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Live Your Own Life: Episodes 1-2 (Drama Highlights)

Editor’s Note: After a lot of Beanie interest in space to chat about KBS’s family weekender dramas, we are trying out a new thing: Drama Highlights. Each week we will post a thread for the new episodes, and mention a few plot points — be it high points, low points, or terribly mediocre points. Please join us in the comments! If interest remains high, we will continue through the drama’s 50-episode run.


Welcome to Live Your Own Life — a veritable makjang explosion where we get kidnapping, murderous threats, a fight involving veggie and mackerel slapping, one arrest, a hospitalization, debt collecting, and more all in the first week. If it’s this wild already, I can’t wait to see where we’re headed. This will either be a makjang delight or a trainwreck.

We’ve got our titular heroine LEE HYO-SHIM (UEE), the kind of woman who willingly rises before dawn and runs to her job as a gym trainer with a smile on her face. Her favorite thing? Exercising. Her least favorite thing? Being her messy, self-absorbed, ungrateful family’s fixer and bank. But her luck might be about to turn around. She gets her very own meet-cute with chaebol orphan KANG TAE-HO (Ha Joon) who has recently returned to Korea. They literally run into each other while, well, running since he is also a huge fan of running in the dark. He acts like an entitled jerk and she’s a spitfire, so this doesn’t go well. But surprise, surprise, she ends up being his new trainer when he becomes a member of her gym. Looks like we’re on the enemies-to-lovers train.

Hyo-shim’s family is your typical weekender fare with everyone being selfish and taking advantage of her, but Tae-ho’s family is WILD. His aunt JANG SOOK-HYANG (Lee Whee-hyang) is a cartoonish villain who stops at nothing to make her husband the chairman of Taesan Group. The woman has kept her mother-in-law locked up and drugged for three years, threatening to have her favorite grandson Tae-ho shot if she doesn’t comply. Besides being willing to murder her nephew, it also seems like Sook-hyang had her own son KANG TAE-MIN (Ko Joo-won) take the rap and serve prison time for his father so it wouldn’t impede his ascension to chairman. At this rate, I’m guessing she’s the one who took out Tae-ho’s parents. Is this woman a mob boss in hiding? At least halmeoni slipped drugs into her guards’ drinks and escaped… for now.

Live Your Own Life: Episodes 1-2 (Drama Highlights)

 
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Uh, I'm in just for summaries like this, @quirkycase.

So excited about this experiment, because I'd love to be able to follow along with the Weekender Beanies on this!!! I did see the first half of episode one...but don't think I can really join the crowd (but who knows, with this new format, maybe more than a few of us will get sucked in!)

I am also so very much hoping that Live Your Own Life is better than The Real Has Come which seemed to cause such existential pain!

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This seems like a fun try out.
I am interested to watch how this pans out!
"Habitual-Weekend-Watcher" beanies. Fighting!

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I just read that one of the supporting actors, Noh Young-gook, died earlier today of a heart attack. He was to have played the ML's father (or grandfather?).

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Noh Young-gook portrayed Tae-min's father and Tae-ho's uncle. Based on the lengthy trailers/teasers, I think they probably have 8-10 episodes filming under their belt.

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So the new chairman? He did look rather sick... oh, so sad....

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He may have been a supporting actor, but it was an important role- the newly inaugurated Chairman and also the 2 ML Tae-min's father. I am fairly sure that only a handful of episodes have been filmed at this point.

My condolences to his family.

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Oh, no...

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I just confirmed that- date of death is September 18, 2023.

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His character is actually the ML's uncle and married to the ML's Evil Aunt. He is the father of the 2 ML - and the missing daughter Tae-hee. This means that we will have another replacement Chairman which is giving me more than a little anxiety as this substitution will have to be done very quickly.

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@oldawyer, do you know anything about the typical shooting schedule of a weekender? Are they usually producing episodes very close to air date? It must be very hard on the rest of the cast emotionally, in addition to his family.

I'm not watching this (except from afar) and guessed wrong on the relationship based on character names, so thanks for the info.

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I have heard from others that there could be as many as 8 to 10 episodes in the can. But that is another way of saying that a replacement has to be done ASAP. And whoever it is has to be capable of hitting the ground running. To say that this is a challenge is a huge understatement.

As or the impact- it has to be huge and of course our hearts have to go out to his family.

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Your comment popped up unexpectedly (someone liked my post below???), but today I wrote a post on MDL regarding the shooting schedule for LYOL. Primary take-away? Almost 3 months of "location" (outside of studio) filming before they began to film "in studio".

https://mydramalist.com/749363-separate-lives-at-hyosim-s

tagging @oldawyer because he is also interested in this stuff. 😊

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That is really interesting. Thank you so much.

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"a veritable makjang explosion where we get kidnapping, murderous threats, a fight involving veggie and mackerel slapping, one arrest, a hospitalization, debt collecting, and more all in the first week."

It was a whirlwind - but I enjoyed it. Lots of different characters, stories and - I believe - many mysteries to be revealed and, presumably, resolved by the end. At the end of the 2 episodes, all of the main characters/families were introduced in brief scenes that captured their position and current life status. (There are many more characters to come according to KBS web site).

"The Real Has Come" was my first weekender and I was hooked in based upon one of my favorite genre's - the "contract marriage". Except, there was no contract, major re-writes took place halfway thru and every freakin' character and story revolved around one baby. I swore I wouldn't watch another weekender until I read that Ha Joon would be the (romantic) male lead.

Glad I watched and I'm looking forward to future episodes. Thanks for the great summary @quirkycase. With many more characters to be introduced, you have taken on a yeoman's task. 😊

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This is a nice upgrade! 🙂 Thank You!
I'm excited!
And are you our main companion @quirkycase or are you all drawing a lot each week? 😄
Anyway, loving UEE here and I think she has a nice chemistry with Ha Joon. I was also pleasantly surprised that the oldest son phoned back to Mom and asked her about the money. Can't wait for Grandma living with Hyosim and her family, because who else is going to save her, right? 😁 (It's also obvious who is the lost rich sister.)

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It'll be me and another writer switching off, each doing every other week :)

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That sounds like a good plan for this marathon :-) ... and to keep sane :-D

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Whoohooo. Looking forward to watching this weeks episodes. I hope this is the salve for the wounds caused by the real

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We got into the action of the two leads fairly quickly. This means we still know very little about the 2ML's sister Kang Tae-hee. We also know very little about our FL's middle brother. I hope their characters are clarified to some extent next weekend- particularly we need to know what caused Tae-hee to take to the streets. We are really still in the introduction stage even with all that has already happened.

Like everyone else I had a bit of character overload.

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The mini-weecap format (just a few plot points) is perfect for the Weekender format.

Usually, it takes four episodes just to introduce all the characters but most of this was done in the first two, although much will be flushed out later. For instance, the relationship between our ML and his cousin who was just released from prison is clearly more complex than the usual competing Chaebol relatives trope. And do not believe for one moment that he does not resent taking the rap. But, on the other hand, he is also the obvious 2ML- who had a serious thing for our FL since long before ML and FL literally ran into each other, which is not the least cute meet cute of all time (the would be when Shin Hye-sun threw up on Sung Hoon in FIVE CHILDREN) but certainly far from a truly cute one.

And could I point out that now that our ML has spent time in prison most of the families who would normally want him to marry their daughter now view him as damaged goods- which means that if he actually wants to marry our FL that may actually now be feasible when before it was not. On the other hand, by default, that now makes our ML valuable to his family as a potential marriage alliance candidate: Which means that there is no way they would want him to end up with our FL or any other woman who does not serve that purpose.

As Quirkycase has noted the action has already started. I was a bit dubious about that until the very end of episode two- when Grandma escaped. When that happened, I realized that this weekender might actually have some serious fun in it.

Maljang done right is serious fun. Done wrong, well enough said. Grandma slipping the tether is the sort of thing you get with good makjang. Let us all pray to the Drama Goods that this show can keep it up.

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I typed this way too fast- it is out 2ML that spent time in prison.

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I did not think of the male leads' value in the marriage mart at all. This could make the story more interesting.

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More to the point- our Evil Aunt now has to think twice before simply seeking to off the ML because he now has a value he did not have before.

also, she almost certainly did not want her son sent to prison and has great reason to resent whoever made the decision to sacrifice him- not only because he is her child but because she also now has the added burden of rehabilitating her son's image and position. Yet another person who resents what happened.

Leading to my final point about this set up: The bad guys are not going to be united and, indeed, will likely often work at cross-purposes. This is makes for a plot with a lot of real twists rather than contrived ones.

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You’re selling a good drama. I hope the makers are listening.

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I hope so too.

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The 2ML took the prison term for financial crimes so his parents could assume control of the company. But it seems everyone thinks he was the fall guy since he returned to work like nothing happened. I think the 2ML has a hidden agenda. I also wonder if he parents set him as fall guy up to stop his fascination with (the unworthy) FL.

I also see ML's parent's tragedy coming back as an evil the cut-and-paste murder plot line.

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I also assume that the ML's parents were murdered. In fact, I would be disappointed if they were not. It would almost be unseemly, given the nature of the ML's family, if that was not part of the story.

That the 2ML might not have been the fall guy implies that he could have actually committed the crimes on his own without having involved his father. Good point and perhaps one that is consistent with his having his own hidden agenda- which is blindingly obvious. He looks to be a true grey character- both good and bad- but, above all, not someone who is going to blindly do whatever Mommy tells him to.

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I expect any complexity in the 2ML will be erased over the (long) course of the show. He needs to become a stock villain in order for us to ship the ML-FL. At least that’s the usual playbook.

After that, we have two options: he will go down in flames or live to see the error of his ways (tho not get the girl) cos, family. Hmm, now you have me consulting my crystal ball.

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We already have our Stock Irredeemable Villain in the form of the Wicked Aunt. We also have our lesser (but redeemable) villains in the form of FL's Mom, her younger brothers, her nasty niece, etc.

The most effective drama 2MLs are the ones that inspire Second Lead Syndrome.
If the writer is smart (and there is no doubt that the PD is that smart) the show will aim for that.

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@oldawyer I am primed to be persuaded! Bring on SLS. 😀

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I liked the first two episodes and am cautiously optimistic that it will be better than THE REAL HAS COME. I started that one and then dropped it around episode 28 when I realized it was just going around in circles. I also hope the FL in this one would have more spine and purpose (or develop one) than Oh Yeon Doo.

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The Real was my first weekender. I bailed out early. I'm trying this one to figure out if it's just The Real or weekenders overall that don't suit me. I did not like the first episode, all together too makjang-y, but episode two was better. The OTP has potential, but the 2ML was the most intriguing. That’ll make the inevitable triangle (or whatever polygon it ends up being) more interesting. And I’m so glad grandma got out. I hope she had adventures. Will tune into episode three.

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Even when it was still good (the first half) THE REAL was not a typical weekender.

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I agree with @oldawyer that REAL was not a typical weekender. I found the first half rather interesting and some of the dialogues were surprisingly deep, especially for a weekender. It's a shame the second half went south, or more precisely, completely lost its direction.

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I would prefer a Uee romance with the Ex-con ahjussi vs the young guy w/attitude .

Uee ,grandmother and Ex-con guy are the only likable characters so far ! I know it’s a long trek, here’s hoping for the best.

Someone commented on Viki when peddler ahjussi sees grandma in the roadway .

A white truck that actually stopped ! 😂

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We know that Ex-con guy very much has a thing for UEE (which is understandable).

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I'm still cautious about our Ex-con Gym SL, he has Evil Mom after all (if she is his real mom, of course, you never know with a weekender 😄).

Ha, white truck that actually stopped indeed! 😄😄

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I looked it up, the “young guy” , Ha Joon,is actually 1 yr older than Uee . 😂 36 vs 35 for Uee

Ex-con ahjussi, Go Joo Won, has a birthday in Oct., he’ll be 42.

Guessing the age of Korean actors/actresses is a game that I would loose rather quickly. 🫠

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It is amazing the difference styling (and filters?) make. Ha Jun in Destined With You looks so much older.

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Also, for those of us watching both DWY and LYOL, our heads are spinning. Ha Jun is 2ML to the cold chaebol ML in DWY. But in LYOL, Ha Jun gets his turn to be the cold chaebol ML.

@lapislazulii

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That is quite a contrast, is it not? It takes a good actor o do both well- particularly in two shows shot so close together. My hat is off to Ha-jun for even trying it.

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The fringe helps a lot. 😁

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Yeah!! Was also waiting to see if it'd affect how I viewed his character in DWY this week, and it did a little (found myself paying a bit more attention to him than before) but it's interesting how both are reserved but in LYOL he's cold chaebol and in DWY he feels more reserved/awkward

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I was in two minds about starting this, so this is a welcome initiative. Will be watching this now.

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Too many character introductions in Episode 1. We get that Uee’s family is terrible leaches; that ML’s family has been destroyed by a greedy aunt; and that all the standard weekender tropes will be put into a blender without a top to spray us with a mess for the next 25 weeks. It has all the script making of another sub-par series since ALL of the families are overloaded with bad people. I like it better when we have weekenders with good core families having to navigate problems. Hyo-Sim as Atlas with the weight of her world solely on her shoulders seems like a grind watch. It does set up with the corporate cousin gym love triangle but I really don't know if Prince Charming chaebol savior role will work on Hyo-Sim if she sheds her personality of being too obedient.

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Actually, after watching both episodes I have come to the conclusion that there are more grey characters than we were led to believe. For instance, Hyo-shim's older brother is NOT leeching off her even if he is not contributing anything back. He did score appliances when he married, but that was actually her mom making her fulfill a responsibility that belonged to her parents. Even the other money matters seem to have gone both ways in the past. Older brother is hampered by his inability to deal with his wife and daughter. In fact, because of that situation he is actually burdened in a manner that is actually comparable to his sister- he too needs liberating.

Grandma is clearly a really good character and the fact that she has started a grand adventure (a quest as it were) is actually fun.

We actually do not yet know much about Kang Tae-Hee and her story, but it is obvious that she is living on the streets because she is rebelling against her awful mother. Which means she is obviously one of the good guys as well and she is already having an effect on our FL's youngest brother.

Most of the "bad" people are in fact quite redeemable- they need to grow up and take responsibility (this includes the FLs mom). So, there is a clear direction for this show to go- a theme that actually does fit the Weekender format.

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Is it me or this show feels old? In a good way tho. I feel like we're having many classic tropes and characters, and the show doesn't seem like it'll try to do something new or revolutionary, instead it'll go with the comfortable old vibes.

I really want to experience the koala (Homemade Love Story) syndrome with this drama. I couldn't stand the MLs from 3 Dumb Siblings and The Real Has Come, so I reaaaaaaally want to love this one as much as I loved Koala in Homemade.

I already like the FL and I feel bad for her. If she fakes her own death and runs away to another place, like her dad did, I wouldn't blame her. For real. I don't hate her siblings tho, they're not going to change until her mom changes. And she has to change too!

I want the ML's halmoni to survive till the end. Poor woman.

I really couldn't care less about who's the president of company and all that business talk, but I'm kinda curious about the family secrets. Dying/killing, disappearing/hiding, stealing, going to jail, lying... this family activities are so crazy. LOL

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Yes, it feels like a good old weekender, though some characters are more nuanced (grey as @oldawyer says above) and can surprise me. Like, I really didn't expect the oldest son to call back.

UEE is shining here and I'm happy for her. 🙂

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I really like the idea that we may have more nuanced characters in a weekender- these are supposed to be stories about people, their families and their relationships and how their stories unfold. It is OK to have a character or two who is 'all good' or 'all bad' if you really need that for some sort of narrative flow but dramatic honesty requires that the majority of your characters should not be that way, instead they should have flaws and sometimes make wrong choices for selfish reasons, or the show simply will not ring true. Few people are actually all good or all bad. We can still have a satisfactory conclusion to the drama even if our characters are far from perfect. Remember the old maxim of the Russian Navy: "Better is the enemy of good enough". That applies to the characters in a drama as much as anything else. Totally good or totally bad characters are actually boring.

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On the other hand, sometimes it is nice to have a good villain(ess) to hate, especially in a weekender 😄😄

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I agree with that sentiment and it looks like the show is giving us one.

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Well said 👏 👏 👏 Although some of the family irritated me at first, as the episode/s went on I came to this exact conclusion too. It makes it even better also when we see their development through the course of the show as you said, which'll hopefully lead to a more satisfying ending than what you'd get with just 'all good' or 'all bad' characters. Family is imperfect and messy after all!

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So happy for UEE! ^^

Yeah! I can't wait to see the development of the characters, especially the FL and her brothers.

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Big fan of this new initiative, hope we have enough traction to keep these weekly highlights going!

Overall thoughts: I was worried going in that I might not have the stomach to take makjang elements over a long stretch but I was surprised at just how invested I was by the end of the second episode!

Thoughts/theories:

- I really love Hyo-sim! I love that she's not a doormat and he's not gratingly blunt, mean or unjustifiably short-tempered either; she's kind, isn't meek and is outspoken. She's going to be the reason that I'll be able to ride through all the angst/miscommunication/other frustrating plot points that this show may (probably will) throw at us.

- I already like Tae-ho over Tae-min, but the dynamic was interesting between the two. I had expected they'd be adversaries or that Tae-ho would be openly antagonistic towards everyone BUT he's keeping his cards close to his chest, interesting 👀

- Obviously Tae-min's mum is playing EVIL to a T but I'm finding I'm not mad over this. Guess we need someone to stir up trouble, and classic stereotypes can be entertaining. I think it helps that the other somewhat irritating characters (i.e. Hyo-sim's family) in this show aren't as frustrating and they've got shades of nuance to them so it's a relatable kind of frustrating. I've literally got one of each in my extended family, so the family drama doesn't seem too wild or out of proportion to me.

- Granny escaped!! Didn't think she'd do that so quickly but I'm guessing we're setting up for an amnesia plotline here, with granny conveniently living at Hyo-sim's place.

- Tae-min's sister (the one that the parents seemed shady about when asked where she was), I'm going to guess maybe she's the homeless girl we've seen? Would further link the two families together too lol

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This is a weekender, thus everyone will be connected to everyone. 😁😁

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Yay! Finally got to watch this. So far I like all the people the drama wants me to like, hate everyone it wants me to hate, am outraged at everything it wants me to be outraged at. So far so good.

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😄😄
We were missing you!

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🥰 thank you!

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