So okay beanies, this is the last update before the wedding, I’ll be taking a break from DB and all sorts of social media for the coming 10 days, the real countdown! I don’t know how I feel about this, I keep going back and forth between “MY GOD! We only have 10 days!” and “UGH!! We still have 10 days!”, it’s kind of confusing if you ask me.

Everything is coming together nicely, I didn’t really need to worry about a lot since everyone’s been so very supportive and most of the things were checked off my list pretty quickly. I get to get my dress in four days and I’ll probably just hang it where I can see it the most and stare at it and maybe try to will the days to run a bit faster!

SNG’s mom wants me to go do cake-tasting tomorrow and she told me that she made SNG try some today and he made his pick and now she wants to test me and see how well I know her son. I said challange accepted but what I didn’t say is that he’s already told me what he picked and that he picked what he thought I’d like the best.. hehe.. this is not cheating, okay!

Also, we got to sneak out yesterday! It was funny really, he just called me and asked me if I was at home, I said yes. He asked me if anyone else was, I told him my dad was. He asked me if he was anywhere around, I told him he was upstairs on an online meeting, and he went: “Good! I’m stealing you in five minutes, run!”. That made me laugh and I told him that if he was going to steal me he shouldn’t be telling me about it and he should definitely not be telling me to run. He told me he thought I’d like that idea and: “Run to me, not from me!”. I didn’t tell him this but I LOVED that idea and when we hung up I got so excited that I literally ran around in circles in my room not knowing what to do. My head was going “Dress up!” but I didn’t have time to dress up so I put my red lipstick on and I ran. Turns out, he actually called my dad before he called me, and he asked him for his permission and my dad said yes 😂

And, I was going through my notes today and all the things I wrote about SNG and I went back to that very first post I made here on DB (Yes, I have them all saved 🙈) and this is what I found, December 20/2019:

Yes, my God! Who could have thought? I certainly did not.
Now this itself is something to laugh about! Also, let’s never tell him I called him scary, okay?

So, take care, and thank you again @ally-le and all the beanies, so much, for such a wonderful and thoughtful gift, it means a lot, really, and I’ll be listening to the playlist ON REPEAT! Wish me luck and pray everything goes smoothly!

Stay healthy and happy always, and I’ll see you guys after the wedding 😂❤

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    Congrats..

    but you make me curious about 🙂

    What flavour of the cake
    What color is your wedding dress

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      Thank you.

      Chocolate. Always chocolate for me!
      It’s a white dress!

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    Wishing you both all the happiness and luck. Rest well till your big day. I guess that was it about SNG updates or as the drama name goes “stuck on you”, what a satisfying run 😅. But seriously , thanks for keeping beanies in your mind and making our terrible days better by your updates. Praying your wedding really smooth and you have the best day of your life.

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    December 20/2019….That seems like it was only yesterday!😲 Do not worry, I shall party on the OT on the 18th on your behalf!🥳
    Psssst…My schedule for the 18th says ‘Azzo’🤭

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    You’re so welcome!!! I totally had a feeling this all would happen. Congratulations and have a restful 10 days before you big day!

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    “Yes, I have them all saved”

    Good. The early posts that you took down were too precious to be lost for all time. You should re-publish the whole sequence some time.

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    Have a happy wedding ceremony Azzo! Happy for you and Stickie!

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    All the best to you both. Rest well to your big day, and I hope you have a wonderful wedding ceremony! Thank you for sharing your story 💖

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    Have a great wedding day! All the best! 😊😊😊

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    So excited for you! Best wishes to you both.

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    Sending all good vibes, love, positivity, flowers, sprinkles, sparkles, ALL THINGS GOOD right at you and SNG 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

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    Have a happy wedding Azzo&SNG! Will do everything I can to summon the drizzle on the day!

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    I hope your day goes absospiffinlootley wonderfully darling.
    Congratulations yet again and all the blessings.

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    (also I know you’ll be swamped with notifs but there may be a little present on my wall when you get back… hopefully, God willing, etc etc. xox)

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    Oh, gosh. I came into this late. I am smiling over how sweet SNG is. Like awwwww… Seriously, your love story beats all the books out there, because it is THE best. So many feels. Like a Sophie Kinsella chick lit, and a thousand times more. Love you, azzo, sweetie. Take care. ❤❤❤❤

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    Congratulations, Mr and Mrs Azzo !
    Wishing you happiness and wonderful times together as a married couple!

    Azzo — did Finance Guy and lady coworker (who met Mr Azzo at his workplace, in one of those early meetings) ever guess you’ll marry SNG ?

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    Happily ever after for you and SNG, Azzo! 💞

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You beanies ☹❤

Thank you so much for posting all those songs for me and @ally-le thank you, really, for coming up with the idea!

Sorry it took me long to go through them all, I was supposed to be doing nothing at all today so I thought I’ll relax and check DB and see what you guys were up to but then SNG’s mom called me and she asked to meet me and she said: “Don’t tell SNG!”.. that totally had me on panic-mode. I was not going to tell him anyway but because she said it and how serious she sounded while saying it, I kind of really wanted to. I didn’t, of course, but I kept panicking on my way to her.

Seriously, I was making scenarios in my head and practicing dialogues and what to say to her when she throws that glass of water at me and tells me to leave him.. should I beg “Please, you can’t do this.. *cries*.. we’re married!”.. or should I show her some attitude instead “It’s already too late.. *flashes that ring at her*.. and you promised me you’d make us our wedding cake!”.. yeah! Luckily, there was no water thrown at me but I kept my eyes on that cup of tea of hers, it looked pretty hot! (She is a very nice person, I promise!)

Anyways, while I was going through the playlist you guys are making me, my sister came into my room and she went: “Why is your face red like that and why do you look like you can’t decide whether you want to smile or cry?”.. I told her to shut up so she left (They think I’m not that fun to tease when SNG’s not around!). To answer her questions:

1- My face was red because of all of these songs you guys are posting for me. Usually when I’m listening to love songs I’m not thinking of anything, they are just songs, but these are for me.. like you actually posted them only because you thought of SNG and I or that it reminded you of us and that changes EVERYTHING. They start to mean something and become relatable and there is a lot of “Love” talk going on and when that word is directed at/to/for me, it gets me all weird (Yes, I’m sorry, I’m bad at this).

2- THAT WAS MY TOUCHED FACE!

Really, this is the sweetest gesture and it means so much to me. You might not think of it much and it might seem like nothing but this made me so happy. You guys thinking of me and taking from your time to go find songs for me, I really appreciate this so much. I’ll make sure to add them all to my playlist and I hope I didn’t miss anyone’s post (I promise I’ll do another round on the beanie wall to make sure). Thank you and I love you all in the best way possible ❤

(Okay, I finally decided.. I’m gonna go cry a little 🙈)

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    Azzo!! I’m so glad you’re enjoying the songs that we’re including! You’re such a kind and sweet person <3

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    I’m going to put them together as well. So, don’t worry if you don’t get all of them added. It’s my wedding gift to you! I know how much this would mean to you, so I really wanted to do it. I’ve never even met you, but you’re that special to me and so many of us here that I wanted to make this special. And whatever happens, you can know that all over the world there are lots of Beanies wishing you the best! Shoot, I was going to tell you this later, but gosh, I’m all gushy right now. 😭.

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      We’re heavily invested in the SNG romance because @azzo1 is such a special Beanie and we wish you the best! Thank you all the participating Beanies (I listened, that counts doesn’t it?) and especially to you @ally-le.

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      Awww, Ally 😭❤

      I just had a heart to heart with my mom, which we’ve never, ever, done before, and now I come here and read this!!!

      This means so much more than I could ever say, having you all think of me as such makes me feel so blessed.. I just really love you all!!

      And yes, I’m going to go cry some more 😭

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    i read your posts after ally linked one to the comment where she said to put up songs, and your story was so sweet (and you write so nicely btw!) and i literally had SO MUCH FUN coming up with songs!! wish u the best

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    I was hoping that mother of SNG would slide an envelope full of money across the table.

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      She did slide an envelope.. okay, she didn’t actually slide it, she gave it to me, put it in my hand.. but it was a different kind of an envelope, TOP SECRET!

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    Trust the meeting with SNG’s mom is a pleasant surprise (and not kdrama-ish).

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      Yes, nothing to worry about at all, none of the crazy things my head was making up!

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HELLO BEANIES!

OFFICIALLY MRS STICKY NOTE GUY HERE!!!

YES!! YESSSSS!!!

OH MY GOD!!!!

*breathes*
In our culture, we usually have the marriage officiated before the actual wedding, it is done days before the wedding or weeks or even months sometimes, whatever the couple and their families agree on, and it’s a period in which you are officially married but you don’t get to live together just yet (Don’t ask me, it’s a cultural thing). Some people throw a big party to celebrate it but it’s mostly done quietly without any cermonies, just the two people getting married, the Officiant to marry them, and some witnesses in attendance and THAT WAS TODAY FOR US!!

So there we were, SNG and I with our dads as our witnesses in front of the Officiant who talked about how holy a marriage is and about our rights toward each other, and Love, Respect, Trust and Compassion (he said this so many times and made us repeat it after him and made us all laugh). The whole time he spoke SNG couldn’t stop grinning and I couldn’t look at him because that made me want to grin too and I was trying not to look too excited! The Officiant then went on and asked us if we had any terms and conditions for each other and then he asked us if we accept each other on these terms and whatever agreement we have between us in private, the answer was of course YES, then he made us sign a paper and that was it.. like that, MARRIED! HOW CRAZY IS THAT?!!

Our dads shook hands, hugged and congratulated each other, and they took turns to hug SNG and congratulate him and they did the same with me and when they were done they just looked at us, WHY ARE YOU LOOKING AT US DADS? I don’t know why I looked at the Officiant then and he smiled and went: “It’s okay, it’s okay, you’re husband and wife!”. I KNOWWWW!!! LET ME PROCESS THAT FOR A BIT! I looked at SNG and he was looking at me, giving me what my sisters call “Signature SNG Smile” and I just couldn’t not smile back (I promise you, you won’t be able to resist 🙈). He stepped toward me and in that moment I got so very nervous, I didn’t know what he was going to do, I didn’t want him to do anything crazy, our dads are watching, I WILL DIE. He didn’t, he went for a forehead kiss (four forehead kisses actually ☺) and he told me later that I looked like I was pleading him but also threatening him not to do anything (I’m sorry 😂).

My dad got a bit emotional and I’ve never seen him like this before, EVER, so I cried and SNG had to remind us that I was still going home with my dad. My dad told him that he didn’t sound very happy about it and he went: “I’m not!”, they laughed, I didn’t, I was still crying! My dad “allowed” him to be the one to drop me off home because this is probably the last time we’d see each other before the wedding. We don’t believe in jinx but our families are a bit dramatic, (“It’ll make the wedding more special” and “You’ll miss each other” and “Just think about your first look moment!”) and now we’re not allowed to see each other for the coming three weeks! So SNG took me home (not before our own mini-party to celebrate the day, hehe 🤭) and I asked him if he’d walk me to the front stairs (I shouldn’t have!), he said he was going to anyway (he shouldn’t have!).

One of my sisters was out on the balcony and her alone was not enough of an audience so she called my other sister to come and watch, and when she did come, she came with a loud ululation to let the whole neighborhood know. It was funny at first but it started getting annoying because they won’t stop. I told them to shut up, they didn’t, instead they kept making the silliest jokes. SNG laughed but then went: “Quiet please, I’m trying to say goodbye to my wife here!”.. and that had the opposite effect on them because they screamed at that, FOOOOOLS!!! (I can’t really say anything to them though, I still can’t stop giggling at the way he said “my wife”). He laughed some more and this time I had to tell them to just go inside and give us a minute, PLEASE! To my surprise, they listened to me for once but not before telling us how to say goodbye to each other (SISTERS FOR SALE! Anyone wants sisters? Buy one get one free? Take them both for free? NO?)

So yeah.. I told him to drive safe, he said okay. I told him to take care of himself, he said he will. I told him I’d see him in three weeks, he said he couldn’t wait (say nothing, okay!). He told me not to get hurt, I told him I won’t, he told me he couldn’t trust me with that so I reminded him of our Officiant’s little chant of “Love, Respect, TRUST, and Compassion” and he laughed. He told me his life’s new goal is to teach me how to dodge falls (Yes, really!), I told him it’s not possible, he told me it is he never falls.. so I made the lamest, the cheesiest and the most stupid joke ever (Yes, THAT one! The one you’re thinking of right now, and yes, YOU CAN CRINGE TOO). The second I said it I was so embarrassed of myself I wanted to run but I couldn’t because HE WOULDN’T LET ME, he forced me to look at him (he’s mean, HE IS SO MEAN!).

Anyways.. (yes, I’m going to skip what happened next.. sawry ☺🙈), he said he’d call me and maybe we could plan a “sneak out date” (LOL), and then he.. umm.. well.. yeah.. said goodbye!

P.S. He sent me a message to tell me that “Some falls you just don’t dodge!”
P.P.S. It’s late here but I’m too giddy to sleep and I’m too giddy to stay still, I don’t know what to do with myself anymore and THREE WEEKS IS SUCH A LONG TIME!

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    Congrats, @azzo1
    🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳😘😘😘😘😘

    Virtually sending lots of love and well wishes ~!!!! WHOO!!!!

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    Congratulations Azzo! Hope you get to sneak out sometime! 😀 😀

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    Congratulations to both of you!

    Wishing you all the best! 🙂

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    OMO OMO 😮 Congratulations!!! Oh my gosh, what surprising news! I’m so happy for you! How is your ankle/foot? Are you all healed? The three weeks will fly by and you’ll soon find yourself standing in your white dress/traditional clothes beside your HUSBAND *squeals so loud*! Yes, you must have a sneak-out date to tell the future generations about 😁😁😁❤️❤️❤️ Oh azzo!

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      (yep curious about the ankle too )

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      Thank you! This came as a surprise to us, too! We were planning to get the marriage officiated a couple days before the wedding but our parents insisted and now it’s all done!

      Yes, a lot better. The cast is off, still have a brace on but one I can take off anytime, I mostly put it on when going out and when sleeping, no heels allowed, no workouts allowed!

      MY GOD!!! Don’t say that.. I still need to get used to it 🙈

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    congratulations Azzo 😘😘😘
    glad to read you’re ok and in such happy mood 😀
    kinda busy lately, I’m glad to have checked out db before calling it a day/week ^^’
    take care~ 😘😘😘

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      Thank you, kudo ❤

      I checked your wall (since I skip most of the notifications these days, sorry!), and you haven’t been as active, hope everything is alright and it’s just work keeping you away!

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    Omo congratulations, Mrs SNG!!! Thank you for the update! You guys are unbearably cute and sweet awwwwww <3<3<3 The three weeks will fly by I'm sure, what with wedding preparations and all. Fighting!

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    CONGRATS AZZO!!! I’m so happy for you!!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 I was sitting here smiling and almost crying reading this whole thing! I can’t believe you’re finally Mrs. SNG!!!

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    Congratulations! You guys are so cute ❤️ I’m sure the next few weeks will fly by 😊 lots and lots of congratulations and well wishes!

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    Congrats azzo!! Or should I say Mrs SNG now? It has happened! Wow didn’t imagine things to go at such speed when you first wrote about your first meeting. God bless both of you with lots of happiness always.

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      Thank you ☺❤
      Neither did we, honestly! Yesterday we were talking about how last year on this day we didn’t even know about each other, like, I didn’t even know he existed!!!

      This all seems crazy but I’ll share a bit of my wisdom with you (I don’t do this much, I’m not that wise), but when you feel this strongly for someone, you become sure and everything starts making sense, waiting is never an option then *dies*

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        ❤️❤️❤️ azzo and SNG, The Best Thing to Happen During Covid ™️ ❤️❤️❤️

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        That’s so cute 😍
        I remember you once said you’re the least romantic in your family, I think things have changed enough for you to give words of wisdom on that now 😂
        I guess we all could gather from your posts that you two were equally smitten by each other so everything else just flowed seamlessly. So happy for you, stay blessed always.

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          I’m not a romantic, at all!
          I still don’t know how to react to most of the things he says, I’m just flailing around most of the time, believe me, I’m that bad!

          It kind of happened that way ☺

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    Congratulations Azzo! Happy married life! 🥳🥂🍸

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    Congratulations Azzo!!!!I’m so happy for you and SNG!!!! Wishing you all the best for the future and a happy married life!!
    Hopefully the next few weeks will fly by and you have a wonderful ceremony!

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    Congratulations @azzo1 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳

    Wishing both of you the best and a very happy marriage!!! 💐☺️💐☺️💐☺️

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    Congratulations!!! Hope you and SNG have a long and happy life together!

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    Congratulations, Azzo ! All my best wishes for a long and happy married life !

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    YESSS Azzooo Congrats!!! 🥳 You and SNG are so cute and I love everything about your relationship 💗 Wishing you all the best for the ceremony and hoping your ankle continues to heal well 😊 Enjoy being Mrs. SNG 😉

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    You’re married already? You really know how to surprise us, don’t you? Congratulations! My brother also married his wife several weeks/months before the actual ceremony, but we couldn’t tell anyone! They didn’t want to spoil another cousin’s wedding which was at the same time. You’re adorable and it’s so great you’re married! Enjoy it!

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      Oh, and if you want to stalk the beanie wall this weekend, we’ll try to keep you entertained while you’re not seeing SNG!

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      I am, really, I AM!! (Though really, it doesn’t feel like it, what’s with not being able to see each other? Who makes these kinds of rules?). Thank you, Ally ❤

      What are you guys up to? I’ll make sure to stalk the beanie wall, I literally have nothing to do (Got the dress, needs adjustments and will be ready in 12 days. My friends and sisters have never been this useful before, they’ve done everything I assigned them with and now I’m left with nothing!). I’ll count on you, keep me entertained, LOL!

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        You’ll just have to see!

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        YAY for great sisters! Enjoy being in charge of them while you can! 😉

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    Best wishes and be happy!!!

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    CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!

    Three WEEKS?!?!? that’s just torture

    (I already have an excessive amount of sisters, so I’m going to pass on your offer)

    This whole saga has been just so freaking cute. Congratulations Mrs. Azzo SNG! (I will always include your name because it should not be erased. Sorry for the feminist insert)

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      Thank youuu!!!

      I KNOW!!! (We’ve been the good kids all our lives but the sneaking out idea seems so exciting that we might actually do it. Also this is hilarious because WE ARE MARRIED!!).

      Hehe.. (Never erase my name, actually we don’t have that here, the girl never takes her husband’s name, I’m good 🤭)

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    Congratulations!!
    This has been such a lovely journey to watch develop. Thanks for keeping us updated.

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    Aww yayy!!! Congratulations! 🎉🎉🎉

    Totally chuckling at your cheesy joke. Heheheehe

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      So cheesy.. I still can’t stop cringing at it!

      Thank you 🧡

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    Congratulations @azzo1! I hope SNG knows how lucky he is. I wonder if @yyishere has an Azzo SNG figure ready to go? May you both enjoy a long and happy married life (after you suffer for the next three weeks).

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      It’s easy. Just get the original SNG doll and hack in a few curves. Stick a few stickynotes in the head to pass for azzo’s hair. I’m thinking red? It’s a good fiery colour, and a symbol of Oppa’s (remember him, azzo? How could you?) fireball hand. Lop off the long pants to boxers-length, and voila! It’s @azzo1 in boxers!

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        Not the boxers, please!
        I refuse to be in those checked blue and green boxers! Just NO!

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          I didn’t imagine you’d go for this attire.

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            I’m thinking Azzo Doll could be carrying a cat instead of SNG’s briefcase. @bbstl‘s cat approves.

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            @yyishere my cat does approve In theory but wants to remind everyone that all cats don’t enjoy being held 😾 He’s a cranky little beast.

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            @yyishere I’m not a cat person, I can never hold a cat.. I just get extremely ticklish!

            But to not disappoint @bbstl and her cat, SNG will happily hold the cat, he is the biggest cat person I know!

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          Yes, let’s just leave you to holding a bouquet. Oh wait, you don’t like flowers either… what to do??? 🤔

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    OMG Azzo that’s so incredibly cute!!! *pinches your cheeks* Congratulations and wish you all the happiness and good health!!

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    Congratulations Azzo🎉🎊. Your story is super cute and not cringey. Thankyou for sharing it with us.
    Wishing you and sticky note guys a lifetime of happiness🌟

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    Omigosh. CONGRATS, AZZO!!!! So happy for you. Three weeks is a long time. You can read my sad story on my wall. I wrote a Chapter 3, The Candy and The King, and I know it’s going to be the next big adaptation on Netflix. I had to take a break I was crying so hard. I didn’t tag you, though…I didn’t want to bother you. But since you’re back, hell yes! *BEAMS* I am so going to tag you now.

    #Azzo❤SNG
    #YY❤Azzo
    #Oppa❤Azzo
    #Azzo💔Oppa

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      Thank you, YY!

      I’ve already read it last night since I didn’t have anything else to do. And GOD!!! I don’t know if I’m creeped out by it or actually kind of enjoying it!

      Tag me, I’ll make time for your BLOCKBUSTET story!

      Also, Oppa who?
      (@leetennant can I use this, LOL)

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        Oppa Who, exactly!!!!

        *FALLS OVER LAUGHING*

        Never thought the day would come when azzo does a who on Oppa.

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          The brand new time travel adventurer – Oppa Who
          Poor Oppa.
          I can see him with him miskeen face standing sadly in the back watching your wedding and shaking his head at his loss. Poor Oppa Who.

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            Did you just call Oppa.. miskeen? OMG! This made me laugh so much!

            That will be too cruel for him, I wish he’d not put himself through that!

            #I’msorryOppa
            #Itdoesn’tseemlikeitbutIstillloveyouOppa!

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    …aaand I told myself I would cut down on K-dramas for a while…😆 My dear @azzo1, congratulations on your wedding! My face hurts from all the smiling!😀

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    Congratulations 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳 Wishing you a thousand blessings and the happiest of marriages ahead!!! 🥰✨🎊

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    OMGGGGG this is the cutest thing I have read in a long while. I’m really happy for you Azzo. You and SNG are couple goals. Congratulations on your marriage

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    OH @azzo1 – what a wonderful post to read this morning! Congratulations!!!!!!!
    My smile is huge here and I’m just so happy for you. Yes the next three weeks will fly by (and I do hope you get a chance to sneak in one teensy visit).
    Thanks for letting us all know!

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    Congratulations uri Mrs Sticky Note Guy, May you have a lifetime of happiness with SNG!!! 🥰🎉👩‍❤️‍👨💐

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    Congratulations Azzo !
    I’m so happy for you ! Wishing you a long and happy married life together !

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    Thinking back to the moment when he wrote that sticky note with his number and you were like, What do I need that for?!! What a comical and heartwarming journey you’ve had from there to here, better than any drama script. SNG went from stranger who made you blush to husband who’s still making you blush. He must be on top of the world, winning your heart and getting ready to take you home. With no noble idiocy and no time skip! Wishing you a warm and wonderful and sometimes comical life together.

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      Seems like ages ago!
      Really, it’s been crazy but in the best way possible!

      Thank you 🧡

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    Congratulations, azzo.
    I’ve been away from DB too long that I didn’t know you were getting married. This is great news in these uncertain days. And I wish you two lots and lots and lots of happiness together. May you stay safe, happy, and healthy. And congratulations once more. 🤗🤗

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    Best of wishes to the two of you for your future Azzo!!! You’re SO cute!

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    Congratulations~!! I’m so happy for you! Glad things were going well for you since you took a break from DB/ social media (I’m catching up from a while). I was grinning so much as I was reading.

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    Azzo i’M SO LATE because I rarely ever go past my own wall at the moment but THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SHARING THIS AND IT’S JUST SO CUTE AND SPECIAL AND IM SO HAPPY FOR YOU.

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      It’s okay, Sic! I’ve been doing the same, really, I haven’t seen you for a while hope you’re doing well!

      Thank you so much ☹❤
      (Also, if I remember correctly, you are an August baby too, so Happy birthday 🥳🎆)

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    AWWW!! congratulations!!

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    @azzo1 Congratulations!

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    Congratulations! So happy for you, Mrs SNG!

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    Oh this is super-cool! Congratulations on this momentous event. I honestly thought that your story was fan-fiction (I’ve been in hiatus from DB, but i caught parts of your story. Ally’s announcement made me dig files for my password here so i can send you greetings). Aw now i’m sad i can’t have a re-read. This is really really a happy happy development. May you have a long and happy life with SNG and the family you will be from now on. Three weeks without seeing each other, how is that?! Nah, sneak i’d say.

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      Haha, things kind of happened and, yes, now we are here! (I didn’t know @ally-le was making any announcement about it!?). Thank you so much, and we are definitely making that sneak out happen!

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    Big big big congratulations!!!! 😘😘😘

    And my fingers are crossed for the family part of the wedding, with joy and happiness inside (and Covid banned and kept outside)!!!

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So.. 6 weeks to the wedding and I\’m sitting at home with a sprained ankle, yes! I fell and for the first time I didn\’t want to laugh because how painful it was.. and so very stupid that I still can\’t understand how it happened. One minute I\’m walking and another I\’m hugging the floor.. I just kind of dropped, like my legs couldn\’t carry my weight anymore! I wouldn\’t have laughed if it wasn\’t for my mom, if my fall wasn\’t already a scene, her screaming \”OUR BRIDE\” totally was. She then went on blaming everything (as loudly) on the evil eye and how she shouldn\’t have told everyone about the wedding (YES) and though it was really embarrassing (luckily I was wearing a mask), it was also so funny that I couldn\’t not laugh.

Anyways, it\’s not too bad and I will only need to wear a cast and not move for two weeks.. (I\’m trying to be optimistic about this because it could\’ve been worse, at least my ankle isn\’t broken, right? RIGHT?). SNG doesn\’t know about this yet, I don\’t know how to tell him, it\’s his birthday tomorrow (he\’s exactly 1 year and a week older than me!) and my sisters being the mean people they are, are having the time of their lives making jokes about how it\’s his first birthday with me and I\’m gifting him myself in a cast and how he\’s probably planned things for my birthday next week and I ruined everything.. yeah! I actually really feel bad, I too, had his birthday all planned, I haven\’t seen him for a whole week now because he\’s been so busy with the apartment (our apartment ☺🙈) so I was really excited for tomorrow and now I don\’t know what to do ☹

A little update about wedding preparations:
Our beaches are open but still no events are allowed, so SNG\’s parents suggested we do it at their farmhouse and it\’s a beautiful place and I really have no reason to say no so I said yes and now we\’re having a poolside wedding! Also, we have this superstition that if you eat straight from the pot it\’s going to rain on your wedding day, and yes, I am having all my meals directly from the pot.. I\’m just trying to get some rain for my wedding, okay!

I still don\’t have a dress and it seems I still won\’t have a dress in two weeks, I have an idea of what I want but it hasn\’t been easy trying to find it. None of my sisters or friends are my size so I can\’t really send anyone to try on dresses for me (I know that\’s not how it works but what can I do?). I think we still have time so I\’m not really worried about that, what made me panic though is SNG asking me what color my \”traditional\” wedding dress is so he could match the color of his traditional groomswear with mine. I didn\’t know what to say to him, I was about to make up a color that doesn\’t even exist. I mean, I\’m wearing a white dress for him and I NEED him to wear a tux for me, how do I tell him that without saying the words? I gave him cufflinks and told him it\’s a wedding gift but I\’m not sure that\’s enough, what if he doesn\’t get the hint? TELL ME HE WILL, PLEASE!

P.S. SNG\’s brother is finally home!
P.P.S. He gave me flowers when he met me for the first time and I didn\’t want to be rude to him so I took them.. and.. umm.. let\’s not talk about SNG\’s reaction to that, LOL!

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    @azzo Sorry to hear about your ankle! I’m sure the birthday plans will work out just fine 🙂

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      Thank you, it’s okay, don’t worry about it, I should really get used to these kind of things.. I tend to hurt myself a lot 😂💔

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    You’re probably the only person I know who wants rain on her wedding day xD Since I’m known as a rain woman, I shall be sending my luck on your wedding day azzo!

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      Tell me what are you doing and what kind of sorcery is this? IT IS RAINING HERE! Not kidding, REALLY!

      Save me some rain for the 18th of Sep. please!

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    r u marrying the post it guy?

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    Oh no! I hope your ankle feels better! My parents carry a similar superstition about the evil eye and so they warn me not to tell anything to anyone LOL

    I hope everything goes well with SNG’s birthday and your wedding preparations!! I’ll also send some prayers/luck/whatever you need for that rain 🙂

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      Funny thing is I was not the one telling everyone, my mom was.. and even strangers know about it now because of how loud my mom was 😂

      Thank you!

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        HAHAHA that’s amazing. I’m the loudmouth in my family so the blame usually goes onto me 😂

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    Sprains are terrible and painful but whenever I get them I’m thankful it’s not a fracture atleast lol. Your doctor definitely knows better but ice works for me and eases the swelling and pain quite a lot, idk if that is medically accurate and helpful though.
    Maybe drop hints to SNG’s brother or rather tell him that he convinces him to wear a tux. But I’m guessing if he’ll be told to wear a tux he will naturally guess that you’re wearing a white dress too. You’ll have a wonderful wedding azzo and hopefully it’ll rain too. You’re the first bride I’ve come across who wants rain on her wedding.

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      They are!!! I fell yesterday and though it was really painful I thought it will be alright if I just put ice on it and I came home and did that but, MY GOD, it didn’t get any better so I went to the doctor today and now I have to wear a cast! He said “at least” two weeks and I’m hoping that’s all I need because I really can’t afford not moving for much longer.. I have a wedding to prepare for!

      I thought of that too but I’m still a little awkward with his brother, I can’t get used to people quickly 🙈

      Not a rainstorm, just maybe a little harder than a drizzle, something to make the photos look pretty! Does that make me weird?

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    I hope your ankle gets better soon! You never know…. SNG might be really happy to just stay by your side and wait on you hand and foot for two weeks.

    If I recall correctly it wasn’t that easy for SNG to give you flowers hehe…

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      Thank you! I doubt he’d be allowed to do that.. he might try though 🙈

      YES! He’s the only one from his entire family whose flowers I have not accepted, his parents gave me flowers, his grandparent did too, and now his brother.. but.. but I didn’t want to be rude to them, and in my defence I didn’t know he brought me flowers back then!

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    Last year, I sprained my ankle a few days before my first international trip and yah I too was given a cast and directed complete bed rest for two weeks initially but it was a pretty bad sprain (the doctor said 3rd or 4th degree) so it didn’t really heal in that time. It took me a full month before I could rest my feet on the floor again (this maybe because i didnt really rest for two weeks and went on the trip anyway hehe. My poor dad had to push me around as i was on the wheel chair the whole time) I hope it’s not the case for you.
    Regarding the tuxedo, maybe you could tell him that you’ve always thought that a tuxedo goes very well your traditional dress (I don’t have cultural context so this advice may sound stupid heh) or like wapz said, you could just administer SNG’s brothers help someway?
    Hope the wedding and the days leading to it go smoothly 🧡

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      The doctor told me 3rd degree sprain too, and I’m really planning on complete rest because I can’t have the cast on for more than two weeks, I just cannot! I can’t have my dad push me around on a wheelchair in my wedding, can I now 😂

      If I told him that, he will get it for sure, he’s really quick on those things, I was thinking of putting a card with the cufflinks but went against it because he will know! So let’s just hope the cufflinks themselves are enough!

      Thank youuu!

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        Hahaha ofcourse not. Just in case it doesn’t heal in two weeks, my doctor suggested an “airliner walker”, it helps you stand and walk a bit (not too much tho) so you could use that when you’ve to go to try out your dress. Lemme know if you want a picture, I have one so I’ll tag you.
        Ooo, he’s the smart main lead. Then let’s do hope cuff links are enough to give him a hint :).

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          Hopefully I won’t need it but please do tag me just so I know what it is (tried googling it.. there was nothing!), and my plan of resting isn’t exactly working!

          Fingers crossed he gets it!

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    Sorry to hear about your ankle! Hope it heals up fast. Poolside wedding sounds nice!

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    Oh no! So sorry to hear about your ankle! I do wish you a speedy recovery!

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    I am really sorry about your ankle, and I’m even more sorry I bursted into laughter when I read your mum’s reaction… “Our bride!!!”. Priceless!
    I wish you a speedy recover.
    And how could you take those flowers when you didn’t take SNG’s? I can imagine his reaction!

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      Thank you! And no, it’s okay.. I laughed too, she was just so loud!

      Hehe.. I still kind of feel guilty about that but he will get his chance, I promise, in our culture the bridal bouquet is brought by the groom!

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    omg, I just laughed so hard at your mother’s reaction to your fall, except in my mind she yelled “URI BRIDE” and that made me laugh even harder. I shouldn’t be laughing, last month I fell over a tiny crack in the sidewalk and landed right on my face 😲 Thank god I was wearing a mask because it kept the blood in check 🤦🏼‍♀️, and thank god I had to keep wearing a mask because I then got two black eyes and a dark purple chin! Boy, this stuff can realllllly hurt, so you have all my sympathies. And yes, follow the doctor’s directions faithfully for the optimal result 👍🏼
    I think if you really want him to wear a tux you’re going to have to tell him directly, or be prepared to have him in traditional dress while you’re in the white dress. Would that end up being okay or would he be really hurt that he wasn’t in a tux to match you? Maybe tell him that you can’t tell him WHY but he must wear a tux. Of course he’ll figure it out but you’ll still be a happy surprise to him in your white dress when you enter.
    I think your wedding is going to be so beautiful! When I was a girl I was told that it is good luck for there to be some rain on a wedding day. No idea what cultural background that came from. So keep up eating from the pots! 😁❤️

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      My Maknae sister was with us at the time and she didn’t laugh then but later she reenacted the scene for my other sister and SNG and they couldn’t stop laughing!

      Oh God! That must’ve been so painful, I’m so sorry, hope you are all good now, and the bruises are gone. Thank you, I will!

      I don’t know how he’d feel but I just really want to keep the dress a surprise.. maybe I will just have to tell him that I want to see him in a tux.. would that be selfish of me?

      Yes, rain to us is good luck and blessings but I just really love rainy weather so yeah.. Thank you ❤

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        NOpe, telling him you want to see him in a tux is not selfish! Maybe say that you haven’t decided what you’re wearing and a tux will go best with whatever you choose? Or tell him you want your wedding pictures with him in a tux, period. 😉

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          Really? Then I should just tell him.. in a couple of days, maybe! Thank you!

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    Sending you early happy birthday wishes and hopes for a quick healing ankle. I’m sure SNG would be happy to wear a tux for you and he seems to pick up on your hints pretty well. Maybe you should send a few more just to be safe.

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      Thank you 🧡
      He does, he is quick like that but maybe I should give him another tux-related gift .. like a bowtie or something.. LOL!

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    Congratulations azzo (for your wedding) and I am sorry that you fell down, take care. Wearing a mask has unexpected benefits.

    (P.s.: I missed other updates being in my hole) …
    I wish you a lot of happiness.
    We have the same saying for eating from a pot, and some days I want to say that to all drama people when they eat ramen straight out of the pot. Lol!

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      Thank youuu ❤
      Don’t worry about it.. right, who would have thought?!

      Thank you.. oh wow, I didn’t know other cultures have this saying too.. always thought it was specific to my family as even my friends don’t know about it.. this is nice!

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    welcome back 🙂 and ouch for the sprained ankle 🙁 .
    Take some rest , hoping it’ll be completely healed after those 2 weeks ^^.

    Lol at the flowers, you need to wear a shirt saying
    “Personal preference : Chocolate Over Flowers” 😂
    For SNG , talk about tv or movies, then comment “the tuxedo was so nice” 😉

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      She does need this shirt! And love the tux hint.

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      Thank you, kudo!
      Hoping for that, too! And, yes, OMG!! I totally need that shirt.. then I would definitely wear it every time I go meet new people!!!

      I’m trying to be subtle about it.. giving him little hints, I think.. I think he got it.. but he isn’t showing it!!

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        he’s trying to make it a surprise…just like you, so neither can talk directly about it (lol)

        (sorry but gotta ride your post , dunno if you’re drowned under notif , or in the middle or checking them, anyway you take 5min of your time, do yourself a favor and see Shindy post with the comments 😋 https://www.dramabeans.com/members/shindy/activity/1107954/ )

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          I asked him if he’d wear a tux for me and he said yes. He also knows I’m wearing a dress (which 💔), I told him he was too smart and he told me I was too obvious 😂🙈

          (I’m a little bit drowned under notifs but I’ll go check it now!)

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    It’s been two weeks since you posted this so I hope your ankle is all better now! Your wedding sounds like it is going to be absolutely lovely!

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      It is all better, thank you ❤
      We still have a lot of things to do but yes, let’s hope everything goes as planned!

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    Sorry I’m late to the party Azzo, but only chanced upon the recent developments today. First of all, big big Congratulations 🥳💫 🤗 on your upcoming wedding and marriage!!!! Sharing your joy and excitement with all other Beanies here! I couldn’t resist squealing and squeeing along with everyone else 😂
    I was an avid reader of your SNG adventures last year and was absolutely gutted over the incident which caused you to take a break from DB and from posting personal stuff. I understand the hurt and your disappointment, so it is perfectly ok to take time to heal. Then I was so thrilled to read about the proposal and marriage plans, as living kdrama moments in real life is so much better and so much more rewarding 💕.
    I was distressed to hear about your sprained ankle but am sending good wishes and positive vibes your way, that it is healing nicely and not hampering your wedding prep.
    Wanna end off by saying all the best with the wedding dress hunt and remember that beyond everything else, what people at your wedding will remember clearly in the days to come will be your radiant smiles 😊 and your overflowing love as you make that sacred commitment to each other 😍. So it’s really ok if things don’t go perfectly like on TV and maybe your wedding won’t be like how you imagined it to be due to the constraints of the current environment… but you have each other to love and to hold, and isn’t that what counts? Enjoy the next few weeks, birthday celebrations and big day to come! ❤️

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      Aww, misty, thank you so much ❤

      Reading your comment made me happy.

      This whole year has been so crazy and unexpected, really, with everything that has been happening around the world, it kind of feels wrong to be happy, but I am and in the weirdest way possible this year’s been really good to me, so I’m okay with not having a perfect wedding, I’m okay with anything, I’m just too excited for getting to spend my rest of days with him ☺

      Thank you!

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    I’ve always thought rain on the wedding day would be fun. Plus it’d make for some cool photo ops hehe

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I just have to share this because @kudoran is THE SWEETEST 😭❤

You’ll find the rest of the post here:
https://www.dramabeans.com/members/kudoran/activity/1095921/

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So.. wedding preparations are underway, I\’m a lot more relaxed now than I was the first two days after the date was set. I mean, I\’m really good at freaking out but you know what else I\’m really good at? Making lists, yes! So, I\’ve made a list of all the things that need to be done and I\’ve assigned everyone with something on that list and we\’re slowly checking all of those. My mom wants to be incharge of everything food related so she\’s got that and SNG\’s mom is a pastry chef (Pâtissière she says and I absolutely love the way she says it) and she said she\’d make us our wedding cake (she also made us our engagement cake but that was mostly devoured by his dad and mine so I hope I get to taste this one).

As for the wedding dress.. hehe.. I was honestly not planning to wear a white wedding dress, I was thinking of wearing a traditional dress of our own but when I told SNG he went: \”You\’re not going to wear a white dress?\” I said no and he looked so hurt at that (I\’m not exaggerating when I say he looked like I just crushed his heart by telling him I was not going to marry him anymore). I wasn\’t expecting that kind of a reaction so I asked him if he was sad, he said no and laughed but YOU DON\’T LAUGH AT ME WITH THOSE SAD EYES!!! So yeah, now I am going to wear a white dress (which I still need to find) but he doesn\’t know and I\’m just going to surprise him with it ☺

Also, the venue.. I wanted a beach wedding but with the current situation we have most of our beaches locked and the private beaches we asked said they\’re not allowed to hold any sorts of events no matter how small of a group of people it is. I know I shouldn\’t have expected anything or had my hopes high, but I admit, my heart still broke a tiny bit.

After getting another rejection today, we were sitting in the car and sulking (Okay, I was sulking and he was just watching me sulk) and he asked me if I was alright, I told him I was but maybe I should\’ve tried saying that without crying (I lied okay, it wasn\’t a tiny heartbreak!). He told me not to cry and I told him I wasn\’t crying (I don\’t know why I always do that) but okay confession: I never thought I\’ll ever get married, I never wanted to actually, it was just never a priority in my life, I couldn\’t imagine being with someone, really, just the idea of it weirded me out (You could tell I guess from all those stories I told you 😅), but then.. SNG happened and things changed and beach is were A LOT of our \”firsts\” happened (He confessed at the beach 😭) and I just really wanted our wedding to be at the beach 💔

So I was saying all this to him and I was complaining about how unfair this is and how sad I am but he just kept looking at me and smiling (Yes), so I asked him what is it and WHY IS HE SMILING? And he just went: \”I\’m realizing this for the first time.. you have really cute teeth!\” (HUH? WH.. WHAAAAT?!). Beanies, I\’m really not kidding, I actually had to take a minute to calm myself down before punching him, and he laughed, HE LAUGHED! Seriously, I was pouring my heart out there and he was doing what, STARING AT MY TEETH! I told him he is a freak and he laughed even more and then went: \”Yes, I\’m your pervert and I\’m your freak!\” And, OH MY GOD, WHO SAYS THAT? I didn\’t even know he was holding that \”pervert\” comment against me, it killed me, I couldn\’t stop laughing at that, I still can\’t stop laughing at that! (Also, I\’m not sure I should be happy about this but he said \”your\” ☺).

P.S. All the usual wedding halls and venues are closed, we have to get creative here and we only have 8 WEEKS LEFT!
P.P.S. He called me to tell me that he got a bruise on his shoulder and I thanked him for still wanting to marry me 😭

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    Also, 70+ notifications!!!
    I will try to get to all of those later tonight, I promise!

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    I …. I have no words…. YOU 2 ARE SO FLIPPIN’ CUUUUUUUUUTTTTTTTTEEEEE STAHP IT 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 Don’t actually stop sharing, I actually enjoy reading about your story, just as long as you are comfortable sharing 🥰🥰🥰😘😘😘

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    @azzo Your updates always make me smile!

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    Omg, this is the cutest thing everrrrrrr. I don’t know much about your story, but first off: congratulations!! You two seem so happy together and (although sort of late) I’m here for it!! Your post just made me feel so much more single 😂😂 Good luck with the rest of your preparations!! 💗

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      Also, I just caught up on all of your SNG posts and also found out about what happened earlier this year (I am so, so sorry that that happened, you seem like such a pure and nice soul), and can I just say I’m fan girling right now over your story EEK

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    Oh my word!!!! Congratulations!!!! ❤️🌷
    I pray blessings on your marriage.
    I pray that all plans will fall into place and that on your most special day you will have the most wonderful day of the start of your lives. Hugs 🤗

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    I read all your recent real life posts and “Kim Woo Bin” aka Joseon Saja murmuring ‘I have seen this drama’ gif plays in my brain.
    Anyways, Best wishes to you dear.

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      I went through all my gifs because I remember having it but I couldn’t find it!

      Thank you!

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    Omg I’m anticipating his reaction when he sees you in the dress!

    Sucks about the venue problem. Hope things work out. Maybe still an outdoor space if not the beach?

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      The thing is, anything outdoor needs a permit and they’re not giving those anymore 😭

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    The love story continues 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
    That is really disappointing about the beach. The papers here carry so many stories about people who had weddings planned for 200, 300 guests and they had to end up getting married with 3 people in their backyard. Or so many couples who have postponed the wedding not knowing when on earth they can have it. So, it will be great no matter where you do it!
    Wow, that’s neat that your future MIL is a patissier! Just like Kim Sam Soon! (My favorite kdrama heroine).
    Sorry to add to your notifications (who knew it could even go as high as 70?) but I had to wave 👋🏽 and wish you well!

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      We are planning a very small and private wedding, 25 people max and we might go down to 20 even (let’s see how things go). My mom actually wants us to wait till the pandemic is over but who knows when that is going to happen, so no, small wedding it is (I really prefer this).

      Yes, she is and I asked SNG if he’s learned anything from her and he said cookies.. well, something is better than nothing 😂

      Thank you!

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    Just when we think you two can’t be more cute, you prove us all wrong.
    By the way… does a traditional white dress make sense? I mean, could it work as a wedding dress?

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      I was thinking along these lines too but then I thought maybe traditional dresses are another color rather than a different style.

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        They come in a different style (a lot of different styles, actually), and they do come in all colors but the most popular colors are red, green and white/gold!

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      We do have traditional white bridal dresses, they usually come with gold embroidery and I was thinking of something like that but in our language we call the white dress and the traditional dress two different things.. and he just looked so sad when I said no to the white dress.. now I just have to!

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        I know he would be happy with whatever you wear.
        And I know you will be stunning with whatever you wear.
        But if you’ve made up your mind to the white dress, then be it!!
        You’ll be perfect!

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    How do you magically know a beanie is having a hard day and post then?😂
    The “urri” always counts, so does the “your”. You have a right to be giddy about it. Teeth, eyebrows, wrists, dimples, can’t say there’s a difference.

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      I’m sorry that you’re having a hard day, I really hope it gets better and I’m glad if this post helps in any way 💙

      You know what I just realized, he never commented on my dimple!!!

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    I have the biggest smile on my face reading this. You two are adorable!

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    Aww, Azzo… Wedding preparations can be stressful (and I can’t imagine how they are in these strange time)… But try to soak all the excitement in!

    I bet that SNG will tear up seeing you in a white wedding dress.

    As for a beach wedding… You could always wait until the pandemic ends and beaches to reopen, to have an intimate, simple, planning-free wedding vows renewal on the beach.

    Either way, your wedding day will still be very magical and I’m truly happy for you !

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      I’m really trying not to stress but just going out to get things done is very stressful, especially because we have to constantly remind ourselves to be careful and to be safe, it is kind of exhausting.. but yeah, I’m trying!

      I don’t know about him but the thought of it all makes me want cry 🙈

      Thank you.. we might actually do that!

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    *reads first line*

    So.. wedding preparations are underway


    I missed the news. You are getting married??!!!!
    Also, congratulations! You are your SNG are so cute.

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      Hehe.. yes.. umm.. things kind of happend and somehow we’re here!

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    Not sure it’s legal for you two to be this cute!! Reading your updates always makes me smile. Thank you for sharing your joy with us and good luck with your search!

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      My heart dropped at the first line because I thought you were saying it was not legal for us to get married, I was like WHY? What kind of a plot-twist is this?

      Thank you!

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    Azzo, this is so sweet to read!!! Such a lovely surprise to see your update!
    Yeah,it must be tough organising the wedding during this time but I know you can do it! You can always hold a private beach ceremony on a special date later on, it must be nice walking around the town and looking back on your memories!

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      It is but we’re trying not to get ourselves all worked up when things don’t go our way (not sure how well that is going 😂💔).

      Thank you, we’ll do that!

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    “You’ve got your self one swoony guy Azzo.” This is what i thought when he said “you’ve really cute teeth”!
    Best of luck with the wedding preparations 🎉.
    I was wondering if your traditional dress is the same red coloured traditional dress that Indians and Pakistanis have? Otherwise I would love a picture of it 🙂

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      Thank you!

      No, it’s different, or I should really say they’re different as we have more than one traditional dress. I was thinking of a modernized version of a traditional dress, something like this:
      https://www.instagram.com/p/B9e8MHEBPtL/?hl=en

      You could also check her account as she’s a traditional bridal dress designer!

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        That one in the link you shared is gorgeous!

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          I knowww! I had my heart set on that one, I even talked to the designer and she was so nice with everything, I told her I’ll get back to her but I never did.. because change of plans!

          Will SNG know the difference between this and a white dress? LOL!

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            Hahaha honestly it really is beautiful! I hope you find one that SNG and you, both love it a lot!!

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        That dress is spectacularly gorgeous!!!!!!!

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        That dress is spectacularly gorgeous!!!!!!!

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    but he doesn\’t know and I\’m just going to surprise him with it

    Uh, are you sure he doesn’t check Dramabeans?

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      He doesn’t really know what site this is, I never told him! When showing him the comments I made sure the site name was hidden. Also most of the comments were sent to him screencapped and cropped to my liking, LOL!

      (@kudoran said if he’s ever going to google azzo and sticky-note guy, he’s going to find us but I don’t think he’ll actually do that.. so yes!)

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    The sweetness continues! I’m wishing all the best for you guys.
    Good luck with finding a dress and a venue, I was without dress about four weeks before the wedding even with a whole year to plan and no pandemic getting in the way, it’s stressful! ( I ended up making mine 😅 Which I do NOT recommend for a stress free time but you can’t see the safety pins in the photos).
    At the end of the day the most important thing to have at your wedding is the right person to get married to, and it sounds like you’ve got that ❤️

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      Thank you!

      I don’t think I can make my own dress, I don’t have that kind of patience and it will drive me crazy.. but yeah excited and also kind of nervous when thinking of finding a dress!

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        I definitely wouldn’t recommend it for a fun time, I had to safety pin myself into the bodice because i discovered too late I’d made it too low cut😂
        Buy (or borrow?) something fabulous!

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    Love your update! But why are updating when you have a wedding in 8 weeks????? Kidding. Have fun. SNG sounds like a keeper.

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      Because.. writing is my way of de-stressing and no matter how hard I try I can’t seem to sleep at all these days (seriously, almost 3:30 am here), might as well check DB then!

      Thank you!

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    Congratulations 🙂

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    Dearest Azzo,
    I think one of the most wonderful things about DB is that this is such a warm and loving group of people who for the most part, have never even met in person. I so enjoy reading the thoughts of other beanies and how they think about life.
    Then there are the outstanding writers like yourself who have a wonderful way of writing so that we can feel your excitement/embarassment/determination/love for your family/awe for SNG through your words.
    You have let us into your world a bit so that we can enjoy it a bit surreptitiously through your clever writing.
    thank you for that.
    And thank you for trusting us enough to come back to share the wonderful news.
    SNG sounds like such a wonderful man and I am so happy for you.
    Your family sounds so wonderful as well.

    So Congratulations and I’ll be thinking of you all on September 18. Who knows, maybe a miracle will happen and you get some kind of a ‘beach’ wedding. Most importantly is that you are with your love and the families that love and support you both.

    Really and truly – all the best for you!
    🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

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      @stpauligurl ☹❤
      DB to me has always been this sweet, kind and loving community, I’ve known most of the beanies for years now and I’ve always thought of everyone as one big group of friends. I did have one bad experience earlier this year but I really don’t want that to be what I think of DB now.. It took me a little to write again here and I admit, I hesitated before sharing my story again but seeing how it makes everyone happy, I’m really glad I did!

      Thank you so much.. I think it was you who told me last year to keep writing about SNG and I even if I was never going to post on here.. and I took that advice and I never stopped writing since then (three whole notebooks and counting, LOL), I might never share those stories here but I’ll cherish those forever, so thank you, really, and thank you for all the well wishes, it means a lot ❤

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    Dearest Azzo,
    I think one of the most wonderful things about DB is that this is such a warm and loving group of people who for the most part, have never even met in person. I so enjoy reading the thoughts of other beanies and how they think about life.
    Then there are the outstanding writers like yourself who have a wonderful way of writing so that we can feel your excitement/embarassment/determination/love for your family/awe for SNG through your words.
    You have let us into your world a bit so that we can enjoy it a bit surreptitiously through your clever writing.
    thank you for that.
    And thank you for trusting us enough to come back to share the wonderful news.
    SNG sounds like such a wonderful man and I am so happy for you.
    Your family sounds so wonderful as well.

    So Congratulations and I’ll be thinking of you all on September 18. Who knows, maybe a miracle will happen and you get some kind of a ‘beach’ wedding. Most importantly is that you are with your love and the families that love and support you both.

    Really and truly – all the best for you!
    🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

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    Aw, azzo. I came here late, and was super excited to get a notif from you. As usual, your story transfixed me. Gee, I even get mentioned. I am so honoured. What an incredibly swoonworthy and exhilirating experience your love story has been, complete with the gasps, the pounding heart, the pink-faced moments, the tears and the laughs. Thank you for sharing all your giddy moments with us. I am so happy that you are marrying HIM, Mr. SNG, and it is the bright spot of this new, dim reality. 8 weeks will fly by, and in no time at all, you will be embarking on the next adventure of your life with him by your side. I can’t wait. Happy planning, and if you feel somebody’s watching over your shoulder, no worries, it’s just me, an invisible wind….wooooooo

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      YY you make it sound like an actual drama!
      I’m so happy I’m marrying him, too ☺
      Thank you so much, I promise I won’t freak out whenever I feel you around 😂❤

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    thanks for the update 🙂
    wow so many things happening and your mother-in-law is a pâtissière *assa* hehe.
    Good luck with all the preparations going on , even more in this weird year of 2020.

    We all melt down when they use “uri” in Kdrama , he said “your” , wait for him to say “our” house, and so on ^^ .
    Hwaiting Azzo , seems like you need it ^^’ (and don’t deprive yourself too much of sleep)

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      She is, how cool is that? LOL!
      Thank you.. it’s been tough but we’re managing I guess, one step at a time!

      We have “our” apartment now and that seems CRAZY!!! Like, I’m really still in disbelief!

      (I can’t seem to sleep still but what is sleep anyway? 😂💔)

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    Azzo!! I know i’m late to the party (have been passively reading stuff on DB, just not logged on hahaaha) but congratulations for your engagement and upcoming wedding!! Reading your stories has been one of the reasons why I’m smiling so much lately! thank you for sharing your experiences with us! You and SNG are so cute and adorable!!

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      Thank you ❤
      And thank you for enjoying this, I’m glad my stories make you smile!

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So.. last night SNG and his parents came to meet my parents to make everything even more official and have a mini-engagement party (his parents and mine, him and I, my sisters and that’s it.. he has one brother and the poor boy is stuck outside of the country because of the travel restrictions). We’ve been trying to keep everyone safe so this was the first time we were all together in one place (We made sure that none of us went out for a whole week just so this day could be possible) it was the first time for our parents meeting each other (A lot of phonecalls between his mom and mine), it was the first time for his parents meeting me, it was also the first time for us both together in front of our parents.. and you can imagine how freaked out I was with all of that!

I warned SNG the day before to not be any sorts of cheeky, I told him not to look at me, I told him not to smile at me, I told him to pretend he didn’t know me (I know, I know.. that’s absurd but I don’t know how normal people react in situations like that, okay! I mean, my parents were going to be there, his parents were going to be there, and they were all going to be WATCHING US). He laughed but he promised me he won’t.

HE BROKE THAT PROMISE!

He not only looked at me and smiled, he stood up (WHY IS HE STANDING UP), and because he did, his parents did too, and because my parents didn’t want to be the only ones sitting, they stood up too. And then they were all looking at me and smiling and THIS IS TOO MUCH ATTENTION! I froze, of course, and to make everything worse, my sisters were behind me and they kept whispering “Walk but don’t fall. Walk but don’t fall. Smile. Smile!”. I honestly have no idea how I managed to get to them (my memory of that walk is kind of blurry but I do think there was some poking involved from my sisters) but I did and after all the confusion of whether to shake hands or hug or do none of it (covid19), everyone settled and sat down. My mom made me sit next to SNG and he took my hand and, so innocently, went: “I missed you!” . WHY.. WHY IS HE SAYING THIS OUT LOUD! I DIED! I DIED!!!!

The minute (or two, or five, or ten) that followed this was so very awkward. Everyone went quiet and they just kept looking at us, and it goes without saying that my face went red beyond recognition. I’m so so so thankful to my sister for breaking the silence with a question to his parents, like I never told her I loved her, ever.. but if I were ever going to.. that moment was it!

Once they started talking, it got a bit better, they managed to laugh which is A RELIEF, and then there was food (My mom thought she was feeding an army). When everyone was busy with that, SNG told me I looked pretty and I told him to SHUT UP, but he kept looking at me in such a weird way that I called him a pervert (I’m sorry! I couldn’t handle it!), he laughed at that and our parents were like: “Oh, look.. they’re so cute!”.

Next we exchanged rings and in our culture you follow that by kissing each other on the cheeks three times (right, left and right) and my sisters were practically living for that moment. Really, before it all happened they came to us and told SNG to check his phone, he did and then he laughed so so hard that it took him some time to calm down. When I asked him what it was he didn’t tell me but he did tell them that he “Got it”. When we finished exchanging rings, he told me, so very quietly, that my sisters told him that they’re “Open-minded” and they wouldn’t mind him “Heating” things up a bit (!!!!!!!!!!). Then he smiled and asked me: “Do you want me to?”

DO I WANT HIM TO? DO I WANT HIM TO?!?!?!

Yeah.. well.. umm.. let’s leave it to that!!

So.. it was quite an eventful night.. also, mark your calendars Beanies.. WE HAVE A DATE!

SEPTEMBER 18/2020!!!

P.S. His parents think I’m cute and “funny”. I don’t remember telling any jokes but I guess my sisters are right, me just existing is kind of funny *CRIES*

P.P.S. I’m getting married in two months, TWO MONTHS!!! I’M NOT FREAKING OUT! YOU ARE!!

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    Many2 congratulations again azzo!!! Have a great time planning your big day 🥳🥳🥳

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    Waaaah I’ll never get tired of saying this, AZZO YOU SO CUTE!!!

    And DB will have a party then!!!!

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    How is this story getting even cuter?

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    Many congratulations, azzo!

    I hope you’re putting all of your lovely notes together for the book that someone will make a kdrama/movie out of (with PHJ and PSH maybe? 😉 ) !!

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      OMG!! This made me laugh so much, maybe then he’ll finally watch a Kdrama!

      Thank you 😂

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    @azzo, thank you for trusting us with your story. I’m so happy for you and SNG, and so glad your sisters are still helping move your romance along. Congratulations on your engagement and best wishes for your wedding and new life together.

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      Thank you! I’m still being very cautios (doesn’t look like it, does it 😅) but I do hope that person is no more on DB and it was just someone unregistered.. not the name they gave me!

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    @azzo Congratulations once more! I wish you both all the happiness and joy in the world!

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    *marks down the date*
    Azzo, stop making me squeal and spazz so much!! This is insane!
    *squeeeaaaals some more*

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      STOP! STAAAAP!!
      Why are you squealing?
      Did you even see how many times I screamed in that post.. you’re supposed to feel for me.. YOU’RE ON MY SIDE!!

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        Right, right.
        *ahem*.
        How dare SNG stand up to greet you? How dare he take your hand so lovingly? How dare he say he missed you? How dare he be so smooth? How. Dare. He.
        shakes head.
        Unbelievable.

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    How can you get any cuter? Are you even real?????
    Oh azzzzoooo!! Many congratulations.
    I feel so happy and every time I see a post from you and I am so excited!! you make our life so much better with your posts (life) and therefore you deserve an absolutely fabulous life with lots of cute dramas!
    yes, September 18, marked my calendar.. will be there ; )

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      I’m real, this is real, not sure about the cute part (Don’t hate me but I still don’t know why you guys think I’m cute)

      Aww, Blue 💙
      Thank you.. you guys being this excited for me makes me happy, really so much!
      You guys are the best ☹❤

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    Thats so great Azzo! Congrats! 😀 😀

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    Congrats Azzo!

    May you and SNG’s days be filled with love, joy and laughter!

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    This is so utterly adorable, I can’t even

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    Your wedding is on a Friday…Friday is OT Day😇😇😇 Just saying. Congratulations!😊

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    I’m grinning from ear to ear. How can you be so adorable?

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    Congratulations! 💐🎉🌹😊

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    Congrats, again, @azzo1 ☺️☺️

    This was so cute and funny at the same time!!! 😂😂🥰🥰🥰🥺🥺🥺 SNG sounds like the sweetest, most laid back, and understanding fella — I’m happy for you that you’ve found your ONE in him ☺️☺️☺️

    And just like @latebloomer said, thank you for entrusting us (again) with your story ❤️

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      Thank you ❤

      Really, he’s been the sweetest and the most understanding, I know myself, I’m not the easiest person to deal with (no matter how much you guys think I’m cute).. I get frustrating at times and he’s been just so very patient with me 😭

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    I second your and his parents and that’s basically what I kept thinking while reading this,
    Oh look they’re so cute!
    Congratulations azzo, 2 months to go woah!

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    Thanks for sharing your story! This made me smile 😊
    In these days of uncertainty this is what we all need- Love
    Congratulations! 🎊🍾🎉

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    Congratulations again Azzo! 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

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    That’s so cute and lovely! Congratulations again 💖

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    Gahhhh y’all are so cuteeee! *-*

    Only 2 months to go! *marks calendar*
    We gotta party it up here~!!

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    Congratulations!
    I hope SNG keeps breaking his promises to you.
    I wish you two happiness beyond the stars!!

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      Not all the promises just the silly ones, okay!

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        I was talking about those kind of promises, of course!!

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    I’m living for these updates😍😍! May you have the best time planning your wedding and even better times after the day.

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    Oh azzo, you sweetheart. Bless you for sharing this with us. It’s been another terrible, horrible, no-good day here in the US (plus I broke my sewing machine making masks and the whole country is so busy sewing masks that there’s no repair available for more than a month). And my glasses broke this morning. And it’s like 100 degrees F here. But your stories make me feel so much better! Bless you and SNG, dear heart ❤️❤️❤️

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      @bbstl
      I’m so sorry for everything, honestly it hasn’t been easy in my part of the world too and everyone is living in fear and anxiety, but I’m a big, big believer in “this too shall pass” and I know we’ll make it through all this.. I’m just glad that through it all you still find time to check my posts and that they at least put a smile on your face!

      Thank you so much ❤😭

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    Congratulations!

    Let the wedding preparations begin! 🙂

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    How you manage to make me squeal so much every time you post your story is beyond me but you do and omg you guys are the cutest. Thankyou for enteusting your story with us. Wishing you a life time of happiness 🧡

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    Duuuuudeeeee!!! This is gonna give me diabetes! How is your story so adorable!!!
    Rest I will continue in our earlier conversation elsewhere hehhe

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    at this point, I have no words left, I’m reading a drama once again, I’m in awe 🤩🤩🤩
    2020 is brighter thanks to all that sweetness 🙂

    congrats Azzo you have survived that ! (your post kinda often have a bitter taste : just agonizing wondering how weird/bad I’d react in such situations 😅)

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      Thank youuu, Kudo😁

      Yes, I’ve survived that, YAY for me, LOL! Every day seems like a survival episode these days, especially with how crazy my sisters are!

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    Azzo, I remember you from Man to Man recaps and your love for oppa lol. Your stories with SNG are so cute and literally made my day, I’m so happy for you. Keep ’em love stories coming, honestly this is way better than those crappy romance stories they’re selling on tv. Happy engagement, girl!

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      Yes, that’s me, Oppa love is what I’m famous for on DB (though these days SNG’s taken some of my time and attention, I’m guilty of that 🙈)

      Thank you so much 💙

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    OH MY GOD I DID NOT KNOW THERE WAS A SEQUEL

    Congratulations and much, much love. This is wonderful. I feel so much vicarious joy over your story!! Thanks so much @egads for posting it on OT!!!!

    not enough exclamation marks for this

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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      It is the feel good rom com that we all needed.

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      I DIDN’T KNOW YOU WERE READING MY STORIES ☺🤭

      Thank you so much really, it makes me happy knowing how happy and excited everyone gets with my story ❤

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        I never manage to stay kept up because I am bad at the internet, but I do love to see your stories and know my friends are doing well! 🥰

        ps fully expect the wedding invite!

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    Chukae!!! Azzo’s gonna be Mrs Stickynoteguy in two months *throws confetti*!!

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    Azzzo you are adorable!!!!!! II’m so happy for you and your fiance! Enjoy the wedding planning and it’s so great that everyone is getting along!
    Congratulations!!!!!!

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    HOW in the world did I miss this post! Such wonderful news!!!!!!!!!

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Okay.. some beanies have been asking me to repost the story of how SNG and I met.. I\’ve deleted that for reasons everyone is aware of (I still hold a bit of grudge) .. so I\’m going to share just a mini-version here for those who don\’t know.

This is what happened:

One day in December last year, he came to my office looking for some work-related documents (a conference.. to be exact), and while I was talking to him he kept looking at me in a way that no one before him ever had. That got me nervous and my face went red and he noticed but didn\’t say anything about it. I told him I didn\’t have the documents with me so I gave him sticky-notes instead (yes, the moniker!) and asked him to write me the contact info. of the person he wanted me to send the documents to. He did but he also wrote me his number on another sticky note and told me that it was his. I didn\’t know what to do with that piece of information (LOL) so I told him we needed one number and that made him laugh and him laughing made me flustered so I told him I\’d call him (which I never did) and I gave away that sticky note to Finance Guy (which I got back). He came again the next week and this time he took my number, for \”work\” he said!

(Later he told me he knew that I was never going to call him and that I probably didn\’t even know why he gave me his number.. but.. but HOW WAS I SUPPOSED TO KNOW!)

Of course, to SNG, that\’s not how we met, to him it was at that conference where we first met. It gets him so very frustrated that I can\’t remember him from that day.

You gave me my badge!
– I gave everyone their badge that day.
In the lunch break you were looking at me directly!
– I was most probably just looking in your direction, not really at you.
Our eyes met!
– No, they didn\’t!
How do you know if you can\’t remember? (Frustration level is really high here😂)
– Because .. you have the most beautiful eyes and I think I would have remembered!
I left no impression on you?
– Were you trying to leave an impression on me?
He never answers this but he does smile!

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    you guys are so cute!

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    awww that was so cute

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    Lol so he knew you won’t call! I’m assuming he still doesn’t know you gave that sticky note away not knowing what it was for to finance guy. I remember when we were all telling you to get that sticky note back, a few beanies suggested to wait and see if he does sth else and he came back and then we knew he was a keeper.

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      Honestly, I wouldn’t have known what his number was for if it wasn’t for my sister, and really, I would have never even thought of him again if it weren’t for all the beanie comments that got him kind of stuck in my head 🙈

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        Also, he knows I gave that sticky note away, he doesn’t know I got it back!

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        I remember saying to not try to get the number back if you couldn’t, but to wait for the next move. He knew exactly where you were. So glad he took it. And yes, we all saw how interested he was in you with all your totally spot on and adorable descriptions of how he looked at you, spoke to you, etc. And also glad he was so nice to you during those first dates and also to your sisters and his coworkers!

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          Oh yeah I remember you suggesting that but not the other beanies who agreed with you. When he did show up, I gathered that I I have no experience in all this and maybe I can’t give the best advice. Also, I’ll look up for you if I ever need some relationship advice Ally 😂

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        Your response to the situation was pretty adequate, i can see many introverts doing that lol but atleast sth good came out of writing it here 😂. Though none of that matters much in front of him showing up again at your workplace since, he gathered that you won’t call. So yeah meant to be and fated 😁

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        And don’t forget azzo’s coworker who said “that guy is into you!”

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          Honestly, her and I aren’t exactly friends so I never told her about SNG until just now when we got engaged.. and she looked so hurt and betrayed that I felt guilty 🙈

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            Oh my gosh! Don’t feel guilty, it’s ok to be a private person! She must have been SO shocked 😲 In a good way.

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    aw~ he did try hard ^^ .
    I relate to the clueless part, some people don’t get signs, just tell them the facts directly x)

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    I love the additions to the prequel!

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    Your first post (I know deleted) but still… remains one of my fav posts on this site. So so glad that you got his number back that day and then texted…. :D:D
    Congrats once again @azzo1

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    @azzo1 – it’s good to see a post from you again! This was such a fun story to spazz over and get excited about with you..
    You do know that many of us never get approached by anyone like that, so we lived vicariously through your goofiness!

    I hope you are doing well in your corner of the world!

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      Thank youuu 💙
      I never really thought I will get you guys this excited for me.. means so much, really!

      Thank you for enjoying my RL story (also, you just called me goofy 🤭☺)

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    I love the prequel!!

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    Gosh you guys are the cutest!!!

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    Well that’s adorable

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    I stan this OTP so much!

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    This is SO cute lemme just cry in a corner while cheering on you guys T_T

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    AWWW THIS IS SO CUTE!

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