/Self-pity post. I’m saying this on DB because I really can’t say this anywhere else./
I’m way too soft hearted and fair minded to be a litigating lawyer. What I learned from arguments today is that yup – this is not the field for me. Ruthlessly shifting the blame, not letting your stupid feelings and own values get in the way.

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    If you do decide to go on in this path, then I’m sending you lots of good vibes and encouragement, so you can persevere and succeed!

    If you do decide to stop, then I’m sending you lots of good luck vibes to change path. Having a job that is not a match with what you desire/can do is tough and will be stressful when stuck with it.

    Either way, fighting !!!

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      Thank you halfmoon. I’ve been working on shifting out for the past year now – it may take another few months to have confirmation, or it may take another year if things don’t work out this year; but I’m doing it.

      Thank you! <3

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    Hugs greenies! Fighting!!!

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    Congratulations on taking the time to think through if this was the path for you! Self-reflection requires its own kind of courage.

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    Hugs* I love you
    *It’s okay *More Hugs*

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    Being too soft hearted is a bliss and curse at the same time because that’s not how the world works. I still admire you for hanging in there and making sure you do your part. I have recently come to the realization that I’m a little coward and way too soft hearted and not bold enough for writing or the media or working on the set (basically what I’ve studied) so I’m in a dud currently. But i remember how you wrote an article where you even tried to fulfill your dream of writing. So even though I know DB acts as an outlet for you, I like how you always take courageous steps for yourself, either its staying, leaving or trying new things. I hope you settle well in what you do next greenfields.

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      Thank you wapz. I actually read your reply a few days ago but I was too upset with myself to respond. Your words were very comforting. Please don’t sell yourself short either – confidence is a muscle that must be exercised over time or it rots. Don’t be scared, and go seize an opportunity you always wanted to explore!

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