Gun you can stand up to Demo’s mother so easily, why won’t you fight for nian nian.
You haven’t given a chance for nian’s mother to see for herself what kind of person you are!

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    Nian’s mother is in the wrong as an adult and for talking to another person’s child in that way.
    I just wish Gun would let someone else look out for him too.

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    His insecurities get the best of him! He did mention before that he’d never regretted anything before, but his past is now bothering him because it’s hindering his relationship with Nian Nian. Everytime someone talks brings up his past (ie his mother, his buddies) he gets super sensitive and ask them back if he was that awful before. Nian Nian’s mother drilling in his brain that he’s not worth her daughter made him stop and think what if it were really the case. He’s a noble idiot alright. I’m glad he’s getting out of that phase now and start to fight for his right to be with Nian Nian.

    And somebody, I think it was thatsp who mentioned that he didn’t leave a good first impression on their first meet. He was an a.hole that night, and she did bring that up to him. So, first impressions are really big deal. Now he’s paying for being an ass.

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      Yeah he really did not make a good first impression.
      I think he has been so focused on getting tbe championship, he hasn’t noticed bow he was being portrayed to other people.
      I understand how her mother feels with the age gap as well and how much of polar opposites they appear to be on the surface.
      I think I can see the end of the angst period!

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        Yes, agree with you there, Ayan! He didn’t care what people thought of him until Nian Nian came. He then started wondering if he was really good enough for her! I just don’t like how he easily agreed to giving up on her, but this is learning curve for him. He’s gradually realizing he loves her enough to receive her mother’s criticism and try to build bridges with her. Mama Tong will come around, but she’s being very stubborn right now. Understandable but still annoying!

        Yes,, you’re almost there! Lol look forward to the rainbow and sunshine!! 😆

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    I don’t agree with Nian Nian’s mother’s words but I can totally see her point of view. Nian Nian is 20 and has never been in a relationship. Gun’s 30 and from all outward appearances, behavior, lousy first impressions and no ‘real job’, makes a lousy candidate. Worse, he might even be a predator.

    @13infamyss is right about Gun. I just don’t agree with how he broke up with her.

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      I just finished watching 35-36 and it gave me more insight of Gun’s personality. He gets too attached to a relationship, ready to give every bit of him in a heartbeat (he gave his entire inheritance to Team Solo), but when things go south, he easily gives up on it. If we take a step back and look at his ten-year feud with Solo as whole, the root of it seemed not that kind of a big issue. Or At least to me it isn’t. Solo called it quits to look after his child, Appledog and Solo broke up, I guess Appledog wanted out of the group too. Gun didn’t pursue this profession and quit everything he had bet his life on because he couldn’t handle relationships going south. To him, it’s always been one for all, all for one mindset. He’s bitter all these years because Team Solo was everything he had and it broke just like that; that one person he looked up to disappointed him, broke him.

      Fast forward to his first romantic relationship – I think I can see why now he had given up on his relationship with Nian Nian that quick. It got too complicated to deal with; the person Nian Nian cares the most doesn’t approve him, he’s been berated and looked down upon. And he thinks that he might not really be the right person for her. He must have thought this was just another failed relationship he involved himself with.

      I really love that Nian Nian had the best girlfriend ever in Ya Ya that she gave Gun a piece of her mind. He’s been selfish all this time, calling quits so easily when things go south. Gun’s strong feelings for Nian Nian + Ya Ya’s push resulted to Gun taking on bigger responsibilities now of protecting his and Nian Nian’s happiness.

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      I completely agree, I was disappointed that he chose to break up by turning his phone off and ignoring her.
      He should have explained straight away that their relationship isn’t going to work and that he wanted to break up.
      I still think he should have apologised for how he treated her.

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