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[Scene stealers] Unbreakable, unforgettable bonds


Go Back Spouses

By Andy

K-dramas often overflow with cutesy, passionate or sometimes even borderline crazy love. There’s love that mends broken hearts, love that attracts opposites and love that teeters between the fine line of a “happily ever after” or a makjang breakup in a few episodes time. The most underrated love of them all, however, just might be the scene stealing affection or subtle gratitude that ebbs and flows between a mother and her children. The wholesome love that hums in the background, leaving you either emotionally drained or physically recharged. So, without further ado, let’s give a hand to a few (recent) moms that left a huge impact.


Go Back Spouses

Go Back Spouses was a drama to be relished. Not only because of how adorable and redeeming the second chance time-loop story line was, but because of how utterly incredibly the mother-daughter relationship played out. Jin-joo’s mom not only stole the show, but everyone’s hearts too. She didn’t come politely asking for it, she soothed it first with her compassion and understanding and then ripped it from us to shreds in the nicest possible way by letting Jin-joo go despite not knowing the full situation. Painful I know, but it was joyful pain knowing that Jin-joo was able to relive some of her college years with a new-found appreciation for her mom’s sound advice, caring heart, patience, sympathy and humour. Simple moments like when they visited the karaoke or spa together made my eyes tear up sweat a lot. A brilliant mother and a fantastic moon-walker, her character truly elevated the drama, moulding it into something unforgettably spectacular. You’ll need tissues by the end of it to cover the gaping hole in your heart that this mother will leave within you.


Mr. Sunshine

Mr. Sunshine hit us with gorgeous cinematography, epic fight scenes, testosterone-filled bromance and characters that burned brighter than flames. The premise was sweeping, the story always unfolding onto a grander scale despite being slow and long. Eugene’s and Ae-shin’s mothers however, were like whirlwinds of vivacity, the epitome of “fight till your last breath and protect at all costs.” They grabbed the spotlight, the sliver of a flashback and made their scenes their own with sheer determination, passion and willpower.

Ae-shin’s mom, Hee-jin, was a firecracker that was meant to burn brightly, burn so bright that you were momentarily blinded until it faded away instantly. In one of the most memorably action-packed cameos ever, Hee-jin – a resistance member, fought against the traitors until the last second for the sake of Joseon. She gave her one-day-old baby (Ae-shin) up to be sheltered from the deadly fight and managed to look death straight in the face by putting up her best battle. For the few minutes she graced my screen, she was dauntless; bravery personified.


Mr. Sunshine

Meanwhile, Eugene’s mom was ready to lay her life down to give her son a chance for freedom. She appeared for a flicker of a moment but had such gravitas with her unapologetic and fierce desperation. Within just a few moments both women had undergone a tumultuous journey. They had seen their loved ones die a violent and humiliating death but were prepared for their inevitably gruesome and lonely end so that their children could live.


Matrimonial Chaos

Matrimonial Chaos is still ongoing but Halmoni is already such a quirky, soft spoken delight to watch. She curls for fun (yas for sporting diversity!), knows her prickly grandson inside and out, runs a popular café with her ex-granddaughter-in-law, her sister, and her sister’s friend (weird I know)… The list goes on, on why my love for her never ends. Despite the wacky, roller coaster ride going on in the background, Halmoni is still so wise without being pretentious or uptight. She’s a friend and a confidant and will go above and beyond for those she loves. She threw a divorce party for her ex-granddaughter-in-law because she understood how caged and depressed she was feeling. Halmoni just wanted to allow all of them to vent, to be that one bright spot — and to toast to crazy new beginnings.

Finally, I’d love to give a shout out to the scene stealing mom(s) from Because This Life Is Our First, Mother, and Dear My Friends. Their wisdom, wit, flaws, worries, concerns and tough exteriors (but soft interiors) have a special place in my heart and I won’t be forgetting their amazing performances any time soon.


Dear My Friends

 
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I love, I utterly love all these examples. Kim Mi kyung is amazing in everything, but she has done more than amazing jobs as the mother of any of our leads. She made me cry rivers in Go back couple as well, but also in "20th century boy and girl", and in "Oh Hae young again". It must be because I didn't have a mother (or maybe because I had it, but she was more or less like Hye na's mother in the drama "Mother"😒 Sorry if it gets confusing, I better not talk to much about privat affairs and traumas of my childhood), but anyways... these Korean moms, even if they have come into my life as a character, they have been a consolation to my soul. Definitively scene stealers. Great acting that goes into your skin.
Thank you for your post, @Andy.

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You know I agree with anything you say about Kim Mi-kyung. She’s a quiet (and sometimes not-so-quiet) powerhouse.

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I haven't watched 20CBG or Oh Hae Young again (I will though!) but Kim Mi Kyung is fantastic in every single role. She amazes me every time ever since I spotted her in Heirs.
Thanks for reading @javinne*hugs you and sends a virtual cart full of kdrama happiness*

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I recommend you to watch 20th century, it is not so late...
It is a quiet drama... some would say it is boring, but really... It makes you feel good.
Have fun

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she was awesome too in her mother-like cum badass hacker in Healer.

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Thank you for the write-up, @fencejumper

Oh man, mother-child bonds in a drama for me are such a sacred thing to behold and cherish 🥰🥰🥰🥰 Reading this reminded me of one of my all-time favourite mother-child pairings/bond: Little Eun Sang & Hye Soo, portrayed by sweet little Shin Rina & Uee, from “Marriage Contract”.... It starts out from the get-go as an already set apart mother/daughter bond because the mother is literally ready to sell her organs for pay to secure financial stability for her own daughter. The scene that really—and I mean, REALLY— sold me in their already-unbreakable bond as mother and daughter, come hellfire or shine, was the scene where Hye Soo — despite just coming off a pretty frustrating argument with her daughter— takes little Eun Sang out for ice cream to talk to her to smooth things over and (re)assures the little one that no matter what— NO MATTER WHAT— it doesn’t matter what Eun Sang may say or do to Hye Soo, especially in times of heated arguments, Hye Soo knows that little Eun Sang doesn’t really mean it when she spouts hurtful things to her mom but that little Eun Sang just says those things in the heat of the moment and out of spite, but Hye Soo loves her daughter regardless and despite all the hurtful words spouted out of spite...
This scene was done with such subtlety and quietness, yet, Uee and Shin Rina we’re both able to hold their own in a scene that held so much more meaning and significance given the circumstances, what was to come (in terms of plot revelations), and the underlying theme of the drama as a whole

Just— ugh.... PERFECTION 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

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You should write part 2 @bebeswtz this was 💕
I watched Marriage Contract (crying through the love) but couldn't include them because they were the mains. The drama was amazing.though- stole my heart. I had low expectations but UEE and the entire cast knocked me out with this drama.

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Haha I don't know if I have the brain power to write a part 2 (especially if you're asking for a more in-depth POV or write-up), but I will never not take advantage to gush about this drama when given the chance to, because I love it so much!! :)

I've said this elsewhere before but I'll say it again: I believe "Marriage Contract" will forever be Uee's representative work in her drama career... She may acquire more as the years go by and as she acts in more dramas, but this one-- I believe-- will truly stick with viewers and stay in our hearts forevermore :)

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What a great post @fencejumper!

Mom from Go Back Couple has left a deep impression on me, I seriously broke down in sobs when she told her daughter that “You can live without your parents, but you can’t live without your child.” She was the ultimate wise mom to me.

As I get older I often find the relationship between the parents and their children more touching than romantic love lines.

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That line tore me to bits. Honestly, mom elevated GBC as a drama. I'm sure without her role I wouldn't have liked it as much nor would it have been heart-wrenchingly memorable.

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Loved the write up @fencejumper! Though I didn't cry for GBC( but that's because I'm emotionally constipated), I did empathize with Jin Joo in regards to a second chance with her mother and doing everything with her that she couldn't do before. Seeing her made me appreciate my mother a little bit more, though I'll probably never be able to say that to her.
I also want to give a shoutout to Lee Il hwa, who played the heroine's mother in the answer me franchise. Her perseverance and patience with her family, coupled with the love she had not only for her own children but also for others was one of the highlights of the show. Reply 1988 especially was amazing with not one but 3 mothers, played to perfection by Ra miran and Kim sun young. They not only loved their children to death, but also took care of the others like a very big family.

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"but that's because I'm emotionally constipated"
😂😂😂
Mom in Answer Me was love! Her large quantities of food were so relatably amusing

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@fencejumper you had me at 'fantastic moon-walker'. The actress Kim Mi Kyung stole my affection as Ajumma in Healer, but she became my absolute favourite actress after watching her in GBS, and that breakdancing scene... I must have rewatched it twelve times.

The final picture also reminded me of Gang Doo's fantastic relationship with his adopted Halmeoni in Just Between Lovers. Their scenes together made a wonderful show even more memorable for me.

Thanks for a lovely tribute to brilliant mums everywhere.

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I haven't gotten to JBL yet 😭 but I've rewatched the dancing scene countless times too. I love it when it seems like the actors are enjoying being dorky. Moon walking it is! ^_^

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I knew this was going to be good as soon as I saw the Go Back Couple pic of mother-daughter. One of the few dramas to have made me cry. T_T What great choice to end this month's theme. Thanks @fencejumper for this piece.

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GBC had me bawling at the mom scenes. I felt like my eyes were being purified 😂

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@fencejumper Andy,

LOL at Eye Purification! Another fan of SHUT UP FLOWER BOY BAND? ;-)

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I came because of the pic of Mom with her puppy-daughter.. her character left a very deep impression to anyone who watched the drama. I spent too many tissues when Ma jin jo travels back in time and sees her moms alive and follows her around the house like a puppy.. it broke my heart but at the same time for had an awakening about people who lost their parents.

Thank you @fencejumper for this, and its worth my time rewatching Go Back Couple recently.

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I lost my mom nearly 8yrs ago.. and that scene was so good and well done... I cried rivers...

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*hugs and prays for @dorotka to be strong*

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😘 Thank you.
There are days when it is still very hard...

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Thank you, this was a very moving piece @fencejumper! i loved how you captured one of my favorite elements of kdramas, the human bonds. I missed GBC, but OHYA is still one of my absolute favorites- due in big part to the incredible relationship between mother/daughter.

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Everyone's recommending OHYA. I need to watch this pronto! Why haven't I watched this yet? *shakes head*

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@fencejumper Let me know! I'll rewatch it with you!

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Aww thanks @beantown ! I'll watch it over the December hols (2 weeks from now)

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Awe! This is so good! Mr. Sunshine’s first episode would not have been anything without the women you mentioned. Their stories and sacrifice set the stage for the tragedy and redemption our OTP. Being a mother myself, wonder if I were in the same situation would I be as brave and not just sacrifice my life, but do it in a way that my kids are aware it’s for them. Gives me chills.

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Judging from your Open Thread posts @ally-le you seem like a fantastic mom 💕 Mr Sunshine's 1st ep had so many things going on but the 2 moms were trail-blazers. I couldn't shake off their presence.

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Thanks for publishing this DB! 💕
*squeals and hides*

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@fencejumper *looks down at the puddle forming at my feet* Thanks for that.

(But really, I love your writing, I love this post, and now I really need to go find the tissues. And hug my mom.)

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Aww thanks Bams. 💖 I needed to hug my mom too- especially after wailing in GBC. That drama is a serious case of sniffles.

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Nice read Andy!
More love to our Matrimonial Chaos Halmoni!! Thanks for writing about her.

And I absolutely loved Go Back Spouses - especially the mother. The bond was so beautiful and the actors nailed it.

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Thanks @mayhemf Halmoni forever deserves all the hype 🙌 I feel like grabbing people and watching Matrimonial Chaos together with them. It's such a gem.

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@fencejumper
I haven't watched any of these shows, but I agree with you 100%; sweet mom-daughter relationships always get me! I wish these could be more common in dramaland.
Thanks for sharing!!

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@fencejumper Great piece! Really enjoyed reading this! Three cheers to Matrimonial Chaos' Halmoni!

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@andy makes me want to watch MC!

Kim Hae Sook's mum to Lee Bo Young's Hye- sung in I Hear Your Voice deserves a shout out too... she is as fiercely protective and badass as they come, even to her last gasping breath.

I read somewhere Kim Hae Sook was a leading lady to be reckoned with, much like Judi Dench.

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@lizmesenas21 Dizzy Lizzy,

Kim Hae-sook is one of my fave Kdrama moms. She was terrific in LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL.

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Oh I haven't watched that drama! *scribbles it on list*
You should definitely check out MC. It has such a realistic leisurely pacing with incredible characters (played by brilliant actors) that keep growing on you.

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I watched back a few scenes with mom in GBC and i'm bawling my eyes out with just that few scenes

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Thanks for your essay, @fencejumper Andy. Kim Mi-kyung has been one of my favorite Kdrama actresses since first seeing her as the totally badass Court Lady Choi in FAITH. While she wasn't Choi Young's mom, she was his auntie. I loved her to bits.

KMK turned up in OH HAE-YOUNG AGAIN as the title character's mom, and joined her daughter in the epic Dance of Frustration. She is the only actress I can think of who could keep up with Seo Hyun-jin in such a dance scene. I wasn't keen on her proclivity for parental violence, which was a turn-off. But when she finally accepted Do-kyung as her son-in-law, it was all worth it.

Na Moon-hee is another memorable Kdrama mom. I loved her turn as the feisty Malsoon in the film MISS GRANNY, and as medicine seller halmoni in JUST BETWEEN LOVERS. Not all moms have kids of their own.

Kim Hae-sook is another wonderful screen mom. Although she didn't have kids of her own in ROOM NO. 9, she surely had a motherly vibe as she watched over the other prisoners. Her own painful back story in LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL was very touching, as was her relationship with her hard-bitten mother-in-law and problematic father-in-law. But it was her relationships with her husband and stepson that I most appreciated.

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Miss Granny was such a great movie ❤ KMH is spectacular- deserving of every praise. I haven't watched the other dramas yet T_T Kim Hae Sook though is FANTASTIC. I loved her to bits in the brilliant Father Is Strange where she reunited as the parental couple from Life Is Beautiful.

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Thanks for writing this lovely piece @fencejumper. I haven't watched anything other than Go Back Spouses in the shows u mentioned but the mother-daughter relationship in GBS was love. It made my eyes sweat so much every episode! I miss that show so so much!

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Mrs. Cha’s exit scene in Mother. Wow.

My Ajusshi - Ji An taking her grandmother to see the moon...

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Such a great post.

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