[Drama chat] Things dramas do I *wish* were real life
by missvictrix
After a robust and totally entertaining conversation around things dramas do that remind us they are pure fiction, it’s time to ponder those same tropey things… and admit sometimes we wish they were real. This can range from the portrayals of romance and courtship, to the dressing tables replete with expensive skincare, to the fact that no matter how poor you are you always get a fantastic wardrobe.
The thing I always wish was real when I’m watching dramas is their portrayal of hospitals as warm, safe, and free of all the things that actually make hospitals hospitals. Instead, in dramas, they are places where you can stare longingly at your beloved in their cozy bed when they are sick but looking gorgeous, and where no one will enter the room to bother your moment (unless it’s your romantic rival). There are no nurses, doctors, or even pesky monitors around. No germs or bad smells. It’s just you, your love interest, and that delightful mist machine.
What’s one tropey thing dramas do that you wish (secretly or not-so-secretly) was actual reality?
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1 welh
October 15, 2023 at 5:10 AM
It would make life a lot easier if one's unrequited (first) love from the past (or past life) suddenly comes across your path and falls unconditionally for you, flaws and all.
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🌸 Cera (@Seeker) 🌸
October 15, 2023 at 8:10 AM
Very useful indeed.
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Minnie🫘👩🏻🚀Pioneer and Teacher 👩🏻🏫🌱🏹
October 15, 2023 at 1:32 PM
Don't want to sound like a party pooper, but in my case, it would be 'be careful what you wish for' because one such guy once turned up in my very married, kids-full life and badgered me until I changed my phone number and blocked him everywhere on social media and eventually moved. The worrying thing was he was married too, with a kid, and had found out about me through a friend of a friend of a friend.....very scary stuff.
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Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
October 15, 2023 at 9:53 PM
Oh no, sounds horrific.
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2 Seon-ha
October 15, 2023 at 5:21 AM
Oh, um what? Sorry. What was the question? I got completely distracted by that picture of KYK’s back acting. I swear that man’s back could out-act dozens of other actors.
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HopefulRomantic 🦋 Tigermoth 🦆❤️🦆
October 15, 2023 at 5:24 AM
Good response. 100% valid. I concur! 😁👍
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🌸 Cera (@Seeker) 🌸
October 15, 2023 at 8:12 AM
Actually I have never seen “anyone’s” back act before - Call It Love - and that wonderful poem about his back was a revelation!
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Healer’s
October 17, 2023 at 7:48 AM
I haven't watch Call it love, but talking about back acting, you've got to see this :-)
https://i.imgur.com/S18BZmg.mp4
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Healer’s
October 17, 2023 at 7:49 AM
*haven't watched
🌸 Cera (@Seeker) 🌸
October 17, 2023 at 7:55 AM
Oh! Yes she did ... see it, I mean.
Thank you Claire.
You have good taste. 😊
🌸 Cera (@Seeker) 🌸
October 17, 2023 at 8:07 AM
To offer thanks for your gif(t), I present to you
- a quote from Call It Love, and
- a poem in the drama dedicated to Kim Young-kwang.
a. "True lonely people are the ones who can’t even say they’re lonely."
b. "There was a poet who once said the following: That if you want to understand, if you want to forgive, and if you want to love someone, you should observe how they look from the back for a long while. That if you do just that, you don’t have to unnecessarily try to understand, forgive, or love them because their lonely shadow will have made you cry without you even knowing."
Healer’s
October 17, 2023 at 8:37 AM
Thank you @Seeker for the beautiful poem and quote. It made me want to watch that show. I've always liked Lee Sung Kyung.
🌸 Cera (@Seeker) 🌸
October 17, 2023 at 9:10 AM
You will call Kim Young-kwang's name after you watch the drama. 😉
Seon-ha
October 17, 2023 at 10:17 AM
Nothing like an “are you 18” warning to start your day! 😉
3 HopefulRomantic 🦋 Tigermoth 🦆❤️🦆
October 15, 2023 at 5:23 AM
I actually really enjoy most tropes, except, you know, the amnesia, TOD, bitter romantic rivals, etc. So, just as wish-fulfillment hypotheticals, I'd probably be pretty delighted to run across most of the positive tropes in real life, such as the umbrella save or sweeping out of the path of an oncoming bicycle or moped (*swoon*). What I most appreciate in dramas, though, is the confessions that precede asking someone out - just straightforward and honest, "I like you." I like that dramas let you see the world through rose-colored glasses.
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Linarrick
October 15, 2023 at 5:42 AM
I’ve actually had the umbrella save happen to me, tho it wasn’t romantic. Back during my undergrad I waited more than an hour in the library for the rain to stop, getting impatient I resigned myself to getting wet if it meant I could go home. While I made a run for it, a nice lady came to my rescue and shared her umbrella with me. It was super sweet of her. I’ve always wanted to pay it forward but I’m super shy irl 😅
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HopefulRomantic 🦋 Tigermoth 🦆❤️🦆
October 15, 2023 at 6:09 AM
What a sweet story!!! ❤️
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🌸 Cera (@Seeker) 🌸
October 15, 2023 at 8:14 AM
I agree with everything you say. 🤣
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HopefulRomantic 🦋 Tigermoth 🦆❤️🦆
October 15, 2023 at 2:43 PM
😊❤️
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Goyangi and the Camel Crickets
October 16, 2023 at 6:37 PM
I really like the confessions too. No ambiguity and unquestionably romantic. I'm a sucker for romance which is why I like Kdramas vs the USA show formula of meet jump into bed and wonder if that means they're in a relationship or not. ...except of course if the Kdrama type confession is interrupted by a large white truck.
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HopefulRomantic 🦋 Tigermoth 🦆❤️🦆
October 16, 2023 at 7:35 PM
I also love that the romance in K-dramas takes time to build the romance!! Yeah I'm not a fan of the US formula either...
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4 Linarrick
October 15, 2023 at 5:24 AM
I don’t care for the drinking but staying up past midnight on a weekday and going to work the next day without feeling sluggish
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Healer’s
October 15, 2023 at 5:50 AM
And getting up late the following day, running in panic to get ready for work, getting out of the house looking all messy but showing up at the office totally gorgeous.
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Seon-ha
October 15, 2023 at 11:15 AM
It's like you're describing my life, @claire2009!! Do you have CCTVs at my place? That's me to a tee, every Monday 🙄
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Healer’s
October 15, 2023 at 2:18 PM
😂
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Minnie🫘👩🏻🚀Pioneer and Teacher 👩🏻🏫🌱🏹
October 16, 2023 at 8:11 PM
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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5 Bunny S.
October 15, 2023 at 5:30 AM
Having two handsome and perfect guys competing for my heart.
Also, it won't hurt to have a wardrobe full of clothes and a few set of skincare products.
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🌸 Cera (@Seeker) 🌸
October 15, 2023 at 9:06 AM
... and perfectly manicured nails. Ha Ji-min's perfectly manicured nails 💅 in Behind Your Touch - granted it was explained in the "plot" always threw me off.
Never knew a doctor much less a vet with such a pair of "paws"!
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Goyangi and the Camel Crickets
October 16, 2023 at 6:17 PM
Even just one who looks like a Kdrama actor would be fine by me!!
And the clothes are all stylish, fit perfectly and are way beyond what I could ever afford.
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6 Healer’s
October 15, 2023 at 5:47 AM
Going through stacks of documents and remember all the crucial details in no time, then using them to win at court or at scientific competitions or help your company sign important contracts...
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7 aicaramba
October 15, 2023 at 6:01 AM
I wish there was a real neighborhood grandma or grandpa with whom I could have deep and meaningful conversations with, and/or who could teach mean a craft. I mean, they probably exist, but connections of that sort are so hard to come by irl.
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aicaramba
October 15, 2023 at 6:04 AM
*teach me
Like Viva Music Harabeoji in Twinkling Watermelon, or Corndog Halmeoni in Start-Up.
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Seon-ha
October 15, 2023 at 11:16 AM
+1 on meaningful community connections!!
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nerdy
October 15, 2023 at 3:54 PM
Had a neighbour like that. Great woman, invited me on her birthday once. We used to have nice conversations, but she would often get tired of the too talkative me (the general pattern with all the older people I have been friends with. They loved me, just not for an extended period of time).
Express the interest and ask the questions. Older folks often have very interesting stories, too much free time and unfortunately, not enough people to talk to.
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aicaramba
October 16, 2023 at 12:05 AM
Aha. Based on your story, it sounds like you're an extrovert... I'm an introvert -- folks like us practically need to be adopted by folks like you to start connections. Haha
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Kitsune Moon
October 16, 2023 at 11:15 AM
as an introvert with some serious social anxiety, I concurr that this is true.
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8 Healer’s
October 15, 2023 at 6:11 AM
Time doesn't seem to flow linearly in dramas, like one hour is not always 60 min. A day at work sometimes is very short, but after you get off work, you have time to cook a huge meal and do a lot of other stuff before bedtime. If that was real life, I would end up going to bed at 2am. And when the whole table is waiting for you to go buy some more beers, you wander about the whole neighbourhood getting lost in thoughts, but when you come back, people are still waiting for your beers 😅
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ar_arguably romantic
October 15, 2023 at 10:31 AM
And barely anyone has a long, soul-sucking commutes, except for the characters in My Liberation Notes.
Traffic is always a rare thing that happens during those days when something important is happening to the main characters rather than a daily struggle.
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Goyangi and the Camel Crickets
October 16, 2023 at 6:19 PM
Oh yes and there's always a parking spot available right by the front door
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Margo of the Resilient Lip Gloss
October 15, 2023 at 11:11 AM
Yes. And the way time seems to have no effect on the character’s appearance or well-being - so much happens before work, and a whole day’s worth of activities happen after: a trip to the hospital, a minor scuffle at the police station, a little fun a the do-rae bang, some chicken and beer with your bffs, and there’s still time to lie dreamily on your bed to text your latest crush - are you sleeping?
And then wake up the next day ready to take on zombies.
Clearly I need dramaland supplements and skincare.
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9 Midnight
October 15, 2023 at 6:13 AM
Saying exactly what I mean at exactly the right time.
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jillian
October 15, 2023 at 12:31 PM
Hear! Hear!
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10 sonai
October 15, 2023 at 6:58 AM
Best friends owning a cozy bar (or café), and thus setting the stage for everyone to hang out at. There are never other (distracting) customers, the group of friends never have to pay anything, but the owners miraculously make enough money out of it to stay open.
That, and only private, luxury single bed rooms in hospitals, making one look gorgeous, as mentioned by @missvictrix .
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Lalla32
October 15, 2023 at 10:00 AM
"Best friends owning a cozy bar"
Oh, this is a good one. No sign of customers EVER XD
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Seon-ha
October 15, 2023 at 11:17 AM
Best part of Race, IMO! How DID that woman make any money??? 😂
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Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
October 15, 2023 at 9:58 PM
When it went viral on social media because the one random customer turned up and then shared how much they liked the vibe!
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parkchuna ❤️🍉
October 15, 2023 at 8:19 PM
The one in Attorney Woo! I think they even hinted about not making money, believable cos they never had customers but still had money to go to Jeju.
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sonai
October 15, 2023 at 11:13 PM
This was exactly, what I was thinking about - lol. 😂 That, and the extra cozy manwha café in Memorials/Into the Ring. That just looks adorable!
But the list is definitely long for this trope! Search WWW, Our Beloved Summer, etc… 🍻
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parkchuna ❤️🍉
October 16, 2023 at 3:44 AM
Yes i loved the Into The Ring Cafe!
In OBS, at least woong’s parents restaurant had a bustling clientele 😄
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11 emsel
October 15, 2023 at 7:11 AM
Live most days just by eating ramyeon or convenience store snack without gaining weight/bloating/falling sick.
Small community gatherings that village people in kdramas have on a monthly/yearly basis with song, dance and fun.
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Seon-ha
October 15, 2023 at 11:20 AM
Yeah. Unfortunately, that was the only reasonably realistic scene ever in SWDBS, when Min-Min was all "how many carbs are you serving me??" at his own kitchen counter.
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Minnie🫘👩🏻🚀Pioneer and Teacher 👩🏻🏫🌱🏹
October 15, 2023 at 2:09 PM
hehehehhe!! True.
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12 Britney
October 15, 2023 at 7:35 AM
I don't like romcoms much but why are the tropes that's usually featured in them the only things coming to mind? Haha
Hmmm, aside from fantasy elements (like time travel or body swaps), I would wish Taxi Driver and Leverage could happen in reality. Yeah, they could be called vigilantes and criminals but the world sucks and is unfair so it would be nice if there were folks who could balances the scales and help though who can't be helped by normal venues.
Taxi Driver 2 should how someone/people could infiltrate and manipulate the system but overall, that would still be my pick.
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13 pohonphee
October 15, 2023 at 7:55 AM
Politician or head of government bodies that resign from their position when public finding out their wrong doing. There's no such a thing in my country, they have no shame even going for election as public representative like who are they representing? 🤷🤦
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14 🌸 Cera (@Seeker) 🌸
October 15, 2023 at 8:07 AM
FOUND FAMILIES
I wish they were as dime a dozen as in the dramas!
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HopefulRomantic 🦋 Tigermoth 🦆❤️🦆
October 15, 2023 at 8:50 AM
This is one of my favorite narrative setups!!!
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Seon-ha
October 15, 2023 at 11:21 AM
The Beaniedom is preeetttty close!!!
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🌸 Cera (@Seeker) 🌸
October 15, 2023 at 11:47 AM
Absolutely - and I am thankful and greatful for it.
This is precisely the reason I named it uri DB Wooga Squad!
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Cay_sbtgoG
October 15, 2023 at 8:54 AM
Would it make you feel better if I say, it does happen in real life. I've seen and experienced it first hand. And I wish others to find it, too, cause it's a real blessing.
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🌸 Cera (@Seeker) 🌸
October 15, 2023 at 9:09 AM
I know it happens IRL - just wishing it happens to everyone precisely because it is such a blessing!
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Cay_sbtgoG
October 15, 2023 at 8:12 PM
Amen to that!
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Ahjummaaa
October 15, 2023 at 5:50 PM
I had a found family in my early 20's when I was living alone in a big city without family nearby. I worked for a lady who must have been a general in a previous life. She was really good at finding lost souls and gathering them together. We all ended up staying at her house at one time or another. At the time, I didn't think too much of it. But the older I get, the more I appreciate people like her because it's not easy to be someone like that and it's hard to find someone like that as well.
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15 jerrykuvira
October 15, 2023 at 8:12 AM
Have time for the simple things of life. Hangout with friends who share similar timeout activities with you.
Make the process to loving to not be a stress. I'm citing My Liberation Notes as an example to what I'm pointing exactly. Episode 5 where Mr. Gu asks for Mi-jung's number from Mr. Yeom. It was a simple ask. The air was tense asit should, but it wasn't toxic and filled with bad energy. IRL, you can't just approach the family member of someone you're like and ask for thier contact info without meeting some drama and the likes, even when your sincerity is not in doubt. My Liberation Notes made it all so easy and I wish it can be so in real life.
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16 Kurama
October 15, 2023 at 8:33 AM
Fooood. I want their food! I want to order everything (but right away, fried chiken), To have someone who stack food in my fridge, to have little restaurants around my work that doesn't cost me an arm everytime or to have convenient store where I can eat junk food!
After, I'm not against 2 handsome male leads fighting for me :p
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Seon-ha
October 15, 2023 at 11:24 AM
But then YOU have to pick between them!? I mean you don't really, but there would need to be a lot of interesting negotiation if you got to have both 😘
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Kurama
October 15, 2023 at 12:03 PM
But at least, I have a choice :p
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bbstl 🧹
October 15, 2023 at 2:38 PM
In Jealousy Incarnate, she decided to live with them both! 😒not that we can see that show anywhere legal in the US right now, ahem Netflix
She did finally pick just one, though.
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Kurama
October 15, 2023 at 8:55 PM
She was the best!
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Babylilo
October 16, 2023 at 12:46 PM
Who says you can’t have both? I’d be fine (more than fine, actually) with a Love in Contract-type arrangement. And why stop at two? I would have six different guys: one for each day of the week, with one day of rest. Variety is the spice of life!
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Kurama
October 16, 2023 at 1:05 PM
Too much logistic and organisation for me 😅
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Babylilo
October 16, 2023 at 1:12 PM
Okay… maybe just three. With the option to rotate in different ones if I get tired of any of them.
Seon-ha
October 16, 2023 at 1:16 PM
Here’s something they’ll never say about us, “They didn’t think about the details.”
🫢😭
tabong
October 15, 2023 at 10:13 PM
Yes, yes, yes to all the food!
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17 Cay_sbtgoG
October 15, 2023 at 8:45 AM
Among many ridiculous/mind-blowing things that happen in dramaland, I wish for this to happen:
Waking up like a fine lady; no trace of bed at all; no grogginess. In fact no practical reason for doing make-up. Cause so far I've only managed to waking up like a madwoman.
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Healer’s
October 15, 2023 at 5:21 PM
I've only managed to wake up 😂
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Cay_sbtgoG
October 15, 2023 at 8:20 PM
😂😂😂
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18 Elinor is trapped in the timeslip
October 15, 2023 at 8:46 AM
Having an entire wardrobe of beautifully tailored coats in a range of colors - and a closet that, like Narnia, is bigger on the inside than on the outside to store them all.
But also magically not the extremely cold weather needed to justify them. Just cold enough.
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HopefulRomantic 🦋 Tigermoth 🦆❤️🦆
October 15, 2023 at 8:52 AM
Ah, the beautiful coats 🥲 And the weather to wear them in, rather than parka weather!! 😆
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sonai
October 15, 2023 at 9:21 AM
Ummm yes, I’ll take that closet too, please! 😆
Perfect coat weather actually started *today* around here. Finally, autumn has arrived! 🍂🍁
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jerrykuvira
October 15, 2023 at 9:32 AM
The coats are a particular delight of mine that I want to be in my real life. And kdramas ain't the only ones fueling this particular one - it's a thing in almost all the dramas I've watched.
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♡Peach_Mochi♡
October 15, 2023 at 10:22 AM
Same! Those exquisitely tailored coats in an array of colors are the epitome of not-too-unrealistic wish fulfillment.
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19 john
October 15, 2023 at 9:03 AM
Midnight Diner type restaurant within walking distance
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🌸 Cera (@Seeker) 🌸
October 15, 2023 at 9:12 AM
Better still on the ground floor of the building I live in and .... it delivers!!
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tabong
October 15, 2023 at 10:09 PM
I wouldn't cook ever again.
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🌸 Cera (@Seeker) 🌸
October 15, 2023 at 10:38 PM
If the chef is Junho (Greasy Melo) then my personal life is all set ... also free food.
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tabong
October 16, 2023 at 10:19 AM
Yeah!
I would do everything in my power to become his friend and get free food. 😆
20 Qingdao: likes scented candles
October 15, 2023 at 9:32 AM
Settings
Locations: see so many gorgeous locations and unique places, upscale homes, great hotel rooms with a view, visit fantastic places without a crowd, historical settings, etc.
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21 Storyenthusiast
October 15, 2023 at 9:50 AM
I wish breakups were as amicable as they are onscreen. Most of the time, there’s a little sadness, but then they are able to quickly let go and move on as if it’s no big deal. Sometimes they even wish each other well and remain friends.
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22 Lalla32
October 15, 2023 at 9:57 AM
Weather and enviroment that reacts to your mood and feelings XD Perfect weather for perfect days. Beautiful snow and cherry blossoms in romantic moments. Rain when you are desperate XD
Being able to drink beer with friends every single night like it is water.
Being poor, jobless and still living in one of those perfect tiny super cute apartments on a roof with the perfect view.
Perfect fried chicken delivered to you whenever, wherever
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23 jillian
October 15, 2023 at 10:02 AM
For me its the apt background music for life's happy moments and sad ones.😉
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Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
October 15, 2023 at 10:59 AM
I love the idea of walking around and hearing the perfect background music for whatever is happening in your life at the time😊
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jillian
October 15, 2023 at 12:21 PM
The orchestra music when you get that promotion or the sweet melody for a confession is best compared to the traffic noise or mundane office keyboard noise and co-worker chatter.
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Gikata
October 15, 2023 at 12:32 PM
Simon Green's novel series NIGHTSIDE has a supporting character with this exact supernatural skill. Technically dude is an enlightened madman - literally so crazy that whole universe around him bends over to his insane whims, constant on point BGM out of nowhere included. It's been years since I've read those books, but still kinda on the fence about whether it was worth it in his case.
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HopefulRomantic 🦋 Tigermoth 🦆❤️🦆
October 15, 2023 at 11:29 AM
That would be cool!! I feel like I can achieve a taste of this by listening to drama OSTs throughout my day! 😊
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jillian
October 15, 2023 at 12:26 PM
Drama osts are the best! It happened to be last year, I was obsessed with OBS OST.
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HopefulRomantic 🦋 Tigermoth 🦆❤️🦆
October 15, 2023 at 2:46 PM
Oh that one's beautiful!! My current OST obsession is Call it Love - the instrumentals are so evocative and perfect.
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jillian
October 15, 2023 at 2:50 PM
I love that drama. Yes! It also has a great OST.
Kurama
October 15, 2023 at 11:53 AM
It reminds me Zoey's Extraordinary Playlist :p
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24 Snow Flower
October 15, 2023 at 10:44 AM
Instant healing!
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Kurama
October 15, 2023 at 11:23 AM
You hurt yourself so often ?
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Snow Flower
October 15, 2023 at 11:53 AM
Not really. I had a minor injury a couple of weeks ago, and that made me think of kdrama characters who heal in no time.
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Seon-ha
October 15, 2023 at 11:27 AM
With simple IV drips as the cure-all!!!
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25 ar_arguably romantic
October 15, 2023 at 10:59 AM
With the US health care system, how much easier and cheaper it is to get health care in kdrama hospitals is enviable. And you get to linger and nap there. Hospices and retirement communities also seem affordable.
Also, being able to just run into your true love and friends all the time. Seems like everyone in the same social circle are on the same schedule and live and work within in a 2 mile radius of each other. Kdrama life seems like the best parts of being on a college campus.
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Seon-ha
October 15, 2023 at 11:30 AM
I had a friend, some 20 years ago, who lived in Dublin for a while. She was from New York City by birth. I went to visit her and she said this, "This place might seem like a big city, but wherever you go, all you see are the same people. You go to your local...same people. You go to the other side of town...same people. I can't escape any of my mistakes or find any new conversations!!" I shivered.
Ever since then, I've never wanted to move to a city any smaller than Dublin, or live in such a in social atmosphere 🤣
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Minnie🫘👩🏻🚀Pioneer and Teacher 👩🏻🏫🌱🏹
October 15, 2023 at 1:28 PM
LOL!
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ar_arguably romantic
October 15, 2023 at 2:51 PM
I totally forgot that the flip side of kdrama heroes or heroines being able to run into friends and romantic interests is also running into their enemies a lot too...so kdrama worlds are so small.
I was born and raised and am still living as a big city person - I do appreciate the anonymity and sense of privacy. No one needs to know it was me that had flung out a sanitary pad onto the table by the cash register at the cafe when I was taking out something else from my bag or the time when I didn't hold the door for someone because I was in a terrible mood.
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Seon-ha
October 15, 2023 at 2:59 PM
I mean, those things you mention have happened to us all, and we get to hide behind our big-city britches... ❤
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Ahjummaaa
October 15, 2023 at 6:35 PM
Ugh, I had to move out of the commuter town I lived in because the one ex I didn't want to run into was still working there. One time he got on the bus I was on, and I scurried off so he won't see me. Of course, the exes that I secretly do want to run into have all moved far away.
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Seon-ha
October 15, 2023 at 6:42 PM
Ain't it the way??? You never see who you want to see, and those bad pennies...always there.
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Minnie🫘👩🏻🚀Pioneer and Teacher 👩🏻🏫🌱🏹
October 16, 2023 at 6:41 PM
Bad pennies LOL! Always there.
26 Margo of the Resilient Lip Gloss
October 15, 2023 at 11:12 AM
I have often thought that Dramaland should be a place that one could visit….à la the movie Austenland
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🌸 Cera (@Seeker) 🌸
October 15, 2023 at 10:41 PM
DB should seriously consider opening Dramaland ... Beanies from all over the world would happily come.
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27 Gikata
October 15, 2023 at 12:23 PM
Hotter than hell bad boys with hearts made of gold that are willing to love me till death and beyond ofc!OK, if we're talking serious - that flying martial arts technique. It's just SO COOL! And long, flowing, thick manes of glory that apparently doesn't need any crazy maintenance to look gorgeous 24/7 no matter the weather or circumstances. I've been sporting waist length hair for 95% of my life but never even came close to that *cries*Required fields are marked *
jillian
October 15, 2023 at 12:30 PM
Their perfect hair is indeed enviable even after flying across the room/field/forest to beat up someone.
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Gikata
October 15, 2023 at 12:46 PM
Should go in a set with a dramatic slowmo wind and only perfect angles all the time)))
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Minnie🫘👩🏻🚀Pioneer and Teacher 👩🏻🏫🌱🏹
October 15, 2023 at 2:13 PM
Those Hwarang boys never even had a comb! The only one with bad hair was the supposed ML who ended up looking homeless half of the series. Otherwise those manes of glory....sigh! No amount of sword fight, sweat filled romps, or even dingy dungeons interefered with those ethereal flowing locks.
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bbstl 🧹
October 15, 2023 at 2:33 PM
I remember Park Seo Joon (the ML) said they kept trying new wigs all through production and never found one that looked good 😂
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Minnie🫘👩🏻🚀Pioneer and Teacher 👩🏻🏫🌱🏹
October 15, 2023 at 4:27 PM
LOL true!
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🌸 Cera (@Seeker) 🌸
October 15, 2023 at 10:55 PM
If the stylists couldn't make the Hwarang bunch look pretty then how could the expect to work in another K-drama.
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Gikata
October 15, 2023 at 11:15 PM
The fact alone should've give them a clue or two that he was miscast for the role. Just sayin'.
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Minnie🫘👩🏻🚀Pioneer and Teacher 👩🏻🏫🌱🏹
October 16, 2023 at 5:47 AM
@gikata Savage!!! lol!!
But the stylist won the Olympics with Park Hyung Sik helming that look with V, Choi Min Ho and Do ji Han not too far behind.
ar_arguably romantic
October 16, 2023 at 11:38 AM
Figuring out his hair really should have been done before filming. It was weird seeing his hair change lengths and texture without any sort of time skip unless his character had an addiction to questionable hair salons off-screen.
Minnie🫘👩🏻🚀Pioneer and Teacher 👩🏻🏫🌱🏹
October 16, 2023 at 1:01 PM
questionable hair salons LOL! Add aversion to sexy hairbands, sleek looking pony tails etc etc.
They probably watched the rushes and went - sh@@t - the SML is stealing the scene everytime, so let's try something else....
28 Minnie🫘👩🏻🚀Pioneer and Teacher 👩🏻🏫🌱🏹
October 15, 2023 at 1:27 PM
True story. About a couple of hours ago, went out for lunch with hubby and another couple friend (in a Korean restaurant, no less). In the midst of it, hubby suddenly reached out and plucked something out of my hair - a piece of noodle or rice or something with a 'who is eating you or?" I went completely aww and went "you just reminded me of those K-drama heroes..." and he went "well, need to be mindful of competition"...LOL! I didn't know the trope I needed to be true hahaha!
Bring it on K-drama, you are changing more things about relationships than you know.
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🌸 Cera (@Seeker) 🌸
October 15, 2023 at 11:00 PM
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Congratulation, competition keeps husband on toes!!
Sigh ... I haven't been able to make mine adopt a single Oppa-like behavior. I asked him to pat my head as I was extremely proud of myself one day and he literally turned his back at me.
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Minnie🫘👩🏻🚀Pioneer and Teacher 👩🏻🏫🌱🏹
October 16, 2023 at 8:03 AM
hahahaha!!
To be brutally honest, I think in my case, its me. My hubby has these little things he does, and it was me who never appreciated them, until I saw it as tropes in k-dramas. Which is why some of those look so awfully familiar and pedestrian to me, and then of course my dramabeans community enlightens me...psst.
It's hard to believe, but Soundtrack#1 Sunwoo could be my husband (minus the looks of course but shhhh!)
A good reminder than one in hand is worth two in the bush....
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Minnie🫘👩🏻🚀Pioneer and Teacher 👩🏻🏫🌱🏹
October 16, 2023 at 8:05 AM
bird - I meant bird - one bird in hand is worth two birds in the bush.
Don't know why I felt the need to clarify it, I just did.
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🌸 Cera (@Seeker) 🌸
October 16, 2023 at 9:22 AM
God Bless ... may you have a happy K-drama life!
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Minnie🫘👩🏻🚀Pioneer and Teacher 👩🏻🏫🌱🏹
October 16, 2023 at 11:00 AM
LOL thank you!!! 🙏 😊 😍 And I hope your wish to have your husband oppa-ing to you soon.
Perhaps, like me, there might be some lurking here and there, but like me, you might have never noticed. It takes a k-drama trope to make you recognize one haha!
29 Diana Hansen
October 15, 2023 at 1:51 PM
The "one" twirling you around and into his arms thereby avoiding the TOD, water splash, motorbike etc.! (and hopefully a kiss to top it off)
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30 Big Poppa
October 15, 2023 at 4:39 PM
I'd like to be a boss who got to kick his subordinates in the shins whenever the fancy took him.
Does this actually happen in real life in Korea, or is it just a drama trope?
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Minnie🫘👩🏻🚀Pioneer and Teacher 👩🏻🏫🌱🏹
October 16, 2023 at 8:06 AM
That's an unwatchable trope.
And I never see the heroes getting kicked though.
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Big Poppa
October 26, 2023 at 5:27 PM
No, they're always lowly minions. But it's one of many mind-boggling things that I see in Korean drama and wonder 'does this have any basis in reality at all? It's such a prevalent trope that there must be SOMETHING to it? Perhaps something they did in the past?'
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31 tabong
October 15, 2023 at 5:25 PM
Falling in love with someone.
I love romance in dramas, even tho I've never had a crush on my entire life. Idk, dramas make it look fun. Wish it was real. 😂
If the person is a chaebol (with good manners), even better. 🤭😆🤣
Okay, being serious, I love to have the MC protection. Even if the main character is being stalked, or if they follow strangers, or if they're in a killer's death note, nothing really happens to them. I want that.
We always know that they won't die, we always know that someone is going to rescue them on time, we always know that things are gonna get better for them at one point. I want it, the main character protection.
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32 Ahjummaaa
October 15, 2023 at 6:44 PM
The kind-hearted supportive sidekick friend who just wants the best for you and helps you out with everything, giving you a place to stay and helping you meet up with your male lead behind your disapproving mom's back. The supportive friend never covets your hot man for herself, nor does she suddenly turn into the female lead and you find yourself demoted to second lead. Sorry if this sounds a little antsy, but I had the best supportive sidekick friend who ended up becoming a romantic competition, it was a miserable and humbling love triangle. Ah, young love.
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Reply1988 -❣️Mother Bean❣️
October 15, 2023 at 9:16 PM
‘Sorry if this sounds a little antsy, but I had the best supportive sidekick friend who ended up becoming a romantic competition, it was a miserable and humbling love triangle’👈🏾 Oh no, that sounds terrible.
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Minnie🫘👩🏻🚀Pioneer and Teacher 👩🏻🏫🌱🏹
October 16, 2023 at 9:34 AM
OMG, that is the WORST kind of love triangle ever....t-e-r-r-i-b-l-e!!!
Demoted to second lead....sorry, I know it's awful but that cracked me up. I hope you are well and over - you are better off without anyone from that not-so-romantic love triangle.
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33 tabong
October 15, 2023 at 10:01 PM
I just wanna check if it is REAL that my comment won't go to page 4.
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Midnight
October 15, 2023 at 10:27 PM
Perfectly real!
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Midnight
October 15, 2023 at 10:28 PM
And I even liked and replied in a flash too!
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tabong
October 15, 2023 at 10:33 PM
I don't know if we should get excited about the speed, tho.
Unless it's an alternate universe, this is probably just temporary happiness. 😆
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Goyangi and the Camel Crickets
October 16, 2023 at 6:39 PM
Fingers crossed, first time in weeks I've been able to read and comment here without timing out every other minute!!
34 technicat
October 16, 2023 at 7:51 AM
I'd like to be able to make sudden u-turns whenever I feel like it. Wouldn't want everyone else doing it, though.
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35 Isa is always time travelling
October 16, 2023 at 8:39 AM
I'd love to be like the average, normal FLs who live ordinary (?) boring (?) lives and suddenly something extraordinary happens: someone you cross puts the Holo glasses into your bag, you inherit a manon with a handsome vampire included for free, you make friends with a time traveler, you are given a cat which turns into a young man...
Apart from that, I would like my hair and face skin to look like theirs in dramas. I can't complain about mine, though. But I wish I had their willpower to do skincare routines...
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Kitsune Moon
October 16, 2023 at 11:14 AM
I agree to all of of these. I want to wake up korean beautiful and thin.
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36 Kitsune Moon
October 16, 2023 at 11:12 AM
How about the guy that is sweet and kind and nice and not an a&&hole? When guys complain that we girls should not expect a man like that it makes me sad because men really set the bar low for themselves, don't they?
Can I just be *twirled* at least once? I don't mind being saved every now and then. Umbrella optional.
I would love to be carried piggyback but I think I'm too heavy for that (unless we're talking about The Rock) :(
I would love it if someone's eomma or halmoni invited me in for a meal when I'm sad.
Sadly the only trope I have in my real life is eating at Subway.
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Kitsune Moon
October 16, 2023 at 11:13 AM
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Minnie🫘👩🏻🚀Pioneer and Teacher 👩🏻🏫🌱🏹
October 16, 2023 at 6:38 PM
eating at subway...lol!
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37 Babylilo
October 16, 2023 at 12:58 PM
I have a completely opposite view of Korean hospitals than @missvictrix . I would constantly worry about being smothered with a pillow, having poison injected into my IV line, having critical life support turned off, or being kidnapped. Even if guards were stationed outside my room to keep me safe, they could easily be fooled into leaving their posts.
When it comes to medical services, I would love to have doctors as caring, patient, and skilled as Kim Sabu or Hospital Playlist’s Fab Five!
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technicat
October 16, 2023 at 3:32 PM
kdrama hospitals aren't big on patient confidentiality, either. They'll talk about your brain cancer or early Alzheimer's to anyone who asks.
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Babylilo
October 16, 2023 at 3:43 PM
And it seems that anyone can claim to be a patient’s guardian without having to show any proof.
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38 redfox
October 16, 2023 at 1:36 PM
what I would give if someone gave me shoes!!! not that I cannot afford it but with a size 35 foot they are troublesome to find. sometimes it takes me 3 months of visits to shops. please give me shoes. yes I´ll run but only 8km and back with a round.
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