While Iโ€™m truly happy with our Ryeowook dating news. Congrats, our eternal maknae!!! But, I canโ€™t deny that Iโ€™m devastated with their Korean fandom. Why is it dating became so taboo in ELF fandom? From sungmin to heechul to ryeowook. Nothing changeโ€ฆat all. They are so territorial about the boys dating life that they refused to accept those men are all over 30 and deserve to settle down just like any other human beings. Since when โ€œOppa belong to us not anybody elseโ€ become a thing that you are willing to hurt them with hurtful word and harassing their partner? Why is it they always use smear campaign on the couple every time dating news explode? WHEN ARE THEY GOING TO FUXKING GROW UP?!!!
This fandom are truly going to cray cray when donghae or eunhyuk(the most delusional OTP created by ELF) announce their dating news in future.
How can we get them to change, my goodness. The boys always seem powerless with their Korean fandom that always dictate their movement. Please fight for your happiness, our boys. Fans come and go. Donโ€™t let them rule you too much, Iโ€™m begging you.

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    I know!!! My bias is Kyu and while I admit that I’ll be sad once he starts dating, I understand that he’s a completely grown adult.

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      We are 15 years old fandom. but a huge chunk of this fandom act like a toddler who got their toys taken from them with they way they act. they sent letter to ryeowook airing their grievance because ryeowook call them princess. they harass Ari, they still harass Saeun till this day. they even harass the boys daily with their self entitlement. truthfully, im embarrass when new gen kpop see how our fandom act when suju dating news come out. we maybe senior fandom, but our fandom still act like batshit crazy like we are some 5 years old fandom, sigh.

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        SM needs to bring bad Sungmin. There’s nothing wrong with falling in love. They have a life outside their work. My goodness! (Some) K-Ent fans are toxic indeed!

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    Whenever this happens, I’ll always be reminded of what Eunhyuk said during the early years about people shooting arrows in their back that they have to hide from the fans. Sometimes, I think it’s the fans that’s shooting those arrows. It’s frustrating and I’m still mad at what the K-ELF did to Sungmin.

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      definitely… it’s more hurtful because fans are the one who hurt them the most. but they kept enduring, and enduring, thinking, that media and antis are the worst. however, how long will it last tho? they are not getting young. they need to put boundary(even tho ELF itself an acronym for friendzone) so they can move on to the next chapter in their lives and to protect their partner.
      for goodness sake, please stop apologizing for dating too. it’s like you give K-ELF an ammo to terrorize you and your partner.

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        This is what I didn’t like in K-ELF fandom, the entitlement over SuJu’s lives were too much. To think it’s still going on to this date is just *roll eyes*.

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