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[Why you should watch] Just Between Lovers

If you’ve been a devoted DB reader over the past few years, you’ve already heard me expound on the greatness of Just Between Lovers any chance I get (like, here, here, and here, for starters). But having an invitation to lay out exactly why you (and every heart-having person on the planet) should watch this life-changing drama feels like a challenge I can’t pass up.

Why life-changing? Because it literally dragged me up from the trenches of one of my bluest moments at a point when I needed strength, courage, comfort, and more than a little company. How’s that for a selling point? Since then, I’ve rewatched it upwards of eight times and, while it’s not always so intense, I still get that warm-broth feeling I first had.

So, if you’re in need of a healing drama, this essay is for you. And if you’ve already reveled in the magic of this masterpiece, then let the list below be a reminder of how truly great this drama is — and why you should (re)watch it.

At its core, Just Between Lovers is a survival story. It’s centered on the aftermath of a major building disaster and all the devastation that continues to ripple out from it, even ten years later. But as the story goes on, we meet more characters, and we get underneath all the piles of emotional rubble they’re carrying around, we start to see not only how far-reaching the consequences are, but also how many ways there are to define “survivor.”

While the story is essentially a romance between the two central protagonists, there’s a breadth of characters, each with their own nuance, history, problems, and psychological defenses. There are no true villains here. Every antagonist has a heart. And there’s no perfection either. Every hero is most certainly flawed. The show is a portrayal of humanity, when we’ve hit rock bottom, and the kind of healing that only comes from living through almost unbearable moments — and then finding others who have lived through them too. It’s a reminder that whatever we’re going through is par for the course and we’re not as alone as we may think. And how can you not love that as a take-home message?

1. The Hero

I could probably fill up this whole essay spouting off about this reason alone. I mean, it’s Junho (Junho!) — which is good enough argument to watch anything. Ever. No exceptions. But once we get past that fact, the character he plays, LEE GANG-DOO, happens to be my favorite male lead of all time.

Gang-doo is a perfect balance of hard-headed and soft-hearted. He doesn’t let injustices slide, but will also take a punch when it comes to the people he cares about. He’s scrappy, loud, brash, and a bit of a thug — living in a motel fulltime and doing odd errands for the head of a hostess bar — but he’s also diligent, thoughtful, and kind — paying off his sister’s school loans and working hard at whatever manual labor he can get. (Plus, he’s fine — it’s a little hard to get past that part of the package.)

More than that, though, I love his attitude toward surviving. He may lash out as a way to manage his trauma, but he also recognizes that the world is just a messy and terrible place, and it’s not his fault that things turned out the way they did. He’s resolutely his own person and refuses to let anyone tell him who he should be. And that’s the kind of underdog confidence I can’t help but get behind.

What’s more, when it comes to the female lead, Gang-doo is a freakin’ swoon factory. Yes, it’s true, he starts out moody (though never mean), but when hearts start fluttering between the leads, he’s headed off to the pharmacy for ointment when she burns her hand — and straight through her bedroom window with ice cream when she’s sick (I won’t even mention how he tries to take her cold away with a kiss). But, superficial things aside, he wants to see her heal — and pulls her in his direction so she can start to open up about her own hurt.

2. The Heroine

If I only have good things to say about Gang-doo, just know that the heroine, HA MOON-SOO (Won Jin-ah), is a worthy counterpart. Moon-soo and Gang-doo could be seen as mirrors that don’t exactly match. They both stand up for what they believe is right, but Moon-soo consistently puts herself last. She’s isolated, withdrawn, and suffering silently — which is what Gang-doo tries to nudge her away from.

My affection for Moon-soo lies in her subtle strength. There’s no over-the-top antics with this heroine, but her pain is palpable (and a lot of credit goes to Won Jin-ah for this portrayal). Moon-soo plays caretaker to her alcoholic mother, helps run the family’s bathhouse, and also works fulltime at an architectural practice, all without a word of complaint. But when things get out of hand with her mom, she lets her emotions lead, sobbing and screaming out the truth (which is that she’s scared). While I’m not big into female-saint types that care for everyone but themselves, Moon-soo has a vulnerable strength that’s hard to come by.

But the clincher for me is how she and Gang-doo play off of each other. Moon-soo wants him to stop suffering so much — the same thing he wants for her. And simply by interacting with each other, they start to see new ways of dealing with their wounds. Plus, you know, they fall crazy in love, and it’s a heart-stomping good time to watch.

3. The Friendships

This is a rare drama where I like damn near every character in the entire show. The friendships are so natural (and well written) that I feel uplifted just watching them go about their day-to-day lives. Particularly, I love Gang-doo’s relationships with the carefully crafted cast of outsiders he cares so much about.

First, there’s Halmeoni (Na Moon-hee), Gang-doo’s closest confidant who’s at least three times his age, but acts as way more than a mentor. Halmeoni runs an illegal medical clinic for people with no insurance and gives out life advice the same way she gives out prescriptions. The easy rapport between her and Gang-doo is uncanny — talking as equals, like they’ve known each other forever — and it’s not something I’ve seen replicated in any other drama.

Another fave is Ma-ri (Yoon Se-ah) — the pick-herself-up-by-the-bootstraps madam who manages a hostess bar. She and Gang-doo get along like besties and seemingly love to get in and out of trouble together.

And then there’s Sang-man (Kim Kang-hyun), Gang-doo’s only male friend (which, I admit, is another thing I love about Gang-doo: he understands the ladies). Sang-man is the adult son of the motel owner where Gang-doo lives, and although his intellectual capabilities leave him out of some societal activities, he’s usually the one with the wisest words. I could go on, but all in all, the close-knit friend groups punch this drama up into a higher category.

4. The History

One thing I love about dramas that use real-life events as their base is that I get the bonus of learning about history as I watch (Answer Me 1988 is also a favorite for this reason). While Just Between Lovers isn’t a true story itself, the building collapse at its center is based on a real event: the 1995 collapse of the Sampoong Department Store in Seoul, which is still one of the deadliest structural disasters in world history.

In the drama, it’s depicted as “S Mall” (a clear reference to Sampoong) and many details of the collapse, the search-and-rescue efforts, and the engineering defects behind the disaster are real. As the drama unfolds, we learn about the kinds of people that were caught in the collapse — as well as those that evaded it — and there’s a clear class consciousness that operates with the utmost empathy. For me, this adds a layer of complexity to the story because it’s both an homage to a tragedy and a way to inject the healing power of a great story into something so unthinkable.

5. The Inspiration

On that note, the biggest reason to watch this drama is for the way it deals with grief, loss, suffering, and everyday survival. This is not a show that wants to tug you down and make you feel bad about the world we live in. On the contrary, it reminds us that bad things happen to everybody — nothing we can do about that — and connecting over our common cuts and bruises is a way to gain strength, not a sign of weakness.

That collective spirit is where the drama shines most, leaving us with life lessons about how important it is to find our people. We can’t avoid pain, but we don’t have to make it worse by going at it alone. It’s a drama that aims to heal its viewers right along with its characters — and in my experience, it succeeds in spades. Whenever I need some encouragement, company, or a simple perspective check, I rewatch this show and remember that, whether we know it or not, we’re all in this together — and sometimes it’s only after the unbearably bleak that we’re really able to reach our light.

 
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Awww what a great writeup and if you have never seen Junho in anything (I know crazy talk, but if...) this is a fantastic introduction to him. This drama was really chef's kiss.

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Thanks so much! I have passed by this drama so many times, not sure what to expect of it other than Junho (which though you quite right in saying he could be a reason to watch anything, but KTL put a few doubts in me lol!).

I am glad to add this to my list. Slice of lifers are my cup of tea, and this looks right up my alley.

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he could be a reason to watch anything

As far as I know about you, Minnie, only his Dumbness fits the bill 😉😅

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hahahahaha! Oh, that now falls into 'antique' category for me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I am out of stock and have collected everything available.

Currently I am collecting his 'under discussion' drama names like collector's items 🙆

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Please don't let KTL overshadow the wonder that is Junho and his drama choices. KTL was....lol, not for me so I understand.

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This is very recommended. Hopefully you get a chance to watch it. Junho and Won Jin Ah are amazing here.

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I second @kafiyah-bello’s entire comment.
This drama was my intro to Junho and I came to adore Kangdoo, feel his sorrow, pain and self-loathing and feel happy when he started falling in love. I loved most of the other characters except the fucking, screeching chaebol asshole who I wanted to throttle several times in one ep.
Most of all, beyond, the love story and the quest to uncover and honour their murdered loved ones, I adored the filial but prickly relationship beyween Kangdoo and halmeoni. I don’t think I have seen any other such stellar depiction and still watch many of their scenes every chance I get.
This performance is why I know it is pathetically ridiculous for me to love a characterisation so much that I can’t accept Junho as a chaebol or other creeps. He will always be the broken and justifiably furious at the world, loving but self-destructive and ultimately resilient Kangdoo.

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I loved the scenes of Kangdoo and halmeoni too. I once read that the scene of them at the playground was finished in one go. No reshoot and adjustment needed.

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I’m so glad we’re kindred spirits on that aspect. They are both captivating performers and even though there is 40 years of experience that Junho lacks in comparison to Na Moonhee, I can absolutely believe he rose to the occasion and didn’t let her down. They were amazing together.

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Really ... omo. Hat's off to both of them.

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@seeker The universe keeps sending us signs 😚

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Omo omo omo 😍 😳 😭
Guess what I downloaded it just yesterday on Netflix.

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This was a great drama through and through!!
The drama where I discovered Jun Ho. He was terrific here.

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Really? Then I am too far old Kdrama fans then 😂😂😂.
He is such a great actor since Cold Eyes , even a super small role (I know, I know....everyone else is another level in that movie 😬) but he did leave me an impact with him as Daramji 😉. And yes, I am not a fan of 2PM, didn't even realized him as idol at that time 😅

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So now onto a rewatch,🤣 it is strangely my comfort watch

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LOVE this drama, it's one of my favourites. Everything you said is right, I can't recommend it enough!

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JBL wasn’t my first Kdrama - it was [ponders … ] maybe my 6th or 7th - but it was the one that completely, utterly sold me on them. Junho, of course, but also everything else @dramaddictally says. The emotional punches (almost) never feel manipulative; they feel real. I rewatched it a couple of times in my early drama-viewing days, and I’m a little afraid to go back in case some of the magic will turn out to be easily-seen-through tricks with all of my subsequent drama experience, but I’ll never hesitate to recommend it to anyone who hasn’t seen it yet.

As an enduring side effect, discovering Junho led me back to K-pop, to which I had not been paying much attention, and to a reinvigorated love for 2nd-gen groups and appreciation for more current ones. (It’s always 2PM in my spiritual home.)

Is it flawless? No. Nothing is. The workplace details sometimes stretch belief to the breaking point. Don’t get me started on construction site safety, starting with how to wear a hard hat. But it’s damn close, and its many great points put its flaws in perspective, just as they do in real life. Also, it has Melona bars. Junho eating Melona bars. Go watch it!

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I easily survives re-watching! I go back to it whenever grief catches up on me, and it always delivers. 😉 It's my safety net and lets me bounce back, every time. A drama fir the ages, with so many beilliant performaces by so many brilliant actors!

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Thanks @dramaddictally for campaigning hard for the beanie collective to experience all that this drama has to offer. It sounds like it is one that has all the unique elements that make K-dramas touch the soul. I wonder if it is referenced in this book I just received: How K-dramas can transform your life: powerful lessons on belongingness, healing and mental health by Jeanie Y Chang

I look forward to watching this drama when the time is right and coming back to share my thoughts.

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Kind of a coincidence that I've been planning on giving this a chance for the past few days. Maybe it's a sign.

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I forgot to share an anecdote - albeit embarrassing for me - about my love for JBL.
I had an acquaintance who was also into KDs a few years ago. I recommended JBL passionately and sincerely and they started watching. After a few weeks, we caught up and to my dismay, dumped on JBL relentlessly for some minutes. I am still amazed at my visceral reaction. I’ve never reacted so negatively to anyone based on an entertainment related disagreement but readers, it happened. I couldn’t stand them after that and never saw them again. Good riddance.

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Sounds like the drama was the medium needed to truly understand their perspective on life so you could walk away, fast.

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👏👏👏 Good on you Em.
Any comments on Junho can be easily ignored but one word against Kang-doo and that man, woman or alien is dead to me!! 😭

No worries. @claire2009, you and I will form our very own Kang-doo is TLOML full stop.

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LMAO, it was an acquaintance and you never want that kind of negativity in your life.

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"It reminds us that bad things happen to everybody — nothing we can do about that — and connecting over our common cuts and bruises is a way to gain strength, not a sign of weakness."

This drama is such a healing journey. You said it perfectly, Dramaddictally.

And I want to give a little love to Won Jin Ah! I already knew Jun Ho because of 2PM, Chief Kim, etc. so was actually curious about Jin Ah.

I started the drama with no expectations, but then she showed such a sincere performance that won my heart completely. She was probably the only person in the drama that I didn't recognize from another show, so she felt like a big discovery.

If I'm not wrong, this was her first role. I remember searching for more of her dramas and finding nothing. I mainly got excited about Life (2018 drama), because of her.

But my truly favorite performances of the show were Yoon Se Ah and Na Moon Hee. I even wanted a spin off/prequel with their characters...

I'm smelling time for a rewatch? 😆

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Yes, yes and yes, and yes. I second every single instance you mentioned. I came across JBL in my half-early 😉 kdrama watching days when I was looking for a drama to help me through grief. My father had passed away not so long before after a traumatic four months of dying, and the impact of that had left me feeling very detached, numb and alone. I wasn't alone, there were people around me, but in grief it can feel as if they're miles away and you can't reach them.
Grief is very personal, and this drama shows the impact the building collapse has on so many families and related people. I write "has" because it also shows how long-lasting grief can be. It may never go away. But it shows also the many, many ways how people can deal with it which are as individual as grief itself.
This drama helped me in many ways, but the most important may be that I just (that's an important word in this drama, "just" - 그냥) didn't feel so alone anymore. That was so, so much back then and can't be overestimated.
But it spoiled Junho for me! He's so brilliant in this, and you can see how good he is as an actor, that I couldn't watch a show like King the Land with him because I know what he is able to! But make no mistake, his female counterpart is great as well. For me they're one of the most natural couples in dramaland.

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We are on the same page about many things including grief and its enduring but changing form.
I’m sending a hug backwards through time to that petrolia who was grieving and in so much pain. I’m glad that you JUST didn’t feel as alone.
Take care.

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Thank you. When I read this first I welled up again...🥹 It was an awful time. And it's really fascinating how kdramas can help you deal with hard times!
When I watched JBL for the first time I had the strong sense that whoever wrote the script had a) experience with grief themselves and b) had really done their research. This whole world of a topic is shown and handled very knowingly and delicately.

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But it spoiled Junho for me! He's so brilliant in this, and you can see how good he is as an actor, that I couldn't watch a show like King the Land with him because I know what he is able to!

💯 Exactly that! I know King the Land checked all the rom-com boxes and Junho worked really hard on it but 그냥 ... I just could not see Junho be anything not perfect.

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A show like King the Land just feels like a star vehicle for somebody who is famous, brings in the bucks but can't be bothered with a real task at hand. When you know what Junho is capable of in the acting department it feels even more wrong to put him in a show like
that.
Let's hope for better shows with him! At last, we'll always have JBL. 😉

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It was all the more surprising that *this* is what got chosen from the fabled 100 scripts offered after TRS.

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Junho and Yoona decided to choose KTL because they wanted to have something light and fluffy after the emotionally draining The Red Sleeve and Big Mouth. So I just assumed in order to work with Yoona, KTL was the only option for Junho :-)

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@claire2009
Sadly the stars didn't align and say Hermès to Gu Won and Cheon Sa-rang as they are doing for Sun Sol. 😅

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I can't reply to Healer's' comment, so I'll do it here: yes, that is one explanation I can understand. I read somewhere that before JBL was filmed Junho moved in a single room "apartment" with only a sparse collection of things and lived there for half a year without realky speaking to people. As preparation for the role and to get a hang of Kang Doo's personality. That's devotion to your craft, folks! If he went those extea miles for TRS I'll buy the emotionally draining stuff anytime. (But if I had the money Junho hopefully has, I'd just take some time off or buy an island and stay away from work for some time. But to each their own...)

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^^ @claire2009

@petrolia I saw Junho's interview where he talked about his preparation for JBL just like you described.

I do understand the need to work to put food on the table and that not "every" drama can be Healer or JBL so I'm not unhappy that Junho and Yoo a chose KTL ... I would do too ... it seemed like a perfect stress free time to work and play. But 🤷‍♀️ as I said the fates didn't align somehow.

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@petrolia Junho did the same thing for his roles in Chief Kim and The Red Sleeve.

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Indeed - we will always and forever have JBL. ♥️😘

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Thanks so much for this beautiful ode to JBL, very little I can add.

I had been watching dramas over a year when I decided to watch JBL. It was because I loved Life so much and wanted to check on Won Jin Ah previous works, so I dove into it. And yes, it was a life change experience.

I met Junho for the first time. Junho led me to 2PM, and... well... I think you all know what it means to me. Of course I'm not a fangirl just because of the drama, but it was the first step. Maybe another Junho drama wouldn't have triggered things like JBL, but that was the way it went.

I always say this drama is about two people who are just surviving and they learn to live. It's such a warm show in which we feel how these two lonely people understand there's no need to be lonely anymore, and no need to feel guilty about surviving, that they can start living and loving and look back and accept what happened.

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I love Life so much

Me too. It's always in my top 10 of all time.

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It’s worth a post as to “why you should watch Life”.

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Yes!! Actually I am thinking of rewatching Life after reading Eazal’s comment. I really miss seeing Cho Seungwoo on screen.

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My 2pm experience was similar to yours @eazal except that I found them early in my Kdrama period while watching Vincenzo. I researched Taec because he sounded so American when he delivered his English-isms: My god — Sunbae, what are you thinking! (Yes, I read that he spent middle-school years in the US.) I then became so gaga for 2pm that I made a playlist that still, after several years, accompanies my weekly exercise regime.

Because I listened rather than watched 2pm, I did not later recognize Jun-ho when I saw him in JBL. I was so taken with his acting that I looked him up at AsianWiki, and was amazed to find his 2pm history.

When I subsequently watched Chief Kim, I felt that Jun-ho was exquisite to watch while jointly holding the stage alongside masterful Namkoong Min. Given his 2pm dancing experience, Jun-ho's grace when walking -- and even just standing -- are things of beauty. But not even his grace and suave suits saved KTL for me, even though I know many Beanies loved it.

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"Jun-ho's grace when walking -- and even just standing -- are things of beauty". 😍

💯 Junho exemplifies the famous - you have to see him in motion - quote. ❤ 😂

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Thank you Dramaddictally and Beanies commentators. I am awed and overwhelmed by this beautiful essay and the wonderful comments.

그냥 사랑하는 사이 (Just Between Lovers) is the first thing I was inspired to learn so that I can say the original Korean title and tell Junho how much our family loves Kang-doo.

My mom was so happy to see Kang-doo's slowly disappearing facial injuries over the course of the drama. But she legit freaked on seeing a picture of a glow-ed up Junho. "That is not my Kang-doo" (fright hair et all). Unrelated but she couldn't connect with King the Land.

I have never tried to analyze the magical hold of 그냥 on my heart. Grief is universally a great leveler. While hardly my introduction to Junho - the idol or the actor - it did seem like a new Junho and as pointed out by petrolia made me unable to see Junho in anything less perfect.

Now that I think of it, I was able to (and did) watch ALL dramas of Ji Chang-wook without exception before and after Healer. All though thick and thin. Strangely enough unconsciously I have been upholding Junho to a higher measure.

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I find it interesting that you unconsciously held Jun-ho to a higher standard than Ji Chang-wook because I just realized that I have done the same. To me, the Ji Chang-wook characterizations in K2 and Healer were par excellance (with Healer's action, tortured souls, and delightful antics balanced to perfection). I too sought out, and still do, all Ji Chang-wook dramas. I have been more or less able to watch them all, even disappointing ones. Perhaps I hold Jun-ho to a higher standard bc, as you suggest, the level of grieving portrayed by Jun-ho in JBL bored deeper into my emotions -- than did Healer’s tortured souls which were always just steps away from lightheartedness.

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I never realized this till I was writing out the comment. I love both, perhaps Wookie a tad more. But Kang Doo is the reason why Junho is unforgettable. It's like a topper in the class who you don't want to score even half a mark less. 😅

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I remember that I liked this drama until it lost me. 16 episodes were too long for this story.

I liked the characters and the actors.

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Dramas are obviously about timing and our own frame of mind. If you get a chance please do watch JBL. There was truly a before-JBL and after period in my drama watching "career". 😊👌

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I watched it. I liked the beginning until the middle but after his liver issues, I didn't really care anymore. Too much pathos for me when the story didn't need it.

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Agreed. I don't like to see overly sad dramas, especially which feel like having tragedy upon tragedy being piled up. While live watching I was somewhat prepared for Kang Doo to have a sad ending. Thankfully for my mental health (and many others) we did manage to get a happy one. 😊

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I thought it didn't bring anything interesting to the story or to the characters.

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HOW DO YOU DO THIS??? It's like you're the little angel far off in the quiet little corner of my brain that knows how I feel and what I think and then just once in a while decide to go BAM and splay it all out <3
Your reasons listed are exactly why I wasn't as invested in the drama as everyone else watching and not as much as I thought I would be invested in. It just felt like tragedy upon tragedy upon tragedy piled on top of each other with each passing arc. I will say, though, is that something about it was done well enough that at least it didn't make me feel completely and overwhelmingly depressed by the drama. It just made me feel "meh". Maybe it's because I've also experienced some heavy stuff in life-- which include a few deaths of people very close to me-- so when I see heavy tragedy done like this in dramas, I'm not as impacted. Good heavens, that makes me sound so cold blooded DX Still, kudos to the drama for making something about tragedy, but done with poise and respect, because those aren't things we always get from Kdramas that are on heavier topics, but instead, decide to makjang-ify it and make a joke or a parody of it

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@bebeswtz The human condition is such that we ALL experience loss, grief, pain, tragedy and somehow these leave a stronger impact on us, our hearts, our minds, our general outlook on life than the happiness, fun, kindness and love that we also experience.

I think (now after many years of drama watching and many RL heartbreaks) that perhaps such dramas resonate deeply within us is because they give us HOPE that is a character is able to be happy despite so much tragedy perhaps we can do. A true healing drama is what gives us hope and strength to survive. The nihilistic, noir dramas which don't give you even a shred of hope are not only unrealistic - because life is never all dark - but also impact one negatively. A healing drama on the other hand is truly cathartic.

You are most definitely my angel and have guided me innumerable times and have supported me knowingly and unknowingly in my darkest times and hours of need. I thank you for all the love and support you so freely shower on me. 🙏

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@seeker
You seriously just made my day with your kind and sweet words 🥺🥹♥️

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@bebeswtz 😊😍❤

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This is THE drama that convinced me Lee Jun-ho is a great actor.

There are so many so-called healing dramas but JBL deserves to be recognised as one. Love the ensemble characters and cast - and I think Kang Hanna is worth a mention for her (atypical 2FL) character and her acting.

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I really liked how the OTP sloy discovered their mutually shared tragedy and in trying to help the other overcome it they also healed themselves. This was that fabled transformative power of love done well.

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It's so wonderful to read about and relive this deeply moving drama. I wholeheartedly agree with all the love shown here ❤️

I also wanted to give a shout out to Nam Da Reum. I've seen and appreciated his gifted acting in countless dramas (ok, 7-8 dramas), but he was particularly exceptional here. Those scenes in the collapsed building were beautifully done.

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The shopping mall building collapse scenes were so incessantly repeated that the became the one sore point for my mother. 😅

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Oh no it sounds like the equivalent of the body drop scenes that get repeated like PPL for the work of the set design crew in the hope of getting more work. It is like they want to acknowledge the work and time that went into it as often as they can.

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This is such a wonderful write-up! I mean this as a sincere compliment with zero parts raining on any fan's parade: I can appreciate this careful, loving analysis even though I ultimately found this drama to be disappointing. (I gave it two tries to be sure, just because so many people utterly love it, but couldn't get past my irritation with some of the writing and characterizations which felt strained and repetitive to me.) But I will always think fondly of this show for introducing me to Jun-ho who I think everyone can agree was utterly amazing in it. I'm glad for others that this was such a transformative viewing experience for them!

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This drama and a Piece of your Mind are my DRAMAS. There are probably better ones out there, more perfect ones. But they are the ones that have truly moved me. They are sad, but warm, and hopeful. They make my heart ache in a good way.
I simply adore them! <3
Thank you for this post. It's time for me to rewatch it!

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Anytime someone mentions A Piece of mind, I get teary eyed. Such a fantastic intimate drama, I am still holding out hope Chae Soo Bin and Jung Hae In do another drama together.

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From your mouth to God's ears. 🙏

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Oh, that is my dream too.

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I love "Piece of Your Mine." That's a real hidden, underrated gem.

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All I can do more is agree with every word you wrote and its JUNHO and WON JIN-AH. Its definitely one to re-watch and love all over again.

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And how many rewatches have to been able to do. Full rewatch or just favorite scenes.

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I wish I had more to add to what everyone else has already said but really what more can you say than simply this: This is one of the all-time great K-dramas and should be a recommendation for anyone, including anyone who has never seen a K-drama before.

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Can I request you to please share your JBL story. How you came to first watch it. What did it make you feel. Did you rewatch. How was that different. I'm very interested to know how the drama resonates so deeply with so many Beanies.

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Thanks so much! You need not convince me since I love this drama. Junho is very different here but its something a Junho fan must watch.

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What an astute observation. Indeed there is no "Junho" here it is 💯 Kang Doo.

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Orange perm et all. 🤣 🙈

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His orange perm adds to Kang Doo's charm 🤣

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🤣 True, True.

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My fav Junho drama second to Red Sleeve. I don't know how many tissue I spent watching this drama and since it's a melo drama, I never want to rewatch, I don't to go through that hardship again LoL

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I started this one but never finished it. I didn't really make a conscious decision to stop watching, I just never went on to the next episode where I left off. I really do want to finish it sometime, but it also wasn't really drawing me in and I'm not quite sure why. I think that the PTSD angle was both what drew me to it (I also ended up doing a lot of research on the real life incident, which was horrifying), but also made me not eager to keep watching, because PTSD is my field and I tend to not want to involve myself a lot with it in my free time.

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Such a lovely paean to a wonderful show!

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We all have our own JBL story. Can I request you to please share yours.

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Thank you for letting me expound on one of my favorite dramas! Just Between Lovers is a gem. It is heartfelt, pulls on the heartstrings just enough but not too much. It addresses how a tragedy like this affects so many lives from different threads, and the drama weaves these threads subtly and effectively. As is pointed out, the villain element is not the most important. The acting was stellar. It was my first Junho drama, and I am kind of glad about that. I was able to fall in love with his character and appreciate the acting without expectations. Finally, it is very much a character drama which is why I fell for Kdramas in the first place.

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The music is so good, too!

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💯 All songs are 👌 but "What Do You Need To Say" speaks to me on a personal level.

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Does this song have a different title? I really love "Where We" sung by Ryu Ji Hyun and Kim Kyung Hee, and I'm wondering if it's the same one.

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The song I referred to is also known as What Words Are Needed and is sung by Junho himself.

https://youtu.be/PiiuaIHp1Ak?si=euiYPlSadSRi701E

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Thank you Cera! Apple Music calls this song "True Love" 🙃

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this is a better link, more streaming choices (I'm listening to it right now on Pandora)

https://albumwhale.com/albums/8930

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Perhaps I am still waiting for Won Jin-ah comeback after her raw performance in JBL. She was such a pure breath at that time and clearly no expectation. She did well too good in JBL.
But mostly this gem was definitely due to Gang Doo ( Junho), Halmoeni (Na Moon Hae here is superb), Mari (Se-ah) and young Gang doo (Nam Dae Reum) that carries the storyline with grasping heart. Sorry KTL fans, nothing in there beats Junho's stellar performance here in JBL 😊

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All things just came together to make JBL what it is. On paper it is a drama I would never want to see. I like my dramas cute and fluffy. No angst please, thank you very much. But the fact that this drama resonates with so many of us on so many different levels means there was definitely something magical about it. 😊😍

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