Dear Beanies,
Let’s make a list of consistently-Kind-&-Caring-Good-Guys Male Leads! Socially Awkward Males Leads are ok too, as long as they’re openly caring, affectionate and supportive of their Leading Ladies throughout (most of) the show. Extra Brownie Points if he fell in love with her 1st. Unicorn bonus if the entire show was actually good too.
I’ll start with my current favs (by character names):
Ryan Gold – Her Private Life
Gu Wei Yi – Put Your Head on my Shoulder
Healer / Seo jung-Hoo – Healer
Dong Ha – Witch’s Romance
An Min-Hyuk – Strong Woman Do Bong-Soon
Joon Hyung – Weightlifting Fairy Kim Bok Ju
Wan – I Need Romance 3
Kim Bon – My Secret Terius
Boong Do – Queen In Hyun’s Man
Se Hee – Because This Is Our First
Su Ha – I Hear Your Voice
Min Seok – High School King of Savvy
Bong Sang-Pil – Lawless Lawyer
Seo Joon Hee – Something in the Rain
Dr. Ye – A Poem A Day
Kim Je-Hyeok – Prison Playbook
Gong Ji-Won – 20th Century Boy and Girl
Go Dong-man – Fight My Way
Kang Ho-gu – Ho-gu’s Love
Bang Myung-soo – Ex-Girlfriend Club
Kim Yeol – Sassy Go Go
Enrique Geum – Flower Boy Next Door
Gu Dae-young – Let’s Eat (all three)
Tsuzaki Hiramasa – We Married as a Job
Choi Dal-po – Pinocchio
Kang Ji-wook – Scent of a Woman
Park Ri-Hwan – Bubblegum
Shin Dong-wook – Soulmate
Sezaki Kouta – Clinic on the Sea
Cha Hyun-oh – Twelve Nights
Li Da-ren – In Time With You
Xaio Nai – Love O2O
Same! They’re from some of my fave dramas too, and I love rewatching them because they’re all just such gooey sweet guys. I love that Ho-gu has no issue being a beta male, Go Dong-man is my favorite lovable meathead (possibly my favorite male lead?) and Que Geum is too cute for words.
The thing about Hogu and Dongman too is that they are regular guys just trying to make a living, and who have growth in their careers too as they pursue their dreams with support of their partners (and they don’t become super rich, but are able to take care of their families which is also their goal). They aren’t geniuses or rich or superpowered (unless DM’s abs count…), and (now including Enrique) they aren’t cold or sarcastic. They are warm hearted men who show their emotions and want to believe the best in others.
… I’ll stop ranting now… good topic choice @kethysk 🤗
I don’t know if you’ve seen Ex-Girlfriend Club but all this also describes the male lead in that one too. One of my all time faves because it features female friendships heavily, and the romance is super sweet. Also, Byun Yo-han is absolutely adorable.
@snarkyjellyfish I haven’t seen it, but you just made a very convincing argument in its favor. I might have to watch it while I clean the house tomorrow ~
Definitely do it. It’s also only 12 eps because it was cut by 4 eps so there are bits of the end that feel rushed, but nothing too obvious and it doesn’t hurt the story at all. Also, excellent soundtrack.
1. Choi Taek – Reply 1988
2. Do Kyungsuk – My ID is Gangnam Beauty
3. Gu Wei Yi – Put Your Head on My Shoulder
4. Ahn Min Hyuk – Strong Woman Do Bong Sook (sorry Min Hyuk for bumping you down. But Wei Yi is just… 😍😍 You’re still the King of honey dripping eyes.. so…)
5. Yoon Na Moo – Come and Hug Me
Loving everyone’s lists ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I’ll try not to have repeats from other peoples’ lists on my lists lol
Phoenix – Ashes Of Love (China)
Lin Yi Mu – Pretty Li Hui Zhen (China)
Gu Wei Yi – Put Your Head On My Shoulder (China)
Li Chen Lan – The Legends (China)
Li Yun Kai – Because of Meeting You (China)
Fu Xiao Si – Rush To the Dead Summer (China)
Ye Hua – Three Lives, Three Worlds, Ten Miles of Peach Blossoms (China)
Ren Guang Xi – Autumn’s Concerto (Taiwan)
Xiang Zi Yan – Murphy’s Law of Love (Taiwan… do second leads count??)
Lee Kang Doo – Just Between Lovers (Korea)
Kim Shin Hyuk – She Was Pretty (Korea)
King Jinheung a.k.a. Sammaekjong – Hwarang (Korea)
Jae Shin – Sungkyunkwan Scandal (Korea)
Daniel Pitt – Fated To Love You (Korean version)
Yoon Ji Hoo – BoF (Korea)
Taek – Reply 1988 (Korea)
Lee Yeong & Yoon Sung – MDBC (Korea)
Chillbongie – Reply 1994 (Korea)
That’s why when I put down my first second-lead onto the list (Xiang Zi Yan from Taiwan’s “Murphy’s Law Of Love”), I was like…. “Do second leads count??” XDDDD
see, 2nd Leads are usually those nice guys, and we the audience are kinda baffled as to why the Leading lady doesn’t choose a nice guy who makes every effort to support and love her, and instead she picks the douchebag bad boy who needs a lot of growing up to do.
thus this list of Leading Nice Guys 🙂
Yes, considering the fact that it’s from 2007, the main leads are really great. It has some issues in the back half and some unnecessary plot points, but Dalja is such a fleshed-out, flawed yet likable heroine. Definitely a heroine-centric story. And her relationship with Tae-bong is awesome.
KSKalways
May 10, 2019 at 9:21 PM
Dear Beanies,
Let’s make a list of consistently-Kind-&-Caring-Good-Guys Male Leads! Socially Awkward Males Leads are ok too, as long as they’re openly caring, affectionate and supportive of their Leading Ladies throughout (most of) the show. Extra Brownie Points if he fell in love with her 1st. Unicorn bonus if the entire show was actually good too.
I’ll start with my current favs (by character names):
Ryan Gold – Her Private Life
Gu Wei Yi – Put Your Head on my Shoulder
Healer / Seo jung-Hoo – Healer
Dong Ha – Witch’s Romance
An Min-Hyuk – Strong Woman Do Bong-Soon
Joon Hyung – Weightlifting Fairy Kim Bok Ju
Wan – I Need Romance 3
Kim Bon – My Secret Terius
Boong Do – Queen In Hyun’s Man
Se Hee – Because This Is Our First
Su Ha – I Hear Your Voice
Min Seok – High School King of Savvy
Bong Sang-Pil – Lawless Lawyer
Seo Joon Hee – Something in the Rain
Dr. Ye – A Poem A Day
Kim Je-Hyeok – Prison Playbook
Gong Ji-Won – 20th Century Boy and Girl
…
What else you got?!
Let’s do this!
SnarkyJellyfish
May 10, 2019 at 10:18 PM
Ohh I like this exercise. Here are some more:
Go Dong-man – Fight My Way
Kang Ho-gu – Ho-gu’s Love
Bang Myung-soo – Ex-Girlfriend Club
Kim Yeol – Sassy Go Go
Enrique Geum – Flower Boy Next Door
Gu Dae-young – Let’s Eat (all three)
Tsuzaki Hiramasa – We Married as a Job
Choi Dal-po – Pinocchio
Kang Ji-wook – Scent of a Woman
Park Ri-Hwan – Bubblegum
Shin Dong-wook – Soulmate
Sezaki Kouta – Clinic on the Sea
Cha Hyun-oh – Twelve Nights
Li Da-ren – In Time With You
Xaio Nai – Love O2O
KSKalways
May 10, 2019 at 11:15 PM
How could I forget Go Dong-Man from Fight My Way!!! Yes! he waaaaas a caring and nice guy from Day 1!
SnarkyJellyfish
May 11, 2019 at 6:28 AM
My fave Park Seo-joon character. The pic of him febreze-ing his abs has been my banner here forever.
loveblossom🌸
May 11, 2019 at 8:12 AM
*goes to look at banner* 😆
KSKalways
May 11, 2019 at 8:57 AM
*goes to look at banner too*
impressive…
*drool*
Cocoa, The Fake Poet of February
May 11, 2019 at 1:25 PM
You added the ones I was thinking of! 🤗 Especially Ho-Gu, Dong Man, and Enrique will always have such special places in my heart…
SnarkyJellyfish
May 11, 2019 at 1:34 PM
Same! They’re from some of my fave dramas too, and I love rewatching them because they’re all just such gooey sweet guys. I love that Ho-gu has no issue being a beta male, Go Dong-man is my favorite lovable meathead (possibly my favorite male lead?) and Que Geum is too cute for words.
Cocoa, The Fake Poet of February
May 11, 2019 at 1:43 PM
Hogu is just so admiring of his girl, and then grows to become his best self for her. I melt.
I will never get tired of watching the just, straight up honest, sincere Dongman and his wonderful abs.
And I have written essays on Que Geum that I have never posted because they are far too sappy for the public…
Cocoa, The Fake Poet of February
May 11, 2019 at 1:48 PM
The thing about Hogu and Dongman too is that they are regular guys just trying to make a living, and who have growth in their careers too as they pursue their dreams with support of their partners (and they don’t become super rich, but are able to take care of their families which is also their goal). They aren’t geniuses or rich or superpowered (unless DM’s abs count…), and (now including Enrique) they aren’t cold or sarcastic. They are warm hearted men who show their emotions and want to believe the best in others.
… I’ll stop ranting now… good topic choice @kethysk 🤗
SnarkyJellyfish
May 11, 2019 at 3:11 PM
I don’t know if you’ve seen Ex-Girlfriend Club but all this also describes the male lead in that one too. One of my all time faves because it features female friendships heavily, and the romance is super sweet. Also, Byun Yo-han is absolutely adorable.
Cocoa, The Fake Poet of February
May 13, 2019 at 11:30 AM
@snarkyjellyfish I haven’t seen it, but you just made a very convincing argument in its favor. I might have to watch it while I clean the house tomorrow ~
SnarkyJellyfish
May 13, 2019 at 11:45 AM
Definitely do it. It’s also only 12 eps because it was cut by 4 eps so there are bits of the end that feel rushed, but nothing too obvious and it doesn’t hurt the story at all. Also, excellent soundtrack.
Cocoa, The Fake Poet of February
May 13, 2019 at 11:51 AM
😊 I’ll let you know how I like it ~
13infamyss
May 10, 2019 at 10:37 PM
My list isn’t a lot.
1. Choi Taek – Reply 1988
2. Do Kyungsuk – My ID is Gangnam Beauty
3. Gu Wei Yi – Put Your Head on My Shoulder
4. Ahn Min Hyuk – Strong Woman Do Bong Sook (sorry Min Hyuk for bumping you down. But Wei Yi is just… 😍😍 You’re still the King of honey dripping eyes.. so…)
5. Yoon Na Moo – Come and Hug Me
Bebe | Nessa❣️
May 10, 2019 at 11:09 PM
Loving everyone’s lists ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I’ll try not to have repeats from other peoples’ lists on my lists lol
Phoenix – Ashes Of Love (China)
Lin Yi Mu – Pretty Li Hui Zhen (China)
Gu Wei Yi – Put Your Head On My Shoulder (China)
Li Chen Lan – The Legends (China)
Li Yun Kai – Because of Meeting You (China)
Fu Xiao Si – Rush To the Dead Summer (China)
Ye Hua – Three Lives, Three Worlds, Ten Miles of Peach Blossoms (China)
Ren Guang Xi – Autumn’s Concerto (Taiwan)
Xiang Zi Yan – Murphy’s Law of Love (Taiwan… do second leads count??)
Lee Kang Doo – Just Between Lovers (Korea)
Kim Shin Hyuk – She Was Pretty (Korea)
King Jinheung a.k.a. Sammaekjong – Hwarang (Korea)
Jae Shin – Sungkyunkwan Scandal (Korea)
Daniel Pitt – Fated To Love You (Korean version)
Yoon Ji Hoo – BoF (Korea)
Taek – Reply 1988 (Korea)
Lee Yeong & Yoon Sung – MDBC (Korea)
Chillbongie – Reply 1994 (Korea)
KSKalways
May 10, 2019 at 11:13 PM
niiiice!
Wasn’t Kim Shin Hyuk a 2nd Lead though?
Bebe | Nessa❣️
May 10, 2019 at 11:17 PM
That’s why when I put down my first second-lead onto the list (Xiang Zi Yan from Taiwan’s “Murphy’s Law Of Love”), I was like…. “Do second leads count??” XDDDD
KSKalways
May 11, 2019 at 9:17 AM
see, 2nd Leads are usually those nice guys, and we the audience are kinda baffled as to why the Leading lady doesn’t choose a nice guy who makes every effort to support and love her, and instead she picks the douchebag bad boy who needs a lot of growing up to do.
thus this list of Leading Nice Guys 🙂
mindy
May 11, 2019 at 2:46 AM
A have one that absolutely no one would ever expect from me…
Kang Tae-bong – Dal-ja’s Spring
Yes I know you’re all shocked but find me another 00s male lead who acts this way!! You can’t!!!!
Blue (@mayhemf)
May 11, 2019 at 4:10 AM
What a reveal Mindy. None of us saw this coming. :))
mindy
May 11, 2019 at 7:34 AM
I’m totally unpredictable. A loose cannon.
KSKalways
May 11, 2019 at 8:56 AM
I haven’t watched it… Is the show good, @mindy ?
mindy
May 11, 2019 at 9:26 AM
Yes, considering the fact that it’s from 2007, the main leads are really great. It has some issues in the back half and some unnecessary plot points, but Dalja is such a fleshed-out, flawed yet likable heroine. Definitely a heroine-centric story. And her relationship with Tae-bong is awesome.
Cocoa, The Fake Poet of February
May 11, 2019 at 1:27 PM
Ah, who is the actor who plays him? He looks familiar 🤔
mindy
May 11, 2019 at 2:13 PM
Coco
Coco
You are
Cocoa, The Fake Poet of February
May 11, 2019 at 3:02 PM
I never claimed otherwise 😘
Cocoa, The Fake Poet of February
May 11, 2019 at 3:04 PM
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-lbUt5Go8oHQ/URFlmKGO0xI/AAAAAAAAGNk/wlAVeTD8NF0/s1600/2013-02-05+20_38_47.gif
dee23
May 11, 2019 at 10:27 AM
yeah! 💪