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Perfect Wife: Episode 11

It’s as if finally hearing the word “crazy” has unhinged something inside Eun-hee, and she makes no more pretense of being the friendly, helpful landlord. Jae-bok thought she couldn’t be surprised by anything Eun-hee does anymore, but she was so wrong… Eun-hee is letting her psycho flag fly for all to see. And though you’d think transparency would be less frightening, it goes to show just how far Eun-hee is willing to go to get what she wants.

 
EPISODE 11 RECAP

Stunned to see Eun-hee and Jung-hee together at the gala, Jae-bok confronts them. Eun-hee freely admits that she likes Jung-hee, but Jae-bok tells her that she can’t do that. She says that he may be her ex-husband but he’ll always be her friend and the father of her children, so he needs to stay healthy.

Eun-hee asks why she can’t like him, and her superior expression falters when Jae-bok tells her right to her face, “Because you’re a psycho.”

Bong-gu’s been watching from close by, and he moves closer when Jung-hee grabs Jae-bok by the wrist. He’s whistling casually and seems relaxed, but the way he eyes Jung-hee’s hand makes his meaning clear: Let go, or else.

Jung-hee and Jae-bok go somewhere private, where Jung-hee asks if calling Eun-hee a psycho wasn’t a bit harsh. Jae-bok reminds him that they aren’t even legally divorced yet and Eun-hee is already trying to stake a claim on him. Jung-hee admits that of course he’s trying to gain Eun-hee’s favor, adding that he has no choice if he wants to be a better man and father.

He’s called away for a meeting, and Jae-bok calls after him that nothing in life is free. Jung-hee just says he’ll do whatever he has to do to succeed. Jae-bok watches him walk away with Eun-hee, no longer the pathetic, submissive man she thought she knew.

Bong-gu offers to let Jae-bok punch him to release her anger, then regrets it when she takes him up on it. He gets a call with some info on Brian, and leaves the building without a word to Jae-bok.

Speaking of Brian, Na-mi somehow escapes him and hides in the gala crush. When she spots Jung-hee across the room she yells his name over and over, but when he looks her way, her face is obscured by the crowd. She screams, “It’s Na-mi!” and he looks again, but Eun-hee is onto her and hustles him into the elevator.

Once he’s gone, Eun-hee whips off her heels and starts running after Na-mi, stepping on some broken glass from a dropped wine bottle on the way. She pulls the glass out and just keeps going, shoving party-goers out of her way and leaving bloody footprints behind her.

Eun-hee cuts Na-mi off in an empty hallway to ask her why she’s here. Na-mi asks if the rumors are true that Eun-hee and Jung-hee are getting married, and Eun-hee says with a smirk that that’s what she believes. But when Na-mi asks if Eun-hee had Hyung-sun hire her to seduce Jung-hee, Eun-hee goes all wide-eyed and plays innocent.

She adjusts her grip on her heel so that she’s holding it like a weapon, then lunges at Na-mi. Na-mi grabs her arm, so Eun-hee uses her other hand to get a handful of Na-mi’s hair, and the two grapple to gain the upper hand.

Having seen Na-mi at the party, Jae-bok follows them and breaks up the fight before anyone is seriously hurt. Eun-hee says she was only warning Na-mi not to make a scene and that Na-mi attacked her first, but Jae-bok doesn’t believe that, and says so.

She warns Eun-hee that if Na-mi is harmed, she’ll know it was her or Hyung-sun, but Eun-hee just scoffs and asks if she’d be responsible if anything happened to her, then. Jae-bok retorts that she wouldn’t touch an insane person, and Eun-hee’s confident smile slips. She collects her shoes and her composure and sails off as if they’d been discussing nothing more upsetting than the weather.

Hyung-sun gets a call from a spy that Na-mi showed up at the gala, then another call from Mrs. Park (Hye-ran’s stalker and Hyung-sun’s old schoolmate). Annoyed, she hangs up on Mrs. Park without a word.

Eun-hee fixes her hair and clothes and makes her way upstairs to the meeting, where Jung-hee is being congratulated on his new chief director’s position. He shakes hands around the room, except for Boss Jo, who he ignores again. Ha.

After the meeting, Jung-hee and Eun-hee hang back to talk, and he notices that she’s limping. He makes her sit on the desk and checks her foot, using a handkerchief to bandage her still-bleeding cut. She stops him from going for help and asks him to stay with her for a bit.

As they sit silently, side by side, Eun-hee remembers one time when she’d waited for him after a concert. They’d obviously been dating, judging by the way they kiss and cuddle. Eun-hee had gone by a different name then, Eun-kyung, and she’d looked different enough that Jung-hee doesn’t recognize her anymore.

While Won-jae is lecturing her class on human sexuality, she halts when she thinks she sees Sam-kyu sitting with the students, giving her the eye. He disappears, only to reappear lounging in the windowsill, and the sight of his kissy lips makes Won-jae’s heart race.

The real Sam-kyu is with Hye-ran, currently giving her a ride to Won-jae’s house, where she’s still living. He asks if it’s true that Won-jae is still single (her husband died), and Hye-ran teases him, encouraging him to make a move if he’s interested. He throws an arm around Hye-ran and says she’s more his type, though he quickly ditches her when Won-jae walks up to them.

She says she had to walk because she couldn’t get her car through some construction, and Sam-kyu comes to her rescue by offering to drive her car around. Won-jae seems to enjoy watching Sam-kyu expertly reverse her car away from the construction, and in the backseat, Hye-ran observes them shrewdly.

Jae-bok is called to Jin-wook’s school, where he’s been caught in possession of two cell phones. She tells him that she’s known about the smartphone for a while and asks who gave it to him. When Jin-wook hesitates, Jae-bok says she already knows the answer, but she was hoping he would be honest. Jin-wook admits that it was Eun-hee and asks Jae-bok not to be mad at her.

Eun-hee skips around Jae-bok’s family’s part of the house, giggling happily to herself. She directs workers to bring all new furniture into Jae-bok’s bedroom and fills the closet with suits for Jung-hee, right next to her own clothing.

She’s ironing Jung-hee’s shirts when Jae-bok arrives home and sees Eun-hee behaving as if she’s already Jung-hee’s wife. She finds her room redecorated, and Eun-hee explains that since Jae-bok moved out, she wanted to make the room nice for Jung-hee to sleep in.

Jae-bok demands to know why she got a king-sized bed when Jung-hee sleeps alone before tossing Eun-hee’s clothes out of the closet. She waves her rental agreement under Eun-hee’s nose, loudly reminding her that even if she and Jung-hee are divorced, this room is still hers.

Next, she shows Eun-hee the phone she confiscated from Jin-wook and asks if it was a bribe to make him like her. Eun-hee gave him the phone knowing that Jae-bok is trying to limit Jin-wook’s gaming, and she sweetly argues that it’s important for kids to develop hand-eye coordination.

Downstairs, Hyung-sun approaches Jin-wook while he’s waiting for his mother. She tells him that he should have been more careful not to get caught with the phone and wonders out loud if Jae-bok will hit Eun-hee again.

Jae-bok informs Eun-hee that her son’s development is none of her business, but Eun-hee serenely says that she’ll be his mom soon, when the divorce is final and she and Jung-hee get married. Jin-wook overhears and angrily accuses his mom of lying about the divorce. Jung-hee arrives home and hears them fighting, and when he gets upstairs, Jin-wook blurts out that he wants to live with his dad.

Strangely, for all the interest she’s shown in the children thus far, Eun-hee doesn’t look one bit pleased at the idea. Jae-bok is initially stunned, but then she says that maybe it would be best for Jin-wook to be with his father. She tells Jin-wook that it’s his decision, but he’s still expected to obey her rules, like the limits on game-playing.

Jae-bok sends Jin-wook back downstairs where he runs into Won-jae, her daughter Che-ri, and his sister, Hae-wook. Hyung-sun asks Won-jae how she got in, so Won-jae says that Jae-bok gave her the code and repeats it (020321). Che-ri notices that it sounds like a date: March 21, 2002.

Won-jae agrees and thinks it must have been an important day to Eun-hee when she was in college. Hyung-sun goes stiff and snipes at Won-jae not to sit on the leather couch because she just polished it. Just to be ornery, Won-jae tells the kids to rub their butts on the couch to help the leather absorb the polish, hee.

Jae-bok insists that Eun-hee sign an oath not to interfere with the kids again. Jung-hee objects to the way Jae-bok is treating Eun-hee, but she points out that a normal neighbor wouldn’t develop feelings for the man next door, or give him a promotion at his job, or redecorate his bedroom.

Eun-hee agrees to sign the oath. She writes that she won’t contact the children, and Jae-bok instructs her to add that she won’t come upstairs for any reason.

Once they’re alone, Jae-bok mentions that it hasn’t been long since Na-mi died (as far as Jung-hee knows), and yet he’s living such a nice life already. She grumbles that he’ll have to learn the hard way, but he swears he can keep Eun-hee under control.

They go downstairs, where Jae-bok repeats that Jin-wook should stay. She asks if Hae-wook wants to stay too, but Hae-wook says she’ll go with her mom. Jin-wook looks like he regrets his rash decision, but he’s caught in his own bluff.

Eun-hee brings milk and cookies to his room later (so much for the oath) and tells him in a kind voice to go to his mom. He refuses, so she takes him by the arm and says she’ll even drive him. Jin-wook wrenches his arm out of her hand, and her expression goes cold.

Jae-bok’s words haven’t fallen on deaf ears — Jung-hee thinks about everything she’s said, and wonders what he’s doing. But then he tells himself not to be weak, adding that he can put up with this much, at least.

Eun-hee brings him some milk and pouts that she’s upset at how Jae-bok still acts like his wife. She grabs Jung-hee’s hand and surprises him by blurting out, “Let’s get married.” Jung-hee looks unsettled, but we don’t hear his answer.

A few minutes later, Eun-hee runs downstairs and orders Hyung-sun to remove her wedding photo with Kyung-woo, because her real husband is here now. Hyung-sun begs Eun-hee to let her do the dirty work, but Eun-hee sneers that Na-mi showed up at the gala today, so Hyung-sun’s track record isn’t that great. She says that she’ll take care of everything and make sure it’s done right.

That night, Hyung-sun has another nightmare. This time it’s of Bong-gu showing up at the door with a couple of policemen, there to arrest her for the attempted murder of Na-mi. They drag her off while Eun-hee just watches.

Hyung-sun leaps out of bed in a panic, runs out, and somehow gets into Bong-gu’s apartment. She attacks Na-mi while she’s sleeping and begins strangling her, determined to make sure she’s dead this time. Apparently Brian has been following Hyung-sun, because he comes to Na-mi’s rescue.

Bong-gu comes home a few seconds later to pandemonium. He grabs Brian when he tries to run, twisting his arm and slamming him against the wall. He calls Sam-kyu, pretending to be calling the police, but suddenly Na-mi tackles him, allowing both Brian and Hyung-sun to escape.

Na-mi sobs that Brian saved her life, and that he told her (probably at the gala) that he would pay for their stepmother’s expensive treatments if Na-mi promised not to turn Hyung-sun in. Bong-gu wonders how Brian and Hyung-sun are connected, but Na-mi doesn’t know.

Hyung-sun follows Brian all the way out to the street, where she’s more focused on the fact that he’s holding her hand than on his anger. He yanks his hand away and she comes to her senses, accusing him of being the one who saved Na-mi’s life. She screams at Brian, but he says that he couldn’t stand to see her arrested for murder.

She yells that nobody knows she’s his mother, but he says it would still be a problem. He asks if she’s willing to see Eun-hee ruined again, which has Hyung-sun looking cornered. Brian adds that whatever she does, she’s in the palm of his hand, just as she locked them up in the palm of her hand once.

Whatever he means by that, it causes Hyung-sun to dissolve into heartbroken tears. But a car pulls up and a chauffeur jumps out to open the door, and in seconds, Brian is gone.

Upstairs, Bong-gu mutters that those people’s money doesn’t give them the right to interfere with people’s lives. Na-mi reminds him that he likes money too, which is why he sorts his women according to their wealth. That earns her a death glare, ha.

But after she falls asleep, Bong-gu looks at his call list on his phone — and sure enough, he has his women saved not under their names, but under their net worth. He puts his phone away without returning any calls and gives himself a long, hard look in the mirror.

Won-jae finds Jae-bok doing Jin-wook’s laundry, and she asks if it’s okay that Jin-wook is still in the same house as Eun-hee. Jae-bok is sad, but she’s comforted by the fact that Jung-hee’s mother is supposed to be there (meaning that Jin-wook won’t be left alone with Eun-hee).

Hae-wook has an accident in bed, and Jae-bok tells her that she did that a lot as a child too. But after Hae-wook is asleep, Jae-bok asks Che-ri if Hae-wook has had accidents before, and Che-ri says that she has.

Sam-kyu meets with Jung-hee and tells him that Na-mi is alive, claiming to have overheard Bong-gu talking about her. He also informs Jung-hee that Na-mi was paid to seduce him, and Jung-hee remembers the thick envelope she dropped once when he startled her at the hospital.

Bong-gu decides to let himself be used by Eun-hee just to see how far she’ll go, so he calls her to meet. She’s guarded but curious, and she asks what he’ll do for her in return for her support. Bong-gu says he’ll do anything she wants. Eun-hee gets a text from Sam-kyu then, reporting that he told Jung-hee the truth about Na-mi.

Jung-hee sits on the floor of his fancy new office, shaking and crying as he realizes that Na-mi was paid to seduce him. He calls Boss Jo in, who insinuates that Na-mi also dated him for money, and worse.

Bong-gu draws up a chart to explain to Jae-bok how he’s connected all the players. He outlines how Hyung-sun paid Na-mi to date Jung-hee, but Na-mi made a mistake and developed real feelings for him. Jae-bok deduces that that’s why Hyung-sun tried to kill Na-mi, and Bong-gu says that it was Brian who faked Na-mi’s death, though he can’t find any information on him.

Jae-bok continues that Eun-hee is at the center of it all… but why? Bong-gu thinks it’s because she wants Jung-hee, though that seems a simple goal for such an elaborate plan. He says that he’s working on Eun-hee, but just as Jae-bok asks what he means to do, Sam-kyu barges in. They barely get their info board flipped over before he sees it.

Che-ri sees Jin-wook at school and asks if he really likes Eun-hee so much that he’d give up his mother. Jin-wook snaps that he’s angry because his parents lied about getting divorced. Che-ri wisely tells him that his parents’ divorce has nothing to do with him.

Jin-wook goes home that afternoon and asks Eun-hee to make him an after-school snack, like she’s done many times before. But instead of cheerfully complying, she’s all, Why should I?

Won-jae gives Hae-wook a psychological test and determines that she may have separation anxiety from her parents’ split. Worried about Jin-wook, Jae-bok calls Jung-hee’s mom, who says she took him to prep class. She doesn’t reveal that she’s in a designer shop with Eun-hee, who has her smiling with her good daughter-in-law face back on. Jae-bok senses that something is wrong and rushes out while Won-jae is still talking.

Hungry and home alone, Jin-wook tries to make himself some ramyun. He spills the pot all over the floor, splashing the boiling liquid on himself. His first thought is for his mother, and how he’s been so awful to her lately. Jae-bok’s maternal instinct has her showing up right as her son needs her, and they hold each other, crying and apologizing.

Once the crisis is over, she goes straight to find Eun-hee and Jung-hee’s mother still shopping. She confronts Jung-hee’s mother for lying about taking Jin-wook to prep class, but before things get heated, Eun-hee sends Jung-hee’s mom off for a facial.

Jae-bok asks Eun-hee why she knowingly left Jin-wook home by himself. Eun-hee says with feigned innocence that Jae-bok made her promise to stay away from the children, and that she’s being good to Jung-hee’s mother because she’ll be her mother-in-law soon.

Jae-bok asks how Eun-hee is able to drop Jin-wook so fast, when just recently she was bribing him with phones and pretending to be his mother at school. Eun-hee just says flippantly, “He’s not my child,” and adds that both kids have been getting tedious lately.

Jae-bok is horrified that Eun-hee could be so dismissive of Jung-hee’s children in front of their mother. Eun-hee gives a derisive laugh at the word “mother” and asks if a mother is really such a big deal. She says that giving birth doesn’t make you a mother, then her attention is drawn by a woman nearby who’s spanking her crying child.

The spectacle draws a crowd, and Jae-bok is disturbed, but Eun-hee is pulled into an old memory. She recalls her own mother spanking Brian like that when he was small while shrieking that she was sick of him and wanted him to just die. Eun-hee had thrown her arms around her brother, shielding him from their mother’s blows, while Hyung-sun screamed at them to get lost.

Seeing the same thing happening to another child, something inside Eun-hee snaps. She runs over and grabs the woman’s arm, asking furiously why she’s taking her anger out on a child. She looks like she might actually hurt the woman, but Jae-bok pulls her away, and Eun-hee turns her outrage to the gawking crowd.

She yells at them for watching as a child is physically abused, then starts screaming at them and flailing wildly. Jae-bok grabs Eun-hee in her arms, trying to calm her down, but Eun-hee shoves her away. She snarls at Jae-bok, “You get lost, too,” and when Jae-bok stares at her, unsure what to do, Eun-hee screams at the top of her lungs, “GET LOST!!

 
COMMENTS

For the first time, I find myself just as scared for Eun-hee as of her. If her mental illness stems from childhood trauma, then it gives my reaction to her behavior an element of pity that it didn’t have before. Particularly if it was her mother meting out the abuse, and if Eun-hee felt that she had to protect Brian by taking his share of abuse onto herself. I can imagine that Jung-hee was probably the first person to ever show Eun-hee love the way it should be, and so when she lost him, she may have felt that she lost the one person who ever loved her without also hurting her. It makes her obsession with him understandable if not justifiable, particularly if she wasn’t mentally healthy to begin with. And it makes me scared of what she might do if she “loses” him again, because she’s already beginning to behave erratically.

At the beginning of the episode, I kept thinking about how much Jung-hee has changed from the submissive, begging, whining husband that Jae-bok knows to this confident, determined person we see now. Last week I said that a fancy suit and a haircut don’t make a person change overnight… but the more I think about it, the more I realize that for someone like Jung-hee, it really can happen that way. When he said that he’ll do anything if it leads to success, I suddenly understood that rather than changing, he’s actually just doing the same thing he’s always done, which is to give people what he thinks will work with them. He begged and whined because that’s what worked with Jae-bok. But then it stopped working, and Eun-hee showed up, and what she wanted was a Jung-hee who stands up for himself, who is a leader, who is confident in his abilities. So that’s what he gives her. He hasn’t changed at all, he’s only doing what he’s always done — reflecting how others see him.

I’ve been assuming all this time that Eun-kyung was just a crazy fan of Jung-hee’s in his rock band days, or at most a close friend with a crush. I never anticipated that Jung-hee actually returned Eun-hee’s feelings, and it explains so much. No wonder Eun-hee is so possessive and determined not only to get “her” man back, but to do it in a way that does the most damage to Jae-bok in the process. I’m unsure why she felt she had to do this under a different identity, unless she just went completely off the rails when Jung-hee left her and she did something that she knew would make him stay far away if he knew who she was. Considering that even Hyung-sun’s casual acquaintances at the time knew that Eun-hee had some sort of psychotic break, I’m guessing that if she did do something, it was pretty spectacularly bad.

I still think that Brian is the key to the whole truth, both of Eun-hee’s past and of her present. He knows what their mother did when they were children, and what happened to Eun-hee when she lost Jung-hee. Brian obviously has money too, judging by his chauffeured car and his ability to travel around the world at a whim, and I can’t help but think that the source of their money also has something to do with all of this. I find it interesting that Brian is always hiding his face whenever he interferes with Hyung-sun’s plans, and it was even more interesting when Hyung-sun reassured him that nobody knows they’re related. Why does Brian have to hide his identity and family ties? Is he famous? Or possibly, his and Eun-hee’s father could be someone influential (I suspect they’re the children of an affair, as Hyung-sun was previously accused of being someone’s mistress, and we never hear any of them mention a father).

It’s brilliant how the show continues to lead our assumptions in one direction only to drop the truth on us and have us gobsmacked that we were wrong all along, thinking we had all of the relevant information when in fact we only had tiny pieces. The way the plot is written has a way of making the audience believe that we know everything we need to know in order to draw reasonable conclusions. But like a talented illusionist, it deliberately points our attention in one direction while the real information is actually very different. I think that’s why it’s always such a surprise when we learn the truth, and why that surprise never gets stale, because the show isn’t just dropping twists, but actually changing what we already believed was true. That’s what makes this show so exciting to watch, for me anyway — the way it keeps gleefully crowing, “Nope, you thought you were right, but you’re SO wrong!” But for once, I’m not impatient to uncover all the answers, because the journey itself is such a fun ride. I’m actually enjoying being toyed with, and I’m comfortable trusting the show to pay off in a way that won’t betray that trust.

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Tsk tsk... I wonder why three women keep fighting over someone like Jung Hee.

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The biggest mystery of them all.

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I think it's because he reflects them in a way that uplifts and validates them...Nami enjoyed his earnestness, vulnerabilty and was drawn to that sadness and wandering aura he had in his marriage to Jae Book.
Jae Bok probably enjoyed the initial passion and charm and then found herself (rightfully, as this episode showed) as the foundational leading head of a household. He just agrees with her all the time and, to be fair, 1) She's almost always right and 2) she was okay with it till she discovered he was a cheater...
With Eun Hee, we've seen him fall for her manipulation even when he's not 100% okay with it. How much more intoxicating that must have been when he was sincerely in love with her? Maybe this should be called Perfect Husband (semi-ironically of course - someone so easily led would be a right pain to be married to!) Or Compulsive Chameleon...

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"I think its because he reflects them in a way that uplifts and validates them"

+100000000!!!!!!!

In the last recap, someone said that Jung Hee was not a person, but a reaction of those around him. He sees their view and expectation of him, and tries to be that person to them. Jung Hee is like a sponge, forever soaking up expectations around him. Its why someone so spineless can cheat on his very strong headed wife. Na Mi made him feel wanted, desirable and there was no way he could crush her heart by rejecting her now, could he?
For Jae Bok, probably the same thing; she fell for his charm and charisma during his rocker days and he most likely treated her like a queen, giving her the love, attention she needed and had to keep that image up, now that that was the person she saw him as.

But as the saying goes, 'If Love is blind, Marriage is an eye opener'. He could only keep that up for so long, and since there are bound to be lows in life, he probably internalized every failure, allowing his self esteem to crumble and crumble until we arrived at this, the loser phase.

As for Eun Hee, only the good Lord knows with that one! It could have been real, it could have been entirely her delusion and they accident could have been during a kidnap. Who knows? Jung Hee is deceiving himself if he thinks he can handle her. Lmao, who? The perpetual people pleaser that will probably just forget his own existence when she displays a highly dramatic rendition of 'Fragile, Broken Woman–scorned by fate with no one to turn to, but him' ? My brother, OYO( Own Your Own) for you oh!!!

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right?! he must have some majorly redeeming trait that we just aren't seeing. if it were just eun-hee after him I would chalk it up to her trying to get her past happiness back, and not necessarily him as a person. but na-mi fell for him too... what is it about this guy .____.

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My thoughts exactly...

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I was amused at the part where Bong-gu and Jae-bok were trying to decipher Eun-hee's motive. JB was like "she did all this just to get JH?" with such a skeptical look. She and BG find it incredible that EH is going to so much trouble to get a loser like JH too lol.

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Let Eunhee gets Junghee, please!!!
Jae bok and her kids deserve a better life without him...
Damn, ep 11 and no definite sign (they might filled the divorce papers tough but still...) that JB will leave JH. The male lead is yoon sang-hyun after all... Sighhhh...
If we gonna have to ship JB and JH, could you please At least makes us like him even just a little, show!!

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Yes, I agree. EH can have JH. And no, not joining the JB and JH ship. Not even if JH claimed amnesia while cheating with NM.

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Me thinks as a highly intelligent and rational woman, Jaebok would practice what she preached and remain friends with Junghee. She knows this has been a dysfunctional marriage and wouldn't just stay for the children.

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Agree with you. There is no sign Jae Bok will want to get back with Jung Hee, especially after seeing this man is so easily swayed by women, twice.

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Rather than getting more concrete signs of JB and JH's divorcing for good, JB's obvious worries on Hae Wook's psychological test results seems to lay the groundwork for reconciliation, if not at least cohabitation. I'd be pretty annoyed with the writers if that ever happens.

Also, my main disappointment in the story so far - less and less screen time for JB and BG!

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For the sake of their kids, I think they should co-parent and be civil/ friendly with each other. But picking up where they left off.. I don't agree. That would be tragic for JB (and selfish me as a viewer). And +1000 on less screen time for JB and BG. I look forward to their scenes together.

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Agree with you both! The show totally needs more JBxBG scenes. They work so well together and I'm hoping for them to end up together. I seriously see no signs of JB getting back with that easily swayed loser. She said it once; She doesn't want a marriage with no trust and to bear everything just for the sake of the kids, she is a 21st century woman!!

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Yes. Let her keep him. I despise this guy. I can't even fully describe how much.

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What happened to eunhee"s exhubsband anyway ?? Wasn't he kidnapped ??

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I hope he is still alive ?

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I'm not convinced they were ever really married.

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I agree with you and I think he's gone away because Eun Hee only 'hired' him to come back for those moments and now he's done his part there's no need for him in the picture anymore.

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I love Jae Bok!!

And I have seen comments saying that the show is makjang, but I don't think it is honestly- makjang requires more senseless histronics, and a shallow repetitive plot with a cinderella love story and female leads that are not like Jae Bok, and the "evil females" even more illogically psychotic than Eun Hee. As creepy as it sounds, Eun hee sounds like one of those creepy people the victim ends up talking about on the it happened to me part of the internet, lol.

Also...Jae Bok isn't fighting OVER jung hee? She's fighting more for the people she has to protect, and that includes JH because of the reasons she stated in the previous episodes. I suppose you could say she is fighting "over" JH, but she's not doing it in that squabbling makjang pathetic dont abandon me way. Personally though, I dont see it that way - Eunhee messed up her life, and while she has no lingering feelings left for JH, that doesn't mean that she should'nt stop Eunhee, especially knowing what kind of person she is.

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This drama is way too crazy for me to continue watching.

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I wanted to watch this show since the beginning but I decided to spoiler myself some episodes to see where it was going, as I can't absolutely stand when cheating is used in a superficial way in fiction. Knowing south korean society, and seeing that Oska (sorry lol) was presented as the male lead, I thought (and still fear) our Jae Bok would have to forgive him and that in the end we would have a big happy family in the most illogical, disrespectful and cheesy way. I'm still not sure if that's what is going to happen, but let me tell you: if they are gonna end up together again I will call the narrative a cheating one, considering Jae Bok self discovery journey based on self respect – and I feel a final reconciliation would contradict all this.

Jae Bok is such a refreshing protagonist. I think I didn't ever see a female protagonist speak up like her. She actually talks back to whoever mistreat her, not giving credit to stupid social conventions, nor to the benefit of the narration. Usually the protagonist falls for the tricks of the Bad One and just shuts up when is mistreated so the plot can go on and on, and the Bad One is free to do his evil scheming. But Jae Bok, oh, she doesn't accept anyone's stupidity. She's reletable because she sounds real. You can feel her pain and you know she doesn't make a scene not because she's The Strong Woman, but for a series of reasons that involve her being as a character, her integrity, her pride, her cleverness.
I really like her as a woman and I'm proud to have her as the protagonist. I'm just happy this show is respectful of the cheating problematic, that it's not trivialized it, nor used as a joke.

The husband is scum and the drama is not keeping it secret. I appreciate that he's a character well developed and that there is more in him than the cheater – but sorry, nope, he's just a sorry excuse for a human being. His need to be pleased and not contradicted is almost pathological, and let's not talk about his ability in the lying department, lol. I often just skip his solo scenes, but I could understand how someone could sympathize with him in a way (?), as he's not a bi-dimensional character. I hope he will understand how to be a better person and that he will become aware of how much he did wrong to Jae Bok, his children – and even Na Mi. Because I think right now he doesn't really understand it fully.

Eun Hee is just delightfully crazy, she is the real Perfect Wife of the title, that's so clever and creepy at the same time.
I'm so happy this show is allowing a female to be the antagonist, and a psychotic one, when usually in media this role is reserved to men. In fact, Perfect Wife is one of the dramas with more feminist contents I ever seen. The women are all interesting, well developed, and downright fascinating, I can't believe my eyes and – please, drama god, please don't disappoint me on this 'till the end.

Last but not the least, our Bong Gu <3 I have to...

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I have to say, Sung Joon is NAILING it. This is, like, his best role ever. He's doing great things with his eyes and his voice and his mannerism and... uuugh... ok, I may be a little bit in love with Bong Gu. I also like that in the beginning he was presented as a poser, even if a loser one (lol), and that the show is allowing him to grow up in a beautiful man. Maybe he wasn't the best brother, and certainly not a good boyfriend to his rich women, but now - now he knows it. And you, as a viewer, just know he's a very good man, and it's beautiful seeing him become better and better.
And you just know he will never be unfair to Jae Bok. I will be delighted if they really give us Bong Gu/Jae Bok as endgame couple, as the show seems to suggest. I read in a lot of comment that they are viewed as perfect friends but, If I must say, the narration screams to me that they are gonna be a thing since episode 1.
Or maybe I just adore the fact that they built something (that could be more) on friendship and mutual respect. It seems to me that Jae Bok and Bong Gu can help each other be better persons, and they can only receive good from each other in a fair give-and-take, healthy relationship. Since the beginning they had beautiful and very meaningful, emotional scenes that show how they understand each other in a deep, human and instinctive level.
If they are gonna stay platonic, I must say I will be a little bit disappointed. Oh, blame the fact that Sung Joon and Ko So Young have an insane chemistry, lol.
(I'm sorry for my english but this drama really intrigues me and I needed to externalize my thoughts xD)

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Well said! No need to be sorry for your english. I agree with you about JB and BG, at least I hope JB will not reconcile with JH. Regardless of the fact that the actor who plays JH is the lead.

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the narration screams to me that they are gonna be a thing since episode 1.

I dunno - I see Jae-bok reacting to him as if he's a kid, and if she's the age I think (near 40), she's just about old enough to be his Mom. It's the same attitude she's taken with regards to Na-mi: Jae-bok's a Mom, and Na-mi is clearly just a green kid who makes bad decisions.

I'd be very surprised if they had any sort of romance between them.

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I don't think Jaebok is old enough to be a mom to a guy in his late 20s/early 30s like Bong Gu. But I can see she cares for him with maternal affection and sees him as a cute kid. Jaebok probably sees a younger and naive version of herself in Nami.

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Sung Joon is only in his mid-20s (born in 1990), and Ko So-young is 45. So...yes, she is old enough to be his Mom, and not in a creepy child-bride way, either.

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The ages of the characters are not the same as the ages of the actors. It was mentioned in episode one that Bong-gu was born in 1987, making him 29/30 (depending on when his birthday is), and Jae-bok was born in 1981, making her 35/36. Only a 6 year age difference, so no reason they couldn't get together. (Although even if they had an 18 year age difference like the actors, it's not as though dramaland has never done romantic pairings with a large age gap before.)

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Yeah I agree about the age difference, she's definitely old enough to be his mother in real life, even though they're playing different ages as characters. But I still see her as acting in a motherly way toward BG, and even though I love their chemistry together & relationship as the perfect odd couple, and love them both as characters, especially BG (Sung Joon has totally outdone himself on this one!), I just don't see them as a romantic couple, for me, it's just too weird and would ruin it. Not that I don't want to see him involved in romance, that's for sure! Just not in this case, it would only complicate things, but yes anything is possible in dramaland!

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I love love love everything you wrote. Don't be sorry for your English, it is perfect and you conveyed my personal thoughts about the show better than I would have ever done. Thank you <3

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I've not watched the whole episode yet, but I just got to the party where crazy pants remembered college with Jun Hee. Is it possible that 1) it was all in her head, their dating, or 2) since she is a stalker, that she is putting herself in Jae Bok's place in her head? I have no one to watch with except for all of you lovely people so I had to get the burning question out there. I will now finish the episode. Thanks for your time!

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I don't think so... There have been multiple times where JH asks if they met before because he's been having multiple flashbacks of someone's arm flying out to protect him when he is with EH

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I actually think it is one of two things 1. They did date but he lost his memory in the car accident that we saw in a flash back several episodes ago. 2. The lovey dovey stuff is all in her head and the car accident and memory loss is real. He definitely does not recognize her now though he senses some familiarity and can't figure it out.

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I can't help wondering if the car accident we see is the result of EH kidnapping JH when he tries to break it off with her and she goes crazy. That would explain the reference to her being paralyzed that her mom made earlier and his amnesia with regards to EH.

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Oh maaaannnn..... i'm so scared of Eun-Hee. She really needs to see a doctor! I'm so scared to see her facial expression changes in seconds.

I'll be really mad if JB gets back to JH by the end of the show. JB is better to be left alone. She's more than capable of that. I don't know, but I dislike JH. He's a good father, maybe. But why would three women fight over a loser like him? I'm really impatient with him...

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Ladies, Ladies, can we please get off the “a woman NEEDS a man” bandwagon? Don’t get me wrong I LOVE Bong-gu, and I LOVE the idea of Jae-bok with Bong-gu. Jae-bok is recently divorced or will be divorced soon (lets hope). I don’t believe that she immediately needs to find herself in another relationship. It’s okay to be alone. It’s okay to be a single mom. Let’s give the woman some time to come to terms with her new life before coupling her with another man.

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Agree. The problem is most viewers love romance ? lol.

But I am so agree with you. Woman can survive even without a man, eso someone like Jae Bok. And she also have awesome besties who are also single.

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let's just face the truth here fellow keyboard tappers, crackers is just plain straight up crackers!

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I think JB needs to let the divorce go through and then JH should reunite with Na mi. It's obvious those two immature and vulnerable people really love each other. JB will be great on her own and will find a strong, fun, self-confident playmate in her life - like Sung Joon. It's his best role since his turn as "Sweet Potato" in "I Need Romance 3" - which was such a hot and sexy noona romance drama!!!!

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https://youtu.be/ukqT3Xl7QSk

Brian suited up and and hair fixed at 0:17 ... DANG HE IS FINE #HakYeon #N

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I cannot wait for recap epi 12!

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Jae Bok is not fighting for Jung Hee as a man, but for a father to their children. If he is childless, maybe she won't give a damn with everything. She is a mother, so apparently she needs to care for their wellbeings. One of them is by having healthy parent. She is afraid that Jung Hee will be affected with the psycho Eun Hee, and as a result the kids will suffer too. I think as a mother's nature, she surely feeling this thing.

I doubt she will get back with Jun Hee. Please show, dont go that way. Junhee has provided so many reasons for Jae Bok not to reconcile with him.

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Thank you! Its such a simplistic reduction to say all three ladies are fighting over Jung Hee–Na Mi and Eun Hee maybe, but MOS DEF not Jae Bok!

As we've come to learn, Jae Bok is a very caring and empathic person and she will more than look out for Jung Hee, not only because he was a husband she once shared vows with, but especially because he is the father of her children.
We've seen her put their needs before her own feelings before, like after she kicked him out, she took him back when she saw how much her children missed their father. She'll stay friends with Jung Hee after the divorce ( cause there WILL be a divorce lol) and will look out for him as her children's father. She ain't ignoring him, not after seeing how cray cray, Eun Hee can be.

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I don't want to sound harsh, I know Eun Hee is suffering from dome serious form of psychological disorder but she is legit scary. Jae Bok really needs to get to the source of it all quickly and get her committed.

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Considering that government-funded psychiatric care is very bare bones, it's unlikely that being committed would help her all that much. Since her family is rich she would probably benefit more if they paid for some intensive outpatient treatment, or a private mental hospital.

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I'm hoping the show doesn't get Jae Bok and Jung Hee back together. What they have in common at this point is the love they have for their children. It wouldn't hurt my feelings if Jung Hee got with Na Mi. She actually brought out the best in him, cheater though he may have been.

I am still most interested in when Eun Hee started playing with their lives. Were they happy until she stirred the pot? Did JH become a broken man because of the machinations of Eun Hee? I'm not talking just career and cheating but did she finesse the loan he co-signed? But for Eun Hee would the lives of this family foursome be happy?

Come on drama...I want to know.

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I just started this episode but I had to pause it to come here and say Bong Gu, I love you!!! That whistle and the look! Jae Bok may only ever be his good friend but he is not having it. Love him.

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Same friend same. I loved that scene so much too. he is supporting her so much and it's almost became so natural for him to do so. Idk man, I think there might be something going on between them later in the show and I'd be disappointed if not.

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+1000 to the comment about Sun Joon nailing it. I admit I LOVE when BG comes sassily strolling to JB's side - not necessarily because she needs a rescue, but to show her that she's not alone. I don't deeply need BG to end up with JB - I agree that JB doesn't need a man - but I could sure do with another dose of Sung Joon noona romance with SOMEONE!

I'm bothered by the scene in which BG says he will do whatever EH wants him to do. Too much vulnerability there - she can easily ask him to do something that will out him as being firmly on JB's side. And I think he underestimates how far EH's web spreads; he clearly knows he can't trust SK anymore (which makes me SO angry) but does he know SK is working on JB's two friends? BG is slippery, but I feel like EH can outwit him if she doesn't become even more unhinged.

I'm still suspicious of Brian. If he wants to stop his mother and sister, and if he knows them as well as he seems to, he should know he needs to go all the way: Let them pay for what they've done, and/or have them seek medical treatment. Don't thwart them while dragging them to safety, because that is a mixed message that they'll try to take advantage of next time too.

One last thing on my list of irritations: EH's sudden dismissal of the kids (followed by her defense of the child being publicly punished). Perhaps EH is living what she's learned (i.e., children are nuisance, which is what her mother conveyed to her and Brian) and can no longer react against that programming, but I can't help feeling that she won't pull her punches if she truly doesn't want them around. Would she sabotage JH's attempt at custody? But where would that leave her with JH, who clearly loves his kids?

And yes, sorrynotsorry, I also want to know how far back EH started to spin her web. When, and how, did she snare KW? (And where is he now, anyway?)

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Agree with everything Deenie! Especially about seeing BG in a romance with someone, he does romance so well! Lol. But I don't need or want him in a romance with JB necessarily, just a romance! But I would be happy to just see him in a lot more scenes, come on, he's killing it!

And wonder the same things you brought up. Also, where is EH first husband? He was on his way to tell JB the truth when he got kidnapped by the truck, and JB just forgot about that, him just disappearing into thin air, like it never happened, or what? A smart woman that she is, and she doesn't question or wonder about this?

I really hate when loose ends like this aren't explained or tied up, like no one noticed, it's an insult of our intelligence, and the characters'.

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jinwook is sucha bratty kid. i woudlnt want a kid like that. he gets on my nerves somehow.

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Hmmmn me to. If it was on my side of the pond eh,who are you to be strolling in and demanding things while adults are speaking? Child, you haven't started yet!

More reason why Jae Bok is awesome. I love the way she gives him enough leeway to take decisions for himself but is firm enough to guide him and set boundaries. And when he realizes his mistake, she's always there to correct him and take him back.

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Jae-bok trying to talk logically to Eun-hee had me rolling my eyes; Eun-hee has her own set of logic and reality, it's seriously a waste of time. Totally seconding LollyPip that she needs to be stopped for her own good. Eun-hee is beautifully written and acted; the Stepford Wife-ish facade is super hateful and scary, but when the facade cracked I can't help pitying her too. Will never unsee the actress playing Hyung-sun as bad mom, after seeing her here and in OHY...
I feel bad for Jung-hee. In one hand, I feel like he deserve the half truth about Na-mi since he was never that serious about her in the first place, on the other hand, it nobody deserve to be made so pathetic...
Jae-wook & Cherie are cute bickering together ^^

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I feel like this episode dragged a bit. And I honestly was surprised JH and EH had dated. I dnt think she has changed that much, I really do not understand why he would forget her. The amnesia plot is driving me crazy and really if the only reason she is going to that extent is for JH then am a bit disappointed, though I understand she is mentally unstable... Also, I love the way JB is written but I feel like she should stop confronting EH. I feel like that's all she does. I really want the plot to focus more on her and her life, and what she is doing with BG. Really I just want more screen time with BG.

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I have to admit this episode was a little slow in the middle and agree re: all the confrontations.

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Yes, just more BG time! Lol

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"I think its because he reflects them in a way that uplifts and validates them"

+100000000!!!!!!!

In the last recap, someone said that Jung Hee was not a person, but a reaction of those around him. He sees their view and expectation of him, and tries to be that person to them. Jung Hee is like a sponge, forever soaking up expectations around him. Its why someone so spineless can cheat on his very strong headed wife. Na Mi made him feel wanted, desirable and there was no way he could crush her heart by rejecting her now, could he?
For Jae Bok, probably the same thing; she fell for his charm and charisma during his rocker days and he most likely treated her like a queen, giving her the love, attention she needed and had to keep that image up, now that that was the person she saw him as.

But as the saying goes, 'If Love is blind, Marriage is an eye opener'. He could only keep that up for so long, and since there are bound to be lows in life, he probably internalized every failure, allowing his self esteem to crumble and crumble until we arrived at this, the loser phase.

As for Eun Hee, only the good Lord knows with that one! It could have been real, it could have been entirely her delusion and they accident could have been during a kidnap. Who knows? Jung Hee is deceiving himself if he thinks he can handle her. Lmao, who? The perpetual people pleaser that will probably just forget his own existence when she displays a highly dramatic rendition of 'Fragile, Broken Woman–scorned by fate with no one to turn to, but him' ? My brother, OYO( Own Your Own) for you oh!!!

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