So.. 6 weeks to the wedding and I’m sitting at home with a sprained ankle, yes! I fell and for the first time I didn’t want to laugh because how painful it was.. and so very stupid that I still can’t understand how it happened. One minute I’m walking and another I’m hugging the floor.. I just kind of dropped, like my legs couldn’t carry my weight anymore! I wouldn’t have laughed if it wasn’t for my mom, if my fall wasn’t already a scene, her screaming “OUR BRIDE” totally was. She then went on blaming everything (as loudly) on the evil eye and how she shouldn’t have told everyone about the wedding (YES) and though it was really embarrassing (luckily I was wearing a mask), it was also so funny that I couldn’t not laugh.

Anyways, it’s not too bad and I will only need to wear a cast and not move for two weeks.. (I’m trying to be optimistic about this because it could’ve been worse, at least my ankle isn’t broken, right? RIGHT?). SNG doesn’t know about this yet, I don’t know how to tell him, it’s his birthday tomorrow (he’s exactly 1 year and a week older than me!) and my sisters being the mean people they are, are having the time of their lives making jokes about how it’s his first birthday with me and I’m gifting him myself in a cast and how he’s probably planned things for my birthday next week and I ruined everything.. yeah! I actually really feel bad, I too, had his birthday all planned, I haven’t seen him for a whole week now because he’s been so busy with the apartment (our apartment ☺🙈) so I was really excited for tomorrow and now I don’t know what to do ☹

A little update about wedding preparations:
Our beaches are open but still no events are allowed, so SNG’s parents suggested we do it at their farmhouse and it’s a beautiful place and I really have no reason to say no so I said yes and now we’re having a poolside wedding! Also, we have this superstition that if you eat straight from the pot it’s going to rain on your wedding day, and yes, I am having all my meals directly from the pot.. I’m just trying to get some rain for my wedding, okay!

I still don’t have a dress and it seems I still won’t have a dress in two weeks, I have an idea of what I want but it hasn’t been easy trying to find it. None of my sisters or friends are my size so I can’t really send anyone to try on dresses for me (I know that’s not how it works but what can I do?). I think we still have time so I’m not really worried about that, what made me panic though is SNG asking me what color my “traditional” wedding dress is so he could match the color of his traditional groomswear with mine. I didn’t know what to say to him, I was about to make up a color that doesn’t even exist. I mean, I’m wearing a white dress for him and I NEED him to wear a tux for me, how do I tell him that without saying the words? I gave him cufflinks and told him it’s a wedding gift but I’m not sure that’s enough, what if he doesn’t get the hint? TELL ME HE WILL, PLEASE!

P.S. SNG’s brother is finally home!
P.P.S. He gave me flowers when he met me for the first time and I didn’t want to be rude to him so I took them.. and.. umm.. let’s not talk about SNG’s reaction to that, LOL!

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    @azzo Sorry to hear about your ankle! I’m sure the birthday plans will work out just fine 🙂

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      Thank you, it’s okay, don’t worry about it, I should really get used to these kind of things.. I tend to hurt myself a lot 😂💔

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    You’re probably the only person I know who wants rain on her wedding day xD Since I’m known as a rain woman, I shall be sending my luck on your wedding day azzo!

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      Tell me what are you doing and what kind of sorcery is this? IT IS RAINING HERE! Not kidding, REALLY!

      Save me some rain for the 18th of Sep. please!

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    r u marrying the post it guy?

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    Oh no! I hope your ankle feels better! My parents carry a similar superstition about the evil eye and so they warn me not to tell anything to anyone LOL

    I hope everything goes well with SNG’s birthday and your wedding preparations!! I’ll also send some prayers/luck/whatever you need for that rain 🙂

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      Funny thing is I was not the one telling everyone, my mom was.. and even strangers know about it now because of how loud my mom was 😂

      Thank you!

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        HAHAHA that’s amazing. I’m the loudmouth in my family so the blame usually goes onto me 😂

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    Sprains are terrible and painful but whenever I get them I’m thankful it’s not a fracture atleast lol. Your doctor definitely knows better but ice works for me and eases the swelling and pain quite a lot, idk if that is medically accurate and helpful though.
    Maybe drop hints to SNG’s brother or rather tell him that he convinces him to wear a tux. But I’m guessing if he’ll be told to wear a tux he will naturally guess that you’re wearing a white dress too. You’ll have a wonderful wedding azzo and hopefully it’ll rain too. You’re the first bride I’ve come across who wants rain on her wedding.

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      They are!!! I fell yesterday and though it was really painful I thought it will be alright if I just put ice on it and I came home and did that but, MY GOD, it didn’t get any better so I went to the doctor today and now I have to wear a cast! He said “at least” two weeks and I’m hoping that’s all I need because I really can’t afford not moving for much longer.. I have a wedding to prepare for!

      I thought of that too but I’m still a little awkward with his brother, I can’t get used to people quickly 🙈

      Not a rainstorm, just maybe a little harder than a drizzle, something to make the photos look pretty! Does that make me weird?

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    I hope your ankle gets better soon! You never know…. SNG might be really happy to just stay by your side and wait on you hand and foot for two weeks.

    If I recall correctly it wasn’t that easy for SNG to give you flowers hehe…

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      Thank you! I doubt he’d be allowed to do that.. he might try though 🙈

      YES! He’s the only one from his entire family whose flowers I have not accepted, his parents gave me flowers, his grandparent did too, and now his brother.. but.. but I didn’t want to be rude to them, and in my defence I didn’t know he brought me flowers back then!

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    Last year, I sprained my ankle a few days before my first international trip and yah I too was given a cast and directed complete bed rest for two weeks initially but it was a pretty bad sprain (the doctor said 3rd or 4th degree) so it didn’t really heal in that time. It took me a full month before I could rest my feet on the floor again (this maybe because i didnt really rest for two weeks and went on the trip anyway hehe. My poor dad had to push me around as i was on the wheel chair the whole time) I hope it’s not the case for you.
    Regarding the tuxedo, maybe you could tell him that you’ve always thought that a tuxedo goes very well your traditional dress (I don’t have cultural context so this advice may sound stupid heh) or like wapz said, you could just administer SNG’s brothers help someway?
    Hope the wedding and the days leading to it go smoothly 🧡

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      The doctor told me 3rd degree sprain too, and I’m really planning on complete rest because I can’t have the cast on for more than two weeks, I just cannot! I can’t have my dad push me around on a wheelchair in my wedding, can I now 😂

      If I told him that, he will get it for sure, he’s really quick on those things, I was thinking of putting a card with the cufflinks but went against it because he will know! So let’s just hope the cufflinks themselves are enough!

      Thank youuu!

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        Hahaha ofcourse not. Just in case it doesn’t heal in two weeks, my doctor suggested an “airliner walker”, it helps you stand and walk a bit (not too much tho) so you could use that when you’ve to go to try out your dress. Lemme know if you want a picture, I have one so I’ll tag you.
        Ooo, he’s the smart main lead. Then let’s do hope cuff links are enough to give him a hint :).

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    Sorry to hear about your ankle! Hope it heals up fast. Poolside wedding sounds nice!

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    Oh no! So sorry to hear about your ankle! I do wish you a speedy recovery!

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    I am really sorry about your ankle, and I’m even more sorry I bursted into laughter when I read your mum’s reaction… “Our bride!!!”. Priceless!
    I wish you a speedy recover.
    And how could you take those flowers when you didn’t take SNG’s? I can imagine his reaction!

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    omg, I just laughed so hard at your mother’s reaction to your fall, except in my mind she yelled “URI BRIDE” and that made me laugh even harder. I shouldn’t be laughing, last month I fell over a tiny crack in the sidewalk and landed right on my face 😲 Thank god I was wearing a mask because it kept the blood in check 🤦🏼‍♀️, and thank god I had to keep wearing a mask because I then got two black eyes and a dark purple chin! Boy, this stuff can realllllly hurt, so you have all my sympathies. And yes, follow the doctor’s directions faithfully for the optimal result 👍🏼
    I think if you really want him to wear a tux you’re going to have to tell him directly, or be prepared to have him in traditional dress while you’re in the white dress. Would that end up being okay or would he be really hurt that he wasn’t in a tux to match you? Maybe tell him that you can’t tell him WHY but he must wear a tux. Of course he’ll figure it out but you’ll still be a happy surprise to him in your white dress when you enter.
    I think your wedding is going to be so beautiful! When I was a girl I was told that it is good luck for there to be some rain on a wedding day. No idea what cultural background that came from. So keep up eating from the pots! 😁❤️

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    Sending you early happy birthday wishes and hopes for a quick healing ankle. I’m sure SNG would be happy to wear a tux for you and he seems to pick up on your hints pretty well. Maybe you should send a few more just to be safe.

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    Congratulations azzo (for your wedding) and I am sorry that you fell down, take care. Wearing a mask has unexpected benefits.

    (P.s.: I missed other updates being in my hole) …
    I wish you a lot of happiness.
    We have the same saying for eating from a pot, and some days I want to say that to all drama people when they eat ramen straight out of the pot. Lol!

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I just have to share this because @kudoran is THE SWEETEST 😭❤

You’ll find the rest of the post here:
https://www.dramabeans.com/members/kudoran/activity/1095921/

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So.. wedding preparations are underway, I\’m a lot more relaxed now than I was the first two days after the date was set. I mean, I\’m really good at freaking out but you know what else I\’m really good at? Making lists, yes! So, I\’ve made a list of all the things that need to be done and I\’ve assigned everyone with something on that list and we\’re slowly checking all of those. My mom wants to be incharge of everything food related so she\’s got that and SNG\’s mom is a pastry chef (Pâtissière she says and I absolutely love the way she says it) and she said she\’d make us our wedding cake (she also made us our engagement cake but that was mostly devoured by his dad and mine so I hope I get to taste this one).

As for the wedding dress.. hehe.. I was honestly not planning to wear a white wedding dress, I was thinking of wearing a traditional dress of our own but when I told SNG he went: \”You\’re not going to wear a white dress?\” I said no and he looked so hurt at that (I\’m not exaggerating when I say he looked like I just crushed his heart by telling him I was not going to marry him anymore). I wasn\’t expecting that kind of a reaction so I asked him if he was sad, he said no and laughed but YOU DON\’T LAUGH AT ME WITH THOSE SAD EYES!!! So yeah, now I am going to wear a white dress (which I still need to find) but he doesn\’t know and I\’m just going to surprise him with it ☺

Also, the venue.. I wanted a beach wedding but with the current situation we have most of our beaches locked and the private beaches we asked said they\’re not allowed to hold any sorts of events no matter how small of a group of people it is. I know I shouldn\’t have expected anything or had my hopes high, but I admit, my heart still broke a tiny bit.

After getting another rejection today, we were sitting in the car and sulking (Okay, I was sulking and he was just watching me sulk) and he asked me if I was alright, I told him I was but maybe I should\’ve tried saying that without crying (I lied okay, it wasn\’t a tiny heartbreak!). He told me not to cry and I told him I wasn\’t crying (I don\’t know why I always do that) but okay confession: I never thought I\’ll ever get married, I never wanted to actually, it was just never a priority in my life, I couldn\’t imagine being with someone, really, just the idea of it weirded me out (You could tell I guess from all those stories I told you 😅), but then.. SNG happened and things changed and beach is were A LOT of our \”firsts\” happened (He confessed at the beach 😭) and I just really wanted our wedding to be at the beach 💔

So I was saying all this to him and I was complaining about how unfair this is and how sad I am but he just kept looking at me and smiling (Yes), so I asked him what is it and WHY IS HE SMILING? And he just went: \”I\’m realizing this for the first time.. you have really cute teeth!\” (HUH? WH.. WHAAAAT?!). Beanies, I\’m really not kidding, I actually had to take a minute to calm myself down before punching him, and he laughed, HE LAUGHED! Seriously, I was pouring my heart out there and he was doing what, STARING AT MY TEETH! I told him he is a freak and he laughed even more and then went: \”Yes, I\’m your pervert and I\’m your freak!\” And, OH MY GOD, WHO SAYS THAT? I didn\’t even know he was holding that \”pervert\” comment against me, it killed me, I couldn\’t stop laughing at that, I still can\’t stop laughing at that! (Also, I\’m not sure I should be happy about this but he said \”your\” ☺).

P.S. All the usual wedding halls and venues are closed, we have to get creative here and we only have 8 WEEKS LEFT!
P.P.S. He called me to tell me that he got a bruise on his shoulder and I thanked him for still wanting to marry me 😭

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    Also, 70+ notifications!!!
    I will try to get to all of those later tonight, I promise!

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    I …. I have no words…. YOU 2 ARE SO FLIPPIN’ CUUUUUUUUUTTTTTTTTEEEEE STAHP IT 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 Don’t actually stop sharing, I actually enjoy reading about your story, just as long as you are comfortable sharing 🥰🥰🥰😘😘😘

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    @azzo Your updates always make me smile!

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    Omg, this is the cutest thing everrrrrrr. I don’t know much about your story, but first off: congratulations!! You two seem so happy together and (although sort of late) I’m here for it!! Your post just made me feel so much more single 😂😂 Good luck with the rest of your preparations!! 💗

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      Also, I just caught up on all of your SNG posts and also found out about what happened earlier this year (I am so, so sorry that that happened, you seem like such a pure and nice soul), and can I just say I’m fan girling right now over your story EEK

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    Oh my word!!!! Congratulations!!!! ❤️🌷
    I pray blessings on your marriage.
    I pray that all plans will fall into place and that on your most special day you will have the most wonderful day of the start of your lives. Hugs 🤗

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    I read all your recent real life posts and “Kim Woo Bin” aka Joseon Saja murmuring ‘I have seen this drama’ gif plays in my brain.
    Anyways, Best wishes to you dear.

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      I went through all my gifs because I remember having it but I couldn’t find it!

      Thank you!

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    Omg I’m anticipating his reaction when he sees you in the dress!

    Sucks about the venue problem. Hope things work out. Maybe still an outdoor space if not the beach?

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      The thing is, anything outdoor needs a permit and they’re not giving those anymore 😭

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    The love story continues 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
    That is really disappointing about the beach. The papers here carry so many stories about people who had weddings planned for 200, 300 guests and they had to end up getting married with 3 people in their backyard. Or so many couples who have postponed the wedding not knowing when on earth they can have it. So, it will be great no matter where you do it!
    Wow, that’s neat that your future MIL is a patissier! Just like Kim Sam Soon! (My favorite kdrama heroine).
    Sorry to add to your notifications (who knew it could even go as high as 70?) but I had to wave 👋🏽 and wish you well!

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      We are planning a very small and private wedding, 25 people max and we might go down to 20 even (let’s see how things go). My mom actually wants us to wait till the pandemic is over but who knows when that is going to happen, so no, small wedding it is (I really prefer this).

      Yes, she is and I asked SNG if he’s learned anything from her and he said cookies.. well, something is better than nothing 😂

      Thank you!

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    Just when we think you two can’t be more cute, you prove us all wrong.
    By the way… does a traditional white dress make sense? I mean, could it work as a wedding dress?

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      I was thinking along these lines too but then I thought maybe traditional dresses are another color rather than a different style.

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        They come in a different style (a lot of different styles, actually), and they do come in all colors but the most popular colors are red, green and white/gold!

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      We do have traditional white bridal dresses, they usually come with gold embroidery and I was thinking of something like that but in our language we call the white dress and the traditional dress two different things.. and he just looked so sad when I said no to the white dress.. now I just have to!

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        I know he would be happy with whatever you wear.
        And I know you will be stunning with whatever you wear.
        But if you’ve made up your mind to the white dress, then be it!!
        You’ll be perfect!

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    How do you magically know a beanie is having a hard day and post then?😂
    The “urri” always counts, so does the “your”. You have a right to be giddy about it. Teeth, eyebrows, wrists, dimples, can’t say there’s a difference.

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      I’m sorry that you’re having a hard day, I really hope it gets better and I’m glad if this post helps in any way 💙

      You know what I just realized, he never commented on my dimple!!!

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    I have the biggest smile on my face reading this. You two are adorable!

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    Aww, Azzo… Wedding preparations can be stressful (and I can’t imagine how they are in these strange time)… But try to soak all the excitement in!

    I bet that SNG will tear up seeing you in a white wedding dress.

    As for a beach wedding… You could always wait until the pandemic ends and beaches to reopen, to have an intimate, simple, planning-free wedding vows renewal on the beach.

    Either way, your wedding day will still be very magical and I’m truly happy for you !

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      I’m really trying not to stress but just going out to get things done is very stressful, especially because we have to constantly remind ourselves to be careful and to be safe, it is kind of exhausting.. but yeah, I’m trying!

      I don’t know about him but the thought of it all makes me want cry 🙈

      Thank you.. we might actually do that!

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    *reads first line*

    So.. wedding preparations are underway


    I missed the news. You are getting married??!!!!
    Also, congratulations! You are your SNG are so cute.

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      Hehe.. yes.. umm.. things kind of happend and somehow we’re here!

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    Not sure it’s legal for you two to be this cute!! Reading your updates always makes me smile. Thank you for sharing your joy with us and good luck with your search!

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      My heart dropped at the first line because I thought you were saying it was not legal for us to get married, I was like WHY? What kind of a plot-twist is this?

      Thank you!

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    Azzo, this is so sweet to read!!! Such a lovely surprise to see your update!
    Yeah,it must be tough organising the wedding during this time but I know you can do it! You can always hold a private beach ceremony on a special date later on, it must be nice walking around the town and looking back on your memories!

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      It is but we’re trying not to get ourselves all worked up when things don’t go our way (not sure how well that is going 😂💔).

      Thank you, we’ll do that!

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    “You’ve got your self one swoony guy Azzo.” This is what i thought when he said “you’ve really cute teeth”!
    Best of luck with the wedding preparations 🎉.
    I was wondering if your traditional dress is the same red coloured traditional dress that Indians and Pakistanis have? Otherwise I would love a picture of it 🙂

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      Thank you!

      No, it’s different, or I should really say they’re different as we have more than one traditional dress. I was thinking of a modernized version of a traditional dress, something like this:
      https://www.instagram.com/p/B9e8MHEBPtL/?hl=en

      You could also check her account as she’s a traditional bridal dress designer!

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        That one in the link you shared is gorgeous!

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          I knowww! I had my heart set on that one, I even talked to the designer and she was so nice with everything, I told her I’ll get back to her but I never did.. because change of plans!

          Will SNG know the difference between this and a white dress? LOL!

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            Hahaha honestly it really is beautiful! I hope you find one that SNG and you, both love it a lot!!

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        That dress is spectacularly gorgeous!!!!!!!

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        That dress is spectacularly gorgeous!!!!!!!

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    but he doesn\’t know and I\’m just going to surprise him with it

    Uh, are you sure he doesn’t check Dramabeans?

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      He doesn’t really know what site this is, I never told him! When showing him the comments I made sure the site name was hidden. Also most of the comments were sent to him screencapped and cropped to my liking, LOL!

      (@kudoran said if he’s ever going to google azzo and sticky-note guy, he’s going to find us but I don’t think he’ll actually do that.. so yes!)

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    The sweetness continues! I’m wishing all the best for you guys.
    Good luck with finding a dress and a venue, I was without dress about four weeks before the wedding even with a whole year to plan and no pandemic getting in the way, it’s stressful! ( I ended up making mine 😅 Which I do NOT recommend for a stress free time but you can’t see the safety pins in the photos).
    At the end of the day the most important thing to have at your wedding is the right person to get married to, and it sounds like you’ve got that ❤️

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      Thank you!

      I don’t think I can make my own dress, I don’t have that kind of patience and it will drive me crazy.. but yeah excited and also kind of nervous when thinking of finding a dress!

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        I definitely wouldn’t recommend it for a fun time, I had to safety pin myself into the bodice because i discovered too late I’d made it too low cut😂
        Buy (or borrow?) something fabulous!

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    Love your update! But why are updating when you have a wedding in 8 weeks????? Kidding. Have fun. SNG sounds like a keeper.

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      Because.. writing is my way of de-stressing and no matter how hard I try I can’t seem to sleep at all these days (seriously, almost 3:30 am here), might as well check DB then!

      Thank you!

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    Congratulations 🙂

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    Dearest Azzo,
    I think one of the most wonderful things about DB is that this is such a warm and loving group of people who for the most part, have never even met in person. I so enjoy reading the thoughts of other beanies and how they think about life.
    Then there are the outstanding writers like yourself who have a wonderful way of writing so that we can feel your excitement/embarassment/determination/love for your family/awe for SNG through your words.
    You have let us into your world a bit so that we can enjoy it a bit surreptitiously through your clever writing.
    thank you for that.
    And thank you for trusting us enough to come back to share the wonderful news.
    SNG sounds like such a wonderful man and I am so happy for you.
    Your family sounds so wonderful as well.

    So Congratulations and I’ll be thinking of you all on September 18. Who knows, maybe a miracle will happen and you get some kind of a ‘beach’ wedding. Most importantly is that you are with your love and the families that love and support you both.

    Really and truly – all the best for you!
    🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

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      @stpauligurl ☹❤
      DB to me has always been this sweet, kind and loving community, I’ve known most of the beanies for years now and I’ve always thought of everyone as one big group of friends. I did have one bad experience earlier this year but I really don’t want that to be what I think of DB now.. It took me a little to write again here and I admit, I hesitated before sharing my story again but seeing how it makes everyone happy, I’m really glad I did!

      Thank you so much.. I think it was you who told me last year to keep writing about SNG and I even if I was never going to post on here.. and I took that advice and I never stopped writing since then (three whole notebooks and counting, LOL), I might never share those stories here but I’ll cherish those forever, so thank you, really, and thank you for all the well wishes, it means a lot ❤

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    Dearest Azzo,
    I think one of the most wonderful things about DB is that this is such a warm and loving group of people who for the most part, have never even met in person. I so enjoy reading the thoughts of other beanies and how they think about life.
    Then there are the outstanding writers like yourself who have a wonderful way of writing so that we can feel your excitement/embarassment/determination/love for your family/awe for SNG through your words.
    You have let us into your world a bit so that we can enjoy it a bit surreptitiously through your clever writing.
    thank you for that.
    And thank you for trusting us enough to come back to share the wonderful news.
    SNG sounds like such a wonderful man and I am so happy for you.
    Your family sounds so wonderful as well.

    So Congratulations and I’ll be thinking of you all on September 18. Who knows, maybe a miracle will happen and you get some kind of a ‘beach’ wedding. Most importantly is that you are with your love and the families that love and support you both.

    Really and truly – all the best for you!
    🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

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    Aw, azzo. I came here late, and was super excited to get a notif from you. As usual, your story transfixed me. Gee, I even get mentioned. I am so honoured. What an incredibly swoonworthy and exhilirating experience your love story has been, complete with the gasps, the pounding heart, the pink-faced moments, the tears and the laughs. Thank you for sharing all your giddy moments with us. I am so happy that you are marrying HIM, Mr. SNG, and it is the bright spot of this new, dim reality. 8 weeks will fly by, and in no time at all, you will be embarking on the next adventure of your life with him by your side. I can’t wait. Happy planning, and if you feel somebody’s watching over your shoulder, no worries, it’s just me, an invisible wind….wooooooo

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      YY you make it sound like an actual drama!
      I’m so happy I’m marrying him, too ☺
      Thank you so much, I promise I won’t freak out whenever I feel you around 😂❤

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    thanks for the update 🙂
    wow so many things happening and your mother-in-law is a pâtissière *assa* hehe.
    Good luck with all the preparations going on , even more in this weird year of 2020.

    We all melt down when they use “uri” in Kdrama , he said “your” , wait for him to say “our” house, and so on ^^ .
    Hwaiting Azzo , seems like you need it ^^’ (and don’t deprive yourself too much of sleep)

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      She is, how cool is that? LOL!
      Thank you.. it’s been tough but we’re managing I guess, one step at a time!

      We have “our” apartment now and that seems CRAZY!!! Like, I’m really still in disbelief!

      (I can’t seem to sleep still but what is sleep anyway? 😂💔)

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    Azzo!! I know i’m late to the party (have been passively reading stuff on DB, just not logged on hahaaha) but congratulations for your engagement and upcoming wedding!! Reading your stories has been one of the reasons why I’m smiling so much lately! thank you for sharing your experiences with us! You and SNG are so cute and adorable!!

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      Thank you ❤
      And thank you for enjoying this, I’m glad my stories make you smile!

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So.. last night SNG and his parents came to meet my parents to make everything even more official and have a mini-engagement party (his parents and mine, him and I, my sisters and that’s it.. he has one brother and the poor boy is stuck outside of the country because of the travel restrictions). We’ve been trying to keep everyone safe so this was the first time we were all together in one place (We made sure that none of us went out for a whole week just so this day could be possible) it was the first time for our parents meeting each other (A lot of phonecalls between his mom and mine), it was the first time for his parents meeting me, it was also the first time for us both together in front of our parents.. and you can imagine how freaked out I was with all of that!

I warned SNG the day before to not be any sorts of cheeky, I told him not to look at me, I told him not to smile at me, I told him to pretend he didn’t know me (I know, I know.. that’s absurd but I don’t know how normal people react in situations like that, okay! I mean, my parents were going to be there, his parents were going to be there, and they were all going to be WATCHING US). He laughed but he promised me he won’t.

HE BROKE THAT PROMISE!

He not only looked at me and smiled, he stood up (WHY IS HE STANDING UP), and because he did, his parents did too, and because my parents didn’t want to be the only ones sitting, they stood up too. And then they were all looking at me and smiling and THIS IS TOO MUCH ATTENTION! I froze, of course, and to make everything worse, my sisters were behind me and they kept whispering “Walk but don’t fall. Walk but don’t fall. Smile. Smile!”. I honestly have no idea how I managed to get to them (my memory of that walk is kind of blurry but I do think there was some poking involved from my sisters) but I did and after all the confusion of whether to shake hands or hug or do none of it (covid19), everyone settled and sat down. My mom made me sit next to SNG and he took my hand and, so innocently, went: “I missed you!” . WHY.. WHY IS HE SAYING THIS OUT LOUD! I DIED! I DIED!!!!

The minute (or two, or five, or ten) that followed this was so very awkward. Everyone went quiet and they just kept looking at us, and it goes without saying that my face went red beyond recognition. I’m so so so thankful to my sister for breaking the silence with a question to his parents, like I never told her I loved her, ever.. but if I were ever going to.. that moment was it!

Once they started talking, it got a bit better, they managed to laugh which is A RELIEF, and then there was food (My mom thought she was feeding an army). When everyone was busy with that, SNG told me I looked pretty and I told him to SHUT UP, but he kept looking at me in such a weird way that I called him a pervert (I’m sorry! I couldn’t handle it!), he laughed at that and our parents were like: “Oh, look.. they’re so cute!”.

Next we exchanged rings and in our culture you follow that by kissing each other on the cheeks three times (right, left and right) and my sisters were practically living for that moment. Really, before it all happened they came to us and told SNG to check his phone, he did and then he laughed so so hard that it took him some time to calm down. When I asked him what it was he didn’t tell me but he did tell them that he “Got it”. When we finished exchanging rings, he told me, so very quietly, that my sisters told him that they’re “Open-minded” and they wouldn’t mind him “Heating” things up a bit (!!!!!!!!!!). Then he smiled and asked me: “Do you want me to?”

DO I WANT HIM TO? DO I WANT HIM TO?!?!?!

Yeah.. well.. umm.. let’s leave it to that!!

So.. it was quite an eventful night.. also, mark your calendars Beanies.. WE HAVE A DATE!

SEPTEMBER 18/2020!!!

P.S. His parents think I’m cute and “funny”. I don’t remember telling any jokes but I guess my sisters are right, me just existing is kind of funny *CRIES*

P.P.S. I’m getting married in two months, TWO MONTHS!!! I’M NOT FREAKING OUT! YOU ARE!!

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    Many2 congratulations again azzo!!! Have a great time planning your big day 🥳🥳🥳

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    Waaaah I’ll never get tired of saying this, AZZO YOU SO CUTE!!!

    And DB will have a party then!!!!

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    How is this story getting even cuter?

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    Many congratulations, azzo!

    I hope you’re putting all of your lovely notes together for the book that someone will make a kdrama/movie out of (with PHJ and PSH maybe? 😉 ) !!

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      OMG!! This made me laugh so much, maybe then he’ll finally watch a Kdrama!

      Thank you 😂

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    @azzo, thank you for trusting us with your story. I’m so happy for you and SNG, and so glad your sisters are still helping move your romance along. Congratulations on your engagement and best wishes for your wedding and new life together.

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      Thank you! I’m still being very cautios (doesn’t look like it, does it 😅) but I do hope that person is no more on DB and it was just someone unregistered.. not the name they gave me!

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    @azzo Congratulations once more! I wish you both all the happiness and joy in the world!

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    *marks down the date*
    Azzo, stop making me squeal and spazz so much!! This is insane!
    *squeeeaaaals some more*

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      STOP! STAAAAP!!
      Why are you squealing?
      Did you even see how many times I screamed in that post.. you’re supposed to feel for me.. YOU’RE ON MY SIDE!!

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        Right, right.
        *ahem*.
        How dare SNG stand up to greet you? How dare he take your hand so lovingly? How dare he say he missed you? How dare he be so smooth? How. Dare. He.
        shakes head.
        Unbelievable.

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    How can you get any cuter? Are you even real?????
    Oh azzzzoooo!! Many congratulations.
    I feel so happy and every time I see a post from you and I am so excited!! you make our life so much better with your posts (life) and therefore you deserve an absolutely fabulous life with lots of cute dramas!
    yes, September 18, marked my calendar.. will be there ; )

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      I’m real, this is real, not sure about the cute part (Don’t hate me but I still don’t know why you guys think I’m cute)

      Aww, Blue 💙
      Thank you.. you guys being this excited for me makes me happy, really so much!
      You guys are the best ☹❤

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    Thats so great Azzo! Congrats! 😀 😀

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    Congrats Azzo!

    May you and SNG’s days be filled with love, joy and laughter!

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    This is so utterly adorable, I can’t even

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    Your wedding is on a Friday…Friday is OT Day😇😇😇 Just saying. Congratulations!😊

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    I’m grinning from ear to ear. How can you be so adorable?

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    Congratulations! 💐🎉🌹😊

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    Congrats, again, @azzo1 ☺️☺️

    This was so cute and funny at the same time!!! 😂😂🥰🥰🥰🥺🥺🥺 SNG sounds like the sweetest, most laid back, and understanding fella — I’m happy for you that you’ve found your ONE in him ☺️☺️☺️

    And just like @latebloomer said, thank you for entrusting us (again) with your story ❤️

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      Thank you ❤

      Really, he’s been the sweetest and the most understanding, I know myself, I’m not the easiest person to deal with (no matter how much you guys think I’m cute).. I get frustrating at times and he’s been just so very patient with me 😭

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    I second your and his parents and that’s basically what I kept thinking while reading this,
    Oh look they’re so cute!
    Congratulations azzo, 2 months to go woah!

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    Thanks for sharing your story! This made me smile 😊
    In these days of uncertainty this is what we all need- Love
    Congratulations! 🎊🍾🎉

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    Congratulations again Azzo! 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

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    That’s so cute and lovely! Congratulations again 💖

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    Gahhhh y’all are so cuteeee! *-*

    Only 2 months to go! *marks calendar*
    We gotta party it up here~!!

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    Congratulations!
    I hope SNG keeps breaking his promises to you.
    I wish you two happiness beyond the stars!!

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      Not all the promises just the silly ones, okay!

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        I was talking about those kind of promises, of course!!

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    I’m living for these updates😍😍! May you have the best time planning your wedding and even better times after the day.

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    Oh azzo, you sweetheart. Bless you for sharing this with us. It’s been another terrible, horrible, no-good day here in the US (plus I broke my sewing machine making masks and the whole country is so busy sewing masks that there’s no repair available for more than a month). And my glasses broke this morning. And it’s like 100 degrees F here. But your stories make me feel so much better! Bless you and SNG, dear heart ❤️❤️❤️

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      @bbstl
      I’m so sorry for everything, honestly it hasn’t been easy in my part of the world too and everyone is living in fear and anxiety, but I’m a big, big believer in “this too shall pass” and I know we’ll make it through all this.. I’m just glad that through it all you still find time to check my posts and that they at least put a smile on your face!

      Thank you so much ❤😭

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    Congratulations!

    Let the wedding preparations begin! 🙂

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    How you manage to make me squeal so much every time you post your story is beyond me but you do and omg you guys are the cutest. Thankyou for enteusting your story with us. Wishing you a life time of happiness 🧡

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    Duuuuudeeeee!!! This is gonna give me diabetes! How is your story so adorable!!!
    Rest I will continue in our earlier conversation elsewhere hehhe

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    at this point, I have no words left, I’m reading a drama once again, I’m in awe 🤩🤩🤩
    2020 is brighter thanks to all that sweetness 🙂

    congrats Azzo you have survived that ! (your post kinda often have a bitter taste : just agonizing wondering how weird/bad I’d react in such situations 😅)

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      Thank youuu, Kudo😁

      Yes, I’ve survived that, YAY for me, LOL! Every day seems like a survival episode these days, especially with how crazy my sisters are!

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    Azzo, I remember you from Man to Man recaps and your love for oppa lol. Your stories with SNG are so cute and literally made my day, I’m so happy for you. Keep ’em love stories coming, honestly this is way better than those crappy romance stories they’re selling on tv. Happy engagement, girl!

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      Yes, that’s me, Oppa love is what I’m famous for on DB (though these days SNG’s taken some of my time and attention, I’m guilty of that 🙈)

      Thank you so much 💙

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    OH MY GOD I DID NOT KNOW THERE WAS A SEQUEL

    Congratulations and much, much love. This is wonderful. I feel so much vicarious joy over your story!! Thanks so much @egads for posting it on OT!!!!

    not enough exclamation marks for this

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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      It is the feel good rom com that we all needed.

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      I DIDN’T KNOW YOU WERE READING MY STORIES ☺🤭

      Thank you so much really, it makes me happy knowing how happy and excited everyone gets with my story ❤

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        I never manage to stay kept up because I am bad at the internet, but I do love to see your stories and know my friends are doing well! 🥰

        ps fully expect the wedding invite!

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    Chukae!!! Azzo’s gonna be Mrs Stickynoteguy in two months *throws confetti*!!

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    Azzzo you are adorable!!!!!! II’m so happy for you and your fiance! Enjoy the wedding planning and it’s so great that everyone is getting along!
    Congratulations!!!!!!

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    HOW in the world did I miss this post! Such wonderful news!!!!!!!!!

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Okay.. some beanies have been asking me to repost the story of how SNG and I met.. I\’ve deleted that for reasons everyone is aware of (I still hold a bit of grudge) .. so I\’m going to share just a mini-version here for those who don\’t know.

This is what happened:

One day in December last year, he came to my office looking for some work-related documents (a conference.. to be exact), and while I was talking to him he kept looking at me in a way that no one before him ever had. That got me nervous and my face went red and he noticed but didn\’t say anything about it. I told him I didn\’t have the documents with me so I gave him sticky-notes instead (yes, the moniker!) and asked him to write me the contact info. of the person he wanted me to send the documents to. He did but he also wrote me his number on another sticky note and told me that it was his. I didn\’t know what to do with that piece of information (LOL) so I told him we needed one number and that made him laugh and him laughing made me flustered so I told him I\’d call him (which I never did) and I gave away that sticky note to Finance Guy (which I got back). He came again the next week and this time he took my number, for \”work\” he said!

(Later he told me he knew that I was never going to call him and that I probably didn\’t even know why he gave me his number.. but.. but HOW WAS I SUPPOSED TO KNOW!)

Of course, to SNG, that\’s not how we met, to him it was at that conference where we first met. It gets him so very frustrated that I can\’t remember him from that day.

You gave me my badge!
– I gave everyone their badge that day.
In the lunch break you were looking at me directly!
– I was most probably just looking in your direction, not really at you.
Our eyes met!
– No, they didn\’t!
How do you know if you can\’t remember? (Frustration level is really high here😂)
– Because .. you have the most beautiful eyes and I think I would have remembered!
I left no impression on you?
– Were you trying to leave an impression on me?
He never answers this but he does smile!

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    you guys are so cute!

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    awww that was so cute

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    Lol so he knew you won’t call! I’m assuming he still doesn’t know you gave that sticky note away not knowing what it was for to finance guy. I remember when we were all telling you to get that sticky note back, a few beanies suggested to wait and see if he does sth else and he came back and then we knew he was a keeper.

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      Honestly, I wouldn’t have known what his number was for if it wasn’t for my sister, and really, I would have never even thought of him again if it weren’t for all the beanie comments that got him kind of stuck in my head 🙈

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        Also, he knows I gave that sticky note away, he doesn’t know I got it back!

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        I remember saying to not try to get the number back if you couldn’t, but to wait for the next move. He knew exactly where you were. So glad he took it. And yes, we all saw how interested he was in you with all your totally spot on and adorable descriptions of how he looked at you, spoke to you, etc. And also glad he was so nice to you during those first dates and also to your sisters and his coworkers!

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          Oh yeah I remember you suggesting that but not the other beanies who agreed with you. When he did show up, I gathered that I I have no experience in all this and maybe I can’t give the best advice. Also, I’ll look up for you if I ever need some relationship advice Ally 😂

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        Your response to the situation was pretty adequate, i can see many introverts doing that lol but atleast sth good came out of writing it here 😂. Though none of that matters much in front of him showing up again at your workplace since, he gathered that you won’t call. So yeah meant to be and fated 😁

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        And don’t forget azzo’s coworker who said “that guy is into you!”

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          Honestly, her and I aren’t exactly friends so I never told her about SNG until just now when we got engaged.. and she looked so hurt and betrayed that I felt guilty 🙈

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            Oh my gosh! Don’t feel guilty, it’s ok to be a private person! She must have been SO shocked 😲 In a good way.

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    aw~ he did try hard ^^ .
    I relate to the clueless part, some people don’t get signs, just tell them the facts directly x)

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    I love the additions to the prequel!

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    Your first post (I know deleted) but still… remains one of my fav posts on this site. So so glad that you got his number back that day and then texted…. :D:D
    Congrats once again @azzo1

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    @azzo1 – it’s good to see a post from you again! This was such a fun story to spazz over and get excited about with you..
    You do know that many of us never get approached by anyone like that, so we lived vicariously through your goofiness!

    I hope you are doing well in your corner of the world!

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      Thank youuu 💙
      I never really thought I will get you guys this excited for me.. means so much, really!

      Thank you for enjoying my RL story (also, you just called me goofy 🤭☺)

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    I love the prequel!!

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    Gosh you guys are the cutest!!!

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    Well that’s adorable

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    I stan this OTP so much!

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    This is SO cute lemme just cry in a corner while cheering on you guys T_T

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    AWWW THIS IS SO CUTE!

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    Welcome back, missed you!

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You Beanies 😭❤
Thank you so much for all the love, this means so very much to me, really!

I want to reply to all your comments but if you guys know me you know that I really just can’t deal with this.. I logged out of DB yesterday because I just didn’t know how to react, I was DYING.. I mean seriously, this emoji “☺” has been my best friend for these last few days because every time some family member sends me a congratulatory message (mom’s been doing her part in spreading the news) I reply with that face and a thank you, I’M THAT BAD!

I’m going to be honest, I hesitated a little about whether or not to talk about SNG again on DB, but I promised you that I will let you know if something like this ever happened and I wanted to keep that promise and I’m so glad I did. I’ve never met anyone of you in real-life, and I only talk to a few of you outside of DB but I appreciate each and every one of you. Really, I never imagined this, your families know about me ( @ally-le, tell them I said thank you for being thrilled for me), your cats know about me, new beanies that I don’t know yet know about me (YOU TALK ABOUT ME 😭❤), and you being this happy for me that you actually squeal, tear up, and cry .. that makes me happy beyond words (yes, I cried reading your comments too, and I made SNG read them but he was like “Sticky-note Guy???” .. Oops!).

As a beanie, this is more than I could ever imagine, this is more than I could ever ask for ❤

Also, to answer a few of your questions, how I got that sticky-note back?
It happened back in January, I was passing by Finance Guy’s office (Okay, that’s a lie, I was deliberately there, I had a purpose, I needed to get that note back). Lucky for me, he wasn’t around and he’s a very neat guy who keeps all his notes stuck to this whiteboard on his wall. I felt like I was stealing it and I actually felt a tiny bit guilty when replacing it with another note, but it was MEANT TO BE MINE, I had to. Funny thing is, SNG doesn’t even know how big of a deal that sticky-note is (maybe it’s really time to tell him about Sticky Love/Stuck on You/Azzo’s sticky-note adventures now 😂)

How my sisters reacted to everything?
Well, they knew before me, he planned it with them and they helped him come meet my parents. They sent me out grocery shopping so he could come and ask my parents for my hand, that was a few days before he proposed to me ☺ I should’ve really known, they were acting so weird around me, my parents were so awkward, they’d be talking and I’d walk in the room and everyone goes silent. Turns out SNG threatened them (not my parents, my sisters, LOL) to keep it a secret from me so he could actually manage to surprise me (I’m not easily surprised) and when that happened there was a lot of screaming and laughing and crying involved!

And, just in case you’re wondering if SNG knows about Oppa, he does. My sisters told him everything, like EVERYTHING. They told him about my Oppa cutouts, they told him about my Oppa bookmarks, they told him about the Oppa wars. He laughed and acted like it was nothing but later sent me a pic of Oppa (HE GOOGLED HIM) with a message that said “Really? This guy?”. I told him not to judge my Oppa and I told him that if he were to come to me with someone like that, I’ll be accepting of it. So what he did is send me a pic of Park Shin-hye (HE GOOGLED KOREAN ACTRESSES) and told me he picked her. I’m ashamed to admit this, I was anything but accepting then, seriously, I’ve never been that petty in my whole life 🙈

Okay, you can tell me to SHUT UP about SNG now and I will I promise, just one last thing.. thank you, thank you, thank you so very much for all your sweet words beanies, you made my heart happy!

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    OMG I am gonna cry! This is wonderful! Congratulations Azzo! You deserve everything great plus alpha!
    Send my regards to SNG and tell him he is legendary!

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    You’re making my day better and better azzo. What SNG read the comments?! If he’s reading this I must say you two are definitely made for eachother and he’s so lucky to have you!

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    I have to take this opportunity to wave hello to Sticky Note Guy
    👋👋👋

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    Oh Hello SNG! *waves both hands up high*

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    Awww!… 💕 So much love, so much cute!…
    Now you should watch kdrama with Sticky Note Guy (👋 hiiii , please take good care of our Azzo!)
    Thank you to Finance Guy for being neat and keeping that note!

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    I don’t even know the beginning of your lovestory (I’m kind of new to the fanwall posts) but both of your posts today were so lovely and I’m really happy and excited for you!! You made my day and I wish you all the happiness in the world! 💕

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    *sends finger hearts to SNG and @azzo1*

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    We’ll never tell you to shut up cos we LOVE your stories! Thank you for sharing it with us 💘

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    This is great! Thanks so much for taking the time to share this with us!

    And may I now take the liberty of extending a friendly greeting to your SNG! *waving* …… He does realize we, the Beanies, sort of come included with you, right? We’re all like a package deal. *laughing* 🙂

    Congratulations once again to both of you! 🙂

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      Okay, I have to reply to this!
      This is exactly what my sisters and friends said to him.. that we are all a package deal and that it’s too late now to back out!

      He thinks they’re all crazy and finds them extremely annoying but I know he secretly adores them 😂

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    I’m dying! SNG googling a k-actress to stan in response to Oppa is just perfect. Mr, keep on being awesome!

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    *Ahem* I agree with @korfan that @azzo1 + Beanies are a package deal, but shout out to your sisters for being the Beanie Envoys in this adventure!😄

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    Congratulations @azzo1💐💐 Have a happy, happy life 😊

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    I love this so much 😍😍😂. I’d really missed the SNG updates. Since this bears repeating, I wish you all the happiness in the world azzo. You made me squee, laugh, swoon and cry with your rl story. Thank you. **finger hearts**

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    “and I made SNG read them but he was like “Sticky-note Guy???” .. Oops!).”
    Didn’t you tell him that we had to come up with a nickname unless he prefers that we use he’s actual name .
    ““Really? This guy?”. I told him not to judge my Oppa” Well said @azzo1

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    A question if he had picked another actress would you be more accepting ???!
    You don’t have anything to be ashamed of , pettiness is Gold
    Go Azzo go

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    Congratulations! I wish you both all the best!

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    *looks to SNG*
    You, sir, if you dare to harm our Azzo in any littlest way or form, there will be consequences from a myriad of Beanies. Be good to her please 😊
    Also, not to judge, but Park Shin Hye 😂

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    Soooo adorable. All good relationships have celebrities that we’d be willing to give our spouses up to—my husband has said he’s willing to give me up to GONG YOO, so there’s that! Yep, SNG is a keeper and you can put his mind at ease because I just read that PJH doesn’t want a relationship or marriage right now! Lol.

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    I love this, please keep sharing your happy stories with our world ❤️😁❤️

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    well that was such a nice way to start the weekend 😀 !
    congratulations Azzo , wishing you all the best and so glad to see you back 😘😘😘 !

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    I am thoroughly enjoying the mental images of you sneaking around Finance Guy’s office to take back what was yours and SNG googling Korean celebrities 😄. All the best to you both! Thanks again for sharing with us; your stories are always delightful.

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    I’m one of those beanies that doesn’t really know you lol. I just remember your funny posts during my lurking days. Congratulations though! Be happy!!

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    This is the greatest news! I’m so happy for you and SNG!!! (Hi!! Take care of our wonderful Azzo! )

    Maybe it’s too soon, but how about sticky notes as save the dates lol 😁

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    I’m dying, he googled and picked PSH lmao, and he knows about the oppa wars *wipes tear from eye*. Awww bless.
    No, don’t shut up, you’re happy, talk as much as you want!!!!!

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    I’m so happy for you Azzo! This feels like an epilogue to the sweetest, most heartwarming drama ever 💕💕💕💕 Wishing you both all the best as you start this new season of your life together 💕💕💕💕💕

    And we will never tell you to shut up about SNG! If you want to talk about him, we’d be delighted to hear more about him.

    In case SNG is reading this: Hi 👋 Take good care of our Azzo!

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Hello Beanies, it’s me!
Yeah.. it’s been a while.. I meant to drop by a lot often than I did but I thought I wouldn’t be able to resist DB so it was better to stay away till I actually felt like I’m ready to be back here. Still not sure how active I’ll be but I’m here and I’ve missed you, really, how have you all been? Hope you’ve all been keeping safe. How’s life? How’s drama-life?
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The rest in the comments.. read on ☺

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    I’ve been taking a break from Kdrama because real-life drama has been more than enough. These passed few months were a roller-coaster ride, things happened, wonderful things, some not so wonderful things (Covid19, quarantine, lockdown and such), and it’s really been so crazy. Not going to lie, a lot of the time I just wanted to pop up here to talk about some very awkward situations I put myself in that I thought you guys would find hilarious and, oh God, the embarrassing ones (I still cringe at those).

    And just, you know, talk about him. Yes, him, remember him? Sticky-note Guy, of course, who else? Yes, he’s still here 🙈. So many times I wanted to come running to you beanies because I needed someone to tell me it was okay, that it was totally normal to feel whatever I was feeling.. that no, you don’t break up just because you had one fight (He laughed so much at me, he’s never going to let that go), and yes, some girls do cry when they get a confession (please tell me it happens).. and so much more, maybe I’ll tell you all about it one day, maybe I won’t, we’ll see 😂

    Why I’m here and telling you all this today, though? One, I have some news, BIG, HUGE, GINORMOUS, news that I really, really, really want to tell you guys. Two, if some people were to steal my stories again (you thought I forgot, didn’t you 😒) I don’t think I’d care anymore. I think I was mostly upset back then because I was new to everything and we were just getting to know each other and nothing was sure. I was scared, I was nervous, I was confused, I was feeling things I never felt before, so it all was a bit too overwhelming. Also, why steal someone’s stories, really?! Anyways, that’s all behind me and I’m good now.. I guess!

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      I do care, I hope no one dares to steal it again

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      Dear Azzo 🙋‍♀️

      Long time no see. I especially logged in because I NEEDED to send my Congratulations (🎊🎉🎊) about your great news.

      And yes, some girls (like me 😉) cried when they got confessed to.

      You know, I am always on your side (be it from someone stealing your story or your PHJ Oppa 😅).

      Keep safe, be healthy, and 🎊Congratulations!🎉

      Thanks Muchie (@obsessedmuch) for the nudge 😉

      Beanies,hope you are all well,safe and I miss you and DB 😘

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        Awww, @wakimary!!!

        Thank you so much for this, I know you’ve been taking a break from DB, too, and you logging in just for me, means a lot 😭

        I know, you’ve supported me through Oppa wars and all 😂

        You too, keep safe and healthy and happy, always ❤

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    So.. hehe.. moving on to the news.. umm.. Beanies, are you ready? Are you ready for this?

    IT’S HAPPENING!!!

    HE ASKED ME TO MARRY HIM AND I SAID YESSSSSSS!!!!

    Well, actually he didn’t really get to ask at that moment and I kept screaming NO (that was disbelief NOT a rejection). He panicked at that, of course, and went: “Tell me you mean yes, please!”, so I screamed “YES PLEASE!”. He laughed, I laughed, and we laughed some more, and then he gave me this look (he’s really good at those) and said: “Thank you”. Beanies, I tell you, this guy.. I just.. I don’t even know.. I almost died at that, HOW IS HE LIKE THIS ☹❤

    So yes, I know it’s crazy, I still can’t believe it myself but for me it’s slways been marriage not dating (YES), and it’s really happening and I’m marrying him.

    YOU GUYS, I AM MARRYING MY STICKY NOTE GUY!!!

    I just had to share this with you beanies because I know how excited you were for me when it all started and you were the best support-system someone could have.. and I know that this is going to make you as happy as it did my family and friends. Thank you for rooting for me, for rooting for us ❤

    P.S. He did ask me later to make sure I knew what I was saying yes to!
    P.P.S. I’m not sure I ever told you this but.. umm.. I did get that sticky-note back!

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      Oh, this is wonderful news, @azzo1 ~!!! I’m really happy for you 🙂

      And welcome back ~!!! 😘😘❣️❣️❣️

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      Congratulations!!
      Thank you for sharing your happiness.

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      Azzo, so Lovely to hear from you and this is wonderful news!!! Congratulations!!!!!!! Wishing you and SNG a lifetime of happiness!!!!!!!

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      AAAAHHHHHH! This is the best news I’ve heard today. Honestly I didn’t think you’ll say this on DB but thanks to your faith in this community for coming back and informing us. I was secretly hoping to hear from you someday but THIS, I didn’t expect to hear this. And I’m smiling like a fool from ear to ear, this makes me so happy @azzo1 CONGRATULATIONS 🎊😍
      Hope you and SNG have a wonderful, happy life ahead.
      Also wow you actually got the sticky note back!

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      Oh my azzzzzoooooo!!!
      Am so so happy for you. Even though you weren’t here on DB, we were all rooting for you. uri OTP!!!!
      am so glad you met the sticky note guy ( we always knew he was a keeper) and am sure he is one hell of a lucky chap :))

      Wishing you a wonderful life azzo!!

      May life bring you many joys and crazy happiness.

      Love,
      Blue.

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      This made me tear up😍😍. I’m so happy for you Azzo. All the best to you and Sticky Note Guy.

      I hope there were some Pegasus Market-style gymnastics involved in getting the sticky note back 🤭

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      Ahhhh! Azzo I am so happy for you!! Congratulations! 🎉🎊 You deserve all the happiness and wish you two all the joy and happiness in your upcoming marriage! ❤️

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      Congratulations @azzo1 this is such wonderful news.
      So happy for you!

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      Congratulations Azzo ! I’m so happy for you!

      Wishing you a lifetime of happiness together!

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      Azzo!!!!!!
      The amount of love and happiness that I just felt for you (and Sticky Note Guy!) could’ve sent me to space!
      It’s kind of surreal that it was only late last year where we were watching Ep 1 before our eyes and now it has reached the finale. (*cries happy tears*) This has been a wonderful ride and thank you for sharing it with us, Azzo. I sincerely wish you two all the happiness and the best 💛
      P.S. Welcome back!
      P.S.S. The sticky note! How did you get it back? It should framed in your (and in the future, his) bedroom 😉

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      Oh my goodness, Azzo! Congratulations!!!!! Such great news. Thank you for sharing it with us and welcome back!

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      Awww, that’s amazing! I’m so happy for you, feel like a proud neighborhood ahjumma! He’s a lucky guy! And, please, keep on writing – here or somewhere else-, it’s such a pleasure to read you!

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      Azzo I’m a complete stranger but I heard about your news through other beanies so I just want to offer my best wishes. Congratulations and may you have many many more happy joyful days ahead!

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      Azzo!!! I’m so happy for you!!! Congratulation :*

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      I literally squealed (and scared my cat)

      What great news!

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      Congratulations Azzo! So happy for both of you! Thank you for sharing your happiness with us ☺️

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      So you’re Mrs. Sticky Note Guy to be!!!
      Congratulations!!!
      I’m so relieved SNG checked you knew what you were saying yes, that you got that note back, and that you’re sharing this with us!!!

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      Wow! Congratulations!

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      Azzo!!! Congrats!!

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      How wonderful! 😊 Congratulations, it is wonderful news!!

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        I just stumbled on your comment on a previous post and your love story and gaining back faith in love is so cute. More so that you took the leap of faith after reading azzo’s posts and that’s such a good thing to come out of her sharing her experience here.

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      I’m so happy for you! CONGRATULATIONS!

      And I’m so happy you shared this wonderful news.

      (You made me cry, but the good kind, the happy kind, so thank for this bright spot today.)

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      OMG!!!!! Azzo!!! Congratulations! What a fantastic news to wake up to!!! Marriage is wonderful so wish you two nothing but the very best!!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰

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      Congratulations, Azzo !!!
      I’m so happy for you!
      He’s such a sweetheart, always making sure you’re ok with the situation.

      How did the sisters react to the news? I’m sure they’ve been ecstatic.

      I’m also glad that you’re doing well. You’ve missed you very much!

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      Azzo!!! I was just thinking about you the other day and wondering what happened with SNG!!!! Im so happy for you! I gasped and almost screamed when you said you guys are getting married!!! Congrats!!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

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      I frakking Knew as soon as @lugirl131415 Bea told me to go check your wall that you were getting married. I KNEW IT.
      What a Kdrama ending, I am swooning.
      I’m so happy for you Azzo, that’s amazing.
      Congratulations x1000
      I am fully satisfied with this drama’s run!!!!

      (Also is this the second time Dramabeans has… Like turned a Bean’s normal life into a Kdrama? *Coughs* @wakimary *coughs*. Amazing.)

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        Hi Sic! 🙋‍♀️ hope you are well.

        Don’t worry, I take into consideration the current travel restrictions, hence no surprises before we plan your trip here with @obsessedmuch and @irishrah 😉

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      (also welcome back xoxoxox)

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      OMGeeeeee! Congratulations Azzo! So glad to hear the next news about you, is you about to get married!! Wishing you all the best! This is one of the greatest OTP ever!! Sending you big virtual hugs and kisses!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰😍😍😍😍💕💕💕💕💕

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      Congratulations Azzo!!!!! 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

      I am so happy for you! 😘😘😘😘😘

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      Congratulations!!! This is such a drama moment. I’m so happy for you!

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      Azzo sweetie, so so happy and beyond words for you. I swear I have tears in my eyes. Congrats, and I know you are going to have a great, great life ahead with the Love of Your Life. My heart is so full right now. Your Sticky-Note Guy sounds like a terrific guy, but you know what, azzo? He’s the lucky one because he found a really, really amazing, a wonderful, special girl, one in a million, and that’s you.

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      Did Finance Guy keep the sticky note for you? Or did you get it back fairly quickly at the beginning?
      (ofc , pls do not answer this question if it’s too personal. I’m just curious!)

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      AZZO IS MARRYING STICKY NOTE GUY YAHOOO!!! Congratulations Azzo! I hope you have a long and happy life together 🥰 👰🤵💐♥️

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      Congratulations from a random stranger on the Internet! That’s a lovely story ❤️

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      AZZOOO!!

      So happy for you~~~~~~!!! I’m literally screamed while reading! Wishing you both the best the world has to offer! And thank you for sharing your story with us.

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      This is wonderful! Congrats! Thanks for sharing your stories with us! Wishing you two nothing but happiness!

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      Oh Azzo! That’s wonderful! May your life together continue to be filled with happiness.

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      I legit squeeled reading this and I’m just so happy for you. Thankyou so so so very much @azzo1 for sharing your story with us. Wishing you and your sticky note guy all the luck and love for the furure. Stay healthy, happy and safe💕💕

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      Congratulations 🎉 I sincerely wish you the best 💜

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      Congratulations @azzo1! My cheeks hurt from smiling so much!☺️ My best wishes to you, Sticky Note Guy and your family!😀

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      So cute , wish you all the best in life and marriage 😉

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        And congrats 🎉 🎉🎉
        Let’s go shopping for a lovely weeding dress
        Did you hire the DJ for the wedding yet ???

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      @azzo1 OMGGGGG WONDERFUL NEWS! 💖💖💖

      From the first post, I was just happy to hear from you again. Then I scrolled down and read this post and gasped out loud! I actually teared up a little too. 😭 I’m so happy for you!!! ❤️

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      Awww congratulations azzo 🎉😄 That is such wonderful news! Wishing you and SNG all the happiness ❤

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      I’m so happy, so happy for you!!! Congratulations!!! I wish you all the best!!! 💕💕💕

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      Congratulations! So happy for you!

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      CONGRATULATIONS!!! This is such happy news! I wish you both the very best!! He’s a lucky guy 🙂

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      Late I know…. I just saw this now when I checked this site… but omggggggggggggg!!

      Congratsssss and this is the best happily ever after I ever saw on this site!! So so happy for you and so glad that you said yes to Mr Sticky Note guy.

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    Omg Azzo that’s great. It’s good to hear from you.

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    I legit gasped. My whole clinic heard it and thought I was choking.

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      And omg, you’re getting married!!! Congrats! 2020 can’t be all bad, right? Thank you for letting us share in your happiness!

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      Don’t choke Ally 🤗

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    Ohhhhh AZZO!!! It’s so good to see you back, I was just thinking about you not liking flowers today.

    😲 Your news! I gasped, then squealed (woke up the cat) and then cried from happiness 😁😁😁 My jaw is in danger of permanent dislocation because it’s been on the ground for several minutes now! Thank you so much for sharing this with the Beanies, this is the best news we’ve had for a very long time ❤️💐🌈👫🏻❤️

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    Oh wow! Congratulations azzo!!

    Also, welcome back!

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    Congratulation!!!! *squealing so hard

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    Congratulations Azzo! I may have missed your original story but I’m genuinely happy for you 😊
    Wish you & your sng lot’s of happiness ^^

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    Congratulations! You probably posted about it before but I must’ve missed it–do you mind sharing the story of how you met? I love a good meet-cute story!

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    Congratulations Azzo! 😀

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Hello beanies ☺️

It’s been a while, just wanted to check on you guys. How have you all been? How’s quarantine and social distancing with you? Hope it’s not too frustrating and you guys are finding ways to make it fun.. pfft!

I miss you but I don’t think I’m ready to be back on DB just yet.. but I promise I keep you all in my prayers and I’m always sending you positive vibes.. just be healthy and happy, okay!

Also, since it’s still 1st of May which means it’s my Oppa’s birthday, I’d want to wish him a happy birthday and DB is the only place that will always understand my love for him so I’m grateful for that.

A Very Happy birthday Oppa, I might have broken the Oppa-law with Forest but I’ll always love you the same, that I promise!

Stay safe everyone ❤

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    Hope you’re doing well too, azzo! I really missed seeing your posts. Happy Birthday to your Oppa too.^^

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    Miss you too. Stay safe, stay healthy, you and all of your loved ones!

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    Miss you, @azzo ❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️

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    Stay safe azzo. Take your time in coming back to DB but this can always be your place to spazz and have fun with oppas and dramas.

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    Miss you Azzo and it’s so glad to see your name again! Quarantine is okay here. As long as the weather is good I can get out and garden!!!!!
    Take care and be well!!!!!

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    Hi, azzo *waves madly* thanks for stopping by 😁

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    Azzo, hi! I’m glad you wrote, I’ve thought of you during this period!
    Take your time and take care! 🙆‍♀️

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    I hope that you are doing well azzo!

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    Hi azzo! *waving* Great to hear from you!

    Hope you’re doing well also and enjoying a drama or two or three! Take care!

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    I miss you. Glad you’re doing well.

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    Hello, Azzo! Stay safe!

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    It’s great to hear from you Azzo! Stay well and healthy!

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    Happy belated birthday Azzo’s Oppa 😀 , may you make lots of good dramas to make her fall in love with you even harder (is that even possible ? 😉 😋)
    so glad to see you Azzo 😘😘😘

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    Azzooo! We miss you and please stay safe and healthy too!

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    Thank you @azzo1 for your well wishes. I hope that you too are doing well and keeping safe.

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    Dear @azzo1, I know you are not around much these days and for good reasons. I hope this message finds you nonetheless, because I want to express my deepest thanks for sharing your story last winter. Because it was so beautiful and simple and relatable, it led me to aspire for something similar for myself, which I had not dared to imagine for a very long time (understand: ever). I was embarrassed to aspire for love and pessimistic about my chances of success, but I gave it a try and registered on a dating app (!!) in a project management approach (!!!) to give me a practice run for real life (!!!!!). And wouldn’t you know: I have realized that they are actually many wonderful men around hoping to commit and that I was actually quite attractive to them. Fast forward five months (including 3 under lockdown) and I am now in a loving relationship with a wonderful man, who happens to be everything I could hope for and beyond. And while we are being cautious, it feels so wonderful and natural and simple to be together that we might stay together for a very very very long time. So thank you, thank you so very much for sharing your happiness (in the middle of elements of shyness) leading me (and others I’m sure) to open my heart and discover that this element of happiness was in reach all along and a beautiful adventure possible. I hope you are being healthy at this time of uncertainty and I wish you the very best for your life and happiness. Take care!

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      @delsatu 💙

      Thank you so much for sharing this with me, this is so touching. When sharing my stories I never thought I’ll be affecting anyone in that way, that my stories had the power to change someone’s life like that.. this makes me SO VERY HAPPY for you. I’m glad you decided to take that step and that you actually found someone that wonderful to be with, I’m sure he finds you just as wonderful and he can’t thank his lucky stars enough for meeting you, you’re AMAZING! Stay safe and I wish you two a lifetime of happiness together!

      (Also, sorry it took me long to find this, with all the new notifications it kept being pushed back)

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        Dear @azzo1, I apologise for taking so long to answer! It is difficult to aknowledge that my life has changed, except that I no longer have time to watch dramas (boyfriends are so time consuming!!) and I wear a stupid smile on my face now! 😁 We have just had a week by ourselves on vacation and it was wonderful: being together feels simple and obvious.
        But I wanted to give you some fun follow-up: during my online dating time, I shared my experiences with a small group of friends: I wanted the advice and support, and they helped me make the process funnier rather than daunting (on their side they found my adventures very entertaining!). But they were so impressed with my “success” that it gave the singletons the courage to date again!! One is now in a serious relationship, another has had more dates this month than the last years combined!! They are meeting my man tomorrow on a hike and are impatient to meet the person who has brought several persons out of singledom- I wish I could explain to them how a lady from far away had such an influence on me, and therefore on them…
        I wish you a wonderful summer and a smooth wedding preparation, despite the many obstacles weighting upon us!! Best best best!! 🤗

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Hello Beanies,

Just came to say please take care of yourselves and your loved ones, even if it means staying away from them for now!

Scary times so wherever you are be safe, be healthy and, most of all, be kind.

Azzo

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