TBH, I’ve never understood why in ‘caught red-handed while cheating’ type scenarios the women almost always goes for the ‘other woman’. Like, you don’t know her. Your beef isn’t with her. There’s a chance she was being cheated on too. Irregardless, she owes you nothing. Your SO – who clearly finds you insignificant – is who you should be dealing with but I guess most people are charged with emotions. That being said, this is the first time I’ve ever wanted the ‘other woman’ to be dragged by the hair. It’s Han Ye ri’s character. I like her character but I’m annoyed with her atm and I think she needs some sense slapped back into her – literally! So I’m hoping she gets her hair dragged and slapped and remembers the shame and that slaps her back into reality. I mean, what does she like in the guy? He’s so sleazy 🤢
I understand how you feel. The thing is, if there are two ppl involved in a wrong we get angry and disappointed with the person we have expectations with. My stance is that getting into a relationship knowing that the guy is cheating on his gf is as bad as cheating itself. However, if one of my siblings or friends cheats on their partner, I’ll be angry with them not the person they are cheating with, but if sibling/close friend gets involved in a relationship knowing the other person is already in a commited relationship, I’ll be angry and disappointed with them, not the person doing the actual cheating. Here, Han Ye Ri’s our heroin and her character was established as very likable so we had expectations of her which is why we are/were frustrated and angry with her.
I totally get you.
If you are a single woman and you decide to have a relation with a man who is married or who has a couple, the only one who has a problem is the man. (Same thing applies if it is a single man with a married women, it’s the one who has a couple and a commitment the one who’s doing wrong).
I’m tired of this: you can’t get in the middle of a couple. Well, if the two members of the couple are convinced about their feelings and their commitments, then no one can get in the middle. If someone does it is because one of the members of the couple is not committed enough. And that one would be the only one to blame.
I don’t have anything against cheating in a drama, usually I think it’s nice if show is trying to say everyone should be allowed to find their way and sometimes they will hurt others in the process, even loved ones. I don’t think I’ve ever considered the third party of this to be so completely blameless tough, this person knows someone is being deceived, it’s only proper for them to feel a little guilty over that.
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IamPilgrim
July 24, 2020 at 1:16 PM
TBH, I’ve never understood why in ‘caught red-handed while cheating’ type scenarios the women almost always goes for the ‘other woman’. Like, you don’t know her. Your beef isn’t with her. There’s a chance she was being cheated on too. Irregardless, she owes you nothing. Your SO – who clearly finds you insignificant – is who you should be dealing with but I guess most people are charged with emotions. That being said, this is the first time I’ve ever wanted the ‘other woman’ to be dragged by the hair. It’s Han Ye ri’s character. I like her character but I’m annoyed with her atm and I think she needs some sense slapped back into her – literally! So I’m hoping she gets her hair dragged and slapped and remembers the shame and that slaps her back into reality. I mean, what does she like in the guy? He’s so sleazy 🤢
MeloMe
July 24, 2020 at 2:01 PM
I understand how you feel. The thing is, if there are two ppl involved in a wrong we get angry and disappointed with the person we have expectations with. My stance is that getting into a relationship knowing that the guy is cheating on his gf is as bad as cheating itself. However, if one of my siblings or friends cheats on their partner, I’ll be angry with them not the person they are cheating with, but if sibling/close friend gets involved in a relationship knowing the other person is already in a commited relationship, I’ll be angry and disappointed with them, not the person doing the actual cheating. Here, Han Ye Ri’s our heroin and her character was established as very likable so we had expectations of her which is why we are/were frustrated and angry with her.
Eazal
July 24, 2020 at 2:53 PM
I totally get you.
If you are a single woman and you decide to have a relation with a man who is married or who has a couple, the only one who has a problem is the man. (Same thing applies if it is a single man with a married women, it’s the one who has a couple and a commitment the one who’s doing wrong).
I’m tired of this: you can’t get in the middle of a couple. Well, if the two members of the couple are convinced about their feelings and their commitments, then no one can get in the middle. If someone does it is because one of the members of the couple is not committed enough. And that one would be the only one to blame.
Lixie
July 24, 2020 at 3:05 PM
I don’t have anything against cheating in a drama, usually I think it’s nice if show is trying to say everyone should be allowed to find their way and sometimes they will hurt others in the process, even loved ones. I don’t think I’ve ever considered the third party of this to be so completely blameless tough, this person knows someone is being deceived, it’s only proper for them to feel a little guilty over that.