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Strangers Again: Episodes 1-2

Snappy yet sweet, raucous yet surprisingly thoughtful, Strangers Again lands a great premiere week. We meet our heroine, learn about her divorce, and not a moment later does her ex-husband show up at her office door.

Editor’s note: The drama formerly known as Can We Be Strangers has done a last minute switch of their official English title, which we’ll now use.
 
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I know we’re only on Week 1, but I suspect this drama was perfectly cast. Kang So-ra shines as the talented, gorgeous, and successful attorney OH HA-RA who is secretly (or not so secretly) still a disaster after her husband cheated on her a few years back. Even in our first episodes, she strikes a great balance of fiery fury and genuine vulnerability.

Then, on the other side of the coin we have her ex-husband GU EUN-BUM (Jang Seung-jo), whom I would really love to hate in the role of unfaithful husband… but somehow can’t? He’s charming and puckish — hence our heroine’s dilemma. And the genius of this casting.

Also, by giving us only our heroine’s side of the story, there’s enough reasonable doubt to make us wonder what really caused this couple to divorce years ago — and the teasing out of their relationship in both the past and the present is where the meat of this story lies.

But first, we have to understand our heroine, the “goddess of litigation,” who’s living high on the hog — partly because she’s a brilliant attorney, partly because she gets a huge monthly alimony from her ex-husband. The drama paints the picture of this broken marriage for us over the course of the first episode, with enough hints of Ha-ra’s anger over adultery that it’s no surprise when it’s confirmed that that was what broke up her own marriage.

In a sharp contrast of circumstances, her ex-husband Eun-bum is down to his last 8000 won, desperately needs a job, and though we don’t see much into his circumstances yet, he definitely gives off the vibes of having been kicked in the pants by life. Or Ha-ra. Or perhaps both. She has no problem noting Eun-bum as “a penniless piece of sh*t and live witness of karma” lol. Her fury takes it one step past normal and into the extreme, and that’s part of where the drama gets its personality from (more on that later).

The firm where Ha-ra works is run by CEO Seo (Jeon Bae-soo) and CEO Hong (Gil Hae-yeon), both brilliant in their roles already. CEO Hong is the wise and firm hand that keeps their meetings from devolving in daily fisticuffs, and CEO Seo is the one that sleeps through meetings and seemingly has the ability to see right through people. He’s close with Eun-bum, takes pity on him, and hires him to the firm (admittedly while drunk lol). He even tells Eun-bum that he’s still in love with Ha-ra — and interestingly, Eun-bum doesn’t even try to deny it. (This is the closest we see into Eun-bum in our premiere week, and I’m hoping the camera turns to his side of things more as the drama progresses.)

But back to Ha-ra and her “frenzy button.” She’s furious that her bosses would even think of taking on her cheating ex-husband, but she’s also in the middle of a very high-profile divorce case that seems to be an impossible win. Ha-ra’s case involves a famous actor (cameo by Park Yong-woo) who’s seeking to divorce his wife (cameo by Jung Yumi) whom he suspects of having an affair. He also wants their prenup to be honored… for which there is yet no legal precedent in Korea.

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Here’s where we get a taste of the drama’s structure, and the episodic legal aspect comes into play: each episode this week features a new case of Ha-ra’s, and much like we’ve seen in other character-driven yet “case of the week” dramas, the case pushes forward the plot, and shines light on a new aspect of our characters and their story. And I have to say, it was quite well done this week. The cases felt like they pushed the overarching plot forward, instead of the plot being build from the cases themselves.

As this first case is teased out, we see that Ha-ra really does need a hand, and Eun-bum offers to help her in exchange for “letting” him get hired at the firm, reminding her of their great synergy together in the past. And now it’s time for our first inkling that Ha-ra’s still got feelings for him despite everything — indeed, her high-spirited rancor seems to suggest that too — and she agrees to his deal.

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The two are every bit as awesome a team as we might expect, and the case is won — and with the highest-record alimony the firm has ever secured for a client. But it’s not all celebration. The case also teases out the deep wound of betrayal that being cheated on causes — and this is the point where I knew I loved this drama. In the middle of being cheeky and loud, it also takes the time to give us thoughtful moments, and show the more raw emotions that are also at play.

Ha-ra’s actor client is more heartbroken than even after his win — since the adultery was proven — and we see him display the same wild anger that Ha-ra has towards her own unfaithful spouse. But we also see the wounds left behind, and when her client asks her how he can ever be happy after being betrayed like this, she also cracks, and we see that underneath her goddess-like fury is a deeply hurt woman just trying to find happiness again.

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In addition to giving us this great balance of humor and pathos, the drama also has a lot of fun playing with the character of Eun-bum. The heart of the story naturally sits with Ha-ra — the wronged wife — but Eun-bum is far more than just our love-to-hate cheating husband.

He might be nervy and capable of preposterous things (like setting her up on a surprise blind date with his colleague), but we also get quick moments that show us there is much more to him than meets the eye. Whether it’s how he rises to protect Ha-ra from a skeevy attorney, is concerned for her safety in his junker of a car, or still has these moments of closeness with her that give us a glimmer of what their married life was like — there is definitely more to Eun-bum. But for now, he seems about 75% jerk. Even CEO Seo tells him angrily, “You have so many people to spit on your grave the grass will grow no problem!”

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Eun-bum also feigns disinterest in Ha-ra’s personal life, and seems only motivated by wanting to get out of paying her the alimony — which is what leads to the aforementioned date setup. As it turns out, though, the colleague in question, MIN JAE-GYEOM (Mu Jin-sung), is actually a really nice guy. Every objection Ha-ra can muster against him he gently disproves. He even sees through her initial insincerity… which leads to true sincerity between them. Their relationship grows quickly, and by the end of Episode 2 they’re kissing and speaking in banmal.

Ha-ra’s case in Episode 2 also fires up her adultery frenzy button — but in this case we see her sympathizing with the husband who’s been cheated on (not her client!), while Eun-bum relates to the wife who was neglected enough to fall in love with someone else.

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Make no mistake about it, these divorce cases are each complicated, mature, and there’s no simple solution for any of them. And that’s exactly the point the drama is trying to make. Though it’s Ha-ra’s job to litigate and win cases for her clients, we quickly see there is so much more going on than settlement agreements and admissible evidence. With matters of the heart, it’s always going to be messy.

Even though I already have adultery fatigue, I quite like the drama’s way of pulling us into the complexities of the cases not only for the clients, but how it affects our heroine’s own struggles and desire for happiness. The show makes no apologies for adultery, but it does paint well drawn pictures of couples that have been broken by infidelities, lies, and betrayal.

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Perhaps that’s why the drama’s penchant for exaggerated imaginary scenes is so welcome and so fun. Whether it’s Ha-ra letting Eun-bum fall from a Cliff of Doom, the steak knife she wishes she could attack him with, or the tennis volleying as a metaphor for the way arguing a case functions in court, the drama needs this element to lighten the heavier themes, and I enjoyed the color it brought to the story overall.

The drama is definitely doing a lot — and in 12 episodes — but after our premiere week I’m left thinking that it knows exactly where it’s going. And I’m happy to watch as the story continues to tease out not only what happened between our couple in the past, but if there is any room for them to find happiness together once again.

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Thank you for a brilliant recap!

This is the first airing K-drama I have watched in the past several months, and I am enjoying the beautiful bickering couple's chemistry!

Hoping they'll end up together LOL. Happy to start watching this show because OST 1 (you can hear a bit of it at the end of Ep 1) is sung by my favourite singer who hasn't sung an OST for a drama airing on TV since TKEM :)

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Kang So Ra is back!!! Please be good drama.

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So I was quite shocked in the first episode when they revealed the reason for their split was due cheating. But episode two made me feel pretty certain that’s not the case and there is more going on.

They are slowly giving us snippets of what happened in their relationship and I’m happy to wait and put the pieces together.

That said, I absolutely love their chemistry and them working as a team. I really like how they fall into (what I’m assuming is) their past dynamic so easily. They’ve known each other for ten years so it’s hilarious how they know what the other one is thinking. And so in typical lawyer fashion they already know what argument their ex-spouse is going to make. Heh

I loved how Oh Ha-ra tried to pull Gu Eun-bum down a peg, by insinuating that she doesn’t like talking to men rather she prefers talking to them with her body but then Eun-bum immediately twists her words back at her. LOL lawyers

Got to say my favourite scene was in Gu Eun-bum’s car (Rebecca 2.0?), when Ha-ra’s seat suddenly goes backward and Eun-bum tries to fix it! It was the most unromantic and yet the most romantic scene I’ve saw. Ha! I need more of that pls

Also beats the typical motorbike rescue scene that we’ve seen a million times already

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A very interesting premiere week, really crossing my fingers that Eunbum isn't a cheater though and that there's more to the story...I'm a sucker for his smile 😭

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I thought of that too- but surely if he was not then he would have made that very clear to begin with.

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Yeah even if he didn't cheat, what could possibly justify accepting your wife thinking you did? So either way, I don't really support the character but I hate that Jang Seungjo makes him so charming 💀

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As soon as his adultery was implied I also had a knee-jerk reaction hoping that he actually didn't, but after watching both episodes I could see it going either way. If he did, there is certainly more to the story (not excusing that behavior, but) to help us understand how he got there. The relationship must have been breaking down in other ways for cheating to happen as we saw with the couple in the second ep.

But I could honestly see it the other way too. Ha-ra may have been primed for some reason to see any interaction he had that way, especially if someone close to her was cheated on in the past. If her "frenzy button" was pushed by something she saw and misunderstood, I don't think she would have been willing to hear him out, and eventually he might have given up. We just don't have enough details yet.

That said, I think at this point I'm tentatively hoping it's the first scenario. That he actually did have a moment of infidelity that he regrets and that they'll have to get past. It would fit the theme the drama is setting up that relationships are complicated and messy and that there are no easy answers. Jang Seung-jo's eyes are already earning their keep in this drama - he looks so sad sometimes that our FL (and I) can't quite write him off as the proof-of-karma that I'd normally want a cheater to be.

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I love your assessment of our ML as 75% jerk- at least right now- because it is spot on. As he is presently portrayed, he definitely seems to be that sort of person who would cheat, not that there is a specific "type" per se.

Min Jae-geom really is a nice guy. Is this going to be one of those shows where we end up asking why the FL did not go for the SML?

Or is this going to be one of those shows where the wrier pulls a rabbit out of a hat and surprises us with something entirely out of the blue?

I guess I am hooked and will have to keep watching.

The shows frankness about the impact of adultery was very refreshing. In my professional life I have certainly seen the depths of the anger and hurt that result.

But i have to admit that as a lawyer I found one thing extremely jarring: The idea that it is acceptable for a lawyer to meet with an opposing party who has counsel without that other person's lawyer present. Is that really allowed in Korea? In my country it would be a very serious breach of ethics- of the kind which carries serious consequences. It may have made for better drama, but I found it quite disturbing.

That being said I think I liked the show much better once I had watched the second episode.

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i was wondering if that is considered witness tampering...

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In a sense it is worse than that. A party to an action is much more than a witness- they are the people whose legal interests are at stake and, as such, the ultimate decision makers as to how those interests will be addressed. If opposing counsel can seek to sway that person into doing something different by speaking directly to them then what is happening is that he is actively depriving the opposing party of the advice and legal knowledge of the other lawyer which is what the other party purchased when they hired their counsel. It is something like a form of theft.

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I appreciate your comment on the law, because I was wondering about that scene as well, although I also will keep watching.

As far as the ML, its pretty hard for me to see the 25% of him that's NOT a jerk right now. Sure, he's good looking and charismatic, but there were a couple of scenes where I would have supported the gangster who beat him up. And this is totally ignoring the question of whether he cheated or not, although I'm sure we'll see at the very least there were some extenuating circumstances.
For me, this points to the one truly consistent flaw in kdrama romances--the compulsion to present the male lead in the early episodes as really obnoxious--whether cold and arrogant and ill-mannered, or in this case, self-absorbed, shifty, inconsiderate and ill mannered. Of course the behavior will be explained or modified in some way by the end, but can't the initial portrayal be just a LITTLE more nuanced?

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@oldawyer, I was also shocked to see both attorneys meet with the husband of the woman they were representing. Perhaps it is permissible in South Korea.
A legal question consult (if you don’t mind). In the US can alimony be awarded to a party in a divorce as punitive damages? Something along the lines of, one side cheated on the other and caused the marriage to fall apart so the cheating party is forced to pay alimony to the other spouse as punishment rather than only for financial reasons. It appeared to me from watching the first two episodes that that can happen in South Korea.

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depends upon the state. in washington state, we have community property - so in divorce, one cannot sue for damages, i believe? joint assets are split 50:50.

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What can be awarded in a Divorce Decree in the US varies from State to State. Many States, like Washington, do not even use the term Alimony but rather another term 'Maintenance'. That term can be used to mean simply payment of support for a spouse who cannot otherwise support themselves. But it can be used also as a term for a periodic payment to pay off a debt otherwise owed by one spouse to the other. For instance, if the couple owned a business together then maintenance might be used as a way for one spouse to buy out the other's share. And if one spouse owed damages to the other for an injury then maintenance might be used as a device for paying off that debt also.

One of the purposes of a divorce decree is to settle all of the legal claims that each spouse may have against each other, so if there can be a claim for damages then that claim should be
resolved as part of the decree if it is possible to do so.

Assuming that South Korean law allows damages for adultery then those damages could be satisfied by an award of compensatory maintenance. However compensatory maintenance is never a lifelong obligation- it is simply a way of paying a debt and as such it will eventually reach an end once that debt is paid. I do not know South Korean law, but I suspect that our writer is playing a bit fast and loose with it when describing the nature and terms of the alimony owed by our ML to our FL. This show is a romcom and not a documentary so it should not surprise us when the writer takes some artistic liberties for the sake of the plot.

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Thanks for the reply.

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I had to turn a blind eye on every court related scene as well as the fact that the lawyer met the husband without the presence of his lawyer. Sure, drama rules, but very blind eye on my side.

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As expected, I agree that it was jarring for Ha-ra and Eun-bum to meet with the opposing party without his lawyer present. Even if it is allowed in SK, one would think common sense would tell you not to do it. How would they have felt if the tables were turned and opposing counsel met with their client?

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I loved the opening scene reenacting the scene from Again my Life. So far, I have been enjoying the drama and am looking forward to more of our leads' bickering scenes and how their past story will unfold. Please keep it up, show.

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but I must say the word charming raises my feathers because charming cheater guys are narcissists and they should all be dumped in a pit and covered with dirt. they can destroy the universe. even if he turns out "changed"... but thats a false message. narcissists cannot change.

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Cheater is always a cheater, it is character defect. I don't understand why people are so hard to learn this and think they can change a person. I just go on laughing when people say that and then they act high and mighty about it.

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Narcissists do have a chance of changing...the chance is very very low but it does exist. If they are able to accept they have NPD, and are also able to undergo years of therapy, it's true a narcissist may not see results for several years but still they can change.
It's also true the vast majority of narcissists don't want to and won't change.

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yeah veeeeeery few go to therapy, there are some self aware narcs on TikTok / INsta, but it doesnt mean they are NOT doing anything - like, I actually realised some of them do the same things to their followers now! silent treatment to some, and specifically preferring certain users´ comments. They arent any different just found more targets.
its so complicated. I just had a narc friend ruin my birthday by announcing his engagement, and everyone just forgot me. They have to blow themselves up big on peoples important dates :-(

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Couple reunion is one of my favorite drama tropes, so I was just so easily hooked by the drama. I think there's misunderstanding that the ex wife thinks the ex husband was cheating, though I'm not quite sure right now. I'm quite like ML. But if the reason behind the divorce is cheating and abuse, there's no chance in hell she should back together again.
I think I watched J drama with similar theme and setup in which 2 divorce lawyers working together. Forget the title.

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Ha-Ra said that EunBeom left her for another woman (probably the one she keeps seeing everywhere), but he's no longer with her so, there is a lot going on there. And also, the fact that he left her must be the reason he has to pay that high alimony that has brought him into banckruptcy.

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Is it weird that I want him to have actually cheated? From the narrative point, this would make a far better and more in-depth story than whatever crazy thing anyone can come up to justify making your ex think you have cheated on them. In the conversation with their latest client, Eun Bum explained it well enough - if you decide to wrong someone, know that there would be consequences and that you should follow through. He is doing exactly that - he has been paying a normal salary level alimony to his ex and doesn't pine for her even though he clearly still loves her. Yeah and I don't for a second believe Eun Bum is dating the women he had an affair with.

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I agree. Being a cheater would make his character a worse person but not being a cheater makes the story ridiculous. What kind of reason can there be for letting your wife believe you cheated if you didn't? Why would you do that in a relationship of 10+ years? She's been in a world of hurt and pain since then. So if they try to make this into a noble idiocy thing, it'll be ridiculous.

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and it would be so cruel of him to let her believe that he cheated. If that's the approach the show decides to take Hae Ra better sue him for emotional damage as well.

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I am with you both. This is a much better story to tell.
It would be very hard to pull off a solid reason for why he chose to be a faux-adulterer to divorce his wife.

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I think because he thinks if she doesn't trust him enough to believe that he didn't cheat on her why even bother to continue with the marriage?

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For that we wait for the narrative to turn. and we start seeing her character flaws and his side of the story.
I did notice he goes complete silent whenever she talks about his cheating. So definitely he has a story to tell.

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Err I really hope that's not the reason! The solution to "she doesn't trust me" should be communication (and maybe couple's therapy!) not lying about cheating and getting a divorce.

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THIS!! Trust is something that is built together - there is no automatic entitlement to trust.

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I guess this is what the drama is for to watch them learning to communicate? I hope the writer can deliver.
I really want to like the ML, but there's no flight back for cheating land, so I wish it is not the case.

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I never thought of this. "Trust", o really want to see how this drama delves into this topic. It's quite a valid reason for the split but I want to know why.

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That is what I thought. I was thinking about this: maybe she confronted him asking him why he cheated on her and when he said he didn't and she didn't believe him, no matter what he was the one who felt he was being abandoned and so he decided to say: "yes, you are right" because he had lost her trust.
Even so, too much of a noble idiocy, which is probably my most hated trope (along with filial piety).

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I also haaaate filial piety trope! I thought it made me a bad daughter and couldn’t even find the words to explain it.

Thanks @Eazal.

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I agree 100%. I hope he did cheat and regrets it. It makes for a better story and character arc.

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I mean he does pine for her, he literally came to work at her workplace. Yeah he is paying her alimony, but that doesn’t give him the right to suddenly show up at her workplace. It would make me hate him so much more that he’d have the audacity to win her back when he caused her such pain. If he truly loved her he’d let go.

The whole reason they got a divorce was on the basis that he cheated and therefore the divorce meant they’d never have to see each other again, they don’t even have kids! If he cheated he is breaking that agreement and as charming as the actor is, I could not get onboard with a character like that.

I wish the show didn’t use the cheating storyline to begin with and it was just the typical normal estrangement couples face that drove them to divorce

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I have a different view on this. I don't think he pines for her, nor he came to work to get back with her. Yes, he does seem to still love her (We dont know that yet for sure).
It seems like they both worked in the same office prior to the divorce. After the divorce, he left (probably not fired) and tried to start his own firm and failed. Desperate to make ends meet, he reached out to his ex-employer who took him back. If the employer felt he was a good asset to the company why shouldn't they?
The issue with affair is personal. They got divorced due to it and he pays alimony. That is the end. What they both do with their lives after that is left to them. Just because he 'cheated' doesn't mean he needs to run away from her for life. He gave her the space (by leaving the company) for a few years and she is meeting him after a time gap.
Given they were in the same profession they were bound to meet some day or the other.

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My comment above was only on the basis that he cheated, if he didn’t and it was some misunderstanding or Noble Idiocy (which is what I think) I have no problem with him returning to their workplace. I know that sounds hypocritical of me but I can see him wanting to clear up any lies or misunderstandings between. I can also see him coming back to tell her the truth, just as you said it’s been two years, so there has been space and distance from the highly emotional and high tension environment during the divorce.

This is why I think Ha-ra didn’t up and immediately quit. I think for her subconsciously, she knows something isn’t right. I mean she’s a lawyer, but also when you know and have been with someone for a long time you can sometimes tell when they are lying. You can tell from their micro expressions and the way they present themselves. I can usually tell when my sister is lying because of this, I can’t consciously tell you why she lying but I subconsciously pick up on the cues.

Ha-ra says this herself when she mentions she’s curious about the deciding factor that made Eun-bum choose to abandon her for the other woman. It’s almost as if she doesn’t quite believe he left her because he loved the other woman

If he actually did cheat, yeah sure he can come back to work at their workplace, legally there is nothing wrong, she didn’t put a restraining order on him. But I would say ethically it’s not imo. Also if he did 100% for sure did cheat I think Ha-ra would’ve quit immediately. She’s getting a good amount in alimony so she’d probably start her own business as she already seems quite popular or probably get headhunted imo

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He pines for her? So he introduced his friend to her? This is a strange way of expressing your love, willing that she will marry again so that he will not have to pay alimony.

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I mean yeah that was strange. But remember when Eun-bum asked Ha-ra out for dinner in the car and Ha-ra rejected him saying she was already having a dinner date with his friend. Eun-bum didn’t look too pleased and seemed sad. So yeah it looks like he still cares and has feelings for her.

It’s fine, I know I’m in the minority opinion. If you disagree that’s cool too :)

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I don't think he had much of a choice at that stage. He needed a nice salary to pay for the alimony and if kdramas have taught me anything it is that finding a new job in Korea is EXTREMELY difficult. Especially considering that he has a failed law office on his resume. Besides, he set her up with his friend, he can't pine for her any less.

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If I worked in an office that colour, I'd go insane within a week.

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😂 and I would go crazy if I went into meetings where two couples are always fighting or ready to get into a fight. What a waste of my time :)

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🤣 Same. I have one friend who is a divorce lawyer and he and his partner of decades never got married. Occupational hazard, I think.😬

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I initally disliked the side characters, but they grew on me by episode 2😅😅

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its driving me insane LOL it doesnt look like a law firm AT ALL lol

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Tryna work out if it's like that so that they win more divorce cases because the office decor drives their clients off the edge. ಠ⁠_⁠ಠ

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well i'm in for the ride -- i hope it stays like these first 2 eps! like the ensemble cast, not convinced her ex committed adultery... he's so cute, he has beautiful eyes, right?

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Oh he does! Such pretty eyes. And they can act! They tell a story. One look and I feel things 😍

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It’s impossible to hate Eun-Bum because it comes with Jang Seung-jo‘a face. 😅. I am shallow like that.

I am most certain it’s not a case of cheating because I almost see no denial from him or any emotions . He just takes her fury. The scene in the car (where she talks about Karma, his mom punishing him etc) shows a glimpse of his face. The sad broken face.
Even if the drama goes there, I do hope it ends with him apologizing, giving her a reason so she can move on and find her happiness. She deserves that. And may be they can be strangers again.
I won’t mind if the show does manage to pull off the latter since it would be an interesting story.

I do like the show. Even the legal stuff isn’t bothering me!!

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I feel the legal cases also showcased their perspective somewhat. The first case showed Ha-ra’s feelings and how being cheated on damaged her.

The second case (tho very absurd and over the top imo) we see a little of Eun-bum’s perspective when he mentions every decision comes at a price, but also every decision comes with a payoff.

Which is ringing my alarm bells that he didn’t cheat.
lol my brain is working on overdrive to figure out what the ‘payoff’ might be?

Did he have cancer and didn’t want to burden her? Or maybe they both wanted children but he found out he was infertile? Was his ‘first love’ his doctor and therefore caused the misunderstanding that he was cheating?

I’m trying to pull the different Noble Idiocy tropes that I witnessed all these years through my drama watching lol

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lol. yes, we could collectively come up with all the noble idiocy reasons or any other reason
1) terminal illness
2) cant have kids
3) he found that his high school first love had a secret child of his, so he divorced and took responsibility for that child.
4) He got entangled in a tax fraud so he divorced her to protect her.
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I am sure beanies can get more creative than this ; )

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I hate noble idiocy as much as cheating. It shows an underlying disrespect by the noble idiot towards their supposed love. They have zero problem with inflicting massive pain which in some cases is probably 100% times worse than the pain their supposed love might have felt if they had just been told the truth.

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Yes agree with you, Noble Idiocy inflicts more pain than actually telling the truth, which is why I wish the show didn’t go the adultery route.

But this is why I think he lied about cheating. Eun-bum said every decision comes at a price, but also every decision comes with a payoff.

If his price is his divorce what’s his payoff?
He’s not with the person he ‘cheated’ with, his mother pretty much disowned him, his business failed and he is broke af

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5) some kind of promise/deal made with Ha Ra's parents, his parents, relatives or close acquaintance?
6) bad timing whenever he tried to explain
7) Ha Ra mentioned it was tiring to live with him and he decided to give her freedom back?

If we had to list everything from all the dramas, then a day wouldn't be enough😅😅

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8) He wanted a pet(s) and she refused for long. So he divorced her and is now living with his dog and cats 🙃

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@emsel maybe he has multiple personality disorder and his alternate personality is a crime lord known as Big Mouse 😂

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I would totally support your proposed resolution to this show! While I agree, cheating or not, you can't hate the character. But I do find him right now very irritating. I wonder if this will be a show where the two leads do NOT get together and yet it will be a happy ending. That would actually be pretty refreshing!

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Same Blue! Both to being sold by JSJ's eyes and turning a blind eye into the legal stuff.

Regarding what we all have been discussing in previous comments and what we wonder about EunBeom being a real cheater or not, I'm afraid SK is not ready for a couple being reunited after one of them has cheated on the other. Even if it was just a kiss or maybe just a night because of alcohol or out of spite for whatever reason, specially when the drama is labelled as a rom-com. Yet, as you I'd rather it just went down that road.

Even if it's bean a real cheating or not, what is real it that two people have been hurt and they opted for divorce instead of a frank conversation or maybe therapy.

Anyway, it's hard not to fall for EunBeom if he has the face of JSJ... what can I say? I extremely pretty boy biased!

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Of course Ha Ra still loves him. I think it is weird the folks in the drama are acting like that is crazy. She left him because he cheated(I really hope he cheated and learned his lesson), rather than some other nonsense reason, not because she didn't love him. She is upset because he broke their trust. That being said we have mostly seen things from her point of view, so maybe we will see it from his first. Our leads have great chemistry and this looks like a fun ride with no criminal shenanigans.

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I'm not sure that there is any justifiable reason that the show can provide that will have me rooting for the ML. Either he cheated on the FL or he placed a friend first showing a blatent lack of respect for the FL and his marriage. Even if it turns out he was just being a "noble idiot" trying to "protect" the FL, it shows he has no respect for the FL and no problem inflicting massive pain on her.

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Agree, I don't think there is either, which is why I would rather he cheated on her and became a better person, rather than some other BS reason.

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The Korean law was what made me the most frustrated in these episodes. I really don't like the fact that you can be denied a divorce. It's so weird and unfair. In my country, if one wants to divorce but not the other, you can do a procedure in protective measures of the conjugal union and after 2 years, you can divorce.

For the drama itself, I didn't like how immature were the leads. I wished for more subtlety...

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Under Korean law there are grounds for divorce where that divorce must be granted even if the other party does not agree- and one of them is adultery.

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But not the opposite, if you see someone else, you can be forced to be married...

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That is the thing that I found the most unrealistic in this drama (and is actually for real). In my country, in such cases the court will grant three month "waiting" period. In Korea however you are basically forcing the person to stay married, something that is just ... cruel? Breaking basic human rights?

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Similar laws are in most other countries other that the western countries. It's unimaginable, but try to think of the other horrifying part of lack of women's rights where divorce is rarely granted to them even on grounds of domestic abuse. Korean law seems much more lenient. There's a Japanese drama surrounding a convenient marriage. Filing for divorce was done by filling a form and one of them submitting it at the local government office where it was processed within days- just like with marriage certificate hah. Of course that was with mutual agreement with no shared assets and such, but way easier than in the EU for example.

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every time there's a divorce case in a korean drama I get frustrated bcs of the laws. anybody should be allowed to walk out of a marriage if they feel like it. for whatever reason. if they have kids, make a custody deal. if they have assets, make a deal. of course, there will be some bureaucracy but no. single law should force someone to stay married to another person under any circumstances. that's just insane to me lol

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The thing that made me mad was the fact that he had to pay an alimony. It makes no sense to me, as she is a working woman that can provide for herself. In my country, the other part only gets alimony if they don't have a job and only for two year maximum (also, it depends on the circumstances because there can be cases where it's longer of even for life). So in this case she is getting, at least to me, an unfair gain: she's earning as much from her alimony as she gets from working. I'm very sorry but as much as being cheated on deserves my sympathy, you don't earn the right to get a compensation (unless there is a contract that says so).

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Please tell me there won't be the usual plot with the serial killer

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We're two episodes in and not a whiff of a serial killer or stalker! I think hope pray we're in the clear. The only crime so far is the second female lawyer's hair.

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After watching the first 2 episodes, I think it will be hard to root for the leads to get back together. Either the ML cheated on the FL or best case he placed the needs of a female friend over his marriage and the FL thus causing the FL 3 years of pain. Either way, I'm not sure the FL should ever trust him again as it appears she and their marriage was never his top priority. I think it will be even worse if it turns out that he preferred to allow the FL to mistakenly believe that he cheated on her "to protect her" as that would show a complete lack of respect for the FL. Kinda like those "noble idiots" who to avoid causing future pain, decide to inflict massive pain currently.

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I knew I loved it after the first episode (or before it started after learning who the leads were). My love for both of them has grown ten fold so far! Thank you for the spot on recap @missvictrix. So well worded and thought out as you have always done.

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Ok, the comment section is quite interesting. Majority of them disapprove of the ML, but I do not see him that way, maybe because of my bias towards Jang Seung Jo. Also, for a drama dealing with divorces, I expected a lot of melancholy, but it is upbeat with loads of good dialogues. So, I am fine if the drama chooses a noble idiocy route for the ML backstory because anything else would make this drama a sad/frustrating watch.

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Yep same, I’m team Noble Idiocy. The fact that it’s unrealistic is fine by me, I want my escapism and not have to deal with the angst brought on by actual adultery

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It’s definitely a rom com genre and not a melo, so yeah, it’s gonna be Noble idiocy.
and JSJ is too pretty to be the bad guy!!

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As a rule I detest noble idiocy almost as much as the truck of doom which I thought might make as appearance after that red light stop. Thankfully not. There is an exception to every rule so as much as I hate to say it, count me in on team Noble Idiocy, if it means that Eun-beom is made out not to be a cheater. Let’s have a happy ending which perhaps may not include Eun-beom and Har-ra being back together now that handsome Jae-gyeom is in the mix.

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I like the tone a lot too. I think it mix the more emotional scenes really well with the over the top shenanigans like the knife moment form our FL lol

narrative-wise, I prefer the drama to make him a cheater than go the noble idiocy route because I don't see it as a "they cant never get back together if that's the case" situation. they could talk it out and decide to try again, it wouldn't be the first or last couple to do it. but with this being a Korean drama - and to being a super heavy melodrama at it - I think the writer will probably make their divorce as some misunderstanding to make it "easier"for their main couple to end happy together.

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*NOT being a super heavy melodrama

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I think we are in that scenario, as this is a rom com and it will be a very weird rom com if we didn't get our OTP together by the end of it.

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I'm intrigued by the "other woman." If he did cheat with her and leave the FL for her (I'm not convinced he actually cheated), he clearly isn't with her now. Personally I think there's some other story behind it, I doubt they would make the ML someone who cheated on the FL. Not that I think making her think he cheated is any better.

Also, when they had FL having a convo with ML but it turns out it was just in her imagination, did anyone else get horrible flashbacks to Love is for Suckers? Lol

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How many episodes will it take for the FL to determine what's real and what isn't. Being a divorce lawyer she's formed a twisted notion of marriage........ she was with him for 10 years, 3 of which they were married. She's the victim yet how much of their problems is she the blame......... it will be interesting how they make this play out.

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15 episodes.

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MDL says its only 12 episodes!

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After watching the second episode I had similar thoughts about "The Other Woman'. The FL believes that the ML cheated with 'The Other Woman" who was apparently his 'First Love'. Yet he is clearly not with her now nor with anyone else- Or is he? Because in the last scene of episode two we see the lady in question, Ki Seo Hee, enter the bar where she is and followed by our ML- but if this is a romantic rendezvous why is he carrying his attaché case? I sense a red herring here.

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So far, this is exactly what I hoped it would be. It's fun and lively, but I appreciate the sensitive approach it took in portraying the emotional toll that adultery takes on people who truly believe that marriage is forever. I agree with others that the ML as written and shown so far is not particularly sympathetic, but Jang Seung-jo's angelic face and undeniable charm make it difficult to hate him. I also like the case-of-the-week structure, and find this peak into Korean divorce law both surprising and interesting.

I'm a big fan of stories that feature bickering leads with a complicated history, especially when it's done with a lighter touch yet still doesn't spare viewers deep emotional payoff. So this one is currently a must watch and I hope that continues.

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I find it very hard to like him when he's inserting himself in her life, all the while he like everyone else can sense the hurt she's carrying with her. I'd rather he repents and talks out and then NOT being endgame rather that it all being a stupid misunderstanding.

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So, am I the only one who hated pretty much everything in this drama? I watched the first ep and that was enough for me.
There is no way in my opinion to justify the behaviour of the two mains who are simply childish. It is absolutely clear in my mind that he never cheated. Seriously, it is simply forbidden in the kdrama world. So he must have had an idiotic reason... and now he is back to torment her some more?
Let's not talk about the client who almost run over his wife. I would have called the police... not jumped into the car to open my heart to him. Nothing made sense in this drama.
For me it is a BIG NO.

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I love this drama so far, but I completely agree with you about how ill-advised it was for the FL to jump in the car of her client immediately after he just tried to run over his ex-wife. That demanded way too much suspension of disbelief.

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May I come in here? He's not back to torment her more. He has to work and the firm gave him a job spot. Infidelity doesn't mean the erring partner should hit rock bottom for forever. Eun-beom is a competent worker. And he has bills to pay. And yes there are plenty other firms to hire him but hello, it's dramaland, and there's only one law firm the ML can work at. Now that will that make for the drama and the sweet ridiculous chaos this two bring.

I agree with you on the almost run-over. It took a lot of suspension of belief.

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I don't mean that. A job is a job, I agree. But you try to stay away from her. Give her space. You don't ask her out and then organize a blind date? Does it make any sense? Maybe it's just me...

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Oh! That. It's definitely not fair play and it didn't sit well with me. The reason made sense to me, same with the motive for his doing so and the action itself. But it didn't sit well at all.

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I am liking it (maybe not as much as I expected) but I am applying a lot of suspension of disbelief, and it's working for me right now. I mean, for instance there have been dramas I just couldn't pass half of episode 1 because it was too much. This one is making things work for me, and considering it has a legal background that is a lot.

And yes to the run over, and also to leads being childish, although I don't agree that he is there to torment her but just to earn a living.

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Yes, but if you did something wrong or made her believe that and you know you caused a lot of pain, you take the job and make yourself really small. You don't intrude. You do what you have to do to do the job properly, but that's all. You don't invite her to dinner and to a blind date. I didn't watch the second episode so I don't know the reasoning behind that... but it was too much for me.

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The blind date thing was because he stops paying alimony if she remarries, but yes, I totally get your point. Sometimes no is no.
I could never finish episode 2 of Extraordinary Attorney Woo, for instance. In that one I just couldn’t apply the suspension of disbelief.

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Ah yeah, sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. I know at times I can get over the craziest stuff and the unbelivable plots and just enjoy a drama. Other times I simply can't. This one didn't work for me at all unfortunately.

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Finally Jang Seung-jo as an ML in a rom-com! He’s such a joy to watch even though his role here is a cheater. Though I doubt Korea would go that route if they do want the OTP to end up together in the end, which they will bcs again, this is kdramaland.

Also, not a fan of the shouting in the meeting room. Too much and the bickering of the other office couple, nah.

I’m just happy that I’m seeing JSJ and KSR in a rom-com and also, I wasn’t able to watch Good Detective S2 so yay!

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I enjoyed the complexity of the drama leads so far. I hope we don't have to wait too long for Eun Bum's perspective on things.
I think I'd be happy if it is true that the ML cheated and we have the FL coming to terms with the end of the relationship and finding happiness elsewhere. It would be a refreshing conclusion. I'm not sure it will happen though.

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I would love if the story took that direction, but I don't think it's going to happen. The show gives me the opposite vibe: he didn't cheat, they're getting back together.

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I've watched other shows with cheating, so I wouldn't find impossible for the ML to be a cheater, but the way they haven't show anything from his perspective, or anything from the past, makes me think that he didn't cheat.

I mean, by now Kdramaland should've give us a nice flashback of the wife finding her husband in bed with the other girl.
Besides, except for Love Affairs in the Afternoon, I've never seen a cheater that didn't treat people like completely trash (The Miracle We Met, for ex). Kdramas don't make cheaters just cheat, they usually make them the most disturbing person in the whole show.

So, the fact the we have zero information about their marriage (besides the cheating) and that the ML doesn't treats people like trash, is because he didn't cheat. They're preparing us for a sad backstory.

I don't know if they're going to give him cancer, I don't know if their going to say that their marriage had deep problems, or if there's another excuse; but I'm pretty sure he said he cheated just to break their relationship completely. That's what he really wanted.

I hope I'm wrong tho. I want the show to be interesting, realistic, not predictable.

Oh, and the cases... Was I supposed to feel bad for those guys? One almost hits his wife with car??? The other one lies and avoids his wife for 4 years. My aroace self can't understand how important sex can be in relationships, but I don't think there's a point for being with someone that tries to protect their pride to the point where the end up hurting you. So even if they fixed their sexual issue, I would've told her to get a divorce. Aren't couples supposed to lean on each other? trust and protect each other? Jesus.

I think the best way to watch this show (for me), is to not think about it.

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If you think deeply about it, you would drop. At least I would.

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“he said he cheated just to break their relationship completely”

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This gave me an instant flashback to that terrible show Encounter/Boyfriend. Jang Seungjo’s character, the only one I cared about, ended his marriage by pretending there was a another woman to save his wife from his awful mother. No awful mother in this case, but the idea of his ending the marriage by pretending there’s someone else to protect his wife from something or someone is very appealing to me.

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Did you watch episode three already?
I think you're going to like it.

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And for the episode to end like that?!?!
Well we should be grateful that it's an odd-numbered ep and not an even one. Can you imagine being left hanging for a week?

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Oh, but I think today's episode is going to piss you off. 😆
The reason for their divorce is totally the opposite of what you expected/wanted, right?

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I am not happy. About many things in this episode.

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The scene in the ML's car when our FL realized that maybe she'd let some of her anger go and had moved on from that more raw space of pain and rage felt like a cleansing breath. I don't want to see her character go back to just being reactive.

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I didn’t mean to be disloyal to Jang Seungjo, but in ep1, Park Yongwoo with his soothing voice and deep stares had all my attention.

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All I think at the conclusion of these episodes was I feel like there is more to Eun Bum's story. I don't know their dynamic when they were dating or how lovey dovey they were but it seems like he made a conscious choice to cheat and then deal with the consequences. Maybe objectively he's a shameless jerk but I didn't feel any hate or disgust when watching him (maybe because his first scenes are him hanging then falling off a cliff, being evicted from his office, getting beaten up by a former client, and having no where else to go except a law firm where he's surrounded by hostility and gossip).

I think it's obvious that Ha Ra isn't over him or at least she still has complicated feelings for him.
I know that a major driving force for Eun Bum to set her up with Jae Gyeom is to not have to pay alimony but so far the guy actually seems like a good person. Makes me a little nervous for what's going to be revealed in future episodes.

I just don't know if this a drama where they'll end up back together or better off as collaegues (possibly friendly). I'm kinda thinking I want the latter.

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I am really curious about this show; I think its the same excitement I got for love is for suckers. Also the ML, he's just soo handomee I can't help falling for him!
If it goes like a regular kdrama it'd be great to see them get together and all because their chemistry is too good. And for this he'd actually not have cheated, but actually protected her or smth, but that's where it'll get unrealistic and I'll love it for that but the unrealism~
Or, he'd actually have cheated but that'd be soo sad and bad irl.
Idk what'll happen but I love the chemistry (of the 2nd couple too!)

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I havent started watching because of the low rating but started reading the comments. Is the low rating just because of the cheating? Because if it is- I don't mind cheating (in dramas). But if its something else -bad writing, acting, cringe, then I'll stay away

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Hehe loved the recap. Really excited for this. How come no mention of the foreboding character at the end of episode twoooooo....

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