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Beans of Wisdom, ahoy!

It’s time for more comments of the week! It seems you guys are enjoying this feature, and we’re glad about it because your contributions are a big part of what makes this site fun to read. We’ve collected another round of thoughtful, funny, and insightful comments from the past week, aided in part by crazy plot turns and laughably weird moments, like the ones we saw in Jackpot this week.

For instance, in “Jackpot: Episode 5,” YY made this eulogy for our beleaguered hero in comment #29:

Dae-gil’s epitaph:
Here Lies Dae-gil
Gone But Never Forgotten
Who Died of Natural Causes
At the Ripe Old Age of 1001
His Most Amazing Feat
They Cut Off His Head
He Grew A New One Instead

 

And here’s Sue in comment #24 of the same recap thread:

Personally after eps 5 and 6 I’m finding myself liking this drama more and more. There is just something about JKS’s [Jang Geun-seok’s] character that is growing on me. I must say that I find it ironic that everyone keeps saying how lucky he is. He has been thrown twice from a high place into water, shot with an arrow twice, stabbed with a knife AND an arrow, had almost every limb broken, and has been beaten to a pulp at every opportunity. How lucky is that? BUT Dae Gil keeps coming back for more.

It reminds me of King Arthur’s fight with the Black Knight from Monty Python’s Holy Grail. The Black Knight gets his arms and legs cut off and still insists he can fight. In case you haven’t seen it, here is a portion of the scene.

King Arthur: [after Arthur’s cut off both of the Black Knight’s arms] Look, you stupid bastard, you’ve got no arms left!
Black Knight: Yes I have.
King Arthur: Look!
Black Knight: It’s just a flesh wound.
[the Black Knight continues to threaten Arthur despite getting both his arms and one of his legs cut off]
Black Knight: Right, I’ll do you for that!
King Arthur: You’ll what?
Black Knight: Come here!
King Arthur: What are you gonna do, bleed on me?
Black Knight: I’m invincible!
King Arthur: …You’re a loony.

Dae Gil is kind of like that.

 

In “Drama Hangout: Ms. Temper and Nam Jung-ki,” Andrea made a strong case for the show in comments #22.1 and #32.2:

I LOVE seeing Ok Da-jung break the glass ceiling with every episode! I’m so invested in her story, and the story of everyone at Lovely.

I also *really* appreciate that this drama shows how fraught the working world can be for women. This show has not been shy about calling out sexism in the workplace, and showing how successful women suffer hits to their reputations and honor.

The whole Mi-ri sexual assault plot line broke my heart, in so many ways. First, obviously, the sexual assault itself. Second, when poor Mi-ri thought that Deputy Park was in on the assault (can you imagine how horrified she must have felt?), and then a different kind of betrayal when Deputy Park didn’t immediately support her when she asked him to be her witness. Third, when her happiness and pride in her work was overtaken by her worry about fending off more advances from Manager Slimeball. Fourth, when President Jo didn’t fire Manager Slimeball right away.

I was so happy that Manager Slimeball got called out and shamed in front of his peers, but I am still quivering with rage that he wasn’t fired. He’s a sexual predator, and he’s not going to stop abusing his female subordinates. I wish that they had gone farther and gone to the police!

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I agree with you about how brave the subject-matter is in this drama! They have really called out slut-shaming in a way I’ve never seen before in a Korean drama.

Ugh, speaking of which, did anyone one else actually reel back from the screen with hurt during Da-jung’s flashback when her first husband called her a slut? I’d felt okay-ish about him up to that point, but once I saw that, he was dead to me.

You know what? Sold. After that description, I can’t not check it out.

 

Lime Chilli summed up “Page Turner: Episode 3 (Final)” in comment #42:

This drama packed the perfect amount of heart, action and story progression into 3 awesome episodes. There’s no unrealistic unnecessary middle third filler complications, no glaringly unwanted PPLs and gasp, not even a forced love triangles. The hint of possible romance was perfect without it taking over every aspect of the story, and we saw growth in every single character (well maybe except Jin Mok’s Dad). I usually like my dramas all wrapped up with a neat and tidy bow, but I am shocked how satisfied with the ending. It is quite possibly the first time that what ISN’T shown in the ending is what makes me appreciate the drama more, and the fact that I can IMAGINE how the characters will carry on after the ending speaks volume about how well they have been written and how “real” they are when I’ve only known them in 3 episodes.

 

Alessar makes a good point about “Vampire Detective: Episode 3” at #1:

I’m a tad disappointed by the low amount of vampire hijinks. I really feel they’re already wasting Lee Joon. I mean, if this was “Lee Joon and the Scooby Gang” it’d be fine. But you load something up with expectations when you slap Vampire on it. Plus it’s ridiculous that we’re in episode 3 and the guy doesn’t apparently know he’s a vampire or half vampire or something yet. I mean he may be suspicious but he’s way too chill, especially when so much is super-obvious to the audience. (Revealing too much to the audience and leaving the characters running around blind is certainly not a problem unique to this show. See the original cut of Dark City for the worst example ever – a V.O. at the start of the movie SPOILERS the entire premise and the main character figures it out 2 minutes before the end.)

 

Here’s an exchange in the post “SBS, KBS fight over rom-com Jealousy Incarnate,” beginning at #8:

jessi:

Might as well be a mad lib: “Jealousy Incarnate will air TWO DAYS OF THE WEEK starting in MONTH on A BROADCASTING STATION.”

Flightey Gazelle:

Bwahahahaha!

Chandler:

ROFL. I love this.

Someone should write a mad lib book about dramas.

 

In the same post, Nafiza raised this point at #14:

I really don’t understand why one actress has to be raised at the expense of another. Honestly, the drama world is large enough to sustain more than one actress who can wear the same title. Why do people think it is necessary to malign one to raise up another? It doesn’t need to be that way…? I can like HJE [Hwang Jung-eum] and GHJ [Gong Hyo-jin] without compromising myself (I hope, hah). And I can like GHJ and say PSH [Park Shin-hye] without needing to throwing shade at one or the other. Doing anything else is kind of hypocritical…I feel. But you’re, of course, free to disagree with me.

 

If you’ve ever wondered about the daily drama format, chasen8888 gives a pretty good description in “News bites: April 9, 2016” at #17.1:

Watch a daily drama at your own risk of insanity – cursing, viewer tantrums, hair pulling & addictive watching. Be advised that at times it makes other makjang dramas look like child’s play especially with the nonsensical. The synopsis always appear appealing like a tasty appetizer but the actual taste of the whole meal is completely different.

The heroine is likely to go through feats that makes her applicable for sainthood and although the synopsis gives the impression that she is somewhat smart in the first place also she is never rich, she later goes on to make decisions that makes the stupid person looks intelligent. These shows have acts of crimes which are prosecutable yet they will rarely if ever see the light of day in court much less the so called police station. There is so much done to the victim/prey by the predator/s, yet there is so much secrets kept of these sins for the so called sake of a loved one. There is many “forgiveness”, “betrayal”, “forgetfulness”, “ineffectiveness” & “blame game” to name a few. It would be same regarding the various villains/predators and just about everyone is connected. Also the hero and heroine will have to go through so many trials/tests of their love its a wonder/miracle to know that it was a relationship in the first place & that they are supposedly meant to be together.

All I stated so far is the base foundation of a daily drama (30-53 mins) – 120/150 episodes. All of this dragged on madness will surprisingly either make you become an addict, question yourself as why did you start watching this in the first place/ if you are “completely pabo”. So future daily drama viewers you were forewarned. I have relegated myself to the pabo list as of late as I have just restarted watching them, but in a way its easier to view the clips and read the comments of the episode at soompi so I do not consistently watch them and lessen the insanity factor of wanting to pull my hair or cuss a few choice words.

 

Here’s a pair of comments from “Ji Sung goes from sham to sincere for SBS’s Entertainer,” starting with Chandler at #8.4:

Well, I’m a tad disappointed in the Hyeri-Ji Sung pairing too, but not for the same reasons as you. I honestly have no problem with older actors getting paired with younger actresses, especially considering the amount of noona romances in dramaland (Witch’s Romance is definitely not an exception, believe me). In fact, for a while, there were so many noona romances that I actually felt an absence of older man- younger woman pairs. I do wish that more dramas had a 6/7-year gap a la Coffee Prince, instead of 12-20 year gaps though.

Honestly, what bothers me more than anything is that we term ‘noona romances’ as such, and not the other way around. As if it’s standard for older men to be romancing younger women, but when it’s a women it’s some big deal. But, in the end, I recognize the term partially came about because of the sheer amount of them in dramaland and that softens my reaction to the term.

That said, my issue with this pairing has more to with her not being able to hold-up her end of the romantic chemistry. I look forward to seeing Hyeri improve in this project and do think it’s possible for her to be cute with Ji Sung. And, who knows, maybe her character will actually get a chance to show us her feelings for her love interest and that will make all the difference. But, as for feeling a ‘spark’ between them…I’m not all too sure about that. Willing to give it a chance though!

Followed by flamingotamer at #8.4.1:

@Chandler thanks for bringing that up, you have a totally valid point about noona romances not being rare and Witch’s Romance definitely not being an exception. (ie Biscuit Romance, Flower Boy Ramyum Shop, I Need Romance 3, …yeah the list is pretty ample with examples) In fact, that was something I really liked about K-drama when I first started, the plethora of noona romance options, a category that doesn’t as much exist in other countries’ media and definitely not with a selection the caliber of K-dramaland.

I guess how I should have better phrased my annoyance was how “natural” and “normal” people and the media seem to take it when a man is 15-20 years older than the female in a romance, whereas if the tables were turned it’s a special category of its own, a noona romance, as you also pointed out. It’s actually not that number age matters, but this idea in the media to portray an aesthetic and “beautiful” couple the woman must look young whereas the man can be at whatever age he may be.

Hyeri might be hot right out of Answer Me, but I wish a female lead of a closer age difference could have been casted (I don’t see how that should heavily affect the story either). Giving the opportunity to an older actress would have also touched on and answered another problem in media and Hollywood, the pay gap that grow as men and women age because older women are less likely to be casted and have to choose to settle.

For me personally, when I first saw the preview, it felt a little weird because I’m familiar with both actors and KNOW of the size of the age gap before having to look them up or anything so looking at them together in a love line feels a bit unnatural to me though I’m curious if they seem to go well together to someone who saw the preview without knowing their age gap?

 

Meanwhile, in that post, I’d noted, “Even Chae Jung-ahn started out as a pop singer (remember her techno queen days?)” This was an important discovery for some, for instance mary, who reacted at #5:

What????

WHAT?????

*goes to google*

*starts techno party*

Followed by james94131:

So true!!!

But this is an even better back in the day clip of Chae Jung-Ahn:

Mindy:

Oh my GOD. Everything about that performance is so 2000. The music, the dancing, her outfit, the dancer outfits… also, she can NOT dance at all. I LOVE IT.

Was she really popular back then?

Man, now I’m on an early-2000s nostalgia kick. And I was only 5 in 2000! Lol. Takes me back to my dancing-to-Britney-Spears-in-my-bedroom days.

mary:

This video is a work of art. XD

Kehinde:

Loved this video!!

I agree with Mindy, she CANNOT dance lol

Kit:

Ohh myyy… Hahaha! I did not know about her pop singer past.

You’re welcome, everyone.

 
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Lol! Also i wanna say that i dont know how i feel about the hyeri-jisung pairing. I mean at first i wasnt really enthusiastic about it and i WILL admit that ir was because of the age gap. But then when i saw the teaser, for some reason i forgot about the age gap and just enjoyed it. I still dont know what my feelings toward this pairing are, but what i know is that im curious as to how it will play out. I have a slight feeling that hyeri and jisung might not end up as the main pairing and it would be chae jung ahn and jisung instead though i also dont know how much i want to believe in that. *sigh* I dont know a lot of things but im looking forward to this drama and am thinking of watching it while it is airing in korea and now waiting for it to get over. Lets see! Fighting!

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The comment about Da-jung's first husband calling her a slut? I'm not sure if he really did. I was under the impression that he called her an "exceedingly ambitious woman". It'll be good if someone can confirm what he really said. Not that it changes much though.

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Another example of English translations failing? I hope so, because that comment was spot on. As soon as I read the subtitle 'slut' first ex-husband was dead to me. Not that he has a chance, but I thought he was redeemable (though not as her man).

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Oh he did call her a slut. He said he had thought she was just ambitious before but now he knew better blah blah blah. After the slut comment, I just wanted to reach into the screen and punch him in the face. What an ass. Honestly, when we first started and Da Jung mentioned that she'd been divorced four times, I'd thought wow, maybe it's because of her temper and she just got fed up with her husbands pretty quickly. But from motormouth husband one, to mummy dearest husband two, I've concluded. The woman is a saint! Her ex-husbands? Plain stupid. Gah!

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3* times lol.

Let's hope the fourth marriage is a happily ever after.

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He actually said it, then she said why don't you believe me an believe what other says? ...forgot the rest

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Isn't that what you get from the subs? I listened to the conversation and it seems like he just said that "I didn't know you are a woman this ambitious". Well, the intent is the same but I don't think he actually mentions the word slut. Is it even allowed anyway?

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Awwww ☺️ I'm so flattered my comment was picked. I feel like I won an Oscar-lite. I would like to thank Dramabeans, Crazy Dae-Gil, and my even crazier husband who has made me watch Monty Python's Holy Grail enough times to make me believe people can actually ride invisible horses. Peace!✌

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OMG! You have made my day with your Monty Python comment hahaha!
One word: shrubbery. ;)

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An even smaller word, Ni! ?

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Chasen8888's comment takes the cake. I remember grinning when I read it on open thread. Glad that dramabeans share my sentiment. ?

And kudos to nafiza. In the end actresses, and even actors are humans after all, and bashing one to raise another based on your preferences serves nothing but to objectify them.

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Yay, Andrea! You got javabeans on the Ms. Temper train (possibly, if she likes it). I need to start visiting the hangout more.

I love that Beans of Wisdom is giving me a taste of the kinds of discussions happening about dramas I'm not yet watching. Lol, particularly the hilarious comments on Jackpot. Priceless.

Off to finish!

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Lol, that awkward moment when you comment before you finish reading.

My comments got picked?! D'awww, you guys can't see me, but I'm totally blushing.

The mad-libs though! I doubt our comments had influence, but I got a kick out of reading Peeps' and Sancheezy's comment train on Open Thread just now.

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Hee! I didn't even know that 'Beans of Wisdom' was a thing (I'm not a very regular commenter), so when I saw my comments featured, I was floored! And yeah, come visit the hangout! I want some folks to bounce theories off of! ^_^

I hope we get javabeans on the Ms. Temper train! From what I can discern about her preferences, I really think she'd like it. It's one of the best train-rides I've</I. taken in dramaland in a long time, as it's such a departure from any other dram I've seen.

I will give one warning to all prospective viewers though: the show takes a little while to warm up! Give it 3-4 episodes, and I think you'll be very glad you did.

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(╯ಠ益ಠ)╯︵ lᴉɐɟ ƃuᴉʇʇɐɯɹoɟ

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How....

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Are you asking about the upside-down text?

I went to Google and typed in "upside-down text", which will take you to pages that will flip your text for you. Then you can just copy-paste it into your Dramabeans comment box.

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I had been curious about it before, on thw fence about giving it a try but because of your "beans of wisdom" I will let tune in to at least a few eps.

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Yay! I really hope you like it. ^_^

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Ahh that comment and link on Chae Jung Ahn's pop days, made me see 2000s bad kpop for more than a hour ! ?

Thank You JB and GF ! And yes to the awesome commentators, for that one hour of my week night where I lost my day's frustrations and ended up in fits of laughter at such awesome kpop videos !

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I just checked the facebook count, and the Dramabeans' page has close to 40,000 followers. It's amazing! Javabeans and Girlfriday are doing such a great job at making all of us feel like part of the family. Features like this one and Spill the Beans for instance really helps maintain an intimate group feel, and I love it.

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you're so right....dramabeans is really amazing. It's weird that whenever I feel down I can always come here cause it's guaranteed something's gonna make me smile and lift my mood, dramabeans is like home after a long journey. I really don't know what I'd do without dramabeans.. love you guys sooooo much.

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OMG saaaame. The community comment is spot on, also the comforting aspect. It really is incredible that jb and gf have curated and maintained that sense of community even as the user base grows and grows. Dramabeans Is Love, Dramabeans Is Life.
Seriously tho, wouldn't be making it through grad school without my kdrama fam!

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Spot on Kreyon

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Oh my, the Chae Jung-ahn thread is hilarious! I don't think anything I can say will ever top that!

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yeah still don't have a life the moment you've read every struggle l single comment here while STILL writing a law exam going on a dramabeans fast.

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This has made my day, I am so flattered my comment got picked, and it's for one of my favourite dramas ever! (Page Turner, if you haven't checked it out!)

Sorry for all the grammar mistakes though, should've read the comment BEFORE I submitted rather than cringe, cringe, cringe afterwards like I did!

Thanks Dramabeans, it's features like "Beans of Wisdom" that makes this one of the best web based communities out there!!

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Okay, YY I don't know who you are but I love you😍😘

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Oh, hahaha, all comments picked are so funny and spot on. It made my day. Thanks dear friends.

The one that stay in mind for this week are YY's Dae-gil’s epitaph and the mad-libs thread.. *lol*

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Reading Jackpot comment always make me burst out laughing. Seems like it's the kind of drama that doesn't feel the need to pretend it has a sound logic and the writer literally just have fun with its character. And so does the recapper and its viewer. That epitaph is so spot on.

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Hi, everyone. So flattered to be picked by DB. I'm glad I made you guys happy...some dramas bring out the crazy in me and Jackpot has clearly driven me over the edge.

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I wish that the discussion forum would be changed to disqus so we can upvote the comments we like, edit our comments and recieve replies easily

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It might be out of topic but I like how the commenters are very friendly and not fighting each other for the comment of the week. I have been to Allkpop and it was chaos for the weekly comments. Aww I love everyone who's on dramabeans <3. It's like a family.

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I like the community here too i enjoy reading the comments some are funny, some share news they read about the drama world like schandals and for example so i learn something new, and some translating interviews for a certain drama i think it Fan who always translate the interviews, everyone saying their opinion freely and have many discussions about, i enjoy reading everyone opinion even if i not share the same thoughts, it's really fun

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I've seen some disagreements get nasty in the past (usually in fanwars), but for the most part, people disagree very respectfully here. I love Dramabeans is a safe space.

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@Andrea is so freaking on point about Ms Temper! And everyone should get on board because it's real about every aspect in the workplace regarding gender inequality. What also still makes my blood boil because it's all too familiar, is when Deputy Han was forced to be absent to take care of her child and she couldn't get a break from either her terrible sexist bosses and her husband.
Oh, and the drama stays FUN too! Promise.

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Hee, thanks!

AAAAAAGH, that episode really made my blood boil. Remember when Deputy Han came in late because she was looking after her kid, and she looked super disheveled and President Jo (who I generally like) was like "Ugh, mothers"? AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAGH I wanted to rip his semi-curls right off his head. He was just so casually insulting about one of the most crucial jobs a human can have, and it infuriated me.

Also, I want to throw Deputy Han's husband through a wall. I kind of want her to divorce him, but my understanding of Korean divorce law is that fathers almost always get full custody of the children, and I wouldn't want Deputy Han to have to leave little Ji-ho. She's caught between the worst rock and hard place ever, and I feel so bad for her. I really hope things get better for her. Please, writer-nim?

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<3! Keep commenting, please.

I KNOW. Manager Crap is irredeemable, but I actually like President Naive, but that remark just showed how far removed he is from his employees, ánd as a man blind with privilege.
I wish we could've seen the Husband's apology/redemption or anything because when Deputy Han brought food late after work(and coincidentally everyone else, my ideal workplace!) she told them he had no problem watching their son. I know, not a big deal for a father to watch his son, but in this unfortunate case it's a huge step- I am really rooting for Deputy Han to be happy.

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Been eyeing Mrs. Temper for a while but that comment makes me decide to watch. I am SOLD!

And this section has been really fun ?

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@flamingotamer

I have not been tuned in to the Ji-sung/Hye-ri situation, but your comment perfectly encapsulates my feelings about older male/younger female actor-pairings. Well said!

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