Beanie level: Rooftop room dweller

#Lovely Runner PL

Quiet Eyes by Sharon Van Etten
From the “Past Lives” OST. Just sublime. This is an incredibly moving song to me and the lyrics also fit the contemplative context of LR.

https://open.spotify.com/track/10IrJGEY0f48OGywIkZauw?si=Y5dkjwevSZGUloW7RhtSSA&context=spotify%3Aplaylist%

Quiet Eyes

Moving statues in the park
Mosaic faces fading in the rain
Recalling memories of loss
Yet untouched and unscathed
Is this really a mystery life?
Where we only learn from our own mistakes
Misstep, fall down stairs
Maybe you’re too wise for me
Your quiet eyes break my heart now
You’re calling out, you’re calling out despite it
A long car drive
Music in air
Comes from a place
Out of nowhere
Staring at stars or a lightning bug
On a faraway stair, on a torchlit night
The field of depth on those marble steps
We’ll meet again in light
That’s how it’s done
That’s how it’s done
And how it’s undone
That’s how it starts
That’s how it starts
And how it’s unknown
Fall, fall
Calling out in spite of it all
Fall, fall
Will we meet again in the light?

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    I just caught Past Lives last weekend (so happy I managed to see it in theatres before it left) and loved it to bits – this is a fantastic song rec!!

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      I’m so glad you saw it on the big screen. I just loved it. And this song is just amazing.
      Thank you for the great idea and for putting the LR DB OST!

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    H/T to @elinor for giving me a heads up about “Quiet Eyes”. After seeing “Past Lives”, I fell for this song and the movie.

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#lovelyrunnerPL
I had to think carefully and check but this was one of my faves in 2008: The Empire of the Sun’s “Walking on a Dream”: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SP6d5zyWdIo
And, the lyrics are apt for LR:
“ Walking on a dream
How can I explain?
Talking to myself
Will I see again?
We are always running for the thrill of it, thrill of it
Always pushing up the hill, searching for the thrill of it
On and on and on we are calling out, out again
Never looking down, I’m just in awe of what’s in front of me
Is it real now?
Two people become one
I can feel it
Two people become one
Thought I’d never see
The love you found in me
Now it’s changing all the time
Living in a rhythm where the minute’s working overtime
We are always running for the thrill of it, thrill of it
Always pushing up the hill, searching for the thrill of it
On and on and on we are calling out, out again
Never looking down, I’m just in awe of what’s in front of me
Is it real now?
Two people become one
I can feel it
Two people become one
Is it real now?
Two people become one
I can feel it
Two people become one
Catch me, I’m falling down
Catch me, I’m falling down
Don’t stop, just keep going on
I’m your shoulder, lean upon
So come on, deliver from inside
All we got is tonight, that is right ’til first light
Is it real now?
Two people become one
I can feel it
Two people become one
Is it real now?
Two people become one
I can feel it
Two people”

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A few recent interesting stories from Korea Times:
“Wealthy Koreans are twice as happy with life as non-rich: bank report”: https://www.koreatimes.co.kr/www/biz/2024/04/175_373483.html

“Constitutional Court strikes down inheritance rule mandating portions to siblings”: https://www.koreatimes.co.kr/www/nation/2024/04/251_373471.html

“Oceans minister promises to stabilize local seaweed supply as gimbap prices soar
Posted”: https://www.koreatimes.co.kr/www/tech/2024/04/419_373466.html

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    It’s turning into a makjang drama

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      I feel bad for the Newjeans girls tbh 😬

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        Exactly. I am not familiar with them as a group but in a highly publicised situation such as this, it must be even more stressful to be dragged into the spotlight of the feud between those two. I also think Bang Sihyuk was/is much more implicated in this corporate shenanigan and is trying to deflect attention from his personal relationship with her.

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      I can picture the visit just like in dramas

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This is a cute explanation for the Korean word, “눈치“, nunchi.

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    This reminded me of Sam Kim’s song “No Sense” (No 눈치).

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      Thanks for mentioning this. I like Sam Kim but didn’t know about this song.
      Nunchi is hard work! It seems in KDs many people have zero nunchi or feel entitled to disregard all of it.

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        Oh, yeah. Kdrama characters suck at reading the room. Or just anything. They’re dense af. 😆

        Just yesterday, Soo Cheol invited himself to his aunt’s date. Nunchiga opseoso.

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          Ah! So he’s Quick Nunchi! Great Emma suits you and your astute remarks. Thanks for explaining! 😍👌

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            In this case Soo Cheol had no nunchi. But, in the park, when he came back and figured out Da Hye had abandoned him again, he was quick nunchi.

            I feel like he’s only quick nunchi when it involves Da Hye. LMAO

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            ^^ So apt. 👏👏👏 I was impressed that when he contacted her through the game he immediately said the most heart melting thing ever. Also their usernames. 😭 That was some Quick Nunchi too. 😍

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    I love this cute character and the explanation for nunchi thanks for sharing.

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It is bonkers that “Good bad mother” got nominated for best screenplay and best drama.
But nice that Lee honee was nominated in the best actress category for “Knight Flower” as well as Lee Jongwon in the best new actor category: https://www.soompi.com/article/1653702wpp/60th-baeksang-arts-awards-announces-nominees

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    Dear Emma, I thought I was the only one thinking that about good bad mother. It really drove me mad as this drama should be erased from the world with its abusive and traumatizing events. The only thing I could get behind was Ra Mi-ran’s nomination because she is a much talented actress but no more.
    Honey Lee nomination made my day and I am rooting for her with all my heart. Also glad for Lee Jong-won, I loved him in the drama.

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      Dear Bunny,
      There was/is definitely more of us who thought that. It was lovely seeing the happy moments of the main leads and the littlies but everything else was awful. And, agreed!

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    It is a work of art and storytelling.
    Positively or negatively theme, that isn’t a yardstick to use to guage what gets nominated what. There are several bad characters in drama history that were nominated and won best character award but their said characters in the drama were the worst of evil. I’m talking about Jung Moon-sung in Haechi and the King in My Dearest.

    As negative as Good Bad Mother was, the question is: Was the writing great as a work of art? Was the drama great overall as a work of art? If it did, I don’t see any issues with the nominations it garnered.

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      This drama wasn’t a work of art in any shape of form deserving of nomination in those categories. If you feel differently, so be it.

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        I actually don’t feel differently. I knew I’d be uncomfortable with it so I didn’t even watch it.

        However, the drama made it through the selections and made multiple nominations. The body of jurists sure understands what makes a work of art, and while we might feel differently about it, they view this things from a different lens entirely. Sometimes this lens converge with ours as viewers. Sometimes it diverges. Here, with Good Bad Mother, it diverged.

        I’m not in any way saying the drama didn’t rub the wrong shoulders or it wasn’t salty. I read the recaps for some parts and I went bonkers myself. And the categories that got nominated again will drive one bonkers cause those who watched it know what they watched and as such it shouldn’t get nominated in this categories. If anyone should get nominated for their roles, it should be the ML and Ahn Eun-jin. Best Drama and Best Screenplay? How…🤯🤯?

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          With all due respect to the selectors, other factors might have affected their selection. Objectively, the screenplay was not coherent, it was full of filler scenes, it fetishised awful parenting and for very little gain and it didn’t allow its main leads to develop their relationship logically after the injury. It wasn’t worthy of being nominated in those categories.

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Do the ghosts become corporeal when they’re in the MS? I might ff at times to survive the sadness but I like the concept & the main actors. The leads are good together & the camera loves both of them.

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    The spectral physics isn’t particularly consistent in this drama. No matter where they are, the ghosts can sit in chairs and use their cell phones, but they can’t eat without magic incense. I’m just letting it all slide…

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      Thanks. I am doing the same but just wondered if I had missed the explanatory bit.

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Something fun I’ve learnt about the Korean language: It is infinitely capable of accommodating new words which are created from the abbreviations and partial fusions of existing words.
A little while ago I realised that “월화드라마” (romanised approximation as “wolhwadeulama”,(pronunciation link: https://korean.dict.naver.com/koendict/#/search?query=월화드라마)
means “Monday-Tuesday drama”. It was created by taking the first syllables of Monday.
“월요일 and Tuesday, “화요일” to create “월화드라마”.

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    I love that, maybe they wanted to differentiate because the day the drama is shown on brings a certain quality expectations or will receive lower ratings just because it is on that day.

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    Ooh, I love this! My favorite Korean language thing I’ve learned recently is that their word for “preyed” as in “the tiger preyed upon the deer” is a mashup of the words for “catch” and “eat”! So it’s literally, “the tiger caught-ate the deer” which is just the best and most logical name for that word of all time.

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      Oh! It is cool. Could you please share it in Hangeul?

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      I meant to also tell you how straightforward but amusing I find the meaning of 물고기 (As you would know: fish but literally water meat). The other word for fish 생선 seems much more dignified, maybe because I don’t know what each syllable might mean.

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        물 is the best combiner-word they have I’m pretty sure! Tear = eye water (눈물), broth = soup water (국물), fish = water meat (물고기) (which I chuckle at more often than not), and I bet there are loads more! I just learned broth recently too, so these combos have been on my mind lately!

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          Ohhh. I recently learnt the word for broth too! I wish we could keep this going but i know we will be here until the cows come home. What a good way to spend our time though!🥰😂. One more then? (목소리). Throat noise is the best, isn’t it? Just hilarious, wonderful and a rhythmically gorgeous word to my ears.

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    월화드라마 “wolhwadeulama” – hooray for Wedding Impossible!

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“Quiet quitting: Why more than half of SK does it”: https://www.koreaherald.com/view.php?ud=20240326050493

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    At least they have jobs. Not too far from SK, millions of unemployed Chinese have begun “lying flat”, which seems to be much more profound than Quiet Quitting.

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      Thanks for introducing me to “tang ping” or “lying flat”. It had bypassed me. I read a bit about it and it seems to have started during the pandemic as a rational choice to get by opposing consumerism and materialism. Undoubtedly, the high housing prices and economic downturn among other factors have contributed to its growth. It isn’t good for capitalism but much better for our embattled Earth.

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A translated interview with Son Sukku: https://www.koreaherald.com/view.php?ud=20240327050638

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https://www.koreaherald.com/view.php?ud=20240317050113

“An overwhelming majority of 93.9 percent of survey respondents also answered that the decline in total birth rates is a “social problem,” with most of the respondents citing the “difficulty in combining work and childcare” as the cause of the decline in birth rates.
Another report, released by the Korean Women’s Development Institute, highlights the significant caregiving burden shouldered by women, even in double-income households, where they spend an average of 11.69 hours per day caring for their children.
According to the report \”Study on the Reorganization of Social Care from a Gender Perspective,\” this exceeds the 7.76 hours contributed by childcare centers like daycare and kindergartens, the 4.71 hours contributed by fathers, and the 3.87 hours contributed by the child’s grandparents.
The total number of hours put in by the child’s mother for childcare was around 2.5 times more than the number of hours put in by the child’s father, according to results found by the institute after breaking down the parents’ day into 30-minute chunks and analyzing how working parents care for their children before and after work.
The KWDI concluded that the burden of childcare before and after work mostly fell on the mother, as mothers provided 60 to 80 percent of care for children between 6 a.m. and 8 a.m. while fathers put in 10 percent during the same period.
As the workday progressed, the burden of childcare shifted to childcare centers or the child’s grandparents but went back to the child’s mother at the end of the day. As of 6 p.m. on a weekday, the share of childcare was distributed as 55.2 percent for the child’s mother, while only 20.2 percent went to the child’s father.
“The care of infants and young children, regardless of whether they are working or not, is predominantly provided by the child’s mother, clearly indicating gender inequality in the division of childcare,” said KWDI in its report.
“To alleviate the burden of care concentrated on mothers, the working environment must be structured to allow both childcare and work to balance out on each other and a reliable level of public care should also be established.””

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I wish more people would care to ask why this young man died instead of commenting on the relationships of celebs:
https://www.soompi.com/article/1649159wpp/voice-actor-lee-woo-ri-passes-away-at-a

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Korean dramas have long been written and viewed by women, Hwang said over the phone. (In 2018, the country’s Broadcast Writers’ Union estimated that 94.6% of TV screenwriters are women.) But as a result of the “feminist reboot,” she added, women feel solidarity with one another and are more empowered to express their concerns about gender issues, with stories addressing these topics particularly resonating with female audiences”.

Source: https://edition.cnn.com/style/article/korean-dramas-changing-representation-women/index.html

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“In real life, however, South Korea’s women face significant barriers to equality, and have reported issues with sexual harassment, outdated gender stereotypes and other forms of discrimination in male-dominated workplaces. The country ranked 99th out of 146 countries in the World Economic Forum’s 2022 Global Gender Gap Index. OECD data found that South Korean women earn an average of 31.1% less than men (the worst gender wage gap of any OECD country). Feminism, meanwhile, remains an extremely divisive topic”.

Source: https://edition.cnn.com/style/article/korean-dramas-changing-representation-women/index.html

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    I don’t trust MBC, they toyed with our feelings the last time (85 mins).

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      Going by the BTS, they did not even film a kiss or any other scene after that ending. While I may be wrong, I don’t have my hopes up. But other scenes might be enjoyable.

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      They publicised the supposed 85 minutes’ duration but didn’t deliver. A low move.

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Even though the KF final ep is not available as yet, Viki shows that it will only be 72.54 minutes! How dare they cheat us out of the 12 extra minutes we were promised?

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How hilariously basic is this? I hadn’t noticed it at first viewing. It made me laugh.

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    This ‘degree’ is what Jeong presented to the Grand Merchant in “Knight Flower” in case it wasn’t obvious.

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      Thank you for the clarification. I remembered this but couldn’t remember where I saw it. And I think that I tried to stop and enlarge it at the time.

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        I hope you’ve been well. I still fondly remember what you kindly shared about your life and a bit about your son few years ago when I had recently joined DB.

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