I understood that pain. And that betrayal. 😢
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    Me too. But Se-hee didn’t mean to hurt her and I was also cringing this entire scene (before Se-hee put his foot down) because that’s his cat! No, no, you’re impending on his privacy and peace, Ji-ho! Backtrack a bit! Of course, Ji-ho didn’t hear me.

    I think it was mean of Ji-ho wanting to hurt him though. 🙁 Although I do understand her but Se-hee’s face when he sat down by the breakfast table vs him excusing himself T_T

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      I actually agree with you 100% 😂 I was laughing at myself because as a cat lover, when she was the first person to pick up the cat, I thought, “Noooooo!”. The cat is someone who matters to him and I interpreted that scene as her stepping into that “relationship”. I imagine I would feel hurt if someone started moving in on my cat. Then I realized how I turn into a jealous gf because of a cat. Well, not any cat, but you know what I mean. 😂 But yea, I thought she overstepped her bounds. I was happy that Se-hee voiced his concern without losing his cool. Then again, I thought much of this episode was about unrealistic expectations and how it leads to miscommunication.

      Yes! I understood that she felt hurt and that she was just speaking out of that, but her actions were kinda cruel and intentional. When he excused himself from the table, I think I heard my heart crack. And then that phone call… The next episode better start with her clarifying to that guy that she’s actually married. It’s going to be a long week. 😢

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        I agree with all of this! I don’t have a pet but I named my car when I first got her (Reba. After Reba McEntire. Particularly her song, Fancy). And once I was giving a friend a ride somewhere and she said that she didn’t like the name of my car and that I should call her something else. My exact words: Bish, get your own car and name her what you want. This is Reba and we’re flipping Fancy.” I still side eye that person whenever she wants/needs a ride somewhere. I can only imagine how much angrier/annoyed you’d be with a pet.

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          I can’t believe she said that! Obviously, the name means something to you so she should’ve respected that. Even if you had given it a random name for no reason at all, it’s not her business what you name it. Nice of you to still give her a ride. 😂

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            Its a forgive but never forget situation. I always talk to my car–little pep talks and such to let her know she’s appreciated for getting me where I’m trying to go. And whenever this particular person (who I really didn’t see that often before I moved) would get a ride from me there was a lot of petty Reba name dropping.

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            You are too cute. 😂 I hope she learned her lesson. For me, a name is always very special. Especially when you have a story behind it. Thank you for sharing the story about Reba.😊

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      I agree. I can’t believe she thought it would be okay to rename his cat, although I understand the sentiment behind it…

      I think Ji-ho is mostly angry at herself for reading more into their relationship than she should have and sadly Se-hee will get the brunt of her anger. I have hope that she will backtrack once she sorts out her feelings, but it’ll do good for Se-hee to realize how much she really means to him when there’s a chance to lose that companionship.

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        Seriously.

        I can empathize with her because honestly, I have behaved in terrible ways when I’ve been hurt. It’s that initial burst of emotion that I have to get over. It’s just easier for me to be upset at her because I’m not in her situation nor am I feeling her embarrassment. Thank you for sharing your insight. I am looking forward to watching these two grow and figure things out together.

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          woops. Didn’t finish what I was going to post. After seriously, I was going to say that I couldn’t believe she renamed his cat. haha I’m going to go rest. 😂

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        YES! I mentioned/commented this on another beanie’s post.

        “I think she’s redirecting her anger at herself to Se-hee. Anger and embarrassment that once again, she misread things. Se-hee didn’t mean to hurt her but she really tried to hurt him and that breakfast table was so painful. I know Se-hee hurt her but he didn’t mean to!! Huhuhu I’m so stressed”

        Ji-ho has always been sensible so I hope she sees the error of her ways and for Se-hee to realize too that it’s actually not just a landlord-tenant relationship that he wants too.

        And also, I don’t want it to because #TeamSeHee but Bok-nam feels like an actual rival because he likes Ji-ho and we’ve established that all Ji-ho wants is to be needed/liked/loved. GAH WHY IS IT ONLY WEDNESDAY

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          I’m like Bok-nam go be swoony in another universe and leave my OTP alone.
          But, I think you’re right that Ji-ho is craving attention (not in a bad way, but that she’s missing that emotional fulfillment only other people can give) and this guy is already about giving her all the attention she needs (or thinks she needs).

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            @jig hahahaha That’s exactly what he needs to do. More time for our OTP please.

            yea…I can see why she would find him so alluring. She’s already experienced so much hurt from her own family that I think that she started to pretend that relationships didn’t matter to her, as long as she could continue down the road and survive. I think her happiness at hearing the word “our” shows us that it still matters to her, a lot. She thought she could just marry just for the financial benefits, but she is going to learn very fast that that kind of life is not for her. While Bok-nam may be able to make her feel special for a few minutes, I hope the drama will develop the main characters in a way that can show that a relationship is much more than a few feel-good emotions.

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          yea…I saw his discomfort at the office and I was worried that it would come out harshly, especially because of the previous scenes where they showed him to be more straightforward and strict at work. I thought he tried to be more gentle with her at least, considering how long he had been holding it in. But I know it won’t feel the same way for her in her shoes. 😢 I do like how the show is handling the difficulties of relationships so far and how it’s not like in the dramas, but my poor heart.

          It’s okay. I’m stressed too about what’s to come. I know it will work out in the end but it’s going to be painful watching each of them get jealous of each other. The breakfast table already hurt me enough. 🙁 I guess we’ll all get through it together. lol

          I am sure she will. And I’m waiting for both of them to realize they want more. 😂 I still remember how she spoke up at the restaurant so I’m still rooting for her.

          I don’t want to hate Bok-nam but I have this aversion to second leads, mainly because I know what the end result will be. Also, I hate all the obstacles getting to that result. sigh If you make #TeamSeHee, I am joining. In the meantime, rewatch the first kitchen scene so that you can get through to Wednesday. 😂

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