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[2022 Year in Review] Bean of Shame

Bean of Greatness, Bean of Disappointment… what’s next? The Bean of Shame! It’s time to serve the bean that you give either to the drama that was legitimately shameful, or the one that you shamelessly loved. Because there ain’t no shame like drama shame.


missvictrix: My Bean of Shame goes to Welcome to Wedding Hell — except it’s not the sort of shame I was hoping for. What I wanted was a cute little drama about Lee Jin-wook getting cold feet before his wedding and basically being my fantasy fiancé. But no. Instead of what could/should have been a shameless, tropey, saccharine delight, we got a drama that was drier than the Sahara. Imagine an eleven-year-old girl writing a screenplay for Hallmark; that’s the quality level we’re talking about. And so, Welcome to Wedding Hell gets my Bean of Shame for being a shameful waste — instead of a shameless delight. (Lee Jin-wook, you better make it up to me!)

mistyisles: I don’t think it will come as a surprise to anyone that my Bean of Shame goes to Jinxed at First. I genuinely thought the show had potential, but it quickly became clear that Jinxed wasn’t interested in, shall we say, the same things I was. What could have been a whimsical fairytale about taking ownership of your life turned into… not that. But that’s actually not why I’m giving it my Bean of Shame — no, I bestow this bean solely for that one press conference scene where Jinxed had its women publicly defend the generations of men who had enslaved them, and not for any nuanced reason, either. It could have been an empowering moment for those characters to tell their own story with their own voices, but instead it was all about lying to protect their abusers’ business and reputation. That was basically the point of no return for me, though it probably shouldn’t have taken that long.

DaebakGrits: Since 2022 didn’t give me any dramas that I shamelessly watched, I decided to take the Game of Thrones approach, and if there were ever a K-drama that I wanted to march naked through a crowd of spectators while ringing a bell of shame, it would be Why Her? Shame on you for ruining a strong, confident female lead character! (*rings bell*) Shame on you for having a boring and awkward hot-for-teacher romance! (*rings bell*) Shame on you for bus-of-dooming a little girl for the sake of a cheap, last minute ratings boost leading into the finale! (*rings bell*). I could keep going, but I don’t have all night to rehash my complaints, which I made no attempt to hide in my later weecaps, which are such a stark contrast to my first few weeks of coverage. Oh, how naive I was in the beginning, thinking this drama would be an epic tale of revenge helmed by a strong female character. Shame on you, Why Her?, for disappointing your viewers.

Unit: I started Love in Contract for Park Min-young, and while it turned out to be one of the silliest dramas the rom-com queen has ever starred in, I came out a renewed fan of Go Kyung-pyo — or more accurately, his character, Jung Ji-ho. Like many shows this year, what was supposed to be a simple rom-com ended up being a mismatch of genres, but I never once considered dropping the drama — and it’s not just because I was covering it. Strangely enough, despite the many problems the drama had, I enjoyed it shamelessly. And if I had the chance to, I’d do it all over again to see more of Ji-ho’s cooking scenes. And his drunken self. And his interactions with Amy (Jamie) the cat. And posting his problems on the office’s anonymous board. And him just being his amazing introverted self.

Dramaddictally: This was a tough one for me because I don’t really feel ashamed of my dramas. If I made it through something I hated, that feels like crossing a finish line (I win!). And if I had a “guilty pleasure,” well, that just means I loved a drama! But when I thought harder about why I loved particular dramas, then I felt a twinge of shame and I knew exactly where it rested: Yumi’s Cells 2. I loved this drama. Beyond love, even, I obsessed over it — I’ve already watched it twice more since it originally aired. And while I loved Season 1 for all its wit and ability to capture the human psyche, there is no question that I loved Season 2 mostly because of Jinyoung. (To recap that: I’ve gone from analytical appreciation of a drama to a crazy, stupid crush on a boy.) It’s true that Yoo Bobby has a fan club for a reason, but the fact that I’m still rockin’ my “BB” t-shirt all these months later does feel a little shameful.

 
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I'm gonna have to give mine to Love is for Suckers, because even though it was pretty terrible I loved parts of it a lot (John and Ji-wan, of course), and I keep rewatching scenes from it even weeks after it ended. I'm gonna have to list it under my favorite dramas just because I've rewatched some of my actual favorites less.

Totally agree with Jinxed at First. I would say it disappointed me the most. And it had such a promising start (it reminded me of the film Penelope)...

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My Bean of Shame goes to Love in Contract. For the exact same reasons as Unit's
i) It created a Go Kyung-pyo fan out of me
ii) I got enchanted and warped by his character Judge Jung Ji-ho. I got enough of Ji-ho. I know it is enough but was it enough? I wanted more even though bi was full, I could sit it for more episodes if he's taking 58% of each episode time.

If you know how much I waxed his praises in the comment section episode in episode out, you'll see he earned my Bean of Shame uncontested.

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I don't really have a drama I could present with the bean of shame. But then I remembered the loveline in Bulgasal and the way my feelings morphed from incredulity and quick "nope" to actually enjoying its brand of (literally) bloody angst and appreciating how wrong it was.

Or maybe it's just the charm of Lee Jin-wook and the fact that his last decent drama was forever ago. (Was it Nine? Or Three Musketeers?)

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Shame is defined as "a painful feeling of humiliation or distress caused by the consciousness of wrong or foolish behavior" or
a loss of respect or esteem; dishonor: such as the incident had brought shame on his family.

I agree with missvictrix that WELCOME TO WEDDING HELL had a promising premise (anxiety filled prenuptials) that failed horribly in writing and direction. Was I ashamed for watching the entire series? No, just disappointed that like many shows it could have been much better.

It was more foolish for Song Hye-Kyo to continually be cast with a male lead 10+ years younger than her. WE ARE NOW BREAKING UP was an embarrassing mess.

But this leads me to the conclusion I reached this year that I have been foolish in accepting current, lesser quality shows instead of exploring older shows that I have not seen. I watched HAEUNDAE LOVERS, THE BABYSITTER, GO BACK COUPLE and MASTER OF STUDY which were much better than more than half the new shows I watched this year.

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I haven’t fully recovered from the mega let down My Liberation Notes was.
Deserving of my bean of shame

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Not a kdrama. But Maid’s Revengewas just so awful but I enjoyed it way too much. If you want to know how bad it was, you can find the episodes on YT. Prepare to binge! You have been warned.

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I feel no shame, that show was epic
I'm preparing the truckload of wine for my SIL and I to drink while we rewatch it

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Mine goes to SNOWDROP. The drama picked a very sensitive and controversial topic, upsetting countless people long before it streamed. The writer and producers were clearly forewarned. I was curious and expecting a well written, thoughtful drama, respectful of the importance of the topic, performed by good actors such as Jung Hae-in, Jang Han-na and Yoo In-na and others.

What I saw instead was a forgettable drama with inconsistent writing, needless sub-plots, countless plot holes and drawn-out melodrama. The politicians' wives were farcical, as was Jung Hae-in's death, taking noble idiocy to the extreme.

It is a shame that this script and production has ever seen the light of day.

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39 because they put 39 y.o women all round the world in a bad light ha ha
what's the drama all about??

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While considering this question, I tended to think of dramas that could have/should have been epic but ended up being... not.

With that in mind, I will pass up Love in Contract and Love is for Suckers (I Love both of these for different reasons, and I stand by that)... and award the Bean of Shame to Cafe Minamdang.

This one broke my heart by being so... non-epic. It had the premise, it had the people, it just couldn't pull it off. When you have a whack job ex-proflier chasing around another whack job who happens to be a successful serial killer... how is this not funny and action packed and crazy good?

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Cafe Minamdang's greatest crime was being so much fun at first and ending up being such a horrible boring slog.

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It arguably should be the ‘bean of shame(less viewing)’ as that is the pay off and the awarding of a bean of shame isn’t always congruent with the opportunity for shameless viewing of a stinker which still can delight some of us for a host of reasons.

For me, it was ‘The Red Sleeve’ (even though it finished at the end of 2021) as I found Junho’s acting mesmerising and came to really like Lee Seyoung but found so much of the script absurd, nonsensical and downright depressing. I was fascinated by the central historical figures and the tragedy of Seong Uibin, and can’t get over how this drama thwarted the opportunity to profoundly examine the trajectory of Deokim’s life, her resistance to losing her identity, her agency and becoming just an ornament/incubator. Instead, it was focused on a traumatised but also brutal and rigid monarch who has been revered in RL for his competent reign.

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The Red Sleeve is more of my bean of hate tbh.

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I don’t blame you. I am vacillating between the beans of shame and hate.

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I don't think I've never seen so much wasted potential in one show. Deok Im's character and story could've been legendary. But we got... that.

Maybe we could give it both beans. It deserves it.

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So true. It truly was a wasted opportunity given who Deok Im was and became, and the quality of the leads.

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Hmmm i was always under the impression Red Sleeve was greatly loved..or maybe that was just Jun Ho..hahaha..i kept seeing his pics on the wall when it aired.

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Junho’s acting is wonderful. The story sucks though in large measure.

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As a product of a strict Lutheran upbringing, I am all too familiar with shame and guilt as primary emotions, so I have two shows that I found shameful in their own right, but also as a bonus, made me slightly ashamed of myself.

The first, Good Job, was a slapdash show, neither good nor awful, that was shameful because it wasted exceptional romantic chemistry between the two leads, plus just tossing out there, with little emotional context, what was in my opinion the most tender kiss of the year. It also had a funny scene of aegyo with Kwon Yuri, which made me laugh as aegyo often does.

But then that made me start to wonder—is the reason I find aegyo as satirically practiced by strong female leads amusing is that I also find it appealing? Do I secretly and shamefully wish for my wife to call me “Oppa” and speak endearments to me in a cutesy voice? Fortunately, that proposition will never be tested!

The other show for me that deserves a bean of shame was Tomorrow. That show squandered a visually brilliant opening episode and what was on the face of it, a bold way of dealing with the tough issue of suicide through fantasy. It became a very sappy case by sentimental case show that portrayed a totally incoherent imaginary afterlife.

What was additionally shameful was that I watched the whole thing, even one of the stupidest fantasy episodes I’ve ever seen, of a dog wanting to commit suicide, simply because Kim Hee-Seon is so beautiful. Now, I enjoy watching a lot of shows partly because of the beautiful actresses—I will give the newest one, Trolley, a further watch partly because the star Kim Hyun-Joo is herself extremely attractive—but if that show, or generally any other show, even one starring Kim Hye-Soo, turns too melodramatic I’ll drop it. That I didn’t drop Tomorrow after that stupid dog committing suicide episode is a shameful, and it has prompted serious self-reflection, which I guess is why my Mom always strived to instill a strong sense of guilt in all her children!

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(Sorry for the italics of the last part of this confession. Not sure why an html command got in there)

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This was both funny and moving. I actually enjoyed reading the last few lines in Italics as it is a soothing font in small doses but more importantly, it was an inadvertent spotlight on delving into guilt and in its place in our consciousness. I struggle with an overdeveloped sense of guilt too and what you described resonated with me.

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Right, I'm sure the italics were a Freudian slip on my part!

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I see your Lutheran guilt, and raise Catholic guilt.

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Since my wife is Catholic, my mother in law made sure that I was aware that guilt is ecumenical, in fact extends to all faiths, except perhaps pantheism. I have from time to time considered converting to pantheism, and adopting as my main mode of worship the watching of kdrama rom-coms.

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Don’t leave out atheists as guilt is also culturally inculcated in many different contexts,

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I choose to think of the Bean of Shame as the opposite of a guilty pleasure (although I never feel guilty about enjoying dramas); it’s more suited to a show I feel bad about watching and that, if it had self-awareness, should feel bad for existing or at least for making the choices it made. I didn’t watch any 2022 kdrama that really lived down to that title - I guess I could cite Love Is for Suckers, but I’ve already gotten an advance on the next five years’ worth of Beans of Disappointment to give to that one and that's more attention than it deserves. But since this was my first year ever of watching dramas, I’m going to count anything I watched in 2022, so my Bean of Shame goes to Shanai Marriage Honey, a 2020 Jdrama that redefines ‘superficial.’ It’s a shamefully silly show - it feels more like teen fan fiction - and I feel shame that I actually watched the whole gloppy mess, although with extreme FFing in the later episodes.

And since it's Hanukkah, I'm just going to add my family's longstanding tradition that you have to give guilt to get gelt.*

*gelt is money, either real or in the form of gold-foil-covered chocolate coins; both are traditional Hanukkah gifts to children. When my son was taking middle school algebra, I gave him $5 on the first day, $10 on the second day, and then made him figure out a formula to calculate how much he'd have on the 8th day. I feel no guilt - it will give him something to talk about in therapy someday.

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For all that it was as fluffy a drama as any you will ever see I loved SHANAI MARRIAGE HONEY and even re-watched it. It was on the second watch that I realized that there actually was a message there, even a moral: "Happily ever after" does not just happen, it is something that a couple has to build and that starts after the wedding. Because that is what the show was really about: We watch a couple figuring out how to be married, including how to talk to each other and work together.

It may be no masterpiece but in fact it does deserve a watch- and especially for those times when you simply cannot watch something requiring real effort. It is a show to watch when you are exhausted but unable to sleep.

Yes, it is extremely light but sometimes that is what you need.

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Well if we’re counting j-dramas then both @elinor’s and your sentiment on Shanai match mine. I think the show gave me diabetes but I too rewatched it for the pure delight of seeing the FL’s giddy face. I sometimes wondered if her face ever ached from smiling that much.

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@Elinor: Happy Hunukkah! Please forgive my stereotyping but your humour and erudition often really reminded me of my wonderful Jewish friends but I didn’t have the chutzpah to bring it up!

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Omg, “you have to give guilt to get gelt”, how have I never heard that before? Fantastic! 🤣
A belated Happy Hanukkah to you!

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My Bean of Shame goes to JINXED AT FIRST for wasting a great premise on cheap Chaebol corporate politics.

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Circle back around to Jinxed At First. There was a storyline with a confusing family history involving the second lead where people were asking "This isn't an incest love storyline, is it?" Then, after multiple parentage revelations, the big 3rd act twist was it WAS indeed an incest love story line! The secret was revealed to the second male lead and it CRUSHED him! So that's my bean of shame, and its come by honestly because I did watch the series to the end.

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Remarriage & Desires:
Look I don’t mind a good makjang so I make an effort to try some out because sometimes they are so over the top and a delight to watch. Sky Castle is a good example, while I had my issues, it was fun and also had actual critique about society.

But R&D, while only being eight episodes, knocked out more of my brain cells than I can count, and I was legit dumber after watching it.

The women are gorgeous and smart and the men are boring AF (I had a little bit of SLS but meh)
Which is why it baffled me why these women were fighting and obsessing over this boring ass male lead. We also have the typical angelic mum vs evil seductress.

Kim Hee-seon’s role does a complete disservice to her as an actress. She was in Angry Mom one of my all time favs, why on earth did she do this horrible drama!

Jung Yoo-jin was great but her character could have been more complex and Cha Ji-yeon’s character is the one who played the game right and you know what I don’t blame her one bit. Take all that money from your old abusive husband

Anyway yeah Remarriage & Desires is my bean of shame, a lot of dramas were disappointing this year but this one was my most shameful watch.

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Bean of Shame goes to Why Her? for their awful use of the truck of doom. By far, one of the worse ones I've seen. So unnecessary.
The overall drama was poorly written too.

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And its another one I just had to drop!

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Since I can never remember which dramas come in which years, I will give my bean of shame to those dramas that kill off the nicest, kindest characters just for needless gratuitous effect. Summer Strike, here is looking at you!

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Ok, now that the cat is out the bag - I lump May I Help You in with this bean of shame :(

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When I saw the next post was Bean of shame I started to write my list of dramas and reasons why. So when the post dropped and I saw I had to pick one I couldn’t decide on which one to choose so decided not to comment at all. But reading the post had me in stitches so I thought I should comment on the two I connected with the most. @daebakgrits because I actually could see the scene and hear the bell ringing 🤣🤣🤣 the other was @dramaddictally because I was head over heels for Babi just reading the webtoon so when they had such a gorgeous real life version I was lost; forget his lack of cell village thinking insights who cares, have you seen his face? I was so glad they changed the webtoon so was convinced right up to the end that he would be the end game for her. The harsh reality drop was hard to get over and I am still rocking the T-shirt too. I now get all those characters who can’t let go of their first love…

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Now that all y’all are reminiscing about Babi, I don’t care either that we never really saw his village. When he was making pizza and let her meet her freaking ex on Christmas without one word of derision, I was sold, hook, line, and sinker. I was a goner. Yumi made me throw things in season 2. I just wanted what was best for Babi. That was the difference for me. In season 1 I wanted what was best for her.

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Yes, that one decision on their first Christmas together was the sign she was not as into him as he was into her. I was steaming, as we all know, if he had tried that move with an ex girlfriend, he would have been wearing the pizza. 😡 still bitter now

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@dramaddictally!!! You have a “BB” shirt? I might have to see this. Keep rocking the shirt. I support you! 😂 And OMO! So many terrible dramas this year. Is it just me, or did it seem like every screenplay (no matter how terrible) made it out of whatever vetting process is used to make sure you don’t have a stinker? What about the me too movement of a couple years ago? Have writers forgotten how they are catering to western viewers as well? Jinxed was terrible. I dropped it like a the hot mess it was within the first half. I didn’t see the others at all, thankfully.

My bean of shame, though, really could have been from the beginning of the show, but started refreshing and effervescent, and that was Cheer Up. I really, genuinely, enjoyed this show until the last 4 episodes when all the loose ends should have been tied up neatly. It wouldn’t have been that hard. But the jealous loser-kid- would-be-murderer-character-who-really-had-no-charisma-as-an-actor took up too much screen time, and the prophesy went nowhere, and the love triangle that just became painfully dull by the end. I FF all the parts towards the end that looked dumb thanks to DB recaps that I read prior. The only saving grace was the FL and Bae In Hyuk. They were adorable. I was expecting something more like Extraordinary You—which is ironic because I haven’t actually seen it—in terms of chemistry of actors. Maybe I should just watch EY instead…House on Wheels with the main cast keeps appearing on my feeds and they are so endearing!

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And I just realized that @dramaddictally may have been referring to a figurative T-shirt, not a literal one! I still support it because I love Babi too. Well, mostly Jinyoung; he was the perfect Babi. Do we know who the 3rd and final boyfriend is???

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The t-shirt is the one the cells wore in the secret fan club!
My understanding is that we are not going to see the third boyfriend and they are going to leave it at the email she received and those who read the webtoon recognise the name so know that’s him. It annoyed me so much that we saw the wedding of people we didn’t care about but not hers, it was worse than no wedding in A Business Proposal.

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Yes. I was also hoping she bought a literal T-shirt modeled from those cells! I could probably make her one…

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There would be a queue of us putting our orders in❤️

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Love it 😍

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😮 @ally-le! Now I just have to decide what sizes! You are great!

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I was indeed referring to a figurative T-shirt. But if I could get my hands on a real one...

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I looked for a real T-shirt or a doll of a cell wearing the T-shirt and found nothing! 😞

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Sounds like one of us needs to go into business.

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Redbubble has tshirts! See the link above! Merry Christmas!

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Great find!

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My bean of shame goes to Snowdrop because I [shamefully] devoured the show week-after-week. The cast was stacked, the college dorm setting was inexplicably magical, and the show was just the right amount of melodramatic for what I wanted at the time.

Since I was so committed to watching this show, I made sure to engage its subject matter critically while viewing it. I followed critiques online, read a bit about the time period/setting, and interrogated the writing and production choices. The show was, unfortunately, quite sympathetic to the oppressive government, from the portayal of the Heo Joon-ho character as an underdog/downtrodden when he's the 2nd or 3rd most powerful person in the country and completely down with maligning and killing students to choosing to make Jung Hae-in's character's cover "student protestor." As I watched, I couldn't help but think of even small decisions this drama could have made that wouldn't have played into the lies a real-life repressive regime told about its own people just to remain in power.

But the story this drama wanted to tell was the one it told, and so it's shame on me for enoying it as much as I did. As tuned in as I was, this is not a show I'd recommend to anyone else.

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Oh @unit! I watched it with you and loved it for all the reasons you stated! And now I have a new actor to love-GO Kyung Pyo!

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Well this seems to be a Tough Bean Year for me, i have no BoS to give out.

More importantly, are we gonna get more full length year-end reviews from @db-staff soon?

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My bean of shame goes to a drama that I shamelessly loved: Bad Prosecutor.

I've already said a lot in the comments and in my review, but really my love of this drama comes down to two things: my love of Doh Kyung-soo and my love of action films. Those two things kept me having fun despite the plot convolutions, sketchy moral decisions, and simple characters. At it's core, it's the story of an unlikely group of allies trying to take down a powerful man against all odds with plenty of action thrown in just because it's fun, and that is a core that I can get behind almost every time.

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