People have been guessing he’s fate. Or she as the character is played by a girl but we don’t know if the character is a girl or boy.

Omg you two are meant to be together uncle-nephew

Yeah they’ll even throw a sword battle to save the female lead but they don’t think twice before killing/injuring the most endearing characters that we tune in for.

We’re not taking our specialty yet but our interest is so diverse. We’re also always split into two team in karaoke, the ballad team and the crazy team

+1000

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Happy Valentines! i didnt post a lot this year, but it was nice to see people posting.

I hope that she is right and it will bring you joy. It’s lovely…

LOVE this. so cute.

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Admittedly, sometimes it’s this one:

“Does it protect you?
or me?”

this ending. *chef’s kiss*

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@khalessymd – it sounds like you need a break, and need someone to say “listen to your heart”.

It sounds like you need to NOT be a doctor anywhere for awhile. Is that possible? Sending you strength – Hwaiting!!!

You know you can always write and vent here, right? Burnout is a real thing and you seem to be in its clutches. It does sound like you need a change though. I have a neonatologist friend who was spinning her wheels in a for-profit hospital system and although she loved her colleagues, she hated the system and was so burned out she wished she had appendicitis so she could be hospitalized for a couple days to rest. So she left. She’s happier in an academic center now and does talks on burnout to other doctors, recognizing the signs before it’s too late. There a reason our profession has the highest suicide rate of them all. No one feels they can talk about their struggles, like you’ve said. We’re all here for you! And there are lots of depressed doctors. We hide it well, but no one is immune. That’s why when one falls off the ledge no one sees it coming. Fighting, fellow female physician!!!

It’s unfair that you’re not allowed to be tried, unsure of yourself or even just express doubts just because of your profession. I understand the need to just be. It sounds like you need a week off to sit at the beach (or at home) with no one (who knows you) around and just be. Lots of hugs to you.

First off: sending you the biggest, tightest hugs. I’m not in the medical field, but I can’t imagine the stress and strain that must accumulate. I hope you get the space/time/rest/whatever you need. <3 <3 <3

Second off: I *am* in the writing/reading/words field, and this is an incredibly nice phrase–such a powerful sentiment, beautifully phrased, wonderfully illustrated. "People depend on you to be a rock, but you’re actually turning into dust."

I think it’s really important to express your negative feelings and to talk about being burned out, even if you love your job. I love my current work, it’s much more fulfilling than my previous position which was putting me in a very negative headspace.

But I’ve been having health issues lately – which it looks like aren’t serious, thank God, but I was under a lot of stress trying to figure out what was wrong, and work was piling up, so my stress was through the roof. By the end of last year, when I was about 16 months into my current position,which I love, I realized that no matter how much I loved my work I was getting burned out, and it was taking a toll on my physical and mental health. I hadn’t taken a real break in a year. I hadn’t had time to myself in months. I could feel my anxiety getting worse, and my depression trying to creep up again. There was nothing more irritating than my mother just saying “be grateful you have X, Y, and Z”. I told her, that you can have X, Y, and Z and still also feel overwhelmed and tired and burned out. The two are not mutually exclusive.

I made it a point to tell people in my life “yes, I’m grateful for my work, and I’m glad my health is OK, but it’s a lot right now. I’m tired and I need to rest up.” The life/work balance is tricky in professions where you need to support others as a part of your job. It’s OK to be burned out and take time to rest. It’s really hard to admit it because we live in a society where we’re constantly told to just be grateful for what we have, and that focusing too much on our own needs is selfish; we forget that we can’t be good at what we do if we’re not well.

So, it’s OK to be burned out, and to question. It’s good to recognize it. But the most important thing is to know it’s OK to take care of you for a while too.