Oh, I am so irritated right now. I am SO irritated right now, Beanies.
That woman who backdoored me into going grocery shopping for her just called me.
Her “What part of our conversation made you think that it wasn’t a private conversation?”
(and yes, this is exactly how she started the phone call)
Me: I don’t know what you’re talking about.
Her: repeats herself.
Me: Still don’t know what you’re talking about, right now.
Her: I’m talking about Elizabeth.
Me: I don’t know any Elizabeth
Her: She’s the second counselor in the presidency in the kids class, you know her.
Me: No one in the presidency accept for the president ever introduced themselves to me. I don’t know who you’re talking about. I only talk to you, the sketchy Jennifer, the president and thats it. I’m not a people person.
Her: I’m going to need you to take a beat and re-think your answer.
Me:……..
Her: This isn’t about Elizabeth!
Me:…..
Her: the conversation we had in my car about grooming (as in grooming children for child molestation)
Me: Oh! That! The part where it was about children getting hurt and you not telling anyone. When I hear something that makes me thing children are getting hurt? I tell someone. Thats who I am as a person
Her: What did I say that made you think that children were being hurt?
Me: The part where you said children are being groomed My options were to call the police–but I don’t know enough about the situation, or to tell someone in our bishopric, who does know everyone in the church, including the children and has been trained to be on the look out for such things, and was told that they already knew about the situation and were working with the police and the person being accused (as it had been proven to be a false accusation)
Her: based on your collection of answers right now I want you to know that you are no longer a person that I trust at all.
Me:……(thinking to self, well, I never trusted you to begin with because Im not a trusting individual and this conversation about molestation was literally our first private conversation ,ever so not trusting you was CLEARLY a good judgement call on my part)
Her: So, with that said all Im going to say now is: GOOD NIGHT
This on top of a very irritating day at the library, or working from home on library stuff? I am super irritated. On the one hand I want to send her an email and defend myself. On the other hand, screw her. Well, screw her on both hands. I am so mad right now, beanies. What are your thoughts? What should I do?
Write the justifiably angry email without putting an address in leave it in your drafts for a few days, go back and read it, and if you still want to send it, go ahead.
Also, as a librarian person, aren’t you legally required to report suspicion of child abuse?
She doesn’t have her email in the ward directory. And I sent an impulsive angry text instead. I make good choices.
I’m technically not a mandated reporter in the state of Ohio but as a person with a conscience and no names or facts I feel like I had to tell someone. And I couldn’t tell the police because how would that conversation go? Hey copper the hot goss around the ward water fountain is…..
Police person: do you know the suspected victims?
Me: nope!
Police person: do you know the suspected pedophile molester?
Me: nope!
Police person: so you want us to do…..?
Me: something!
Honestly, what did she think you would do after hearing that? Honestly, I wouldn’t bother writing an email. I understand that you feel the need to defend yourself but it isn’t worth it. I believe that it will only cause you further aggravation.
I sent the text and then blocked her number. I don’t do drama. And if she contacts me again, that’s all I have to say to her. Thanks for listening to my rant.
isa: I'm not a serial killer I'm just really passionate about things
March 30, 2020 at 5:31 PM
Oh, I am so irritated right now. I am SO irritated right now, Beanies.
That woman who backdoored me into going grocery shopping for her just called me.
Her “What part of our conversation made you think that it wasn’t a private conversation?”
(and yes, this is exactly how she started the phone call)
Me: I don’t know what you’re talking about.
Her: repeats herself.
Me: Still don’t know what you’re talking about, right now.
Her: I’m talking about Elizabeth.
Me: I don’t know any Elizabeth
Her: She’s the second counselor in the presidency in the kids class, you know her.
Me: No one in the presidency accept for the president ever introduced themselves to me. I don’t know who you’re talking about. I only talk to you, the sketchy Jennifer, the president and thats it. I’m not a people person.
Her: I’m going to need you to take a beat and re-think your answer.
Me:……..
Her: This isn’t about Elizabeth!
Me:…..
Her: the conversation we had in my car about grooming (as in grooming children for child molestation)
Me: Oh! That! The part where it was about children getting hurt and you not telling anyone. When I hear something that makes me thing children are getting hurt? I tell someone. Thats who I am as a person
Her: What did I say that made you think that children were being hurt?
Me: The part where you said children are being groomed My options were to call the police–but I don’t know enough about the situation, or to tell someone in our bishopric, who does know everyone in the church, including the children and has been trained to be on the look out for such things, and was told that they already knew about the situation and were working with the police and the person being accused (as it had been proven to be a false accusation)
Her: based on your collection of answers right now I want you to know that you are no longer a person that I trust at all.
Me:……(thinking to self, well, I never trusted you to begin with because Im not a trusting individual and this conversation about molestation was literally our first private conversation ,ever so not trusting you was CLEARLY a good judgement call on my part)
Her: So, with that said all Im going to say now is: GOOD NIGHT
This on top of a very irritating day at the library, or working from home on library stuff? I am super irritated. On the one hand I want to send her an email and defend myself. On the other hand, screw her. Well, screw her on both hands. I am so mad right now, beanies. What are your thoughts? What should I do?
egads aka Dame Maggie
March 30, 2020 at 5:44 PM
Write the justifiably angry email without putting an address in leave it in your drafts for a few days, go back and read it, and if you still want to send it, go ahead.
Also, as a librarian person, aren’t you legally required to report suspicion of child abuse?
Also, my god, the rudeness and gall of this lady.
Also, wtf?
isa: I'm not a serial killer I'm just really passionate about things
March 30, 2020 at 5:49 PM
She doesn’t have her email in the ward directory. And I sent an impulsive angry text instead. I make good choices.
I’m technically not a mandated reporter in the state of Ohio but as a person with a conscience and no names or facts I feel like I had to tell someone. And I couldn’t tell the police because how would that conversation go? Hey copper the hot goss around the ward water fountain is…..
Police person: do you know the suspected victims?
Me: nope!
Police person: do you know the suspected pedophile molester?
Me: nope!
Police person: so you want us to do…..?
Me: something!
egads aka Dame Maggie
March 30, 2020 at 5:47 PM
Also, I just remembered that I volunteered to do a story thing with you here, and totally spaced on it. I’M SORRY. I’m horrible.
isa: I'm not a serial killer I'm just really passionate about things
March 30, 2020 at 5:54 PM
Dude I think you had bigger issues at hand.
egads aka Dame Maggie
March 30, 2020 at 5:57 PM
Well, maybe. I guess. I’m still sorry.
isa: I'm not a serial killer I'm just really passionate about things
March 30, 2020 at 7:33 PM
There’s nothing to apologize for! Thanks for listening to my rant, as always.
sirena
March 30, 2020 at 6:24 PM
Honestly, what did she think you would do after hearing that? Honestly, I wouldn’t bother writing an email. I understand that you feel the need to defend yourself but it isn’t worth it. I believe that it will only cause you further aggravation.
isa: I'm not a serial killer I'm just really passionate about things
March 30, 2020 at 6:49 PM
I sent the text and then blocked her number. I don’t do drama. And if she contacts me again, that’s all I have to say to her. Thanks for listening to my rant.
mugyuljoie is preciousss
March 31, 2020 at 4:08 AM
I agree with your assessment that she’s not someone to trust. She seems like a user that loves drama.