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1% of Anything: Episode 5

Our couple is starting to take small steps toward a genuine connection, and are slowly learning what the other person wants in a relationship as they try to adjust their own expectations bit by bit. We see more hilarious antics and priceless facial expressions, but there are also quieter moments of camaraderie and closeness that bode well for the future—if only our hero can find a way to keep his foot out of his mouth long enough to get there.

 
EPISODE 5: “Just Like Everyone Else: Starting to do things I’ve never done”

A young woman bursts into Da-hyun’s bedroom, startling her awake. She’s looking for a man—Da-hyun’s mother has told her about her boyfriend, and she’s here on Mom’s behalf to make sure they’re not living together before marriage. This is Da-hyun’s friend JUNG HYUN-JIN (Im Do-yoon), and she’s flabbergasted when Da-hyun grumbles that she shouldn’t have let “that idiot” talk to her mother. “You mean you really have a man?” Hyun-jin gasps. Da-hyun admits that does, more or less, and tells her stunned friend to go away.

Jae-in arrives at work, and his grandfather calls him on the red phone on his desk. Grandpa wants to have lunch, but Jae-in refuses and reprimands him for using the Red Line for such a trivial reason. Grandpa says its Jae-in’s fault for ignoring his other calls. Jae-in says he knows it’s not just lunch he wants, and warns that he’s not coming back to the main branch. Grandpa tells him to think of his mother, but Jae-in retorts that Grandpa is the one who made her cry the most. He says he has something very important to focus on these days and hangs up.

Angrily, Grandpa accuses Lawyer Park of being on Jae-in’s side, unlike Employee Kang, who is a mole planted by Grandpa. He rages, asking if Jae-in is really dating Da-hyun, and if so, why she hasn’t taught him any manners yet. Oy.

Over at Da-hyun’s place, Hyun-jin scoffs at the fact that she’s got a dating contract of all things—until she sees whose name is on it. Calling him “that crown prince,” she changes her tune immediately and tells Da-hyun to just live with him. “Trip him, kiss him, and then sleep with him,” she commands. “But make sure you use contraception!” Da-hyun throws a pillow at Hyun-jin and warns her to keep all this a secret from Mom.

Hyun-jin agrees, excitedly asks what Jae-in is like, and if she’s kissed him. Correctly interpreting Da-hyun’s silence, she gasps, “You? Kissed a man?”

Hyun-jin drops Da-hyun off at an orphanage where she helps out and plays with the kids. She apologizes to the director for not having come as often lately, and gives her the good news that Ji-soo has been able to escape from his slave contract. The director has heard, and says that Ji-soo comes by and sends the kids presents, as he thinks of them as his younger siblings. (Ah, so that’s how Da-hyun knows him).

Da-hyun meets Jae-in at an art gallery for their date, but she turns and hides her face when she sees someone with a camera. Jae-in tells her there are no reporters, but she says he can’t know that. And besides, she doesn’t know what he might do after the suffering he put her through at the concert.

He objects to her words, saying they’re too harsh for a teacher—he grew up without hearing those kinds of words. Da-hyun says that explains it; he wasn’t disciplined properly growing up. Her kids would never dream of acting like Jae-in.

He asks if she kicks her students the way she kicked him, but she replies that her students are very well-mannered. Da-hyun sets off on her own, but Jae-in puts his arm around her and says they should walk together. “Right,” says Da-hyun resignedly. “We’re dating, after all.”

Among the paintings is one of a mother cradling a child, and Jae-in stops, struck by it. Da-hyun comments that he only goes to these kinds of events—doesn’t his hotel sponsor dance performances? He tells her he isn’t here for work, but because he knows one of the artists; it’s his aunt’s husband. She asks why he doesn’t just refer to him as his uncle then.

The foreign man we saw in Jae-in’s flashback appears, and Jae-in greets him in English, complimenting his paintings. The man thanks him, and says his mother couldn’t come, but she misses him. Jae-in smiles and says that he understands. Once the man leaves, Da-hyun asks if his aunt remarried (the word used here for “uncle” refers to a blood relation). Jae-in says yes, but Da-hyun wonders to herself at the reference to “your mother,” having picked up on that detail.

A young man who has been watching them for a few minutes comes over to say hello to Da-hyun. She greets him brightly as “Sun-woo Oppa,” and he asks what she’s doing there. Jae-in says stiffly that he brought her. Da-hyun introduces him as Hyun-jin’s older brother, and at Jae-in’s baffled look, Sun-woo clarifies, “My younger sister is Da-da’s best friend.” He nudges Da-hyun and says the two of them have a pretty special relationship too. She smiles uncomfortably.

Jae-in puts his arm around her and says their relationship can’t be that special since Da-hyun hasn’t mentioned him—and besides, he won’t acknowledge any male friends of his girlfriend. Sun-woo counters that it looks like they haven’t been dating long, and obviously, Da-hyun didn’t fall for him first. Jae-in says that time isn’t the important thing between a man and a woman, and it’s not only love at first sight that counts as love; he and Da-hyun have already started. Flustered, Da-hyun denies that it’s love.

As they walk to the car, Jae-in reminds her that she can’t see other men. She says Sun-woo is just her friend’s brother, but Jae-in says he won’t allow it, and that she must ignore him. Da-hyun replies that it’s not something he has the right to allow or not; she won’t ignore someone she’s known for over ten years. He grabs her arm and asks if she’s still going to see him, and warns that it’ll be a breach of contract if she does. She protests that he’s just an oppa she knows, but Jae-in bristles at the word “oppa,” leaning in closer until she agrees to rethink it. He backs off, and she mutters that he’s the king of devils.

In the art gallery, Jae-in’s uncle’s daughter asks him where Jae-in is, and is disappointed to find out he just left. Elsewhere, Tae-ha meets his father, who is seeing off a Chairman Han; the latter asks Tae-ha if he’d like to become his son-in-law, and Tae-ha’s father seems very agreeable.

Once the chairman leaves, Tae-ha’s father asks if he’s found out anything about Jae-in’s girlfriend. Tae-ha says that all he knows is that she must be out of the ordinary, since Jae-in has blocked any media coverage of her. His dad deduces that Grandpa must also know about this, and tells Tae-ha to put a tail on her so they can find out who she is.

In the car, Jae-in asks about Hyun-jin. Da-hyun tells him they’ve been best friends since middle school and were neighbors until college. She starts to mention Sun-woo Oppa, but then remembers Jae-in’s objections and grumbles to herself. Jae-in says that she doesn’t need to see him or talk about him, leaving Da-hyun to just shake her head at him in exasperation.

When they get to Da-hyun’s home, all of her neighbors are standing outside because all of the apartments in the building next door got robbed. Her neighbor says that of course Da-hyun doesn’t need to feel unsafe since she has a reliable boyfriend. Jae-in follows her up to her door uninvited, commenting on every detail as if he’s never seen an apartment building before, even asking if she double-locks her door.

He follows her in and looks around, checking her window and telling her that she’ll have to install some bars on it. He checks the back window too, saying someone could climb up to it using the gas pipe, and she peers over his shoulder. Feeling her behind him, he turns with a slight smile on his face and she backs away, sitting back on the table as he comes closer. She asks hesitantly if he’s going to leave, and he puts his arm around her waist and pulls her close, saying he will. “What are you doing?” she asks nervously.

“Kissing you,” he says with a smile, and moves in. She stays still, but pulls away awkwardly at the last moment so his lips land on her cheek. He stands up straight again, looking disappointed. She asks again if he isn’t going to leave, and he tells her to lock all the doors after he goes, and to call him if something happens. She nods slowly. He pauses before he goes and tells her with a sigh to remove “these weird things” from the walls, referring to all the pictures of Ji-soo. Ha.

Once he’s gone, Da-hyun drops to the floor, eyes wide, and lightly slaps her cheeks as she tells herself that she did well. She puts both hands over her heart. Jae-in smiles to himself as he drives away.

Lawyer Park tells Jae-in that Grandpa has accused him of being a double agent. Jae-in scoffs at this hypocrisy, since he knows Employee Kang is Grandpa’s spy. Lawyer Park has a message for Jae-in: stop taking Da-hyun to concerts and art galleries and date like everyone else. Jae-in says that’s what he’s doing, but Layer Park says that’s business, not dating. Jae-in remembers Da-hyun’s words to the same effect on their first date.

Lawyer Park tells Jae-in that there are lots of things for a man and women to do when they’re dating. “You mean sleep with her?” asks Jae-in. He thinks it’s early for that, plus, Da-hyun’s a hard girl to seduce. (I swear, this guy has a one-track mind.) Lawyer Park says no, he means dating. Have they even seen a movie together? Does Jae-in text her, or buy her flowers? Have they walked together holding hands? At his friend’s silence, Lawyer Park shakes his head and calls him pathetic.

Once home, Jae-in looks at his stuffed piggy keychain, fingering her initials (aw, he put his car keys on it!). He glances at the model set Da-hyun bought for him, and picks up his phone. Da-hyun is tracing Jae-in’s initials on her own keychain when her phone rings, but it’s Ji-soo, asking for tutoring help. So when Jae-in calls, he gets her voicemail, and he wonders who she’s talking to at this late hour. When she’s done, Da-hyun’s phone rings again, and she answers it, expecting Ji-soo again.

It’s Jae-in, and he’s not happy to be called by Ji-soo’s name, or to realize he’s the one she’s been talking to until now. He asks suspiciously if she’s dating him. Da-hyun laughs and asks why she would date him; he’s only twenty-one, and she’s just his fan club president. Besides, she can’t let her “Ji-soo-nim” be caught up in a scandal. Jae-in rolls his eyes.

She asks why he’s calling at this hour, and he says he wanted to date like other people. He reminds her again that he’s not okay with her having any other men in her life, no matter what her relationship is with them. “Do other people date with these kinds of restrictions, too?” asks Da-hyun. “I wouldn’t know. It’s my first time talking on the phone this late,” says Jae-in, with a laugh that seems both shy and proud. She smiles on the other end. (Okay, that’s really cute.)

Midnight passes with the two still talking, Da-hyun lying on her bed and Jae-in sitting on the floor. He asks if she wants to go to a movie next time, and she asks if it’s hosted by his hotel again—or does he know one of the actors? He says exasperatedly that that’s not it; he simply wants to go to a movie. Da-hyun smiles wide. He asks her if she locked her doors, and she says yes, but suddenly she hears the sound of someone trying to open her front door.

She tells Jae-in, and he says to call the cops—he’ll be right over. But it’s just Hyun-jin wanting to spend the night, and Da-hyun tells him so before she says goodnight. Jae-in grumbles his annoyance at Hyun-jin and all her family members. Hyun-jin asks Da-hyun if she was on the phone with Ji-soo again, and tells her exasperatedly that he’s just her student. Da-hyun says that she wasn’t and reminds Hyun-jin that she’s dating, which she says with a big smile and in a singsong voice. Hyun-jin delightedly teases her.

As the night wears on, Jae-in works on the model Da-hyun bought for him. Hyun-jin (having taken over Da-hyun’s bed while the latter sleeps on the floor, heh) tells her friend that she heard about Jae-in from Sun-woo. Da-hyun tells her to make sure Sun-woo keeps his mouth shut about it. Hyun-jin asks if Da-hyun still has feelings for her brother, but Da-hyun says that was ten years ago, when she didn’t know Sun-woo was a player.

Tae-ha’s mother wonders to her husband why Grandpa isn’t saying anything even though he knows Jae-in has a girlfriend, especially after the big fuss that happened when Jae-in rejected Chairman Han’s daughter and moved out of the house.

That weekend, Da-hyun watches Ji-soo dance at his studio, and he tells her happily that the lawyer has sorted everything out and will find him a new agency; he’s even going to an audition next week. She squeals excitedly and gives him a hug, but then backs up, saying she shouldn’t do this to Ji-soo-nim.

He pulls her back into his arms, hugging her tight and thanking her for everything. She pats his back encouragingly, but then remembers Jae-in telling her she can’t have any other men in her life and pulls back, telling Ji-soo it was due to his own efforts and those of “that ajusshi.” He thinks she’s referring to Lawyer Park, but she says it’s another ajusshi—the Psycho Devil King, who she’s meeting a bit later.

Lawyer Park drops by Jae-in’s office to ask if he has time for lunch, but Jae-in has plans already with Da-hyun. Lawyer Park asks what kind of woman Da-hyun is, and Jae-in says he can come with him if he’s curious.

In the elevator, Lawyer Park asks Jae-in if this time feels special; Jae-in says it feels normal, but his friend says he’s changed. Jae-in’s been seeing her for a while—doesn’t he have some feelings for her? Jae-in replies that she’s just not bad, that’s all. He describes her as a typical teacher, tacky and old-fashioned, but who surprisingly has lots of men around her. He calls her a player, and his friend smirks knowingly.

They exit the elevator, and it empties out behind them to reveal Da-hyun standing in the back. She glares after him. “Not bad? Tacky? Old-fashioned? I’ll show you what a real fox looks like. You’re dead meat,” she promises. She marches into the clothing store where Hyun-jin works, and her friend helps her pick out an outfit.

Arriving at a restaurant, the two friends sit down, and Lawyer Park remarks that this is the most Jae-in has ever told him about a woman. Jae-in says she’s the same now as she was when he met her, and he has a feeling she’ll be the same in ten years, and that’s what he likes about her.

Jae-in just starts to say that she’s late and probably lost again when she walks in, sporting a fancy dress and hairdo. He stands up and stares at her in shock.

 
COMMENTS

We saw some strides in this episode from both Jae-in and Da-hyun, steps toward each other that bode well for an actual relationship, and hopefully one that will last beyond the end of their contract. On Jae-in’s side, he’s starting to figure out (with much help from the people around him) what it means to really care for someone, instead of the shallow interactions he’s had with women in the past. It’s a bit of a running joke in the show that his first thought when someone talks about progress with Da-hyun is always sleeping with her, but it also illustrates the sad lack of intimacy in his life. His distance from his biological mother and her family, whether it’s true abandonment or a case of her stepping back from her son’s life because she thinks he’s better off without her, has left him with a lack of maternal affection that his adoptive mother couldn’t make up for. Perhaps her guilt at having taken him away from his birth mother in order to heal from her own loss is the reason why Jae-in was never really disciplined growing up. She clearly loves him, but it’s just as clear that he had a very lonely childhood, and even as an adult, he’s isolated from almost everyone in his life.

That’s why it’s lovely to see him opening up to Da-hyun and making an effort to “date like other people,” even if his boorish ways still drive me a bit crazy. He’s totally fallen for her, even if he’s so emotionally stunted that he’s unable to admit his feelings out loud—and she’s definitely going to make him pay for that in the next episode. But I feel like we’re basically in Lawyer Park’s position as viewers, watching Jae-in fall in love without even realizing it and steadily cheering him on. I liked this episode’s almost-kiss even more than the earlier kiss because there was real feeling on both sides, but my favorite moment was actually at the end of the episode, when Jae-in told his friend what he likes about Da-hyun: She’s consistent, and he has the feeling she won’t change even after ten years. That moved me, because it implies both the abandonment he’s felt from people close to him all his life, and the hope he’s starting to feel that she’ll stay with him for years into the future.

Da-hyun, on the other hand, was as adorable and spunky as usual, and yet with an added layer of feeling underneath her snark that was really well-acted by Jeon So-min. You could see her awareness of him slowly blossoming over the epsiode—and I loved that the first real romantic tension on her part came during a moment when Jae-in was expressing his concern for her well-being. She’s clearly a person who values sincerity, and who requires trust in order to become physically affectionate with a man. That moment in her apartment was the first time she moved close to him of her own free will, and it was clear that he noticed that as well and was moved by it. And despite her dismissal of him after the near-kiss, she’s obviously starting to feel at least the stirrings of physical attraction, judging by her week knees and racing heart.

I also really liked the nighttime phone conversation between the two of them, in which Jae-in finally made some concessions to dating like real people—the implications of which didn’t seem to be lost on her, judging by her huge smile. As we were reminded in flashback, she told him during their first date that his combination of their dates with work was a clear indication of his lack of interest in her, and the change now means he really is falling for her. Even their bickering is falling into more of a comfortable banter and losing the hostile edge that they started out with when they first met. All of which makes her angry reaction to Jae-in’s insults in the elevator all the more understandable. I’m not quite sure what her new outfit is supposed to accomplish, but I’m certainly looking forward to Da-hyun making him eat his words—and maybe even admit his feelings.

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I like this show because it's sweet. (I don't know why I would call a guy like him, sweet. But I think he's going to be before this ends.)

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All that hand grabbing and dragging puts me off big time. I yearn for the moment when one of those women just troughs a huge fit or calls the police when the dude tries to drag her away. Or just does something different then walking with them.

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I remember that happen in the OG,
I forget what episode but I remember that episode also about how Jae In complaint that Dada has too many men who like her and consider to date her,
the police came and warn JI, the patrol police,
hope that's also gets adapted,

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@Sancheezy

I've been wanting to ask you on WWW post - what's OG?

I had guessed 'older generation' but that's probably wrong, LOL. Is it something to do with 'original'?

I'd really like to see that episode! Where are the videos?

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I used it to shorten OG= Original... sorry,
sometimes I used it and sometimes I didn't..

So I look it up, it's on the end of ep 4, on minuete 41: 45...
that's the only police appearance I remember for now

*I hope this still count on the comment policy, mods can remove if this is a spoiler.

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Thank you @Sancheezy :D

I'll go and check it out now.

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I've watched the part. I think the writer was definitely conveying the message that dragging a woman along is not right. Since it's the same writer who's doing this remake, I can only hope Jae In is all set up to get his ass kicked. Even if it's not immediately, it will come and it'd better be soon.

Interestingly, I read a comment on soompi that people should get over the wrist grabbing thing. The argument is that it's something sort of 'acceptable' in Korea. I am confused because this show, both the original and new show that it isn't. Otherwise, Dada wouldn't have written it into her contract. Yet, that comment got me thinking if it's possible that taking a woman by her wrist is the same as taking her by her hand, at least in Korea? For me, the issue isn't just about the grabbing of the wrist but rather the whole idea of pulling or dragging someone along. Doesn't matter which part of the body.

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@ET that's interesting,
I actually familiar with the motion a lot when we go to some place, it's not the dragging motion but a motion to asked people to follow us, like a mum that helps their kids cross the road, they held the hands, mum did it a lot to make their child moves,
my friend did it a lot to me to cross the road so we are not separate, but idk in Korea for general,
there's Eat Your Kimchi video about Korean Dramas: Expectations vs Reality ,
and they said the same that in SK, people just holding the hand, lead by a hand,

>> Sometimes it’s just like a “hey, come with me to grab a coffee” kind of non-aggressive wrist grab but, and it doesn’t happen often, we have 100% seen girls being lead by the wrist down the street by a guy in a “COME WITH MEEEEEEEE” kind of way. It usually seems like they’re either fighting, play fighting, or drunk but yes, we have totally seen it.<<

but in my experience, it's not the same action like in a drama, no one did it by force, it's a slight holding hand and you stop did it after the person got the message, exceeept you like to hold hands

and I think that's back to the definition they talk before in ep4 (?)
I remember Dada said not to pull her or grab her wrist and he resorted to brushed it as the holding hand/skinship mode,
that's why I hope the writer can realise it and make it unacceptable since the character already defines it differently,
we need the 3rd party to tell them the right way.

http : //www.eatyourkimchi.com/korean-dramas-expectations-vs-reality
https : //www.youtube.com/watch?v=UuRcWR8tZVo

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Yeah, his controlling behaviour (not just the dragging her around, but ordering her not to talk to other men? Ugh) is very, very offputting. I find it hard to move past if I'm honest. It's one thing that they could've left out of this version. I hate it so much, but the rest is kind of cute so I'm trying very hard to get over it.

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This is EXACTLY how I feel.

I'm loving the main actress and actor in this. Their portrayals of their characters are surprisingly nuanced for such a fluffy drama. But oh my GLOB am I getting sick of him being jealous and controlling. The wrist-grabbing and the constant dismissal of her boundaries is not cute or sexy, it's just awful. Him getting jealous about the other men in her life is controlling and gross. And, unlike the recapper, I was NOT a fan of either of his kisses. Both times, he has obtained them by setting her off balance and making her uncomfortable. It's "cute" in the drama because we know he's not actually going to force himself on her, but in real life, there is nothing cute about this interaction. I want him to be making her comfortable with him physically, not backing her into a metaphorical corner where she has no option but to kiss him. Ugh, I don't like it. >_<

And yet, I will probably keep watching this, because it is so refreshing to see a female lead actually call the male lead out on his shit and to do it in the way a normal person would. And like I said at the beginning: I really, really like these actors, as well as the overall tone of the drama. But dang, I do wish they would drop the menacing physicality on the lead actor's part.

PS - I kinda ship Da-hyun and Lawyer Park. I feel like had a lo of chemistry in the one scene they had together in Episode 1, and I like Lawyer Park's ideas about dating. He seems like a keeper, plus he's super handsome!

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When DaDa and KoD (King of Devils) are on screen together this drama works. With the shortened episode length, thank goodness, the writer has chosen to maximize their time together. Though the orphanage scene was important to establish DaDa's relationship to Ji-Soo, I found myself wanting it to end quicker so they could have their next date. I do have two minor complaints about the show. I wish he would play his character a little less "stalkerish". His reaction to Sun-Woo was too over the top and should be dialed back a half notch. May be he could play his character as the PoD (Prince of Devils) instead of KoD? My second complaint is the confusing character relationships. As best as I can tell, KoD calls his biological mother "aunt". He also calls his stepfather "his aunt's husband". So the video call from his "cousin" was actually from his stepsister. Is anyone else confused?

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so yeah, the cousin and the stepsister is the same girl,
I think the theory or illegitimate son still exist,
KOD is the son of his bio mum and Lee (dad), that's how he is still the oldest Lee Grandson,
his bio mum drops him off at the Lee house and re-married with another guy.
Since he becomes Lee family now,
he called his adoptive mum : a mother and his bio mum : an auntie.. to differentiate their status.

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I also think so.

I am used to this term because traditionally for the Chinese, children who are fostered or given away for adoption call their biological moms "Aunt". It reflects the status more than real relationship ties.

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I forgot to add - I know that this happens when the adoption is within the family. Can't comment if it's outside.

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- the sounds effect is hilarious, the "ah" every time her friend mention sleep make is so obvious, the "cling" effect, when her friend guess something right also, timed perfectly

- the small comment Jae In makes, like when he said she is funny for not knowing the places, he knew she is on time, the comment on the staircase, him saying not gonna touch her, well it's a tiny progress but I need the progress to keep happening

- the development on Jae In birth mother also progress, so his birth mother married again?

- I hope they keep making Jae In possessiveness as ridicolous things, Dada should keep protesting!! he should realised it's wrong even when he has abandonment issue.
but I think it's the word "oppa" that trigger him, if Dada calls Jae In as oppa, he would probably stop protesting,

- I also like the Jisu intercepting mode, he needs to learn and it's good enough reason to make the phone call come through (I am assuming they used kakao or line and not networking cause there's something call conference call, you'll know someone called you even if you are on the phone)

- I think the length of the skirt make Dada has the "tacky" impression based on Ji statement

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Yea, i reaaalllly want to enjoy this fluffy show but all that dragging by the wrist and the n

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Whoops...and the need to control eho she can and cant talk to, what she can or cant wear SCREAMS abusive relationship. She is a great character but the fact that she is beginning to listen and follow his "rules" just...makes me sad.

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We are now in abuse territory. Isolating the victim from friends and family, dictating every aspect of her life (and wrist grabbing of course).
Unfortunately she has stopped calling him on it and is even falling for him!
Not the right message. Abuse is not love. Run away!

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Totally, totally agree! For me, these red flags are not cute at all! You are so right when you say "not the right message"! And I hate that the writer has let the character become "OK" with it. BAD, BAD message!!

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Precisely! I understand the reason why Jae-In is shown like this, i.e. he is emotionally stunted as he has never before been in an intimate relationship like this. So he is almost like a child in his possessiveness. MINE, MINE, MINE.
However, what the writers are doing in the process is romaticising abusive relationships. No, it is not my first kdrama and I understand you have to suspend your logic when viewing a lot of rom-coms but this is dangerous territory. If they are going to carry on having Jae-in acting like a spoiled child they should have also kept Da-Da consistent in the sense that she carries on calling on his behaviour from which he can learn how to treat people with respect and learn how to make meaningful connections. However, she is beginning to become subdued and take his words as rules so it's hard to root for this show at the moment...BUT there are still some realllllly cute moments in the show so I guess file this under guilty pleasure?

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I agreed. While I do enjoyed to a certain extend the tropes and cliches that can be found in Kdramas (it's part of its charms), it would be good to have the problematic aspects of these tropes acknowledge or address. Having DaDa called out Jae In's unreasonable demands was a step in the right direction, but this was negated when she then falls in line with what he wants. There are always concessions and compromises in relationships and they could have had DaDa agreeing to stop calling what's his name "oppa" so as to remove the intimacy that the form of address creates, but refusing to cut him out of her life altogether because that demand is patently ridiculous. The problem with some of kdramas' relationship is that nobody seems to talk. They bickered, yelled, whined and complained, but seems incapable of having a genuine conversation like actual adults.

The leads have lovely chemistry and the show has the potential to be cute, but letting Jae In gets away with his over the top possessiveness just sent the message that it's Ok (or worse, that this kind of behaviour is "romantic") and it's starting to mar my enjoyment of the drama.

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YES! I really wanted to watch a light rom-com but this is too close to reality of what comes across as abuse but they are romanticizing it. It is hard to watch and think "aw, cute he is acting like this because he is falling for her" when in reality we know how quickly it can turn ugly. The question is: do I stop watching or watch in the hope the show improves?

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The question is: do I stop watching or watch in the hope the show improves?

This is the crux of the matter isn't it? Do I continue to watch and tacitly support the problematic underlying message or do I put my foot down and demand change? I guess it's up to the individual to decide. If it helps, I guess as an international viewer my watching of the show doesn't contribute to the rating so I'm not technically supporting shows with similar message getting green-lit. And I guess acknowledging the problem and calling it out instead of making excuses for why it OK for male leads to act like abusive ass (I see this too often) helps. That's all we can do really.

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If Dada had responded differently and stood up to him, it would be so much better.

I love this show to bits but at this point, I can still step back from these problematic parts and shake my head. I don't find it cute nor do I think he's falling in love with her so therefore he's acting all possessive. I think this has always been his problem and it should be the other way round - meaning as he falls in love with her, he changes and becomes less possessive or he keeps his jealousy at bay no matter how hard it is.

I am optimistic that the show will improve or rather the plan is to show how the 'right' woman can change a man like Jae In. That's fantasy but I am fine with it.

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I think I keep watching cause I hope he will get kicked by the writer,
he'll change and I tune in to see that, it's journey I am willing to take, I just hope there's place I can comment my hope for the drama so the writer can see that,
he also can't change that easily...
5 ep of 16.. I can take that, he got a chance to changed, let's see how he gonna use it

and as far as an adaptation, I remember that in the original, he started to really realised when he got a rival and how other people pointed out how bad he is to her. How Dada's brother and father reminds him and how she react to him..
that's a rough journey but that's my answer.. ^^

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I understand what you are saying, but I disagree to some extent. First, Da-hyun did tell Jae-in that she would not cut Sun-woo out of her life. Her concession on that matter was to not call him oppa. I thought that she was pretty adamant in her refusal to let Jae-in dictate who she sees. Second, with Ji-soo, Da-hyun is again not letting Jae-in dictate who she spends time with. Her concession again was to pull away from the hug. Both of these concessions seem reasonable in a newly developing relationship, especially when your partner seems insecure.
I think that Da-hyun has an inkling that Jae-in has some trama or issues that have stunted him emotionally. She has said as much in the past. Admittedly that was said more as a jab than an observation, but I think that she felt the truth of it. The way I see it, Da-hyun is gently leading Jae-in towards learning how to communicate and behave in a relationship. She gives him what for when he needs it, but then she compromises a little to take the sting out of her rebukes.
There is no doubt that Jae-in is a boorish and rude individual at times. I think his behavior stems from insecurity, a feeling that he will be abandonned or betrayed, and fear, perhaps of being unloveable. To some degree, I think Da-hyun is aware of this. At this point, I feel that Da-hyun still views this as strictly a contractual relationship that will end in 6 months. So, I don't think she feels nervous about being in an abusive relationship. I think she is still in more of a teacher mode at the moment. She's said that she is going to turn Jae-in into a real human being. Her teaching style seems to be one of leading by example.

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Once again, you demonstrate why you are the BOSS. You said exactly what I wanted to say, but could not find the proper words. The KoD is broken and DaDa knows it. She was born to be a teacher, a professional nurturer, her life's work is not confined to her classroom. As evidenced by her support of Ji-Soo. DaDa is going to have a close association with KoD for the next six months, it makes perfect sense to use that time to help him become a better person. The above is just a restatement of your thoughts to show my support of your ideas.

Tae-Ha is almost as broken as KoD. He has a father who only sees him as a means to get power and his mother does not seem much better. He has parents, but no real love. He probably is worse off than KoD, because he has the illusion of a happy family. Grandpa is no fool, he must also realize that Tae-Ha could use a person like DaDa in his life. It is a win-win for him, whomever SHE chooses will certainly become a better person. Grandpa believes that neither money nor power can influence DaDa. Remember Grandpa sees his wife in DaDa. He deeply loved and respected his wife. Currently, Tae-Ha thinks that DaDa is a player and is probably laughing behind his cousin's back. Just wait until he figures out what a "treasure" she is both literally and figuratively. She has the ability to give either cousin what they secretly crave the most. Just wait until KoD and Tae-He figure out who the real treasure is and start the battle in earnest.

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@ aranea Thanks for the compliment. I hadn't thought of Tae-ha from that prospective before. I think that Grandpa probably does love both 9f his grandsons but is fed up with the power jockeying motivated by the parents. Seeing Jae-in having to work for Da-hyun's affections, by that I mean change himself will be a real treat. I hope that Tae-ha does not end up being only the villain who tries to use Da-hyun for the inheritance only. He may start that way, but I hope that our resident teacher will help him see that what he really wants and needs is love. We've already seen that there is some dissatisfaction with his father's sole focus on taking over the company. Rather than an arranged marriage with Chairman Han's daughter, which Tae-ha didn't seem to thrilled by, I hope he finds someone to love. Maybe Grandpa can find another good woman for him or maybe Da-hyun can introduce Tae-in and her friend to one another.

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Okay cool. But you are saying what we already mentioned. We all know WHY he is like that but it doesnt erase the fact that he is like that and the writers are trying to make him seem romantic. He isn't. He is controlling who she can talk to. Why does she have to compromise? Who is he to tell her who shr can or cant talk to? What she can or cant wear? Literally makes no sense for him to be that demanding.

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@Ahh

Romantic? I find it hard to believe that anyone would consider any of KoD's actions romantic. In addition, him even trying to romance DaDa, at this point of the story, makes no sense. He has not even figured out that he likes her yet. He is spending time with her to fulfill the will requirements. Their contracted relationship ends in six months. If anything, he is somewhat confused as to why his dates with DaDa are pleasant. Why he enjoyed their long telephone conversation. Why he thinks about her suddenly out of the blue. To romance DaDA would be to acknowledge that she is emotionally important to him. However, he is still emotionally closed.

As to KoD's boorish and rude behavior, I believe that has been thoroughly discussed and both sides have made excellent points. May be it would be best to just agree to disagree.

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Yes! HE needs to change NOT her!!!!!

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I am not loving this, but watching it anyway. But there is one thing about this drama that is really bothering me; Ha Suk looks too sloppy because his clothes are ill fitting. I keep comparing his style on this drama to Let's Drink on TVN where he looks sharp and dapper. But I am not sure its the production value, because everyone else's suit seem to fit them well. Oh well, may be its all me :)

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>> Ha Suk looks too sloppy because his clothes are ill fitting <<

you are right, it does,
and it makes me remember that kang dong won also wear an oversize suit back in 2003,
probably a rented suit??

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Nope, not just you :D

I was watching the BTS and Suk Jin's jacket was so crumpled, I wanted to pull and straightened it, haha.

He's dressed up in the most ridiculous combination of patterns. Maybe it's all intentional. I think "Tacky" should be used on him instead of Dada.

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That's because in Let's Drink, he's "High Quality" XD

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Idk of I'll be taking this show a little bit too seriously, but it is not giving me any good feelings as of this episode. The male lead is the guy that I avoid the most irl. He thinks that liking a girl means that he owns her. He is too possessive, jealous, and over-protective and that irritates me a lot. I am not even talking about forced skinship that he keeps doing, I somehow became insensitive to this as I watch kdramas. He is making a fuss about the men in the girl's life, even the posters she chose to hang on her wall, and worse is yet coming, I guess in the next episode will be about how he wanted her to cover her cleavage. He seem to have no respect to her life prior to meeting him.

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Re: What her new outfit is trying to accomplish. She's trying to prove to him that she's not old-fashioned or tacky but can look like a sexy vixen. (I'm not too fond of the dress but apparently the guys in this drama go gaga over it. Lol. Oh well, since showing your cleavage is considered pretty daring in Asia...).

On another note I must admit I don't really understand why all of a sudden she seems to have fallen a lot harder for him since last episode. I feel like I missed something.
She must be really inexperienced with men to be so affected by the skinship. Because from her perspective so far all he did was dragging her around, invading her personal space and setting up ridiculous rules (which she takes to heart now which is even worse). I know this is the storyline and characterization of people from over 10 years ago and up until this episode I had no problem with it but now I'm just scratching my head.
But the leads' chemistry keeps me intrigued like crazy and I'm like, ok to hell with logic, gimme more cuteness. ?

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I think the new outfit is to show that she knew how to dress like that, how to wear a dress and styled her hair.
She used to wear 2 pieces with usual hair like a casual style while he always wears a formal suit, so he thought she did it cause she can't do other style.
She probably choose to dress casual but it kinda hurt her pride to be called tacky when she can wear a good dress too, she just doesn't choose to.
Other reason : to get his response, a litle revenge that she is worthed people attention and not like his remark.

that's how I see it ^^

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So Why was DaDa in the elevator in the 1st place ?!

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they gonna meet up at the same place, probably the restaurant hotel.
she board the lift from the ground floor and Jae In likely enter from another floor, but they headed to the same floor.

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They actually got on the elevator at the same floor. Look closely and you'll see that she's the first one to enter.

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oh really . . . thank you ^^

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She was on her way to meet him. I think the restaurant is at the top of the building. She got annoyed by his comment and went to buy a new dress before coming back. I think they mentioned her being late for the date in the next episode.

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The above comment is in reply to MinaBoom

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I confess I was quite uncomfortable watching Jae In get all possessive and when he leaned towards Dada against the car, I really wanted her to kick him between the legs.

The difference between this drama and other jerk-centered ones is that Jae In is not revered as the most desirable man on earth nor an enviable one. In fact, it's quite the opposite. He's the King of Devils. Someone who has no real friends except Lawyer Park and a terribly lonely person since childhood.

Dada has obviously changed him although he takes three steps forward and 2 steps back now and then. It's these small little changes and Dada's own change of heart that's heartwarming to watch. It also helps that these two actors have a very natural chemistry.

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When Jae In leaned over Dada against the car, that definitely had a threatening vibe. He bullied her to agree to his demands about not calling Sun Woo "oppa". He also didn't want her to have any other man in her life. She seemed to disagree to give in on that point but she also seemed to meek and conciliatory.
Its been argued that she may accept this on the grounds that its only going to be a 6 month relationship. But she has started to fall for him.At what point does she refuse these demands.
Jae In seems sooo possessive that in a normal relationship, you have to consider this a red flag. I understand that he is in the first real relationship but Dada's gentle leading will not cut through that attitude. He needs a heads up right now.

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Jae In is a bully - he is rude and abusive to his friend the lawyer, to his subordinates, to his grandfather, to his to be wife. This kind of attitude might be somewhat successful in business settings, but is absolutely inappropriate in a personal relationship. As a teacher DaDa should call him out on that Every Single Time, with no exceptions. That is the only way to change his behavior and because the writer doesn't do that I'm very reluctant to keep watching the drama.

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I understand what you are saying. I'm the one who mentioned the 6 months before. I wasn't trying to say that Da-hyun is accepting of his behavior. I don't think she is at all. I was trying to say that I don't think that she feels that she has anything to fear about being in an abusive relationship. She has begun to feel some attraction to Jae-in, but at this point, I don't think that she wants any kind of real romantic relationship to him. So, rather than than feeling threatened by him, I think Da-hyun sees Jae-in as a teaching challenge.
When you are teaching someone, or raising children, for that matter, you have to learn what battles to pick. If you are constantly telling them that everything they do is wrong, even if it is, the other person will feel as if they are being attacked. That person will go into defensive mode and won't be willing or able to hear anything you are trying to teach them. Da-hyun chose her battle. She told Jae-in that he could not dictate who she sees and that she would not end a relationship of over 10 years because of his demand. She even turned it back to him asking if he wasn't going to be in the company of any other women while they were dating. That's her teaching Jae-in. The battle she chose not to fight was over the level of intimacy she shows to guys who are just her friends. She she was willing to not call Sun-woo oppa, a term that could be considered on of endearment, and she became conscious that hugging Ji-soo, another thing that might be interpreted with a romantic connotation, might be something that would bother Jae-in. Quite frankly, when two people are dating I don't think that it is at all put of line to expect that they would refrain from behaviors that might be interpreted as romantic to someone else. I think this is particularly true in the early stages of a relationship when there is more uncertantity and insecurity about your partner's feelings.
I think that Da-hyun is leading Jae-ha towards the understanding that he has emotional reactions to certain situations and that those feelings are okay. What is not okay is how he chooses to express them and how he tries to control others to keep from being hurt. Jae-in does not know how to communicate with people, particularly on an emotional level, and he doesn't know how to deal with his own emotions other than to lock them down and try to always control the situation around him. I think that is what he needs to learn from Da-hyun, and I think that is exactly what she is going to teach him.
None of this has been explicitly stated. However, I think that you can se a progression of this happening throughout the show so far. Really, the show is just beginning and I think you need to trust the writer to bring all this out. From what I have seen so far, I don't think that such trust will be misplaced. I really think that the writer is trying to show Da-hyun as a very astute teacher who knows how to teach a student gently but effectively.

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When you are teaching someone, or raising children, for that matter, you have to learn what battles to pick. If you are constantly telling them that everything they do is wrong, even if it is, the other person will feel as if they are being attacked. That person will go into defensive mode and won’t be willing or able to hear anything you are trying to teach them. Da-hyun chose her battle.

Exactly! And it's not just children but anyone and everyone.

I so love how your take on Jae In and Da Hyun.

I'll just add that viewers must remember that this is a rom com. Some things will be exaggerated for comedy.

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Excellent use of bold tags to indicate the quotation from BossyPixie's post. It makes your post more readable.

Your post gives me an excuse to share something I just recently learned. Tags use the following format:
"TEXT", replacing the word tag with the letter b makes the "TEXT" bold. This is how ET was able to use bold text for the quotation. The tag that I just recently learned was blockquote. Replacing the word tag with the word blockquote does the following:

When you are teaching someone, or raising children, for that matter, you have to learn what battles to pick. If you are constantly telling them that everything they do is wrong, even if it is, the other person will feel as if they are being attacked. That person will go into defensive mode and won’t be willing or able to hear anything you are trying to teach them. Da-hyun chose her battle.

NOTE: One issue with tags is if you make a mistake, you only see it after you have made the post. So please do not laugh too long if this is a bust.

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Excellent point about the exaggeration for comedy purpose.

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Not too bad, just partial bust. The first letter of a tag is the symbol. I will use [ to substitute for .

To bold test [b]"TEXT"[/b] -> "TEXT"
To italic text [i]"TEXT"[/i] -> "TEXT"
To BQ text [blockquote]"TEXT"[/blockquote] ->

"TEXT"

Here goes...

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Another bust...

First symbol is the "less than symbol" which is on the same key as the comma. Second symbol is the "greater than symbol" which is on the same key as the period.

It seemed like such a good opportunity to share information. I am sorry, I just managed to post a bunch of gibberish.

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Thank you @aranea excellent refresher for me. I am a slooow learner :D I just learnt how to bold, quite obvious, isn't it? I'll try the rest next time.

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@ET
Sorry for the confusion, it was not as simple as it seemed. I will make one suggestion, going forward. When I was trying to figure this out and test which HTML tags worked, I used an old DB Open Thread to practice. If you make a mistake, no worries.

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I watched the next episode and things didn't improve even a bit.
I'm uncomfortable with him dragging her, bossing her and invading her personal space in a very aggressive and absolutely non-romantic way.
What I see is DaDa starting to accept his demands and Jae-ha not changing even a bit.

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Referencing the next episode is uncalled for. If your assertion can not stand based on the information presented in the current episode, then you should reconsider making it. Please read the DB commenting policy. No, your statement probably did not violate that policy, but it is much better to be safe than sorry.

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This short series is like a cupcake for my sweet tooth. Hihi. I dont want to analyze my cupcake. Ill just eat it and get diabetes.

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I like this show so far. I joined the party late, given that I got caught up last week. I have to say that this is the show that I am currently waiting impatiently for. Yeah it is cliche your typical drama plot, heck you can even make a drinking game out of this show, but I like the chemistry between the main actors. Thanks for the recap Laica :).

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All compaints about Jae-in's super horrible personality aside, I just wanna give credit to Ha Suk-jin's acting. I'm watching Drinking Solo as well, and even though he's playing kinda the same-ish jerkface character, I seriously don't get confused between the two. I've never appreciated his acting this much before! <3 <3 <3

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you are totally right.He's playing jerk character in both dramas but I also dont get confused.I dont know which character I love more but what for sure is I slowly fall in love with Ha Suk Jin. There is actually a very rare chance to see an actor that you like 4 times per week. Mon and Tue I watch drinking solo and for Wed Thur one percent of something.My drama god has absolute mercy for this time and I wont complaint about it.??

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@PinkSushi and @nana

I am mighty impressed with Ha Suk Jin too :D I've never seen him in anything before Drinking Solo but that's changed in the last two weeks. I've just completed one of his old dramas, Once Upon A Time In Saengchori. It's also a very funny show. I've concluded that HSJ is awesome at playing jerks in the most adorable and goofy way possible.

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Stuck at Ep.1 for this. Couldn't seem to get into it because I really adored the original and this isn't as winning as the original.

Phone calls until late at night are totally my kind of dates.

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When Lawyer Park tells Jae-in to bring Da-hyun to a movie, I got confused. Didn't they just went on a movie date?

Then I realize it was a different drama.

*face palm*

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I think ha suk jin is the only korean actor I have come across who seems to speak english effortlessly and with confidence. All others looked kind of awkward speaking english.

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Anyone else annoyed at the changes to Hyun-jin? She's not a doctor? She doesn't have a whole tragic backstory? Dada liked her brother instead of she liking Dada's brother? I guess I'm too stuck on the original to watch this....

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