Beanie level: The Goblin’s underpants

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Got this on my You-tube feed.😍

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Did myself a favor by skipping all the 15 episodes of My First First Love and directly watching the end episode. ^^

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Currently not watching any dramas.
I have stopped Search WWW after episode 12- didn\’t had a heart to see the separation.
Stopped watching Hotel Del Luna after episode 2- I love the style and the story but can’t wait to binge watch it at least from half way. (I don’t know why I prefer to watch popular dramas after it ends)
Stopped watching Go Go Squid after episode 17- again dreading the separation.
There’s so many new bunch of drama which premiered I don’t know which to watch. Any recommendation?
Life is going into slumps and phasing drama slumps too.
And Kang’s kitchen ended. 

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    I’m enjoying Watcher and Class of Lies, at least I’m not worried about painful separations of the romantic kind. I too have a list of dramas to finish that I stopped at the point that they acknowledge or confess their feelings but before the (almost inevitable) noble idiocy/breakup/time skip what have you.

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      I don’t know but many at times even if i’m giddy about the pairing and the way the drama is proceeding but if the leads confess their love for each other I lose my interest in those dramas.
      Thank You, I’ll start with watcher.

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        I hope you enjoy it. I certainly am. I have definitely had the same experience with some dramas in that once the tension is gone because they’ve confessed I look for a new romance.

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These two kids light up my mood and did I heard wrong the One Spring Night song in between? surprised by it.

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I just need a medium to vent out my feelings.
Yesterday my boyfriend of 10 years told me that he told his parents about us 1 month back and tried convincing them a lot even asking his relatives to convince them but they didn’t agree. They are not in a good health condition.
I had my MD exam last week so he didn’t tell me anything so that I can give my best but I failed to do my best in that also.
My life is complete mess right now. I don’t know how to move on from now on wards. My mother died in 2011 and now he also will move away from my side. He was my best friend too. Losing him is just devastating and worst thing tomorrow 24th July was going to be our 10 years anniversary.
I feel angry that he’s not trying enough but somehow I understand his situation too. I just wish I could have been a selfish bad person or a person indifferent to feelings.
Letting him go from my side is just way too hard.
We both were schoolmates and so we have common friend circle. I’m so scared about how things will be in future.
I’m a complete mess right now. Whole night couldn’t sleep and from morning had loose motions and vomiting with stomachache. I was controlling my tears as my dad was at home. I felt so bad that he had to make lunch on his own and was worried about me that I tried to tell him but was scared as my dad is anti-love (Indian family) but when I tried I started crying and he was so tensed which I could see on his face and was on the verge of crying that I had to make him calm and then while crying I told him that I like a boy and his family are against our marriage. He told he’ll get me married with a good boy and all my money is yours only- I felt so bad that he was not angry with me- I just cried and apologized and diverted the topic.
I had no desire or appetite to eat but just for my dad I’ll try hard from tomorrow.
No goals in life.
I’m a homoeopathic doctor by profession but I have Vitiligo and it’s not just small spots but on 75% of my body.
I try to give my best and I’m not depressed about the disease as I truly believe beauty lies in the eye of the beholder. I stay happy only but being a doctor having a disease just drives my morale somehow low.
Many patients are really happy but some I feel are skeptical.
I can’t open my own clinic where I stay as I don’t know the local language.
Not doing well in my exam means I don’t have any options left.
How to move on from now onwards guys? Need help but will I be able to fly again in life?

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    I don’t know what advice to give you since I’ve never been in your situation but I just wanted to tell you that everything will fine. Hang in there and everything will work itself out. Also, you will be able to fly again, as long as you believe you can. All of my luck and good wishes are sending out to you right now!

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      Thank you. I want to believe I can fly and achieve what I’m destined to.

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    Ahh, your post is hitting close to home. I can only offer you my sympathies and all the hugs in the world.

    You life is hard and breakups are always hard, even if you understand why. Change is also really hard. Being indifferent is hard. And you have your own /other/ problems to deal with. I’m speaking from recent experience, though I’m not going to compare.

    It’s ok to cry and be lost for a little while. It’s ok to take your time to figure things out one thing at a time.

    What helps for me to move on is the little steps – not the long term goals or finding the meaning of my life or whatever. But. Getting that dentist appointment booked that was long overdue. Getting some administration done. Finally fixing the doorhandle that broke months ago. Even though I’m moving and starting a new job and just went through a breakup, it’s the normal little things that feel productive which I can check off my to-do list that keep me going. And at some point I’ll have the strength to do the big things, like moving out, finding a new thing to study, set goals that stretch beyond the next week or two.

    It’s ok not to have everything figured out and it’s ok to be upset and it’s OK to be overwhelmed. Moving on takes time, but you can take it slow.

    Hwaiting!

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      Hugs you back.
      Your words are damn sensible.
      Everything appears so hard at this moment.
      I’ll try to make a short term goal and work to build myself step by step.
      Thank you so much. I’ll be always be greatful to you.

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    I am sorry to hear what you are going through. I wish you well and hope you find peace soon in your life. Every time I feel things have gone too bad I tell myself this – ‘This is it, you have hit rock bottom. You can only go up from here’. Somehow I feel I have always come out of the bad phases. You will too. Time will pass and you will look back at this and see that life indeed taught you some valuable lessons.

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      i do believe whatever happens happens for a reason and we realize it later and each time I have realized worst things happened for good.
      I’ll take your advice and come out of my worst phase.
      I hope I come out stronger at least for myself.

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    I really hope you can keep your head up. With everything going on, you still show a positive attitude, that means that there is a way out. Reading your words tells me that you are a strong person and strong people are never beaten down by circumstances.

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      Thanks for pointing out to me that I have a positive attitude I seriously didn’t was able to think in that line. Your comment is making me resolve my will to come out stronger in life and not to dwell in my situation.
      My will was strong and I can’t let it break me but I know things will be tougher for many days to come but I’ll try to bear it Bravely.
      Thank you.

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    You are going through extreme emotions but you don’t need to blame yourself for everything. It is completely fine if your dad made dinner, after reading about your mother it seems like you might have been in a semi caregiver role hence, it is ok to relax and give yourself some time to unwind. If your patients had doubts about you, they would’ve changed their doctor by now. And you should just be proud that many are satisfied. Not everything in this world that is happening to you is your mistake. Your friends, it might get awkward with them for a while but the true ones will stay with you. So just take your time, relax, unwind and try to get over this relationship positively.

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      I had to play the caregiver role since the time I was in 7th standard. We were told my mother will only for 6 months not more than that but she fought hard and lived for 5 more years.
      My father and brother are everything to me and yet I’m making things hard for them makes me feel guilty. But now it’s not the time to make my father worried about me so today I have decided to be strong at least for my father who will stay with me only for 2 days more.
      I’ll try to things in positive manner and let life flow in the right direction.
      Thank you.

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    Hugs dear!
    Everything gonna be okay!
    I don’t know if you have watched my Ahjussi but I wanted to say this line from it for you: This is no big deal, you will get over it.
    (If you haven’t seen it, it’s perfect drama to watch and share your sadness with)
    On personal/ professional front, I would highly recommend you to learn that local language (which language is it?) Learning Language will provide with the most required distraction right now and keep you busy and also give you the only thing that you need to be able to open your own clinic (okay there are other things as well but this one is the most important one) and also if you go to some language class you will meet new people and have new friends and you can now have a different set of friends as well. This will help you to move on as well.
    And it’s okay to be sad today and cry today but remember tomorrow you have to get up and be ready for new things!
    And you can always find us here to chat !
    Hugs again
    Go Google language courses in your city and look at your city from the eyes of its local language, it will be a new experience and very exciting as well !

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      Hugs you back.
      I’ve watched it but now understanding the meaning of those words.
      I stay in south India (Karnataka) so the language is Kannad. I’ll try to search for a class and join asap as it may keep me busy too.
      Your advice was really sensible. Thank you so much for to be there for me.

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        I don’t know Kannad, but I have friends who know it, in case you want to talk about languages and need some one to gush over it with you or vent about them, you are always welcome to tag me or message me (on viki?) !
        Even if you want to talk about homeopathic medicines, I can talk about them, 😉 or anything ^^

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          A big thanks to you.
          Your username is same over there too?
          You’re multi talented. Aren’t you?

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    Dear Mimu,
    Wow you’re homoeopathic doctor!? This is an amazing achievement! I’m sure a lot of people see you as someone very successful and respect you so much!! This includes many of your patients who believe on you!
    Remember, people often feel frustrated because of losing hope and faith in life, love or something else. We’ve all been there at some point in our life! People who see you from outside might see you as someone very successful, inspiring and respectable, but if you lose hope you might not see it in yourself!
    Try to make a small plan for yourself everyday (for the coming day, it does not need to be long-term, or exceptional)! Just make a little hope every day! Remember that, End is not the end, in fact E.N.D is “Effort Never Dies” & if you get NO in answer then remember NO is “Next Opportunity”… keep living your life and make small efforts no matter what!! Good luck my dear!

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      Yes if I think back they do see me as a successful person and sometimes admire the way i have handled my situation makes me feel grateful to them.
      You’re making me see things in a different and rightful manner and i’m really thankful to you.
      Your words are giving me strength. I’ll make efforts to live positively.

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    Venting is therapeutic. I hope you feel better soon. But it sounds like it will be a while before you will. You are accomplished and valuable. Someone else will see that. I know what you mean by finding worth in your career, but sometimes that’s not enough. Having a disease makes you more human to your patients too and more empathetic as well. Get up every day and breathe, do something small for yourself, try to talk to new people, network, and maybe you will find your niche. Or find someone else who has no family objections to you, or someone else who will fight for you in spite of their family. I’m sure you can.

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      I totally agree that venting is therapeutic.
      Your words are always inspiring and I’ve always admired you for your advice’s.
      For these words “Having a disease makes you more human to your patients too and more empathetic as well.” I’ll always be grateful to you to making me think in this manner.
      I’ll try to make some new progress and I do hope in some far later years I find my destined one.
      Thank you, Ally.

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    Hi Mimu ❤️
    I hope this is not too late. God, everything in your post hits really close to home. I’ve had many friends in long-term relationships suddenly breakup because ‘the guy couldn’t convince his parents’. And it sucks. Especially when you give your all to the relationship and have envisioned an entire future with that person together. And that very person gives up on you when things get hard.

    But I want to tell you that you’re worth more than all of that. You’re worth more than someone who won’t fight for you, and you have every reason to keep your head held high when people start asking you what went wrong. Your father knows the gem you are, and at the end of the day, even though he’s anti-love, you and your happiness are most important.

    Like everyone above has said, don’t lose hope in the face of these difficulties!! You may think that the only path to success is doing well in your exam, but things open up for us when we least expect it. Nothing is over yet!

    You’ve studied so hard and become a homeopathic doctor, someone your patients can rely on and gain a sense of comfort from. You’re an amazing woman; you’ve already accomplished so much and there’s more to come.
    Also, your vitiligo has nothing to do with your abilities as a doctor, so don’t doubt yourself! Your condition does not make you ANY less of a smart, capable doctor!

    Right now the future seems bleak because so much is happening all at once. But I can assure you you will overcome this. You will heal, slowly but surely, and you’ll definitely fly again.

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      It really sucks. He gave me hopes and shattered me to the pieces.
      I understood yesterday how much my father really cares about me more than his anti-love thoughts- he didn’t scold me at all and I was grateful and yet feeling sad.
      Your words are giving me so much of strength and your every word is hitting me hard to be a sensible person and move on. A tight hug to you and I’m sure you know how much wonderful person you’re and your words are really therapeutic.
      I’ll heal and I want to fly for sure, again.

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Beanies!!
I loved Ten Miles of peach blossoms & Ashes of love. I started Legend of Fu Yao but it\’s not captivating my interest. Can you guys recommend me any other Wuxia dramas?

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    “The Princess Weiyoung” is another good one!! 😁😁It can be found on Netflix, YouTube, and Viki
    Just like the other ones (though I have not watched Fu Yao), the female lead is pretty strong and isn’t a damsel that needs saving— it’s one of the reasons why I love wuxia dramas so much, they’re not afraid to make strong female leads 👌🏻👌🏻

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      Thank you so much. 🙂 Seriously the girls are so strong female leads which captivates my interest.
      Btw by any chance are you watching The lost tomb 2? I had watched The lost tomb which had less episodes and liked it so I was thinking to start.

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        I haven’t watched the Lost Tomb series at all, but I’ve heard great things about it 😉😉 And shorter episode count seems like a relief 😂😂😅😅

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          Yang Yang was there in The last Tomb and I was happier that I liked him even Before Love O2O. You can give it a try it’ll be worth watching. The sequel has 42 episodes and the leads are not the same so I’m perplexed about starting it.

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Beanies!!
Which one is better Legend of Fu Yao or Ashes of love?

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    ashes any given day..
    fu yao.. just watch kiss scene and skip everything else

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      Thank you. 🙂
      I started Ashes after reading the spoiler about the ending of Legend of Fuyao.

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        nothing psecial about ending.. that show is subpar at all levels.. even romance..

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    I’m on ep 5 of Ashes. It is a cotton candy world, but that is what I’m in the mood for right now.
    I dont know the other one.

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    Never watched Fu Yao because I can’t stand Yang Mi in period dramas (the only reason I don’t like “Three Lives, Three Worlds, Ten Miles of Peach Blossoms”), But she’s fine in modern dramas

    “ASHES OF LOVE” ALL DAY. EVERY DAY 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️
    Seriously, I’ve legitimize lost count of how many times I’ve rewatched it already— all 63 episodes (60 on Viki) or bits and pieces

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      I’ve watched only Les interpretes and Ten miles of peach blossom drama starring Yang mi. So can’t speak much about where she’s much better but for sure the story line of ten miles of peach blossom was so awesome that I got interested in Chinese period drams.
      Before i used to watch only modern day dramas.

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I’m happy Woo Do Hwan joined The King : The Eternal Monarch.
He always reminds me of Kim Woo Bin & Ji Chang Wook.
https://www.soompi.com/article/1329367wpp/woo-do-hwan-confirmed-to-join-lee-min-ho-and-kim-go-eun-in-writer-kim-eun-sooks-new-drama





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Moon Chae-won is looking so awesome. ❤️__❤️

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Congratulations to them!! ❤️__❤️ ❤️__❤️


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That’s me today as happy as Yoo Seung-ho. ❤️__❤️

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😍



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This scene cracked me up. 🤣🤣🤣🤣





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Gosh!! Cha Eun-woo is extremely handsome. ❤️__❤️


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These three, I can watch them anytime.😍





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I’m so ready for him to get his Nose kiss.😍😍





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This scene.🤣🤣





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They’re so cute together.❤️





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