When you open your computer and see you have 9 message notifications from the same person

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      Here is another one 🤣
      So sorry, I had a few problems today with this writing system. I couldn’t find the damn words that were illegal here even though they were cooied from wiki. They also put me on moderation and I saw it only later.

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    @seeker does this to me all the time, but I love her for it. She makes me feel seen and appreciated on here ♥️

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      Yes it’s lovely to see multiple notifications from @seeker!! 🥰

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        @bebeswtz @HopefulRomantic

        Also 🙈

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          Err, post-specific context Beanies. 😂

          (Tho I too love my Cera notifications 🙂

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            Yeahhhh getting nice notifications is very different from getting a whole bunch of messages trying to tell you that feminists are responsible for women hating men and not wanting to get married is evil and they’re turning our children gay and transgender and making them have abortions, all from a person who thinks that the Me Too movement was feminist propaganda ruining Hollywood!!! 😭

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            mdiary like most Beans I too come to DB to entertain and be entertained!! It is a great stress buster. So let us all laugh and dance and be merry. 😘❤

            And send each other happy happy notifications. 😉

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            @mdiary
            Not Hollywood, if they ruined it that’s a good thing. 🤣 But MeeToo movement had other negative outcomes if you look at the whole picture, but I do not want to continue on this subject.
            I know it’s a lot to digest and I understand your annoyance with me. I was where you are a few years ago. But please, be sure that it comes from a place of love for women, I do have a daughter also that is very independent, I just understand things different than you or than I did few years ago. My positions are as center as one can be. It never hurts to get out of the buble and hear others point of views.

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            @seeker
            Well, that why I joined in, to talk about My dearest. I was mesmerized by talks of full moon tracing all the way to the 1600’s and I got to learn a lot reading kiara. Well, you know how that went 🤣
            The thing with me is that I do not start to talk about the issues I care on my own, I do not post articles about them. Mostly I respond to what I believe are outrages takes. As newcomer it was overwhelming the discussions that I read here, to put it nicely. I don’t know where you guys live or what you read or watch, but in my real life things are normal if you don’t look through the lenses of the media. I see happy couples, old couples that are still in love and support eachothers, I see mothers that are having carriers and families with very supportive husbands, I have had mostly female bosses being in healthcare. I have encouraged every female that I worked to to continue their education, to get ahead in their careers. Things are not that dark as you all talk about it here. Men are not evil, most are just trying really hard to be be good husbands and fathers. Maybe because I work in a field that is dominated by females is that I got to also have really bad female bosses, maybe more than the few men bosses I had. If you look only at people with a bias, you will eventually find some small thing to reinforce your beliefs.
            I hope there is more tolerance and understanding about everyone and not only the ones you are told or what is socially acceptable now. I know we, women, are better than that.

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