Beanie level: Noble idiot

Just to let you all know. Those who have Dramafever. There is update IOS 12.01. This will fix the subtitles on the Dramafever and other video apps.

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Silent child by Sarah A. Denzil

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I hope she get better and be just herself. So yeah…. I do not want else to say. I think there is more. But, can not think anymore. Lol. I am taking a day at a time.

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    Sending you hugs and love.

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    I’ve taken a while to write back. Autism is close to my heart as well, and also being Vietnamese, I know the stigma. It’s not about the child, it’s about you as a parent and what you must have done wrong. You have done nothing wrong! Have you read “Stars in Her Eyes” but Dr. Linda Barboa, and “M” is for Autism? Both are written in more of an interview/story/vignette form about experiences of families and girls with autism. Also, @michykdrama recommended this one (she has a boy with autism as well): The Reason I Jump: the Inner Voice of a Thirteen Year Old Boy with Autism. I think they would be good reads for you. God has given you this child because He knew you would be the best mother for her. Be the best mother you can be for her and you will be doing the will of God. I firmly believe that. Also, find people in your area that understand you. There are a lot of Vietnamese children with autism, I know several. Share your stories, advice, and love. Autism Speaks is an organization you can go to on-line and through there you may be able to find more families like yours in your area. You need support by people that know what you’re going through. Good luck! Fighting!

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      Thank you. I am in good support. However, I few Vietnamese people who have autistic kids are few due to our Vietnamese culture is their pride and thinking that there will be cure in couple of months or something like that. My family is kind of hush hush about it. As I mention it before, that we are also Catholic too. I am just taking one day at a time. There is a lot of support and online help. However, I think it is overwhelming. Also, I do read there is a lot of hit and miss of therapies. It does take a while to get a great therapies to help me and family. However, to find a good one. I wish it was be easier to be deal with. I know it does takes patience and time. It is hard as I am not a really hard to deal with as a person. LOL

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        Why does being Catholic have anything to do with the lack of support you have? I have Catholic and other Christian friends who have kids with autism and they have as much or more support than anyone.

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          I meant that my family is old fashioned catholic family. Therefore, we are supposed to keep it is a secret in the family. Just like my aunt who divorced and have a kid, my cousin have a kid out of wedlock is a supposed lay a secret. This way, my cousins and sisters will get married. I don’t get much support per se in the family.

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            Okay, I’m sorry your family won’t help or educate themselves to help you. I guess I don’t understand that mentality very well. But you can obviously see that having a child out of wedlock and having a child with autism are two very different things. It sounds like your daughter is a happy girl, so that’s a blessing. I hope you get the support you need in the meantime. Maybe someone else in the family with come to your aid when you least expect it! Fighting!

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She is really sweet and happy girl. She is like monkey and be on her world sometimes. She also have speech delay and have expressive and receptive disorder. So, it is harder for her to talk to us.

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They said oh it is ok. My aunt will remarried again. 🤦🏻‍♀️🙄 So yeah, I can except they will be in denial and not mention it like a hush hush thing. Even though, my daughter is autistic person.

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More like get her pregnant to stay in US. He is not US citizen but still… Not a great way… My family said oh she is Vietnamese and catholic. 🤦🏻‍♀️🙄

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My family was very old fashioned. I know because they are kind of denial/swept off the rug of my aunt being single mom and my cousin have child without getting married.

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I was very sad and was in denial. It took me a while to accept it. My husband was better than me. However, it is sad that my family did not accept it due we are Vietnamese and Catholic.

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It was very hard for me to accept it and asking a lot of why. She was a week late and was healthy. Her brain is normal. Also, no brain damages and no seizures. I eat very healthy.

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I love my daughter. She was my miracle/surprise. Sometimes, I wonder if I did anything wrong. My daughter is severely Austistic. The nureologist and school psychologist confirm it to me.

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My girl friend new car from her hubby who is a dentist. Her sister is richer than her. 🤑🤑

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I am on episode 11 of Life on Mars. I hope to catch up the rest of tonight. The other dramas can wait until I finished watching this drama. LOL… I hope everyone have a great Monday night.

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    I marathoned up to ep 9 and plan to catch up more tonight. It’s so good! Interestingly, I am also watching Prison Playbook. A double dose of Jung Kyung Ho!

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      I’m planning to watch PP too, I totally fell for JKH after LoM.

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        Heartless City (aka Creul City) is the best, have you watched it?

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          Haven’t watched it yet. I’m saving it after I finish PP. I’m not sure I’ll be able to watch him in a rom-com though, so I probably won’t watch his romantic shows.

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It has been a long time since we have gone to vacation without our kids… I am excited and so is my hubby too. I will try to catch up Legend of Fuyao and Mystiry for you and Life of Mars too…

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Tonight, hubby and I are going to Vegas for mini vacation. our kids will be at my parents house. My two younger sisters are home. therefore, they will babysit our kids too.

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Meteor Garden: I finally watched it and caught up. Yup, agree with the dubbing is old fashion. Smh of her friend have a yellow sports car. Isn’t he like poor. Also, the young DS look like a girl. Smh

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I watched episode 24 of Legend Yun Xi many time due to the ending ost was really great when Yun Xi get kick out of Qin Mansion and she walk away Han Mano and meet Qi Shao.

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I hope it would not last long. I want the trio friendship again. Legend of Yun Xi is still great. Finally the Ice prince smile of Yun Xi.

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