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[Happily never after] Maybe… never say never?

By Mich

Editor’s note: This post contains spoilers.

Allow me to have the dubious honor of re-opening the can of worms that was The Third Charm.

Much has been waxed lyrical about the relationship between Joon-young (Seo Kang-joon) and Young-jae (Esom). The two first met as awkward college kids and developed a budding romance that was short-lived, only to rekindle the romance years down the road and split up once again. Ultimately, they found each other a third time and sought solace from the pain and loss that life had thrown at them. This drama took many of us viewers on an unexpected emotional rollercoaster ride — its sweet, sunny, promos hadn’t let on that this show was going to be more melancholic than sweet.

When it came to the final scene, imagine the despair of the viewers who were served a “tasteful” open ending: Joon-young and Young-jae were on good terms, but did not end up together, even after Joon-young broke up with his then-fiancee, Officer Min. It was probably presumptuous to think that they would have to get together at the end, but for those of us who’d persevered through the entire series – again, gritting their teeth through this unexpected melo turn – it may also have been a slightly bitter pill to swallow.

On the bright side though, compared to other kinds of never-afters, I’d like to think there is a glimmer of hope with these two Youngs. Though we learnt that Joon-young would be heading overseas again and that Young-jae would be rebuilding her life in Korea after everything she’d gone through…there are always possibilities. But with the open ending, they are the stories; the possibilities that we’ll never get to see.

Maybe Young-jae decided to visit Joon-young on a trip to New York (where he was going to be based) and did a lot of thinking on the plane about where they stood. Maybe Joon-young returned home after a time and surprised Young-jae at her salon. Seeing the joy on her face as she did what she loves, he decided to move his heart and home for her again. Maybe, of course, they’re better off as friends – but just as how life is unpredictable and filled with surprises at various turns, what’s to say that somewhere in an alternate universe, they didn’t somehow get a pleasant ending? In fact, this theory could possibly apply to the other never-afters in K-dramaland that don’t involve a physical death (unless you’re into supernatural themes).

Despite how The Third Charm may have ended on our screens, it’s safe to say that the rest of Joon-young and Young-jae’s story lives on in our imagination – be it literary (i.e. fan fiction) or otherwise. Whichever path they choose to take in their universe, I wish them happiness – because regardless of which world they live in, they deserve that much.

 
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I may be the only person who actually liked the ending. The two of them realized that they will always be drawn to one another but they never really understood each other. I particularly liked the fact that they pointed out tat they never went through a winter together. This is not to say that they could never understand each other but rather if tey ever started again they needed a better handle on communicating who they are to themselves and each other.

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you're certainly not the only one @toomuchtelly! i thought it was appropriate that the show ended the way it did; to give it a 'happy' ending would have been much too contrived. thanks for sharing!

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I think it was a good ending too. Not all love involved relationships finish in hate but in good deep friendship. That's what's happened to them. They became very good friends who respect eachother with all of the pain and failures.

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Love this @michh Third Charm left more to be desired in terms of a general romcom but as a melo-romance or even a slice of life, the ending was apt in terms of how much the couple had to strive to get there.

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thank you Andy @fencejumper! yes, agreed that the ending was very apt. to force a happy ending onto them after all that they (and us viewers, in relation) had gone through just wouldn't have been right. i wish the production team would've been clearer in the direction it was heading - and I'm quite they'd already known, considering that they went all the way to Portugal to film those scenes first!

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Absolutely agree. For the who were expecting otherwise the ending must've been 😭😭

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My conclusionn is, for my point of view,
Young Jae is never into him as much as he is into her. It's always one side from beginning. She is just accept him because of their encounter is memorable and makes her happy despite all her problem. Young Jae realised this when she caught up Joon Young with another woman. Their difference is one of the obstacle, but it can be overcome if both share the same feeling and can tolerate each other's flaw. She is realising her love is not that strong in that moment. The chemiatry is not there. It's getting stronger afterwards. Her rejecting Hoo Chul is just her trying to deny her interest with Hoo Chul. But she is already know which heart she want to choose. Henche, she is marrying Hoo Chul is totally makes sense. So my point is not overcoming the difference is just an excuse. It's come down where your heart is belong to. Don't force something that hasn't fit you. Joon Young is totally not into his fiance, Seu Eun. Despite their similarities. Joon Young realised this when he found out the similarities between his past relationship compare to his relationship with Seu Eun and how he felt. That's why the ending makes sense.

I love this writers take on different trajectory about love story between the main couple. Might be the public don't get used to it.

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thanks for sharing @missjb! yes, TTC was definitely a hit/miss with viewers in terms of the story, but one interesting thing about it was that it gave us lots to think and debate about in terms of how relationships are handled in life. matters of the heart are subjectively personal and it's really hard to push a judgement on people for the choices they make - unless, of course, it could/should have been avoided. anyways, to each their own and i'm glad that you enjoyed this different - and i'd probably say realistic - trajectory :)

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Off course the choices they make should have been avoided. But Do we normal people always have good judgement of our choices in life?
People will keep trying in the hope what they choose it's what the best for themselves. How many people get together with someone else just want to forget their ex like Joon Young case? Some case, they success move on, other case they can't.
And that's one of the reason Joon Young doesn't insist to be with Young Jae in the end of the series, because he know what it feels when he is with Se Eun. He is accepting Young Jae feeling, and no longer feeling angry and entitled.

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"How many people get together with someone else just want to forget their ex like Joon Young case?" so, so many people 😅 so many.

thanks for sharing :)

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In the end I didn't even care if they got together, I was just pissed off about the lack of closure for Se Eun.

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totally understand @corkxrew! though some parts of her last scenes were poignant (e.g. the shoes she liked not fitting well), there definitely wasn't a sufficient closure to her story. in fact, i was wondering why her brothers didn't come all the way to Seoul to hunt JY down... 😅 thanks for sharing!

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Thanks @michh for allowing us to go down THE THIRD CHARM memory lane and congrats on being published. I don't think I had a problem with the ending. I think that both Joon-young's and Young-jae's family situation had huge (negative) influences in their lives. JY came from a rather toxic family environment and YJ grew up without her parents and had to deal with her brother's disability. Being together was probably not meant to be.
Interestingly I was just thinking of TTC. I recently watched GO BACK SPOUSES and a part of GBS had to do with grief (in that case it was the death of a mother) and the effects it can have on families/relationships especially if it becomes chronic and the person doesn't receive professional help.
Back to TTC, one of my favorite scenes near the end is when both JY and YJ went back to the island to see the old-timer and walked together along the path when it began to snow (iirc).

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thanks bong-soo @marcusnyc20! haha - not sure if going down memory lane is a good thing or not 😅 some viewers might prefer to keep TTC far away from their minds as much as possible!

interesting, though, how you pointed out that JY's family environment was 'toxic' - how so? outwardly, it may have seemed that he grew up in a loving family that provided everything for him and Ri-won. his father's rather emotional, yes, and that would have definitely rubbed off on him.. is that something you're thinking about? am keen to hear your thoughts on that :)

and interesting about GBS, I've not watched that myself. and yes, everyone deals with grief very differently; for those who are more emotional/in touch with their emotions more/out of control with their emotions... yes, it would leave a lasting effect for sure.

thanks again for sharing :) good to hear from you!

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Hi @michh. A couple of thoughts on Joon-young's "home" situation. It is not that he wasn't loved but I don't think he got the most healthy parenting. As a teenager he was the family cook. I find that strange.
His sister Ri-won I found super annoying. It was like she made it her life's business to "out" her brother during his awkward youth. During the entire series I heard her call her older brother "oppa" once. That was when they were standing outside his restaurant.
He left Korea for Portugal and stayed away for years.

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thanks @marcusnyc20! yes, i agree with what you've brought up regarding how he had to cook while he was younger, and how annoying Ri-won was/is. and i guess as i'd mentioned in my earlier comment, he seemed to mirror much of his father's emotional side, seeing as how his father got easily jealous and would give his wife (JY's mom) the silent treatment. though, i'm not quite sure how this directly influenced his decision to go to Portugal. i would think that it was mostly what happened with YJ that influenced it more >.<

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I really liked all this drama. It was pretty realistic. The end was good after what she suffered and his relationship with Se Eun, it would have been weird to see them jump in new relationship. I liked how they still had an impact on the life of each other.

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thanks for sharing, @kurama :) agreed on the impact; think those that come in and out of our lives would leave some sort of impact or impression, no matter how minute, or lasting.

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I like the ending because the two have finally come to terms with what they went through together and individually, to get the certain peace they need at that point in their life. And there is hope one day, maybe one day, they will be back together in yet different circumstances.

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indeed :) thank you PYC @epyc2010!

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hi all, very glad to read so far that those who've commented liked the ending! because that certainly wasn't the case in some other places 😅 for the record: i'm perfectly fine with the ending too. in fact, i think it was better for them, considering what they'd both been through.

keep the comments coming :) would love to read more viewpoints!

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I... actually like the melo side of things. It was unexpected, but it was what made me watch till the end (while I completely ignored the second meeting until the second breakup). The ending was actually incredibly nice and realistic. I didn't want them to end up together but I also didn't want them to end on bad terms, so it's perfect.

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indeed @bdxpelik :) thank you for sharing!

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I didn't mind the ending I just hated that we never got to fully see Young-jae's journey except in glimpses and flashbacks. It's like making a pie and a slice is missing, there are crumbs and some of the filings, but the whole slice is just not there, while the rest of the pie is complete.

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that is very true @kafiyah-bello! that's one thing some other viewers have pointed out too. just wasn't very well-rounded in terms of telling the story cos it seemed like it was more of JY's story and he had more of the 'sympathy votes' as opposed to YJ who had gone through more hardship in her life.

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