Won’t let downvotes or accusations bring me down. I know that’s not what I meant, so I’m telling myself not to be upset. If I’m sad or leave DB, then hate wins.

My new fav ice cream flavor!
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    woah woah woah, now. Downvoting has gone to far and people doing have lost their ever loving minds. Bullying (and thats all this stupid downvoting poppycock is–bullying) is not ok! Don’t let the jerks get you down! Don’t be sad and certainly don’t leave DB because of bullies. If DB won’t do away with the downvote button maybe there’s a way to make a notification like xxo just downvoted you! like we get notifications when someone comments or follows us.

    Now, I’m not sure if I’ve talked to you before (my memory is faulty like that) but you seem delightful and you have awesome taste in icecream and I’m 100% sure that you’ll be missed. So…bully’s can kick rocks.

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      Thanks so much @isthatacorner ❤️

      Unfortunately I will need to remove myself from the thread-that-shall-not-be-named and take a hiatus from DB for a while for now I’m getting downvoted for being upset that I got called ignorant, condescending and ludicrous. I need to be as angry as them and protest as loudly, for my feelings as a human being to count. If they can get offended by a Korean drama being portray on TV about their culture/religion, how do they think I feel when I’m directly attacked like this?

      Ah well. I will miss DB and the other lovely Beanies such as yourself. I’m sure my goldfish memory will ensure I’ll be back here before long and have forgotten all this sadness! ❤️ Thank you again for your kind words!

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    Awe! Who would do this to one of the most thoughtful beanies around? Just remember that we are all strangers together, and none of us really matter that much, even yours truly. 😜😘

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      Thanks babe! Have a good week ahead! I’m taking a break for a while so may not see or reply any comments for a bit. Happy drama watching!

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    I haven’t checked out that thread since the recap was first posted but I feel sorry that the calm and friendly atmosphere at Dramabeans is being turned into a war zone there!

    Please don’t let the downvotes get you down… we haven’t talked much but I do know that you always have the most well thought out comments and your gifs of Moonlight are legendary! Plus the LAHL beanies have a special place in my heart!

    So please cheer up, ignore that thread and continue to be your awesome self!
    Oh and prepare yourself for an onslaught of sweet icons (the wonders of typing on phone)
    💗🍨🍧🍦🍩🍡🍬🍫🍭🍪🌈🌞🎉💗

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      Awww thanks obsessedmuch! I’m drowning in sweetness! Hehe.

      Im just a bit sad, because DB is just that little bit tainted for me now. I wish the bosses would say something or do something to stop this but it’s not like a comment- you can’t moderate downvotes. And if upvotes make us happy, surely it’s not surprising that downvotes do the opposite? And sadness never is good in a online community built on sharing love for kdramas and squeeing over Oppa.

      So I’ll be on break for a bit, so I may not reply or see comments for a while. But I appreciate the love! ❤️

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        Sure.. I understand the need to keep yourself away from DB for a while… take a break but come back for sure! 🙂

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    Awwww, I’m saddened to know you’re stepping away from DB, but I respectfully understand your need to do so at this time. I’m hopeful that your time away will not be long. Please know that you’ll be missed. ….. After a period of time that you deem necessary, please come back and join us.

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      Thanks korfan ❤️ I just need to decompress. And since the OP hasn’t bothered to reply to me and I’m still getting downvotes despite my apologies and explanations, I’m quite ready to have my break.

      I won’t stay away for too long anyway. I love kdramas and the Beanies here too much. But I need to stop getting upset every time my downvote count goes up 😣

      Happy drama watching in the meantime!

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    I’ve no idea what happened here @michykdrama but I always find your posts thoughtful, interesting and sensitive so try not to take it to heart. I’ve picked up a few down votes for saying I liked an actor or actress or thought they would do well in a role. You are well loved on dramabeans so please come back soon.

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    Don’t worry friend <3. You are one of my favorites here! It's people like you that keeps me around.
    I'm definitely beating @Sera The Ms Temper by 40 downvotes lol.
    It doesn't bother me but I do understand that it's something negative which gives negative/sad feelings.

    Cheer up! Hopefully we'd get another "Doctor Kim" or "Moonlight" to fangirl over.

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      *hugs* @kiara
      Here’s to more open and friendly discussions on DB! <3

      Are you going to watch Falsify?
      Or Criminal Minds?
      Or Manhole: Feel so good? (This title is terrible though, can I just say…. LOL)

      I'm thinking I'll be checking out these 3 next.

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        *Hugs*
        Lol @ Manhole. I agree.

        I will definitely try Criminal Minds first :). Hope there is humor mix in with all the serious stuff.

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          Not much humor sadly, or rather I felt the attempts at it were a bit forced. I’m LOVING Junki but not so much the other characters- IT computer lady and Genius double doctorate guy come across as too forced to be fun. But hopefully will get better in the coming episodes.
          I’ll be sticking around cuz I’m in love with Lee Junki. 😍

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