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[K-drama Treasure Hunt] Visiting an orphanage from childhood

Welcome to the K-drama treasure hunt, where we all go looking for K-drama treasure in the form of tiny drama details that we know and love. Sometimes these details take the shape of well-worn tropes (oppa Band-Aiding) or storytelling devices (Top Secret Deadly Allergy), but other times it’s just details we know we’ve seen in other dramas, but need help putting all the clues together.

Each week we’ll put you on the hunt for a piece of K-drama treasure, and you can report your findings in the comments.

There’s no umpire in this game, so if you find the detail we’re looking for, drop the drama title (or even better, drama title + episode number) in the comments, and we’ll all take your word for it. Or, we’ll go binge watch just to see it play out.


This week’s treasure:

Characters visiting an orphanage from their childhood.

 
Your mission:

Track down all the scenes where a character goes to visit the orphanage they grew up in. This could be a character on the hunt for their birth parents, or someone paying a visit to the lovely nun that raised them (like our second lead in Business Proposal). No matter the reason, if someone makes the trek to the orphanage of their youth, it counts!

Thanks to @darwi for this treasure hunt idea!
 
Reference drama:

Business Proposal (Episode 10)


 
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THIRTY NINE
Sohn Ye-jin’s character visits her previous orphanage from time to time.

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The worst scene was in the finale when SYJ returns ALONE to tell the child she was adopting him. Clearly, it was a post-filming re-shoot to drop in a "happy" moment for the ending.

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School 2015 Both of the twins return back to the orphanage where they were raised

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You beat me to it. One of the first dramas that got me into Kdramas. Kim So-Hyun is such an accomplished and lovely actress and I am eagerly waiting for her upcoming drama this year.

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1% of anything— he went back to the orphanage he came from, where her mom worked, right?

Fated to love you— the 2nd male lead went back to the orphanage to work.

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Frak there's so many I won't be able to remember them all
Kill It
You Are My Spring
Stealer
I can see at least three more scenes in my head right now but I can't remember what dramas they're from...

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Stealer is the most recent example I've seen!

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Avengers social club the husband makes his wife go back against her will as part of his election campaign.

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Wish upon me male lead goes back I think to find out if anyone ever looked for him and the woman running it was quite cold and horrid in her response to him.

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Business Proposal
Kiss Sixth Sense
The Beauty Inside
Good Job
Be Melodramatic (maybe he didn't grow up there?)
Love in Contract (at least one character visits, not sure if it's the FL who grew up there)

The existence of enough orphanages for a whole trope is appalling.

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LOL Obviously I didn't even read the prompt all the way through, this is just off the top of my head minus the ones @sicarius and @ally-le mentioned. Also Romance Is a Bonus Book has an orphanage volunteer day but I don't recall that any of the characters had lived there.

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I think Kiss Sixth Sense and Love in Contract were at least two of the ghost ones haunting my head. But they almost might be additional ghosts to the three I was initially thinking of.

I KNOW there are more crime/thriller ones. That's why I joke about clones and Kill It all the time- because of the creepy orphanages. But what are they...

Does I Remember You/Hello Monster have the orphanage, or just the orphans? (a lot of orphans, and the creepiness).

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I'm not sure, but just the orphans in Hello Monster.

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Similarly not-quite-on-topic, but with luck the moderators will let it slide 🙃…

The orphans that stick in my head are the OTP from Once Upon a Small Town. I don’t remember if the drama makes it explicit, but I currently am left with the impression that neither of them grew up in orphanages, but instead had other family/found-foster families.

The show spends some time, as does Thirty-Nine, working through the cultural biases against orphans, as if this were something the kids had control over(!)…which was no small feat for such a delightfully, light rom-com. I mean, no world problems were solved or anything, but I remember how touching it was for these two orphans to back each other up.

Seriously folks, if you’ve not seen Once Upon a Small Town, it’s a really sweet watch.

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Yes, I was surprised by the number of orphanages in dramaland.
I hope this is just because of the trauma possibilities.

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The Smile Has Left Your Eyes : I think they went to see the ML's orphanage.

Heartless City : the ML went and visit his friend at the orphanage.

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Yes to The Smile Has Left Your Eyes. Moo-Young visits the orphanage with Jin-Kang to look for answers about the childhood he only vaguely remembers.

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Roy Kim was adopted, and he visited the orphanage he grew up in to find his birth parents in Episode 4 of Doctor Cha.

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…right, and poor Roy had two things going against him culturally in this drama (see @welh640’s point below)—he was both an orphan and not-Korean/American due to his being adopted out-of-country (something that was also the case for Park Mo-gun/Morgan in Search: WWW).

It would be interesting if folks might be willing to contribute their commentary on the narrative roles that being an orphan had on the plots of these shows.

For example, sometimes folks are going back to their orphanages to find their parents (like Roy) while other times they’re going back to “give back” (like in Business Proposal).

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L.U.C.A: The Beginning Kim Rae-won's character visit to get revenge from orphanage where he was made.

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There was such scene in ISLAND Part1, I believe. Many other dramas too, but it's been too long and I can't remember anything else(((

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Yes, Cha Eun Woo's character visited the orphanage he and his brother grew up in.

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I already forgot about Island. 😂

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I sort of wish I could too...

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Two Cops

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In Youth of May both FL and ML go to an orphanage but to provide medical care to the children.

In When The Camellia Blooms FL visits her orphanage.

In Fated to love you Second Male Lead goes to his orphanage too.

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You’re All Surrounded, Daegu goes back to his orphanage to try and hide his true identity. I can’t name the episode off the top of my head.

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I KNEW You're All Surrounded was one. Thank you.

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I've been trying to think of that one the past two hours, you saved the rest of my day!

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Uncanny Counter - one of the demons grew up in an orphanage and a major fight happened there

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Be Melodramatic - Eun Jung and Seon Seok Gu (director) meet again at an orphanage and end up spending their weekends there. Their conversations in the orphanage were memorable to me.

I am sure there is a mine field of dramas with orphanages. 1% of something may be. Heartless city.

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Mad Dog: Woo Do Hwan's character visited the orphanage he and his brother grew up in to find out more about the other two women that were linked to the aeroplane crash.

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Do orphanages still exist in SK? I often wonder about this but haven’t researched it. In the west at least, orphanages no longer exist as they were and it might be the same in SK even if the subs still call them orphanages. Clearly the sad fact is that children in state care are/were either surrendered because of economic hardship and other societal shitty pressures or have/had the misfortune of not being wanted. Btw, it is outrageous that a developed economy cannot find homes for these precious children within SK. I know about the cultural issues and they suck. It must be so hard for these children to adjust to a new country and culture. Don’t get me wrong. I know there are many loving adoptive parents but for so many kids it must be wrenching being taken from their homes.

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During the past 70 years, more than 1 million children have grown up in orphanages in Korea, with 6,000 young adults annually aging out of the system at age 18. Even though many have living relatives, they are labeled “orphans” and face stigma. This is a result of parents who could not take care of their children. They dropped them off at orphanages but did not lose their parental rights.

With no blood line to trace, orphans are at the lowest caste of Korean society and were treated as a “nonperson.”

The international adoption of South Korean children was at first started in 1953 as a result of a large number of orphaned mixed children from the Korean War. More than 600,000 children, mostly girls, were adopted in the United States. South Korea earned the label of “child exporting country.” However, the laws were changed to restrict foreign adoptions partly because of the country’s shame of not taking care of their own and the fact adoption itself was a taboo subject in society. The taboo arises because the importance of blood-lines in Korea is ancient and deep-rooted. Korean Confucianism places great emphasis on ancestors. In 2005, only 1,200 Koreans were foreign adoptions. By 2015, it was only around 120.

South Korean adoption law requires that children be available for domestic placement for up to 5 months before becoming available for international adoption. My understanding that there are two types of adoption under the Korean legal system. One is a private adoption and the other one is a foster care/institutional adoption. The former was a private person giving up their child through a private agency while the latter is adoption of a child in orphanage or government program that had to have court approval. Recently, private adoptions fall under government restrictions and court approval which could take 2-3 years to finalize.

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Thank you for sharing your knowledge and always enlightening us fellow beans about Korean culture.

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You have so much interesting info to share with us, thank you!

I thought I read somewhere that many babies of unmarried women were placed in orphanages. This was something to do with their being unable to register the child's birth as a SK citizen because they needed the father's name and signature? So these women were forced to make a terrible choice: either raise an unregistered child who would be ineligible for many services or opportunities or give away their child to an orphanage where they could be registered though without parents/bloodlines. I'm not sure if I remember this accurately but I sure hope this is not still the case for single moms.

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The SK system is confusing and complex. Birth certificates are created at the hospital and not by a government agency. The government has a birth registry which adds children to a family (clan) ledger. All births are to be registered within 30 days after birth (it includes many documents from both parents). Only when a child is registered does he/she has full citizenship rights to health, education, etc. If one of the parents is a foreign national, it gets more complex. A Korean man cannot register the birth without the mother and government approval. A Korean woman can register her child on her clan register without any approvals.

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Do orphanages still exist in SK?

Yes. Many. As you say, there is cultural/economic pressure on unmarried mothers, lack of acceptance of adoption within Korea, and laws that perversely incentivize abandonment. As @welh640 notes, there are over a million Koreans who grew up in orphanages and most reach adulthood without ever being adopted. The number of babies abandoned after birth and placed in orphanages has increased since 2012 when a well-meaning but misguided law, intended to reduce often abusive international adoptions, required mothers to register a birth and thus made it more difficult to hide the fact they'd had a child and the associated stigma.

The part of the orphanage trope that strikes me as especially unrealistic is when the character who grew up in one goes to college, has a successful professional career, and gets married - all of those are much harder for orphanage kids. The abusive child-trafficking "church"/orphanage in You Are My Spring is based on at least one real case, though.

I'd be more tolerant of the "visiting the orphanage" scenes if every one included a nod to how they represent a massive ongoing societal failure for children. But hey, it's just entertainment.

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Speaking of failure, Yonhap News reported today that more than 2,000 babies born since 2015 in South Korea were undocumented after birth, and a sample investigation of 23 of them showed at least three died and another was abandoned, the state auditor said..

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On a different but related horrifying note, I’ve been reading about the Magdalene Laundries in Ireland and how they brutalized and used poor women as slave labor between 18th-20th centuries. Many children lived with their unmarried mothers in these institutions run by the Catholic Church. In 2017, the skeletons of 800 babies was found in County Galway, Ireland buried in a septic tank.

The brutality of humans is endlessly terrifying.

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Her Private Life? But I can't remember if they visited the orphanage Ryan was at, or just a random one.

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A tangential point: It still makes me laugh when “Ryan” was called “lion” and the Korean word for it (사자) used by Ahn Bohyun’s. character. A Judo himbo.

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The art gallery staff goes to the orphanage to do art projects with the children, and Ryan goes along. (I’m pretty sure it was the one he was in.) Deok-Mi tries to get him to draw along with the kids, but he’s still suffering from “painter’s block.” She manages to get him to do a simple tracing of his hand—I don’t remember if they used it to draw a Thanksgiving turkey…

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FYI for those of you who may not familiar with the hand-tracing turkey: this art project is one of the rites of passage for American elementary-school students around the Thanksgiving holiday, where turkey is part of the traditional menu.

Try it for yourself! https://www.instructables.com/Make-a-Hand-Turkey/

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Miss Ripley, she visits the church or orphanage (in any case, there's a nun there) as does her mom. Melodrama ensues.

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In Mother, I recall they camped out at what was once her orphanage?

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It seems like there are soooooo many yet all I can remember are Dr Cha and Be Melodramatic 🤦🏼‍♀️

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My nominee: CURTAIN CALL (2022) (Viki US). Wonderful scene in episode 4 (at 34.52) where Sang-cheol (Sung Dong-il) is visiting his old orphanage from 30 years before and chatting outside with Sister who tells him the amount of a (for her) large donation from a former resident now actor (Kang Ha-nuel). When SC hears the amount his eyes go wide and he says a bit too loud to himself, as only Sung Dong-il can say, “Oh, this bastard kept a lot for himself.” Which got an “Excuse me?” from Sister. It was great.

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Love that you put the time stamp! Those are some serious treasure hunting skills.

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Hyena - As children, Geum-Ja and her friend Detective Park were in an orphanage where they were abused, and where he kept her from committing suicide. It turns out that one of the reasons that she’s so obsessed with the law office’s fancy building is that it was built on the site where the orphanage used to be.

Cinderella and the Four Knights - Yoon Sung’s mother (Grandpa’s latest wife) takes clothes and toys to an orphanage, where the kids all call her “Mom.” Apparently, she does this out of guilt for being such a lousy mother to her own son.

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Do they go back to the FL’s orphanage in Good Job or is it just talked about a lot?

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They do go there - at least once, maybe more.

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I don't remember if there was an orphanage visit in Start Up. I do remember wondering if it's true for Korean orphans like Kim Seon Ho's character, when those raised in orphanages age out at 18, are they simply released with a small amount of money?? Not enough money to rent a safe place or have enough to eat or references or education to obtain a decent job. If true then it's no wonder so few become successful. Without the grandma's help in that drama this character would have been in an awful situation. That struck me and left me feeling so sad for these individuals. On top of never having had a family or anyone who cared for or supported them outside of those paid to do so. Does anyone here know what provisions 18 year old former orphans are given?

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In 2021, SK announced that it would increase the orphan emancipation payment from $5,000 to $10,000 and would add additional programs such as a $300/month living allowance up to 5 years, and educational and counseling programs. Whether that plan was fully implemented is unknown. A good number of aged out male orphans join the military to serve their mandatory service.

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Thank you for sharing this. I hope they did implement it. Counseling too, that's great as it sounds like SK is not yet very accepting of treatment for mental health. Military service would provide for basics like housing and food, but I doubt it would help in obtaining employment afterwards as all men must serve.

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It's been a couple of years but didn't the ML in MY HOLO LOVE (the human, not the hologram) grow up in an orphanage that they visited in one ep?

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Yes, I came here just to post this because MHL is my all-time favorite drama.

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It's a really excellent one for sure. I can never seem to pick just *one* favorite drama but it's definitely in my top contenders!

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I consider it my top favorite because the only drama that I have rewatched again and again through the whole thing, not just specific parts or episodes (the other one is Hello Me, but I've rewatched it fewer times)

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Since I literally just finished this drama, kiss six sense! Where the main lead visits the orphanage he grew up in every second Saturday of the month. It also holds some significance for him and the FL

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Not so much a single scene but rather multiple recent scenes from the currently airing daily drama APPLE OF MY EYE where our FL has apparently been volunteering at the orphanage from which she was adopted into a wealthy family- and her birth father who left her there has also been delivering bread to that same orphanage (he is now a baker). The Abbess or Mother Superior in charge knows the relationship and always appears to be guilty in concealing it. Of course, eventually the truth will out but until then.....

BTW- have you noticed that orphanages in Kdramas are almost always run by the Catholic Church? I know that Catholics are over twenty percent of the population of the ROK but this seems to be a bit of stereotyping?

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Thanks @dramaddictally to allow me to fill up my trope list by having this treasure hunt.
When I submitted this scene, I had 5 dramas : You're all surrounded, If you wish upon me, Business proposal, Liar games and My holo love. I'm eager to read what others beanies have observed.

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Whoa! 30 dramas, that's a successful treasure hunt, and a great reading of the discussions.

Thanks a lot to @welh640 for the cultural and historical information.

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