Beanie level: Errand boy

Someone said they were disappointed I said this website wasn’t a safe place for me. Who gets to call it a safe space? Does that cancel out me having to deal with how this wasn’t a safe place for ME?

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    I’m sorry this place is not a safe space for you. I hope you find one.

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None of the drama synopsis are sucking me in.

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    if you like true blue first romance vibes amidst winter… watch amidst the snowstorm. … it is so so well done.. shot in finland..and leads, overall cast acting, direction, script..everything is fine/good

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Were most of NJH bullying allegations really debunked? Or just one of them? When a lot of people come forward with these things its hard to take an actor seriously.

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These last few months makes me think way too many people are straight up evil. Bloodthirsty fiends.

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Nvm just rambling

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Why do people get more offended at someone not trusting celebrities and calling out celebrity stan culture than a celebrity not being a good person? Are the hot dogs merely hollering?

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If people talked about you behind your back and you know that because you purposefully tried to find out if people were makes you the bad guy?

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Is a place that allows NSFW fiction but that’s based on real children worth defending guys?

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    which child?
    and it is a thin line… fiction vs reality.. the challenge here is if this fiction leads to someone taking action in real life

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      People write NSFW fics of real life minors like that just sexual harrasment. If you have thoughts like that about real kids and writing it down it’s disgusting either way.

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        Like someone wrote weird fics involving me without my consent i sure as hell gonna make them pay. But i am not a child. They sure as hell never consented to that.

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        but you can’t pretend that kind of fiction exists.. what about all your chinese drama or even thai..
        r u talking about celebs or just regular people.. are these fics that clear with the identification? .. all kinds of weird things exist in fictional world, important is for it to not trickle down into the real society

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          Ao3 is a website that allows NSFW rpf of minors to exist. That means that someone can write an incest fic involving you and your relative and it doesn’t get taken down.

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            For example a youtuber who is a minor gets an NSFW fic about them but the person who wrote the fic wasn’t removed for doing that but for having free Palestine in their bio. Someone writes an incest fic involving someone who died in that submarine. Someone who hated an actress who had been sexually abused purposefully wrote her being raped. A kid found out from someone that an NSFW rpf had been written about them that kind of thing not all of them are celebrities.

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Anyone seen Amara here lately?

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I tell myself I’ll be on this website more but I keep on forgetting 😬

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I think my kdrama slump has ended. I have been watching the dramas that I couldn’t drop and I am planning to watch most of the dramas premering this month. Already started 3 new dramas.

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    🥳 Yay, you must be so happy. When we are without a source of joy for a period of time it really leaves a hole that can be hard to fill.

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    I have a list of unfinished dramas that I want to finish. And also this time I am going to be more strict in dropping dramas that bore me. Dramas that I am watching currently are Tail of nine Tailed 2, May it Please the Court, Delightfully Deceitful, Happiness Battle, Bitch x Rich and a few old dramas.

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      Wow it sounds like you have the week covered. My two must watch dramas are on Wed/Thursday; Race and The good bad mother but as Race drops both episodes on Wednesday I get to batch watch that and then I watch both The good bad mother episodes on Thursdays. I will have a big hole in my schedule when they finish. Looks like I will be back to reading the webtoons that I have been stockpiling.

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        I have acquired the habit of watching in 2x speed that’s why it has been easier to watch a lot.

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      I succeeded with Joseon Attorney where I expected better cause it has WDH but it was so darn boring in contrast I had no problem enjoying say Royal Secret Agent which I instead chose to continue with.

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      As for dramas I recently completed include Doom at your Service, Royal Secret Agent, Beyond Evil and One Dollar Lawyer.

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To all those who thought I couldn’t do it…

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I can\’t seem to finish dramas anymore. I am starting to believe I have lost interest in kdramas and it has nothing to do with depression.

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    It’s been that kind of year for a lot of people. Plus nearly everyone has low points where nothing or almost nothing is clicking. You’re not alone.

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Another one of my favourite actors has turned out to be terrible what else is new lol. See this is why I don\’t like calling myself a fan. As it stands now I won\’t call any actor/actress my fave.

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    Not that I took calling people my fave that seriously. They are human beings like everyone else not someone who can do no wrong

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      Not being cynical I don’t think every actor is a bad person it just means it’s easy to step back and disconnect instead of the first instinct of being defensive.

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I assume we still have a what we are watching thread I\’ll write about it there. Anyway I actually not just finished my Goodreads goal for 1000 books I exceeded it. I am at 1502 books so I\’ll stop now.

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Having only decided to watch kdramas from my unfinished watchlist this year instead of starting anything new there was nothing to talk about. However I couldn\’t stop myself from starting two new ones.

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It\’s always hard coming back here. Remember when a bunch of hit dogs were hollering feeling personally attacked for what I said? That was really something.

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