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Some time ago I was telling SNG that I was running out of sticky notes and that I needed him to go get me some, and how’s that a necessity I cannot live without (Yes, really, even way before him! I always have to have sticky notes with me, it’s an obsession.. and look where that got me!). The next day he went and bought me like 15 stacks of sticky notes, all yellow. Now don’t get me wrong, I love my yellow sticky notes but I also love me some colors and I told him that. He said he’d get me colored stacks later and days went by, he forgot, I forgot.
Today he had a meeting with us at our office (he’s been our client since last year), and I also had a meeting, a different one, and I told him to wait for me at my office when he’s done so I’d at least see him before he leaves. He sent me a text telling me that he finished a lot earlier and that he left already and he’d just see me at home .. I admit I was a bit disappointed.
But then I go to my office and I find this.
The notes say:
Your colored notes
All stolen. You’re welcome
If I get caught I will tell them I did it for love
Pray I don’t get caught
I can’t seem to get any work done now, I think I’m just going to go home and squish his face or something!
It is the cutest thing 😍
Good to know he is living by his moniker 😅
He knows we all call him Sticky Note Guy here. The first time I told him all about it he laughed so much, now though he goes: “how’s that for living up to that name you’ve given me?” LOL!
If it wasn’t clear before, sticky notes are the new cupid. 🙂
Must have, 24/7!
You just never know who is out there waiting for you to pass your number to on a sticky note!
@azzo He is adorable!
This is flipping adorable 🥰
Beyond adorable, awwww!
*shakes my head in wonderment * SOOOOO CUTE!!! 🥰🥰🥰
My dad planted SNG a mango tree!
So up until now my dad\’s been extremely awkward with SNG. He doesn\’t know how to act in front of him and he doesn\’t know what to say to him most of the times. I mean, he\’d greet him and they would exchange small talk when we\’re all around but leave them alone and the quiet will hurt your ears!
That\’s been making SNG very nervous because he thinks dad doesn\’t like him and he\’s not used to not being liked (Yes!), but that\’s not it.. it\’s just how my dad is. He doesn\’t get used to people quickly, he isn\’t very talkative and he doesn\’t know how to show affection (I know what you\’re thinking.. I am my dad!)
My dad\’s way of showing you he cares is asking you if you\’ve eaten, he loves to feed people and he\’d throw you a feast if he knows you\’re hungry. He\’s ultimate way of telling you he loves you though is planting you a tree, yes. I love bananas and I got a banana tree. My sisters love lemons and watermelons and they\’ve both got their trees. My dad\’s got little strawberry pots for my niece and nephews even when our weather doesn\’t allow strawberries to grow and he\’s made my mom a whole flower garden.
The other day I was talking to my mom, and my dad was just sitting there quietly, and I mentioned that SNG loves mangos and if that\’s what I\’d feed him for the rest of his life he\’ll still be happy. Dad said nothing then.. but today, my mom told me, that he went and bought him a little mango plant and he planted it next to my banana tree!
SNG gets his own tree, dad loves him!
I\’M NOT CRYING, YOU ARE 😭❤
Azzo your stories are the best! I hope that mango and banana tree will bear you loads of fruits!
Thank you. I know mango trees take a long time to bear fruits but I really can’t wait!
We also have some banana trees at our house and we just got their fruits some days ago. Now waiting for them to ripen a little bit more before we eat them.
Sweet, yellow mangoes are the best. These two trees are probably my favorite ones (but I prefer flowers to trees 😊)
And yes, of it wasn’t you, it was me who teared up. Your hubby is adored by his father-in-law and that’s one sweet thing.
My dad actually re-plants the banana tree every few years, I don’t know what is the process exactly but I do know that he lets it die once it bears fruits because I think once it does it won’t again!
There was actually another little plant growing next to my banana tree and dad moved it to so he could plant the mango.. that is the sweetest thing 😭
Your dad is so sweet 😊. About banana trees, I believe my uncle who is actually very good with planting things once told me something similar to what your dad does. I believe it’s the normal life span of the banana trees.
The only negative thing about banana trees are that once they bear fruits, there will be so many all at once! And we need to think of ways to use them. 😅. That requires some brain power.
Yes, we usually send some to my grandmother and give some to neighbors and the rest I keep for myself 😂
I’m guessing you’re also secretly affectionate like him.
omg that is so cute.
You’re so right, I am 😭🌳
I’d tell you to give your Dad a hug from me but that’s probably not gonna happen 😁 What a sweetheart.
You know, my dad and I only ever hugged once and that was the day SNG and I got our marriage officiated, probably that’s why we both got very emotional that day ☺
That’s adorable!!! My dad fixes things to show his love—even if they don’t need to be fixed! 🤷🏻♀️
Dads are so weird and wonderful ❤
GAH, this is too sweet and such a lovely tradition. 😭
Awww, My dad and I are similar on how we express our feelings. We write each other poems on birthdays and we hug a lot too. I guess each person has their own unique way of showing love and him planting SNG’s mango tree next to your banana’s is enough proof for him. So sweet!
You write each other poems? Aww, that’s so cute!
It means the world to me knowing that’s how he feels about him, it makes my heart happy!
@azzo Your father sounds like a wonderful and caring person 🙂
Thank you, sirena, he really is ❤
Oh, he’s so sweet!!
Last week, we\’re sitting at the dinner table, eating quietly. I look at his plate and he\’s done already, I look at him and he\’s looking at me and grinning. I ask him what it is and he goes: \”I love this!\”.
I slide my plate toward him and tell him to have more, he laughs, slides it back to me and goes again: \”I love this.. I LOVE THIS!\”. He gets up and puts both his hands on my head and I\’m confused. He shakes my head and laughs to himself (A move I don\’t understand and to be completely honest I\’m kind of creeped out!), then he looks at me and goes: \”I love being married to you!\”.
Today he catches me smiling to myself and asks me what it is and I tell him that I love being married to him too. He tells me it only took me a week to say something like that back to him this time and I tell him I\’m a quick learner.
Today is the happiest I\’ve ever seen him!
Also, I only just now realized that we\’re in February.. how even.. where did all the days go?
Oh, well.. Love, February!
❤️ the Epic of Azzo and SNG continues! ❤️
I don’t know what to say to that! Thank you.. maybe!
Was waiting for your post this time, you never disappoint.
Thank you! I’m not sure how much I’ll post this time for Love, February but I only just noticed the date yesterday and what that means and I do love Love, February so here I am!
stay safe & take care Mr & Mrs Azzo 😘
Thank you and you too, kudo!
Happy New Year to the ultimate OTP!
Thank you.. happy new year to you too, my Rain Lady!
Oh, you two are so cute! 🥰
Thank you ☺️
I love this too! Congratulations on everything. All your firsts with Mr. AZZO. Enjoy them!
Thank you, Ally. I will and I am.. all the exciting/scary firsts!
<3 Thank you for sharing ^_^
omg I was wondering when I you would post about this. Honestly, I’m a pretty shy person too and your love story just gives me so much of hope
I’m trying not to over-post about us, I tend to do that sometimes!
Thank you for enjoying this!
That’s so cute, he didn’t mean “this” as in the food I just ate but “this” as in, everything about our life ❤️❤️❤️ It’s rare to get those moments when your feelings want to just explode out of you, thanks for sharing!
Thank you, bbstl!
I might have not reacted much at that exact moment but I haven’t stopped smiling ever since then!
I haven’t been on a lot in the last year. When did our fav otp tie the knot?!! Anyway, congrats! Wishing you a long lovely married life. 🍾🥂
Hehe.. it’s been a few months ☺
Thank you ❤
Happy New Year Beanies 🎆🥳
Last year with all that it brought, with all that it was, the good and bad, is gone. I\’m here, you\’re here, we\’re here, that\’s enough. Remember that you made it and that this itself deserves a pat on the back and that you all did well!
I wish this year brings with it peace and health to all of you. I wish it\’s filled with love and laughter, and lots and lots of beautiful sunrises.
Be kind to yourselves, be the amazing people you guys are and be happy Always ❤
I’m not sure you’d notice it but I tripped taking this video and it almost became my first fall of 2021. If gifs had sounds you’d hear SNG going “Careful!” and then laughing his head off 😅
Hahaha knowing that you almost fell makes this even better. I’m so glad to see ocean, beach and sunrise from your part of the world. (We are having an ice storm.)
All good things to you in the New Year, and also to Mr Azzo 🥰
Thanks for all the joy you both brought us in 2020.
It was raining the whole week before so this felt extra beautiful to see! I hope you’re keeping warm and safe, bbstl!
Thank you, wishing you the same and more ❤
It looks like it would’ve been a wet landing. 😂
LOL! would’ve not been a pretty fall 😂
thank you for the beautiful gif 🙂
Happy New Year to you too and please try not to fall too often this year 😋
I’m late.. hehe!
Well.. you’d be happy to know that I’ve not fallen yet this year, YAY for me!
That is a sight 😯
Happy New Year to you, Azzo and Mr. Azzo!
Yours was the best drama this year. Happy New Year, Azzo! All the best to you and Mr Azzo this year!
Thank you, Ally. Wishing health and happiness to you and your family ❤
Happy New Year to you as well!!
(The year with the first anniversary 😉🙂💕)
A year with a lot of first anniversaries ☺
Thank you.. I’m only a month late 😂
Happy Sticky Note Anniversary to me 🎆
Yes, a year ago today this happened!
This changed my life in ways that I could have never even imagined and not in a million years would I have believed you then if you\’d told me that we\’d be here today. Like, I\’m sitting here and writing this and he\’s right here in front of me, making his 3rd (probably 4th?) cup of coffee of the day because he\’s addicted and I know that because I\’m married to him.. I MARRIED HIM!
I remember you beanies went wild when I posted about it the first time and I called you guys crazy for telling me to go get the note back (Sorry for that!) but it all did sound so crazy to me. I knew for sure -at the time- that I was not going to get it back because I didn\’t see any reason to it, I wasn\’t going to call him, why would I do that? He was just some guy I found in my office, who looked at me weird with his pretty hazel-green eyes and smiled at me with that curved smile of his and made me very very nervous, but when he left that was it. THE END. I thought nothing of it, not until I came home and talked to my sister and not until I talked to you beanies. And even then I didn\’t know what to think of it, it was not like I was going to see him again, he wasn\’t coming back, why would he even do that? But of course he did, he came back and I totally freaked out!
I remember that day when I went to meet him outside of work for the first time, I didn\’t tell anyone at all, my sisters didn\’t know about it and I only told them when I got back, and to say they were shocked is an understatement. I mean, even I, myself, was in disbelief, I kept saying things to myself like \”I\’m not actually doing this!\”.. \”I\’m not going!\”.. \”No, it\’s not me!\”.. and that while getting ready, putting my shoes on, driving myself to where he was. Going out to meet him like that felt exciting but also so very scary that at every single traffic light I\’d tell myself that I\’d take a U-turn and go back home. When I got there, I sat in my car for half an hour trying to process this whole thing, what it all meant FOR ME to be doing this, I\’ve never ever, EVER, done that before and I was trying to convince myself that I was only doing it because I was curious but why was I curious? I shrieked at that thought, I jumped, I cringed and I made all sorts of gagging noises.. yeah! (No one was around at that parking lot but if you ever find a video on the internet of a girl doing all of that.. it\’s probably me!)
He smiled at me when he saw me and I don\’t think I smiled back because my head was going: \”OMG! What do I do now?\” He greeted me and thanked me for agreeing to meet him and I told myself to act normal and say something in reply but I didn\’t know how to act normal and I didn\’t know what to say in reply. I stood there, silently panicking, because I realized I lost my ability to speak and that my mind was completely blank. He didn\’t say anything either, he just looked at me and you don\’t do that to me, you don\’t look at me like that. I didn\’t know what to do with myself, I didn\’t know how to stand, I didn\’t know where to look and I was trying not to look at him because I was not going to make this into a staring game (Which we had a plenty of later 🤭). My cheeks were burning and my eyebrows were sweating and my lips went dry and my stomach was doing the craziest of flips but HE WOULDN\’T DROP HIS EYES!
This went on for some time and then he went: \”You\’re nervous!\”.. \”I\’m not!\” I said and that was the first thing I said to him and it was an obvious lie and he knew it. He told me I was shaking, I told him I get cold easily, he just looked at me so I told him it was cold (It was very cold, I swear!). He smiled and it felt too overwhelming at that moment so I asked him to stop smiling, he said sorry and stopped (HE REALLY DID), then I realized how silly I was being so I apologized and told him that I was really very nervous and that he could go back to smiling if he wanted to (I REALLY DID). He laughed and my head went: \”RUN!\” .. I didn\’t.. and the rest is history, I guess!
I still don\’t know what he saw of me at that conference and what kind of an impression he got of me that day, I\’m not exactly known as someone who leaves very good first impressions on people, you see, but whatever it was I\’m just very glad that it was enough for him to think of me and come see me again. I do ask him about it but he just shrugs and he never really gives me an answer, he did say this once though: \”If you\’re expecting something like in the movies where I see you and sunshine floods my soul, that\’s not it!\”.. I asked him if time didn\’t slow down, music didn\’t start in the background, breeze didn\’t play with my hair, he laughed at this and then went: \”What breeze? We were indoors!\”.. Being indoors never stopped the breeze from playing with Dong-baek\’s hair when Yong-shik found her but fine, I\’ll just believe that sunshine did actually flood his soul then!
So yes, happy first sticky-note anniversary to me and you. Thank you for walking into my office that day and thank you for becoming my Sticky Note Guy. Life would\’ve been so very different had you not laid your eyes on me, had you not set your heart on finding me that day. I\’m not going to say I was unhappy before you because that\’s not true but, my God, with you everything is that much more better, with you I\’m that much more happier. It might\’ve not been a drama moment for you, you might not be a drama hero for me, I mean, you\’re no Oppa (Please never find this, please!) but for me it just had to be you and you know it too, and I\’m guilty for not saying it enough but I end up crying whenever I do. Thank you for not thinking me a fool whenever that happens and for allowing me to be that volunerable with you, what I feel for you is beyond any one word I can say, it\’s beyond anything I can ever do. Thank you for being my first anything and everything and thank you for making my heart grow 😭❤
Thank you so much for sharing your story Azzo! It has been one of the highlights to this year!
Happy Sticky-note anniv! And as a gift, I shall be sending a drizzle or maybe rain on your way within this week 😉
Thank you, neener ❤
Send lots and lots of rain, just maybe not today because we’re going kayaking and I’m the biggest coward when it comes to water-activities like that (I can’t swim!), I’m already worried about the kayak flipping over, he told me I’d be wearing a life-jacket so I asked him what happens if I slip out of the life-jacket and he just laughed!
Someone please tell me what happens if I slip out of that life-jacket!!!
I will send it later this week!
If you happen to slip out (hopefully NO) Grab SNG????????
It’s raining.. what do you do? I’m serious!
Also, I didn’t slip out, it was a 2-seater kayak and it didn’t flip, LOL!
Yehey it happened! Like I said, I’m your official rainwoman! Just tag me anytime you want rain, few days before because time difference xD
Good to know you didn’t slip, well, SNG is there to catch you xD
Happy anniversary!! 😀
Be happy forever 😊❤️
Thank you, Karmen ❤
Happy sticky note anniversary Azzo! 🥳
Thank you, kat ❤
Should I call you Kairoskat now or is that just you promoting SSR’s drama?
A year already! So much has happened and I’m so happy for the both of you. You have no idea how excited some of us were all excited for you… 😉
Enjoy married life, Also ! Wishing you and Mr Also a happy anniversary and many, many, many more!
Yes, a year already and what a year it’s been! People will probably think I’m crazy for saying this but this year has been one of my best years .. it was just really good to me!
Thank you, halfmoon ❤ You guys being excited for me made me all the more excited .. and I admit a little nervous too sometimes 😅
A little courage takes you far.
So much happened in just a year, hope both you and SNG stay happy forever together.
That’s one of the lessons I learned this year!
Thank you so much, wapzy ❤
Happy Anniversary @azzo. This makes me smile in introvert and thank yoj for sharing this with us
Thank you for reading it 🧡
Happy sticky note Anniversary Azzo! I’m calling you Beanies Rom Com Queen of the Year! 👸🏻
Thank you Parkchuna!
Of all the titles beanies gave me.. this one is something special, wow! I’m honored 😂❤
Awww i mean it! You write so well that your stories really do feel like a feel-good rom com. Thanks for sharing and putting a smile on our faces.
I wasn’t on dramabeans a year ago, so reading your story for the first time made my heart do flips, the same way it does when I watch a scene like this in a drama! Your hair may not have been ruffled by the breeze, but your description was no less evocative and swoon-inducing!😁
Congratulations on your one year sticky-note-iversary! May your marriage be filled with laughter, contentment, excellent teamwork and that little bit of magic!
P.S. zip and buckle up that life jacket so it’s nice and snug. You will not slip out of it if it’s worn correctly, so you can feel safe and enjoy the scenery!☀️🌳🌺
Aww! Welcome to DB and thank you for enjoying this! Actually, breeze can’t really play with my hair when I’m out in public because I’m a hijabi but I enjoy annoying him like that 🤭
And I didn’t slip out of that life-jacket because I made sure he was buckling it up really tight (“it’s okay if it crushes my ribs just make sure I don’t slip out of it”)
Thank you 💛
Ah, I just love this additional detail about your story (the impossibility of breeze in hair)! And it makes it so much sweeter that this is how you tease each other!💗💕
I think the question of “what did you see in me / what attracted you to me?” is such an interesting one. I’m the one in my relationship who made the first move, and in a way it didn’t feel like a “choice” with a particular reason, so much as it was like a coming together of lots of different things at a specific point in time, and before I knew it, these words that I’d never spoken aloud to anyone else came out of my mouth. It wasn’t a smooth ride or an easy journey from that point onwards, but we’ve been very lucky to have found each other.
Yay! How was your first kayaking experience? Glad you were safely buckled in!😋
LOL, thank you!
Nothing came from me at first, it was all him, I actually posted about our first meeting and first few dated on DB, I’ve deleted those posts but beanies would tell you how freaked out I was with everything, they were my support-system and I tell them this all the time I kind of owe it to them that we’re here today!
It was a lot more fun than I thought it would be, this one was a sunset kayaking so next time (there is a next time!!) we’re planning for a sunrise kayaking!
Thanks azzo for sharing this with us. You made 2020 better. You write beautifully.
Be the azzo we know always. Be happy. And thank you sticky note guy for being stuck on her – and be so forever 😘
It took me 10 years to ask my husband what he saw in me or why. You were very brave to do it in under a year. Lol.
Aww, Blue ☹❤
Thank you so much!
I always ask him jokingly and that’s why he doesn’t really answer me, I think he is waiting for me to be serious about it but I can’t dare just yet.. maybe in 10 years!
Thanks for sharing this with us!
Happy sticky note anniversary!! For an eternity of them for you two to share and enjoy together!
Thank you, Eazal ❤
Happy anniversary, Azzo! Thank you for sharing all your lovely stories with us 🙂 Your stories are always so full of warmth and joy and happiness, like yourself. Wishing you all the love and happiness in the universe!
Thank you, pickleddragon!
That’s so sweet of you, really ❤
@azzo Happy Anniversary!
Thank you, sirena 💛
Oh, azzo ❤️ Thank you for giving me so many heart-bursting moments of pure happiness this year (including this anniversary). It’s nice to be crying about something so wonderful. I remember the first time you wrote, I said something (can’t remember what) about your sisters. What a tale it’s been! Thank you for continuing to share your beautifully written story with us. Wishing you even more joy in the New Year! ❤️❤️❤️
It’s seems like ages ago, doesn’t it? I can’t believe we’ve been married for three whole months now, I’m excited and looking forward to all that’s to come but I also wish time would slow down a bit, it seems to be running so so fast!
Was it you who told me to let my sisters coach me on dating? LOL!
Thank you so much, and I wish you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year ❤️
Happy Sticky Note Anniversary! 🙂
Thank you, korfan ❤️
Happy sticky note anniversary!
You and your love story was the sunshine of the last year. I’m so happy, for both of you. Thank you for sharing it with us 😘
(And you have a gift for writing.)
Sorry I’m late for the one-year anniversary… just like I was when it all started 😅🙁.
Thank you for sharing this (what a long~ post! hehe) and I’m glad to read that you’re doing well and you are happy 😘
So, umm.. I burned my mouth and don\’t ask me how that happened because I\’m going to tell you anyway 😅
I was making dinner last night and I got distracted for a few minutes with something else, forgetting my steel-ladle in the pan. When I realized that, I was like: \”Okay, that\’s going to be hot!\”, so I wore a glove to lift it because that\’s the smart thing to do, but what\’s not the smart thing to do is lifting the ladle and then licking it, YES! I don\’t know why my head went: \”Lick it!\” I don\’t know why it didn\’t register the fact that I was actually wearing a glove to not burn my hand and why it didn\’t think that it could also be hot enough to burn my lips and my tongue, like really WHY?
That second of contact was so excruciatingly painful that I couldn\’t even scream, I dropped the ladle of course, but then I kind of didn\’t know what to do, I think I was trying to understand what just happened and how stupid I can be sometimes, really, who does that?! I spent last night trying to soothe the burn on my tongue (rinsing my mouth with cold water, eating ice and having lots and lots of banana milk) and I forgot my lips in the process. I woke up today to what looks like I got an upper-lip filler, I already have a resting duck-face (I\’ve always been so very self-conscious about that!) and this just looks ridiculous. A certain someone doesn\’t think it looks so bad, he says it actually looks pretty (pretty might not be the word he used 🙈) but he\’s a fool and I told him that and he went: \”Says the one with a burned mouth!\”.. well, hard to argue with that!
I\’m meeting my friends today and I\’ve never been happier for wearing a mask before, if they see me like this the jokes they\’ll make and the picture they\’ll take (because, yes, they\’ll definitely take pictures, I\’m a sight to behold to be honest 😂), they\’re just going to make fun of me for the rest of my life. Also, I know you\’re all smarter than me and you\’d probably never do that but I\’m still going to say it .. NEVER DO THAT, no matter how tempting it might look.. just don\’t!
I don’t even know how you look like but I can somehow imagine you.😂 Take care!
Probably I look like how you imagine me right now.. I look funny, that’s all I can say 😂
Hi. If your tongue and lips hurt a lot, you can try applying powdered sugar over them. I’ve heard it helps
Or at least tastes good. Sometimes all you need is an excuse 🙂
I did try sugar last night, it helped a little but very little, LOL! I think milk helped the most!
Oh my, you made me laugh and I feel so sorry, because burning your mouth is just really painful. But let me just say, I love your humorous way to write about the anecdotes in your life 😂😂
Get better soon!
It really is.. I couldn’t close my mouth because that hurt so bad, a lot better now though!
Thank you, glad you enjoyed this 😂
He really is a lovely person!
Get well soon!
He thinks people don’t use “Lovely” enough and here you are using it for him!
I don’t think you’ll get away fr yr friends cos you’d prolly take off your mask to eat/drink with them 👄
I did kind of get a way with it, my friend dropped the news of her engagement on us so that was our focus for the night! YAY for me!
So sorry to hear this happened! I hope you feel better soon!
Thank you, Korfan! Don’t worry about it, a lot better now!
That sounds terribly painful. I hope it heals quickly.
It was.. I think it’s healing, the burning is gone but I still have a weird tingly feeling in my tongue and my upper lip is a lot less swollen now!
Easy on the ice azzo if swelling subsides 👌🏼
Get well sooon!!
Thank you, swelling is a lot less now!
@azzo I’ve been there!
LOL! I don’t know why we do that!
Oh no! I feel for you, having just burned my tongue on some bulgogi. Plus I know just what you’re saying about the masks, I fell on my face in June and had two black eyes and a bruise on my chin the size of a beard, I was never so glad to be wearing a mask. I hope the pain goes away soon! I’m sure I don’t know how people in kdramas eat food that is literally boiling at the table.
I remember you told me about your fall back then and it still sounds just as bad, and really, going aound explaining how you got the brusies is itself a pain, so masks are a blessing in times like these!
I still don’t get that.. I guess the food looks too delicious to wait!
Thank you, bbstl!
Giving a whole new meaning to the term “hot lips”
Not a fun way to do it though!
😱 and ouch ouch ouch 😖
you’re isolating yourself from covid, please don’t be your biggest threat🙃
I don’t want to admit this.. but I am my biggest threat, I just tend to get hurt a lot.. and it’s not that I’m constantly thinking about and trying ways to avoid it (you know what they say about law of attraction!), but I still get hurt.. I don’t know how!
Oh my gosH AZZO I know that feeling though. You know logically the thing is hot, but lizard brain takes over and you do the stupid anyway.
Had a similar instance with the yeast milk I was trying to activate to make pizza… let’s just say milk and yeast ended up all over the kitchen…
Exactly.. you just do it anyway!
Also, imagining you and the yeast and milk incident gave me a good laugh 🤭
Aww poor @azzo1!🥺 Get well soon! I am glad I am not the only one who shouts her misfortunes from the rooftops to entertains others!😂
All better now, Turtually, thank you ❤
Never take your misfortunes too seriously, I think that’s my motto in life, LOL!
So, SNG tested negative (Thank God) and that makes me negative too but we decided to keep ourselves quarantined for 10 more days just to be safe before going out to the world, however little we might actually be doing that. The guy who called to tell us the result was in a very good mood, he was so loud and chirpy, I wasn\’t even that close when SNG answered his phone but I could still here him, he was like: \”Good morning, Sir, how are you today? How is the Mrs?/ Your test results are out, Sir, do you think it\’s negative or positive?/ Come on, make a guess, Sir!\” and this was so funny because SNG was not in a mood for guesses but he didn\’t want to be rude so he told him he might be negative and the guy went: \”Are you positive about that, Sir?\” .. I wish I could actually describe the look on his face at that!
I\’m usually the one who freaks out (I think you all know that already), but this time I was the calm one and he was the one on the edge of panic. I\’m considered a high-risk person so he was really worried about bringing the virus home, he was so alert and he\’d notice every little \”change\” in me, \”That\’s not your usual red!\” and \”Your hands are a bit too cold!\” and \”Why are you coughing like that?\” But that was my usual red and the weather is really chilly these days and I had a bit too much icecream. He might\’ve said some not so nice things about his coworker (Yes, SNG can say not so nice things too!) but then he felt guilty about it and called him to ask how his parents were doing (When I tell you he\’s the sweetest!)
Anyways, we\’re really relieved that not only SNG but all his coworkers tested negative too, even those who got on an elevator with that guy, so that\’s good news and we heard that their company will take some kind of a disciplinary action against him, and because what he did is also a crime in my part of the world he\’ll have to pay a fine for it and if he does anything like this again he\’ll be jailed.. so serves him right.
This is very good news @azzo1!! Yay!!! 🥳
What a relief!
thanks for the good news 😀 !
take care and stay safe (even more if you’re a high-risk person 🙁 )
No one is as careful as me, Kudo 😂
Sometimes it all gets a bit to tiring but what can we do, so yeah, staying safe it is!
You too, heard the numbers are rising again in your part of the world, stay safe please ❤
we’re under lockdown, back to 100% teleworking,
going out only to jog (a) or to buy food (b), both with mask on (b is mandatory, a is just my level of carefulness 😂 …even if there’s almost no one outside at the time of the jogging🙃).
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I was giggling while reading this, thought I could quote Jane Austen to thank you again for sharing your love stories with us 😘
(but also don’t feel obliged to share private things again ^^’)
“ You are inimitable, irresistible. […] Such letters, such entertaining letters, as you have lately sent! such a description of your queer little heart! […] You are worth your weight in gold, or even in the new silver coinage. I cannot express to you what I have felt in reading your history of yourself — how full of pity and concern, and admiration and amusement, I have been! You are the paragon of all that is silly and sensible, commonplace and eccentric, […] and lively, provoking and interesting. Who can keep pace with the fluctuations of your fancy, the capprizios of your taste, […] ? You are so odd, and all the time so perfectly natural! — so peculiar in yourself, and yet so like everybody else ! ”
(Jane Austen’s letter to her niece Fanny, February 20, 1817)
I opened DB to just check if there was an update on this and I’m glad you both are negative. Also I totally appreciate the lameness of the person who gave you the news however, if i would’ve been on the receiving end, i would’ve totally been annoyed.
SNG was totally annoyed, he just wanted to know and get it over with, I was enjoying it though, I found it funny, we need more people like that 🤭
Also, thank you for checking in on me wapzy ❤
So relieved! Thanks for letting us know 😌😊
This is goodnews! Thank goodness!
That is a very good thing to hear azzo!! SNG can be mean at his co worker!
I think this was my first time seeing him that angry at someone.. but his coworker deserved it!
That co-worker deserved it!
Bless that news bearer 😂 It can’t be an easy job esp if it’s bad news. I’m so glad you and SNG are fine tho!
It really isn’t.. I hope he had all negative cases today because I wouldn’t want anything to ruin his mood, he was just that cheerful 😂
Thank you ❤
Really good news!
@azzo1 I was too angry at that coworker to comment on your previous post, but fortunately I can put into words how relieved I am to read that you, SNG and his colleagues tested negative!😘
Aw, Turtually, thank you! Two weeks of quarantine are over and we’re all doing good!
The guy’s father was hospitalized but now he’s doing better, I’ve been really worried for the father.. so hoping that he recovers well!
Take care and stay safe ❤️
Glad to hear this good news! Thanks for letting us know! 🙂
I’ve been off the fan wall for a while so missed the initial post about this, but kind of glad I did—too many people round me sick right now, and I would have been too worried about you! Glad you’re safe.
Oh, Ally! I hope everyone around you is doing well now.
Please don’t forget to take care of yourself and take a moment to relax, it helps a lot!
Stay safe and happy, please ❤️
Right now, we’re all good. Thank you!
Good that you are both ok!
(And that irresponsible colleague 😤 Sadly, these people are everywhere 😒) .
SNG is soooo sweeeeet… ❤💕
And self-quarantine during honeymoon may not be such a bad thing, right? 😉 (I mean more time to watch dramas of course 😀😀)
(And it’s really hard trying to argue with people like these 🤦🏻♀️)
I think we only went out for like 4 times since the wedding, not counting visits to our parents, so that’s all what we’ve been doing really, self-quarantining I mean ☺️
So, yesterday was a day off but SNG got a call from work and had to go to his office for a meeting, it lasted for 4 hours and he was planning to go visit his parents after it but he got too lazy so he came back home thinking he\’d just go today (We\’re both really glad that he didn\’t go!). Today, first thing in the morning, he got another call from work, not for a meeting but to tell him to quarantine himself because one of the guys in that meeting tested positive for Covid19.
This itself is bad but you know what is worse, the guy knew he\’ll probably have it because 2 days before he went and did the test. He was supposed to be self-isolating himself while waiting for his results but apparently he doesn\’t care and he was like \”Let\’s go to this meeting and infect some more people!\”, and if you\’re not already angry just wait till you know how he got it. He went visiting his friend who he KNEW had Covid19 because why not, right? And if you think things can\’t get worse than this, think again.. he lives with his parents and, yes, he\’s infected them both!
Seriously, this makes me so angry, what\’s wrong with some people? No regard for other people\’s lives, no conscious, no sense of responsibility, no guilt, NOTHING! SNG tells me the people who attended the meeting are all fairly healthy but still you never know with this thing, we hear stories and there is no guarantee! If you don\’t care about your colleagues that\’s something but what about your own parents? How can anyone be like this? Why act like you\’re invincible? Why be this stupid? This is so frustrating!
This is not just about you, stop being selfish, people\’s lives are at stake here! Wear your masks, follow all the safety guidelines, quarantine and self-isolate when you have to and when you\’re told and please let\’s just all be responsible!
Also, let\’s pray and hope that everyone who attended that meeting doesn\’t get it and they\’re all safe and healthy, because they went back to their families and this is just not fair or right, really!
I think it stems from the mentality that it’s no big deal. I have no idea why people need to be so hospitable and efficient in Covid, you visiting a patient, attending a relative’s wedding or going to work when you doubt you may be sick, can all wait. But all of a sudden in covid everyone is just way more hospitable. I think young people do think it isn’t a big deal but I’ve heard of young people getting knee and body pains and breathing issues AFTER they have been cured of Covid. So we don’t even have any idea as of yet what amount of destruction it does to the body. The longer it has lasted, the less seriously are people taking it now. Hopefully everyone else didn’t catch it because of him. Also I wish his parents and him well. And I hope you two are taking care too.
But that’s what I don’t get, how can you think it’s no big deal when people are actually dying? My cousin is 25 he got it about 2 months ago, he’s never had a health-related issue before and he follows a healthy life-style, but even he says he never wants anyone to go through what he went through in that period, the body aches and the shivers and the fever, he’s cured now but he’s still not got his sense of smell and taste back and his body still feels tired!
Yes, hopefully no one does, the guy himself doesn’t feel anything but a headache but I’m worried about his parents, I hope they’ll be alright. Thank you, we are, SNG’s asked to do a test in two days so we could be sure, let’s hope it’s negative!
“1.I’m invincible 2. Covid will only eliminate bad people (this tbh is so ridiculous, I’ve heard of the best people passing away through covid and if anything it’s the opposite because day to day bad happenings tell me that all bad people are perfectly fine, still doing their criminal activities and still have no regard for a virus that can kill them any moment when they’re recklessly harming other humans), 3. Even if it happens to me I’m young so I’ll only be scratched and become a survivor. 4. People who say they got badly affected or passed away must have some other issues”.
These are few of the thoughtless reasons people give themselves to assure that they will be protected anyway so its fine, not taking any precautions is totally fine. It’s not good at all for people of any age but unfortunately i don’t see elders putting in much care either, neither do many govts such as mine are taking things seriously. If I step out of the house rn, noone on the street would be wearing a mask, the disregard for anything is so high, they don’t care anymore just because it didn’t affect them when the very first wave started.
Hope everything remains well and SNG’s test comes out negative.
Also idk how is the news coverage in your area, but here it’s next to nothing. According to them it’s good to not panic the poeople but what it’s doing is that its making it careless. Also the sentence structure chosen by news organizations to rwport deaths adds an insensitivity to the subject. If you say there were 200 deaths from covid today rather than 200 people died from covid today, the subject becomes very insensitive and such news gets old when people are treated just as a number.
That is so bizarre, in my place we get daily coverage, masks are mandatory and we have SOPs for distancing yada2 but thanks to a certain political move our numbers have risen for the past two months. It’s still somewhat under control but people are still scared albeit adapting to the new norm and carrying on with life. So when i hear about places that have crazy high numbers daily and the people are still going about like nothing’s happening – i just wonder what’s in their head.
Where do you live? I should shift there 😅
Honestly covid has revealed a lot about how much governments would care about the people, how the people of a nation act and are disciplined or not and how much do people care about others and their own lives (they don’t even care about theirs, many people put work and hospitality above their own safety, that is also directly proportional to how pressuring the society is in making people care less about their own life and tagging along with others first) . Needless to say I’m disappointed and sometimes even in myself. I may be the sore thumb now but how long will it take till I conform like most.
Oopss.. it’s not perfect here. The masks were made mandatory becos people weren’t wearing it much after the initial stage.
Wow, I’ve actually never heard the theory that Covid will only get bad people, that’s amazing. Really, my jaw is on the ground. Unbelievable that people can think that 🤷🏻♀️. It makes me think we have made a lot of basic mistakes in our education systems.
That is actually not said explicitly but is related to how people think they’re invincible that if one has only done good deeds than a calamity like a virus may not reach them.
Well, statistically I expect people who attend Trump rallies are slightly more likely to get it than people who would never attend such an event without a gas mask and a flamethrower.
Covid will only eliminate bad people?! WHAT?! some people actually think that? Wow.. just wow!
Honestly, they’ve been covering it pretty heavily here. The government’s been doing everything possible to spread awareness about it, masks are mandatory, beaches are closed again, all sorts of gatherings aren’t allowed, some cities are still in lockdown, some businesses are still closed, companies are working on shifts or 50% of their staff and the rest work from home, we had a curfew that they only lifted last week, a lot has been done and they’re still doing a lot but some people just don’t want to follow rules. I just heard about a wedding that had over 100 guests!!! They were caught though and now their names and pictures will be all over social media and all news outlets and every single person who attended will have to pay a fine!
That is actually not said explicitly but is related to how people think they’re invincible that if one has only done good deeds than a calamity like a virus may not reach them. The question is how can one even decide themselves that they have been a good person.
It’s great to hear that there is some strictness in your region. And even though I usually don’t appreciate public shaming for small mistakes, this isn’t a small one so that’s a good step to prevent others from doing that.
@wapzy I heard some people saying things like “Everyone is meant to die oneday anyway!”, and arguing with these people is a lost cause!
The public shaming only started from this month really and only after getting multiple complaints about people holding big gatherings. They did make sure that everyone knew they were going to do this, we got messages on our phones telling us about it!
It’s a very serious thing. We lost a family friend to covid. He neither drank nor smoked in his entire life but he still dies from covid. It’s not something that you would take lightly. I hope people recognize this
I’m sorry for your loss, my friend lost her father to covid a few weeks ago and she says it’s just the cruelist way to lose someone, he was taken to the hospital and then she never got to see him again!
I’m so sorry to read this and hope you, SNG, his colleagues and their families will be healthy and safe.
I’m so angry and stressed this period because people seem not to able to think!
Some days ago there was a free screening in my city, but my friend (a biology teacher) said she wouldn’t go, because “it will only lead to chaos if people know they have the virus. It’s only normal that it will become endemic”. What?? And she has two little daughters and old parents.
I really have no words…
Thank you, I really hope everyone is safe too.
People who call themselves “smart and educated” are even worse, some of them still believe this all is a hoax and the government is trying to take “their” freedom away.. so frustrating!
What a JERK!! I hope both you and SNG are fine and that neither of you gets infected!
We’ll know for sure in a few days, SNG will get tested on Sunday and the results will be out on Tuesday, I’ll let you know guys then!
@azzo I wish SNG and his colleagues all the best!
Thank you, sirena 🤍
I hope you and SNG are both safe and healthy!
Thank you, FlyingTool. We’re okay but it’s only been one day so we don’t know.. it’s the wait that gets me really nervous!
Wth wrong with that guy?! How selfish 🤦🏻♀️
Really! I don’t even know what to say about him!
Iknow! I hope SNG and the rest of you are healthy!
Oh good grief, the stories you hear about how irresponsible people are being 🤦🏼♀️ . I’ve heard so many tales of people who’ve been tested because they think they’re sick and then continue to go out until the results come back. DUH. I’m so sorry you guys have been exposed by this idiot coworker, and so glad SNG didn’t end up visiting his parents. At this time, we have to think for ourselves AND for others and it’s best to lay low. If they can’t keep themselves at home, at least I can keep myself there.
I don’t understand why are some people like this though! Here when you get tested positive they give you a tracking bracelet to make sure you’re staying home but some people take them off at home and go out, they really do that!
Thank you, that’s what we’ve been doing, we’ve been keeping safe and being extra careful and taking all the precautions. Both SNG and I have been working from home and this is his first time going back to the office after the wedding and this happened, it makes him that much more angry that we’ve been exposed to it by someone that careless!
That’s much more serious than what we have, everyone is on the “honor” system. They should figure out how to put a tattoo on their foreheads that disappears in two weeks, like the scarlet A in the story. Everyone here is so sensitive that their LIBERTY is being encroached upon, for crying out loud with that kind of attitude we never would have made it through WWII. I read that when Europe locked down, they had about 95% compliance but here in the States it never really got better than 50%.
Everyone here actually prefers a complete lockdown, they did a survey and more than 97% said so. The tracking bracelet wasn’t only for the infected it was helpful for us too, you download an app and when you’re out it would send you notifocations whenever someone with Covid is around, sadly, people aren’t using it as they should!
Wow, that’s how they did it in SK as well and look how well that worked. Here, we would all be screaming about invasion of privacy and “the deep state”. I hope it will work for you guys! It’s always nice to see logic and science win 🤦🏼♀️
This is so infuriating! How can people be so selfish?
Today I’ve learned my city is in lockdown until next Tuesday: no one coming in or going out. My dad lives only 15 km from me but it’s another town, so we are staying at our homes and not seeing each other this weekend as we had planned. Meetings are only allowed for people who live together and as I live alone all I can do is being alone or go for a walk alone. And guess what? I’m doing it! Because that’s the one thing I can do for others. Do I like it? NOOOOO. I want to see my dad, but I’m staying home.
It’s not that complicated, really. I can do it. Anyone can do it.
It is really not that complicated, you’re doing what you should to keep yourself safe, keep your loved ones safe, this should really be everyone’s priority, some people just don’t want to be told what to do!
Does you country’s legal system allow for reckless endangerment being a crime?
It is a crime! A girl who attended that meeting filed a complaint against him, he will have to pay around 260 usd from not self-isolating and if anyone attending that meeting tests positive he’ll be jailed for 6 months + fined 3800 usd!
I do hope he gets the latter 😡
I do hope he gets some kind of punishment but that would only happen if the people in that meeting test positive and I really don’t want that to happen!
Of course!!! I hope they are all safe.
But this people deserve the worst punishment.
Since this was a work-related meeting…
… can we at least hope that the jerk is now unemployed?
Wow. He really is an idiot and a half 🤦🏼♀️ Those are serious penalties.
He is.. and he did it knowingly 😶
Ugh! What a thoughtless, wicked thing to do. I’m not sure I’d want someone like that working for my company, either 🤔
*argh, big sigh* it’s at that point it doesn’t surprise me anymore, on a daily basis, on the news I’ve seen good but also bad examples of how people react to that pandemic situation. Unfortunately, the bad examples, even just one, can cancel all the precautions taken by others.
I’m sorry to read that but glad that SNG didn’t see his parents, hope you’ll both be tested negative to it, stay safe !
Btw here we’re under lockdown again😩, since today and at least until Dec. 1st
(’cause curfew was not enough since people are just selfish and stupid 😤).
It is sad that people who keep safe and follow all the rules and take all the precautions still get infected because of idiots like these, it’s unfair!
Our curfew is over, the numbers actually went down and it helped our hospitals a lot, I’m actually not sure why they lifted it! They are discussing a complete lockdown now but we’ll have to wait and see if that happens!
Thank you, Kudo, I hope so too.
Take care and be safe!
Fingers crossed he didn’t pass it on at the meeting! I really don’t understand some people. Early on at least there was a perception that only old people/people with other ailments would die from it like that somehow makes it ok to infect them, even if they could have lived for years longer had they not caught it.
We have the virus pretty well eliminated in my part of the world and it makes people so casual. Masks are no longer mandatory on public transport and the moment they weren’t, no one was wearing them any more. At least we’re coming into summer here.
It was a long meeting and papers were passed to one another but still hoping no one gets it!
True but then young and healthy people died because of it, and it’s not like we don’t hear stories, almost everyone knows someone who’s infected, people just don’t want to believe that they could also get it!
We’re a small country in terms of population and our Covid19 numbers are scary, we’re still trying to figure out a way to contain it!
Well, I don’t know if you’ve heard this yet but according to the president of the US, we only have to worry for a few more days. Since it’s all a hoax put on by his opposition party to defeat him, the entire thing will be over as soon as the US election is complete on Tuesday. (And it’s also been a hoax by doctors and nurses to make more money). So, just wait til Nov 4th and we can wash our hands (no pun intended) of the whole thing, isn’t that marvelous? To be on the safe side, it’s probably until midnight Nov 4th West Coast time.
I did, a clip of him saying that was sent to our family’s whatsapp group.. for laughing purposes 😅
I’ll be waiting for 4th of Nov. let’s see what happens!
It will be a beautiful morning! Like magic! Poof, gone!
I want to find it funny but it’s actually horrifying because you know people really believe that stuff 😞
I know *whimpers*. How on earth did we get here?
It took me a while to find this (My God, beanies.. 478 notifs!!!).. but I did!
This is so so sweet!
Thank you so much @sicarius ❤️
I\’m not sure I found the Sticky-note or Sticky-note found me !
So you\’re telling me he fell for that smile!
My God.. my awkward smile is kind of creepy!
Actually, he never really got to give me flowers back then.
I told him I didn\’t like flowers, he asked me then what to do with the ones he got me and my reaction to that was enough to make him lie and say he was just joking.. I saw the flowers in his car when he walked me to mine and then I called him the next day to apologize for sending him back with his flowers and he called me \”cute\”.. that was my first ever \”cute\” from him!
Aaah!! You\’re making me remember all of our first dates now!
I need part 2!
Hehehe you’re welcome!!!!!
All I remembered was I wanted to make a joke about you not liking flowers- these dates are well… you’ll see in the next Part *eyebrow wiggle* and speaking of- Part 2 is coming; Lyfe just kept getting in the way!!!!!!
My God @sicarius do you live there? You must always be.. idk.. at peace?
Also @azzo1and SNG forever cuties 🤭
Eeek forgot to reply tot his.l
I don’t live here here as in the exact location of these photos (which are actually 2 different places anyway) but I do live there there as in the South Island of New Zealand.
And unfortunately peace is not relative to geographic beauty, although that would be convenient if it were.
It still must be good to go there occasionally for a breather 😅 peace definitely isn’t relative to that but nature does have some healing qualities.
The sea is one of my go to escape places so … yes.
Officially Mrs. Sticky Note Guy here.. (Can I use this again?)
Married for real this time!
How have you all been? How’s everything in your part of the world? Hope everything’s okay and you’re all safe and happy wherever you are. Some more songs were added to the playlist I noticed (for which thank you again), I listened to it on repeat before the wedding and I can’t stop singing the songs now. SNG tells me I sound like I’m reciting charms and that is another opening for Lame-Cheesy Azzo but I’m trying to resist.. it’s hard, I tell you, when he keeps making comments like that!
We couldn’t make any travel plans for obvious reasons and we’re going back to work next week (Yes, already 💔). In our culture, we have to visit our parents one week after the wedding to receive gifts so these last couple of days we’ve been doing that (my sisters have never been this well-behaved before!) and today we were supposed to go out, I have some place I want to take you, he said, but he got an “emergency call” from work so now he’s busy sending emails and waiting on a zoom-call and I am.. well, here. He actually kind of kicked me out of the room because he was getting too distracted.. umm.. excuse me, how’s that my problem? (I swear I was doing nothing just maybe smiling at him but how is smiling distracting?)
So yeah, while he’s on that let’s make this Story Time with Azzo.. HOW EXCITED ARE YOU FOR THE WEDDING STORY? (Kidding.. you can skip this, of course, if you want to but if you are reading this thank you and enjoy!)
(Warning! This is a very long post! It got a lot longer than I was planning it to be and that while trying to skip as much detail as possible, and yes, he’s still on that zoom meeting of his but the second he finishes I’m out, I’m sitting here all dressed up and ready so I will leave you hanging if that happens, yes I will, read at that risk 😂)
So.. the night before the wedding my sisters and I had a little crying session, we’ve been pushing back all the emotional talk for the last week and somehow we just cracked that night. Emotional talk is not our thing so when we were done crying, we sat there awkwardly, silently, avoiding looking at each other and then we realized how stupid that was so we laughed and decided it was better if we all just went to bed and never talked about it again! I couldn’t sleep, of course, (I might have panicked a little and complained to @yuelie about how a certain someone was not replying to my messages and how he seemed to be sleeping just fine!), I tried sleeping, I really did, I did all the things Yuelie + google told me to do but I just couldn’t, how could anyone really? HOW COULD HE? I was thinking about exactly that when he called me (he wasn’t asleep.. hehe!). He told me he lost his phone and spent all that time trying to find it and when he gave up it just appeared. I asked him where it was and he said it was in the fridge and he can’t remember how it got there, HAHA!
He asked me why I was still awake, I told him I couldn’t sleep. He asked me if I was nervous, I said no. He asked me if that was a lie, I said yes and he laughed. I asked him if he was nervous and he laughed again (I just realized he didn’t answer that!). He told me he wrote me something and asked me if I wanted him to read it to me, I said YES, so he did. He started it with “Miss Pretty Wrists” and that made me laugh (Yes, he’s still obsessed and there’s an inside joke I cannot share 🤭) but the rest of it didn’t and I totally cried. I Went quiet because I didn’t want him to know I was crying but he caught me anyway and went: “Why are you crying, I stole this off the internet!” and that made me laugh so much that I creeped myself out (My room was dark, okay!). Later when we hung up he sent it to me signed “Not stolen, original ‘SNG’ work”. (That was a reply to something I wrote him a few days before and now we’re definitely getting both printed and framed).
And.. THE WEDDING DAY! I got ready at the farmhouse so my family and friends were the first ones to arrive and SNG and his family got there a few hours later. I knew he was going to were a tux because I asked him to (Thank you @bbstl) and he knew I was wearing a dress because he caught me (You’re too obvious, he told me).
Before our “first look” moment my Maknae sister came running to us (us: my friends and I) to tell us that he was here and I don’t know why we thought it was a good idea to scream at that. My mom thought something bad had happened and when she found us all well and laughing, she gave us a good scolding (Me included, no Bride Pass for me!). My other sister then came and went: “Aww, he looks so happy!”.., and then she looked at me and went: “For your face?” Yes, because my sister can’t be nice and I’m glad for that because she made me laugh when I was actually about to cry. I mean, I was kind of shaking and my heart was shaking too .. and I don’t know, my whole body was tingly, and I thought I’ll pass out but passing out has always been my biggest fear in life (Who’s going to lift me when that happens?), luckily, I just needed to remind myself to breathe, and yes, get myself a piece of chocolate because my sugar was low!
I told no one about our “first look” yet and I don’t think I ever will, it’s just too personal of a moment to share! Even our photographer missed it and everyone told me that we should’ve got it photographed or documented it in some sort but SNG and I both really wanted this, just the two of us, our own moment, and we will keep it that way! Our photographer did make us do a “fake first look” and this was so funny that we couldn’t stop laughing. Also, what’s with all those weird poses they ask you to do? Like, did you just ask him to pinch my nose? Really? And what’s even more absurd is that he went: “I’m going to do it!” NO! YOU’RE NOT! He knew I was going to cringe and die but he did it anyway because, yes, he enjoys it!
Our weddings are usually huge and they last for an eternity but because of the current situation and SNG and I wanting a small 1 day wedding (24 was the number of people we were going for, 35 is what we ended up with. All are fine, thank God!), our parents decided to fit as many of our rituals as they could! So these might sound strange but this is what we do:
– The bridal bouquet: in our culture the groom brings the bouquet for the bride and SNG having seen me receive flowers from his entire family, and having been sent back with his a very long time ago (Sorry 🤭) was so excited for this. “I finally get to give you flowers!” he said!
– The ring exchange: also, in our culture, we wear our engagement rings on the right hand and switch it to the left only at the wedding, it means making a promise and then keeping it.
– The ribbon: they make us hold hands and they tie a ribbon around in 7 knots. We believe that in life you go through 7 ups and downs and having your hands tied means you’ll get through it all together, it’s like our version of the “in sickness and in health” vow but we don’t say the words out loud.
– The veil: they put a veil (mine in our case) on both your heads so they could throw money and gold coins on you. I think the veil is there to protect you from paper cuts and from being hit directly with gold coins, because that actually really hurts (Seriously, some people throw them like they’re holding a grudge against you). This is done for a blessed and prosperous life and everything gets collected later and given to you as a gift.
– The head touch(?): I don’t know how to explain this really but they touch your heads together, gently, three times and it means building a relationship on love, understanding and honor. This is usually one of my favorite things about our weddings, it’s just such an intimate move, and most of the time the couples can’t stop giggling when their heads are being knocked together (It’s adorable, okay!) But my sisters being my sisters had to make a comment (kiss her, they screamed!) and SNG being SNG had to then return that favor with a comment of his own (On the third one, he said!) and I being, well.. myself, couldn’t take it so I shoved him away, (I LOCKED EYES WITH MY DAD!!!) I apologized to SNG right away though, I promise 🙈
A lot more happened after that, there was a lot of singing and dancing. My friends demanded a “first dance”, they said it will be fun (FUN FOR WHOM?), they said it will be a nice memory (I DON’T NEED THAT KIND OF MEMORIES!). I don’t dance, I can’t dance, we don’t do first dances here (Some people do but I’M NOT SOME PEOPLE!!). It was too much pressure and then his dad got involved and I was forced into it.. I cringed the whole time and SNG laughed the whole time (My sister sent him a pic she took of that dance, and OMG, I have my whole face scrunched up and my hands are fists on his shoulders but for some reason he thinks it’s cute and now he has it as his wallpaper!). Also, my friends (yes, them again) thought it will be fun if they forced everyone into singing and SNG absolutely HATES his singing voice but he had to because everyone had to and I’ve never seen his face go that red before, his ears were on fire and he was CRIMSON (I admit, this was fun for me and I keep reminding him of it because I can’t get enough of the way he reacts to it every single time 🤭).
We finished everything at around 3 am and we left at around 3:30 (Everyone left only after we were gone because that’s considered early, and I was told there was some more dancing). Our parents walked us to our car and there was a lot of “Take care of her/Take care of him” and “Be good to each other/Be happy!”, and our moms were crying and dads were trying not to and after all that we got in the car.
So.. this was our first real quiet alone moment of the day and I got a little .. umm.. awkward (I don’t know why, okay! SHUT UP 🙈), one look at my face and he was laughing. I told him not to look at me for a minute and he did exactly that, and when the minute was over he looked at me, planted the quickest kiss on the side of my head and smiled.. and.. I.. died ☺. He asked me if I was tired, I told him I was not. He asked me if I was sleepy, I said no. He asked me if I was hungry, I told him we had leftover cake with us and he laughed. He said okay and moved the car and it took me about 10 minutes to realize that he was not taking the road to our apartment but he was taking the road to the beach! YES! I looked at him (It is still a mystery to me how I didn’t break my neck with that hard head turn), and he gave me a quick look and shrugged like it was nothing (I didn’t tell him this but I think he knows how cool he looked to me at that moment).
Yes.. 4 AM in the morning and we were at the beach having our own little wedding party and stuffing ourselves with that leftover cake.. And I know I said I wanted a beach wedding but THIS WINS! It was already late (or early?) so we decided to just wait till the sun comes up so we could watch our first sunrise together and let me just tell you this now don’t do this, just.. DON’T DO IT! Go home, rest or sleep or do whatever you want to do but just GO HOME! I know this sounds fun and sweet, and yes, I admit, so very romantic, but when it’s 5:30 in the morning and the sun is still not out and you haven’t had enough sleep for 2 nights and you’ve had a bit too much cake and you’re exhausted and all you really want to do is wash your face and GET YOURSELF OUT OF THAT DRESS, this doesn’t seem like such a romantic idea then!
We were waiting in the car and I don’t remember how or when both of us went quiet, I didn’t even realize it but I guess he did. He put his hand on my head so I looked at him and he just looked at me for a minute and then went: “Why are we doing this?” I laughed at that and told him it was his idea and that made him laugh and then he just kind of lost it. He was incoherent, really, he was saying things I couldn’t even understand, and I was laughing too but I was mostly laughing at his uncontrollable fit of laughter (He was so cute, SO CUUUTE! MY GOD!!!) The laughing went on till the sun actually came out, and when that happened, we.. umm.. we.. yeah.. wished each other a happy first sunrise! So maybe do it, if you really want to.. because that moment alone is worth it all, just know that you’ll be getting a very bad headache and you won’t exactly look pretty when you wake up the next day (He will tell you that you do, he’s lying you don’t) .. but.. “the puffiness and the headaches will go, memories, on the other hand, will stay forever” that’s some SNG wisdom for you!
So yeah, it’s been 2 whole weeks now but it still doesn’t feel real to me, I’m trying to get used to it, ALL OF IT! Like I have to actually remind myself everyday that I’m married and to SNG, that I get to call him MY HUSBAND! This guy, really.. I always say this but I’m not the easiest person to deal with, it’s true. I’m not very expressive, I can’t say things out loud, I don’t even know how to be affectionate most of the times. I’m still awkward, I still get embarrassed, and I’m still just flailing around, and that’s frustrating, I know, because even I get frustrated with myself at times.. but he’s okay with it, he’s okay with it all. He’s patient with me, he’s understanding and he’s so very kind (It took me 67 days after his confession to actually dare and tell him I felt the same about him and he said THANK YOU – and that he already knew, of course ☺). It terrifies me to think one day he’ll get bored with the way I am and how slow I am with everything but he said that’s not going to happen and he promised to match my pace, and I trust him with that because he’s really good at keeping his promises (Not the petty ones I force him to make, he breaks those all the time!).
I don’t believe in perfect people, I know that kind of perfection doesn’t exist but I believe in right people and he is just that. He’s good to me, so very good that it only makes me want to be that much more better to him. I don’t think it’ll be fair to ever limit him in just these words, he’s so much more than anything I could say here to describe him. How much he cares and how much he shows it and how much he does to make me feel at ease and comfortable is beyond anything (He never planned going to the beach that night, he just did because he knew I was nervous and he wanted me to relax 😭❤). I’m just really very happy, SO MUCH, that my heart feels a bit weird and my head feels a bit giddy and dizzy and high, and it all makes me feel like I want to burst but not in disgusting fleshy/bloody way (sorry for that imagery), just really, like my heart can’t contain it all.
Also, why La Vie En Rose? A very, very long time ago, my Maknae sister asked me what my “first dance” song will be if I ever got married, I told her I’ll never get married (Yeah, well..), but if I ever did I’ll never dance, but if I ever did then it’ll be on La Vie En Rose! That first dance was a mess .. but when the song played and I realized which one it was, I looked at her and she went: “YES!!!” that made me want to cry but I was being dragged to the dance floor and she looked like she was enjoying it a bit too much so that crying feeling went away.. but yeah.. she remembered ❤
Also.. also, thank you Beanies. If it weren’t for you guys back then, I don’t think I would’ve thought of his “work visit” much. Yes, he did come the next week, and yes, he did ask for other “work-related meetings” but honestly, they would’ve stayed just as such. I mean, if it was just me, I would’ve brushed it off because the whole idea seemed crazy to me, you remember how freaked out I was, right? It was you guys who pointed out how he genuinely seemed interested and it was you guys that made me notice things. It would’ve still happened because he’s the persistent type, but in the weirdest way I kind of owe it to you guys too, so really, thank you ❤
Also (last one I promise), I think this is it for Azzo and SNG stories on DB, things are different now and I’d like to keep our personal lives, you know, personal. Not saying I’ll never post about it again because you should not say never (I learned that lesson) but definitely not as frequently as before, maybe I’ll update you on big things, like, I don’t know.. milestones! And so I’ll keep DB for DB purposes, gushing and squealing over dramas and Oppa (#I’msorryOppaIthinkIstillloveyouOppa).. that if I could go back to watching dramas anytime soon, life’s been quite entertaining ever since SNG, I admit ☺
Okay, I’m out, I’ll check all the notifications as soon as I can I promise, and till then stay healthy and happy, beanies!
@azzo Mrs. Sticky Note Guy, I presume?
CONGRATULATIONS on your wedding! Very happy for you. It sounds like a very eventful time, before, during and after! I’m glad you’ve had some time to process through the entire day, and all the feelings and memories that go with such a special occasion.
Until next time, Mrs. Sticky Note Guy! Enjoy being a newlywed!
Thank you ❤️
Congratulations Mrs.SNG!!! So happy for both of you and thank you for sharing moments of your day with us! All the best for the future!!!!
Thank you, Ayan ❤️
Thank you for sharing this story with us, it’s been such a wonderful ride. I know that at one point some people betrayed your trust and told your stories elsewhere and I’m just so grateful you came back and were able to regale us with the tale of Azzo and SNG. It makes sense for you to want to keep this personal now so we’ll wave goodbye as you sail off into the sunset (or… sunrise I guess!)
Please be good to yourself. And to your miskeen oppa who no doubt feels abandoned.
All the best!
Thank you, LT!
Honestly, I still get a little scared about sharing so much on DB, maybe one day I’ll panic and delete everything again, I don’t know, we’ll see then!
I am, I promise.
Also, Oppa who?
This is the absolute sweetest thing. I wish you and Mr. SNG all the happiness in the world.
Thank you for this bright and joy-filled spot in my day 🙂
Thank you, Rue.
And thank you for enjoying my stories and always rooting for me ❤️
Many2 congratulations again @azzo1! 🥳
Thank you, Katak 💖
Congratulations Azzo and SNG!!
Your story has been funny and sweet, and you have been so incredibly generous to share it with us. I wish you the most happiness in your life together.
Thank you, egads.
I still remember the things you told me when I posted about SNG the first time, your advice has stuck with me ever since, thank you 💖
Congratulations, Mrs. “SNG”! May Fortune smile upon your and SNG’s life together.
And thank you so much for sharing your adventure with us – it’s wonderful to see life and love in real life!
Thank you, Flying Tool.
Thank you for reading 💖
Congratulations, @azzo1 !
Thank you for sharing your wedding days story. Mr Azzo is such a wonderful, sweet, caring man. Being at the beach for the sunrise was the cherry on top for the cake!
Enjoy married life, Azzo !
Did Finance Guy and your coworker (who went to the meeting with you) ever imagine you’d be dating and marrying SNG ?
Not at all.
Okay, this might be hard to believe (seeing how much I share on DB) but I’m a very private person in real life, and I’m not exactly friends with people at work so I don’t talk. I only told my coworker about it when we got engaged and Finance Guy only found out about it a few days before the wedding and that from SNG (He’s been our client ever since those meetings back in December). He came to me and repeated “Impossible” for a whole 5 minutes and then said “No way!” and left.. I’m still not sure if he believes it!
Thank youuu 💖
He is, he really is, I think sunrise is our thing now, hehe!
(Also, I really like the sound of Mr. Azzo)
Oh, AZZO 😭 I’m so happy for you, I can’t stop crying, what is wrong with me? I’ve been thinking about you ALL DAY today and hoped I could just learn what you wore to your wedding! You are so kind to share the lovely details with us from beginning to “end”, it’s been so much fun from that initial story about the sticky note, omg. And a big reason why it’s been so wonderful is that you are such a good writer ❤️ I won’t go on and on although I could but will just wish you a happy lifetime together 💞💓💖
Aww, bbstl 💗😭
You are the sweetest. You’ve been so kind with me and your words mean a lot, really!
Okay, the dress, I can’t exactly share a picture but I went for a classic dress.. kind of. Long sleeves with satin buttons, open back (asked them to make me a piece I can put on and take off anytime for modesty reasons).. no long trail so a long double tier veil instead ☺️
Thank you so much ❤️
I’m sure you and the dress were beautiful and unforgettable!❤️❤️❤️
@azzo1 Congratulations! The head touch portion of the wedding sounds lovely. I hope you get to take a proper trip to continue your celebration before too long. Thank you for the lovely real life rom/com (thanks to Mr. SNG too).
I realized that the “head touch” is really cute when you’re watching it happen to other people but not so much when it happening to you!
Thank you 💗
@azzo1 Congratulations to you and SNG! Wishing both of you all the best and a lifetime of happiness! Thank you once again for taking the time to share details with us! Until we see you next time on DB, stay safe also! 🙂
Thank you, Korfan 💖
Thank you for your stories Azzo~ it brightens my day a lot xD Wishing you both a happy married life!
Thank you, Neener 💖
And yes, it didn’t rain on the day of the wedding but it poured for a whole week after that so whatever you did worked, LOL!
Congratulations on your wedding! Thank you so much for sharing your special day with us all!! It’s so lovable how you write about your husband and this makes me so happy for you. I almost cried when you wrote how he drove you to the beach for a very private wedding party.
Be happy and enjoy your time together! All the best wishes to Mrs. & Mr. SNG! 💕
Thank you for enjoying reading this, unnie 💖
I almost cried when he drove me to the beach that day.. and also when he told me it wasn’t planned!
So happy for you! Congratulations! I wish you and SNG a long and happy life together! 😊
Thank you, Karmen 💖
Congratulations azzo! The wedding sounds absolutely lovely and SNG sounds even lovelier!
Thank you, Raonah ❤️
Dear @azzo1 and Mr SNG – I’m a little late reading this but your wonderful stories and the wedding description and how he makes you so very happy brought some moisture to my eyes. I am truly and so very very happy for the both of you!
May your life together be full of joy, growth, surprises and everything in between.
Thank you so much for sharing your story with us!
Thank you for reading this, Stpauligurl.
And thank you so much for all your well wishes, I honestly feel so blessed for having you beanies, this means so much ❤
@azzo Congratulations again 🙂
Thank you, Sirena ❤️
Congratulations Azzo and SNG!!! You guys are seriously THE CUTEST! I have come across many real life love stories but yours is easily the best and cutest. Wishing both of you a blessed and happy life ahead. I’m so full reading this and I’m really happy for you.
I don’t know about that 🙈
Thank you so much, wapz ❤️
And tanks for sharing this! 😘😘😘
My favourite K-drama came to its end.😢 Joking aside, congratulations again my dear @azzo1 (and SNG of course!) and may this be the start of many good years together!🥳 Thank you for sharing some wedding details with us (I love the wedding rituals!) and teaching us that watching a sunrise is not practical or romantic at all!😂
Thank you for enjoying my real-life drama so far ❤️😂
It is not, if you really want to watch your “First Sunrise” though, do it a few days after or a week maybe.. because you’ll be EXHAUSTED! But.. but.. it’s all kind of worth it 🙈
Best Wishes, @azzo! I wish you a happy married life.
PS. I love Renee Dominique!
Thank you ❤️
She is adorable!
this really made me smile so much, CONGRATULATIONS! the world is a mess right now, but i really forgot it was while reading your posts- your story sounds as lovely as any kdrama. thank you for sharing your story with us, i wish you and sng all the happiness in the world <333
Thank you, Sung!
Honestly, we’ve been keeping ourselves away from all sorts of news so the world doesn’t seem so bad right now.. but I know it’s been a tough year! Hope whatever is left from this year brings everyone peace and joy!
Sweet sweet Azzo, wishing you all the newlywed bliss you can have now 🙂😘
Thank you so much, Dorkota ❤️
Was thinking about you this week! Glad your are enjoying your honeymoon phase a d thank you for the update!
Thank you, Ally
Congratulations once again @azzo1. It sounds like a beautiful wedding, thanks for sharing so many details of your special time with us!
All the best to you and SNG for the future ❤️
Thank you, Beffels, it really was a beautiful day, the BEST ❤️
So okay beanies, this is the last update before the wedding, I’ll be taking a break from DB and all sorts of social media for the coming 10 days, the real countdown! I don’t know how I feel about this, I keep going back and forth between “MY GOD! We only have 10 days!” and “UGH!! We still have 10 days!”, it’s kind of confusing if you ask me.
Everything is coming together nicely, I didn’t really need to worry about a lot since everyone’s been so very supportive and most of the things were checked off my list pretty quickly. I get to get my dress in four days and I’ll probably just hang it where I can see it the most and stare at it and maybe try to will the days to run a bit faster!
SNG’s mom wants me to go do cake-tasting tomorrow and she told me that she made SNG try some today and he made his pick and now she wants to test me and see how well I know her son. I said challange accepted but what I didn’t say is that he’s already told me what he picked and that he picked what he thought I’d like the best.. hehe.. this is not cheating, okay!
Also, we got to sneak out yesterday! It was funny really, he just called me and asked me if I was at home, I said yes. He asked me if anyone else was, I told him my dad was. He asked me if he was anywhere around, I told him he was upstairs on an online meeting, and he went: “Good! I’m stealing you in five minutes, run!”. That made me laugh and I told him that if he was going to steal me he shouldn’t be telling me about it and he should definitely not be telling me to run. He told me he thought I’d like that idea and: “Run to me, not from me!”. I didn’t tell him this but I LOVED that idea and when we hung up I got so excited that I literally ran around in circles in my room not knowing what to do. My head was going “Dress up!” but I didn’t have time to dress up so I put my red lipstick on and I ran. Turns out, he actually called my dad before he called me, and he asked him for his permission and my dad said yes 😂
And, I was going through my notes today and all the things I wrote about SNG and I went back to that very first post I made here on DB (Yes, I have them all saved 🙈) and this is what I found, December 20/2019:
Yes, my God! Who could have thought? I certainly did not.
Now this itself is something to laugh about! Also, let’s never tell him I called him scary, okay?
So, take care, and thank you again @ally-le and all the beanies, so much, for such a wonderful and thoughtful gift, it means a lot, really, and I’ll be listening to the playlist ON REPEAT! Wish me luck and pray everything goes smoothly!
Stay healthy and happy always, and I’ll see you guys after the wedding 😂❤
but you make me curious about 🙂
What flavour of the cake
What color is your wedding dress
Chocolate. Always chocolate for me!
It’s a white dress!
Wishing you both all the happiness and luck. Rest well till your big day. I guess that was it about SNG updates or as the drama name goes “stuck on you”, what a satisfying run 😅. But seriously , thanks for keeping beanies in your mind and making our terrible days better by your updates. Praying your wedding really smooth and you have the best day of your life.
December 20/2019….That seems like it was only yesterday!😲 Do not worry, I shall party on the OT on the 18th on your behalf!🥳
Psssst…My schedule for the 18th says ‘Azzo’🤭
You’re so welcome!!! I totally had a feeling this all would happen. Congratulations and have a restful 10 days before you big day!
“Yes, I have them all saved”
Good. The early posts that you took down were too precious to be lost for all time. You should re-publish the whole sequence some time.
Have a happy wedding ceremony Azzo! Happy for you and Stickie!
All the best to you both. Rest well to your big day, and I hope you have a wonderful wedding ceremony! Thank you for sharing your story 💖
Have a great wedding day! All the best! 😊😊😊
So excited for you! Best wishes to you both.
Sending all good vibes, love, positivity, flowers, sprinkles, sparkles, ALL THINGS GOOD right at you and SNG 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘
Have a happy wedding Azzo&SNG! Will do everything I can to summon the drizzle on the day!
I hope your day goes absospiffinlootley wonderfully darling.
Congratulations yet again and all the blessings.
(also I know you’ll be swamped with notifs but there may be a little present on my wall when you get back… hopefully, God willing, etc etc. xox)