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One More Happy Ending: Episode 4

It doesn’t take much for a person’s emotions to get tangled up until they don’t know what they’re feeling in the first place, especially when they haven’t dated in over a decade. And on the flip side, flitting from one relationship to another can get you just as twisted up, if you never take a break to figure out if your feelings are real. Either way, nobody is approaching relationships in a healthy way, so how could they possibly understand when love is right in front of them?

EPISODE 4 RECAP

Backstage, just before an elementary school production of Romeo and Juliet. A girl buys an apple from a fellow student that’s supposedly coated with a substance that will make whoever eats it very sick. The girl vows that with this apple, she won’t have to see “him” kiss “her,” and that she’ll soon be playing the role of Juliet.

Something creepy and dark crosses the girl’s face as she approaches little Soo-hyuk, and tells him that this apple grants wishes to the person who eats it. He sniffs at that, but takes a bite when she shoves it in his mouth. So of course, when Romeo goes to kiss his Juliet, his stomach grumbles and he runs offstage to throw up, leaving Mi-mo alone onstage and humiliated.

Soo-hyuk trails Mi-mo home guiltily after school, but she’s not interested in his apology. She yells at him not to follow her, because kids are always teasing her that he’s going to throw up on her. Later Soo-hyuk tries to bring her flowers, but he sees her walking to school with another boy, and it breaks his little heart.

Now it’s happening all over again, and Soo-hyuk watches in disbelief as his best friend tells Mi-mo that he wants to date her. She’s confused, reminding him that he said she wasn’t attractive enough to get into a love triangle with his best friend, but Hae-joon just counters that it won’t be a love triangle, so… no problem. He teases her a bit for not understanding what he’s saying, and when she asks him to pinch her, he instead pulls her into a hug.

Moments too late, Soo-hyuk doesn’t stay to watch, and shuffles away dejectedly. He drives home in a daze, remembering how he stupidly told Hae-joon that he wasn’t interested in Mi-mo. His frustration turns to anger at himself, and he slams the steering wheel with his hand over and over.

Mi-mo asks Hae-joon when he fell for her, but he just says it’s a secret. He thinks back to his high school days, when a friend had begged him to go to the Angels’ comeback performance. He’d been dragged there against his will, but one look at the adorable Mi-mo and it was all over.

The next morning Soo-hyuk and Mi-mo find themselves in the same elevator, and Soo-hyuk gets all petulant when Mi-mo acts like it’s no big deal to see him. She notes his annoyance, and he grumbles that he’s just balancing out her overly-good mood, heh. He criticizes her heavy-handed makeup, and succeeds in getting her to fight with him.

Mi-mo refrains from smacking him, since he did her a favor last night, but she declines to elaborate. She flounces off to her car, but Soo-hyuk isn’t finished being petty and jumps in with her. He demands she do him a favor in return, and bums a lift to work.

He’s really in an awful mood, and everything Mi-mo does ticks him off. He says that he’s just realized he has a very cranky side to himself, and that he’s no different from other men. Even if he doesn’t want something, he doesn’t want anyone else to have it.

Mi-mo agrees that that’s the worst kind of man, because they end up hurting women. She advises him to let the whoever-she-is go if he doesn’t want her. HA, Soo-hyuk looks like fire is about to shoot from his eyeballs and incinerate her head. He snaps that “she” isn’t hurt at all.

He’s literally grinding his teeth in fury, but he adorably perks up like an eager puppy when Mi-mo says she has something to tell him. Mi-mo enjoys withholding whatever it is, which obviously tortures him. It makes Soo-hyuk yell, distracts her enough that she nearly hits a pedestrian, and now they’re both yelling.

Soo-hyuk finally blows, asking if she’s already forgotten what she was doing two nights ago and then last night, calling her a pervert. But Mi-mo has managed to justify her actions of the past few days to herself, convincing herself that the only sincere thing she’s done was her confession to Hae-joon.

Soo-hyuk ends up ranting to himself about Mi-mo, and his photographer Hyun-gi sits with him. He’s exhausted with the new baby, and Soo-hyuk says it wasn’t up to him when to have one, it’s up to someone else (meaning the mother). He asks if he looks old enough to be the father of a thirteen-year-old, and Hyun-gi is all, Yep, you look awful. Ha.

Dong-mi fishes for a response from the sexy oven-seller by messaging him that there’s no manual, with no luck. She’s so fixated on coupling up that she’s even jealous of her elementary school students and their cute little boyfriends, and makes the whole class arrange their seats by gender.

Mi-mo is ridiculously happy to tell Da-jung that the ER doctor asked her out, bragging that she can always find a new man quickly. Da-jung agrees that she’s not normal, ha. They make plans to get a cervical cancer screening the following day, and plan to take Dong-mi along with them.

Mi-mo has another interveiw with a potential client, this time an older man who wants badly to have a child. When she suggests marrying a woman who already has a child he gets huffy, insisting that he must have a son with his DNA to be a man. Wow, how about no. Mi-mo thinks that many older, divorced men are like this, desperate to leave their legacy in the world.

When the ladies go for their checkup, Mi-mo can’t help but notice all the pregnant couples in the waiting room. She covers up by claiming how happy she is to see that “Married” has been added as an option on the health forms. They get their checkups, and a doctor asks Da-jung if she’s ever noticed lumps in her breasts. Uh-oh.

After their appointments, the friends sneak a peek at Hae-joon while he’s working, and someone notices them staring — it’s the student who wrote Hae-joon the flowery poetry. She boldly announces that she plans to marry him in two years when she’s an adult, and Mi-mo gets into an argument with the girl over whether it’s even possible.

Ever the supportive friend, Dong-mi muses that Mi-mo probably can’t compete with that girl — she’s younger, could bear children easily, and has a generous figure. But Mi-mo bolsters herself with the knowledge that the girl won’t be an adult for two more years, so she has two years to get Hae-joon locked down.

The girl works her magic on Hae-joon at her appointment — well, at least she tries, but he’s completely disinterested. He even tells her that all women under 25 feel like little sisters to him, making her wail that her migraine is back.

Ae-ran reveals her pregnancy to Da-jung and asks her advice, and the pragmatic Da-jung tells her that how she feels about marrying Dong-bae doesn’t really matter anymore. She’s carrying his child, which means she’s been sleeping with him. Da-jung admits that she’s feeling judgmental about Ae-ran, which is at least honest, I guess.

She tells Ae-ran that since she wasn’t careful, now she has to be responsible for the baby. If she came here looking for help finding a doctor to do an abortion, she’s come to the wrong place. Ae-ran says that she’d at least hoped Da-jung would feel sympathy for her.

It turns out that Da-jung had a lot of trouble getting pregnant, which is why she’s so unsympathetic to Ae-ran’s accidental pregnancy. From her point of view life is a blessing, and she says matter-of-factly that if Ae-ran makes the “wrong” decision, they can’t be friends anymore.

Something makes Da-jung go home and take a pregnancy test of her own, but it comes out negative. She sinks with disappointment then bursts into tears, and has a small but loud tantrum that has Geun-hak knocking on the door in worry.

Mi-mo narrates that Da-jung was the first of the friends to get married, and that her husband’s family was so well-off that he never had to work. But they pressured her to give him a son, and she grew more and more anxious as years went by with no baby. They finally went to a doctor, and were told it would be very difficult to conceive.

They’d tried drastic medical intervention for nearly two years, and finally Da-jung gave up and asked for a divorce. Geun-hak had fought against the idea, saying that he was happy with just her, but Da-jung said she was miserable with the pressure from his family. She’d even been willing to let him have a baby with someone else, but of course he wouldn’t hear of it.

So they gave up trying, and the very next month, a miracle happened. Now they have a young son, Tae-yong, who is the light of Da-jung’s life. But something isn’t right, and the boy seems deeply miserable about something.

Dong-mi sends another text to the hottie who sold her the oven, claiming it’s not working right, and this time he answers. He even offers to buy her dinner to apologize, and she does the Happy Dance of Joy right there at her desk.

Mi-mo shops for something to cook for Hae-joon, and when she gets home, she sees Soo-hyuk’s son Min-woo locked out of their apartment. She’s never met him before and is surprised to learn that he lives here, but she gives him money to buy a new battery for the door lock.

He mentions his dad, and Mi-mo notices that he talks just like Soo-hyuk. He’s wicked smart and wonders why she’s asking so many questions about his father, and hilariously refuses to call her “noona” when asked. Mi-mo is annoyed, and is even more embarrassed when Soo-hyuk’s colleague (the one who likes him) arrives and Min-woo chirps a happy, “Noona!” at her.

She’s the same reporter who interviewed Mi-mo previously, Ah-ni, and the two exchange pleasant small talk. But when Mi-mo is alone she grouches that she’s about the same age as Ah-ni, so why is Ah-ni “noona” and she’s “ajumma?”

Ah-ni is here to talk to Min-woo, who’s been up to his old matchmaking tricks — apparently dinner the previous night was his idea. They wonder why their little plan didn’t work, and Min-woo advises Ah-ni to just give his dad more time to realize that she’s always there for him.

Soo-hyuk and Hyun-gi are on a stakeout, but all Soo-hyuk can think of is Hae-joon hugging Mi-mo. Hyun-gi has a new respect for Soo-hyuk as a single father, since he hates going home these days — his wife and baby are always crying, and it makes him cry, ha.

Soo-hyuk is surprised to learn that Hyun-gi’s wife confessed to him first, and that he initially rejected her. But it made him notice her, and Hyun-gi says that people who date successfully just put their feelings out there, and with luck it turns into a relationship. This is good advice, Soo-hyuk, listen to the man!

He realizes that it’s exactly how Mi-mo got Hae-joon’s attention — she confessed fearlessly, and it made Hae-joon notice her. He knocks on Mi-mo’s door to find her cooking, but she’s not interested in talking with him unless he’s here to apologize for insulting her that morning.

Soo-hyuk gasps at the amount of food she’s making, and grumbles to see that she went to several different stores for the best ingredients. Irritated, Soo-hyuk tells her that this isn’t special, because Hae-joon receives things from women all the time. That seems to hurt Mi-mo’s feelings, but she says that this is who she is — when she likes someone, she doesn’t hide her feelings.

She says that she used to think that being the one in a relationship who loved more was losing, but now she knows it’s winning. When you love more, you have no regrets when the relationship ends. She says it in this sad voice, like she half-expects things will end with Hae-joon, too.

Soo-hyuk looks sorry he lashed out, but then Mi-mo invites him to stay and taste her cooking. He snaps at her that he’s not Hae-joon’s royal taster, and actually flings some of the food around then stomps out in a huff.

Ah-ni is still with Min-woo when Soo-hyuk comes home, and she says she came to have dinner with Min-woo. She stays, and it’s painfully awkward when Ah-ni asks again if she has no chance with Soo-hyuk. He admits that there’s something there, but it’s so tiny, he doesn’t want to give her false hope. Even if they tried to date, he’d meet someone he felt stronger about, and leave her.

It’s such a quietly touching and honest moment, so when Ah-ni suddenly asks if Soo-hyuk likes men, he does a spit-take. He admits that he’s been single for thirteen years because he’s waiting for someone good enough to help him get rid of the guilt he still feels.

Mi-mo, Dong-mi, and Da-jung meet up to all read their checkup test results together. One of the tests tells them the “age” of their uterus based on health, and Mi-mo crows that hers is only twenty-nine. Poor Dong-mi, hers is thirty-five, which seems massively unfair.

Da-jung declines to share her test results, but something in them has her back at the hospital. She runs into Ae-ran, who tells her that she got checked out and she’s not actually pregnant.

She has other news too — she’s decided to marry Dong-bae. She realizes that she’s been selfish, taking a good man for granted and giving her “heart’s passion” too much importance. She’s going to try being married for a year, as Dong-bae suggested.

Da-jung had been at the hospital to meet with Hae-joon’s colleague Yeon-soo, to discuss treatment for a lump they found in her breast. Yeon-soo hadn’t been hopeful, saying the lump is in a bad place and she may need a total mastectomy.

Soo-hyuk visits the grave of a woman named Soon-soo, and oh no, if she died then this explains a lot about why he still feels too guilty to date. We see him as a new father to a baby, writing to Hae-joon that he’s coming back to Korea from abroad, to raise his son.

Hae-joon had read his letter and smiled at the picture he sent, and his friend (the same one who dragged him to the Angels concert) had opened a bread package and complained that he keeps getting Mi-mo stickers when he wants Seul-ah. When he’d left, Hae-joon had surreptitiously picked up the sticker, happy to have one of Mi-mo.

Hae-joon is surprised when Mi-mo brings him the lunch box she made, and smiles when she asks for another hug in return. She tells him that she’s still able to have children, which makes him choke on his food — I don’t blame him, that’s a bit of a jump ahead.

He doesn’t respond, which makes her babble even more, which makes him highly amused. He says that even if something is impossible it can still happen, but even possible things sometimes don’t happen. Mi-mo blinks at how even his deep thoughts are sexy.

Dong-mi waits for her dinner date, and though he texts that he’s on the way, he never shows. His phone is off when she calls (after several hours of waiting), and Dong-mi seethes.

Da-jung and Dong-mi both show up at Ae-ran’s place, where Mi-mo has brought all of her animal onesies for a pajama party. That’s the best idea ever. They drink while Dong-mi calls her failed date every name in the book, completely inconsolable.

Hae-joon and Soo-hyuk go out for drinks, and Soo-hyuk complains that everyone is dating lately. Hae-joon says that at least he’s noticing people dating, which means he may start dating soon, himself. But Soo-hyuk is pessimistic, saying that dating is too hard for him.

Hae-joon counters that it’s hard for everyone, but they just get up their courage and go for it. That’s the third time Soo-hyuk has heard this advice today, so maybe it’s sinking in?

Mi-mo gets home to find Soo-hyuk drunk in the hallway, and she wakes him up to send him inside. He stares at her for a moment, then calls her a promiscious goldfish, hee. She argues that kissing and hugging is far from promiscuous, and she tries to pull him up but ends up sitting on his lap.

She starts to get up, but Soo-hyuk grabs her arms to stop her, then takes her face in his hands. He whispers that he gets upset whenever he sees her, and Mi-mo (purposely?) misunderstands, saying that it’s just that she’s too close. Soo-hyuk growls that no woman has upset him in thirteen years, until now.

“I really can’t stand you,” he says, barely audible, and leans in to kiss Mi-mo.

COMMENTS

Okay, now we’re talking. I’ve been waiting for the real romance to kick in, and I guess with most dramas, four episodes of setup wouldn’t be unexpected before we saw some real emotional advancement with the main couple. But when you give us hot kisses and marry your leads to each other in the very first episode, your audience is bound to get antsy for more! I hope this means that Soo-hyuk and Mi-mo are about to get a whole lot closer.

Initially, I was hoping for more oops-we’re-married silliness, and was a bit disappointed when we found out so quickly that Soo-hyuk and Mi-mo never actually tied the knot. But I have to admit, seeing them at odds and bickering like kids is pretty entertaining too, especially since Petty Childish Soo-hyuk is so freaking adorable. He’s fun to watch, the way he gets grumpy just to see Mi-mo in a good mood, and pokes her for no other reason than to pop her happy balloon. It’s hilariously grade-school of him, and reminds us of how long they’ve known each other.

In this case, I don’t even mind the childhood-crush trope (much), because it informs how they interact with each other now as adults in a fun way. But I’m starting to get genuinely frustrated at the lack of scenes with Soo-hyuk and Mi-mo together, and we can’t see any of this happen without that. I appreciate that we need to give other characters their time, and allow everyone’s backstory to be filled in, but the show hasn’t been as cute and funny as it was in the first week. I’m not exactly complaining, because I like the show this way too — but I would like to see more of Soo-hyuk and Mi-mo together, being fun and ridiculous like they were in the first two episodes.

Soo-hyuk is a very well-balanced character, because as much as I love seeing him all frustrated and immature, when he really lets himself feel the loss of what he could have had, it tugs at my heartstrings. I just want to hug him and tell him it will be okay. I enjoy that he’s not fooling himself and pretending he doesn’t actually have feelings for Mi-mo, when he so obviously does — it always frustrates me when a protagonist denies their own feelings. I’d much rather see Soo-hyuk admit it, even if only to himself, and watch him struggle with how to handle the situation when he’s so woefully out of practice. He can be uproariously funny and hapless, but he’s also a mature and thoughtful man. When he does talk about his feelings, he’s refreshingly honest, even if it’s difficult to say.

He’s not the only one who’s got a lot of work to do on himself, because Mi-mo is even more of a mess than Soo-hyuk. Even though she just admitted that she probably is a goldfish, flitting from one thing to the next without stopping to analyze what happened and how to avoid it in the future, she still rushes headlong into the next crush without even taking a breath. The moment a handsome man shows interest she’s all aflutter again, and she doesn’t do any self-reflection, so nothing ever changes. She just keeps repeating the same shallow relationship and making the same mistakes, over and over.

It’s interesting how Soo-hyuk and Mi-mo are each at the extreme end of the spectrum, one of them afraid to date at all and the other who never stops dating (and how much do I love that for once, it’s the woman who dates a lot). They could learn a lot from each other, if they met in the middle and tempered each other’s habits. Mi-mo could certainly stand to benefit from Soo-hyuk’s ability to think through a situation and make absolutely sure it’s what he wants. And Soo-hyuk needs to learn how to jump in fearlessly when he feels something real, the way Mi-mo does. They just need to learn not to take it too far, and then they’d have a chance to find something lasting.

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Even though Mi-mo dates so much, you're right. I really love that for once, it's the woman who dates a lot in the k-drama, not the man. It's interesting and I love Mi-mo for it, even if I just want her to be with Soo-hyuk already.

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I agree to an extent. I do like that it is the girl that is dating a lot, however, I don't like the way that Mi-mo is so ready to throw around "I love you." I can understand her telling Hae-Joon that he makes her heart flutter, which is something else entirely.

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I want me one of those onesies. It looks like so much fun to sit around in those getting drunk with your best friends

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LOL... we had some for Halloween which were fun - a tiger, a panda and also a skeleton one.

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That final picture is Soo Hyuk's wet dream.

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4 pretty women in animal onesies! Can he handle it???

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I don't think he could!

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He's a passionate lover, remember? ;p

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Oh my, how could I forget that?
Uh, in that case... *mind in a gutter*

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omaygah hahahahahahaha

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I understand the frustration of not seeing more of SH and MM on screen together, but there have been other rom-coms where there is no other story besides the OTP, which makes them too simplistic to be interesting, (OMV comes to mind). So I willingly tolerate the screen time of other chars and their stories, if they are good.

Of the other girls' stories, Dajung's confuses me a lot in ep 4. She and her husband have been trying for (5) years to have a baby, and they finally succeeded, so what's their problem now? That IS their son, right? Shouldn't they be living happily ever after with their 7 year old son, since they have produced a male heir for his family? Or is one not enough? This is an example of when I hate non-sequential storytelling that deliberately leaves out a chunk in the middle to confuse us. As of now, it strikes me like their problem is their own psychological makeup. Some ppl can be happy come what may (like the 4 Stones who were in Iceland w Na PD), and there are those who'll find unhappiness like they are determined to do so.

Hopefully in ep 5 SH would get out of his rut, and go chase the 1st girl who can get him mad in 13 years! But he is only mad at her cos she likes someone else!!!

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Yeah, her relationship is rather mystifying to me as well. Since it appears that he is the one who wants to leave, perhaps he feels distanced from her because of the IVF issue. He was not enough for her. She was driven to the brink of madness her child and he felt like he was only a tool in her plans. Or since it was his sperm that were the problem, maybe she blamed him?

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we haven't had a chance to see his side of the story, so maybe on the upcoming episodes they would shed some light as to why he's adamant about getting a divorce. i remembered he had a line that he still cares of her, hence he's not dating other women, until they get the divorce.

dajung's character seems like someone who always does the right and also goal-driven. for her getting a divorce is admitting she failed, eventhough in her mind she didn't commit any wrongdoing. or i could be wrong... her health issues might be a deciding factor that greatly affects their future.

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I'm pretty sure that scene where she sees the failed pregnancy test is a flashback scene and not a present timeline scene... I think she had different hair in it.

The whole flashback that focused on Dajung's storyline made me really sympathetic towards her. The quest to have a baby really ended up ruling their lives and probably ruined their marriage. I hope through the course of this show they can learn to communicate, because you can see just how much they truly cared for one another. It's sad that even after fulfilling the family's expectation of providing an heir, it may have cost them their marriage.

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It’s sad that even after fulfilling the family’s expectation of providing an heir, it may have cost them their marriage.

Maybe it's not "even after", it's because ...
He didn't seem to be nearly as obsessed with having a child as she was.
I don't think for her it was just family pressure. I think her definition of family is very rigid and might not leave a place for him as a person in it.

Sometimes when you have a dominating problem to work on (like being childless), it's easier to overlook the fundamental differences. But once that problem is solved, the ugly truth emerges ...

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I think the child was adopted. Not that it makes any difference if he was, but it's sad that the search for a child ruined their marriage when it's so obvious that they truly love each other. Now, she might have breast cancer. Poor, poor woman! Wonder if the writers will use this as a plot device to get her together with her hubby and heal their marriage.

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I am guessing she signs the divorce papers now she has cancer, it pretty classic for someone very sick to go off on their own and die so not to be a burden...or some weird idea like that.

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I think I recall the narration saying she got pregnant a month after they decided on divorce, so I don't think the kid is adopted. I do wonder--since hubby's swimmers presented the problem in the first place--if they separated for a short while, maybe she slept with someone else, and that's how she got pregnant. Or maybe it's the husband's kid after all, but he doesn't trust that it is.

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I have experience with infertility and I am not confused by Da Jung at all. In fact, I was very impressed with how realistically this show dealt with the struggle of IF. People think of infertility treatment as taking a few pills or simply mixing some fluids in a test tube and calling it a day. The reality is that even for IUI (intra-uterine insemination) there is A LOT of medical intervention involved--hormones, ultrasounds, blood tests, etc.

For IVF the woman has to inject herself with hormones over and over again (they showed her doing one of these injections in the flashback) to stimulate ovulation and trigger egg release. Then the eggs have to be extracted in another appointment with a big needle. Then comes the test tube, then they have to evaluate and rate each embryo, implant the best looking ones and then everyone crosses their fingers and hopes for the best. The IVF success rates for women under 35 are less than 50% in the US and get worse as a woman ages. It is not at all unrealistic for a couple experiencing infertility to have multiple failed cycles, and they can be very difficult from a physical and emotional standpoint.

Imagine being on hormone therapy and injections for FIVE YEARS. Being hopeful for a baby and having those hopes crushed over and over again. BOTH partners often end up feeling hopeless and depressed, and it puts a lot of strain on even the most stable of marriages. And unfortunately that doesn't just go away when you do have a baby. I mean, having a kid by itself causes a huge strain on most relationships. With the IF background, I imagine they were already on shaky ground when their son got added into the mixture. *Of course* he is a blessing, but he's not a panacea. He's just a kid, and his parents are just regular people with real flaws--not perfect saints.

I admit I don't know exactly why Da Jung is so desperate to force her husband to stay with her *right now*--maybe because she feels like she fought so hard get this family she needs to keep it together even if everyone is unhappy. But I totally get all the IF baggage. I understand why she got cold when Ae-ran threw down a positive pregnancy test without any sort of warning (like what kind of reaction did she expect?). And I completely understand why and how it might have ruined everything even while providing her with what she always wanted.

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Oh thanks for sharing. I think you are making perfect sense. Viewed from that perspective, the couple should get themselves into counseling, lots of it, should have done so years ago.

On the one hand, I feel like I Have to applaud the show for touching upon such a sensitive subject in a 'side char's' story. On the other hand, Dajung's story is a downer, quite incongruent with the tone of the rest of the drama, hence many viewers are complaining that it brings down the zaniness of these 2 eps. I hope they'll succeed in weaving these very different threads together.

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I actually found Da Jung's situation easy to understand.

First, she married the seemingly perfect man - he's good-looking, loves her and is so wealthy he doesn't have to work. But that kind of scenario brings its own pressure. it's like girls dream of marrying Prince Charming - but in reality, if you married someone who is that of an "ideal" - it is difficult. You would always been seen as of "lower status" by the family and it is your "luck" to have married up. I have a friend who is in that situation, and though fertility is not a problem in that situation, she still suffers from endless snide comments made by the family.

Then it took Da Jung and her husband three years of waiting and wondering, and slowly getting more anxious about whether the baby didn't happen. And then they find out (and I suspect there's been a lot of comments in the interim as to how it must be Da Jung's fault) - that it's due to his low sperm count.

Then she goes through 5 years of painful, torturous treatment. Although her husband said it's not necessary for them to have a child, it is much easier for him to say it, as he probably does not face the same censure from his own family.

Also, there's something very draining and violating about repeated painful medical procedures - it slowly undermines one's sense of self, confidence etc. Da Jung went through 5 years, and even hitting bottom when they gave up. I'd imagine by this point, psychologically, she's a wreck, full of anger and resentment towards her husband, his family and her situation, so much so even after she did get pregnant miraculously, these wounds never really healed.

It's hinted in the show that the problem is that since the baby was born, she's refused to sleep with her husband and insists they have separate rooms. Her husband does want to be with her but wants a normal relationship, but since she's unwilling, he wants a divorce. I think she's a) withholding because she's still so angry with what had happened and b) she's not letting him go because either deep down, she still really loves him, or she's stuck in that emotional hell and wants to keep him with her.

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I Do try to understand DJ along these lines. Where as there is no right or wrong in a person's reaction to the curve balls that life throws, I think a person with a different personality would have reacted more positively to those draining treatments resulting in a baby that they've so desperately wanted.

The drama is all about showcasing the chars' wounds and flaws, so I think DJ's flaws are presented here for the world to see, just as the other chars flaws are. Instead of pushing her husband away, as he obviously still loves and treasures her (at least at that point), another person might have tried to work at rebuilding their small family unit for the sake of their newborn baby and their own. That's where psychology comes in. One person could drown in depression and drag the family down with her, not that depression is the patient's fault of course; another might have the mental and psychological strength to come out of the other end with more understanding and compassion towards oneself and life in general.
Too often depression is neglected as a sickness. I wish that couple would seek counselling, and find their way back to each other.

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Yeah, I think ep 5 just confirm a lot. That the husband wasn't very supportive even after they have a kid together. He just wasn't as invested as she is in being a parent and wanted a married life with her. Also, he can completely never understand the physical and emotional scars from her five years of IFV so they've already drifted apart during the ordeal. On top of that, she was ready to get a divorce right before she has the child. So she's chiseled an emotional crack in their commitment that couldn't be mended. I assume it was a matter of time before they drifted apart emotionally. I'm not saying that she's wrong or she shouldn't feel this way, but it's sad that she's holding him and the child as hostages in quite a loveless household. It's no wonder their child is always unhappy. He grew up in a home where the mom and dad are despondent to each other.

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I actually like it a great deal that they flip the story on us in ep 2, to show that they are really Not married. I'd rather see them work their way to being married, by getting close, cos they can't help themselves, instead of being forced to work out their anger, resentment and differences by a piece of paper that they got when totally drunk.

I also appreciate the 2nd surprise, which came at the end of ep 2, when MM fell for Dr. Hunk, instead of SH. It certainly throws a monkey wrench into their lives, esp. SH's. Besides the fact he needs sthg drastic to knock some courage into him, it's more fun for us: I want to see him seethe and suffer.

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Little Mi-mo is absolutely adorable! I recognized her from Signal as well, but haven't seen her in anything else. Hopefully we'll see more of her and little Soo-hyuk.

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She was the deaf girl in D-day.

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Ohh that's why she's familiar

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This drama has me so torn. I admit, I am not fan of Jang Nara (though I do like several of the dramas she is in), but there is something about Mi-Mo's character that just bugs me. I usually like aggressive women in Kdrama that know what they want, but perhaps that is the issue. She is aggressive, but seems to not know what she wants. =/. I hope her character grows on me, I like so many of the other characters in the drama.

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MM does come off a bit like an air-head; that's esp. clear in ep 1:
Who'd show up at a Special Surprise "Event" a bf is preparing w/o being invited?
Also, if she has been dating him for 2 years, and he has gotten another woman pregnant, shouldn't she have smelled a rat? Instead of boldly and blindly assuming that the surprise is a proposal for her? Why couldn't she pick up on any of the cues that he's 'cheating' on her? More accurately, he's cheating on the other girl w her. So I don't think she's a particularly bright bulb.
Then to just blurt out her confession to Doc, who just witnessed her drunken 'almost marriage' the day b4!!
The above tells us a lot about her personality.

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Hehehehe! I haven't enjoyed Jang Nara in anything she has done before this.... But I actually lovvvvvveee her in this! What a break from the normal k-drama heroine characters! Rather than an airhead...I see her to be a bit self-absorbed. She is in the pursuit of her own happiness and she doesn't care that she thinks she will only attain that by being in a marriage with kids... She's poised to be happy and complete. It is so refreshing a change in the k-drama heroines I'm used to!

Also, she is an independent woman. Has her own company. And refuses to spend eons getting over her breakups... Of course, there is something inherently inappropriate about that kind of attitude but I find it quite empowering to women that the male jerk partners don't get to have the last laugh. Lol!

I love this show a lot. It lost a bit of its goofiness this week all becos SH and MM had so little time together... It's fireworks anytime they show up on the scene!

I like the idea of independent women all dealing with their flaws...a bit of a Sex and the City vibe... With their perfect fashion... Except Dong Mi, lol! I don't have a problem with their style at all...

I see MM as an Elle Woods type character a la Legally Blonde... As in a person no one really takes seriously but can really pack a punch if she wants to...that the faux dumbness or airheadedness... Whichever works ;)

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Maybe it's not that she doesn't know what she wants, it's that she doesn't know what she needs.

She seems to think that she needs someone (anyone?) to pay attention to her and show interest. Not in a superficial way, I don't think she's shallow by any stretch, just not very introspective seeing is how she jumps from relationship to relationship.

She's searching for something in someone else (marriage and kids), but hasn't yet realized that happiness is more than that. Hopefully she finds it in Soo-hyuk, as I get the feeling Hae-joon will give her only the superficial desires, just a marriage and kids.

While I feel the show gives a little too much time to the other girls, I think it does so intentionally as reflection of how Mi Mo views relationships and goes about them. But yeah, she's got some work do on herself.

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Can I just say I love Dong-mi! Yoo In-Na is doing a great job with the character and I am more invested in her love life at the moment. She makes me laugh and although she really wants to date and get married she doesn't come off as desperate. Plus she is just crazy! The whole makeup scene?!? Poor girl!

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I love her craziness as well! She's my favorite character in the show. But she set herself up to be humiliated by that jerk of a man. Who, in this day and age, waits more than three hours for a date to show when it's obvious she's been stood up?! If I had waited more than an hour and my date was a no-show, I would've bailed. Whether it is considered rude or not. I've actually done it in the past. If my date doesn't have the courtesy to show up even an hour after the time of our appointment, then I don't have the courtesy to look like a fool, waiting for him.

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I just wish they didn't make DongMi so desperate - she is ready to jump any guy that looks at her twice and it's bordering on pathetic for me... I want her to figure out that she doesn't have to date, marry, and be in a relationship to feel complete! I want her love story to be about loving herself ?

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I love the meta reference in the scene with Dong-mi doing her own makeup. Yoo In-na's own show about the latest in makeup and skin care has her frequently talking about how much she loves makeup, and loves learning about it from the pros in the business. The makeup scene made me laugh out loud. She is doing a great job with this, and isn't afraid to take on the "least attractive" girl role.

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lollypip, you are so right about the animal fettish thing w/ SH that they actually bought not one but four animal designed onesies on their honeymoon shopping spree, hahahhahahaa...

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What I love about the characters in this drama is that they are all so flawed. They have so much to learn and grow, but are likable enough that I am invested in their journey. Whilst I think that Mi Mo does indeed step into things to early, and never really steps back to first investigate what exactly went wrong in each relationship, I admire her ability to just say what she feels.

I think Dong Mi is absolutely hilarious, for some reason. I really want her to have a romance with some not-so-pretty guy, with an average-paying job, just so she can learn that: money + good looks =/= love.

I don't know how to feel about Da Jung, because whilst I admire how honest she is, I didn't appreciate how she acted concerning Ae Ran and the 'pregnancy'. I completely understand why she could be angered about it, considering her own troubles getting pregnant, but it would be nice to see her being a little more supportive. Then again, I am really interested to see what exactly went wrong with her marriage, post-son.

And Soo Hyuk, Ohmygawd, could he get any pettier? Or any more hilariously adorable?

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i completely agree with you on how likable the characters are, despite their flaws. i think it's quite realistic how mimo is this strong, independent woman, but at the same time, are all over the place when it comes to her love life.

I can understand Soo Hyuk hesitations when asked by his friend, if he should be worried about Soo Hyuk having any feelings toward mimo. He does feel some kind of stirring for mimo, but they've only met again 2-3 days(?), how can he just jump straight up, when he himself don't really know what he's feeling.

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I've seen Da Jung - Ae Ran friendship dynamics in real life and my take is that Ae Rans and Da Jungs run on the polar opposite of the 'responsibility' scale and they're both aware of that.
But it's because of that - that Ae Rans gravitate to the Da Jungs because they kind of expect to be taken care of and pandered to and Da Jungs oblige because they're overly responsible until they come to a point when they say 'no' to being there as a friend because it looks like you're enabling irresponsibility.

Note that Ae Ran could and did have a chance to tell Mi Mo about it and looking at Mi Mo's response to Dong Mi's remark last episode that Ae Ran "deserved it", it's likely that Mi Mo is the most sympathetic member of the group.

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I think you're right that she felt Da Jung was a safe person to go to because Da Jung is responsible and a mother. Without knowing about the infertility stuff, she seems like the natural person to confide in about this kind of stuff.

HOWEVER, with the benefit of hindsight, Ae Ran was very thoughtless and really should have known better. I can't think of a worse thing to lead a conversation with your friend who went through 5+ years of infertility than throwing down a surprise positive pregnancy test. She could have at least led up to it more gently. And even if I don't agree with what Da Jung said, I can completely understand why she would feel the way she does and lash out in that moment, especially since Ae Ran knew what she had been through (she even whines that she thought Da Jung would be sympathetic in spite of all her troubles--talk about a lack of sensitivity).

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Casually watching this drama - Really liked the zaniness of the first two episodes, then the flaws of the characters really came out in ep 3 and 4... maybe that's good, mabye that's bad... will see where it takes us.

In general, sharing most of the sentiments shared on the comments here - Mi Mo is a bit too airheady for me right now (who goes through a break-up, marriage, divorce, and break up in the span of 48 hours?? The Hangover, girl version perhaps? - Hoping she grows on me), Da-jung's deal (Girl is all judgey when she can't get her life in order - which is kinda the point I guess, and I do appreciate that she's flawed. Can't wait for her to admit to everyone and herself that she's no better than anyone else)

But what actually bugs me alot is the ... palette (?) of the drama... Why is everything shot with a heavenly glow?? Brightness EVERYWHERE. And then they throw in a Fuscia kind of color on Mi-mo... just in case the whole feel of the show isn't shining enough.

And I know this is so superficial... but her entire hair and wardrobe... just everything about her appearance... just feels dated. Her hair reminds me of the Taiwanese version of Fated to Love You's Xin Yi (Jang Na-Ra's character) after her transformation in Shanghai... that same poofed voluminous hair with bangs. Even then, I thought the style looked dated, back in 2008. Then the extra datedness comes from all the bright colors - the REDS, the FUSCIAS. Is this in preparation for Chinese New Year? What's going on?

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@ whatis

Maybe the show's overdoing their attempt to continue the Angels heavenly ambience? :D

It could be to suggest that these girls are not realistic enough in their attitude to love and marriage. Rose tinted glasses abound, see... LOL! That's my guess.

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I think it's partly because JNR looks too young otherwise, and also that those bangs are 'in' in South Korea. She looks very good (and extremely young) with long straight hair, without the bangs, as seen in EP 2. I'm not too concerned about her appearance, but the palette of the drama bothers me as well. It's far too bright. I understand that it's a romcom, but it's strange to look at.

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I noticed the brightness too. It's brighter than real life. It glows!

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Thanks LollyPip!

This is a great show with nice developments, delicious conflict and lots to think about in terms of couple relationships, since we are given so many stages of a relationship to compare and contrast.

What I'd like is for all our 'gals' to take a few steps back to see their situations with a little bit of objectivity or have a view less clouded by emotion... ie with more sense than sensibility.

It's seldom touted, (but how nice if it were in this show) that love is not a feeling, but a decision and a commitment. The initial sentiments may point one to the possible partners one can be happy with, but beyond that, love does get to be something like hard work for some and happy work for others, but there's always work involved. (Communication, patience, forgiveness is tough! But there's also receiving, companionship and meaning in life).

I'll give an alternative ending below... but yes for the typical kdrama ending, ... I want to see each woman at peace with herself and recognising in each other's situations, how much they can learn about what really gives life joy. If each friend has found something to gripe about in all their different phases of a relationship, what does it say about what to expect about dating and marriage, after all. And yet, they look but they cannot see.

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And just to be 'naughty' ... How about for a change, if this kdrama dared to turn all expectations around.

***NEWSFLASH Ratings for drama plummets when endings go against the norm***
Dong Mi dates, dumps the guy, ends up alone but realising that she does not need anyone to be happy.

Ae Ran is married and has loads of kids and has hair that begins to look like Dong Mi's.

Da Jung gets treatment and her husband comes around at first (because she finally really needs him to be something other than a dad to her son), however they separate anyway because he did have someone else waiting for him.

Mi Mo finds Hae Joon is still mainly crushing on her and that she had merely been attracted to his looks, and ends up with someone other than Soo Hyun, because he never had the courage to ask her out.

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OK, I know we don't want too much reality in our rom-coms ... but it would have been really different, and after Reply 1988, could it be more aggravating? LOL!

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I like the way you think! *giggle*

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I didn't like:

How judgmental Dajung was. I know she apologized afterwards, but in the moment, her harshness must have been shattering to Aeran.

The way Dongmi took out her frustrations on her students and made the boys and girls sit apart. Way to perpetuate the cycle of skewed thinking about the opposite sex!

The way Ahni kept trying to "work" Soohyuk. Love is a gift freely given, and if it's not freely given, it's not love.

Which brings me to Aeran. If she's not feeling it, she's not feeling it. I don't care how nice her fiancé is or how much he wants to be with her. Nobody is entitled to the love of another person. Again, if it's not freely given...

I liked:

Soohyuk, Soohyuk, and Soohyuk. More scenes with him and Mimo, please!

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I agree with you about Dajung...if Aeran had turned out to be actually pregnant I'm not sure if Dajung would have even apologised about being so harsh.

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Why is no one thinking about how selfish Ae-ran was? She feels enough passion to sleep with the guy but not enough to marry him? And she decides to have an abortion all by herself without even informing the father of the baby? I know what Da-jung said might have been harsh but Ae-ran should be responsible for what she has done.

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Well, having sex and marrying are two different pairs of shoes, aren't they?

I agree that, when you are in a relationship and you get pregnant, you should talk to your partner about it before making your decision.

I also can see why that is difficult for Ae-ran: She wouldn't have any freedom to make a decision anymore once she tells her fiance.

(I'm not sure she made the decision to have an abortion at that point, though.)

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"Well, having sex and marrying are two different pairs of shoes, aren’t they?"
(How do you properly quote on this site? I've seen other people do it.)

I think the accusation is that she sort of lead him on? I can imagine him being a bit surprised and confused if she suddenly confessed that she didn't have passion for him after sleeping with him recently and possibly regularly before that.

I know some will disagree, but I like that she's decided to go through with the marriage. Mostly because I'd find it mortifying to cancel after inviting so many people, but also because I'm not sure that passion is everything. It obviously depends on the individual, but it's possible to be happy without wanting to tear your partner's clothes off. Maybe she was focusing too much on that one thing and ignoring all the positives? Or maybe she had the right idea all along. Who knows.

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I think the accusation is that she sort of lead him on? I can imagine him being a bit surprised and confused if she suddenly confessed that she didn’t have passion for him after sleeping with him recently and possibly regularly before that.

Well, sure. Very often partners have very different outlooks on their relationships and would be surprised if they knew the thoughts and ideas of their partner. That's nothing to apologise for. That's just normal.

Nobody is entitled to his/her expected future in a relationship. In Korea, the vast majority of romantic and sexual relationships don't lead to marriage.

But maybe she led him on, maybe she suggested that she wanted to marry him. In the absence of evidence ...

I know some will disagree, but I like that she’s decided to go through with the marriage. Mostly because I’d find it mortifying to cancel after inviting so many people, but also because I’m not sure that passion is everything.

I'm probably biased here because of my background. I come from a highly devout Christian family. Even though I am an atheist, I have a huge amount of respect for marriage. To me, it's not something you just go through because you already sent out the invitations.

It obviously depends on the individual, but it’s possible to be happy without wanting to tear your partner’s clothes off. Maybe she was focusing too much on that one thing and ignoring all the positives? Or maybe she had the right idea all along. Who knows.

Aren't there different types of passion? Maybe I'm a pervert, but for me, I've been passionate about partners in very different kinds of ways. And not always did this include both passion for sex and passion for marriage (which, again, to me are two different things).

Sure, nothing is really static, and especially a really long term relationship -- as marriage might be supposed to be -- means that you cannot just think about what you want and then wait for the good things to happen. (Even though K-dramas seem to suggest otherwise.)

All that said, I actually agree with you that she is too much stuck in her narrow perspective, just like the other three women. But I don't think being pressed into marriage will do her much good at this point.

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Even if I agreed that Aeran was selfish (which I don't), that's actually an argument against, not for, marriage and motherhood. Saddling a selfish person with a responsibility she doesn't want is not going to make her suddenly selfless or responsible.

It's actually a good thing that Aeran is being honest about her feelings instead of plunging headlong into marriage. Doing these things unthinkingly is how you get unhappy spouses and, worse, unhappy children.

Sure, people should be responsible for things they've done. But a lot of the time, when people say a woman should be forced to go through with an unwanted pregnancy, it's about punishing her for (gasp!) having sex.

I don't think Dajung gets a pass for being judgmental about this. So she had difficulties conceiving. What does that have to do with anybody else's life? While we should all have sympathy for our friends' struggles, that doesn't mean they get to use their problems to make us feel bad when we make different choices, or hold different views. And sympathy goes both ways.

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I don’t think Dajung gets a pass for being judgmental about this. So she had difficulties conceiving. What does that have to do with anybody else’s life? While we should all have sympathy for our friends’ struggles, that doesn’t mean they get to use their problems to make us feel bad when we make different choices, or hold different views. And sympathy goes both ways.

The difference is that Da-jung's opinion is in line with the accepted role for women in society: Their function is, first and foremost, to breed, at all costs. That's why Da-jung is much more entitled to sympathy than Ae-ran.

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MiMo & Hae-Joon couple happened too fast. Like, 3 days after you finished your 2-years long relationship.

Also, SH and MiMo had a very little interaction (when they are sober). Before putting MiMo in a seemingly perfect relationship, we should have more time for our main leads to be more meaningful to each other (not necessarily in a romantic way). I felt like everything is rushed.

I cannot stand watching Dong-mi. Her interaction with her students irks me a lot.

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Just out of curiosity I wanted to ask does South Korea have a national hospital where they give out free gynecological exams to women over 30 or is that just a plot device? And what's all this about aging a woman's womb? Is that stuff real or just made up???

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considering Korean culture and it history of treating woman as a man's shadow or property then it would not surprise me as being true. They likely think it as the cutting edge of feminism lol

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I don't know if it was your intention, but I find that your comment comes off as a bit condescending. Korea isn't the only country with a history of sexism you know...

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And considering you seem to know very little about actual Korean culture and history, I think you should shut your mouth and quietly watch the show. Korean culture has been flexible about women empowerment more than many Western countries and this is the same for countries like China and Japan. A woman founded 2 nations in a single lifetime. Women ruled as queens. Shin Saimdang is honored and even on Korean currency (take that, America). Women keep their maiden names upon marriage. Women back then possessed a lot of power even in a patriarchy and it makes me wonder why Western people view East Asian (and perhaps Southern Asian, too) women as "submissive," in the most derogatory sense of the word.

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Korean culture has been flexible about women empowerment more than many Western countries and this is the same for countries like China and Japan.

Very difficult to measure such a thing, to be honest. There are huge differences between Japan and China alone. In many aspects, women in Japan are more empowered, in others, Japanese women must feel like the middle-ages compared to China.

In the West, well, it's very different from region to region, and it's a completely different universe (as in: almost incomparable, not because of some quantitative gap) from the, err, Confuciussphere.

What I noticed though: We Westerners tend to forget how recently most of the advances in gender equality actually are, and how non-linear this development has been in our history. There is the misunderstanding that we've always been the most progressive culture, constantly improving. (Not to mention the conservatives who argue that we already went way too far.)

Shin Saimdang is honored and even on Korean currency (take that, America). Women keep their maiden names upon marriage.

That's cherry picking, of course. We could do this all day both ways (or, actually, millionth ways considering all the different cultures within the "East" and "West") without being any wiser.

(For example, I don't think that, in terms of women empowerment, Shin Saimdang can hold a candle to, say, Elizabeth I of England. I can also tell you that in my Western culture, not only do women typically keep their maiden name, they also give their maiden name to their children and husband after marriage. Now how's that?)

A woman founded 2 nations in a single lifetime. Women ruled as queens. [...] Women back then possessed a lot of power even in a patriarchy ...

Back then. Back then it's pretty much the same in the Western world. It changed a lot when nationalism came along though. Suddenly, women were pushed out of high political power, but into the labour market. Empowerment or not? It looks like a step back, but maybe it's necessary in the long run?

Same happened in Korea after the end of the monarchy. That's why it's not exactly helpful to discuss the middle-ages here. Of course a noble woman was a worth millionth times more than your average male slave.

Let's talk about today. I don't think you will disagree that legally, the idea of women as full-fledged citizens is much more novel to Korea than it is to the US (but not necessarily to other Western countries, who, like Korea, had laws up until the 90s that treated women like properties). Law is one issue, real life is another, of course, but what's the fun in discussion real life ...

makes me wonder why Western people view East Asian (and perhaps Southeast Asian, too) women as “submissive,” in the most derogatory sense of the word.

Well, i cannot but agree with you on this point...

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I'm guessing your 'womb age' tells you about its relative 'age' and health?

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I think it refers to the health of your uterus, your egg count etc, and the likelihood you have for pregnancy and the ability to carry the pregnancy safely to term. For example, women who get pregnant after the age of 35, are called geriatric mothers, implying that they are having a baby at a much older womb/fertility age.

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I doubt it's made up since the drama's supposed to resonate with 30+ single ladies. However, I cannot imagine the govt giving out free gynecological exams to females. For my country I think you get free scans to check for breast cancer after a certain age (because of how common it is), but measuring age of the womb? That's kinda disrespectful.

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off topic: In Italy there are free screenings for cervical cancer every 3 years, every women receives a letter in which she is informed about the appointment, one month in advance. But they don't tell you the age of the womb ;-)

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I wouldn't be surprised by the free exam. Not because of sexism but out of actual care and compassion. I think a free prostate exam is just as necessary. And we can't know if that's not offered as well becasue this show is about women, it's not trying to be offensive.

Healthcare is one of the most controversial issues but I don't think offering basic care is that difficult. I'm guessing with whatever Da-Jung is going through, she will have to pay for anything further.

The age thing is, however, a little fictitious. I recall an episode of "New Girl" where Jess and Cecelia get their uterus examined. They are give a count and it turns out Cece's time is shorter, which means she'd have to make the having children decision earlier. I think they can give you a basic understanding of a uterus same as a sperm count.

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I am in sympathy with Soo hyuk's photographer colleague, Hyun-gi. I too have days when I wish my kids were born at age 20, then I wouldn't have to do any work! I found myself laughing uproariously when he said, he cries, the wife cries, and the baby cries. None of them have any sleep, and he doesn't want to go home at the end of a work day. I felt like telling him to hang in there man, we've all been there at one point or the other when parenting a newborn. lol smh.

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LOL @Adal

I remember when I just had my first one I asked a dad of 5 kids how he survived and he said reassuringly, "It gets better. It's tough at first, but it gets better, don't worry!" LOL! He was right. The kids were and are great!

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I wanted to tell him, bigger kids bigger problems. Sometimes the newborn stage is great... Only eat, sleep and diaper change. :)

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I wish this episode aired 2 weeks ago. I got locked out of my apartment last weekend and if I had know about the 9 volt battery trick it would have saved me a lot of aggravation.

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I watch this drama casually and attracted solely because of Jung Kyung Ho,
and here I am thinking about Hae-Joon and Soo Hyuk friendship.
He openly said what he wants and even though I find him a difficult person, I like the way he did it, he approach her, then make her notice him and confess, there's a strange charm in that or maybe I am just a weak person for honesty.

I like that everybody got a personal problem in the drama, it not just because we're friends but because they choose to do something. the girls friendship is really cute....
I hope next week would be good because I love their interaction,

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I feel the trouble with the doc is he seems more interested in the Idol image rather than the real person.

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Well, every character here is not interested in real persons. Everyone is only interested in a certain image or function.

All four woman have that issue, but Mi-mo is the postergirl for it:
She wanted to marry her ex-boyfriend because trophy husband.
She married Soo-hyuk because marriage.
She fell for Hae-joon because safety.

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Yup, totally what I thought when I think about Hae-Joon's feeling towards Mi Mo. But then an idol crush can develop into mature feeling given the person cares enough and I think Hae-Joon has the keen observing ability to understand Mi Mo as a woman. However, we don't know much abt. him as a character and he might has hidden sides which are more cynical, uncaring and manipulative that even his charming honesty can't rescue...

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I actually like that they show doc to have been a fanboy. It makes his acceptance of Mimo's confession more understandable. Besides it being hilarious, w/o it, we'd all be wondering why he's kept all other women at bay, and fell instantly for his almost 'sister-in-law'.
His interest in her idol image lured him in. But now that they are in their 30s, he is old enough to see beyond that and get to know her as this loveable, silly woman that she is.

Of all the chars, I'm most curious about Doc. cos we know so little about him, and cos he is so Dreamy! What are his quirks as a person? What's his back story, his short marriage and divorce, etc? Why insist on a woman who has "gone thru a lot" but is pure in heart? Why no interest in anyone under 25?

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So I was watching this episode on viki and one of the comments said "soo hyuk you better not do a jungpal on us".

Funny enough that was the exact same thought I had. Lol reply 1988 has made me wary of shipping.

Anyways personally I have to agree with the comments above about mimo. The two episodes felt a bit lackluster compared to the first two so still not show whether to carry on watching this.

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:) i think we're all a little scarred from being jungpaled. I'll take a show that's got as much subtlety as a whack on the head for now. i need some R&R so tried tested and formulaic will work for me jussstttt fine!

I need Soo Hyuk to step up his game in the next episode.

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I was wondering what your thoughts are regarding MiMo's failed marriage...what her ex husband said about the reason their relationship ended....and how that applies to who she is today. Also, the relationship within the group Angel's and the dynamics with the Celebrity "can't remember her name" who was part of the group.

Also, I keep thinking about Soo Hyuk's flashbacks at the start of the show (first episode) when we see brief moments of his past with who we assume is the mother of his child and he says to MiMo, "you cry so prettily". Before he knew who she was he felt compassion for her...trying to rescue her from drowning, etc. I think his job is interesting too...he needs to be detached from what he sees, but he feels when he sees MiMo directly confronting honestly and bravely her ex boyfriend. I think that's the moment for him that clicked...was that scene in the restaurant.

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"She covers up by claiming how happy she is to see that “Married” has been added as an option on the health forms"

I think you meant "divorced"

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The shift in tone from the first week to the second week was surprising, but, for the moment, I like it. I'm enjoying learning more about the characters, their backgrounds, their histories, what drives them etc. I like how they're all so different and their reactions to situations clearly show that. It's nice.

It's not a show that I'm dying to see every week and I'm not waiting impatiently for updates, but when it's time for me to watch I find it enjoyable to just sit back and take it all in.

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Soo Hyuk reminded me of Prince Hodong from Princess Ja Myung in this episode for some reason. He seemed like a petulant prince who thinks he has total control over everything when in reality he's just a dorky guy pretending to be a big shot. Hmmm, wonder why I felt like those two characters are similar.

Anyway, enjoying the cuteness of Jang Na Ra's life, while the other three women seem to be having tons of drama. Yoo Inna's character at least has a lot of comedy. I am amazed that with drawing in freckles, bad make up, frumpy clothing, and frizzy hair they have done a fairly good job of trying to hider her hotness. She helps it out with her acting as well, but take everything away and the real Inna will show up :)

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Did we see the un-filed marriage license actually get ripped up? Or does Soo-hyuk still have it in his pocket?

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This drama is getting more interesting, we are learning more about the leads specially their flaws.

I hope Soo Hyuk fights to get the girl 'cause he is so charming and perfect for her

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I don't like/understand the Doc. I feel like he is cold, manipulating and calculating. He's playing games with her- I guess to protect himself or whatever..he won't take a chance unless he sets it all up first and is convinced things will go his way. It's very unnatural, which is direct contrast to Soohyuk warm and open...maybe he holds back a little but then gets impulsive and then allows things to happen as they happen.

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