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LTNS: Episodes 5-6 (Final)

What does it mean to have an affair? LTNS goes out with a bang, toning down the crudity and piling on a little thing called Real Feelings. I expected to hate wherever the story was headed in the final leg — instead, I bawled my eyes out and then vowed to watch anything this creative team puts together in the future.

 
EPISODES 5-6

Who would have guessed this drama was about to get so emotional? Given that the comedy bits weren’t really that funny, I didn’t predict that the heartfelt moments would spear me in the chest. I was already a fan of the leads but they knocked it out of the park in these episodes. They made me feel all the hate when they fight — and all the love despite how difficult it’s been for them.

We ended last week with a phone call. Samuel was in the hospital, dialing up a woman named JUNG MIN-SOO (Ok Ja-yeon), who it was clear he had some sort of prior relationship with. As we come to learn this week, she’s Samuel’s “cleaning buddy.” (What now?) Yeah, she’s the married woman who lives next door and, over the past year, they spent quite a few days shining windows and de-molding bathrooms together.

LTNS: Episodes 5-6 (Final)

Sound harmless? It’s not. They’ve spent a considerable amount of time in each other’s homes without ever mentioning the other’s existence to their spouses. We see them in flashback as they shelve books and stretch sheets over beds — they’re eyeing each other with lust, comfortable when they accidentally touch, and just a little too happy to be cleaning the freakin’ house.

But there’s a limit. One day when Min-soo’s husband comes home unexpectedly — and she and Samuel are cleaning in the bedroom — Samuel hides in a corner until Min-soo can feed her husband a sleeping pill. After he escapes without getting caught, Samuel calls the whole thing off. Min-soo wants to know why (“All we did was clean”). But Samuel says that lying and hiding isn’t right, and the two painfully part.

LTNS: Episodes 5-6 (Final)

So, that brings us up to speed for when Jin goes to check on Samuel at the hospital and he’s not there — because he’s downstairs meeting Min-soo. Jin calls him, he tells an obvious lie, and she begins to question her trust in him. We learn that Jin has a history of cheating exes and she never suspected Samuel of cheating because they made a deal to be honest with each other when they started dating. If he never said his feelings for her changed, she trusted that they hadn’t.

Meanwhile, Jin finds a threatening message painted on their apartment door while Samuel is in the hospital, and so, she has a surveillance camera installed. This comes in handy later when Samuel says he’s going to work but instead goes home to meet Min-soo. Jin monitors the camera from her cell phone and sees him open the door to this woman she doesn’t know.

After that, Jin treats Samuel and Min-soo the same way she treated all the other cheaters they staked out and investigated. She rents a car and begins tailing his taxi and, one night, she films him going into Min-soo’s apartment. She then throws gas all over the floor outside the apartment and is ready to set it aflame — but (phew) she comes to her senses. Instead, she decides to blackmail Min-soo, using the same threatening letter they sent to all their other targets.

From this moment on, the drama is (in my opinion) pretty brilliant. We get a ton of information all at once and it’s interspersed with a lot of action. First, there’s a recap of the problems between Jin and Samuel but this time with more detail. We see them dating, starting to like each other, and thinking they’re a perfect match because they’re opposites (he’s cautious, she’s outgoing). They’re attracted to these qualities in each other.

But only three years into their marriage, they’re already not having sex. And it’s because Samuel can’t perform. At first, Jin is understanding and assumes it’s a side effect of his new meds. But by a year later, she’s had enough. She dresses up in lingerie and tries to put in some effort and he’s still not interested. By now, she’s hurt: “You don’t see me as a woman anymore, do you?” He says it’s not her, it’s his fault, but she gets really upset and leaves the apartment.

LTNS: Episodes 5-6 (Final)

All of this information is crucial for the big blowup that’s about to happen when Jin blackmails Min-soo. At first, it all goes according to Jin’s plan. Min-soo leaves a backpack full of cash at the pickup spot, and then Jin brings it home and begins to tell Samuel about the new case she’s just cleaned up on. As she tells him the details about the couple, he realizes she’s talking about him and Min-soo.

He flips out, calls her crazy (yuck), and begins taking Min-soo’s side over Jin’s. He can’t believe that Min-soo actually paid because they didn’t do anything to warrant blackmail. Jin says she has proof of him entering her apartment at night and he counters that that’s not proof of anything. As things get more heated and they’re yelling back and forth, he asks what right she has to do this to him. He saw her — he saw everything — that night two years ago when they fought about not having sex and she left the apartment.

Holy punch in the chest. Yep, she slept with her ex that night when she left. She was feeling hurt and rejected by her husband, ended up calling her scumbag cheating ex, and they had a one-time fling. The thing is, there were no feelings involved and it only happened once.

And this is where the writing really shines because their argument becomes partially about what it means to have an affair. Samuel never hooked up with Min-soo, not even close, but he has feelings for her. He doesn’t consider that cheating and thinks he did nothing wrong. On Jin’s side, she knows she cheated — and she kneels and apologizes for it — but she also thinks that a one-time physical thing isn’t any worse than a lengthy emotional connection with someone else.

All the excellent dialogue that I’ve just boiled down to a few lines of exposition is encompassed in a long fight scene that’s worth the watch. They’re furious — yelling, screaming, throwing things, rolling around the living room in a physical fight — and it’s raining. The inside of their apartment is flooding from an indoor downpour, with the water rising up around them as the tension and tempers rise. More than just symbolic, there’s a sense of magical realism with the actors kicking and splashing the water at each other like it’s not weird at all.

LTNS: Episodes 5-6 (Final)

They keep needling each other because they know where it hurts. When Samuel admits that he has feelings for Min-soo, he adds that he needed someone to talk to and Jin doesn’t listen. Jin throws an insult about being at work while he was moping around at home after his business failed. He continues to blame her for his actions. She keeps insulting him. And it’s very clear that being opposites (the reason they liked each other) is also what tore them apart.

The argument ends when Samuel takes the cash to return to Min-soo and Jin runs after him. He escapes in his car, she chases him down, and finally she nabs the backpack and tosses the money all over the road, where it blows around and random people pick it up — so he has no way to return it.

Then, seven months pass and our couple is now divorced. Samuel is working at his family’s strawberry farm and sleeping in his car. Jin is living in a singles apartment like the one she rented before she was married. And they’re selling their joint apartment. When it finally sells, they meet to sign the contract and end up going to lunch because Jin has something to say.

They haven’t seen each other in months and she’s having a hard time. She knows she needs to let him go for real, and to do that, she apologizes. She takes responsibility for her part by saying she thinks he was happy to just be by her side, but she wanted more from him — maybe she ruined him. She thanks him for the six years they lived together and says she’s going to live a good life from now on. So, he has to do her a favor and do the same. Everyone is sobbing (me the most).

We end with Jin at home alone on Christmas and Samuel unexpectedly at her door with strawberries. She invites him in, where he starts cleaning her place and asking if she has a man yet. (She doesn’t.) They think about old times, sit side by side on the floor, and accidentally touch hands. Then he kisses her and the next thing you know they’re all over each other. On the bed, she pauses, “We’re divorced.” He responds, “But we can still have sex.” And on they go.

I liked it. The ending is a cute punchline to the whole show. And these last two episodes had some really powerful writing, acting, and directing. Although, the sincerity we witnessed this week makes me wonder if we needed so much of the stuff that happened in the middle. For me, the humor didn’t always land. The sex was neither enjoyably sexy nor funny. And the violence just seemed gratuitous. Did we need all of that to get us to this satisfying ending? I’m not sure.

But from beginning to end, the central relationship was well observed, and the story carried out what it set up. As hinted early on, our leads ended up rekindling their romance — it just didn’t happen within their marriage. Both characters are flesh and blood, and their core personalities never shifted. They like each other, they have chemistry, but they’re not a good match in marriage. And that’s the other thing I like about the ending: there’s no moralizing. They seem to have forgiven each other. Stuff happens. It’s okay to let it go and move on. I’m not sure it means they’re getting back together, but there’s no reason to let it ruin their fun (now that they’re actually having some).

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Actually, the emotional vs physical cheating/affair is something that often comes to mind when I hear about korean celebrity cheating scandals. People want to jump all over and cancel, total strangers, because of the act when there can be different reasons and motivations behind it. For some folks, cheating is just a no go; it's an ultimate betrayal that you can't come back from and for others, the context matters.

Yeah, for sure, there are people who are just opportunistic and selfish but then like some of the cases featured here, there can be more behind the action. I can appreciate that this show tried to explore that world a little.

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There's also research showing that men are more upset by physical affairs and women are more upset by emotional affairs

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"Research" like that feels gender reductive to me in a way that this drama, of all things, tried to resist.

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Well yes, it's evolutionary psych, which is often criticized for being reductionist.

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This should have been a 2 hour drama, or the series should have started with this. There’s so much to explore after this ending, like short-term attraction/passion versus boring long-term compatibility, physical/sex compatibility, etc but alas. The first 2 episodes were, purportedly, a comedy, the middle was action (maybe?) and the last two episodes were a marriage drama. There was no point for all that blackmailing and sex scenes and violence, apart from cheap shock value, was there? I still find these characters exceedingly pitiful. There was no redeeming qualities to them whatsoever. And I am absolutely fine with morally ambiguous protagonists (it is always so refreshing) but the series overall was neither funny nor entertaining nor quietly engrossing to get me distracted from these awful characters. It is what it is. At least, I have a bean.

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By the way, if anyone wants to see a magnificent and brilliant “marriage fight scene”, I highly, highly, HIGHLY recommend watching a French movie called An Anatomy Of Fall, when the recorded fight scene was played out in a court. That’s how you do a movie about two deeply unlikable, morally ambiguous characters, one of whom MIGHT be even a murderer, but we, the viewers, didn’t care, because it’s such an engrossing movie. (And it actually stocked to its genre.) Watch that, not this…

Thank you @dramaddictally for your excellent recaps.

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Before Midnight has a really good and realistic marital argument scene, too

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Omg, Before Midnight has been on my to-watch list forever! Thank you for reminding me about it. All my friends gush about it. They also recommend Blue Valentine.

To be truthful, after seeing my parents’s awful marriage and my best friend’s awful marriage, I am a bit scared to watch these movies. I’m already so skittish about a marriage in general seeing how it could devolve into such monumental mess. But I still love watching these scenes because I’d like to think I learn to what NOT to do in the marriage. Granted, I cannot imagine the myriad conflicting emotions the couple might be straining themselves under, so sometimes it’s impossible to keep all these emotions bottled up. Knowing what not to do in marriage and experiencing the actual relationship are two different things.

One more thing — I have to say that my favorite “marriage fight scene” is Soprano’s “pool” fight with his wife. I rewatch it regularly to remind myself that being single might not be so bad after all, lol — apart from genius writing and acting.

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For sure! If you haven't seen Before Sunrise or Before Sunset yet, definitely watch them before Before Midnight so you have full emotional investment in the couple

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Yes! Also HIGHLY recommend the marriage fight scene in Marriage Story - 10 minutes of gut wrenching realism. The clip is on YouTube if anyone hasn't seen it.

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🥳Welcome to the comments and thanks for sharing. We hope you will pop in again when you find a drama you enjoy and want to join the banter.

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Why didn't the neighbor girl live with her husband? It didn't look like she worked. Also, as someone who dealt with infertility that trying to conceive stuff hit HARD. Oof.

You all know that I'm a romantic, but this series brought me to the point where I started to think the main leads just didn't love each other anymore. I thought that Jin seemed to act more like herself with her ex, and Samuel more like himself with the neighbor girl. They seemed like better fits with other people. Although, did anyone else think they'd have angry sex during that argument scene? I wasn't very satisfied by the ending, although I don't know how else it could have ended. It just... wasn't very romantic and it made me sad. It felt more like a Korean movie than a drama to me. Like, a good story but not what I look for when I watch romance dramas.

This drama WAS entertaining, the last three eps had me gasping with shock a lot, and it was nice to see such frank discussions and depictions of sex. I guess I just expected a different story from what we ended up getting.

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I enjoyed this drama. It was very thoughtful in its way. I am glad the writers used horrible people to showcase the thoughtfulness.

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I would like to think through the symbolism of water in this drama. At first glance it's something about Samuel's take on love, but I think I may only be remembering selectively? Can Beanies help me?

First, his taxi is drowned--speaking of @dramaddictally 's reference to magical realism--here, one that we were expected to take as just silly or normally possible (but that by the end I interpret as necessarily symbolic of something he does because he must, but not because he wants to??).

Then, there was that crazy-ass scene with the water bottles Samuel "accidentally" ordered blocking their way out of the apartment (what was that, in retrospect??)...an act that comes back at the end when the young delivery man comes back to seek, what...revenge?

Samuel also dives in the water to get evidence of the older couple in flagrante delicto which is seen as a sign of his devotion.

Finally, of course, the scene in episode 6 of the point/fight of no return in the indoor rain.

Where else did water play a role?? Can folks offer more example scenes / interpretations of the importance of this life-giving and yet life-threatening chemical here?

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Water traditionally represents:
1. liminal spaces and transitions
2. overwhelming emotion
3. metaphorical drowning (emotionally)
4. cleansing or rebirth

I think looking over the drama, it represents all three of these things at various points.

With the water bottle incident - ignoring the constrained water (emotion) quite literally blocking them - I did find it interesting and amusing that they had someone coming after them for something small and trivial. Sometimes small things we do obliviously can hurt somebody. The fact it wasn't the stalking and blackmailing that made them a target amused me.

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It's honestly so rare for a kdrama to deal with the complex intersection between emotions, intimacy and sex. So often they act like sex doesn't exist at all or, worse, that sex and love are two parallel things that never intersect with love being disembodied and sex being a grinding, physical thing alone.

I can't say the first two thirds of this drama entirely worked for me but, overall, its complexity and depth did. As did the leads' performances.

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I also appreciated the rare acknowledgement that cheating is almost never about sex, even if it involves sex.

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I really like your perspective on this. You have expressed it so well. 😍 👏

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I didn't like this drama because I felt nothing for the characters like never. I wished they learned things with the couples they followed, about themselves, but nothing. They just ended being beated and again, it didn't stop them. I don't understand why the writer insisted they ended together, it didn't work. It looked more because their life was still miserable and it was the easy solution.

For the water, the delivery guy shoud put a limit to the number of pack of water, instead of paint their door... And why the door opens like this? It's very dangerous. It should open in the inside.

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I knew I was going to like this drama, but it ended up beating my expectations. It was funny, it was thrilling and the last two episodes packed a real emotional punch. The actors (Esom and Ahn Jae-hong ) were excellent. Ahn Jae-hong in particular is an actor that is chameleon like. I first noticed him in Reply 1988 and then he was unrecognizable in Mask Girl and other dramas. He can play a shlub, but as this drama shows he is actually quite handsome.
The Show was adult-themed (extreme for most Korean shows, but normal+ for Western tastes) but it wasn't gratuitous. There was a point to the physicality and the sexual overlay. In the end it was all about the emotions between a couple, both tender and raw.
Short and sweet and I Ioved it.

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