[One True Pairings] Because I’m relieved
by Guest Beanie
By @azzo
When I read about this month’s theme I knew right away who I wanted to talk about, and no, I don’t mean Oppa and me, a thousand words are just not enough. I almost always love the main pairings of the dramas I watch. There is just something so sweet about two people meeting and falling in love, whether it’s them being drawn to each other from the very first encounter or butting heads and bickering their way into love. They all have their special stories, they are all different, and I’m sure I’ll always remember them fondly.
But if I am to choose only one couple to call my ultimate OTP from my ten years of drama-watching experience, it would be the most recent one: the couple that crept into my heart, clung to it hard until it took over it, the couple that cannot and will not be replaced, our Ice-cream couple from Just Between Lovers, our Gang-doo and Moon-soo!
I never rooted for anyone like this before. My heart never ached for anyone like this before. Those two were just so broken, their souls scarred and their dreams lost, trying to deal with the aftermath of tragedy. Gang-doo spending his days with no hopes and no aspirations, still enduring so much pain from the past, tormented with nightmares in his sleep and voices in his head when he’s awake. And Moon-soo, living with survivor’s guilt, suppressing her feelings, suffocating, haunted by that one scene, locking eyes with her sister then having her disappear.
Seeing those two find their way to each other, fall for each other, learn to depend on each other, and heal each other was so heartwarming. They didn’t need anything else when they had each other’s company; they didn’t ask a lot of questions but they understood each other, their conversations flowed naturally, there was never an awkward moment and there was never a forced smile.
What I love the most about them is that their love was never loud. They were never about grand, sweeping gestures. They were never about screeching chemistry and hot kisses. Their relationship was built on little moments that showed how much they cared for each other: warm hugs, tender pats on the back, and encouraging words. It was created when they found comfort even in their silences; it was all about missing buses because they wanted to spend that bit more with each other, about quiet long walks and gentle handholds!
Another thing that sets those two on a different league for me is how persistent they were with their love for each other. Even when one was being a noble idiot (for all the right reasons, I swear), the other never gave up and just let them be. When Gang-doo started pushing Moon-soo away because he thought he was too damaged for her, that he could never make her happy, and that she deserved better, she didn’t just sit around and accept that, she confronted him. She told him he had no right to choose for her, that it was her decision to make and she decided on him.
She was just as stubborn as he was, and knew him too well to believe the façade. She could see the cracks in his pretense and through that, she could get to him. She showed him that what she needed wasn’t someone who had everything, who she would hide behind and cover her scars. She needed someone who would understand what she’s been through, who’d help her carry those scars proudly and still make her feel beautiful. She needed him, and once Gang-doo understood that, once he took her hand, he never let go of her, even when later she pushed him away (she had good reasons, too).
What makes them so perfect for me is how much they worried for each other. Even when they tried to keep their distance, they didn’t do it to hurt each other. They did it because they were hurt for each other, because they wanted nothing but to give happiness to the other. And that thought, that desire of theirs, is what brought it to them. I think they were each other’s miracle. They learned that forgiving themselves didn’t mean forgetting, how to open up and show their emotions, and that they were good people and surviving shouldn’t make them guilty. They learned that they deserved happiness and they deserved each other.
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1 Infinitize
February 14, 2018 at 8:18 PM
I need someone to just cut and splice all the scenes with this couple together so I can watch them on repeat.
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azzo
February 14, 2018 at 9:30 PM
I'm so obsessed with these two that I might actually do it!
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yayabean
February 14, 2018 at 10:40 PM
If you do, please share 😀
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Infinitize
February 15, 2018 at 4:55 AM
Also, congrats on getting published!
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Shrimpo
February 14, 2018 at 9:56 PM
You gave me an idea! my tumblr will be alive lol
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chingu
February 16, 2018 at 11:21 AM
Lawl, I have no idea why but I thought you were gonna say, "I need someone to just cut and slice open my heart to find these two inside" or something like that. Um, I'll take my leave now. But yes, I'd watch the heck outta that compilation.
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Infinitize
February 16, 2018 at 12:45 PM
Really glad I wasn't drinking anything when I read this because I would have spit it out everywhere. *laughing*
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chingu
February 16, 2018 at 1:22 PM
Lol! I’m so glad you thought that was funny and was like, not grossed out or offended by it. Haha. I’m also glad you didn’t have a drink to spit out, too! 😅🤣
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2 Carolina
February 14, 2018 at 8:40 PM
@azzo1 You hit all the key points of why we love them so much. Gang-doo and Moon-soo will always be one of my favorite OTP.
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azzo
February 15, 2018 at 12:33 AM
Thank you, C.Lo!
This couple makes me want say so much and even though I've wrote an essay I still feel I have more to say!
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3 PakalanaPikake
February 14, 2018 at 8:56 PM
@azzo,
Thanks for your essay. Congratulations for being published! I've watched through episode 13, and have been thoroughly enjoying JUST BETWEEN LOVERS. It is truly one of the best dramas I've seen in a spell, and is in very good company with MAWANG / THE LUCIFER.
Considering what these characters went through in their young lives, it is a blessing that their paths crossed. It truly "takes one to know one." I like how it is the small, mundane moments of near-normalcy that keep them going.
I'll have to check back when I finish the show. ;-)
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azzo
February 14, 2018 at 9:46 PM
That's why I love them so much, everything was just very quiet with these two, they were very natural and comfortable with each other, they were just there for each other.
Thank you, @pakalanapikake. I look forward to your thoughts later.
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PakalanaPikake
February 16, 2018 at 8:31 PM
I meant to mention that Oh Yong, who plays site security foreman Yong-cheol in JUST BETWEEN LOVERS, does a great job in MAWANG / THE LUCIFER as spiteful wangtta Kim Soon-ki. He is an intense and tragic character.
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4 ObsessedMuch
February 14, 2018 at 9:13 PM
Ah Gang Doo and Moon Soo seriously have been one of my favourite OTPs among the recent kdrama couples! Thanks for writing this @azzo1 :)
Though I wouldn't have mind reading about you and PHJ either! After all that is one of the most famous DB OTP, right next to Mary and her oppa! :P
(P.S. @azzo above is clickable too! How did that happen? But it's not coming as a valid tag in comments)
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azzo
February 14, 2018 at 10:00 PM
Honestly, after sending this in, I considered writing about us, I even started it but then I realized what I was doing, I couldn't stop laughing at all the cringe-worthy lines, it will be too embarrassing to share it so I'll just take it with me to the grave!
And I think that's some kind of DB sorcery!
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ObsessedMuch
February 15, 2018 at 9:43 AM
Hahhaha... now I kinda want to see that half- written piece! It has to have YY's OSTs and the Oppa War :P
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azzo
February 16, 2018 at 12:26 AM
It has the Oppa War for sure but I stopped before getting to YY's OSTs!
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YY Chats with Toast Between Bites
February 15, 2018 at 9:45 AM
He is my one and only, my forever Oppa...something in that vein?
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azzo
February 16, 2018 at 12:33 AM
No! *lies*
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YY Chats with Toast Between Bites
February 15, 2018 at 9:38 AM
Made me laugh you did, @obsessedmuch. It shows how great @azzo1's love is for Oppa that he is mentioned at the very start of her essay, in her VERY FIRST SENTENCE LOLOL! It's amazing that she managed to stop herself from gushing about Oppa and focused her thoughts and incredible writing skills on the OTP at hand.
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ObsessedMuch
February 15, 2018 at 9:46 AM
IKR! It's a feat in and of itself! :P
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wakimary
February 15, 2018 at 3:35 PM
If I didnt see the cover pic at the beginning of this post,I would have thought @azzo1 will start talking about her love with PHJ...
When this theme was introduced many wondered if we'll read about legendary DB OTPs like @mary & SJR and Azzo & her Oppa.hopefully @azzo1 will share her half started essay about her own OTP 😉
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azzo
February 16, 2018 at 12:42 AM
Sorry, but I don't think I could do that, I can imagine beanies giving me the stink-eye reading it, LOL!
wakimary
February 16, 2018 at 1:27 AM
"stink eye"? 😂
PakalanaPikake
February 16, 2018 at 3:31 AM
Hawaiian pidgin "stink eye" = dirty look. ;-)
5 superwhopotterlock
February 14, 2018 at 9:14 PM
Congrats on getting your article published. Brings back all the memories of discussing it with you and other beanies. Just one word for this- PERFECT
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azzo
February 14, 2018 at 10:14 PM
Yes, those discussions were so enriching, everyone had so much to say, it was fun, too!
Thank you, @superwhopotterlock.
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6 Mimu
February 14, 2018 at 9:21 PM
Very well written. @azzo1
what i had in mind you brought them out in such wonderful words.
At the beginning coz of its melodramatic genre I was apprehensive to watch it but as all the beanies praised it I took a chance and loved the drama so much.
Thank you, Beanies. :)
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azzo
February 14, 2018 at 10:24 PM
Thank you, @mimu1234.
A lot of beanies wrote this off because of tragedy and melodrama genres but I love it because even when it was that, it managed to provide comfort and give hope that broken can be mended, and miracles do happen!
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PakalanaPikake
February 15, 2018 at 12:30 AM
@azzo,
I'm not normally a fan of melodrama. However, there's melodrama, and then there's melodrama. It's possible to have a low-key melodrama with layered, nuanced characters who behave in understandable ways -- and performances that are understated and realistic. I'll take someone measuring out his life in coffee spoons of quiet desperation over a bratty drama queen any day.
Maybe I've been confusing melodrama with makjang. I don't know. As long as there's more than a passing semblance of reality, I can deal with melodrama.
It's the mindless angstfests I can't stand. The ridiculous, endless series of tragedies that are too far-fetched to believe. The tail-chasing spin cycle of overwrought emotion devoid of a lick of common sense or a legitimate reason for putting all characters within a ten-mile radius anywhere near the baddies.
There is nothing inherently wrong with tragedy. Many aspects of life are sad at best and tragic at worst. In that sense, tragedy is realistic. While I don't jump for joy at the prospect of watching a tragedy, I do appreciate the genre if the protagonist:
* learns an important lesson,
* pays a karmic debt,
* makes progress as a human being,
* forgives and is forgiven,
* faces and overcomes adversity,
and (maybe most important of all),
* faces the consequences of their actions with courage, generosity, patience, and even compassion for agents of fortune.
I have two more episodes of JUST BETWEEN LOVERS to watch. It meets many of my criteria for a worthwhile melodrama, and probably some that I have not yet identified. The growth arcs of the main characters are daunting, but achievable. For me, it is a story of people coming to terms with a past that cannot be changed, and finding peace of mind and heart, companionship and love, and a second chance at life in the present and future.
JUST BETWEEN LOVERS is ultimately an uplifting testimonial to the resilience of the human spirit, and the courage exhibited by those who persevere against great odds.
If anyone is still sitting on the fence after reading this, watch the first couple of episodes -- with an open, non-judging mind, patience, and compassion. Sit back and let the story unfold in its own way and time. It's well worth it. ;-)
PS: I've found the Viki subtitles to be very good.
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7 Ally
February 14, 2018 at 9:22 PM
Thank you, azzo! This was a beautifully written piece. I started this drama, but only got to the tragedy before turning it off, it was a bit too much at the time. I will return to it though, when I need a real relationship to watch, and your essay has made me that much more excited she. I can watch it!
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Ally
February 14, 2018 at 9:23 PM
when, not she.
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azzo
February 14, 2018 at 10:35 PM
Do return to it, Ally, you won't regret it, I promise!
This is a beautifully heartbreaking show and it dealt with tragedy in such a real and honest way that you'd live it with the characters, but it isn't all heartache and tears, our couple is adorable, you won't get enough of how sweet they are together!
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mary
February 15, 2018 at 8:37 AM
I watched this later than others too, at my own pace, and there were lots of times I didn't want to play the next episode anymore because of how bleak it made normal things seem. :( This is one of those times when I'm thankful for spoilers that give me hope.
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KSKalways
February 15, 2018 at 11:18 AM
exactly how I feel !
I've read soooo many spoilers on DB and that's how I'm encouraged to keep going. Everything is so saaad for those 2. mind you, I like how "quiet" the melodrama is, without makjang-type twists & turns and bizarre/pointless misunderstandings (so far - ep. 8).
and yes, I've read the spoilers for ep. 9 (Beanies were crying seeerious tears over even just the preview) and... le sigh... so much sadness!
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8 mano
February 14, 2018 at 9:23 PM
OMO, it's here, it's here, it's really here! This article is published on Feb 14th! Dear DB editors, Do you finally admit that our Moon-soo and Gang-doo is the ultimate OTP of all OTPs? Or is it your way to give shout-out to our beloved drama?
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azzo
February 14, 2018 at 10:40 PM
The OTP to rule them all!
LOL!
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mano
February 14, 2018 at 11:41 PM
Thank you for writing this article @azzo1
Seriously, for this month's theme of the month I only waited for articles about Moon-soo and Gang-doo :D
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Giegie
February 14, 2018 at 11:54 PM
Same! :D And I had no doubt it would be written by Azzo. ^___^
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azzo
February 15, 2018 at 12:39 AM
Yes, because Azzo is stuck on those two, that even when she's rewatching the show, she keeps on re-rewatching their scenes together! Azzo's lost it!
9 Sam
February 14, 2018 at 9:26 PM
Even though I loved the drama when it was airing, I didn't really realise how attached I've become to these two until after it's over and I found myself rewatching all their clips over and over. I'm glad OP made this post, Kangdoo and Moonsoo's love was quiet and built on comfort, and that's something so lacking in kdrama that it's a breath of fresh air for me. I love how it was shown that these two truly wanted for nothing other than each other. There's true beauty in their unwavering loyalty for each other, and it's that simplicity of loving one a other 'just because' that makes them so epic.
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azzo
February 14, 2018 at 10:48 PM
"There's true beauty in their unwavering loyalty for each other, and it's that simplicity of loving one a other 'just because' that makes them so epic"
Thank you for this, Sam, exactly what I was trying to say!
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10 JustMe
February 14, 2018 at 9:27 PM
Oh god, was i the only one who cried while reading your article? (It mightve helped that I was coincidentally also listening to the OST of the show at the same time while reading it) I love your title as well, because that's exactly what I felt whenever they found each other : relief. Not anticipation, relief.
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cheekbones
February 14, 2018 at 9:44 PM
I got misty-eyed all over again !
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azzo
February 15, 2018 at 12:08 AM
Aw, thank you, @justme.
Writing this made me really happy, I kept going back and forth between writing this and watching my favorite scenes! The OST is one of my favorites along with Chicago Typewriter's, turns out, they both have the same music director!
And the title, it's actually edited, but it was basically the same, LOL!
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11 canxi
February 14, 2018 at 9:33 PM
Not you giving me the feels again for these two. I was recovering well! I was moving on! (I was not moving on.)
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azzo
February 15, 2018 at 12:20 AM
If I can't move on, no one can!
But really, I get you, it's hard!
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12 Kudo Ran
February 14, 2018 at 9:52 PM
Beautifully written 💖, bravo and thank you @azzo1 😘 I read it while listening to the OST : you described their relationship so well 😌.
No need to add anything to such a good post, maybe just that "I love men who eat carrots" 😉 ㅋㅋㅋ
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azzo
February 15, 2018 at 12:42 AM
That's the best way to read it, I guess!
Thank you, Kudo Ran.
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Kudo Ran
February 15, 2018 at 9:23 AM
You're welcome Azzo :)
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13 Namu 🐧
February 14, 2018 at 9:52 PM
Thank you @azzo1
It’s so beautiful ❤️
I LOVE THEM and I MISS THEM 😭😭
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azzo
February 15, 2018 at 12:49 AM
Thank you, Namu.
Also, thank you for you Jun-ho spam, eases the withdrawal a little.. just a little!
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Namu 🐧
February 15, 2018 at 2:41 AM
lol but thank you for enjoying the junho spam 😆
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14 cheekbones
February 14, 2018 at 9:53 PM
A great article ! Couldn't agree more with you, especially about their love not being loud and not about grand gestures. Everything about this drama is so understated, it's one of its strength and charm.
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azzo
February 15, 2018 at 12:47 AM
Yes, that is what I love the best about this show really, there is never a need for emotions to be loud because they're just felt!
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15 Shrimpo
February 14, 2018 at 9:54 PM
realest otp, not a real life couple but Kangdoo - Moonsoo 's love is so real so raw
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azzo
February 15, 2018 at 12:55 AM
I think that's why they got me so much, it all felt so real, them and their love!
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16 Giegie
February 14, 2018 at 10:09 PM
Haven’t read the write up yet but seeing this post made me so happy @azzo1 😍❤️❤️
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Giegie
February 14, 2018 at 10:12 PM
Forgot to say thank you for writing about this amazing & my current favorite couple. ^^
Now off to read. Lol.
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azzo
February 15, 2018 at 1:37 AM
Thank you, Giegie!
You and me, we talk about them everyday and I think we'll never stop, we just love so much!
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Giegie
February 15, 2018 at 6:03 AM
;)
Not in the future, that’s for sure. Lol.
I wish your article was longer though because I’ve already read it twice and still can’t get enough of it. I do understand the word limit though. ^^
Off to read it again. <3
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azzo
February 15, 2018 at 6:16 AM
As long as we keep rewatching it, we'll always have something to talk about, new realizations, things we might've missed in our 1st rewatch and 2nd.. and 3rd, LOL!
Aw, that's so sweet of you ❤😭
Giegie
February 15, 2018 at 6:38 AM
You are so right @azzo1^^
I was just rewatching episode 9 earlier and teared up when MS asked banker guy to apologize to KD, and minutes later my heart broke for when KD let go of her hand. See? I cann’t stop talking about the show :’(
😘
17 Linda Palapala
February 14, 2018 at 10:21 PM
Amen to everything you said! And yes, I teared up even just reading your essay. Don't know what else to add because they were just perfect. I wish the actors could read this and the comments and know how much they were appreciated and how much they made us believe in their characters.
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azzo
February 15, 2018 at 1:54 AM
Thank you, @lindapalapala!
That would be nice but I think they know judging from their Instagram accounts, they're flooded with so much love and appreciation ( I think I used up all my Korean writing them "thank you" messages).
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18 gadis
February 14, 2018 at 10:38 PM
Azzo, congratulations for being published! 🎉🎊🎉
My love for Moon-soo and Gang-doo might not be as full and brimming as yours, but I love how you dedicated this whole essay for them. Thank God they found each other and also their much deserved happiness. For once, the Fate was being sympathetic enough to grant them a second chance at life, which is a miracle in its own right.
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azzo
February 15, 2018 at 3:20 AM
Thank you, Gadis.
I thought the word limit was 5K, I was set to write a whole chapter about them, it's a good thing I went back and checked on the theme post, LOL!
Yes, they, more than anyone else, deserved it, their happiness was nothing but finding and being with each other, and I'm glad that even when the show decided to give them their happy ending, it did it in a way that's most fitting for our characters.
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19 yayabean
February 14, 2018 at 10:38 PM
I'm on episode 14 of this drama, but I have to agree this couple was special. Their persistence for each other won me over.
@azzo thank you for submitting this piece about Gang doo and Moon-soo.
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azzo
February 15, 2018 at 3:30 AM
Thank you, @yayabean!
I hope this didn't spoil the ending for you, that if you'd survived all the beanie posts about it!
Yes, it was very refreshing to see a character like Moon-soo, she was patient with Gang-doo yet she made it clear that she wasn't going anywhere, she let him know that it was okay to be hurt because she was hurt, too, and that he was a good person and deserved to be loved!
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yayabean
February 15, 2018 at 10:07 PM
It was thanks to the beanies' comments that I finally decided to watch. And I'm so glad i did!😉
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20 growingbeautifully
February 14, 2018 at 10:57 PM
Thanks @azzo for your great essay. Seeing that first screen shot totally sucked me in LOL!
I'm still thinking about this amazing drama and this OTP and of course about Gang Doo, the ultimate (to me), among many characters most deserving to be loved. Why? Because in so many ways, he was so good (although not perfect) and remained consistently others-centred giving and not demanding, in spite of being provoked, in spite of receiving new wealth and having matters work out for him. Because he blamed no one but took responsibility, even beyond his means, out of selflessness.
And when I consider how MS was able to come as far as she did while walking on eggshells around her mother, suffering the breakup in her family and feeling that she ruined the lives of others, to the point when she could face Sung Jae's mother and painfully complete the Memorial, I feel so proud of her.
I love how MS and GD's relationship moved from awkward strangers and forgotten co-survivors to tried and proven couple-dom, through many little moments, rather than grand gestures. I am ecstatic over the arc of growth from self-blame/self-harm to self-love and so being able to accept love from each other.
The wonderful reciprocity of each taking turns to save each other, to offer a shoulder (literally and figuratively), to remain steadfast in the face of rejection without being pushy or manipulative and to offer healing at the appropriate times, warms my heart no end.
If ever there was an OTP who was meant to be together, emotively as well as 'realistically', with their shared tragedy, it was this one.
Thanks once again for highlighting all the lovely parts of this OTP and giving us a chance to relive the sweet, quite realistic moments once again. 😄
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azzo
February 15, 2018 at 3:35 AM
Thank you, @growingbeautifully!
You describe them so well that I don't know what else to say here ❤
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growingbeautifully
February 15, 2018 at 3:52 AM
LOL! 😂 Thank. So do you.
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Linda Palapala
February 15, 2018 at 3:58 PM
It's like the two of them made one perfect person. Those couples are rare not only in dramas but in real life.
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21 dany
February 14, 2018 at 11:12 PM
Reading your article gave me such a warm feeling. I love this show. And I was so relieved to have a happy ending.
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azzo
February 15, 2018 at 3:40 AM
It was such a relief, episode 15's preview gave me such anxiety that I couldn't sleep, I don't think I ever wanted a happy ending this desperately before!
Thank you, dany!
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22 almond
February 14, 2018 at 11:25 PM
I'm still going through JBL withdrawals, so I'm happy to see an article on our OTP here on DBs. I can't really put into words how much I love these two without sounding like a protective mother hen lol. But truly the best thing about this show was how I didn't have to choose between having a great story or a great OTP. So often in kdrama I always have to make that choice between watching a well written story but with a meh OTP, or suffering through below par writing just for the sake of the OTP lol.
But with Just Between Lovers, I got to have my cake and eat it too, and that led to such a fulfilling 2 months that now I can't even enjoy any other drama I've tried to start. The chemistry between Junho and Jinah was perfect, the story was beautiful and it really makes me want to think that there is a pair of lovers called Kangdoo and Moonsoo out in the real world, just living their lives out together. Man, I really miss them lol.
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growingbeautifully
February 14, 2018 at 11:35 PM
@almond
LOL! Same here!
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azzo
February 15, 2018 at 4:00 AM
@almond, me too! I started Radio Romance and felt so much guilt about watching it, LOL!
Yes, this show gave us the best, the story and the OTP, I love how even the minor characters got their own moment to shine, it never forgot anyone! Oh, I'd love to think that, that they are happy somewhere, taking care of their adorable ice-cream babies, LOL!
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mano
February 15, 2018 at 4:33 AM
I've been saying more than one occasions that I can't start any new drama, my mind just can not process it.
Here I am, more than two weeks after the last episode, still longing for Gang-doo and Moon-soo.
I even read and watch anything about liver transplant because I want to know what Gang-doo will be going trough after the surgery, LOL. I'm imagining how the scar will look like on his body, bwahahaha
With this show also I don't have to choose of the half pair, which one is a better person, which one has bigger love. They're both amazing individuals. I recall Gang-do told Yoo jin that the one who loves more will be at disadvantage. In their case neither Gang-doo nor Moon-soo will feel disadvantage.
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23 Koala Cruz
February 15, 2018 at 12:10 AM
I wish the site have a share button so i can directly send the page link to friends through FB or messenger…
Anyway… i love how you put things together — this pair who are scarred souls finding comfort on each other. Finding their way to love through simple gestures, getting used to each other, missing one another.
Like their way of answering the question why they love one another — "just because…" — open, immeasurable, intangible.
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cheekbones
February 15, 2018 at 1:10 AM
I also love the "just because..." answer. We really don't know exactly why we love a person. We just love him/her.
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azzo
February 15, 2018 at 4:36 AM
Yes, that answer is perfect, there could be a lot of reasons why we love someone but also there could be none at all, we just form an attachment and we never know when it turns into love.
Thank you, Koala Cruz!
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24 Betty
February 15, 2018 at 1:00 AM
I LOVE THEM SO MUCH
WILL NEVER BE OVER THEM
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azzo
February 15, 2018 at 4:38 AM
With you on everything 😂🤚
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25 ladykrueger
February 15, 2018 at 1:35 AM
You summed up all those comments and hours of discussions perfectly. Now I miss them all over again! *sob*
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azzo
February 15, 2018 at 4:42 AM
Thank you, @ladykrueger, I love them so much so I really hope this piece of writing gives them justice!
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ladykrueger
February 15, 2018 at 5:06 AM
It really does! You mentioned what was the most important about those two: the way they did not give up on each other, how much they cared for each other and how down-to-earth their bond was. You became the voice of all the JBL-obsessed Beanies, thank you ❤
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azzo
February 15, 2018 at 6:03 AM
Aw, thank you!
I love being the voice of JBL-Obsessed Beanies, it's an honor 😂❤
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growingbeautifully
February 15, 2018 at 7:44 AM
The comments haven't stopped coming in @ladykrueger 😏
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26 LT is Irresistibly Indifferent, Dame Judi
February 15, 2018 at 2:33 AM
The more I hear about this couple, the more I regret not live-watching this show. But it is on The List.
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azzo
February 15, 2018 at 4:52 AM
Oh,The List? you mean the one that never gets short, is ever-growing and frustratingly confusing to pick from? I think I now that one! LOL!
I think this show was perfect for live-watching, sometimes it hit me with so much emotions that I really just needed time to let everything set, it's very contemplative with the topics it deals with, but again sometimes the wait was torture!
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azzo
February 15, 2018 at 4:54 AM
Know*
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mano
February 15, 2018 at 5:02 AM
Are you sure it was perfect for live watching? Don't you remember the melt down over a damn preview?? LOL
Not to mention the waits...
But really, I've never been in any cults before (who does??) but this drama, jeongmal, is the closest thing I've ever felt being in a cult, LOL
Oh, it was a great experience :)
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azzo
February 15, 2018 at 5:12 AM
Shh.. don't remind me, I kind of erased that damned preview from my memories, I don't really swear but I wanted to so bad after watching it, LOL!
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Giegie
February 15, 2018 at 6:09 AM
You were MIA for two days because of the preview 😂
mano
February 15, 2018 at 6:44 AM
😂😂
@giegie0384
Giegie, how could you??? I literally LOL-ing now 😂
Giegie
February 15, 2018 at 7:03 AM
@manohira Hahaha I couldn’t help it 😂
@azzo1 Mianhe 😇
azzo
February 15, 2018 at 7:51 AM
@giegie0384 Hey! I had to, okay! I wanted to avoid all spoilers, and you have no idea how hard those two days were 😂
@manohira LOL! Thanks for coming for my defense!
27 redoy21
February 15, 2018 at 4:03 AM
Needed this .. Thank you so much . Agree with pretty much everything u said. Miss my Gang Doo and Moon so ! I think very few other couple can be on their level. They are soul mates.
I still haven't watched the last two episodes (though i knw what happens). I have a bad habbit of not letting my favourite characters go because in my head if i watch the last two episodes, its done, completed. I have to come in term with it and finish it.
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azzo
February 15, 2018 at 5:01 AM
I used to do the same with my favorite books, I'd leave the last chapter because I just didn't want to say goodbye to the characters, but then finishing them, though left me a little empty, made me happy, too!
The last two episodes hurt a lot but that's why the ending was all the more satisfying and made my heart full, you need to go and watch them.. like right now! LOL!
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28 Sonia
February 15, 2018 at 4:06 AM
I just finished watching the last episode yesterday and I was feeling lost after saying goodbye to my favorite lovebirds. Imagine my happiness when I found this beautiful essay this morning! Thank you for writing an ode to this most memorable couple.
I am an ajhumma who has been watching and loving Kdramas for a long time and this is one of my all time favorite couples. So relatable and so real. I will truly miss this pair. :((
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azzo
February 15, 2018 at 5:06 AM
Aw, thank you ❤
We all kind of felt lost after JBL ended, the withdrawal is severe with this one, I honestly didn't feel like watching anything until yesterday, so it takes time but this couple did this to me so not complaining!
I'm not an Ahjumma yet (that's what I want to believe) but I've been watching dramas for a very long time now, never have anyone affected me the way these two did, they were just so perfect!
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Linda Palapala
February 15, 2018 at 4:00 PM
As many dramas as we've been emotionally involved in, this was by far the most emotionally invested I've ever been in a drama and a couple.
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29 Cori
February 15, 2018 at 4:47 AM
Beautifully said :D I think that's my favorite thing about them too, all those little moments like the hand-holding and encouraging words that were so sweet and heartwarming ❤️
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azzo
February 15, 2018 at 5:14 AM
Thank you! Yes, everything very matter of fact with them, even their chemistry, it was charged but in a very quiet way!
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30 rasonic
February 15, 2018 at 4:51 AM
This so perfectly describes how I feel about JBL and the relationship between Gang Doo and Moon Soo. Words can't even express how much I was rooting for them throughout the whole show! They're definitely my favorite OTP of all time as well! Everything about their relationship was just so heartwarming and I finished the show sad because it ended, but so incredibly happy that they were together and could help each other heal and love each other forever! (I know it's fiction, but it felt so real to me haha). I don't think I've ever been so emotionally invested in a show before. I almost felt exhausted when it finished because I had invested myself so much into the show haha. Thank you @azzo1 for writing this! JBL will be a show I will remember forever and rewatch many times to come! :)
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azzo
February 15, 2018 at 5:37 AM
I totally understand you, the whole JBL Army was rooting for them and their happy ending, they were so broken that we all just wanted them to find each other and help fix each other, their struggles to overcome their painful past felt real, they were real to us!
YAY for many rewatches! LOL!
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31 zwiterelle
February 15, 2018 at 5:07 AM
Wahhh! Their scenes seem to flashback to me as I read your post. GD and MS just went up to my all time fave OTPs in dramaland because of how perfect they are for each other. And you just describe why they are that kind of couple. Thank you!! I want more people to get to know about this couple and you made that happen @azzo! Yey. Congrats! <3
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azzo
February 15, 2018 at 6:00 AM
Are you sure it's not the screencaps? LOL!
Thank you, I really just need an excuse to talk about them to anyone and everyone, I just convinced my aunt and sister to watch it so yeah, I feel ptetty good about myself right now 😂
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zwiterelle
February 15, 2018 at 9:06 PM
Could be? Hahaha! I'm still not giving up in convincing my mom to watch it too. And I will continue to do so until she starts watching the first ep hahahaha! We should be proud of ourselves when we convinced them hihi
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32 Klike234
February 15, 2018 at 6:29 AM
Awwww beautifully written indeed
The community of JBL beanie lovers would be be so proud. I know i was when i saw the title. Is it to much to ask for abaeksang nomination at least? I think this is a rather uncommon topic covered by any drama I've seen.
Well done once again
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azzo
February 16, 2018 at 12:51 AM
Thank you!
Yes, I really just want these two to get all the recognition and love they could get for this, they did such a great job making their characters feel real, they deserve it!
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33 🍃noobita🍃
February 15, 2018 at 8:13 AM
I mean who can resist a man who loves carrot? XD
Great write up! Guh, how I envy all these writers with their magical words, perfectly describe our feelings and thoughts. Sigh.
I love that for this quiet couple, the reason for them to hesitate or waver is somehow logical, nothing too artificial, it feels real.
And I love that when one of them is backing away, the other will patiently assure them, that they want to make this work, to stay together in everything, it's so beautiful T_T.
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azzo
February 16, 2018 at 1:01 AM
Right! And who loves ice cream, and has like 10 melona bars in one sitting and makes a cute face with the sticks, like how can he be so adorable!
Thank you, I'm usually on the envying side (LOL) but I really wanted to talk about these two so I just did!
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34 Bebe | Nessa❣️
February 15, 2018 at 8:39 AM
Such a nice write-up, @azzo !!!!
One thing I do have to disagree with you about our beloved Ice Cream Couple is that Moon Soo's noble idiocy near the end, for me at least, was totally uncalled for and her reasons were pretty selfish: She basically downplayed the whole collapse and, in quiet prideful fashion, made everything about herself, and it wasn't until she (by the making of Kang Too, thank goodness) FINALLY saw things from the perspectives of those left behind, that she realized her thinking was wrong T.T
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azzo
February 16, 2018 at 1:17 AM
Thank you @bebeswtz!
I think what Moon-soo did was just her way of trying to deal and accept the information she got, remember when she discovered about Gang-doo's father? It was the exact same reaction! I think she just needed time to take everything in and process it, she felt it was too much, she wasn't mad at Gang-doo, she was mad at herself, she felt guilty again, because she was the one who called Sung-jae, she was mad because she thought it was because of her that Gang-doo had to go through that, she didn't understand how he could be alright with that fact when she was hurting for him that much, it wasn't about her but about him, for him!
And yes, I'm their self-assigned lawyer, LOL!
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Bebe | Nessa❣️
February 16, 2018 at 10:16 AM
LOL Lookit you, all ready and lawyered up!!
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35 bugs_bunny
February 15, 2018 at 8:53 AM
nice write-up!
JBL was populated by flawed but lovable characters, great cinematography and believable acting! i was rooting for these lovebirds to get their happy ending, just because... wish granted!
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azzo
February 16, 2018 at 1:42 AM
Thank you, bugs_bunny!
I just love that everyone in this show had their own story to tell, needed their own healing journey, and really that happy ending was so much needed!
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36 miss h
February 15, 2018 at 8:55 AM
Beautiful essay, @azzo1. You put into words all the reasons Moon Soo and Gang Doo are one my favorite OTP.
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azzo
February 16, 2018 at 1:45 AM
Thank you, miss h. I tried, glad they made it into your favorite OTP list, they were just that great together!
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37 LeahB
February 15, 2018 at 8:57 AM
Cannot agree with you enough. There was something so very refreshingly real about this drama, its story and this couple.
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azzo
February 16, 2018 at 1:54 AM
Yes, it was very refreshing to see them pursue each other so persistently, not getting tired and not giving up!
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38 Nam Joo-hyuk is Tall
February 15, 2018 at 9:41 AM
I was so excited to see their pic as the main poster image, and then was so pleased to see the article was just about them!
Honestly, since finishing the drama and commenting on some initial reactions, I haven't been able to read or write anything about the drama. It hit me that hard, that it feels taxing to even revisit. So when I read your article (which perfectly captures both the characters and their relationship) I was so flooded with emotions and memories, all that sweet ache that comes with thinking about their sad lives and their beautiful love.
There have been couples I've had more fun watching, couples I thought had more sparkling chemistry, but there has never been a couple that felt so right together, that I have wanted--NEEDED--to be together. You could feel the longing of their very souls for each other, and I was so happy that in the end they were able to come together and offer love and comfort in a way that no other person really could have. ACK. ALL THE FEELS COMING BACK.
Thank you for this, it was really well done.
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azzo
February 16, 2018 at 2:14 AM
I know, there was just something so comforting to see these two find each other and love each other, I love how Gang-doo taught Moon-soo to open up and talk about her emotions, I loved that when she was with him she never waited for him to ask questions, she just talked and even when there was nothing to say, their silences, their just being together felt right! Also, I love how Moon-soo kept telling Gang-doo that he was a good person until she made him believe it, he needed to hear that and it was just lovely that it came from her!
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39 YY Chats with Toast Between Bites
February 15, 2018 at 10:32 AM
@azzo1 I read every word of your awesome, thoughtful and heartfelt essay even though I haven't watched the drama, and haven't decided whether I will ever watch it. But you seem to love it almost as much as you love Oppa....and I'm still struggling to believe the impossible *gasp*
Congratulations on making it to Theme of the Month! I can't wait for you to write another essay on "The Oppa You Love the Most and 10 Reasons Why There Can Be No Other".
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azzo
February 16, 2018 at 2:30 AM
Thank you, YY, for reading this, though you will probably never watch it! Do give it a chance.. someday when you are in the mood for it!
What are you even saying, that will never happen, can't you see how I cleverly slipped Oppa in this even though it's not about him!
And that's a long title, I'd go with something more simple like "Oppa".
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40 ohhaeyoung
February 15, 2018 at 10:49 AM
@azzo this was so brilliantly written! I haven't watched JBL but I was definitely drawn to it and have it on my watch list. I'm glad to hear such good reviews on it...and I'm glad to hear that this is a good melo. I always want rom-coms but when a melo is done right, it can have my heart fully captured as this one seems to have yours. <3
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azzo
February 16, 2018 at 2:34 AM
Thank you, Ohhaeyoung!
I hope you do get to watch it soon, it's such a beautiful show, it's a melo yes but with some of the cutest couple moments 😍
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41 javinne
February 15, 2018 at 11:00 AM
Well, I am still so full into this drama, because I am watching it in my spare time for the second time. Beautiful. I agree with everything said in your article, @azzo1, and also in the comments.
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azzo
February 16, 2018 at 2:59 AM
Yes, me too! I went and watched my favorite scenes just when it ended but now I'm doing a proper rewatch, and it still gets me the same!
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42 crabby
February 15, 2018 at 12:07 PM
Love this!
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azzo
February 16, 2018 at 3:00 AM
Thank you!
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43 yuelie
February 15, 2018 at 2:23 PM
Well...I feel your love for it @azzo1 and that's all that matters!!
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azzo
February 16, 2018 at 3:02 AM
LOL, thank you @yuelie, for dropping by ❤
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yuelie
February 16, 2018 at 4:01 AM
Always mate! You ALWAYS have my full support!!
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44 wakimary
February 15, 2018 at 3:30 PM
Wonderful piece my dear @azzo1 you have captured why most of us loved GD and MS and why we kept coming back in each episode in spite of the overall melo mood of JBL - heart breaking but hopeful always, hilariously crying at times but never traumatizing.
Thank you for sharing and
🎉🎊congrats!🎊🎉 on getting published
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azzo
February 16, 2018 at 3:04 AM
Thank you @wakimary, I tried and I'm glad that you guys liked this piece 💖
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45 Poppy
February 15, 2018 at 5:08 PM
Oh me too! I am obsessive about this couple! I adore them 😁 thank you for your thoughts!
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azzo
February 16, 2018 at 3:06 AM
YES! I'm obsessed and very protective and defensive when it comes to them, LOL!
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46 mano
February 15, 2018 at 9:58 PM
The very first thing that attracted me to this drama was actually the reverse role between the leads. The female lead was more superior than the male. But it's not a noona romance either where usually the male lead is ready to embrace the female's lead superiority since the beginning of their romantic relationship.
They are both the same age, so they have been trough similar milestone in life. It's refreshing to see a young woman who's looking for a partner in a guy, and not an oppa, sunbae, sajangnim or other male dominant figure.
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azzo
February 16, 2018 at 3:08 AM
Yes, I love that, too! I love that she is the one who drives the truck, fastens his seatbelt, kisses him 1st, and even though she wasn't the one who said "I love you" 1st, she made all of these little confessions that showed she did!
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mano
February 16, 2018 at 3:32 AM
She's also the one who said "I will keep coming until I don't like you anymore", in other word "I like you Gang doo" 😁
Then she ran away after saying those words, so cuuuteee 😄
If I were an outsider (I'm not, because I watched their journey 😜), like Somi, I wouldn't understand why she choose Gangdoo and not the CEO. Other than his handsome face, what was so good about Gang-doo? He's uneducated, poor and his body was injured badly. But, Moon-soo could see him beyond his mere appearance. She appreciated him and wanted him as her partner. She's so adorable!
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growingbeautifully
February 16, 2018 at 10:04 AM
I was actually noting all these things as a reverse trope in the show! I find it so cute that MS who started off being a little suspicious and disapproving of GD, turns up to be the one who is not shy to stand up for herself and to take or ask for what she wants in the OTP relationship.
Quite a contrast from other situations where she will smile and accept 'crap' rather than attack or confront. Quite true to life in how we are contradictory in different circumstances.
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Adal
February 16, 2018 at 7:07 PM
@manohira so, so true! The role reversal is part of what makes this drama so charming! The fact that Moon Soo is the same age but better educated, has a career, drives cars and trucks, fixes the plumbing and light bulbs, kisses the guy first, buckles him in his seat and basically confesses to him first, initiates the first night they spent together and does so in a very basic, understated way is just one of the reasons why this drama is so charming!
She’s the anthesis of every kdrama heroine I’ve ever known. Here she’s quintessentially feminine, but quietly emotionally and physically strong. She’s no wall flower or Candy, nor is she a feminist out to prove she’s superior to the male species. She’s just... simply herself. Lovable, honest Moon Soo.
I still remember how frustrated she was with Gang Doo when she wanted to spend the night with him while he was trying to be responsible (another role reversal). I applauded how honest she was about her desires. I really do miss this couple!
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mano
February 16, 2018 at 9:36 PM
"She’s the anthesis of every kdrama heroine I’ve ever known. Here she’s quintessentially feminine, but quietly emotionally and physically strong. She’s no wall flower or Candy, nor is she a feminist out to prove she’s superior to the male species. She’s just... simply herself. Lovable, honest Moon Soo."
THIS.
You sum it up perfectly @adal1
My english sucks so it's difficult for me to express why I love Moon-soo so much. Thank you!
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liquidsoap
February 16, 2018 at 9:44 PM
"nor is she a feminist out to prove she’s superior to the male species"
excuse you but what?
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47 korfan
February 16, 2018 at 7:42 AM
@azzo1 Thanks for this and for reminding us of just how special Gang-doo and Moon-Soo are.
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48 kakdoogee
February 16, 2018 at 8:30 AM
ugh, i miss these guys.
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growingbeautifully
February 16, 2018 at 10:07 AM
I keep re-watching them! And posting about them. LOL.
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Adal
February 16, 2018 at 6:54 PM
👍🏾
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49 chingu
February 16, 2018 at 11:46 AM
@azzo1! How lovely is this? How lovely were they? Answer to both questions: VERY. It’s such a nice surprise to see your writing being featured on here. Congrats to that! I, too, loved and adored this couple right from the get-go. It was even better because I came in with little to no expectations and in came this piece of gem with such rawness and charm—both in its story and its actors. Thanks to this drama, I was able to recognize Junho as the capable actor that he’s becoming and of course, for letting me discover the lovely Won Jin-ah. These two were so good together that when they did go through the noble idiocy phase (not once, but twice!), albeit for good reasons, I just wanted them to stop forcing themselves to be apart from each other and just be together already because their love is literally the kind that heals—them and us. Side(ish) note, seeing Gang-doo all scratched up in the first photo reminds me of when Moon-soo said to herself as she caressed his face that she never realized how handsome he was because he was always covered in scratches and bruises. Also, the last screenshot is one of my favorite moments of them because gah, that’s such a romantic and cute move! I’m glad this drama and its OTP gets the love they deserve. This was a job well done, Azzo. A+.
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azzo
February 17, 2018 at 2:17 AM
Thank you, @chingu and YAY I got an A+ LOL!
I wanted to watch this show the minute I heard about Jun-ho's casting news, I loved him in Chief Kim so I just wanted to see him back on my screen. Won Jin-ah was a new name to me but I was so pleasantly surprised by her, together they made this couple so alive, I rooted for them, hurt for them and just absolutely adored them, they were that great!
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50 Adal
February 16, 2018 at 6:44 PM
Beautiful couple. Beautiful review @azzo1 there’s really nothing more to add. I couldn’t have said it better myself. They are the realest, truest, most realistic and most beloved couple I’ve seen in a kdrama. And I’m not exaggerating! I’m trying hard to think of a kdrama couple that comes close to being as true as Moon Soo/Gang Doo are and nothing comes to mind.
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azzo
February 17, 2018 at 2:19 AM
Thank you, Adal!
Yes, it is hard to find a couple this real and that's what really makes them my favorite.
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