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[Happily never after] Splish splash scam

By RamyunIsTheName

Editor’s note: This post contains spoilers.

I thought long and hard about which happily never after touched me but instead came up with a thought that honestly hurt my feelings. I feel as a collective group, we’ve allowed a certain type of ending to continue for so long because it’s sort of reassuring, but if we really look at it, it’s a SCAM.

Now I know you’re all wondering what I’m talking about and so I ask you to picture it: You’re watching Splish Splash Love and you’re falling in love with Kim Seul-gi as Jang Dan-bi and Yoon Doo-joon as Lee Do. The bickering! The humor! You’re enjoying their fish out of water (hur) concept and how weird and quaint everything is. You’ve laughed at the math game and this drama has oppa gangnam styled its way into your heart.

The drama was just 2 episodes long but that was more than enough time to grow attached to the characters in the story. After spending a short but blissful time together, it was time to say goodbye: the viewers to the couple, and the couple to each other. These characters were star-crossed lovers from two different points in time. We knew that their love couldn’t survive and it was devastating but we had readied ourselves for that blow. They shared one last heartbreaking kiss as they got ready to part and everyone’s heart broke.

It was bittersweet but at least their love had its moment. BUT in the very last freaking episode — we got a doppelganger who came in as if to say, “See, it’s not so bad.” Yes she isn’t getting the ending with the character that we’d spent episodes falling for but at least she gets the guy who looks like him. Yayyyy?

I think the reasoning behind this type of happily ever after is to imply that the same face equals same person; that they’ve reincarnated thus the soul is the same. And yes this makes sense on the surface but it’s not the full truth. We fell for a king who was shocked by technology far ahead of his time, yet had a mindset that made him quick to accept foreign ideas. We fell for a king who was ahead of his time in accepting the intelligence of a woman in an era where women were second-class citizens. The doppelganger is not the king.

This ending happens constantly with dramas that involve time travel and the supernatural. We saw it with Rooftop Prince too. It has the same heartbreaking kiss scene that made us all wail in sorrow but a little while later they teased us with a doppelganger.

The issue with this tease can be seen in something I like to call the Oh My Ghostess conundrum. For those of you who never watched Oh my Ghostess starring Park Bo-young and Jo Jung-seok, it was a drama in which a horny virgin ghost takes over the body of a shy and sheltered sous chef who’s in love with her boss, Kang Sun-woo. The thing is, the ghost also falls for Sun Woo and she’s the one to make the first moves to spark the romance. This brings about an issue with this amazing drama: half of the viewers were unable to get with it when Shin Soon-ae (a.k.a the ghost) left and all that was left was Na Bong-sun, the shy sous chef.

After all it was Soon-ae who’d caught Sun-woo’s attention. It was Soon-ae who made Sun-woo laugh. It was Soon-ae who’d gotten the story to its peak and made the relationship blossom. Yes, she was a selfish, entitled, and obnoxious ghost who had no chance with a living being but she was OUR selfish, entitled, and obnoxious ghost. To see Soon-ae start to fall for Sun-woo, but be selfless and give him up to Bong-sun when Soon-ae did a good chunk of the work made many watchers slightly bitter. Arguments flew between pro-Soon-ae fans and pro-Bong-sun fans in a way only to be rivaled by the Answer Me Series Massacres of 2012-2016. (By the way let’s never forget those we lost during those dark times.)

Another example is with the 2012 drama Big (I die as I remember this drama). We fell in love with one character but got some nonsense about another. I don’t really know. I’m trying to remember this drama but my therapist is begging me not to, so I’m giving you the part that my brain hasn’t suppressed it due to trauma. All I know is, we were BAMBOOZLED.

That’s the issue with this idea that the same face means the same heart. We fell in love with these characters not because they’re gorgeous (hello, we already KNEW Gong Yoo was attractive) but because of their personalities: the dorkiness, swagger, and weirdness. The same face doesn’t mean the same memories or same happily ever after, yet this trope comes out over and over again with the justification that it’s supposed to give us, the viewers, the happily ever after we want. But is it truly a happy ending when it’s not completely the person we knew? Is a hollow ending a happily ever after?

And no, this post isn’t me trying to petition for a longer version of Splish Splash Love but I’d never say no to the idea.

 
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Well, at least Splish Splash offers us a different kind of happy ever after whenever we think of the horseback ride early in the 2nd hour.

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We fell in love with one character but got some nonsense about another. I don’t really know. I’m trying to remember this drama but my therapist is begging me not to, so I’m giving you the part that my brain hasn’t suppressed it due to trauma. All I know is, we were BAMBOOZLED.

I had a retrospectively hilarious breakdown about this at lunch yesterday when someone mentioned Gong Yoo. This is my biggest drama trauma. So, thanks for salting that wound. I hate the Hong Sisters forever and ever.

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Every time I see anyone write about this show, I really have to stop myself from watching it.

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I think everyone should watch this and also About Time so we can all share each other's pain.

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Awwn but this post calls for a Splish Splash rewatch!

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I agree too!

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Thanks for this writeup! I had never thought about it, but I agree with you ~ it's like the dramas are afraid not to give us a happy ending, so after all the angst and frustration they give us a glimmer of hope with the reincarnation trope.

It's a reassuring trope, I remember waiting for it with Moon Lovers and being disappointed when it didn't happen

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@hotcocoagirl, I'm still feeling wronged after the ending scene of MOON LOVERS. That show had so many WTF moments in it that the viewers deserved some kind of reward for putting up with the insanity. On second thought, Wang So had already been through the mill with what's her name. In the cosmic scheme of things, sparing him a twenty-first-century encore may have been a great mercy. #scarredheart

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You make a fair point about Wang So... maybe he’s better only having one life...

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Remember how people raised holy hell because Cheese In The Trap did not have a OTP.....yeah, so do I.

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... why’d you have to go and remind me of Cheese in the Trap?!

Sigh...

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I'd rather stick with a depressing ending than have a happy one that makes no sense to me.

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Realistic and logical but depressing is normally my preference over HEA rainbows and unicorns from out of left field, too. I plead terminal dizziness from all those zooming close-ups that scrambled my brains. ;-)

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In Splash Splash Love, for me the doppleganger was not a doppelganger but kind a reincarnation of the King who waited for her. They didn't give any details, so I imagined what I wanted :p

Rooftop Prince was very disapointing, but more because the Prince didn't try to watch the dead body in the first place... He would have known it was not his wife but his sister-in-law and we would have be so disapointed at the end of the drama >_<

Big was a big mess from the start.

I think author can't handle 2 "same characters" and always ends up by messing one up like in Big, Hyde, Jekyll and Me, Are You Human Too, etc.

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Yes, I understand and sympathize with the whole argument above, but I didn't feel that way about Splish Splash Love. The show had already set up the possibility of time travel, so the possibility of him showing up in her time didn't set off any alarm bells for me. I didn't take it as a doppelganger, because it didn't seem like an accidental meeting. I felt he was there to find her, and already had a connection with her. I'm glad the show didn't try to explain, because any explanation would have had holes in it. It was supposed to be a little magical.

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I suppose you are right, @feranmi101 (RamyunIsTheName), that the story would have been stronger if they had not gone for the happy ending. But I think most K-drama viewers have been trained to expect a happy ending, and aren't ready for a forever-parting. I remember how upset I was when I got to the end of a long Charlotte Bronte novel -- after all her trials, the heroine finally found happiness near the end, and then her love interest drowned. End of story. I think those feelings of, "What! You can't do this to her or to me!!!" are pretty common.

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@lindag latebloomer,

Thanks for your thoughts on the King going looking for her. It's been a while since I rewatched SSL. I like that interpretation. (I just wonder about his modern threads.) -- Whatevers, I loved the show.

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I'm not actually that upset about SSL because 1.) I loved that drama and 2.) It was done so well. But I did start noticing the trend of dramas doing that with that drama. The one thing I would say is that I always expect it due to characters showing up in the present and the past. My thing was always, I feel as if its not a full victory. I laughed at their fish out of water antics. This reincarnation around they're both from the 21st century. She can't teach him about ramyun or the math game and there isn't no mistaken identity or gender equality. That's why I said it feels hollow. I loved the romance but the small details are what makes the story for me.

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This is an interesting topic. My brain can justify the Splish Splash and Rooftop Prince endings because it is possible (well..., in a drama) that the past princes were reincarnated (reborn?) in the "present" time with their same bodies, but without their memories. After the time travelling happened and the main characters met, fell in love, returned to their right time, and the died in the past, the present time resumes and their reincarnations obtain those memories.

A little bit crazy, but I can rationalise it and found it plausible. What I can't accept is the ghost story: he fell in love with the personality of the ghost, he was interested in the girl who was alive, he liked what he saw, but he really get to know "her" and fell in love with "her" when she was someone else. Arguably, he could be in love already with her, but I don't believe in love at first sight or love without getting to know the person, that is only lust and interest. I don't know, this is confusing. I didn't really watch this drama 100%, but cried a lot when the ghost finally left and was very unhappy when I saw everybody moving on with their lives, for me she was the real heroine.

And finally, Big... I'm still hurt. Though I'm not sure it's the Hong sisters fault. Maybe the director or someone else decided last minute use Gong Yoo for that final scene. The drama was going downhill, but if in that final scene the actor had been the one from episode one, it would have saved the drama for me. A pity.

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I wish I could edit my comment and correct my mistakes... Sorry.

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I always thought in SSL he was the reincarnation of Sejong... (aka still a frakking nerd. ahem)

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Arghhhh, this!! This is why I was so disappointed with W. You can't kill and then replace a hero and expect it'll be OK.

Great write-up, btw!

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In my opinion, this reset in W was absolutely contrary to the "clone/reincarnation" trope, I consider it an amazing plot device that steered the drama in a very fresh direction. And it was not OK for both the leads.

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I take my gat (har) off to you for your sassy writing style! ;) I cannot say anything bad about Splish Splash, not even that it is a scam, but your writing made me understand how it could be viewed that way. Thank you for enlightening me ! :)

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Thank you! Out of all these dramas, I only watched Rooftop Prince (tried Splash Splash Love, but could not get into the vibe). And yes, I was angry with this ending (well, the show as a whole was lacking logic and missed so many good plot opportunities). However, after finding the same ending in the blockbuster "Oblivion" with Tom Cruise, I am inclined to give this lazy writing some slack.

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ROOFTOP PRINCE was one of my first dramas and I remember being DEPRESSED for days after that ending, imagining the guy eating omurice miserably in the past, while she got to meet the doppelganger. I think the show tried to tell us that it was the same dude in two reincarnations - they couldn't both be alive during the same timeline so the modern guy was in a comma for practically the whole show. I thought the ending was left a bit open to interpretation, but I still don't buy this kind of happy ending either.

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A brilliant essay on a type of ending that I agree seems more lazy than last-minute "happy" to me. More fan-service than inspiration, let's say.
And thanks for mentioning the Answer Me Massacres of 2012-2016 and those lost, I almost had Slimfast coming out of my nose I laughed so hard 🤣

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@bbstl,

I, too, cracked up at the "Answer Me Massacres of 2012-2016" -- and thanked my lucky stars that I'd never been able to get into any of the shows for some reason. (Probably because I'm a dinosaur who grew up during an earlier era.)

Good thing you didn't have to clean Slimfast out of your keyboard. ;-)

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So awesome! I did like the ending of SSL. Because he had seen her and was interested in her first, before she went back in time. Almost like he recognized her from somewhere before. So, in my mind, his future self already knew her from the time slip, but was just waiting for her to make the jump and come back to him. Which is more romantic to me. Goblin “taught” me that people can be reincarnated with their same face once every so often so maybe even with their same temperament and personality too. There is nothing to make is doubt that future Lee Do wouldn’t still be as progressive as past Lee Do. I rewatched this recently and all the same squishy feelings came back in the same way as prior. I really liked this show and wouldn’t have changed it.

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@ally-le, Thanks for the reminder that the dude with the umbrella had seen her first. I'd forgotten that part. It makes perfect sense now as reincarnation. The possibility of the King's time travel is interesting, but I don't think he'd up and leave his post.

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I agree. The way it was film looked more like a reunion than a first encounter for me.

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@ally-le
KDrama endings always have to be taken with a grain of salt (or some times and entire salt mine). They parallel the west's victorian novel where every character is intertwined in a moral tableau...

From our current reference, It is hard to stomach the coincidences, out-of-nowhere solutions, or just crazy shifts to Korean cultural norms. Its enough to give you whiplash is you are not mentally prepared.

BTW. This short format has some beautiful little dramas. EG. "Killer Girl K" (Han Groo)

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@feranmi101 RamyunIsTheName,

Thanks for your essay. (Er, isn't SPLISH SPLASH LOVE only 2 episodes?)

I agree with you that soul-swaps constitute a bait-and-switch. The one that got to me most recently was ROOM NO. 9, in which the upright detective played by Oh Dae-hwan falls for the convicted murderer halmoni who's inhabiting the body of the obnoxious crooked attorney. Of all the characters in the show, I felt worst for him. He appreciated her for who she really was (although the fetching exterior didn't hurt). Alas, the romance was doomed from the start.

I'm still a sucker for a good bona fide reincarnation, however. It gets me every time if it's done well.

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(Thanks for catching that! Or maybe it was in binary hehe)

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@mary,
I'll go with binary FTW! ;-)

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Wonderful! Looking forward to more of your work!

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Gu Family Book had the exact same SCAM ending. They killed the heroine in the last episode just so they could work in 10 minutes of product placement (using the flimsy excuse of making the hero wait 500 years to meet a doppelganger). Then to add further insult, they made us watch the hero's parents die not once but twice. Truly a production that screwed over its audience.

And I agree about Oh My Ghostess, I came away from this drama firmly believing that he didn't get to end up with the person he was actually in love with.

Yes, the Hong sisters really blew the ending of Big, which I still think is the worst Hong sisters drama even with the super crappy ending they gave us for A Korean Odyssey and the plotless Warm and Cozy.

However, I do think Arang and the Magistrate was able to successfully execute this type of ending. Other shows should take note.

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Don’t mention the Gu Family Book ending *flips table*. I’m so bitter about it (and the misleading title) that I am treating upcoming VAGABOND as it’s sequel.

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Oh yes, Arang and the Magistrate! A case where the madness is perfectly systematized, till the very end.

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@tazmania TAS-Mania,

ARANG AND THE MAGISTRATE will forever be one of my most favorite Kdramas. The dramaverse and its characters, especially the deities, were perfect. I can still see Hadey and Jadey baduking it out while the Flowery Goat grazes in the garden. The ending came as a shock, actually, but I sure liked how the future was set to unfold. I just didn't see it coming.

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Arang and the Magistrate holds a special place in my heart because of that little girl at the end, beating her chest with her frustrations because he drank even when she told him not to do so. XD

It's not the only reason I love the show, but I admit it's one of the few shows I rewatch where I eagerly await that "future" scene as a balm to the crashing heart wrench of an ending. It's just adorable and I can't not get overcome with the giggles despite how many times I've rewatched the show.

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Well, at least Circle did the doppelganger thing by having his clone retain his memories and personality. Romance isn't really involved, but you get the idea.

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All the ❤️❤️❤️ for Circle!

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Man I loved that drama and thanks to you I might watch it again.

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"Splash Splash Love" was so sweet and funny, and I really liked the ending, I mean I wished we had more but was fine knowing those two found each other again. Yeah the king and his reincarnation were not exactly the same person but Dan-bi was also different, before going she was insecure, scared of her future and then changed and found purpose on the things that used to scare her, and the king well he also grew and even if his future self was not the dork he was on the past that doesn't mean he didn't have any of those charming points, or at least a part of his memory of his past, he noticed her first and followed her, it was a second chance for their love, and he wasn't the only one who was given a second chance so maybe they would all find each other again and be besties.

Rooftop Prince, well there it made sense for the reincarnations to be together, they met first and it was supposed to be like that, the past versions of themselves were doomed and it would be weird to mix the versions of each other, the whole time traveling was amazing and fixed a lot of things and unveiled secrets but there were 2 timelines.

Big, on the other hand was not about reincarnation or looking alike, yeah the show should have been like 1 minute longer, even 10 seconds come on, and show the face of the guy already grown up.

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i thought it was so nice lmao it coulda ended with her just doing her thing but it was her doing her thing AND getting to see her ex king mans!

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Agree!!! And also, I love your writing style. Sassy.

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honestly i saw no other outcome for splish splash love. and tbh it was heartwarming IMO. cos i think the implication was also that they knew who each other were. it's reincarnation and time-slip. i mean no way could they stay together but during the last 5 mins i was like SOMETHING BETTER HAPPEN. and that few secs of them staring at each other? (tongue emoji) i love this show.

oh my ghostess is another beast entirely and i will NEVER GET OVER IT. because they spent AGES and EPISODES with two completely totally different people and she never got a chance to grow (the real her i mean) ?? like WHAT IS THIS? i hated that so i quit on ep 15 bc that was just ridiculous.

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Thank you for writing this essay, RamyunIsTheName. You made great points. I read it, then immediately watched Splish Splash Love - and felt fully prepared to deal with the time travel aftermath on the basis of your spoilers, lol. What a charming 2-episode show!

I, too, only vaguely remember what happened at the end of the objectionable hot mess called Big; but I do know that I never want to revisit it, not for love nor money nor even Gong Yoo.

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I am laughing so much, I loved your post :)

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This reminds me of one of my most hated movies ever. "Meet Joe Black". The enire movie didn't work for me, when I watched it in theaters. And the ending killed it for me. At first she see hot guy (Bad Pitt). Hot Guy is instantly killed and replaced with Death. She falls in Love with Death. Death dies (or leaves, don't remember, it has been 21 years) and he "gives" her hot guy back. WTF?!

I am a big fan of old Hollywood movies. As a child those endings never bothers me. Like a statue of Venus comes to life, they fall in love and she disappears and he meets a woman who looks like her. Happy Ending! Growing up made me realize, that just because they looked the same, they were not the same and that it wasn't a happy ending at all.

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Aaaaww...Death takes a Home oliday was the movie that MJB as based on, or should i write, reincarnated from. Frederic March killed it (pun intended) as our hero who finds tru love cosmic or otherwise, but goes back to work nonetheless. This theme is hard to wrap around, but this writer did excellent job.

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Ack auto spell...Death Takes a Holiday is name of old film

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