Beanies watching One Spring Night! This question has been bothering me ever since Jung In started liking Ji-Ho. Beanies, how do you consider cheating? Some say that Jung In is cheating on Gi Seok since she like Ji-Ho and is still with GS despite this feelings. But I beg to differ. All those years with GS, and he is probably her first Boyfriend, she wouldn’t really know how is it like to fall head over heels over someone, did she? At least for my case, I am. She probably stayed together with GS all this while thinking that, that is how relationships work. Until JH came in and made her an emotional wreck. And now we see that she’s contemplating whether to give up a stable relationship or to give it up. And I totally can relate to that (because I probably would have been in her shoes too). So back to my answer to the question. The line would probably be drawn if she gets together and makes it official with JH WHILE she’s still with GS. And that would be considered as cheating in my opinion.

On the other hand, I feel so sad for Seo In. Been in a similar situation, and oh boy. How awful she must have felt. She probably feels regretful and anger towards herself for not resisting the marriage back then, and also anger and hatred towards her Father for pushing them into marriage… I hope her Father realised how much she’s suffering and backs her up when she really do divorce, and not berate her for doing so, and spoiling his and her reputation etc.

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    I agree with you. I don’t think it is cheating at this point of the story.
    I think JI is confused and scared by her feelings for JH (it could be the first time ever she feels that way, we don’t know). As I wrote under the recap, to me the encounter with JH “awoke” her and made her aware that her relatioship with GS is not only boring, but passionless, loveless and suffers from lack of communication. A prison, if turned in a marriage.

    About Seo-In… the scenes with her husband are so painful to watch… it’s so sad… they made me wonder how many women that seems ok are living similar situations…

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      Right. We are on the same page of this. It’s probably and most likely that JH makes JI feel a whole lot of emotions that are foreign to her, which in turn freaked her out and caused her to turn round and round as we see her contemplating on marriage.

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