In Queen of No Marriage they legit act like 33 is the equivalent of 63. Calm tf down, yall, dang!

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    Is this men will be men? But I had the same issue with Find Yourself too. Fanxing was only 32 but the society acted like she’s 70. I won’t say it’s incorrect in fact it’s so true and real that it pisses me off. Some cultures do see 30 as old and that is ridiculous. Now that women are career oriented around the globe it definitely takes time to gain some stability or even discover your career options to make a living. I do get that women have a biological clock but 30s is not old, let women breathe.

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      Wits not Men will be Men. Its Queen of No Marriage the Taiwanese drama from 2009 with Ethan Juan. Have you seen it? I like it well enough butnon Netflix its 34 eps long and thats just too many eps and not enough plot to fill it. As much as I love Ethan and Ethans tattoo Im ready for it to be over and it just got interesting again!

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        I haven’t. What you said doesn’t make me want to watch it either 😂

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    It’s a long way to go in some places when you’re a single woman and you’re in your 30s people will consider you as “poor thing” she doesn’t have a man… Because the purpose of a woman is to be married and have children.
    In dramas, for instance, it doesn’t help that actress in their 50s play mothers of women in their late 30s, for instance. The moment you’re 40 it seems you can’t be the romantic target of a man.

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    It’s a cultural thing….. In a lot of traditional Chinese villages, the mindset (in which most parents will also carry with them even if they follow their children and move out of the village at some point, even if they don’t live with their children in the city) dating while you’re still in high school is normal (as it is also here in North America) the same time you’re prepping for your gaokao exams (university entrance exams), and if a girl so chooses to continue her academics, it’s expected that she’d be with the same guy throughout university life, be engaged by the time you’re in your first year of working, and have kids BEFORE 30. If you’re still single post- 30, you’re considered a “leftover”, and if you’re still single entering post- 35, you’re considered hopeless and useless—because, yes, marriage and children is the end goal.
    Now, if a girl does NOT go the academic route, it’s normal that a girl is already dating by late-middle school, be “stable” in her relationship by high school, still ace the gaokao just to prove you’re not an actual airhead, graduate high school, find a decent job just so you’re not useless, but have the goal to be married with at LEAST one child by 24 with baby #2 on the way…

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