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[Surviving and Thriving] The checklist

Sometimes, dramaland can feel like a black hole: once you’re fully sucked in, you’re almost never getting out. And like something out of a dystopian cinematic universe or a survival tale, we all need to navigate through and thrive in this black hole. My drama checklist is not a list of hard-and-fast rules (and won’t apply to everyone) — they’re just things I do to achieve a pleasant watching experience, and some might come in handy for interested Beanies.

1. Synopsis first
Checking the synopsis of a drama is a must-do for me before attempting to start a drama — even if I’m watching on recommendation and everyone swears that it’s the best thing to happen to dramaland since Kim Soo-hyun debuted. I check for the genre, an overview of the plot, and if there are actors I like/don’t like among the cast. I also check for the presence of possible triggers (so I can mentally prepare myself or check out at the entrance). And very importantly, I look at the number of episodes, so I don’t find myself starting a 50-episode drama I’m not ready to commit to, or get shocked when the drama ends at Episode 12 rather than the usual 16.

Pros: You’re well prepared for the journey ahead.
Cons: “Product image for illustration purposes only. Actual product may vary.”
 
2. Stomach next
Unlike in Hollywood or other industries where TV characters pick at their meals, food is NOT just a prop in K-dramas. And if you’re like me and get easily influenced by what you see, it’s always best to arm yourself with some snacks when you’re indulging in dramas. It could be caffeine for an overnight binge, popcorn to throw at the screen in frustration, champagne to celebrate the kiss scene at Episode 8, or ramyun in solidarity with the couple on their first night together.

Pros: You get to feed your eyes and your belly simultaneously.
Cons: You might get absorbed in the drama and burn dinner. Oops!
 
3. Double speed
Watching on 2x has been my go-to hack for binging dramas for the last two years. I started this with a non-K-drama because I didn’t want to fast-forward it, and at the same time I didn’t want to waste unnecessary time on a scene. It took a bit of getting used to, but now I watch everything else on at least 1.5x. Getting to finish a 1-hour drama in less than 35 minutes? Hell yeah!

Pros: Since this cuts viewing time by almost half, you get to watch more dramas in less time. Hooray!
Cons: Once you get used to it, watching at normal speed becomes too slow for you.
 
4. Joining the conversation
What activity is on par with the fun of watching dramas? Discussing them with a like-minded community. Whether it’s here on DB, or lurking on Twitter and IG, I want to know what other people’s thoughts about the drama are, read opinions differing to mine, and get wowed when someone points out stuff I didn’t notice when I watched. Being part of a community is really important to me because have you ever had to explain to your colleagues at work that your sudden giggle in the middle of the day is not because you’re going crazy, but because you recalled a hilarious scene in a drama? Nope. They won’t get it. Or have you tried going on a lengthy punctuated-by-tears rant to a non-drama watching friend about a drama that went sideways and killed your favorite character? Again, they won’t get it.

Pros: Drama fans are really helpful and they’ll spazz with you, explain plot points you didn’t understand, and encourage you as you run to the finish line of a drama together. They also give the best recs.
Cons: Having to restrain yourself from, say, wanting to write a thesis on subtitled versus dubbed dramas (we all know subbed is the ultimate version, anyway), or from arguing with everyone else of a different opinion. “What do you mean ABC drama is the worst drama ever?!” “Why would you even say actor XYZ delivers his dialogue like he’s constipated?” *cracks knuckles*

5. The drama salad
This is basically me mixing up the dramas I watch at one time, so that I don’t end up watching back to back dramas of the same genre — especially dramas with heavier themes. Imagine binging all the episodes of Queenmaker and going to watch an episode of Pandora: Beneath the Paradise afterwards (both dramas having similar evil politicians). That can either get boring real fast, or take a toll on me. And that’s where a good rom-com comes in handy — or sometimes I throw an old drama rewatch into the mix.

Pros: There’s a reason nutritionists insist on having balanced diets.
Cons: I haven’t found any, yet.
 
6. Taking a break
It’s okay to take a break from dramas when they become overwhelming or life gets in the way, because dramas exist for us to watch — we don’t exist to watch dramas. Breaks are healthy, and dramaland will always be there for whenever we’re rejuvenated and ready to rejoin the circus.

Pros: Taking breaks prevents burnout and ensures we won’t reach the point of hating dramas.
Cons: Catching up on dramas we’ve missed can be quite the task. And in extreme cases, some people on hiatus might not return to dramaland. *sad pout*
 
7. Dropping without looking back
It took a while for me to get to this point, but now, no matter how many episodes in I am, I will drop a drama without a second glance if it’s not the right fit. Don’t compel yourself to finish a drama just because you already started it. Recaps exist for a reason. Alternatively, you can make up an ending in your head and just stick with that. I should have done that for many dramas I forced myself to finish.

Pros: You get to save yourself from trainwrecks.
Cons: You might miss out on some great dramas that had a rough start.
 
8. Having fun
This is my most important rule of all, and I refuse to be pressured into watching a drama I won’t enjoy just because everyone else is watching it. FOMO is a real thing, but it shouldn’t push you into rushing into a Squid Game or Alchemy of Souls when you’re not yet in the right headspace for them. Watching dramas is not a competition, neither is it a race to stack up the most beans in anticipation for the Bean Count at the end of the year. It’s okay to carry dramas over into the new year because nobody gets a prize for having watched the most dramas. Instead, let the fun factor determine what you watch — or don’t watch. Because you’ll never be able to watch all the dramas in existence.

 
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@unit Thank you this is great, and it had a few tips I had not considered like the speed as it avoids missing important things which is a con of FF. You must be a pro at speed reading as I sometimes have to rewind and pause some lines at normal speed as they cover so much.

The plot summary can sometimes take some serious researching to get a sense of all the genres included as multiple sites seem to cut and paste from the same source. I am getting better at reading the posters and knowing that they will often drop the mystery element in quite early so if it’s not in the summary and turns up in episode one walk away.

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Over time you'd get used to speed watching @reply1988 . I sped through many korean weekday shows when they ran up to 120 episodes steady. I was binge watching those ones though. Once you gain mastery over it, you'll love it. And yes, you won't miss a word in the subtitles or an action on screen. Fight scenes play on normal speed though.

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I am going to try this when watching dailies- it seems like such a good suggestion that is particularly suited to them.

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Can't relate more to the speed point.😂😂
That was an interesting post with many interesting points that I will try to merge into my routine.

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@unit This will be a good checklist for newbies. As a long time Kdrama watcher, my only wish is to master point 7, but so far 2023 Kdramaland has been dull enough for me to not get much practise on the skill. All have been quick drops!

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I can't agree more with your 8!
Watching dramas should be and stay fun. And discussing on Dramabeans adds to the enjoyment.

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Points #7 & #8 I can really relate to-I don’t know how many times I tried to watch Alchemy of Souls. I just couldn’t stick it out and finally dropped it without looking back.
I feel the same way about rom-coms. Goofy characters, the meet cute plot lines and the occasional mismatch (in my view) of stars paired together that I feel have zero chemistry, will usually quickly drive me away. I really struggles with Jeon Do-Yeon in Crash Course in Romance, but she was outstanding and perfectly cast in Kill Boksoon.

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@unit thank you for your tips on thriving and surviving. They were quite relatable.

champagne to celebrate the kiss scene at Episode 8. This can never be wrong. There's a reason why I must watch dramas while having meals. They both work hand in hand for a delicious taste, and great feeling to your brain.

I found wanting to join in the conversation every week leading into drama burnout. Once I contented myself with commenting on the ones I've watched prior to recaps or have seen parts of the week's episodes, I got better. Plus, not catching up affords you to binge through them in one go ahead of the finale week. This tip worked for me a few weeks ago. The cons are deadly though. So made it mental note to follow the weecaps peradventure I do not go back to them. I'm still staring at Through the Darkness in the face.

Point 1 is a must for survival for every beanie. I can't count how many dramas I dragged myself to finish simply because of the cast. And the many I've saved myself the stress from watching thanks to the cast.

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Watching a drama when you're hungry is the worst! They always eat and food I can't eat myself >_<

I don't really understand how we could enjoy something with speeding. The voices are different, the OST are awful... For me, it doesn't make sense. I can skip little bits or some characters. If I don't like it, I just drop the drama.

Dramabeans is the best to talk about dramas !

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I have to agree with the speeding. It messes with my ears too much for me to enjoy it.

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Never speeding a drama. Either continue or just stop it right there right now.

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I am happy to read that others watch KDrama on FF. For me my method is everyone starts at 1.5x and then some stay there, but if they are good they move to 1.25x and if they are excellent down to 1X. And if they are bad heavy skipping forward or even to the very end or drop completely.

And you are so right that once you do this it is hard to go to 1x for all. Reason I can't watch the Kdramas on Prime is no FF feature. Too bad.

2X is hard for me, so hats off to you.

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I can never speed watch. It is just weird, everything feels weird. Anything more than 1.25 feels very artificial. I usually FF is I want to skip some parts, but I never speed watch. Occasionally, I do watch some c-dramas in 1.25x if its a part I dont care much for but I need it for the plot.

Drop = Yup!! I drop ruthlessly. Even at ep 13.

DB = I probably won't enjoy dramas as much if not for this community and discussion. It doubles the fun. Be is spazzing together or ranting together.

I always watch dramas during lunch and after work while having dinner! looks like it was a sound strategy, though not intended..

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There are solid suggestions here. Thank you for sharing your ideas.

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I can't believe I never thought of double speeding rather than FF-ing! And I exclusively used to watch Uni lectures on 2x speed too (which had more to do with being several weeks behind on content and having x days before an exam to learn said content 🤡) so it's a feature I'm well accustomed with, but just never ever thought to apply to dramas :O Thanks for sharing all your wonderful types and enlightening me with the speed one in particular!! I'm going to try it out with the next drama that drags a little/has one too many episodes.

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*wonderful tips

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I rarely FF but sure wish I’d thought of it for King the Land 1 😝

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The mere thought of listening to Woo Do-hwan at anything else than his normal 1x cadence gives me the screaming heebie-jeebies!! NO WAY!!!

I do, however, feel free to hit that “10 second skip” button with reckless abandon, and in the case of Bloodhounds, even, manually and quickly scrub past any/all scenes I don’t want to see or that are boring (or that don’t contain Woo Do-hwan).

Lessee if I have any additional tips…ah, yes! While you may wish to eat along with your favorite characters—and I have certainly done that joyously—PLEASE do not try to match them drink for drink.

You’re welcome.

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‘ While you may wish to eat along with your favorite characters—and I have certainly done that joyously—PLEASE do not try to match them drink for drink’ 👈🏾 especially to prove you are a good drinker😬

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The 10 second skip button works quite well for me.

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Probably No. 7 ‘Dropping’ or as I say to myself ‘pulling the ripcord’ is the most important. In 2023 my drops have been:
STRANGERS AGAIN (after eps 7)
OUR BLOOMING YOUTH (after eps 14)
TRUE TO LOVE (after eps 2).

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‘ Probably No. 7 ‘Dropping’ or as I say to myself ‘pulling the ripcord’ is the most important’ 👈🏾 I like pulling the ripcord as an analogy as it is such a relief to not hate watch something just to get a bean or see how story 1 of the 15 being played out ends.

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When I entered kdrama land in 2016 I foolishly adopted a rule: “start a drama, finish a drama”. Oh my! Dumb! So for 50+ dramas that was my m.o. until CHILDREN OF A LESSER GOD (2018). The subtitling was so atrocious (on an ‘alternate’ site) that it became my first drop. It was my emancipation. Even now don’t consider myself a serial dropper and I am kind of choosy in starting dramas.

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Same here! It used to be a matter of pride to me to finish every drama I started, until one day I gave myself permission to drop one. I don't even remember which one it was, but it was so liberating! It also made me choosier about which dramas I started.

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I have really erratic habits with drama watching.
1) Sometimes I watch the first few episodes and then the last one, then skip back and fill in what I've missed.
2) I have many dramas that I have watched the first two or three episodes of, but haven't officially dropped as I plan to go back and finish them at some point (eg Move to Heaven, It's OK to not be..., Prison Playbook, Our Beloved Summer, Mr Queen...)
3) I don't watch zombies/horror.
4) There are a few dramas that I have rewatched too many times, trying to recreate the emotional hit.
5) The best dramas are actually better the second or third time round, for all the nuances/info/plot you miss the first time, because you looked away/fell asleep momentarily and missed crucial subtitles. And also because a character that you didn't know or like initially can become beloved by the end, and it's great to start again and dwell on everything they did and said.

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This is me, point to point. I made an exception with Zombie watch with Happiness (and so glad I did) but I could not have written better. The ones that I have not officially dropped and plan to go back and watch: Hometown Cha Cha Cha, It's OK to be not OK, While you were sleeping. I am big on rewatching drama as well.

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I have a few that I thought I'd go backhand finish, but I never have!

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I twice went back to try to finish What's Wrong with Secretary Kim, and I now know I never will. It got on my nerves and I much preferred PSJ in Fight for my Way and Itaewon Class and PMY in Healer.

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I wonder if some of this preference depends on the order in which one happens to come upon these dramas…

I’m sure a large part of it is personal likes and dislikes, but we build up opinions about how these actors act as we watch them. So the order matters!

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@attiton "we build up opinions about how these actors act as we watch them. So the order matters!" - that's very observant. You are right. That is possibly why at times we can never see the talents of some of the most popular stars because we watch them in something that's not the best representation of them.

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One thing @unit mentions to help with bingewatching dramas, has helped me WITHOUT watching, and that is joining the conversation. To me that means reading the always excellent recaps on DB and then reading the comments. Since I have watched enough kdramas I can picture many of the actors, and since there are very few kdramas that are just strikingly original in plot, scene setting, and cinematography, I find I can enjoy some dramas much more by reading them than by actually watching them!

Especially medical dramas, which as a non-medical person in an extended family of nurses and doctors I've always disliked watching. But reading @dramaddictally recap of Dr. Cha, and @alathe's hilarious recaps of Romantic Dr. Kim #3 I really enjoyed "watching" them even though I know actually viewing would have irritated me so much I'd have to shut them off.

I don't know if I'll be able to even do that for Romantic Dr. Kim season 23, though--even if @alathe is recapping!

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Speed watching is the greatest advantage of iqiyi. Netflix has the same feature but I feel voices are off somehow. On Iqiyi everything is just the same, only quicker. It's amazing how much better some OSTs are as well, as a bonus. ^^

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Watching on double speed is an idea I have never tried, because I don't really want to watch drama's faster, but reading this article make me think about a Wuxia (Cdrama) I've been very slowly watching for what MyDramaList says has been the last two years (that doesn't seem correct to me, but it might be true), and I kind of wish I Could watch it on double speed.

Before anyone asks, the reason I've kept watching is because everything about the drama is solid, Except the pacing is the speed of a snail. Like the scenes are actually elongated by the actor's line delivery and these incredibly long shots. It's all very beautiful, but it's also incredibly frustrating.

Unfortunately, I don't think you can watch episodes on Viki in double speed. I'm halfway through the drama right now, so that means it will probably take me another two years to finish it, lol.

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