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Live Your Own Life: Episodes 14-15 (Drama Highlights)

As usual, Hyo-shim’s family is one big grievance. This time, it’s her middle oppa Hyo-joon who is the source of her troubles. He assaults an acquaintance after the man (a newly minted lawyer) goads him over his many failed attempts to pass the bar. Lucky for him, aspiring actress Mi-rim used to be a hotshot lawyer and has the know-how and connections to get the man to settle. But it’s like not Hyo-joon will be paying that – oh no, that honor once again falls to Hyo-shim. She’s prepared to take from her savings account, only to find out her mother ALREADY DRAINED IT without telling her. I cannot find a single redeeming quality about this woman.

In her desperation, Hyo-shim takes a sportwear modeling gig offered by Tae-ho who is looking for just about any excuse to see her now. She also contemplates returning to the loan sharks, but before entering, she makes a mysterious call to a man. Maybe these weekenders are training me to be overdramatic, but my first thought is that it’s her father. *Gasp*

Adding to her troubles, Tae-min continues to be pushy and make Hyo-shim uncomfortable with his attempts to get closer to her. He does at least confess his feelings directly this week, but I just know he’s not going to let it go at that. He already knows she doesn’t reciprocate – he told her as much – but he seems determined to take the delusional route. In that respect, he’s not so unlike his persistent fiancée Soo-kyung who has now joined the gym to weasel her way further into his life.

Then, there’s the chaebol drama. Halmeoni receives a message via an acquaintance (who pretends to be her daughter to the neighbors) that Tae-ho will pay the price if she shows her face again, so Halmeoni prepares to send him back to the US. Unless she kidnaps him, I’m not sure how that’s going to work. Sook-hyang may have thought fake-offing Halmeoni would bring her peace, but now she has to deal with her husband’s grieving and her daughter’s blackmailing. Tae-hee spotted Halmeoni out and about, so she knows the death is a ruse. She demands her mother fund her lavish lifestyle if she doesn’t want the secret spilled. It looks like Hyo-do has got himself a (very annoying) sugar mama. At least one of the siblings is living it up.

 
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Hyo Shim’s mother is scum. To raid HS’s savings over time to pay for her sons’ dumbassery was beyond the pale. From the previews, it looks like HS is continuing to sacrifice and pay for the ungrateful asses. I’m starting to lose sympathy for Hyo Shim. If you let people walk over you, gurl, they gon wipe their feet on you. And at some point the sympathy has turned to exasperation.
Tae Min just can’t take a hint as far as Hyo Shim. It’s gotta be so awkward for her to keep saying no. It was presumptuous to buy the diamond ring when she won’t even have dinner with him.

Hyo Do seems to love wearing bonnets lol.

Dumpster diver grandma is wearing on me. She is so dramatic and I am over it.

I just love how Tae Ho teases Hyo Shim. However, when he goes back to his room from the hospital, it really brought home how alone he is.

Tae Hui using knowledge about grandma to extort more money from her mom just made her as tacky as her mom. I’m really disappointed in her. She had so much promise initially. But she keeps it a secret from TH who is broken up about it just so she can fund her lifestyle. Just as evil as her mom.

To me the second brother is beyond redemption. All of what the obnoxious acquaintance said was true. He isn’t just a parasite, he is an ungrateful parasite. I believe he should be left to deal with the consequences of his actions, instead of having all the women jump in to clean up after him.
I loved the moment between the cousins this week. It doesn’t look like their relationship has been ruined yet and I hope it gets better, a lot better. It will help TM break free of the grip his mom has on him

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Agreed on all counts.
A while ago I commented that I’d hate for the former lawyer to be positioned to support the dumbass (love this term!) second oldest brother in pssing the Bar Exam and for becoming a somewhat decent human being but sadly they are going down that road.

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I agree @dncingemma. I think Hyo Jun should be left to swim or sink on his own. He will grow up real fast if they do that

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I think Hyoshim is the victim here and needs more sympathy... she is not able to escape her family and society expecting all those sacrifices from her.

I just hope the turning point is coming soon, this is draining.

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I agree @dorotka, hence my extreme anger at people who wrong her. But I tend to lose patience at eternal victims and I fear HS is there. You can cheer people who show spunk but not if they constantly allow people to mistreat them and only want sympathy

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But the whole point to this drama is that Hyo-shim will indeed escape.

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At this point she'll be escaping at about episode 49-50.

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@jerrykuvira I was just going to say. If she starts living her own life at episode 49.9, I will be really mad

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This is never going to happen but if HS does escape, it would be the perfect way to showcase her family members' survival instincts, if any, since their safety net is no longer there to bail them out. Poverty and homelessness are good catalysts for change in behavior.

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I had the opposite reaction, the moment Mom admitted she used Hyoshim's savings (and so destroyed H. dream, with NO REMORSE), I was like OMG, Hyoshim is so terribly abused! I nearly cried with her (partly from anger, true).

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Anger is exactly what I felt as well. The fact that she had no remorse is what convinces me that dear old mom should go to prison for embezzlement. I hope that when Mi-rim finds out she will ring up her friends at the Prosecutor's Office.

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@quirkycase, thanks for the highlights.
Poor Hyo-shim ! Good old Mom comes through again ! Mom also told Hyo-shim not to tell oldest brother, nope, Hyo -shim, it ‘s up to you 🙄

As far as Hyo-Joon is concerned he can rot in jail. Really . If you pick up a weapon to hit someone as the attacker, you deserve to be locked up.
Tae-min is an artist ! Perhaps a suppressed one , but an artist. I would love to see him paint a portrait of Hyo-shim. His perception of her is way off, he seems oblivious that she is not interested.
Tae-min’s confession was a disaster. Calls her out, confesses, her reaction was a absolute nonreaction. 😐
They established that Hyo-shim is a woman and Tae-Min is a man.
Plus he tried to push some jewelry on to her. He is in la-la land.
Meanwhile,he tries to friendzone Ms.Choi, who has her own ideas and will be interacting with the gym crew.
I like Ms Choi , so far , I hope she doesn’t morph into a MeanGirl 2FL . Hyo-shim has enough woes without a jealous woman , especially since Hyo-shim isn’t interested in her man.
Once again I got chumped by the previews. Tae-hee , you should have told Tae-Ho oppa the truth about halmoni being alive.
Tae-Ho could request a DNA test on the body. BTW, whose body was recovered ?
Tae-min is awful free when it comes to supporting Tae-hee’s shopping sprees. Are they that well off ?
Tae-hee actually misses Hyo-do. What are their ages supposed to be , she calls him ahjussi.
Rooftop halmoni looked suspicious as hell having her “daughter” show up.
Hyo-‘shim and Tae-Ho share another meal getting that much closer to one another.
Ru-bi is embracing her oppa outside . She better be careful, if mother finds out 🤯

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Ahhh Rubi. I had written her off but at least she was studying. But now she is messing around. Hope she doesn’t (does?) getbb b pregnant

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re they that well off ?

Supposedly one of THE largest conglomerates in Korea - employing thousands and with projects world-wide. That's why a scandal or major corporate battle could bring it all down - stock price plumets, difficult to get financing for new endeavors (such as new golf apparel line), down-sizing means employees lose jobs - that's what Tae Min is trying to protect.

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Kathryn has the right of it: We already know that Tae-min actually cares about the 'little people'. Which is the real reason why in the end he probably will marry Ms. Choi- and only later realize that it was the best thing he ever did for himself.

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I too hope that Ms. Choi is not morphed into mean girl. There is no good reason for that to happen though, given that Hyo-shim does not want a romantic relationship with the man that TV Lady wants. So 'mean girl' Choi will only happen if the writer is lazy.

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Oooh, episode 15 made my blood boil, first Lawyer Oppa and then Mom. Is he that stupid? He has been studying LAW for so long and he does THAT?? No wonder he can't pass the exam. 🙄 And Mom, I can't with that woman anymore.
We also seem to be back to square one, family is causing trouble and Hyoshim ends up at loan sharks. (And I'm starting losing patience.)

Perhaps what Hyoshim needs right now is not a suitor (even if he is as cute as Ha Joon), but a good Unni, Uri Aspiring Actress, who will stand by her and kick everybody's else arbehind.

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At this point, I would welcome a friendship between Hyo-shim and Ms Choi. Try that writers !

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Ooohh. Interesting! But only if they kick the collective butts of all the moms in the show

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You do realize that Ms. Choi and Hyo-shim are not in fact in conflict: Hyo-shim does not want to marry Tae-min while Ms. Choi really does. They have very good reason to become friends.

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But they are very unequal in status and I somehow still can't see Anchor Lady to befriend Hyoshim. Aspiring Actress on the other hand... there is a friendship I can see blooming.

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Hyo -shim needs a friend, a female friend, actress/lawyer/waitress will probably be the designated friend.
She does have a female coworker who is just taking up space, sorry, no development for your character 😦

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Anchor lady would want to keep tabs on Hyo-shim to steer her clear of Tae-min- not necessarily a friend in any deep sense but more superficially.

Aspiring Actress is in a way already her friend.

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That would be great if Hyo Shim and Soo Kyung become friends instead of pseudo enemies. Especially when she finds out that HS is not interested in TM that way.

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I don’t think there are enough episodes remaining for wanna-be lawyer and worst mom ever to earn a deserved redemption. This is not something to be fixed with a tearful hug. But I’m not saying I want the show to be longer, either 😅

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Law Student should go to prison . When he comes out of prison he can work at a chicken restaurant.

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He hasn’t been a law student for a while now as he has graduated from a LS but has tanked the Bar Exam a few times.

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35 episodes to go?? I think that's enough.

I hope Mi-ram helps him achieve whatever his dream may be - and I likewise hope that he helps her achieve her dream. That's how good redemption arcs are written.

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I also want him to realise all the wrongs he did to Hyoshim and make up for that.

All the brothers should earn and put money together to start the dream gym for Hyoshim!!

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Yes! They need to show they’re sorry in actions, not just words. And it would be nice if he would mature enough to figure out some of these things himself and Mi-rim didn’t have to teach him every single step of the way.

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I am hoping that indeed Mi-rim will step in to help Hyo-shim.

I also hope that Middle brother fails the bar exam: Someone like that absolutely should not be a lawyer.

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I am expecting him to fail it for the last time that will be his wake up call. I would love for him to find out that aspiring actress is a hot shot lawyer. That would vhange his attitude towards her.

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But but but…the scene in the art gallery with Tae-ho and Tae-min telling each other how they were sorry to one another for their past behaviors…so earnestly and intently?? Even as a light-watcher, I paused and watched twice as my heart melted knowing that what was coming up ahead for them was even more angst and love-torment…

…Bring on the runway show with Hyo-shim as STAR!!!

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Didn’t you think though that the rapprochement was a tad too quick as given the car wreck fiasco and the general distrust, it kinda surprised me. Of course, the gran’s ‘death’ could have temporarily created an illusion of family unity.

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Not at all!! It was all a ruse, sure, but I felt that the two of them had experiences separate from one another that had given them perspective—perspective that’s gonna be crushed when they both realize that Hyo-shim is the fulcrum of their love triangle…

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Poor Hyo-shim- she is caught in the middle between two guys and neither is good for her.

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Totally agree. Perhaps I FF through too much the last two weeks, but when Tae Ho returned from the hospital, my impression was that he was on a mission to get revenge against Tae Min (witness his looking up at - presumably - Tea Min's bedroom window). Then the next day, he's all nicey-nice?

And I guess I'm the only one who is not charmed by Tae Ho's impudent treatment of Hyo Shim. Demanding that she bring him food? Making her feel guilty for his injury? He "misses her" but has zero reason to believe she feels the same towards him. He's her client - and still treats her like a servant.

Ha Joon is a favorite actor of mine - still hoping we get more than lonely puppy dog in future scenes.

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I was not at all charmed by Tae-ho's demands on Hyo-shim. Does he really think that she needs yet one more person to wait upon?

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No! He doesn’t think about her needs at all! Not even when asking her to help him out with his work. Luckily for him, she needs the money…and we need a juicy plot!

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❤️ loved that moment

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Hyo-shim as a healthy runway model for athletic wear? Fabulous idea.

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Mom is beyond redemption. She knows she can do anything and get away with it coz HyoShim is too decent to abandon her. The saddest thing is that it's so bloody realistic. In patriarchal societies, women are expected to keep sacrificing and it's not even considered a sacrifice but their duty. There's a reason women get physically ill after an age - the resentment keeps festering inside and takes the form of an ailment sooner or later.

I'm waiting for the day HyoJun fails the exam for the 5th and last time. He will have no option than to face reality then. Hope he doesn't get a love line with MiRim. She deserves better.

Ruby is going to get pregnant, isn't she? If that happens it will kill her mother.

Got a bit of a whiplash when TaeHo woke up after fainting at his Halmeoni's funeral, and immediately started flirting with HyoShim on the phone. Would have been better if he had mourned Halmeoni's death with HyoShim, instead of having a perky teottbokki date with her.

And finally, TaeMin telling HyoShim that only HE will speak today 🙄 Still he is one of the few people in the show I genuinely feel sorry for. He is emotionally lost, and thinks HyoShim is the light at the end of the tunnel while she has zero interest in him as a man.

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Ruby is going to get pregnant

She better hurry, with the pace of this show it would take a second season.

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Ok, what drama is this ?

I watched a drama ,1st episode only
Rich HS girl is an artist
She has a poor friend who excels at art
Poor girl submits work as rich girl to allow rich girl to win a contest.
Rich girl is pregnant and her oppa breaks up with her.

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Don't think I have seen this one.

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I wish I could remember. 😦
Poor girl wants to be rich so bad
Poor girl is made fun of by other rich folk
Poor girls mum disapproves of rich folk

Sorry , off on a tangent, the thought of pregnant Ru-bi brought that drama to mind.

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I feel a lot of sympathy for Tam as well. He is pushed from all sides. HS is the only safe harbor for him.

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I had that same thought about Ruby.

As far as Hyo-shim and her mom: Her mom has broken Hyo-shim's trust too many times now.
 
I am hoping that Mi-rim will step forward and make Hyo-jun sign a Promissory Note to pay his sister in full. Then she can make him join her in her neighborhood law office when she finally accepts the truth about her acting ability and realizes how much she can enjoy helping people as a lawyer. It works either way as far as the Bar exam: If Hyo-jun passes on the fifth try he joins as a junior in her office, and if he does not, he can be her paralegal. Either way he is earning the money to pay his sister back. Loveline or not this works.

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TBH, I don't want him getting any further help from anyone. He needs to hit rock bottom with no one to support him.

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I don't think of it as supporting him- it's more like the school marm administering some tough love by cracking the whip over him. Truthfully, this guy is never going to learn his lesson simply because he hit rock bottom- he simply is too self-centered to ever do that. Someone has to teach him that lesson and make it stick.

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Would have been better if he had mourned Halmeoni's death with HyoShim, instead of having a perky teottbokki date with her.

Hyo-shim and Hyo-do , both of them “know” her as Rooftop Halmoni, if either of them went to the funeral or grieved with the family, they would have put 2 and 2 together,

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I meant mourning his grandmother's death with her when she brought food for him in the hospital instead of teasing-flirting with her. It seemed odd that he was so devastated that he fainted, and the moment he woke up he was all flirty with HyoShim.

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This show is constantly whiplashy, I'm not surprised anymore.

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I agree with all of you.

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I thought HS's mother couldn't get any worse. But she upped her awfulness this week. Hyo Shim should just leave them all behind asap.
Also Hyo Jun better pay back his sister for all the money she spent supporting his useless ass and this money she is scrambling around to get for his settlement.
I am very disappointed with Tae Hee this week. She can be smarter than this. She is just proving to everyone she is no better than her mom.
Hyo Shim definitely is uncomfortable around Tae Min. I don't understand why TM don't just leave her alone. He knows she does not like him back. Why is he being so clingy? Soo Kyung is a better match for him.
I hope its not TM whom HS called in that last scene. I prefer it to be Tae Ho.

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I am very disappointed with Tae Hee this week.

I so wanted her to tell Tae-Ho the truth. Especially after holding Tae-ho ‘s hand at the faux funeral.
The actress needs to work on her wailing and crying 어떻게 !!

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Ah yes she should've. I almost thought she would. But she prioritized the blackmail money she can get from her mom. A money she can spend in a matter of days at the amount of unnecessary luxury things she is spending it on.

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Tae-min is fixated on Hyo-shim for two reasons: First, because she is not only beautiful but a fundamentally nice person who is the polar opposite of his mom. Second, she is not a symbol of his family's control over his life.

Tae-min has convinced himself that he can only be happy with Hyo-shim for those two reasons- So he wants her. Problem: She does not want him. The fact that this does not matter to him is just a temporary roadblock in his mind.

Soo-Kyung is a far better fit for him and would actually be far more supportive of him and not just in a practical business sense either. It may be his family's idea that he should marry her but for Tae-min's sake I hope it happens precisely because she can handle them. I would really look forward to the moment when they realize that mating him with a Tigress was a big mistake.

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I am looking forward to Soo Kyung going up against evil MIL.

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That is exactly what I am hoping for.

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@quirkycase, thanks for the update. I haven't had the time to watch full episodes in several weeks and rely upon these weekly updates. A couple of comments:

Then, there’s the chaebol drama. Halmeoni receives a message via an acquaintance (who pretends to be her daughter to the neighbors) that Tae-ho will pay the price if she shows her face againThat "acquaintance" is good ole' Grandaddy's former concubine (name: Madame Seo) and the viewer (or, should I say - THIS viewer) still doesn't know why Halmeoni trusts her. Frankly, I'm more interested in the upcoming chaebol battle for control of TaeSan Group while waiting for other characters to show some signs of growing up (including doormat Hyo Shim).

Tae-hee spotted Halmeoni out and about, so she knows the death is a ruse. . I know what she threatened her mom, but Tae Hee took those photos BEFORE she got the news regarding the death of her grandmother and she seemed truly devastated by the news. Soooo. . . . I have an open mind on what she truly believes, because if grandmother is alive, she needs to throw Mom under the bus and tell Tae Min and Tae Ho. Otherwise, her actions (or failure to act) are irredeemable. 😒😒

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The body they found had been in the water for a while no? She had purportedly run away from the care facility and they were looking for her for a while.

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Apologies for my rambling explanation, but this is my understanding of spoiled brat Tae Hee:

1. She knew Halmeoni was locked up in a house, blackmailed her mother and did nothing. As far as she knew, grandmother was still locked up. [VERY BAD]
2. She sees a woman on the street that looks like her grandmother and takes a couple of photos.
3. Learns that grandmother is dead - and is devastated. She believed the news - that wasn't fake.
4. She doesn't grieve for long and wants to "leave for Paris" again; when stopped by her mother, she hauls out the phone and claims that the photos are of grandmother - but does she really believe that? (VERY bad) or simply using whatever tool might be available to escape?

If she really believes the body is fake, she should tell her oppa - but that would move the story too quickly. I'm prepared for multiple "near miss" sightings since both Tae Hee and Tae Min are occasional visitors to Uicheon Villa.

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Remember that Tae-hui has a goal- to avoid her arranged marriage to a thirty-five year old bald guy she does not like. That is the game she is playing against her mother. She may or may not believe that Grandma is dead at this point but either way the fact that she can use that photo to create a major issue for her parents and the company is what counts right now.

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I agree with everything you say. My only question is, if she genuinely believed grandma is dead, what exact leverage does the photo provide? Is it that they mistreated her? That they illegally detained her? I don’t think the photo proves any of that. The photo, IMM, can only provide leverage if she knew grandma isn’t dead and that mama is playing some dangerous game and you’re right, that is very very bad

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@asha13 - late last night, I finally sat down and watched all of Ep. 14 w/subs and Tae-hee did say something like "at first I believed it [meaning grandmama's death] but. . ." and I didn't quite follow her point but it seems that if nothing else she wants to believe grandmama is alive and therefor it's okay to use that as leverage against her mother.

So, that puts her back in my VERY Bad character column. It appears to be necessary to get her back with Hyo Do (another pitiful character) and away from her parents and bros.

I've continued to wonder what the purpose of the maknae couple is (other than attracting younger audience) so perhaps they will eventually be the first to protect grandmother which would be a blessing if it reduces her time with the other residents at the Villa.

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@kathryn51 I must’ve missed that. I do multitask when she’s on the screen, lol. Fully agree she is a very bad character. I had hoped that she and the terrible actress would reform the 2 brothers. Oh well

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Thanks for the highlights! I stopped watching a few episodes back and planned to just watch the wannabe-actress scenes until Hyo-shim decides to live her own life....but it looks like she's still being the self-sacrificing daughter who will grumble here and there but not draw the line. And then the camera will zoom into her aggrieved expression.

Also, this drama has been weird with not having any family dinners with all the siblings.

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Maybe not having the dinners says something about the family?
There was a dinner on the rooftop though, the tenants with Grandma.

Unpredictable Family has plenty of those nice family breakfasts/dinners. 🙂

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Episode 14 now sees Tae-ho asking Hyo-shim to wait on him. Meanwhile Tae-min is still fixated on her even as she is giving him the Heisman. But he bought a diamond ring anyway.

We saw more of TV Lady and she was in top form: Her deductions regarding Tae-min’s unrequited love, etc. were so spot on- she is one smart lady and yet far from being cold you could feel her anger right through the screen. She has Tae-min totally pegged and he knows it. She is still hiding behind the statement that she wants him because he is the best but that is obviously only a half-truth or even just a quarter truth. There is no way that flames would be shooting from her eyes if hers was simply a cold calculation. Just as we need to see more of Aspiring Actress we also need to see more of TV Lady.

Aspiring Actress confirmed what we already knew: She is a lawyer- and apparently a really, really good one. Her career change is not an unusual decision: A number of years ago a lady named Deborah Arron published a book whose title is Running from the Law: Why Good Lawyers Are Getting Out of the Legal Profession. Her choice to pursue a different dream is not at all weird, even though she is obviously not that well suited to be an actress. In contrast I think that our FL’s middle brother Hyo-joon is better suited for anything except the law and his evident frustration obviously stems from the fact that it was never his dream- but rather his mother’s dream that he become a lawyer. After watching his idiotic behavior in Episode 15 I will take this one step further: He should absolutely never, ever become a lawyer because he would be an absolute disaster for his clients and would be a quick failure. Ego has no place in the practice of law, period.

It seems to me that there is an important secondary theme in the Weekender: The evils that arise from parents imposing their dreams on their children and selecting their professional futures for them: Hyo-shim’s SIL has determined that her daughter must become a Dermatologist and her son a Golf Pro, Hyo-shim’s mother has forced Ha-joon towards the law, Tae-min’s family took him away from Art and forced him to run the Conglomerate. The evident anger in Ruby, Ha-joon and Tae-min may all be rooted in the fact that their dreams having either been thwarted or in the case of Ruby and Ha-joon they were never even permitted to have one. Her nephew Phillip on the other hand has already reached the conclusion that he is simply not going to comply, and he has the silent support of his father in this. It may seem odd but, once he successfully fails at Golf Phillip will be free to go his own way and both he and his father know it.

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But he bought a diamond ring anyway.

Yes, he bought the damn ring, but something else is in the box he handed to her. I think it's a "pin" - perhaps something he bought (or a family item??) and considered giving her before he went to prison??

According to the Namu Wiki website, Father Lee was an attorney who taught "ethics" (!!!) at a local highschool school. That may have something to do with his hatred of "the law".

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Yes, the box he gave her was something he already had.

Clearly the absent father was a real piece of work.

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I would also point out that Tae-min’s resistance to TV Lady has nothing to do with her as a person but rather with the fact that she is inextricably conflated in his mind with his family’s plans for his future, so he really does not see her as herself. Instead, he sees her as the symbol of his of what his family has imposed upon him. So long as he has that chip on his shoulder, he will blindly pursue Hyo-shim no matter what Hyo-shim actually wants. I am reminded that Immanuel Kant believed that our real freedom came not in our actions but in our attitude towards the events in our lives. It is a shame that he does not view Ms. Choi as the silver lining to his cloud: That because of his sacrifice for his family and all the people who work for his company he gets to marry a smart, beautiful sexy woman who actually desires him. Surely that can’t be bad?

At a fundamental level Tae-min is actually not paying attention to what either Hyo-shim or TV Lady want, need or even think. He is treating them both as symbolic objects.

It turns out that Hyo-shim’s mom embezzled the money that Hyo-shim has saved up to move out and start her own gym. So, in this episode she wins the most despicable mom award. Any chance that Aspiring Actress could suggest a trip to the police station? She is one person who seems to want to help Hyo-shim. I am hoping that Aspiring Actress will finally at some point acknowledge her complete lack of acting ability and that her true talent lies in being a really good lawyer- but perhaps not as one who practices as a part of a big law firm. Just as most people should not be a lawyer, there are those who absolutely should.

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I first watched the TV Lady/TM dinner "raw" (no subs) and then re-watched again w/subs.

At the risk of reading too much into TM's facial expressions, I got the feeling both times that he was enjoying putting Ms. Choi in her place - it was like a game of cat and mouse. Would love to see more of that.

Watching TM is discouraging - devoted to family, committed to the financial health and growth of TaeSan Group and yet so blind in his personal life.

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His blindness in his personal life is a symptom of is utter misery. Putting Ms. Choi in her place may be his way of releasing his resentment- or maybe it is just fun. Once you get the subs you learn that Ms. Choi correctly views what he is doing as simply a tactic- and she is right. So, she is changing her tactic because she is the opposite of a mouse. In her own way she is enjoying the game.

In any case Ms. Choi knows her place- and it is not where Tae-min is trying to put her, thank goodness.

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Dear writer-nim,

We are 1/3 of the way in and there are no signs of her actually even taking baby steps towards the advertised "living her own life". I am getting as frustrated as Hyo Shim.

I am really only watching this because Ha Jun was cast as the male lead, but so far, he doesn't really have that much screen time, especially compared to the SML. That look of frustration on Hyo Shim every time Tae Min makes her spend time with him and never listens to a word she says? That's the look I have at the moment.

Tae Ho and Hyo Shim have such good chemistry together but we get at most 2 minutes of screen time per episode at the moment. Can we have some plot development please?

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The one trope I really, really cannot stand is the rich chaebol stalking, badgering and harassing a woman into being his girlfriend (eventually breaking her down into his obedient wife). Tae Min is following that blueprint with HS. But Tae Ho is also following a similar tact: he is using HS's unselfish need to help other people to manipulate her in helping him overcome his "needy" state (back injury, loneliness, etc.) Tae Ho may be doing this initially to take HS away from Tae Min. I am 1000 percent in the Shaman camp: HS should run way from both of them.

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Hyo -shim is in desperate need of the “non-chaebol” option.
That chaebol family is toxic.
Run Hyo-shim .

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Yes, Hyo-shim really should have paid the shaman the $42 that he demanded for his advice- worth every penny and more.

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Ugh Hyo-Shimmm...just walk out already! I can't believe she's just letting everyone walk all over her. Girl, I know you're being filial and all that but how much lower should you go to get some acknowledgment from Mom? Her mom is too much for me. She berates Hyo Shim, and when she's pointed out her mistake she flips things around ... Hyo Shim needs to take some lessons on standing up for herself. Please get close to Mi-rim..I hope you guys become really good friends.

I'm starting to lose patience with this show...the only reason why I'm sticking to it is to fast-forward to the budding romance between Hyo-Shim and Tae Ho. And what is up with Tae Min? Just drop it already. There's no reason to insisting on pursuing Hyo Shim just because he's trying to one-up his cousin.

This show is so frustrating!

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At this point HS needs an intervention . . . to take her away from her family and TM and TH. But really she has no close friends (co-workers don't count) to make that happen - - - her family has suffocated any aspect of a normal social life as she has been constantly running around putting more fires than the Seoul FD.

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I am hoping that Grandma and Aspiring Actress help her do this. I am not enjoying her misery either.

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I'm officially out of the SLS with Tae-min. No offense to Hyo-shim but Tae-min deserves something better than Hyo-shim. Hyo-shim might represent the symbol of something his family had no control over, but should he get married to her, his life might get the more worse than it is. Tae-min does not need that kind of wife. He needs someone with spine and spunk cue to Anchorwoman Choi Soo-kyung. I'm looking forward to when he sees her as an individual and not a part of a conglomerate. The moment he is able to make that separation, he'll realize that a future with Soo-kyung is worth it.

I'm tired of Hyo-shim. I'm almost done. I'm not watching this for her either. Any sympathy I had for her earlier has morphed into pity, and this pity has no iota of compassion or fellow feeling in it.

Her mom on the other hand is insufferable. She just keeps hitting the low point everytime. And, how did she have access to Hyo-shim's savings, was tapping into the account and Hyo-shim wasn't aware of it. She didn't even get any debit alert for each tamper by mom. Did Hyo-shim open the account in mom's name? Or she left the bankbook in mom's possession and was simply sending money into it. Her mom is annoying, very annoying. And she had the nerve to tell Hyo-shim not to involve Hyo-sung, as if she was a part of the 'we' who would sort out Hyo-jun's bail.

And about Hyo-jun, I thought he was her younger brother, alongside Hyo-do. So he's her older brother and is insufferable and insufferable can get.

I want Madam Cha to put the landlady in her place. She's too overbearing.

I'll go back to tolerating Hyo-shim on my screen(during family problems) whenever she takes the bull by the horn, not once but for forever.

On the other hand, it'll be fun having her model for Tae-san group. Finally Tae-ho will know who the woman Tae-min has designs for is.

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She had clearly trusted her mom and was deeply disappointed.

And yes, even if he cannot see it Tae-min should realize that he would not actually be good for Hyo-shim and Hyo--shim would not be good for him.

Anchorwoman Choi is what he needs- can Tae-min really be what Ms. Choi needs? She thinks so and given her obvious talent for seeing things as they really are I am inclined to trust her judgement.

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If this was a Western show, I'd cheer for HyoShim to ditch her toxic mom and move out and tell them all they are on their own. That would teach them all a lesson. My blood was especially boiling at two of the characters this week. The beyond awful mom who has no remorse, zero, none whatsoever and despite demanding and demanding more from her daughter she shows zero appreciation for her. I think I'd shoot someone in he situation. There is nothing worse than an ungrateful leech.

And the brother! He is as bad as the mother. He sat in his chair waiting to be released with all the grace of a sulking toddler and never once seemed to wonder or be interested in who paid for that huge settlement. If that was me, it would be at the top of my mind, and I would throw myself on my knees in front of my sister and vow to take on as many part-time jobs as I could to repay this. Or sell my kidney.

I think I only saw them interact together once, and he was rude AF to her. The woman who pays his bills. If it was me, I'd dump a bucket of water on his head and tell me to FO, and that the free meal was over.

Watching this show made me realize that among the buffet of toxic behaviours we can observe in this show, entitlement and ungratefulness top my list.

That was an interesting discovery in and of itself.

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> If that was me, it would be at the top of my mind, and I would throw myself on my knees in front of my sister and vow to take on as many part-time jobs as I could to repay this. Or sell my kidney.

Yeah, that is my problem with every single brother including the oldest sibling. Hyo Shin's savings went for his apartment's payment and he never even questioned where this money came from.

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