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OMGGGG what a relatable videos this is… and to know this is by an Indian YouTube channel made me grin even bigger….

most relatable part for me “singing korean lyrics just as mumbling while rocking english lyrics” and my family almost fainting to my horrible singing performance.

“are ye ladke hai ya ladki”
“heol itna make up”

lol… am sooo happy to watch it and now i can share with all who commented those 2nd n 3rd lines for my BTS

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hellooo my lovely beanies….
this time i need your help in understanding a very basic (and overrated) concept i.e. \”Marriage\”.

I went for a trip to many of my relatives and the most talked topic during those meetings were my marriage. As i was being considered as \”almost over-age\” and \”jobless\” girl who must get married at the earliest.
I clearly understood everyone\’s perception there as they all from typical indian background where Marriage is THE MOST IMPORTANT thing.

But i want to know from this vast world of beanies… what do you all think of marriage ?
Is it the most important thing that i should say yes to ?
or is it really just overrated concept?
or do you think marriage makes life better n happier than being single ?

PS i need some suggestions or soothing words as i am in dillmea and very badly scared of meeting a bad person as husband (as i have a bad luck in meeting good people in my life).

and thanks in advance.

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    I think it depends, if you find someone that you really like and want to spend the rest of your life with, then marry them. But don’t just get married to satisfy your family’s expectations.
    Note: I’m single and don’t plan on getting married.

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    I am married, but I think it’s what you do when you have no other choice. For me, it was either get married or never see each other again.
    We did not have the pressure to get married that you are undergoing. Bottom line: Only get married if you enjoy this person, can’t imagine life without them and you each make the other a better person.
    The thing is, marriage is not just one big ceremony. It is saying yes to being together every single day. That takes trust, respect and hopefully lots of good humor.
    Sorry to go on so long. I hope that this helps.
    Fighting!

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    You have my sympathies, my fellow Indian female who is over 25 and not married. Don’t let their words get to you – you know as well as I do that marriage is not such an easy thing, and comes with many expectations, not only of the husband but also his family. People like you & I, with our more divergent interests, will have a harder time finding a guy who understands.

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    I feel like it will happen when the time is right. I wouldn’t close your mind to meeting new people but I don’t think you should rush into getting married because of your age or relatives.
    Relatives advising you to get married quickly, aren’t the ones who will have to build a life with this person.
    Take your time, figure out what you want to do in your life and what is truly important to you.
    I used the line let’s revisit in 2025 when people kept bringing up marriage. 😂😂

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      “Relatives advising you to get married quickly, aren’t the ones who will have to build a life with this person.”

      This! What’s important in a marriage are the two people in it, not anyone else.

      I don’t think it’s overrated but I can see how it isn’t for everyone.

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    I’m in the same situation as you. I’m from culture where marriage is the most important thing especially for women. I’m in my middle of my 30s and not married yet. Not because I am against marriage, I would like to do but just it didn’t happen!.
    I stopped my relatives’s talking by tell them simply this is not their business. You have to be strong with them. I’m independent women working as professor in university and have a good salary. I don’t have compex but this matter. If I met a good man I will marry him. I will not marry just for their satisfying. Fortunately my parents understand this. Of course they wish if I could marry.
    I believe in destiny and let this matter for god. I enjoy my life without worrying about marriage or not because the world fulls with happiness even if you don’t find your other half. Fighting dear!

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    Although I can’t give you advice from an Indian or arranged marriage perspective, there are 2 things I’ve learned over the years from observing a multitude of unhealthy/unhappy marriages around me.

    1. Marriage is about a union between two FAMILIES, not just two people. I can’t stress enough how much good it will do to make sure you and your potential spouse are comfortable with each other’s families and are prepared/willing to deal with the respective troubles/burdens each family comes with. So many people end up bringing a lot of unnecessary drama and stress into their married lives because they underestimate the impact their in-laws will have on their lives or go into a marriage with the mindset that they can just ignore their in-laws.

    2. A union of two brokens does not make a whole. If you are marrying someone because you think they will make you happy, then you are marrying them for the wrong reason. How you feel about yourself as a single individual will shape how you feel about yourself in a marriage. In my opinion, a marriage should ideally be between two people that are happy and strong on their own and when combined together become even happier and stronger. I think those are the kinds of marriages that are able to truly last through thick and thin and can bring a unique quality of happiness to a person’s life that they wouldn’t be able to have otherwise.

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    You know my take on this *Hugs and more Hugs*
    Hope you meet someone so good and deserving of you , you’re a very good and nice person 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

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i am soooo badly waiting for Yoo Yeon Seok and Lee Joon Hyuk to be back on my screen with a good rom com…..
dramagods please make it happen..*puppy eyes*

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His beauty is way more blinding than the light beside…. ⚑⚑⚑⚑⚑

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Ryan Smiling Playfully

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and my fav composition from the episode.
1 scene with 3 reflections… i always find reflection mesmerizing way to tell what a character is feeling, how character is witnessing its alter ego or figuring out its own deep down hidden feelings.

Ryan is already smitten and mesmerized by SDM’s beauty, the precious fangirl in her, also knows her truth… and those 3 reflections are making this scene 4D in terms of emotions n feelings……and I love it.

PS its completely my way of seeing the things, there can be as many perceptions as possible depending upon viewer’s own life and their way of looking at this scene

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call 119… .
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Smile that screams SMITTEN

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cinematographically well thought one tiny moment can tell a story which many lines can’t.
this one short scene clearly tells that DM has finally entered the personal speace of RG that he never leg anyone else enter before. Also both of them in this closed space shows it’s just her who has been able to create a personal connection with him.

such hopeful dialogues scare me the most…still hoping NJY must have things planned in advance for future turbulence.

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FINALLYYYYYY i found the song which made me crazy just like IDOL/Not Today did…. i just LOVEEEEE 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜 this song… no number of hearts are enough to show how much i love it…

It has this bubbly chirpy feeling that makes me lil school girl is walking with her ponies dancing on the tune of this beautiful song… this just woke up that naughty, fun loving and lively girl in me.. which i forgot about while fighting real life hardships….

Thank you BTS for this song

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    I think it might very well be the most popular song on DB off the new album

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      yes it does feel so.. even on spotify its second most streamed song after Boy With Luv (which got its MV).. so i guess just for songs its most popular…

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        I didn’t know it was that popular on Spotify! When I was looking at the YT Lyrics Vids, this was the least popular. Crazy.

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      Yep yep. I know it’s my fave!! I knew it was love after hearing just a few notes of the opening. This song is MAGICAL!!!!!! I may have been listening on repeat.

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Finally found Hwang Cheol Beom ssi in a movie that too in lead role… and i couldn’t resist watching it. And see very soon i got these pearls of wisdom which none of the drama talked before in such genuine n simple way.
Though i am just 20 minutes and not sure if this movie is for me or not but this one moment was thought provoking for me. Hence posting here

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did anyone notice… ALL JKW shirts or Tshirts or anything he wears has his deep V neck…*though I NEVER pay attention to attires* but his deep neck wardrobe had me drooling LITERALLY… 😋😋😋

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when Baddie turns Hottie.
*will i be mean or bad if I ask dramagods to give him a lead role in next drama if not at least second lead*
he gives me such NGM feels with that charming smile😍😍😍

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this Smile and i forget everything else….Boy with Luv MV and i am the most happiest person cause i never this much Jimin on screen in any of past group MVs.. and here he was literally everywhere (or may u couldn’t look away to see anyone else.)

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Her Private Life is like my life is being played in front of my eyes, with such perfect precise dialogues to prove our lives are nothing without biases (oppas for me)…
1. we are not made but born…i agree.

2. passwords – oppas DOB or Debut date… all my passwords are my very first Oppas dob (which i set first time 16 years back and now its almost everywhere around me)

3. we fangirls dont date real man in real life but on Mobile Screen or on Monitor… oh yeah…

4. dreaming about what to gift him on his bday or debut … ahh i would love to but can\’t afford.

5. rest everything about this drama is PUUURFECT…. and am so glad we fangirls have a whole drama dedicated to us… and i cant let my mom see it at any cost

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*loooooong post alert*
*but i am sure you\’ll be happy by the time you finish this post*
#goodnewspost
Hello my lovely beanies…
i have a good news for you all… and this is something i am sharing only now as initially i wasn\’t sure if this is going to be something for long run as i never considered it a significant part of my creative journey but it happened somehow.

So as you all know I left my IT job ( of good salary and an amazing designation last year) and after that i spent 6 months exploring what to do in Photography to take it to next step… it never happened. I attended workshops, did so much of free work (for friends and even for random people)….. and it never worked as a mean to earn any money with it.

But with God\’s grace few months back I got a chance to work for a renowned personality in my city as a video editor for her YouTube channel. And I was literally on cloud 9 the day it happened. I always made MVs just for fun and time pass but now i am actually earning doing the same, though the amount i am getting is wayyyyyy to small as compared to my salary. But it feels like a dream everyday i work on a video…….

And i am so so so happy but anxious at same time with all the financial troubles (if my earnings wont increase)…. still this was something i wanted to share with you all who helped me, encouraged me and remained by my side during my tough days. Thank you so so so much to you all…. *hugs* *kisses*

special thanks to @ally-le for being my lighthouse during my darkest phase……

*and if by any chance you managed to read this long post… big big thank you too*

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NamGoong Min comes back in a drama with his signature Charming smile but this this time with killer determination… i am BOWLED. First episode and am already dying to wait for next..NGM💜💜💜

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Beaniessssss….can anyone belive what I did.. ????

BTS loveyourslefinseoul movie is getting released in india… and I was able to book the ticket…. and I AM SOOOOOO EXCITEDDDDDDDDD…..its on this Saturday and I have no words to explain what I am feeling…

@waadmay unnie… thank you so much for introducing BTS to me…..

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@ally-le hey ally…hope you are doing good….wanted to ask you is there any place on this web (twiter/mydramalist or blog) where I can send one personal message to you….????

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