As the cliche goes, there is no smoke without fire. I’m inclined to think LBH did lead her on in some way(s), and she moved to Korea without much thought after falling head of heels in love with him (who wouldn’t?) He was in a foreign land, probably looking for some thrill/excitement (as most of them do) and both got carried away by their emotions. But for her to pull a lawsuit stunt is just plain dumb, at the end of the day, it is his lawyers who could walk away the winners
Something tells me he was just having his fun with her and did not intend for it to turn serious / warrant marriage. His IRIS co stars like JJH coming out to ” defend ” him does not help either

She – suffers the physical / emotional beating
He – his image takes a beating for a while. I don’t think this is big enough to take him down

when my cousin first told me the story, it started out as they met each other in a different city at a film festival. he fell for her, but she was more into her career. he asked her to move to korea with her to fulfill her dreams and so she did. that’s all i could say. i’m not saying my information is accurate, it’s up to the reader to believe me or not.

anyways, i don’t really think neither of them are at fault. i mean, she should have been wiser and so should he. i might favor LBH a little more since i know a little more, but what she said he did isn’t right. i think they really brought it upon themselves and no one is really gonna win, but i do agree with LBH. the REAL truth will come out in the end.

agree!…nobody is perfect….forgive n forget…hope it over soon.

@ 117: “And why judge LBH as a tomcat?” Hahah…if LBH is a tomcat, then the “she” is the pussycat!! Meow…Meow…Meow….remember you needs two hands to clap!!

I do not think anyone of them is a victim. So, no poor him or poor she. Both plays with fire and got burned. So, they have to take self-responsibility and no putting blames on each other and get into a suing and counter-suing games.

Mind you, I have seen so many of similar cases over the past years. This type of game has never generated any win-win scenario, may be temporariy victory to a certain party, but ultimately both party lost heavily emotionally, mentally and financially at the end. The better way is using the AFL Code.

AFL Code: “Acknowledge” the mistake or poor judgment, settle out of court (may be through restorative justice and “Forgive” each other), rather than holding on the grundge.. Finally “Let Go” and move on with life!! It is of course much easier to say than done. So, it is a test of LBH heroic stance and true personality, rather than just merely as projected on screen. Rambo vs. Ramboo is is the test he is now going through.

It is Duchene smile and not Duchess smile. Duchene is a French scientist who specialised in facial muscles in the last century. No one pays much attention to his findings until Paul Ekman who studies micro-expressions. Both Duchene and Charles Darwin found that when you smile genuinely, two sets of your facial muscles will move in tandem. One from your cheek, and another pair below your eyes. If only the muscle of your cheek moves, then it is a fake smile or non- Duchene smile like this ^______-”

BTW, Charles Darwin used Duchene in one of his book called The Emotions of Animals and Men. In that book you can see Charles Darwin shows a lot of pictures of a funny guy stimulating his facial muscles with an electrode. That guy is not an actor, but Duchene!! ^__________^