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[Theme of the Month] Surviving and thriving in dramaland

Dramaland — and its vacuum-sucking power that surpasses even Dyson-level — is sometimes a dangerous place to be. You might have to stay up all night. You might have to watch dramas you don’t really like, just to see a face you do. You might need lists of your favorite screenwriters, and spreadsheets to catalog dramas you have watched (and how many times). You’ll also probably need an external hard drive on which to store all the screenshots you’ll amass.

For June’s Theme of the Month, tell us about your tips and tricks for being a dramaland devotee. Whether it’s a list of hacks for watching 16 episodes without losing too much sleep, or a listicle for how you deal with drama tropes (maybe trope bingo?), we want to hear from you.


Essay prompt:

  • Share your best tips, hacks, and tactics for surviving and thriving in dramaland, from pulling an all-nighter to confronting your least favorite trope in your most favorite drama.

 
To submit:

  • Email your short essay submission to hello @ dramabeans.com. If you have a registered Dramabeans account, include your handle so we can link to it.
  • Include at least 1 image, though more are preferred.
  • Suggested length: Between 500 and 1,000 words.
  • DEADLINE: We will post these on a rolling basis, and we’re taking submissions starting now. We will cut off accepting submissions on Monday, June 26, 2023. If you miss this month, join us for a new theme next time!

 
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"your best tips, hacks, and tactics for surviving-

1. Don't.
2. Sh☠️tpost.
3. Drop
(4. Write much, much more than 1000 words on anything.)

"- and thriving in dramaland"
5. ~ ✨Drama Master Doc~✨
6. ✨Lists ✨

Oh would you look at that, submission not needed. ;)

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Actually what's the most screenshots anyone has taken of a single drama, I'm curious now. I know what mine is, roughly.

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I never take screenshot 😅

What do you do with them?

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I have taken screenshots sometimes. I "pin" them in my Pinterest k-dramas sub boards :)

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Oh okay.

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I take lots of screenshots, but I have no idea how many (probably for toe best!). It’s often because there’s a bit of text/script that I love and want to be able to revisit. And then sometimes, an image is so beautiful or arresting that I want to see it again. If you’re lucky to know me off of DB, I have also been known to share them, unsolicited.😅

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*the best 🤦🏻‍♀️

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Oh, it's a good idea for the quotes. I never remember them so it could help.

But I keep the dramas I like, so I guess I already have way enough on my server. 😅

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Yes there are some really great lines that you want to keep. Also, sometimes I really like a character's outfit or interior decoration, and so I screenshot it to remember the color combo and use it as reference for my own outfits. For example, I still have a vivid memory of a beautiful dress that Kim Nam-joo wore in one of her dramas. It's still my favorite design.

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She looked great in Misty.

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So much. 😅

1. If I'm live reacting or blogging a show on my wall on here, and have scenes I wish to comment on or share, (a la @lordcobol), or individual scenes that incite a commentary or rant, either privately or publicly, then *snap*.
For example,
A) I live reacted to almost the entirety of Lookout.
B) If there's something specific you want or need to reference (see below points) for any reason, one needs to screenshot it.
C) this also includes when I want to do a spam of a certain show.

2. Following on from this, like @mellowarmadillo said, if there's a line I want to take note of, either for sharing as above, or for saving for any reason, or as a reference when writing essays especially, then *snap*.
This can either be a good line, a line I don't agree with, or a line in any capacity I wish to analyse or come back to later.
This can also just be a scene I particularly want to save overall.

3. If there's a scene that's particularly well framed or shot, is either really pretty or really clever or something else then, *snap*
Cinematography, photography, lighting, framing, angles, repetition devices, narrative parallels, any film technique really that gets my attention, colours and colour grading especially- if something has a colour scheme I really like, or a use of colour that grabs me or is overall consistently good, etc. etc.

4. And in the vein of both of the above points, I take lot in general for drawing, writing or Shitpost references.

If there's angles or expressions of actors and characters that grab my imagination, then *snap*.
If I need a reference when drawing something specific for a Shitpost drawing, (Like the Orchid Tree in Little Women or the Archaeopteryx- which I then from said screenshots hunted down and found the exact 3D cgi model they used for the show as further reference.)
If there's set design or locations for either.
And like @ahjummaaa, also interior design and costume design. I take A LOT for costumes, especially in Sageuks and Chinese "costume" dramas. Costume references are both drawing and writing references for my own works.
4.1. and then as a sub-point of this and 1 and 2, when something is explicitly WRONG or Inaccurate. And then you either want to share it, Shitpost it, or just save it as proof. Then... *snap*.

5. Also basically any time there is a cool sword or interesting weapon.
6. Or an animal.

7. Sometimes when I just REALLY like a show and/or want to squee over it or a character... like when a side character (or animal) is my crack reason for watching (Hello, Bead Boy...) then, *snap*.

BONUS: I also screenshot when there's a detail I want to sort of save or remember for later, just for internal show watching purposes, a fact or clue or something similar. Sometimes this leads to a rant or an inaccuracy but it's also just a way of making a mental story note and remembering it.

At the moment I've taken to downloading shows I watch anyway. But I also...

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... find it better to screenshot in the moment if there's something I want to preserve for any of the above reasons, or even just for preservation and proof sake's alone, to have an archive of it, as well as maybe additionally having it downloaded.

For example, the donkey in Joseon Attorney I would screenshot every time it appeared. And then when its appearance was contested, I was able to first find the screenshot, and then find the episode off that, and then go to the episode to get the time stamp.

(I do this with movies too.)

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So how long do you keep them? For example, the cute donkey in JA?

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What was the number, which drama was it and why so many?

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The most I have on record, on this PC, is 933 for 9Tails (the first one, aka the only one). Mainly Reasons 1 and 7 above.
I also took 535 of JUST Bead Boy from Secret Royal Inspector And Joy. Lol. Same reasons.

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Impressive! Who is bead boy? I have been meaning to ask but thought it’s probably a ‘you had to be there’ thing so would not translate well in a conversation via written comments. 👈🏾If it this, just say and I will continue to make up my own theories.

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Now I like the idea of the Bead Boy Mythos self-perpetuating and you just making up who you think he is hahahaha. You should still do that.

But he also deserves a proper explanation so-

Bead Boy, actual character name: Park Tae Seo, played by: Lee Jae Kyun.
He was one of the antagonists of the show, the abused bastard son of the villain, whose main motivation was the acceptance, acknowledgement and love of his Villain Father, who treats him poorly due to his bastard status. He goes through a process of realising that his father is actually just manipulative and abusive, and doesn’t care about him, and uses Tae Seo’s need for love to get him do things, terrible things, and use him for his own gain.

He was dubbed Bead Boy by yours truly due to this^ being represented through the recurring motif of his Gat Beads, which were given to him by his father, and he sees as a sign of this acceptance. There is a fantastic scene where he rejects his father’s false love and manipulation by removing the beads once and for all.

I latched on to him fairly early, he was attractive and compelling (and had purple hanboks~ win!), and wanted the best for him, even if the writing was always subpar. He DOES get a sort of redemption arc near the end, which I was SO happy about because I was rooting for that. It wasn’t the best done, but it was STILL there!

It’s basically like a less well written version of Zuko’s arc in Aavtar: The Last Airbender, except if ATLA had a tragic birth secret and also killed off Zuko instead of letting him live to properly fulfil his redemption arc…

Because yes, unfortunately, that’s what the show did to my beloved Bead Boy, giving him a birth secret revealing that he was the REAL son of his father all along, and so was robbed of that which he always sought after, although it would’ve been cheap and shallow from such a man anyway, because he was used by all those around him for their own purposes, and then killed off, needlessly, by his own half-brother, who stabs him in the back, literally.
Thus cheapening his character’s existence in the process, and making him out to be a tragic plot device for the Villain’s eternal suffering, instead of treating his character with due respect on his own, and letting his tragic relationship with his father have a satisfying resolution, and him being able to overcome that and live on.

And I will FOREVER be mad about that, because I didn’t really like the show at all apart from him, and loved him much more than his writing deserved, and so it will always be blacklisted, and I will always be salty, and I will never shut up about him, and also I eventually want to immortalise him in the Court of Melonia somehow.

Yes.

Here ends the Tragic Lay of Bead Boy.

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Thank you for taking the time to update me on that tragic tale about a side character for the win.

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Make sure to have at least a few “eraser” dramas—favorite shows that you can return to in order to wipe out all memory of the really awful one you just watched.

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I love the idea of an eraser drama! What are some of yours, and are they different from the shows you rewatch for other reasons, like an old favourite or a comfort watch?

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Hmmm… I guess it depends on what kinds of feelings and impressions I’m looking to erase. If a show left me emotionally upset or unsettled, I’d turn to a show like BECAUSE THIS IS MY FIRST LIFE, whose characters have come to feel like dear old friends.

As an antidote for watching something totally idiotic, I’d choose something smart and sophisticated. I just finished watching SUCCESSFUL STORY OF A BRIGHT GIRL—wondering why on earth I stayed with it till the end—and am thinking of wiping away all the loud and stupid and childish with its polar opposite, MY LIBERATION NOTES. (At some point I will rewatch FATED TO LOVE YOU to remind me of how fabulous the pairing of Jang Nara and Jang Hyuk can be, but I’m not ready just yet to face the two of them in another romcom.)

These “erasers” are both favorites of mine that I also rewatch simply for the pleasure of seeing them again.

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Oh oh, I thought the question was about surviving as a character in a K-drama, not as a viewer. This is a different question.

Recently, there's been a requirement for stamina, like a camel in the desert. You may need to go a loooong time between *great* K-dramas, and when you find one it might have to tide you over until the next *great* K-drama come along. The series 'One Day Off' is like a tall glass of chilled ice water to a parched throat.

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Insomnia.
Insomnia is how I watch a 16 episode drama within a week

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Retirement helps. Since I lost my job to the pandemic, my time is completely my own, and bedtimes are whenever I start rewinding to pick up where I fell asleep. I limit myself to bingeing 2-3 dramas a week to leave time for necessary chores like shopping, cooking, showering, and going to the toilet. I also lead a book discussion group, which forces me to take a reading break and have conversations with real live people.

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I've reduced my available sleep time by an hour a day, thus freeing up an additional 7 hours weekly. I'm not worried about premature aging as a result due to the excellent Kskincare PPL in the dramas, of which I take copious notes.

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😂😂😂 but also 😱 Is it lack of sleep that causes premature aging, or just watching too many hours of dramas? I am guilty of both!!😬

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I vent. I vent copiously. Here

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Yes, yes, yes--venting here to survive! This is a place to connect with people who are into dramas. And....read, read, read--the comments by beanies devoted to Kdramas.

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I've survived by leaning that it's okay to skip or fast forward sometimes, or to half watch while doing other things. And, of course, recognizing when I'm ready to drop a drama.

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I'm completely guilty of watching while doing other things, as well as ff. I rarely drop a Kdrama because most have some redeeming quality to justify watching to the end.

Case in point: I "survived" 40+ hour-long episodes of "Marry Me Now" due to the very relevant and important points this show raises about families, values, modern life, women's empowerment, career/life balance, finding love at whatever age, and a host of other socioeconomic issues that are just as relevant in modern U.S. life as they are in South Korea. While the themes are very important, it was GRUELING to watch as a show (there are far more that make similar points, albeit not all at the same time, that're much more entertaining). While I'm nearing the finish line and glad to have watched it, I can't recommend it for entertainment value whatsoever.

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What are some of the shows in the same vein as MMN that you found more entertaining? I’m always looking for recommendations!

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My Husband Got a Family (You Who Rolled In Unexpectedly) and My Wife is a Superwoman (Queen of Housewives) Both feature modern issues that professional married women face and have beautiful love stories. Written by powerhouse screenwriter Park Ji-Eun and starring the one and only Kim Nam-Joo. Both dramas are entertaining, funny, and deep.

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Neither one was on my radar. I’ll check them out. Thanks!

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Ahjummaaa beat me to it, but both of those are very good!

I also enjoyed more Bravo My Life, Amor Fati (though intense, still enjoyable & breezed through in comparison to MMN), No Matter What, and Mother of Mine.

There are many more that I can't remember off the top of my head, but I'll be sure to post them if I think of them.

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There are two Bravo My Life dramas one from 2022. Which one are you recommending?

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@Reply1988 I thought only the one about the fashion designer was from 2022, and that's what I was talking about. But now that you mention, if I recall correctly, the other one that I thought was older is also kind of family-related drama too.

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Yes that’s the one I watched part of, the 2022 one.
Mother of Mine is a favourite too! There is lots going on in that re the complications of family relationships.

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I started watching anything that interested me . . . to the end, for good or bad.
Then I started to be more selective (premise, actors, buzz).
Then I learned how to drop a show without regret.
Then in slumps, I go back to watch unseen dramas by favorite actors.

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1. Dramabeans. I like marathon watches more than live-watching because I just don't have the patience or the EQ to wait a week between episodes, so I read Dramabeans stuff before I commit to a drama -- reviews, 'what we're watching', year-end articles, comments, recommendations, etc... People here are very mindful of other readers so I don't worry about spoilers at all (I love you, guys!)
2. Stay off social media groups to avoid spoilers.
3. Spreadsheet. Yep, I actually have one where I keep a list of dramas, movies and variety shows I've seen, want to watch, and those I started but dropped.
4. Learn the language. Translations aren't always perfect and a lot of subtle meanings get lost in translation so knowing Korean, even just a bit, helps me understand nuances. I've reached a level where I can understand simple conversations, so I get to enjoy looking at the actors instead of focusing on the subtitles.

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You and I are on the same page with some of these tips and tricks!

#1: I also prefer to watch one show at a time, without having to wait for new episodes. For ideas about what to watch, I use AsianWiki for cast, creative, and other details, Dramabeans for ratings, recommendations and discussions, and iMDb as a last resort.

#2: Not applicable as I don't use social media.

#3: I keep adding columns to my spreadsheet (I'm currently up to 12!) as I want to keep track of more and more detailed info about the shows I've watched or have on my radar.

#4: You hear about all these people who learned English from watching American tv, but after 3 years of watching Kdramas and listening to a few Korean musicians, I still struggle to learn the language, other than picking up a few dozen basic words from hearing them used so often. I fairly quickly succeeded in getting the hang of hangeul 😉, though I still have to sound out the words.

I was able to become fairly fluent in French and Italian when I was in my teens and 20s. I'm not sure whether I'm finding Korean such a challenge because of my aged brain or because the language is so vastly different from English (and French and Italian). I suspect it's a bit of both. I'm considering taking an online course—has anyone tried one?

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Woot! High five!!!

I've taken an intermediate online course offered by the Korean government (Korean Cultural Center) in my country, but I started learning by myself through
Talktomeinkorean.com.

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Yes to Talk to Me In Korean! Their podcasts are great for commutes too, and they have specific ones for things like conversational Korean. I'd also recommend Go Billy on Youtube - lots and lots of helpful videos and resources, PLUS he often does Live classes on YouTube! I find that his videos where he's looking at culture, history and pop culture from a 'learning Korean' perspective really useful, because it enriches the learning experience and puts things into context.

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Coursera has 2 free online courses developed by Yonsei University with simple videos, workbooks, tests etc. One is to get you started with basics of the language and the other is for simple, conversational Korean. I found it helpful to start with these and then move on to Go Billy and others.

Also if it helps to relate Korean to English, there's a cute webcomic that teaches you how to correlate the sounds of both languages.

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Thank you all for the various language-learning resources recommendations! It’s so helpful to get feedback from people who have actually used the services. Can’t wait to give it a try!

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Hi, may I ask what are the columns you have in your spreadsheet?

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@babylilo thanks for asking as I was wondering too!

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1. I put a check mark when I’ve completed a drama, or an X if I dropped it.
2. Year and month I watched it
3. Title of show (including alternate titles)
4. What streaming service it’s available on
5. Year the drama came out
6. Number of episodes
7. Brief plot description
8. My rating
9. IMDb rating
10. Asianwiki rating
11. Dramabeans rating
12. Cast

I’m going to add another column for additional comments, and possibly change the order. It’s a constantly evolving process!

I’d be interested in hearing what kinds of information other people put in their spreadsheets/lists, and how they have it organized.

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Thank you 👍🏾 I hope others come back to this post and see this request if not would be good to put on Open thread. I just list the show with a rating the genre country, one line plot summary and what I liked or disliked.

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Thanks a lot! I realise I'm not writing anything apart from keeping the list of show titles I like.
I think I'll start writing the time stamps of the scenes that really moved me (because of the acting, scenery, ...) or at least my favorite episode, to be able to go back to them whenever I want.

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I find that the additional information—especially the ratings and streaming service—is helpful when I’m trying to decide what to watch next. I thought about adding a column for genre, but there are a lot of shows that don’t fit neatly into a particular category. For now, I note only if it’s a sageuk.

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I agree with the genre issue but I just list them all: rom com with slice of life, fantasy/time travel.

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Since @reply1988 asked...
My spreadsheet has several tabs.
T "seens" for dramas that we are watching or have watched. Each drama has its own column.
There are some administration lines : title, number of episodes, number of ep I'm on, number of ep my friend is on, year the drama came out, chanel/network.
There are some type defining lines : sageuk, adapated from book or webtoon, comedy, romance, action, thriller, melo, SF, medical, revenge, law/police, musical/star system, army/bodyguard, sport/university, art/cinema, healing drama.
Some lines are for a short evaluation : cinematography, chemistry, charm of the leads, music.
Then the line that call back the final notation (from another tab).
The line with info about the cast : 3 main females and males. (used on another tab to count how many time we have seen someone)
And then the tropes lines (currently 168) cause I like to count and kind of play dram-bingo...

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The "next dramas" tab : one line per drama.
Columns are :
- title
- note of my interest
- note of my friend interest
- product of the two previous notes, so as to define the next common watch
- actors : mains leads, or those we know in the cast (only the mains)
- short summary of the plot
- avaibility (netflix, viki...)
- genre (pick-up list : 1% war of life, action, BL, college, comedy, documentary, fantasy, food, healing, horror, intrigues, law, life, makjang, medical, melo, musical, mystery, police, revenge, romcom, romance, sageuk, SF, sport, thriller, wuxia)
- country (Korea, China, Japan)

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Then, one tab for the actors and one tab for the actresses.
One line per person.
Columns:
- name
- name in Hangul
- number of time this person is mentionned in the "seen" tab (calculated automatically, and with a colour that change when it increases)
- surname 'cause sometimes it's easier to remember
- performances evaluation
- verdict : favorite / person to follow / person to check (with colour depending on the ratings in the previous columns)
- name of the drama most recently seen or the drama where this person was a lead (cross-referenced from "seen" tab)
- birthday

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Then, there is a tab for my notes (one line per drama, several criteria), one tab for my friend notes (several other criteria). It is in these tabs that the order of viewing is recorded. I am on my 109th kdrama (and 56th cdrama). My friend is at 186 in total (3 cdramas, 5 Jdramas, 171 kdramas).

The newest tab is the "week repeat".
Because sometimes there's a specific scene that happen twice in a week despite not being a trope (yet).
One line per scene, with names of the dramas. If a scene is recognised in 5 five dramas it becomes a trope in the "seen" tab.
Examples : Lead is in the middle of big cross-walk with a lot of cars around ; ice-skate date ; lead need to recharge by holding the other lead; use of condiment or food to explain a situation and get advice.

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@darwi - All I can say about your spreadsheet is: 🤯 !!!

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@darwi If this is the PhD approach to cataloguing my approach would be listed as kindergarten level 😆
Thank you for sharing @frenchfan see Darwi’s comments for THE drama template spreadsheet that leaves others in the shade.

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@reply1988 thank you for tagging me
And thank you @darwi for sharing your spreadsheet. You are very thorough!! I'm glad I asked! : D

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Listing time stamps is a great idea. I don’t re watch whole shows but must admit sometimes when watching My dramalist YouTube channel and they show a clip from a drama I like that can make me search for the full scene on YouTube

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@reply1988 @babylilo @FrenchFan Thank you for giving me a nerdy moment.
I'm an excel geek, and the friend that introduced me to dramaland too. We share the File to keep on on our separate and commun viewing.
I took it as a playground to work on formula. I particularly proud that the "seen" tab is a moving table : columns can be added or switched, lines can be rearranged, and the cross-reference to the Actors and Notes tabs will still be valid.
My newest formula is a condition so that the Note cell only shows something is the drama is completed.

What I do not have compared to you is timestamps and specific comment on what I liked/disliked.
(for kdramas... for cdramas I have 3 + and 3 - )

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Love your creative use of Excel! It sounds like a great way for you to dive really deeply into kdramas and to bond with your fellow drama/Excel geek.

I created my spreadsheet for strictly utilitarian purposes—to keep track of shows I’d watched, as well as ones I want to watch sometime in the future. I added view dates to my spreadsheet when I realized I might want to revisit some shows I didn’t particularly like (or even dropped) in my early kdrama viewing days. There have been a few shows I loved when I gave them another chance, after I had become a more seasoned kdrama aficionado.

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You could earn enough for a two week all inclusive 5* trip to SK if you sold your template to fans on here and my dramalist who want full control of their watchlist.

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@reply1988 Do you want my template ?
It's a google.sheet with two users. I can clean it up and make a few changes so that it's for 1 user.
And add a few explanation (the tables do not expand automatically as in excell, so the new column need to be added in 2nd position...)

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Yes please! Was my ‘asking for a friend’ approach too obvious🤣 It’s because I want to track the Watch and Discuss Korean Drama Club monthly watches.

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In no particular order:

1. Skip the first few episodes if they're not engaging me, maybe it gets better.
2. Drop the last few episodes if the show is nosediving.
3. Bail out in the middle if it's stalling.
4. Read this website. Even if a show isn't entertaining, the commentary is, and if the show is good, the recaps are also entertaining. These discussions are fun, too!
5. Subscribe to one streaming site at a time, rotate as needed.
6. Learn some Korean and see if I can understand more dialog and lyrics on each viewing or reviewing, and the actual Korean show title (there's a big difference between Shine or Be Mad and Shine or Go Crazy).

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‘ 4. Read this website. Even if a show isn't entertaining, the commentary is, and if the show is good, the recaps are also entertaining. These discussions are fun, too!’👈🏾 this should be the tagline for this site!

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Learn how to drop a show no matter when - after 10 minutes in or 20 minutes before the end. If you're fed up with it, just leave it. It's okay, you are allowed and recommended to do so!
Learn to trust yourself. If everybody else is raving about a show that you cannot connect with, it's ok. You're not kaputt or something like that, it's just not for you. Same goes for the opposite: there might be shows that everybody hates, but you love. That is absolutely ok as well. We all come from different places, and what speaks to us and makes us feel is different, too. I have some shows that are dear to me although I know myself there are ridiculous things going on besides the things that are important to me. But now that I know the plot I can skip those parts and just revisit what I like. In some sense I'm making my own show there. 😉
But: don't be afraid of a re-try! Sometimes it might just not be the right time, but in two years it's suddenly the best show you've ever watched. It happens.
And I have to say learning the language helps a lot! It takes some time and effort, yes, but it's rewarding as well. And it's such a great feeling when you start to understand first single words, then short sentences and then you see a subtitle line and think 'hey, that's not what they said!'. Best feeling ever!

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"and then you see a subtitle line and think 'hey, that's not what they said!'. Best feeling ever!"

Yes to this!

After a year and a half watching k-dramas and around a year learning Korean (by myself) now I am in that stage of knowing when something is different in the subtitles.

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So…I may not know a lot of spoken Korean, but I do know how to recognize a fair number of the swear words by now. And, MY STARS, but the subtitles for Be Melodramatic are not doing justice to the names these characters are calling one another!?#@#

I mean, I don’t know how to quantify how proud I am of this fact, but let’s just say it’s a non-zero amount 😌

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….AAAAND the cussing was a plot point in Be Melo. I guess I’m now officially pretty proud of myself because my small-but-extant listening skillz allowed me to enjoy the show more!!!

But I guess, given that I now know it’s actually a meta-plot point, I would sort of like to understand why the insults weren’t translated fully into the subtitles. I mean, this is Netflix I’m using…maybe the Viki ones are superior here (if any)?

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I’m a big fan of second chances. There are many factors that affect how I respond to a show: my mood at the moment; my ability to understand and appreciate a drama based on the extent of my drama watching; something I may have read about the show on Dramabeans; or even the show I just finished watching.

That said, I’ve developed a much better understanding of what types of shows I won’t like, no matter how well made or popular they are. My spreadsheet has been a big help in showing patterns in what I’ve dropped, as well as recurring words and phrases in my notes describing what I did or didn’t like about the show. Some of the shows I really hated are ones a lot of people rank among their favorites. But, as @petrolia said, “We all come from different places, and what speaks to us and makes us feel is different, too.”

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I am a binge watcher I love the joy of not having to wait, however, I needed the opportunity to chat with others hence joining this community and doing live watches. I tend to watch both episodes on the day the second one drops if it’s a drama I love and the cliff hangers are too much, who needs to be stressed waiting between episodes as well as dealing with the weekly wait.

I have a mix of live watches and shows I can binge on the go at any given time. This gives me the best of both worlds and I have something to watch daily when there are limited live watches in my preferred genres.

I limit my membership to Netflix or Apple TV to only joining when they have they have a live drama I want to watch other than that I stick with Viki.

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1. I start watching the first episode in 1.25 speed to see if I like the acting, plot, etc. If I really enjoy it, I watch the rest of the show in normal speed. Otherwise, I'll keep watching it in 1.25 speed or drop it.
2. If there's only one part of the plot that I find interesting (only main leads, or only second leads,...) or I just want to watch some actors/actresses, I'll skip everything and leap from scene to scene to only follow the plot I want. Generally, I don't need to know what happens to the rest of the characters to understand and enjoy their story.
3. If the first 2 episodes don't convince me but I read people are hyping the show, I'll watch the last episode. If the end is somewhat satisfying, I usually watch the entire show (in 1.25 speed generally lol).
4. I read the recap of the first episodes on dramabeans if I am hesitating to start a new serie or if I'm hesitating to carry on watching it.
5. To preserve my sleep, I stop watching an episode slightly before the end. Otherwise, I know there will be some sort of cliffhanger that will make me want to continue watching to know what happens next. I usually stops 15-20 min before, when there's nothing at stake in the episode. Alternatively, I can also watch the first 10-15 min of the following episode and stop.

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‘ 5. To preserve my sleep, I stop watching an episode slightly before the end. Otherwise, I know there will be some sort of cliffhanger that will make me want to continue watching to know what happens next. I usually stops 15-20 min before, when there's nothing at stake in the episode. Alternatively, I can also watch the first 10-15 min of the following episode and stop.’ 👈🏾this is a pro tip for sure. I am the sucker just watching one more and the see that it’s 2 a.m. and have the debate whether to go to sleep or just carry on watching as I wake up naturally at 4 anyway.

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It still requires determination to stick to this method as they do know how to make us addicted!! lol

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for that matter, if I end up watching the first 10 minutes of the following episode, it means that I failed my first method of stopping before the end! lol

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🤣 yes it’s a real skill and that’s why when they get it right it’s a keeper.

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Call me old-fashioned, but I only watch shows at regular speed, with no fast-forwarding or skipping. Yes, I do enjoy particular actors, tropes, etc., but I find it really only works for me in the context of the arc of the show. A kiss scene is a lot more swoony for me if I’ve followed the build-up to it. I can really appreciate characters’ growth or evolving relationships only if I’ve seen them through the entire process. And an ending doesn’t mean much to me if I haven’t seen what led up to it.

For much the same reason, I only rewatch complete shows, and don’t revisit favorite episodes or scenes. (I used to check out swoony excerpts on Yo*Tube, but I eventually lost interest even in that.)

Cliffhangers for me are part of a show’s overall architecture, so I either stop at the end of the episode and hang in suspense, or (more often) hit “next episode.”

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There are a lot of good suggestions here already.

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