Okay what I have learnt is that no matter how specific you are there are people who would misinterpret or twist your arguments anyway. Experiment over. I am not going to care now.
I think that’s the best route. No one can convince them to think or judge someone’s character a certain way just like no one will convince you or me to forgive KSH. I’ve learned to just make my own judgements and call it a day. Am I frustrated that the ex- girlfriend is being abused? Of course! I saw some of his fans dig up her photo and post it on social media. It infuriated me! But I know it’s a losing battle so I let it go and just hope she has a safe spot & support system. It’s not worth them souring your day though. 🙂
You know what I hope that his career does get destroyed so no one has to see his face on screen ever again. Private matter… lol. He would never have apologized if it stayed private.
We should not make assumptions you say except yet you still make assumptions. Just say you only want to make assumptions when it comes to the woman but not the man and go.
Some people trying to ask me if I am talking about everyone, do you want me to give you assurance that it can never be you who does anything wrong or something? /rh
His fans calling it revenge makes it sound petty. I mean, if everyone is swooning over someone who you know to be a scuzzball, and who personally hurt you…keeping all that inside has got to wear pretty hard on anyone
It's normal for the victims to feel bad after exposing the people who did them wrong. Insensitive enablers of problematic men will never understand that because they lack the capability to understand human emotions.
Many of you talking about how this thing should have been kept private like he didn\’t actually do something terrible what the hell is wrong with you? /rh
The fact that some of you guys are more affected me talking about hypothetical scenarios than about something that has actually happened says a lot about how much you really care. /srs
This part of the problem with of the culture of putting celebrities on pedestals in the first place. Also for some of you talking about your faves if I speak…
Am I wrong? Do you insist so bad on defending your parasocial relationships? Also you people who seemed to be more worried about him than her I see you. Stop making light of this. It’s is NOT a small issue that you whine about his career. There are literal rapi**s still getting a job you think this would be the end of him. This level of consideration is never given to women and neither do you people spend time discussing it so much. Still how do you have a problem with him getting the consequences of his actions? Fucking disgusting.
And just like clockwork despite my explanation people just decided to bandwagon which I suspect the comments to me made them feel better about themselves without actually having to do the work to understand the context of my original post. You guys are dumb.
Are you even talking about Dramabeans community? Because so far, I haven’t seen anyone defend him or being unironically destroyed over this (majority of comments were being dramatic, but it wasn’t all THAT serious). Am I missing something? At worst, the comments are about whether someone’s career should be destroyed over their messy private life, what imao, is a very legit discussion.
Also I was saying this because I made a post where I said that I hope if there are horrible things people’s fave have done must come to light and I was asked if I wanted people to suffer as I did.
That you are overreacting and posting on a page where the majority of posts are about kdramas? You are also extremely rude to a very beloved website and a lovely community just because we dared to discuss an issue here.
To paraphrase it, it’s not that anyone agrees or disagrees with you about KSH (and you can see on my fan wall that I do agree to some extent). It is just that no one cares about some Korean celebrity as much as you do.
Do you think I will be nice after reading all shorts of comments and speculations about her? It’s only after seeing people discuss so much both on the post and the fanwall that I am saying this so the fact that no one cares is not true. Go and read the entire comment section again and then tell me this. Read through the fanwall posts from the past three days and tell me this. Yeah I am going to be rude if people are going to act so disgusting. Plus not everyone is here like that thank god.
I guess I should start using tone indicators and say some/ most/many, but I should also start making sure that my sentences cover every possible scenario in which I don’t get misinterpreted /srs
amruta1009
October 23, 2021 at 11:25 PM
Some people seem hell bent on having the last word. Well I am not playing. Have at it.
amruta1009
October 23, 2021 at 10:55 PM
I am absolutely loving this trend of celebrity misdeeds coming to light. I hope it comes for all of your faves. /hyp
amruta1009
October 23, 2021 at 11:40 PM
The way last time people didn’t get I was being hyperbolic is so funny to me. But it’s also concerning.
amruta1009
October 23, 2021 at 8:51 PM
Lmao at the arguments for why not to believe… Where did they learn to argue like that MDL University? 😂
amruta1009
October 23, 2021 at 8:55 PM
Using his generic apology like???
amruta1009
October 23, 2021 at 9:01 PM
Watch as a woman gets caught in the scandal and see as these same people believe even vaguer rumours.
amruta1009
October 23, 2021 at 3:18 PM
A lot of people who were arguing with me really need to learn and understand what a hyperbole is. 🙄
amruta1009
October 23, 2021 at 2:03 PM
Okay what I have learnt is that no matter how specific you are there are people who would misinterpret or twist your arguments anyway. Experiment over. I am not going to care now.
yongsital 🐧 ❄️
October 23, 2021 at 3:53 PM
I think that’s the best route. No one can convince them to think or judge someone’s character a certain way just like no one will convince you or me to forgive KSH. I’ve learned to just make my own judgements and call it a day. Am I frustrated that the ex- girlfriend is being abused? Of course! I saw some of his fans dig up her photo and post it on social media. It infuriated me! But I know it’s a losing battle so I let it go and just hope she has a safe spot & support system. It’s not worth them souring your day though. 🙂
amruta1009
October 23, 2021 at 8:36 AM
You know what I hope that his career does get destroyed so no one has to see his face on screen ever again. Private matter… lol. He would never have apologized if it stayed private.
amruta1009
October 23, 2021 at 6:18 AM
We should not make assumptions you say except yet you still make assumptions. Just say you only want to make assumptions when it comes to the woman but not the man and go.
amruta1009
October 23, 2021 at 5:43 AM
Some people trying to ask me if I am talking about everyone, do you want me to give you assurance that it can never be you who does anything wrong or something? /rh
amruta1009
October 23, 2021 at 5:32 AM
‘She is just taking revenge… ‘
If she did then she did amazing. And what about it? /rh
amruta1009
October 23, 2021 at 5:33 AM
If it were me I would have done worse and felt no guilt.
Cori
October 23, 2021 at 8:20 AM
His fans calling it revenge makes it sound petty. I mean, if everyone is swooning over someone who you know to be a scuzzball, and who personally hurt you…keeping all that inside has got to wear pretty hard on anyone
amruta1009
October 23, 2021 at 5:25 AM
amruta1009
October 23, 2021 at 5:22 AM
Is there a tone indicator for \’if this doesn\’t apply to you ignore\’ Because I think I need it…
amruta1009
October 23, 2021 at 3:50 AM
I wish this stupid site had a block botton.
amruta1009
October 23, 2021 at 3:33 AM
Many of you talking about how this thing should have been kept private like he didn\’t actually do something terrible what the hell is wrong with you? /rh
amruta1009
October 23, 2021 at 3:27 AM
The fact that some of you guys are more affected me talking about hypothetical scenarios than about something that has actually happened says a lot about how much you really care. /srs
amruta1009
October 22, 2021 at 11:58 PM
It will never be that serious for me that I would suffer or break down because I found out that one of my faves is a horrible person. 1/2
amruta1009
October 23, 2021 at 12:19 AM
This part of the problem with of the culture of putting celebrities on pedestals in the first place. Also for some of you talking about your faves if I speak…
amruta1009
October 23, 2021 at 8:31 AM
Am I wrong? Do you insist so bad on defending your parasocial relationships? Also you people who seemed to be more worried about him than her I see you. Stop making light of this. It’s is NOT a small issue that you whine about his career. There are literal rapi**s still getting a job you think this would be the end of him. This level of consideration is never given to women and neither do you people spend time discussing it so much. Still how do you have a problem with him getting the consequences of his actions? Fucking disgusting.
amruta1009
October 24, 2021 at 4:50 AM
And just like clockwork despite my explanation people just decided to bandwagon which I suspect the comments to me made them feel better about themselves without actually having to do the work to understand the context of my original post. You guys are dumb.
nerdy
October 23, 2021 at 4:35 AM
Are you even talking about Dramabeans community? Because so far, I haven’t seen anyone defend him or being unironically destroyed over this (majority of comments were being dramatic, but it wasn’t all THAT serious). Am I missing something? At worst, the comments are about whether someone’s career should be destroyed over their messy private life, what imao, is a very legit discussion.
amruta1009
October 23, 2021 at 4:53 AM
Private… Yeah because it’s such a small matter /s
amruta1009
October 23, 2021 at 4:54 AM
Plenty of people are trying to make excuses for him there’s no way you don’t see that. SHE should not be blamed here period.
amruta1009
October 23, 2021 at 4:57 AM
Also I was saying this because I made a post where I said that I hope if there are horrible things people’s fave have done must come to light and I was asked if I wanted people to suffer as I did.
amruta1009
October 23, 2021 at 8:19 AM
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amruta1009
October 23, 2021 at 12:44 PM
The fact that by now 10 people liked this comment already tells me what I need to know lol
nerdy
October 23, 2021 at 12:56 PM
That you are overreacting and posting on a page where the majority of posts are about kdramas? You are also extremely rude to a very beloved website and a lovely community just because we dared to discuss an issue here.
To paraphrase it, it’s not that anyone agrees or disagrees with you about KSH (and you can see on my fan wall that I do agree to some extent). It is just that no one cares about some Korean celebrity as much as you do.
amruta1009
October 23, 2021 at 1:09 PM
Do you think I will be nice after reading all shorts of comments and speculations about her? It’s only after seeing people discuss so much both on the post and the fanwall that I am saying this so the fact that no one cares is not true. Go and read the entire comment section again and then tell me this. Read through the fanwall posts from the past three days and tell me this. Yeah I am going to be rude if people are going to act so disgusting. Plus not everyone is here like that thank god.
amruta1009
October 23, 2021 at 1:10 PM
Overreacting lol.
amruta1009
October 23, 2021 at 1:12 PM
Also why there some of are you personally affected by what I said if it doesn’t apply to you? Why do you care what I say on my own fanwall?
amruta1009
October 22, 2021 at 11:23 PM
amruta1009
October 22, 2021 at 10:19 PM
amruta1009
October 22, 2021 at 10:20 PM
Comment was deleted
amruta1009
October 22, 2021 at 10:21 PM
See my previous post for context
amruta1009
October 22, 2021 at 10:15 PM
I guess I should start using tone indicators and say some/ most/many, but I should also start making sure that my sentences cover every possible scenario in which I don’t get misinterpreted /srs
amruta1009
October 22, 2021 at 1:29 PM
amruta1009
October 22, 2021 at 11:59 AM