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Tell Me That You Love Me: Episodes 5-6

There’s a third wheel this week, but it’s not who I suspected. With two new characters revealed, we get a ghost from the past and a possible model for a happy future. Along the way, the drama continues its small moments of big impact, with leads it feels good to root for.

 
EPISODES 5-6

We might as well get it out of the way and start with SONG SEO-KYUNG (Kim Ji-hyun). She’s the new director of the art museum where all our characters are now working. But we’ve heard her name before. She’s the woman who was caught in the fire that haunts Jin-woo’s past. The good news is: she didn’t die in the fire, as I’d feared. The bad news is: it looks like she’s still in love with Jin-woo.

In flashback, we learn that Seo-kyung and Jin-woo fell in love at university, where they were both in the art department. Seo-kyung was assigned to be Jin-woo’s interpreter during classes. It was her job to take notes for him — and she was already comfortable with sign language because her father is deaf also. She was the first person to treat Jin-woo like he was “normal” (in his words) by being friendly but also teasing him, instead of being overly kind or wary around him.

Tell Me That You Love Me: Episodes 5-6

We see their first kiss and young Jin-woo is adorable. (Hey! It’s the peach farmer from Once Upon a Small Town! Nice to see you again, Baek Sung-chul.). But Seo-kyung has an issue (yet to be clarified). She keeps hearing someone whistling in a menacing way, even when it seems that no one is there. We see her in present day, terrified in a parking lot, hearing whistling when footsteps are behind her. And then we see her in college, hearing it repeatedly, and even pulling back from Jin-woo’s kiss because of it.

When the two reunite for the first time in decades, Mo-eun is also there. Seo-kyung approaches casually, asking how Jin-woo has been, and he’s got panic and pain all over his face. Mo-eun observes it all and understands there’s something powerful between these two. When she asks how they know each other, Seo-kyung says they’re friends and Jin-woo simply nods in agreement, so caught off guard by seeing this long-lost woman.

But our leads are still pressing along in finding their way to each other and so far Seo-kyung hasn’t presented a real threat. She looks unhappy when she sees Jin-woo and Mo-eun together — and offers to help Mo-eun with sign language (which feels like she’s trying to butt her way between them), but we’ll have to see how that develops. As of now, Mo-eun is doing just fine on her own — so fine, in fact, that we end our episodes with a confession.

Tell Me That You Love Me: Episodes 5-6

To get there, we start from the play that closed our episodes last week. Mo-eun is a success and Jin-woo leaves the theater when he sees her surrounded by her praising co-stars afterward. She follows him outside to thank him, and tells him she feels comforted because he always tries his best not to miss anything. “You’re a good listener. It feels like you listen to my heart, not my voice.” This she signs without saying anything (usually she speaks and signs together) and there is something profound in the silence.

Not only has Jin-woo shown up for her play (which, as it turns out, Ji-yoo invited him to, not Mo-eun), but he’s also interested enough to ask for a copy of the script, so he can understand more fully what it was about. I love that the drama is giving them this kind of artistic connection.

On the day they meet so that Mo-eun can give Jin-woo a copy of the script, they end up at the library together, where each has books to return. The scene is beautiful, first, because it shows off how they’re able to communicate in a way that feels personal and secret in a place where quiet is required (just like they did between stage and audience). And second, because they just look so happy. They’re comfortable, natural, and using every tool they possess to communicate: facial expressions, signs, lip reading, and text. They’re trying hard to reach each other and it’s lovely to watch.

We’re introduced to another character this week, Ki-hyun’s wife, EUN SO-HEE (Jung Sae-byeol). I’m not sure if I missed it earlier or if this was meant to be a surprise, but So-hee is deaf also, and there’s a magnificent scene where she and Ki-hyun run into Jin-woo and Mo-eun and they all go to Jin-woo’s house for lunch.

To give the setup, we have two deaf characters, both who communicate in sign language, and two hearing characters, only one of whom really knows enough sign language to understand and translate. Ki-hyun acts as the go-between, speaking and signing, so everyone can understand each other. The atmosphere is jovial and light, but it’s also one of the most complex scenes I’ve ever seen in regard to how communication happens when one person doesn’t know the language of the others (and this is true for not knowing a spoken language as well).

So-hee signs. Ki-hyun says out loud what she’s signing. Mo-eun looks between So-hee’s face and Ki-hyun’s to show she’s paying attention to both speaker and translator. At the same time, Jin-woo watches Mo-eun as she tries to understand and integrate with his friends — in a group where she is the outsider instead of him. We see his feelings brewing here as she attempts to gain access to his world.

But on top of that, we have the actual content of what’s being said. So-hee’s parents are not deaf but don’t know much sign language, so she can’t communicate with them well. Ki-hyun has to translate between her and her parents, including when she’s saying something negative about him – a fact that makes everyone at the table laugh.

It’s a multi-layered, true-to-life, impressively captured sequence, that gives us a ton of information (through action) about who our characters are, what they struggle with, and how they try to overcome their struggles. (And, intentional or not, it spoke to me for its similarity with immigration experiences, when one doesn’t fully understand the language. It’s rare to see this situation conveyed with such compassion.)

This meeting does leave a glaring question though. If Jin-woo has a model for how relationships can work between someone who can hear and someone who can’t, why is he so afraid of having a relationship?

We don’t learn the answer until near the end, when Jin-woo tells Ki-hyun that when he sees Ki-hyun’s love for So-hee, he’s put off because he understands what a hearing person would have to endure for him. Ki-hyun counters that he can do anything for So-hee because he loves her. But Jin-woo comes back with: “You can say you love her because you can do anything for her.” Oof. So, the fundamental thing our hero needs to get past is feeling like he has nothing to offer someone he loves.

There are other cute scenes of our leads getting closer, from playing a public piano together to taking an impromptu walk when she shows up at his house unannounced (it’s her birthday, but she doesn’t tell him that). We also get to see the miscommunications that occur. Last week, we had one small blunder (Mo-eun accidentally signed that she wanted to “confess” when she only wanted to talk). And this week, Jin-woo thinks that Mo-eun is inviting him on a trip to the sea, which he turns down, but she only meant that he should take a trip if he’s frustrated about work.

The miscommunication has a bright side, though, when Jin-woo realizes he’s missed Mo-eun’s birthday. He sits at her bus stop, waiting for her to arrive, and then asks if she wants to go to the sea right now. She does and they set up camp by the tiding water. He signs, “Happy Birthday,” apologizing for being slow on the uptake that day she came to his house. Everything turns slo-mo and it’s clear she’s got it bad for him. Then she comes right out with it and signs, “I like you.” She keeps signing, but there are no translations. We only see him start to tear up as the episode ends.

Oh this scene! I want them together so badly! This is a story where I would be satisfied to just see their mundane daily life together as a couple. Her at his studio. Him at her plays. All the ways they’d try to communicate — and all their little flubs amidst all their tenderness. I’m not even the one in the relationship and I’m imagining their future. No wonder she’s confessing already!

Also, the direction is astounding. I’m in love with our hero and that’s thanks to the flipping back and forth between being in his shoes and being in our heroine’s shoes as she sees him. There’s so much empathy flying around. And I love our heroine too. She’s open and curious and brave. If any pair deserves happiness together, it’s these two. Please Drama, give it to them so I can be happy too!

 
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Yes, this show does such a great job of communicating communication. How misunderstandings happen and how understandings happen. I think it is great that Mo Eun takes the initiative in their relationship, she actively tries to get to know him, so it brings him out of his shell. Jinwoo asking her to go to the sea was just lovely. That one misunderstanding led to an understanding. Just wonderful.

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You can tell that Jung Woo-sung is an unabashed melodrama fan (as he has mentioned in interviews before). The people who put this together clearly respect the form and have put it all together very carefully. I read somewhere that he was a fan of the original and optioned the rights 13 years ago, so as a producer he definitely had a long time to think about it. So far this is absolutely what I hoped it would be-- the writing is good-- I feel like it is working with the tropes in an interesting way, but hitting all the classic melo beats. The direction is lovely and spacious but it doesn't drag. And I don't think it's just my bias talking when I say that JWS is really hitting all the beats here. I've really missed seeing him in a role like this. And Shin Hyun-been is a great match for the FL. And I love Park Jin-joo as the comedic but big hearted sidekick. This one might put us through the wringer before it's over, but I think it may hurt just right.

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Every time they light up on seeing each other, my life expectancy increases by 10 years. Mo-eun's overjoyed little laugh after Jinwoo offers to walk her home... Her making him to genuinely laugh for the first time! Ah, my heart.

Mo-eun meeting Jin-woo's friend and Sohee was wholesome, one of my fav scenes. Ki-hyun is a charming wingman and such a caring friend, while So-hee is essentially Jin-woo's SIL atp. Tl;dr, there was a lot of warmth and affection at that table & I loved it.

But more importantly, I think that couple might be a foil to Jin-woo x Mo-eun as the story goes on... and evidence that a relationship between a deaf and a hearing person can succeed. At the start of the ep, Mo-eun said she thought people who can speak and those who are "silent" have difficulty living together, but Jin-woo's friends and him becoming her comfort person seem to have convinced her otherwise. It still feels like foreshadowing and the source of future trouble...
Either way, I was *cheering* when Mo-eun confessed to him. I was really proud of her courage because she seems like a very low-key, muted person so far.

I can see why Jinwoo fell for his college gf, she's gorgeous! and saying things like “And I'll be your sound" & stealing food so adorably would get anyone 🥺 But jokes aside, it's sad and sweet at the same time that Sekyoung was the first to treat him like an actual human being. I was... honestly rooting for them in their college days; they made for a cute couple and she was so nice to him. It makes me feel so bad for her rn; I'm still on the Mo-eun x Jin-woo ship, but she looks so irrevocably in love with him. The moment she saw Mo-eun, her face said 'a new challenger appeared!'

on top of all that, what's going on with the whistling and stalking? was the fire the result of some sort of creepy arsonist? I don't like where this is going... despite being a melo, this drama's been very calm and healing so far. Idk how it will handle going into crime thriller territory.

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(hi this is my comfort show bye)

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this might be my feel-good pill when I get to watch it. But I'm waiting for more episodes because there's no way I'll be able to wait a week to know what happens next.

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I'm with you Dramaddictally -I want them together so badly but it has been a lovely journey watching them sort out their feelings for one another. It has felt real and not rushed. 
I'm so thankful this show came along at the end of this year, it is like a balm to the soul.
I'm thankful there are no screeching, over the top ajumma's.
I'm thankful there is no obvious, jarring PPL.
I'm thankful the main characters in this show drink responsibly.
I'm thankful the actors are portraying their characters with skill, thoughtfulness and grace. 
I'm thankful the leads are behaving as adults and communicating. 
How ironic that this show,of all the shows this year, gets it right despite the challenges the characters face.
I'm thankful there is no gruesome murder as a side plot.
Please may it continue, it is simply beautiful to watch.

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There are so many thing to be thankful for about this drama @mrsbuckwheat, just so many. And you've hit a good number of them.
I for one like the fact that most of the times they met, even though a number were coincidental, it was also intentional.

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@mrsbuckwheat Every single sentence you wrote is convincing me that I need this show. Thank you for your perspective. I wish there were more dramas that adhered to these same ideas. I'm so bummed that it's not available in the USA on any legal service. I think there would be so much more beanie chatter if this show was more widely distributed. There is a chance that Hulu might get it after this drama concludes but my patience is wearing thin.

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This is really a show you should try. I really wish everyone could watch this at the same time.

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On hulu in US now. TMTYLM is one of the reasons I signed up for this month. I monitor hulu and appletv+ and when they get a few dramas I want to see, then I sign up and cancel after the month. I’ve gone through 2 cycles like this of each.

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Do try and tell us what you think!

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The moment the name Song Seo-kyung was mentioned, I already knew a wrench was going to be in the mix of this two. But I never expected that she'd return in the form of museum director. Jin-woo will be fine I'm sure of that. He can handle himself. I worry for the uneven dynamic between Mo-eum and Seo-kyung, especially after they had such a lovely first encounter.
On other news, I'm glad to see Kim Ji-hyun again. Having figured in ep 3 that she is the Song Seo-kyung we would be expecting tanked my expectance a little.

The scene with the four at the table...Oh! It hit just right. It was just right.

About Mo-eum's parent's reaction, I think it made perfect sense for them to react that way. I liked the fact that they reacted in that manner. It is so intune with the tone of this drama that any immediate positive reaction from them would have felt like a puzzle piece out of place. I'm sure TMYLM has taken their time to carefully construct future dialogues and scenes surrounding this issue.

And now the OTP. I like how Mo-eum takes the initiative and Jin-woo allows her the space to do her thing, acknowledging the fact that he likes being around her and having her around him.
I was pale when Mo-eum touched the scar on his shoulder. I was expecting some not-so-good dramatic turn out in there and thankfully, Tell Me You Love Me didn't go there. Turns out I was worried for nothing.

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((I don't... I still don't really want to talk about this show because it's just too dear to me right now, and I fear I may break the spell...

I don't know if I want to wrap this drama in a cocoon and keep it safe next to my heart at all times, or if it keeps wrapping ME like a cocoom and keeping me next to ITS heart, or maybe both; it's like a warm hug, a calm reassurance, the echo of a painting itself, the peace of an empty stage, and the soothing hymn of the sea, and - if, if it burns me, I will be beyond devastated, and I may never recover; I cannot think of a worse possibility right now than this show not having a happy ending. I keep trying to temper my expectations because of how this year and all the rest has gone for me and tend to go for me otherwise, and it keeps being so beautiful it hurts instead; I almost CRIED at her confession, and how it wasn't even translated (!!!!! oh my gosh the sound design of this show deserves a whole comment to itself), which, if you know me at all, is a lot, because I NEVER cry in shows.
But! I don't want to say this! I will break the spell of the fragile cocoon that envelops the both u!!!!! May we survive the metamorphosis or so help me--))

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I know this year has been hard as we have been burnt too many times but I have faith in the team behind TMTYLM.
This is not a show made for the masses and feels more like an intelligent, very carefully and painstaking curated piece of art.
Watching some scenes you could be lulled into thinking that nothing much is happening but there is so much subtle detail put into some scenes and the effort taken to get things right makes me believe that they will do it justice :)

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I'll tell this show that I love it when it's over. In the meantime, I'll watch it quietly.😶🤫

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Yes, I’ll reserve that sacred word until I watch the last ep of the show. What I can say now is that I liked all the eps I watched so far. More in my comment that will follow perhaps in the next few days. Had a very strange and busy week.

Let’s watch it quietly…

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ME’s play gave her some self confidence to tell her parents about her worrisome career change, but the TV cameo scene should have shown her parents that she can succeed (but maybe in her mind it was such a small, demeaning role that it would reinforce the negative image of struggling actress). JW’s students are still a delight in how they interact just like normal “kids.” But the highlight of Episode 5 was Ki-Hun and his wife acting like a normal loving and bickering couple. The lowlight was the clarity of the college fire that literally and figuratively scars JW to the point where he does not go back to the college union or talk about the fire. The addition of Seo-Kyung (ACB) as the new art gallery director throws in a new twist to the potential love triangle as JW a) is surprised to see her, b) she is happy to see him, and c) he has not come to grips with his failure to protect her from the fire.

JW has had a life long struggle of the public not treating him “normal.” In college he understands that he needs help. He meets SK as his mentor/notetaker. But he is uncomfortable around normal people, even the ones who want to help him. This shows the hard shell he has developed around his adult self. College When they first meet, SK is very forward like ME in asking JW out to dinner. He liked that she treated him like a normal person.

JW is trapped in an apparent endless cycle of getting in trouble for helping people like saving the drunk from the TOD. Outside the cafe, ME “hears” that JW and SK have an “uncomfortable” relationship which must give her pause. JW believes that they communicate in simple words but have complex feelings (which are hard to express). The one issue to me is that ME is unilaterally stealth dating JW. It is a way to avoid rejection but leads to the risk of the dreaded friend-zone. He can see when she is frustrated and seeks to remedy it by going with her to the sea. In the end, ME has the courage to tell JW she likes him. We are left with JW’s incomplete reaction to the confession. Ki-Hyun had lectured him that he should find his happiness; that his marriage to his deaf wife is his happiness - - - not a burden but normal. Will he take his friend’s advice to heart?

SK has a strong, outward personality but we learn she has panic-anxiety issues (the footsteps in the parking garage.) Then she remembers her first kiss, then gets mad at the memory. There is a complexity to her character that will be interesting to explore in future episodes. I don’t get the scorned woman vibe from SK. Maybe regret. (Well, the only real regret for Kim Ji-Hyun is taking the co-lead in 39 only to have her character story eliminated and overwhelmed by SYJ.)

The show continues to ebb and flow at a nice pace with interesting, realistic scenes and interactions between the characters.

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Was expecting the usual long detailed writeup . Why so short and abrupt brief. :(

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This is 12 eps series, right?
Usually, it takes me like a couple eps before finale and I start marathoning...but JWS in melo 🥹🥹🥹, I have to see it although it takes forever 😬.

I would love to hear their interview and how much JWS handle this drama without a single line uttered (not including the narrative) 😊

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I thought it was full of 16 eps? well, if it's 12, there'll be less angst to wade through hopefully

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Thanks for this weecap, @dramaddictally!

Me too, for every word you typed. The directing here is superb: With so little words spoken between the two, everything rests on the sign language and how the two try to communicate via other cues (e.g., facial expressions, hand gestures). The pace isn't rushed; hence, it feels real and believable. There is no magic involved, making it believable that the story may actually take place in the real world. The struggles both leads are going through are also believable, making it easier for viewers to relate to these characters.

I am not sure how long I'll sound like a broken record, but I agree with what has been expressed here: It is astounding for a show to get it this right even when one of the leads is being portrayed as an hearing-impaired person.

I can't wait for tomorrow for its next ep.

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I don't know how to express how much I adore this show.

I loved something he said about how they have to use simple words (signs) to communicate not-so-simple feelings and thoughts. But I don't have those "simple words with deeper meaning" right now.

I just loved these episodes too much. The confession took me by surprise and all I could do was cry.

When he asked her to go to the sea I remembered what she said about him listening to her heart instead of her voice, and then the confession happened and I broke.

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Even though it is a remake of J-drama from 1990's time, they have changed many things too, i love this sign language trend going on at the industry. From twinkling watermelon till this drama. J-drama was quite emotional, I believe makers of k-drama had made changes in script as well as ending too. I am very curious about this drama ending.

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👋🏾Welcome to the DB comments I hope you have fun here. I hope you are still enjoying this one as it seems to be gaining fans on the site.

I have not been up to date with my drama watching so have only just started this one. I tried the Japanese version but the picture quality was too bad for me to get into it and I stopped early on. This looks like a great adaption keeping the themes but modernising and adding the K drama touch.

The deaf community and sign language element is definitely showing up in more dramas, we have seen some side characters in a couple of K dramas in the past so Twinkling Watermelon was a great show to bring it front and centre. I am noticing it much more in J dramas with leads in Silent and On a starry night and family members in First Love.

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Isn't it ironic that a drama about hearing impairment has less miscommunication than most of the other dramas out there? I'm so in love with how articulate our OTP is without uttering any words. They understood each other so so well.

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