Egads always has the best words.

He came to see me three weeks after we first met – I had actually given up waiting for him, I figured he wasn’t into me that way, was probably just being nice, but I couldn’t help being disappointed, because he had seemed so sincere about wanting to see me to talk, not for anything else. So I had put him out of my mind, and one evening, he just turned up. He said, I’m sorry I wanted to come earlier, but my dad was very ill – I found out later after we were married that his father had almost died, but pulled through. And I was so flustered, but he put me at ease so fast, I was so comfortable with him. Like you said, we had a connection. And we talked and talked. My best friend and I were hanging out with a huge group of people, guys and girls, and he would join us – not sure why, because he had never joined us before – and every time we met for meals, my best friend and him would be the life of the gathering. They would be bantering and arguing and trading barbs – and everybody would be watching them and thinking, there’s something going on with these two. But in reality, he was coming to see me almost every time he was free, and nobody in our circle knew. Then we got serious – this was a long time after, months, and I decided to tell her. She was shocked. Quiet. And everything changed after that. After we were married, I asked him, Did you know that she liked you? He answered quietly, Yes. But it was you that I liked. He can say the sweetest things.

It’s awful to know that you like the same guy. I just felt guilty every time I saw her. And she started avoiding us.

I hanged out in the library all the time, and I can remember this time this hot guy pulled out a chair and sat across from me. It was 3 o’clock in the afternoon. I didn’t look at him, but I knew who he was, one of the hottest guys on campus. I did my work, and he did his quietly, and the table was empty except for the two of us. Then he stood up, and asked me, “Do you want to get a cup of tea?” And I stared at him, I was in shock, because, the hot guy is asking me to tea omg, and I shook my head, No. He said, ok, and went off, and I packed my stuff and ran off. Later, we sort of knew each other – I can’t remember who introduced us, but my cool guy came into the picture, and get this – they’re friends! He was invited to our wedding – I looked down and saw him sitting there staring up at me, and when he said, Congrats to me later, he looked kind of sad. I never ever thought of giving him a chance to get to know him better, because he was labelled in my mind as Player and Rich Kid – he was rich – and I was scared of him. Lol. But that day, in the library, I knew he had picked that seat deliberately, and I knew he wasn’t really doing work. He just wanted to get to know me. And I ran away.

hahhahahah omg WishfulToki. I haven’t been successful in finishing dramas after seeing AMA, but now I have an influx of very interesting dramas. I am very sad that db doesn’t have these dramas on their bean count because all premiered mid-December!

Kindly please post a recap page for your meetcute because yeah we will be watching and commenting and squeeing and spazzing 🤓🤓

My cool guy was so earnest when he said, frowning, like he couldn’t understand it himself, that he wanted to talk. The other guys who were interested in me would say, Do you want to see a movie with me slash go out for a drink sometime? This was the very first time a guy had said he wanted to see me to talk. And I was charmed by it. So yes, if a guy says he wants to talk, I believe he wants to talk. And we didn’t even go out until ages later. We just talked and talked.

And wait – there’s another part to to my story. It’s like a drama. He liked this girl before he met me when he was in high school, but she turned him down. So they never got together. Then a week before our wedding she wrote to him. He said to me, looking very adorably confused and uncomfortable, I want to show you something. And he passed me the letter. She said, congrats I heard you’re getting married, and basically regretted that she turned him down, he’s such a nice guy, and I have no idea why she wrote that letter. To make him dump me and go back to her? Lol. But when I read that letter it made me realise that my guy is attractive to other women. Like a wakeup call.

It is terribly romantic, isn’t it? My Cool Guy has dimples, btw, and he is very proud of them.