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One More Happy Ending: Episode 3

If you thought Mi-mo couldn’t possibly get her life any more twisted up, then you’d be wrong. She manages to stick her foot in her mouth several more times before an important conversation has her rethinking the way she’s been living, especially when it comes to dating. But just when she decides that it’s time to work on herself for a bit, suitors begin coming out of the woodwork — whatever is a girl to do?

EPISODE 3 RECAP

It’s the Joseon period, and while Dong-mi acts out the scenes, Mi-mo narrates that back then, marriage had very little to do with emotions — it was an agreement between two families. There were matchmakers called maepa that would help the families, and the bride and groom wouldn’t meet until their wedding day.

But sometimes one’s imagination would run away with them, and the reality was much less romantic. We see Dong-mi’s match, who is… not exactly the young handsome man that she pictured, and she tries to run.

But there were romantic souls who took their destinies into their own hands and ran away together. One woman (Mi-mo in royal dress), even gambled her whole life in the name of love. Her name was Deok-joong, and she was King Sejo’s concubine, but she fell in love with the king’s cousin (represented by Hae-joon, of course).

She wrote him a love letter, and King Sejo (Soo-hyuk) was made aware of it. He ordered the arrest and torture of everyone involved, and Deok-joong died for nothing more than loving the wrong man.

In the present, Mi-mo confesses her instant love for Hae-joon, the man who briefly called her “sister-in-law.” Hae-joon responds in his typical eloquent fashion: “Huh?”

He asks if she still feels dizzy, and she rattles off the evening’s events in detail to prove that she’s just fine. Before he can say anything else, Dong-mi shows up and screams Mi-mo’s name, and smacks Mi-mo for worrying her. Her extreme behavior makes Hae-joon giggle.

She tries to take the lab coat off Mi-mo, ignoring both Mi-mo and Hae-joon’s protests, since all Mi-mo has on underneath is a teensy negligee. Dong-mi rips open the coat and goes silent, taking her outfit as further proof that Mi-mo’s gone off the deep end. Mi-mo shushes her and tries to say something to Hae-joon, but he just walks away.

Soo-hyuk heads for the hospital to pick up Mi-mo, complaining the whole way. He’s delayed by a car accident, while at the hospital Mi-mo gets observe Hae-joon treating the accident victim. She’s eventually released and wears Hae-joon’s lab coat home, promising to return it later.

She’s gone by the time Soo-hyuk arrives, and Hae-joon corners him to ask what’s going on with them. Why didn’t Mi-mo call him instead of her friend? He jokingly asks if they’re divorced already, and Soo-hyuk tells him they were never really married. He tells Hae-joon the whole story, and Hae-joon feels a bit less squicky about Mi-mo’s confession to him.

Soo-hyuk sighs with relief that at least he and Mi-mo didn’t sleep together, which makes Hae-joon look at him sharply. He asks if Soo-hyuk didn’t find her attractive then, and Soo-hyuk hotly denies there’s anything at all between them. Hae-joon: “Then why are you here?” Oh. Right.

Mi-mo starts to worry that she’s really gone ’round the bend, getting dumped, almost marrying an old schoolmate, and confessing to a man she just met all in one day. Dong-mi drops her off at home, and she whines to Ppoppo that Hae-joon will think she’s a married woman looking for an affair.

Hae-joon is thinking about Mi-mo, but not about her being crazy. He recalls seeing her in the City Hall, only from his perspective she’s dressed in her old Angels costume and surrounded by soft, fuzzy light. OMG he’s a fanboy. No wonder he was staring at her like that.

Soo-hyuk decides to check on Mi-mo when he gets back to their building, but a memory of her accepting his offer of a passionate night rings in his ears. He remembers more about that night, how they’d broken apart when the elevator dropped them off, and each shuffled to their own door. He smiles, realizing that nothing happened.

Mi-mo can’t sleep for worrying about what Hae-joon could be thinking of her. By morning she’s panda-eyed and exhausted, but she fixes herself up and heads to the hospital. Once she sees him though, she’s twitterpated all over again, and gets out of there without speaking to him.

She meets with Dong-mi and Da-jung and tells them about her latest obsession, and Dong-mi quickly figures out that she’s talking about the doctor that gave her his lab coat. She tells Mi-mo that she should apologize for making him uncomfortable when he was just doing his job. Mi-mo pouts that her friends aren’t encouraging her, but Dong-mi barks that women like her are why women like Dong-mi can’t get married.

We see Dong-mi at a work function, being leered at by a homely coworker while the handsome man she’s eyeing ignores her. A teacher had stood to announce her upcoming marriage, and her intended turned out to be the man Dong-mi was sizing up. Awww. She complains that she’s spent so much energy flirting with him, and that little divorced witch snatched him out from under her nose.

Later Mi-mo interviews another potential client, this time a woman who is gorgeous, rich, and seems to have everything. She’s also extremely jaded after her ex cheated on her, but Mi-mo thinks she’s the perfect client — a successful woman who’s not just looking for a rich man to take care of her.

As the client’s application is processed, Mi-mo tells us that if a client wants to get remarried, they’re graded and divided into classes. Everything about the person is analyzed, and they get a report card that tells them how attractive they are on the dating market.

Mi-mo reluctantly answers a call from the Masspunch reporter, who wants an update on the engagement Mi-mo bragged about. Mi-mo tells the truth, that he’s marrying someone else, and asks the reporter to write a very sympathetic article about it. Judging from the reporter’s face, I don’t think that’s going to happen.

Da-jung sits to talk to her husband Geun-hak about the divorce he wants. She says that she hasn’t done anything he can use as grounds for divorce, and instead offers to let him date so they can file for divorce on grounds of cheating. He thinks she’s only saying that so she can claim more assets, and besides, he wouldn’t do that because he still cares for her.

Da-jung is pragmatic about it, and argues that asking her for a divorce every other day is just as scarring as being cheated on. At least if he cheats she can get more money. She lashes out, saying that no woman will want a divorced man with a kid. Geun-hak mutters that he’s got money and assets, but she’s all Not after I take half. This is the saddest conversation ever.

Ae-ran breaks the news to her mother that she’s not getting married, and her mother actually tells her that it’s better to just marry Dong-bae and divorce him, than have to explain to the guests that the wedding is off. That’s pretty sick. Her mother tries threats, cajoling, and insults, but Ae-ran holds her ground.

Dong-bae arrives home to find a silent, subdued Ae-ran, and he kneels to clean up the plate her mother broke without saying a word. He softly says that he thinks Ae-ran is just nervous, and he asks her to give him a chance. He proposes getting married for one year, and if she still feels the same, he’ll let her go. But nothing he says can make Ae-ran feel passionately about him, and it confuses her.

Mi-mo presses Hae-joon’s lab coat, then sprays a bit of her perfume on it. She practices telling him that she’s not married after all, but all of her explanations make her sound pathetic. She calls Soo-hyuk, asking to meet him for a minute.

She drinks a beer before they talk, and offers him one, though he gripes that alcohol is bad for them, ha. She haltingly says that she wronged his friend, and he nods that he already knows. He tells her that he explained everything to Hae-joon, and made it clear that there’s nothing between them.

Thrilled, Mi-mo grabs him in a tipsy hug — now now, this is what got you in trouble in the first place. She’s suddenly chirpy and excited, and Soo-hyuk gives her the side-eye, confused why that should make her so happy.

Dong-mi grudgingly takes a call from the coworker who’s marrying her crush, who called to ask if she wants to catch the bouquet at her wedding. Dong-mi takes offense that she would need the help, and declines. But the woman offers to tell her about a place that guarantees to find you a man in three months if she’ll do it, and Dong-mi perks up.

It turns out to be the weirdest fortune teller ever, a guy dressed like a cross between a rapper and a gangster. He says that he sees a younger man in her future — nearly nine years younger. Dong-mi can hardly hide her glee, but recoils at the amount of money he wants to make her future happen.

Suddenly a woman bursts into the room and screams at the guy, saying that he made a stalker fall for her. He grumbles that he never guaranteed the quality of the man. Dong-mi can’t afford his fees anyway, so she goes with Plan B: a self-administered makeover. The results are hilariously disastrous.

Mi-mo psychs herself up to confront Hae-joon, and this time she manages to talk to him. He calls her “sister-in-law” and she corrects him, and he acts like it’s the first time he’s heard it. Wait, why?

She asks if he’s distancing himself because of what she said, but he says it’s normal for patients to profess love to the doctor who just helped them. He’s saying that to preserve her dignity, which is sweet, but Mi-mo leans in close and asks why he doesn’t believe she meant what she said.

Hae-joon drops the polite doctor act, and lays it out for Mi-mo — he hates complicated relationships. They should be between two people, and when a third gets involved, someone gets hurt. He has no intention of getting into such a situation.

That would be enough, but he then gets a little insulting, and says that she’s not attractive enough to get in the middle of his friendship with Soo-hyuk. Daaamn. Mi-mo says that she wasn’t trying to do that — she only wanted to tell him how she felt.

Mi-mo bravely tells Hae-joon that it was hard for her to get up the courage to come here, but she actually liked the feeling of nervousness at the idea of seeing him again. She apologizes for wasting his time, returns his coat, and leaves.

Hae-joon watches her go, seeming a bit affected by her after all. Yeon-soo recognizes her now as Han Mi-mo from the Angels, and says that she guesses even fairies age.

Soo-hyuk writes his article about Mi-mo’s ex marrying Seul-ah of the Angels, though he doesn’t look happy about having to publish it. The news causes a stir among the citizens, and Mi-mo can’t avoid the reminder that even now, she’s come in second place behind Seul-ah.

Soo-hyuk’s coworkers notice that he’s not as happy about the success of his article as he normally would be, but he just gives a lame excuse. Next up is the article on past idols featuring Mi-mo, and the writer of that article asks Soo-hyuk out to dinner.

He finds Mi-mo drinking beer outside their building again and sits with her, knowing that she saw his article. He apologizes sincerely, looking truly sorry, and says that he wanted to call her to warn her.

She reveals that she suspected her ex-husband was seeing someone before they broke up, but she never tried to find out. She says it’s her habit not to ask too many questions during a breakup, because she’s not sure she can handle the answers. But this time, with Soo-hyuk’s article, she didn’t have that luxury. She hesitantly asks if Jung-hoon looked happy with Seul-ah.

We see a flashback of Mi-mo and her ex-husband, younger and in love, and she narrates that the way he used to look at her wasn’t a lie. They were genuinely happy together.

Soo-hyuk explains that he only looks at his targets’ actions, what they actually do. He doesn’t pay attention to whether they’re happy. He apologizes softly for not being able to answer Mi-mo’s question, and she says she must really be a goldfish like he used to say.

Soo-hyuk remembers calling her a goldfish back in school, referring to her ability to immediately forget she’s been hurt and let it happen all over again. Mi-mo muses that she really should learn to contemplate when something happens to her, instead of quickly looking for something new.

But Soo-hyuk says he’s jealous of how she doesn’t hold her emotions inside, because he holds his so tightly it feels like they rot inside him. They both smile that emotions are weird and annoying. Soo-hyuk almost pats Mi-mo on the shoulder, but he stops himself at the last moment.

Da-jung tells Dong-mi to go comfort Ae-ran, but Dong-mi doesn’t see why she should — after all, she’s the one who broke off the wedding. One of her students gives her some cookies she baked for her boyfriend, who didn’t want them, and Dong-mi snaps that someone so young shouldn’t have a boyfriend. But it gives her an idea.

Oh nooooo… Ae-ran takes a pregnancy test, and the results are positive. She starts to tell Mi-mo about it, but Mi-mo thinks she’s just upset about breaking her engagement.

Dong-mi goes shopping for a used oven for baking cookies, and the oven’s owner turns out to be a total dish (cameo by Kim Min-joon). Dong-mi is much more interested in him than the oven, until he mentions that he and his wife cooked a lot in it, and Dong-mi’s face falls. Then he says they’re divorced now, which is why he’s selling it.

Later Dong-mi asks Mi-mo what she thinks about dating a divorced man. Mi-mo marvels that she’s willing to consider it, and advises her that the quality of divorced men can vary. She tells Dong-mi not to ask questions like why he got divorced, because she’ll start applying those reasons to their dating situation. That’s pretty good advice.

Later Dong-mi asks if Mi-mo is embarrassed about confessing to Hae-joon, which gives Mi-mo the giggles. But admits she is, but figures it’s better than holding it in.

Hae-joon calls Soo-hyuk out to talk, and he tells his friend that he finally met his ideal woman — a pure woman, who’s been through a lot of hardship. Soo-hyuk congratulates him, then spits out his coffee when Hae-joon tells him that it’s Mi-mo.

Hae-joon says he wanted to make sure there really is nothing between the two of them. He clocks Soo-hyuk’s hesitation and figures he should be worried, and when Soo-hyuk finally says it’s fine, his voice squeaks. Hae-joon asks if he needs more time to think about it, but Soo-hyuk insists she’s just an old friend.

It’s an obvious lie but Hae-joon takes him at his word, and says he’s headed over to Brave Wedding right now. If Mi-mo accepts his profile, he wants to start dating her. Soo-hyuk nods, but he looks like he wants to cry.

Mi-mo is startled when Hae-joon walks into her office and announces that he wants to get remarried. It’s news to her that he’s a divorcee, and her hands shake uncontrollably as she serves him coffee. He hands over his profile and describes his ideal woman — small, cute, capable of handling different situations, and with lots of life experience.

Mi-mo expands on his requirements, proving that she understands him… and Hae-joon just stares blankly at her. Why does he keep doing that?!

He asks if it’s frustrating to be stared at, and says that he doesn’t think this is the right place for him. He gets up to leave, telling Mi-mo that he’s not signing up with them as a client, because he doesn’t feel she can be objective. Okay, what is his deal?

Mi-mo promises not to hold a grudge or introduce him to anyone strange, but he’s already made up his mind. He walks out leaving Mi-mo confused, though he smiles a bit to himself in the lobby. If that was his idea of flirting with her, it wasn’t funny.

Sure enough, Mi-mo is furious at the way Hae-joon just spoke to her. She grumbles to herself that she may be weak when it comes to love, but as a CEO, he messed with the wrong person.

Soo-hyuk goes to meet his coworker for dinner, which she obviously sees as a date. But Soo-hyuk barely even registers her presence, as he can’t stop thinking about Mi-mo, and Hae-joon’s declaration of interest in her.

Soo-hyuk’s colleague finally demands he listen to her and makes her confession, that she doesn’t just want to just be his college hoobae anymore. That gets his attention, but he lets her down gently, and she takes it gracefully.

Soo-hyuk drives home, growing more and more upset over Hae-joon’s declaration of interest in Mi-mo, and he finally calls her office to see if Hae-joon is still there. She doesn’t answer because she’s waiting in the lobby of Hae-joon’s apartment building.

He-joon grins to himself when he sees her there, and she says she’s here to convince him to sign up with Brave Wedding. She admits he would be a hot commodity, which is why she’s pursuing this after he declined, and quotes his profile back to him to show that she’s serious.

Hae-joon’s response to that is, “I succeeded.” He admits that he went there to show her who he is, but repeats that he won’t be signing up as a client. Mi-mo’s jaw tightens and she accuses him of messing with her, asking one last time why he won’t sign up.

“If I sign up, I can’t date you.” Gulp.

It slowly dawns on Mi-mo what he means, and she asks him why he’s saying this when he already told her he wasn’t interested. Hae-joon just says that he now knows it wouldn’t be a complicated love triangle.

Dazed, Mi-mo asks Hae-joon to pinch her, but he says he would rather do something else. He pulls her into a hug and asks if she believes him now, and Mi-mo just smiles with wonder.

Soo-hyuk arrives at Hae-joon’s building just then, and sees him talking with Mi-mo in the lobby. He starts to charge in and interrupt, but he stops short when he sees his best friend hugging the woman he likes.

COMMENTS

First I have to say, I really love the little vignettes we get at the open of each episode — they give us a cute little peek into what will happen in the next hour, as well as some insight into Mi-mo’s state of mind. Plus, they’re just plain fun!

I’m glad we got to know Dong-mi a little better in this episode — that girl is pretty messed up, huh? Her frustration at being single at her age is understandable, but she talks as if getting married is something she’s owed, as if she deserves a husband before someone who’s already been married once before. Life doesn’t work that way! As I keep saying, you have to be happy with yourself before anyone will be happy with you, and out of all the friends, Dong-mi seems the least happy with herself. I like that she’s got her own style and doesn’t try to be a sweet little meek thing to get a man, but she needs to let go of the idea that life owes her something. She’s desperate, and that will only drive men away. At least she’s learning to relax her too-high standards, and I almost hope she doesn’t end up with a handsome man. Dong-mi fixates a bit too much on looks, and has probably overlooked many very nice men who were interested, just based purely on the physical. High standards aren’t a bad thing to have, in and of themselves, but when they’re so high that very few people could possibly attain them it’s probably time to readjust your expectations.

I love Ae-ran more and more as we learn more about her, and her situation just pulls at my heartstrings. Anyone who’s ever married the wrong person knows those feelings, and it’s hard to love someone, yet also know they’re not right for you. I do believe she loves Dong-bae, but she wants the fire, the passion, and she just doesn’t feel it for him. Part of me hopes she breaks free of what he and her family are pushing for and goes off to find her own passion, and part of me would like to see her discover a passion for him, and be happy with him, because he’s obviously a sweet, attractive man. And now with the pregnancy complication, there’s no telling what she’ll choose for her life – I just hope that whatever it is, it’ truly her choice. Either way, I’m looking forward very much to watching Ae-ran’s story play out.

Da-jung, on the other hand, just completely breaks my heart. She doesn’t want to get divorced, but she’s so blunt and proud, all she can do is stand firm and refuse. She’s not a romantic woman, or given to flights of emotional fantasy, and she’s got a child to take care of. She can’t afford to hope for grand romance, and she knows the chances of a divorced woman with a kid finding love again are slim. So she just clings to a man who no longer wants to be with her, which is probably a big part of why he wants to leave in the first place. I would love to see Da-jung learn to give herself and others a bit of a break, because her life view seems very rigid and unyielding, and she seems extremely unhappy all the time.

And Mi-mo, bless her, is just a hot mess. I liked the comparison of her to a goldfish, with their famous three-second memory. It perfectly describes her tendency to just flit away from heartbreak and look for the next newest thing, without even examining what went wrong the last time. No wonder she’s had so many failed relationships, if she’s never once stopped to try to figure out why it didn’t work out and how she can be different in the future. I’m hoping that Soo-hyuk, having known Mi-mo since their school days (not to mention his instinctive understanding of her) can help her learn to slow down and take a good look at herself.

Because again, the true magic in this show is when Soo-hyuk and Mi-mo get together. After the first episode we haven’t gotten much of them just one-on-one, so I’m really hoping for more of that soon. I loved their discussion about their emotions — so raw and open, each of them admitting something they’ve probably never admitted to anyone before. I doubt they realize yet how very comfortable they feel together, though it’s becoming pretty obvious to us how they just let down all their walls when they’re together. I absolutely swoon at their dynamic, and the way they relate to each other so comfortably already. Regardless of Hae-joon making his intentions known — and I do appreciate the respectful way he handled things with Soo-hyuk, though his manipulation of Mi-mo herself makes me wary of him — it’s Soo-hyuk and Mi-mo’s relationship that most interests me. Now that Soo-hyuk is starting to have real feelings, I’m ready to see him step up and fight for her, even if his opponent is his best friend.

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Why the love triangle is needed here?

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I know righ. After expressly denigrating the love triangle, we're back at it again!

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because it is a comedy/romance, I mean really what com/ro have you seen without some sort of love triangle or square or more made in the last ten years?.
Will Jang Nara and successful story of a bright girl with it 40% plus viewer rating has been pretty much used as a blue print for the gene in Korea for almost 15teen years after all.
Plus if one counts the female Doctor the junior reporter this could well end up a love...what ever a six sided love thing is..lol

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Haha, rightly said. Now that I think of it...really ever rom com is a triangle, square, etc especially with ends like Chilabongie and Jung Hwa..sigh!

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I am loving this show and I am so so happy that LollyPip is recapping it! I now will have others to squee with, cuz this show is really squee-worthy :)

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Thank you LollyPip for recapping and picking up this show. I'm loving it so far. The fortune teller bit was hilarious.

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I'm loving this show! I want more mimo and soohyuk scene.. they are hilarious together!

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Hae Joon is a Prince Charming. But can't deny Soo Hyuk & Mimo's chemistry. Jjaaaang!!

I soo love the flow of this drama, srsly. Escalations are pretty quick. HAHA

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Im totally love it,of course, all for jung kyung ho! :)

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I really like this show. I started out watching this to pass the time between episodes of Cheese in the Trap (ha), but I really enjoy it on its own merits.

I adore Jung Kyung Ho. He's cute and, even in his clean-cut way, awfully sexy. And, while I enjoy all the stories about all the people, I wish there were more scenes with him and Jang Nara together.

I love her character here. She's so brave and honest, she makes me want her to be happy.

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<3

I knew I was in for a really cute drama, but I didn't think it would focus so much on the other girls as well, coming in - which is awesome, because it's like a more mature version of I Need Romance.

I can't agree with all the choices and decisions the characters make, but oh, my heart does hurt for them, and I am very amused. Even if I want to hit them over the head.

A lot of my sister's older friends who are single in their thirties living in Korea do show a lot of signs of being like Dongmi. I can't help but feel sorry for them. There is a middle ground between boring housewife with supposedly perfect life and sexy, free and single (ready to mingle)!!! I'm glad for shows like this.

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So...I am calling it "I Need Romance 4," because, really, it's like yet another one of the franchise. Group of professional women, in their thirties. Check. Women are friends/friendenemies. Check. Lead female is somewhat of a hot mess - check - and has acomplicated love life with two handsome prospects. Check.

But I'm glad it's being recapped here!

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This episode peaked my annoyance with Ae-Ran. Her friends (Da Jung and Dong Mi) are right, she doesn't deserve the pity. She selfishly got herself into this mess, she should get herself out.

I think Soo Hyuk is a long ways from winning Mi Mo over, considering what Mi Mo has for Hae Joon. But it kind of is his fault, after Hae Joon extended a lot of courtesy to him. Clearly he has traumas of his own, and I hope he can heal it as time goes on. I really love his and Mi Mo's banter.

I love Da Jung's personality. So honest, logical and straightforward. It just goes to show, however, that those qualities aren't enough for happiness.

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Oh, and there's no ratings button for this like the last one.

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Ae-ran is the only one I can sympathise with with this quartet of friends (though I offer her no pity). It's her own fault but I'm glad she's being honest. Even if she's pulling out very late and should have known before, it's better for her not to marry if she has doubts – even if the invitations have all been sent out. Of course, with the pregnancy they have now thrown in the single-mother stigma. :-/

<considering what Mi Mo has for Hae Joon

What does she have? An instant infatuation, the second within 48 hours and that's not counting her obsessions over both her ex-husband and her I-thought-he-would-propose-to-me guy, also within the same time period.

<I love Da Jung’s personality. So honest, logical and straightforward.

I have her filed under "clingy" and "proud to the point that she wants a charade of a marriage". It's not her fault her marriage is failing, but you can't force someone to love you and keeping a marriage for sake of appearance gets no sympathy from me.

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"What does she have? An instant infatuation, the second within 48 hours and that's not counting her obsessions over both her ex-husband and her I-thought-he-would-propose-to-me guy, also within the same time period."

It is. But it's still better than what she has for Soo Hyuk. I hope she gets over it soon, though.

"I have her filed under "clingy" and "proud to the point that she wants a charade of a marriage". It's not her fault her marriage is failing, but you can't force someone to love you and keeping a marriage for sake of appearance gets no sympathy from me."

"Even if she’s pulling out very late and should have known before, it’s better for her not to marry if she has doubts – even if the invitations have all been sent out."

I guess we're opposites here. I have no sympathy for Ae-Ran and a lot for Da Jung. Good relationships are built on setting expectations at the start and meeting them. Da Jung kept her end of the bargain, while Ae Ran didn't.

Why should Da Jung suffer through having to split her family apart when it's not her fault? She doesn't even ask her husband to love her back, she just doesn't want the divorce (at least for now).

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>Why should Da Jung suffer through having to split her family apart when it’s not her fault? She doesn’t even ask her husband to love her back, she just doesn’t want the divorce

She loves this guy but doesn't care about what he wants? How is this not her fault?

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In her point of view, it's not about the love anymore, it's about the contract.

And yes, it's definitely not her fault.

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I don't know, I'm finding it equally superficial. It's a crush, not actual like/love and how am I to say that one crush is more valid then another? (At least with SH we could argue there's a childhood connection – kdrama's ever-favoured "fate" element – though personally I think that's irrelevant).

<I have no sympathy for Ae-Ran and a lot for Da Jung. Good relationships are built on setting expectations at the start and meeting them. Da Jung kept her end of the bargain, while Ae Ran didn’t.

Relationships aren't set in stone. People change. A couple might have a wonderful marriage for years, but there might still be a point where they end up divorcing because they don't love each other anymore. Or one doesn't. It's not a life-long bargain – not in my book (I'm not religious).

<Why should Da Jung suffer through having to split her family apart when it’s not her fault?

A marriage/love is two people. It's not a one-sided thing that you can force because you truly believe that this other person is the only one you're fated to be with until eternity.

Plus, no one said it was fair.

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@kuromitsu

I think the show has this similarity with real life - in that, we're all really quick to judge another person with regards to their relationships. With Ae Ran - the fact that her dilemma is about having someone love her and is devoted to her, and that she might be subjecting them to humiliation - it's easy to be hard on her because it seems she's in the position of power and self-indulgence.

But actually, having known some of these real-life Ae Rans, knowing how one feels when faced with lifelong commitment - is really hard. It's a confusion of wanting that perfect relationship, wondering if one should 'settle" because the fairy tale doesn't exist, of guilt, of not wanting to let someone else down, of social pressure including parents, and wondering if they can make it work anyway. It's really brave of her to admit it, instead of being swept along and lying about it. The fact she knelt down in front of him and blamed herself entirely - that's very humble.

In relationships, it's never black and white. There's rarely just a villain - most of the time, people are weak and desiring, and just make mistakes along the way.

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If she didn't even want commitment in the first place, she shouldn't have dated him or accepted to be his fiancee.

I mean, if for a person dating is nothing but finding pleasure or companionship, there's nothing wrong with it. But it can be easily done without having the other person hope for commitment by setting the expectations at the start.

Saying sorry does not solve anything. It's basically her squirming her way out because she was too frivolous in the first place.

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I mean, it was probably the right thing to do at that time, but still, there's absolutely no reason to praise her or to have pity on her.

She was a jerk. She should suffer for it.

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I understand what you're saying, but I think I can empathise with that position where suddenly someone that's absolutely perfect on paper proposes to you. In the moment, the pressure can be intense, because saying no can possibly be the end of the relationship and if you're not sure - it's easy to cave and say yes.

I don't think it's as simple as "being frivolous" - relationships are complex - you can like someone, even love someone and yet feel doubt. But then you can question where that doubt comes from - is it just nerves? Is it something wrong with them, you? It's not that easy - especially in a society that prizes being married as woman's biggest achievement.

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I wonder if it's the actress playing Ae-Ran that prevents me from sympathizing more with the character. Intellectually, I understand that relationships sometimes don't work out, especially in pressure-cooker situations like just before a wedding. Still, I don't get the sense that Ae-Ran has in good faith tried to be happy with her fiancee, and her decision to break off the wedding seems more willful than determined. There's a certain poutiness of expression, a lack of gravitas, that makes it hard to take her seriously. I'm not certain that, if she called off the wedding, she wouldn't regret it a week later....because, I suspect, Ae-Ran's lack of "passion" isn't because of any flaw in the man himself or some predetermined lack of "fit" between the two of them. It's because of something more intrinsic to herself.

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She comes across as Childish and rather spoiled..I am not sure it it just the fact she the baby of the four but she still a woman in her 30 not 20, I just think she not happy at having to 'grow up' more than anything else.

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I'm really getting into this show, which is proving not just to be fun and hilarious, but then slowly drawing out different story lines about love, relationships, expectations and disappointments.

I've always been a fan of Jang Nara, she's just so likeable in all her roles. There's something about the way she plays her characters, with a mix of courage and self-awareness along with their flaws. She also has a lovely way of pulling back from the OTT scenes to give a quiet, honest delivery that really hits you.

The snippets from the dating agency are also fascinating - says so much about the dating scene when one is older (after 30s) where people become more demanding, afraid or jaded.

It's great the show also gives a lot of time to her fellow-ex band mates. Through those characters, there are stories of love and failure from different points in time of the lifespan of a relationship. Their stories are so relatable - worries about "settling" instead of being 100% about a relationship, being stuck in a relationship where something's gone wrong and become inert, or single women who want to be partnered up so much that's all they talk or think about.

The character of Soo Hyuk is also interesting - good to see a story from the other side - what it is like for a single dad who's been out of the dating game for a while.

He and MiMo have a great rapport though - they seem well-matched in verbal sparring as well as general silliness, and also able to share in confidence. I just wish there wasn't that whole 'we have a shared history all the way back till when we were kids" trope - those tropes always suggest some kind of fate, which undermines the story of people trying to reconnect beyond all the barriers they've set up later in life.

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Somehow I still think that sexy times after the faux-marriage thing actually happened. Or at least a prelude to that... I feel that they still haven't showed us everything that happened that night.
I agree, this show is the best when Mi-mo and Soo-hyuk are together, the actors are very organic, both have great comedic timing and are good at more serious, emotional bits.

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"....I do appreciate the respectful way he handled things with Soo-hyuk, though his manipulation of Mi-mo herself makes me wary of him...."

I don't see it as manipulation. He went to the agency to present his resume, to call Mi-mo's attention to his er, qualifications, to see how she'd respond to his being a divorcee. If she still chases him, then he'd declare his intention to date her. It's more dramatic that calling her to ask, I've divorced, do you mind? Right?

Soo-hyuk denied twice to Hae-joon that there's anything between himself and Mi-mo. I want to see him dig himself out of that hole w his bestie later.

Is it becos of the soft lighting and falling petals? Why does Kwon Yul look so delightfully tempting this time around? He was in Roaring Currents, She was Wow, Lie to Me, not even in Let's Eat 2!

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Agree with what you said about hae joon, it seemed like a perfect way to let mimo to know him a bit more

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I agree I don't think it's manipulation, but I also put it down to Have Joon being a bit quirky and an oddball himself. He probably went there to reveal his "qualifications" but also to get a sense of her agency and how she works.

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Of the other girls' stories, I'm least able to buy Dong Mi's predicament the way the writer wants to sell it.

The Queen of Morocco has a head of curly red hair, and she is one of the most gorgeous women on earth. Dong-mi's curly hair doesn't have to be frizzy. If she gets it tamed and styled, AND if she isn't so 'starving', men will fall all over each other trying to get her attention.

Dajung may have a lot of good qualities, but she doesn't seem like much fun to live with. She probably wasn't this way when she was younger tho. We'll find out what turned her into this sourpuss.

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it showed she always had a bad temper even when she was young, that alone could scare off a lot of men, but yeah she still so cute you think men would at lest 'approach' her before getting burned by her temper..ie her hair is red too lol...all red head have fiery temper after all.

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Ah, you are right about her temper. A bad temper and being needy is a lethal combination that can send men running away.
I hope for her sake that she sees the light and her personality undergoes some change. That's much more impt than losing the friz and the glasses.

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This show is freaking hilarious! I know I've said it before, and I'll say it again, the comedic timing and delivery is so spot on, it's great when you're watching an ensemble cast of mature, seasoned actors. It makes the drama so much more enjoyable.

All the characters are flawed and have issues, as LollyPip mentioned in her recap. This would only make the journey to self discovery and acceptance that more enjoyable to watch. Of all the characters, Da Jung is the most tragic, because has no 'give' to her at all. You can't be that unyielding in a relationship, and many times a relationship does NOT need brutal honesty to survive. It's hard to be married to someone unwilling to compromise, who is so rigid. I believe her husband still loves her, but is fed up with living with her and so he wants out. They could benefit fom couple's counseling.

As for Ae Ran, she needs to stop putting her idea of love in front of the love that already exists right in front of her face. Love comes in many different flavors, shapes and forms. Not all romantic love is blindingly passionate, some romantic love is soft and comfortable and easy. Obviously, sexual attraction exists between them enough for them to sleep with each other for her to be pregnant. My fear is that she's so fixated on what she wants: wild, passionate, love, that she's overlooking the sweet, gentle man that's right before her.

It could also be that she's flighty and nervous about settling down and both her mom and fiance know this. I choose to believe that her mother's suggestion for her to marry first then divorce later (horrible, horrible advice by the way) which was strangely similar to fiancé's "let's give it a trial marriage for one year" was because they both hoped that once Ae Ran is married, she'd finally settle down and overcome her nerves and misgivings.

And they could both be wrong, and she's not in the right relationship or with the right parner. Some women like strong, dominant alpha men instead of the gentle, beta type. A broken engagement is always better than a broken marriage.

As for the love triangle between Soo Hyuk, Mi Mo and Hae Joon. Soo hyuk has only himself to blame, because he caused the whole mess by being dishonest about his feelings. Or let's just say he didn't realize his feelings in time? Remember, Hae Joon asked him multiple times if there were feelings between Soo Hyuk and Mi Mo, and Soo Hyuk kept denying it every time. Well...all's fair in love and all that...

Go Dong Mi remains my favorite character in the show and I must say Yoo In Na is playing her to perfection. My guess is that she hasn't yet found someone she shares a mutual attraction with. Once she does, looks will take a back seat as the relationship progresses.

Love, love, love the relationship Soo Hyuk has with his son (more like two pals rather than parent and child) and their conversation in the last episode. It's so modern, so...

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Love, love, love the relationship Soo Hyuk has with his son (more like two pals rather than parent and child) and their conversation in the last episode. It's so modern, so American, for a moment I forgot I was watching a kdrama!

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New drama addict and first time poster here, although I have lurked for awhile. I am really enjoying this drama - it makes me laugh out loud so often! I can't wait to see the growth in the characters as they realize how they are holding themselves back from fuller and richer lives.

Thank you for choosing to recap the entire series - I gain so much insight from reading your thoughts and others comments. As someone who didn't grow up in the Korean culture, I am learning a lot from all of you!

Cheers!

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Jang Nara should do a sageuk she looks so pretty in hanbok. Yoo In Na is really hilarious here! Dong-mi is probably my favorite.

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Thanks for taking up the recapping of this show LollyPip! You're certainly a hard-worker... almost all caught up now!!!

I am agreeing with those who've said this...in just 48 hours... to have run the gauntlet of experiences that take most people a lifetime! Totally shocking but what a good drama it makes!! LOL! Mi Mo's straightforward style strikes me with horror, amusement, dismay and disbelief. So now we're at the back to dating phase ... all she needs now to round out her experiences is a 'Fated to Love You'-styled unexpected pregnancy... might she discover that in the next 48 hours? :D

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Isn't the fortune teller a rapper and producer in real life? I think that was part of the joke of his cameo. I think he worked with Tablo a few times, Korean rap-music fans help me out with a name.

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It's muzie. :)

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He was on King of Mask Singer, did extremely well -- very nice voice!

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Love the show, love the caracters. I spend 2 hours each week grinning from ear to ear.
Only negative in my opinion, as s/o here said, is the "we knew each other in elementary school". I'm fed up with this trope.
Otherwise, I wanted to add big huge kudos to the make-up artist and the lighting on this drama.
It's absolutely fabulous, the actors look even more gorgeous than usual.
When Doc was saying Mi Mo was not beautiful enough to get between him and his friend, I shouted at the screen. No way anybody in their right mind could say this about Jang Nara in this drama.

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I am hoping someone has the answer:

Does anyone know the name and artist of the song played in the background when Mi-mo and Soo-hyuk were on the bench talking. When Soo-hyuk said he heard about the events at the hospital and had told Hae-joon the reality of their relationship. The song was sung in English.

Any help is appreciated!!! Thanks in advance.

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I LOVE THAT SONG!!! It's somehow sad and beautiful. I was searching for that song by typing the lyrics on google but found nothing literally. Then someone on a comment section told me (God bless her) it was Elsa Kopf’s If. But still it's nowhere to be found haha. I think we have to wait till it's officially released

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This drama is so bad, it's trying too hard to be funny, that it's not funny anymore. Falling for soon jung's humor is so much better than this...

the acting feel force... Feel bad for Jung Kyung Ho again trap in a bad drama. At least falling for SOon Jung is a nice change after heartless city

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I love this drama so much! The writer takes stock characters and gives them such thoughtful layers that make them so human and relatable. I adore all the characters, but I relate to Dongmi on a spiritual level. Yoo Inna is killing it right now. I was a little disappointed at the prospect that she won't get together with the doctor, but maybe it will happen? *fingers crossed*

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I love this drama so much, I think each character has their own problems and they bring something good to the show...

The leads are awesome together I'm looking forward to see more of them...

Thanks for the recap

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thanks for the recap:)

MM's drinking buddy is SH, although she's the only one taking chugs, hahahahhaaa... their conversations during these sessions are honest assessment of what they feel or how they view the world, luv it:)

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I died when Muzie made his cameo. There are some truly funny moments, but like many have mentioned, there are some genuine heart-felt moment as well. I'm surprised at Mimo's frankness and optimism. But when I stop to think about it, she's actually the most practical one of the group. She falls fast, and she doesn't waste any time hesitating. It was how she was when she's little and she remained the same despite being hurt by rejection and failed relationships. I like Jang Nara, but I always feel like her acting gets call into question because of the limited roles she's played. But I really feel the mastery of her craft in Mimo, and it's not because I like her as an actress. I do think rom-com is where she's the most effective. She's natural at being off-beat and ridiculous here, and I think her chemistry with Jung kyungho made their banter much more entertaining to watch. They both have really great timing and ad-libs.

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I can not believe you all were going to drop recapping this show.

Finding it cute and somewhat relatable and gives me an insight into what people are thinking in the dating world.

My one wish is that this goes against all drama trends and the second male lead gets the girl. Just this once? Please...

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"My one wish is that this goes against all drama trends and the second male lead gets the girl. Just this once?"
-As much as I love this idea in concept, I can't wish it this time. She has far more chemistry with the lead than she does with the second lead. Only School 2015 has made me want this outcome.

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I already love Mimo and Soo Hyuk together so much! I was disappointed when their "marriage" ended without much trouble and now the doctor guy is in the way, and I'm pretty meh about him. It's obvious to me that MM and SH are meant for each other (as characters and also fated by the drama gods), so I can't invest in her new relationship. I hope I don't have to wait for episodes and episodes for the relationship I actually care about to develop.

As for the other girls... I don't hate anyone, but I don't like anyone either. My least favorite is Dang Mi. This is the first time I have ever disliked Yoo Inna in any role, but her character is just SO shallow. She better reveal some hidden depths soon, or she'll start to get truly aggravating.

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Wait, i recognize that fortuneteller... Muzie! isnt he making a cameo? hes a real rapper so his fortune teller rapper image is more hilarious! With many many many years watching dramas, i know how divorced ppl are seeing by society but it still upsets me... Its kinda weird how Dongmi thinks she deserves to have a super hot BF or husband more than a divorced woman! shes pretty much thinking people like her friend Mimo, whos a divorcee, don't deserve being loved again?
and whats weirder: even Mimo, who is divorced, doesnt want a "divorced man", sees that as a flaw but expects a bachelor to accept her even when shes divorced? its sooo weird and I guess thats part of the growing they need to do before the show ends but I hope they actually touch the topic with a heart.
I want to see more about the friends cuz rn Im not really liking them... its so weird how ive always liked Yoo In Na even as a villain/frenemy in Best Love and YFAS but here, I dont like her that much! Still, Im positive theyll give us more details about them so we can understand them

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I watched this show to fill in time while waiting for Cheese. Didn't think much of the first episode, but now after this episode, I'm so onboard! It's hilarious and I'm liking the different image I'm seeing of Jang Nara from "I Remember You" :D

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I think more and more have come to see that while Jang Nara may make a lot of the Com/Rom type drama, each and every one of her character are difference from each other, you never get her acting her character/role the same way as you see so many other actress do, no names mentioned :-)

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How do you have sex with a person and bear his baby when you know that you are aware that you may not love him?

And I am not even talking about onen-night stands here....

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happy that it's being recapped!!!

I didn't want to jump back into a drama but too late for that. I have to agree, friend's way of getting mimo's attention annoyed me. I loved how frank she was when she confessed her attraction to him and so I couldn't understand why he took that weird route. Really? She already confessed, what more did you need to do than explain the situation.

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1. It is not weird for a patient, in a hospital, to be wearing a gown or underwear or nothing at all.

2. It is weird for a doctor to give a patient his white coat. Why not a spare pair of scrubs. Or a patient gown.

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Well, no one else has stated what seems to me the obvious, so here goes: I think more happened on that drunken wedding night than they're conveniently not remembering and guess who will turn out to be pregnant!

And will she learn she is in enough time to know who the father is?

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is it my imagination or is there a chance that Hae Joon will end up with Dong-Mi? The way he was so interested in her conversation with Mi Mo at the hospital and how he giggled when she ripped off Mi Mo's hospital gown was pretty obvious, wasn't it? Hae Joon is so cool and smart and Dong Mi so neurotic and disorganized that I think he and Dong Mi would make a great pair!

I like the balance of light and heavy emotional in this drama. Previous chick lit dramas like "can we love", the "I need romance 1- 3" franchise , "marriage, not dating" etc were either too fluffy or too heavy. OMHE seems to have struck the right balance so far, thanks mainly to JKH and Jang Nara's heartfelt acting.

And on to JKH - he who can do not wrong! He's such a great actor - he actually cameoed as a newscaster in the webdrama "High End crush", rattling off ludicrous new reports and he looked like he was really hamming it up and enjoying it ! His role here is totally different from Heartless City but as always, he delivers (fangirling) :)

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Commenting VERY late in the game, into my 4th anniversary rewatch of the series. It striking that they gave Mi-mo *eleven* past failed relationships. In K-drama world (of 'never dated before' beautiful women hitting 30) that sounds grossly excessive but in the real world for pretty, outgoing, messed-up people who drink alot that seems about average.

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