend to be more conservative when it comes to sexual relationships&#8211; or at least, Asian countries frown upon one night stands and promiscuous sexual behavior more than America does. </p>
<p>So my statement above was simply saying that there I have observed a trend in Korean dramas, and therefore I believe there must be a motivation or cause for this trend. I could be entirely wrong&#8211; maybe Korean men are SOOO loyal that script writers are fed up with the loyalty and writing dramas about divorces, affairs, etc. </p>
<p>However, while I am not Korean, I can tell you that the Chinese have the same double standard for men and women. It&#8217;s fine for a man to be divorced, but if a woman is divorced, it&#8217;s like she has some evil mark on her. The Taiwanese apparently have a similar law regarding adultery, but once again, I am sure many women overlook their husband&#8217;s affairs because they cannot afford to get a divorce&#8211; for many women, they would have to find a job though it&#8217;s so hard to do once you&#8217;ve been out of the work force for several years and the only marketable skill you have is cooking and cleaning, they would be looked down upon in Asian society, etc. </p>
<p>Therefore, I do believe some of these Korean dramas ARE pointing out the inequalities, injustices and double standards in society by subtly addressing them through the media. In America we have movies that address issues like teenage birth and racial stereotypes, so why can&#8217;t Koreans have movies that address social issues that exist?</p>
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		<title>By: anna</title>
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		<dc:creator>anna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Nov 2008 12:15:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;it’s a complete joke if they think ok so-ri’s jail time sends shivers down the guys cheating on their wives&quot;

i know, it doesn&#039;t teach other people. not only adultery, but in any other crimes, nobody really scared and criminals rate are still high today. but still, this law proves that the state in overall still have some moral value which, against adultery in marriage. 

i dont see anything wrong with this law. in fact, i feel glad some places still at least show their stand, which completely against this moral less act. is that mean  u allow every wife and husband have free sex outside? do u approve your wife/husband have an affair? me, not.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;it’s a complete joke if they think ok so-ri’s jail time sends shivers down the guys cheating on their wives&#8221;</p>
<p>i know, it doesn&#8217;t teach other people. not only adultery, but in any other crimes, nobody really scared and criminals rate are still high today. but still, this law proves that the state in overall still have some moral value which, against adultery in marriage. </p>
<p>i dont see anything wrong with this law. in fact, i feel glad some places still at least show their stand, which completely against this moral less act. is that mean  u allow every wife and husband have free sex outside? do u approve your wife/husband have an affair? me, not.</p>
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		<title>By: asianromance</title>
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		<dc:creator>asianromance</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Nov 2008 06:24:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i totally agree with javabeans comments.  

i can&#039;t believe this!  sending a woman to jail for adultery- what a waste of government resources.  they should be catching rapists and loan-sharks.  how about educating those kids who get into fights at school?  I guess this might be the case of once of those archaic laws left unchecked.  Like whoops, forgot to cancel that law.  I read a wacky laws humor book before listing outdated/ridiculous laws and restrictions that  the govt forget to get rid of.  

as for moral decline due to american media- i can&#039;t lay the blame on US media&#039;s doors.  I think the situation nowadays is not entirely a decline in morals and values but in increase exposure of situations that lack morals and values.  suddenly our eyes are open to the follies of  our fellow neighbors.  cheating husbands is universal and has been happening since the dawn of time.  however, in the present, there are more ways to catch a husband/wife cheating and technology to aid it (video cameras, cell phone logs, emails) and there are more options for what happens afterward.    People don&#039;t feel the need to stay with cheating spouses and turn the other way/work things out.  They just get a divorce.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i totally agree with javabeans comments.  </p>
<p>i can&#8217;t believe this!  sending a woman to jail for adultery- what a waste of government resources.  they should be catching rapists and loan-sharks.  how about educating those kids who get into fights at school?  I guess this might be the case of once of those archaic laws left unchecked.  Like whoops, forgot to cancel that law.  I read a wacky laws humor book before listing outdated/ridiculous laws and restrictions that  the govt forget to get rid of.  </p>
<p>as for moral decline due to american media- i can&#8217;t lay the blame on US media&#8217;s doors.  I think the situation nowadays is not entirely a decline in morals and values but in increase exposure of situations that lack morals and values.  suddenly our eyes are open to the follies of  our fellow neighbors.  cheating husbands is universal and has been happening since the dawn of time.  however, in the present, there are more ways to catch a husband/wife cheating and technology to aid it (video cameras, cell phone logs, emails) and there are more options for what happens afterward.    People don&#8217;t feel the need to stay with cheating spouses and turn the other way/work things out.  They just get a divorce.</p>
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