Oh My Baby : Guys been curious about some opinions…Do u think Ha Ri is too stuck on the idea of giving birth that she kinda refuses to see other options as adopting mainly as it’s not her child?

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    I know she mentioned the idea of adopting but she kinda tossed it aside adding all the requirments and that is too hard when in fact it might be even more hard for her to get pregnant as life doesn’t go how you wish…Maybe i’m wrong but i get this feeling for some time that she is too stuck on it and slides the other maybe more realist option because the child woun’t be her on bloodline…

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    Yes…I think she is but then again if a person has to give birth in order to obtain motherhood and truly connect to a child, then I wouldn’t recommend adoption. Its not a crime or bad thing to feel that way but it may hinder her from fully embracing the adopted child.

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      You are quite right about the adoption indeed…I think she would be truly honest with herself and how she feels saying she wants it to be her blood or give birth rather than adopt i guess…In the end it would be what she wants and what’s for her and from that angle is more than fine.

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    If I remember correctly it was mentioned again in ep 10 or 11 (??). She mentioned she does not want to have the adopted child feel like an alternative. That a child should be a gift.

    I’m not sure how it can’t be both.

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    Another factor is that adoption is not straightforward or popular as an option in Korea whereas it’s quite an established one in Western countries. Then to some woman, going through the whole process is part of the deal to complete motherhood.

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      I guess i was a bit sad that they didn’t go for the risky move as to choose to adopt and show that it can bring the same joy and what means on a more deep level rather than give us the miracle yet again it is a drama so…

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