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Boys Before Flowers: Episode 25 (Final)

Last episode!

I was pretty satisfied with this finale. It didn’t feel rushed, but it wasn’t too dragged out either — it wrapped up everything much as you’d expect, but managed to insert enough details to keep it interesting (because I was fearing that the ending would go down too predictably and therefore be lame). Oh, and you know the part that they kept saying would deviate from the Hana Yori Dango original? I LOVED IT.

(First) SONG OF THE DAY

Toy – “Bon Voyage” with Jo Wan-sun of Roller Coaster. [ Download ]

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Oh my god, this recap is so long. Sorry, guys! You are forewarned.

 
EPISODE 25 RECAP (FINAL)

Jan-di visits the hospital in the early morning, while Jun-pyo is still sleeping. She makes a joking comment trying to magic back his memory (“abra cadabra, make Gu Jun-pyo remember Geum Jan-di”), then drops off her dosirak lunchbox at his bedside.

Later that morning, Yumi comes by. I want to give her the benefit of the doubt (so far she’s annoying, but not evil), but really, she’s got boundary issues to be slipping into a sleeping patient’s room and applying a skincare device to his face while he sleeps. That wakes him up.

Glancing over at the side table, he wonders what the lunchbox is doing there. Yumi opens the containers, and as she pulls out the Jun-pyo Face Rice tray and the egg roll-up snacks, Jun-pyo furrows his brow, a thought niggling at the back of his mind.

He tries one of the egg rolls, and the taste jogs his memory — it gives him a vague (good) feeling. Jun-pyo asks if she made the food, and for a brief moment Yumi hesitates, as though wondering how to answer, then nods. He says, “I remember. The thing I forgot — it was you, right?”

Although you get the sense she hadn’t intended to lie at first, this is too good for her to pass up, so she goes with it.

F2 arrive at the restaurant for some lunch, while the girls watch in puzzlement, wondering why they’re here. Finally, when they’re done eating, they announce the good news: Jun-pyo’s been released from the hospital.

Jan-di perks up. The guys encourage her to go to him, and she rushes off excitedly.

Yi-jung remains behind, because he has something to say to Ga-eul. They watch clay baking in a kiln as Ga-eul muses, “They look happy, those plates inside. For some reason, rather than thinking they’re hurting in that heat, it feels like they’re happy. They’re full of hope that if they endure this, they can come out and receive love.”

Yi-jung has two things to tell her, and starts with the bad news first, the way she likes it: He’s leaving. He adds, “I guess that may not be bad news to you.” He plans to remain abroad for four or five years.

Ga-eul tries to be optimistic, saying it’s actually good news because he’ll be sure to return an even better potter. She asks for the second part, so he tells her, “When I come back, I’ll come find you first.”

That’s even more startling than the first, but makes her much happier. Perhaps Yi-jung is a little uncomfortable to have opened up, because he adds, “I mean, if you can’t find your soulmate by then.” But that’s enough of a confession for Ga-eul, who breaks into a smile.

Eager to see Jun-pyo, Jan-di rushes into his room, calling out a welcome greeting, then stops short: Yumi is already there. Jun-pyo just tells her that Ji-hoo’s not here, and that she should take care of her boyfriend before rushing to check up on him.

At his ungracious non-welcome, Jan-di figures this was a mistake, and turns to go. Yumi steps in to admonish Jun-pyo for being mean, and urges Jan-di to stay for tea. It’s an odd dynamic, because Yumi has usurped Jan-di’s position as hostess, and I’m not the only one who thinks she’s an upstart: the maids also direct dirty looks at Yumi.

Jun-pyo acts pretty friendly and relaxed with Yumi, which is hard for Jan-di to watch, so she gets up to leave. Jun-pyo tosses out casually, “Don’t come by again.” (He doesn’t say so in a mean tone, but maybe it’s all the more hurtful that he’s so blasé about something that means so much.) He adds, “When I see you, I feel really bad. It bothers me.”

Jan-di retorts, “Fine. I’m sorry! I won’t come by anymore!”

Yumi reads the tension and follows Jan-di outside to ask, “Are you the person Jun-pyo oppa is supposed to remember?” She sees that Jan-di is, and takes a tone of concern as she says, “But as you can tell, I think it’s worse for him to see you. If he sees you, I think his condition will deteriorate. So for now, I think it’ll be better if you don’t drop by. Don’t worry, I’ll do my best to bring back his memories of you naturally.”

Yumi’s words are reassuring, but Jan-di is also a little doubtful; after Yumi rejoins Jun-pyo, Jan-di peers inside. Jun-pyo asks Yumi to make the lunchbox again — proof that Yumi had taken credit for her lunch, which probably means she’s lying about the rest, too.

Upset, Jan-di rushes down the stairs on the way out and bumps into Ji-hoo, who tells her firmly, “Don’t run away.”

Jan-di tries to escape, but Ji-hoo says, “You can’t be pushed aside like this.” Pulling Jan-di behind him, he heads for Jun-pyo’s room. Unfortunately, they find Jun-pyo and Yumi napping cozily on the couch together.

That hurts. Jan-di rebuffs Ji-hoo’s attempts to reason with her (and persuade her to fight for Jun-pyo), telling him that it’s over, she’s done: “Even if he lost his memory, even if we started over from the beginning, I had faith he would recognize me. But I was wrong.”

Ji-hoo starts to protest, but Jan-di isn’t swayed:

Jan-di: “No, it may be upsetting and unfair, but I have to acknowledge the truth. The Gu Jun-pyo I loved is gone now.”
Ji-hoo: “I told you that you couldn’t be the little mermaid. I can’t let you two break up over such a ridiculous thing.”
Jan-di: “This isn’t because of Yumi. In the end, Geum Jan-di and Gu Jun-pyo could only make it this far.”

Yumi presents her lunchbox to Jun-pyo, who eats an egg roll with anticipation. However, the moment he registers the taste, he frowns: “This isn’t it. The taste is different from before. Did you really make it that time?”

Yumi stutters, “O-of course! Who else could have made it? That’s just because every time I make it, the taste is a little different. I’ll make it right next time.”

But something’s not right, and the taste of the food just enhances his bad feeling. He says, frustrated, “That girl. That Jan-di weed girl — I can’t forget her expression.”

Yumi: “That’s too mean! How could you say that? I’m the one who was with you, from the hospital up till now, but you feel so bothered by a girl who just dropped by and bugged you a few times? Your friends all treat me badly and take her side, and her boyfriend totally ignores me. But still, I put up with it because of you. If you act like this too, what is Yumi supposed to do?”

For us who know the truth, she’s obviously way over the line with this speech — but if she really WAS Jun-pyo’s girlfriend, I suppose this is how she would react, and she’s acting her part to the hilt. She cries, and makes Jun-pyo feel uncomfortable.

The guilt trip works, because the next thing we know, Yumi and Jun-pyo are jointly hosting a “surprise pool party.” (I’m wondering what the surprise is, if they’re handing out formal invitations.) The setting is absolutely gorgeous. In fact, this entire episode is pretty visually stunning, on the whole.

Yumi wastes some screentime with a harp performance — and seriously, Mr. Jeon PD, do you really have to pay tribute to yourself (again!) by using a My Girl theme song here?

Feeling pretty low, Jan-di steps aside to be alone. Yumi finds her by the pool and keeps up the ruse that she’s been working to “help” Jan-di. She has news to report, but it’s not good: “He doesn’t remember you.”

Yumi speaks obnoxiously about herself in the third person (because we don’t already hate her enough?): “I’m sorry to tell you, but Yumi likes Jun-pyo. I didn’t try to deliberately, but I ended up falling for him, so much that I can’t break up with him. Oppa feels the same as Yumi. But you can understand, can’t you? We can’t control our hearts.”

Yumi draws everyone’s attention to make a big announcement: She and Jun-pyo are going to study abroad together to the States. They will leave in one month.

F3 marvel in a sort of disgusted fascination at Yumi’s fast maneuvering. Ji-hoo leads Jan-di away from the crowd to the pool, where he leaves her while for a moment to get her a drink.

Alone, Jan-di takes out her star-moon necklace, just as Jun-pyo walks by. As soon as he sees her, Jun-pyo turns to leave, but Jan-di asks if he remembers the necklace she’s holding, or the names engraved on it. Jun-pyo takes a look at the “JJ” and says irritably, “How would I know that?”

Jan-di holds it out to him: “I’m giving it back. Take it.” None of this makes sense for Jun-pyo, and he retorts, “Why would I take something like this? If you want to get rid of it, do it yourself.”

He hands it back. Jan-di says, almost defiantly, “Fine.” She throws the necklace into the pool, where it settles on the bottom. But she’s not quite done:

Jan-di: “Gu Jun-pyo. I’ll ask just one more thing. Do you know how to swim?”
Jun-pyo: “Swim? I don’t swim.”
Jan-di: “You don’t, or you can’t?”
Jun-pyo: “I have a bad childhood memory, so I don’t swim. I’ve never learned.”
Jan-di: “No. You did know how.”

Jun-pyo bristles at the way Jan-di is talking about him so familiarly, but her words start to unnerve him, particularly as she tells him what kind of person he truly is (including a few of the sayings he’d messed up previously):

Jan-di: “You’re hardly afraid of anything in this world, yet you shake in fear over a bug. You’re an idiot who thinks it’s better to get all your ribs bashed in than see one of your girl’s fingers break. You’re a dummy who can’t tell the difference between the words privacy and pride, who insists like a train that swallowed its heart that the 38th Strategy [of ancient China] is running away [it’s the 36th]. You say you hate kids, but you want to be a devoted father who watches the stars with your son. You’re a lonely person with a lot of love.”

Uneasily, Jun-pyo demands, “What are you really after?”

Jan-di tells him, “Say my name,” then starts to step backward, slowly, purposefully. At the edge of the pool, Jan-di pauses… and then lets herself fall backward into the pool.

It’s an eerily beautiful image as she hits the water, stiff as a board.

In the pool, Jan-di picks up the necklace, but doesn’t come back up to the surface. Clutching the necklace, she remains submerged.

The rest of the party rushes to the water’s edge, alarmed. Jun-pyo stands frozen in shock… and then, memories come flooding back.

In quick succession, he flashes to all the other water-related emergencies earlier in the drama (if I didn’t love this moment so much it would be funny that they have enough of those to compile a montage).

He whispers, “Jan-di.” Then, jolted out of his stupor, Jun-pyo shouts her name again, and dives in.


Memory now back in full force, Jun-pyo pulls her to safety, where he tries to revive her. In a panic, he administers CPR and calls her name repeatedly, until Jan-di sputters awake.

She looks up and asks weakly, “Do you remember now?” He tells her he’s sorry, and she asks him to say her name again.

He clutches her to him and obliges.

(Yumi walks off, petulant. Good riddance!)

And then, it’s back to everyday life, kinda.

Jan-di and her family are back at their old place in Seoul, and she’s about to graduate. She doesn’t intend on going to her graduation party, although her mother urges her to.

Jun-pyo calls her out to congratulate her on her upcoming graduation. He also asks if she’s really serious about medical school, teasing about how she’s not smart enough.

He’s also here to request a date. Echoing an early scene, Jun-pyo traps Jan-di against his car, leans in closely, and says: “Tomorrow, ___.”

Naturally, just as he relays that crucial bit of information, a passing motorcycle drowns out his words. Jun-pyo thinks his message is clear and warns Jan-di that if she’s late this time, she’s really dead.

True to her word, Jan-di doesn’t plan on showing up to her graduation party, but a stretch limo pulls up (presumably from Jun-pyo) to take her — so when she arrives at the formal party, she’s still wearing her school uniform. (Let’s ignore the horrid dancing and the familiar set, shall we?)

F3 greet her warmly, and Woo-bin steps up first to ask her to dance. This allows each person a send-off as each gets his moment with Jan-di. As she dances with Woo-bin, she thinks, “Song Woo-bin, he’s always reliable and caring, as though he was the eldest in F4. I know now that he understands better than anyone how to comfort a person’s feelings, while standing one step behind.”

With Yi-jung, she thinks: “He acts cold and like a bad boy, but in reality he’s warm and innocent. Thanks to Yi-jung sunbae, I think Ga-eul has really become a lovable woman.”

Ji-hoo’s last:

“I was like Alice dropped into Wonderland. Could he know what a huge solace he was to me, that I was able to meet him whenever I went to that emergency door? He’s like a ‘bonus’ given to me from heaven. I won’t ever forget him. My soulmate Ji-hoo sunbae, thank you.”

When Jun-pyo doesn’t make his appearance, the guys wonder what’s keeping him. Jan-di thinks back to his drowned-out words, and now realizes what this reminds her of — and rushes off to Namsan Tower.

Sure enough, Jun-pyo’s waiting for her and asks, “Didn’t I say you were dead if you were late?” But he’s not upset, and with a snap of his fingers, lights fill the courtyard.

Jun-pyo comments, “It’s nothing magical. Stuff like this is really easy — compared to tending to the Jan-di-baht.” (Literally, “maintaining the grass.”)

Since this is a reenactment of their first date (albeit upgraded), Jun-pyo buys her coffee, then leads her to the viewing deck. In a cute moment, Jun-pyo brings her to the cable car, intending on pointing out the graffiti he’d written on their first date, but Jan-di’s embarrassed and blocks his view.

She complains, “Why’d you write this, and make it impossible for me to get married?” (This means that it makes her look promiscuous and would therefore be a stain on her character.)

Jun-pyo doesn’t see the problem: “Then just marry me — who else are you thinking of marrying?” In contrast to her grimace, Jun-pyo looks at the scrawled words proudly, announcing, “Now you can’t get married.” (To anyone else.)

But now it’s time for them to get down to some serious talk. Jan-di tenses nervously when Jun-pyo’s tone turns solemn: “Let’s marry.”

Jan-di doesn’t know whether he’s joking — he isn’t — and is completely taken aback, since she just graduated from high school. Jun-pyo explains, “I have to go to America. This time it’s not because of my mother, or the company. I decided this.”

He’s decided to take his future into his own hands: “I’m going to do my best. If I can save the company, that’s good. If I can’t, I’ll shut it down with my own hands.”

Jan-di’s dismayed when he says that he’ll be back in four years at best, asking, “That long?” Jun-pyo: “So come with me.”

But that’s not the magic solution, and it’s Jan-di’s turn to grow (more) solemn. She can’t go with him: “When you went to Macau, I made a decision too, regarding my dream, my work, what I want to be. Like you, I have something I want to devote myself to, and it’s here.”

It’s not a rejection, it’s reality butting in. Jan-di says with a hint of a smile, “Go, and come back. In four years, if you come back as a really impressive man, I’ll think about it again then.”

At this, the mood lightens. Maybe it’s not an ideal solution, but the compromise will work for them. Jun-pyo asks, half-jokingly, “Do you mean that? If you lose me, you’ll really regret it.” She teases back, “Hey, if you lose me, you’re the one who’ll regret it.”

Jun-pyo has no problems admitting, “I know that if I lose you, I’ll regret it till I die.”

Once again repeating some words she’d formerly told him, Jan-di says, “Gu Jun-pyo. You may not be a complete idiot.”

 

And now, we’re four years later.

Jun-pyo has made significant progress as a managing director with the company, and is being interviewed on television. While it starts with his business successes, the interview segues into personal questions. Naturally, as a rich, young, handsome chaebol, Jun-pyo’s the target of a lot of crushes and romance speculation.

When asked whether there’s anybody in his life to help him through the hard times, Jun-pyo responds, “It would be a lie to say I haven’t had tough times or been lonely. But because of a promise I made with somebody, I drew upon that as support and was able to endure.”

Watching proudly are Jun-pyo’s family — Mama Kang actually shows warmth as she watches alongside her husband, showing him affection that we’d never seen from her. It looks like she’s finally showing the personality that the others have hinted at — the kinder version of herself before she’d become Shinhwa chair.

And maybe the biggest surprise in this epilogue is that Jun-hee has now taken over from her mother’s position — she’s the new Shinhwa chair.

Next up: Yi-jung, who arrives at the airport with dark shades and a swagger. (I’m sorry, Yi-jung being badass just makes me giggle.) True to his word, he heads first to Ga-eul, who is now a teacher. He watches as she leads her young students in a pottery session, then steps in.

It’s adorable how one of the little girls looks at Yi-jung and asks, “Ajusshi, did you come from abroad?” He’s surprised that she guessed right, and she follows up, “Did you come from Sweden?” Is he their teacher’s boyfriend? ‘Cause, y’see, Teacher Lady mentioned something about someone in Sweden… A little embarrassed, Ga-eul moves to shut the girl up, but Yi-jung enjoys this proof that she’s been talking about him to her kids. (SO CUTE.)

Now, for Jan-di. And, somewhat surprisingly, also Ji-hoo.

She is a student at Shinhwa University’s medical school, as is Ji-hoo. As we might expect, Jan-di’s sorta struggling along, klutzy and bumbling as ever, while Ji-hoo is doing very well and about to graduate.

Today, they’re on a sort of medical outreach trip. During a break, Jan-di sighs to Ji-hoo about her tough time, and he teases her about failing.

A sudden disturbance interrupts their conversation — a helicopter hovers above, and a familiar voice comes over the loudspeaker. Just like a prior scene when Jun-pyo crashed Jan-di’s working vacation on the fishing boat, he now announces, “Oy, commoner! Can you hear me? Geum Jan-di!”

He instructs her meet him at the beach and zooms away.

When she arrives at the beach, well, now THIS really is almost paradise! (Yes, I’ll admit it — despite making my ears bleed earlier, I was glad to hear the return of “Almost Paradise” after its extended vacation.)

Jan-di approaches with gladness, but a little disbelief to see Jun-pyo here in the flesh .

Indicating her white coat, he teases that she looks like “an ugly duckling playing at being the white egret” — another callback to a previous Jun-pyo-ism (he means swan). At that, Jan-di laughs, “It really is you.”

Pulling her to him in a hug, Jun-pyo says, “I missed you to death. I’m not letting go again.”

He reminds her that she’d agreed to marry him when he came back. Jan-di returns, “Look here, Dummy Gu Jun-pyo. If you want to get technical, I said when you came back in four years, I’d think about it.”

Jun-pyo drops down to one knee, pulls out a ring box, and makes it official: “Geum Jan-di. Marry me.”

And of course, at that moment a voice calls out:

Ji-hoo: “I have an objection to that proposal!”
Yi-jung: “I do, too!”
Woo-bin: “Me too! You two can’t agree without our approval!”

THE END (finally)

 

And, okay, another Song of the Day, just because:

Rumble Fish – “사랑해 마지막 그날까지” (I’ll Love You Till My Last Day). If this were a movie, this would be the point halfway through the ending credits where the main song ends and a second song starts up. [ Download ]

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I’m going to start off with the criticism, because ultimately I was happy with the ending and would prefer to end on an upbeat note. So I’ll pull a “Ga-eul” here and start with the bad:

 
WEAKNESSES (aka, Stuff I Just Let Slide):

(1) Madam Kang’s witchy opposition. Poof, gone now? To be fair, I don’t really think it’s a logic flaw, because after Jun-pyo recovers his memory, I take it we are to assume Mama Kang gave up her opposition. It actually does make sense — there’s nothing like contributing to your son’s near-death to give you a wake-up call. But on the other hand, we didn’t see that explicitly, which might give the impression that the Jun-di reconciliation happened too easily, when goodness knows it came anything but “easily.” Not after all those episodes of separation and angst.

(2) Dr. Ji-hoo. Uh, but what about The Music? Where did his doctorly pursuits come in? I get that this probably has as much to do with his grandfather as Jan-di, but it felt random. Like it was conjured just to prove again that Ji-hoo is Jan-di’s soulmate, only now it emphasizes that they’re platonic soulmates, since they’ve remained friends even though Jun-pyo’s been away.

This leads me to:

(3) Soulmates (not to be confused with Soeulmates). I’ve never been a big fan of the “Ji-hoo is Jan-di’s soulmate” aspect. Maybe we’re all conditioned to think that soulmates are a romantic thing, and maybe I resent how much time was overwhelmingly given to the soulmate and not the actual love interest. I think Kim Hyun-joong has improved a lot over the course of the drama, but I still don’t really feel the chemistry between Ji-hoo and Jan-di. The fact that they had SO many sweet, intimate moments throughout the series and I still never jumped ship indicates just how lacking their pairing was for me.

(Intellectually, I thought Ji-hoo was better for Jan-di, but I never felt their emotional connection on a gut level, and their interactions never got me excited or giddy or otherwise invested.)

On the other hand:

STUFF I LIKED:

(1) Callbacks, yay! I enjoyed all the revisited past moments and bits of dialogue that were injected into the finale. I’ve seen dramas do this in the past, but a lot of times they feel forced in. Boys Before Flowers surprised me by doing a good job of incorporating past lines or interactions to build the action here. It didn’t feel like a mere rehash but a natural use of these characters’ personalities.

For instance, I liked how all of Jun-pyo’s misstated sayings came back and were worked into dialogue — both in really serious scenes (the pool) and lighter, more upbeat scenes (the cable car, the beach). In some dramas, it feels like characters are suddenly altered/forced into making the ending work, but I like that this was an example of continuity done right. Done wrong, we get blatant fanservice, but done right, it’s pretty emotionally satisfying.

(2) The epilogue. The time-skip epilogue is a risky device and is sort of an easy out. Epilogues can be problematic in that they provide a “perfect” wrap-up for characters, kinda like sticking a band-aid over a more serious problem. BUT, in an over-the-top, feel-good romantic comedy like this, I’m all for it. I know there’s no such thing as a true-life Happily Ever After, but this is what I want from a giddy, lovey romance drama. The perfecter the better!

An epilogue gives us a little more time to deal with goodbyes, so we avoid the let-down feeling of a resolution that comes too quickly. I would have been sorely disappointed if we ended after the cable-car kiss — and for a few dreaded seconds, I actually thought they’d ended the drama there — but the “four years later” gave us (okay, me) that needed buffer to let myself down gradually. LOL.

(3) Soeulmates. I expressed my ambivalence about how they would wrap up, but I was pleased with their ending. I don’t think they really needed a huge finish — that would’ve taken time away from the other romance — but I like that we have hope for their future without necessarily seeing it.

The time skip works for them because they, perhaps more than Jan-di and Jun-pyo, needed to grow up and live their lives and mature some more before getting together. As much as it might have been romantic for Yi-jung to have made a big gesture at the age of 20, I wouldn’t have the hope for their future that a time skip sorta automatically takes care of.

(4) The amnesia fix. Just as I was pleasantly surprised about how the amnesia plot came about, I was pleased at how it played out.

Example: The taste thing was one part that was well tied in, because Jan-di made those foods for him in the past, and when she did, they had some significance. The first time Jun-pyo asked for those egg rollups, it was after the snowstorm. It also symbolizes something of their class differences — or rather, emphasizes the “Hey, maybe we’re not so far apart” aspect of their statuses, since Jun-pyo loves this commoner food for what it is, even though he has gourmet stuff all around. (Hey, metaphor!)

But I was glad that the taste issue alone wasn’t enough to get Jun-pyo’s memory back. Here’s where the plot diverges from Hanadan, and I was really happy with it — and frankly wished they’d diverged more often. The taste was enough to remind Jun-pyo of his newer, warm-n-fuzzy feelings, but not enough to identify all the details (like, for instance, WHO those warm-n-fuzzies were directed at).

That leads Jun-pyo to be chummy with Yumi (grrr), because he’s correlating his memory of Jan-di’s warmth (evoked by her food) with Yumi. I doubt he feels anything for Yumi specifically; it’s more like his wires got crossed so the affection he feels for Jan-di is being misdirected at Yumi.

(5) The pool. OH, the awesomeness of the pool!

Here’s why I love that Jan-di fell into the water:

(a) It proves that despite what she tells Ji-hoo, she still does have faith in Jun-pyo. At first I thought she would merely fake being in “trouble” underwater till he jumped in to save her, but she committed to her last-ditch effort so much that she was really in danger. Was it foolish? Perhaps. But it’s also evidence of how much she believed that he would come around, because even if his conscious memory can’t recall her, she believed in their other connection — that intangible, indestructible love they feel, that connection that’s so strong that forces much stronger than plain ol’ amnesia weren’t able to sever them. (Namely, Madam Kang.)

(b) I love Jan-di’s speech to Jun-pyo, because it appears that his selective amnesia (as evidenced by his belief that he can’t swim) has blocked out the past year or so. Any feelings that resemble the Newer Jun-pyo (post-Jan-di) are mostly expressed subconsciously; everything he knows and does consciously is from pre-Jan-di times. So in her speech, Jan-di speaks to the Jun-pyo who changed for/because of her. The things she tells him may not even be things he realizes concretely — they’re things he’s forgotten as well — but as she talks, he feels them resonate. He can try to deny that he knows her, but he can’t deny the truth of her insight into his character, and that scares the bejeebus out of him.

(c) And most importantly, Jan-di’s jump into the pool forces Jun-pyo’s subconscious to act. Sure, all throughout the episode, Jan-di (or F3) could have told Jun-pyo the truth of their relationship, but it would’ve done little good to merely announce, “Hey, I’m your girlfriend, you idiot!” Maybe it would have helped, but it wouldn’t have provided the jolt that would return the rest of his memory — not like a good ol’ scare to the subconscious could, anyway.

 
OVERALL THOUGHTS

Was Boys Before Flowers a GOOD drama?

Well, no.

In all honesty, I can’t really call it good — insofar as a “good” drama requires strong acting, masterful directing, tight storytelling, and overall high quality. And it can’t just have one of those elements, but most or all of them, expressed in skillful balance.

On the other hand, it depends on how you define the word “good” for yourself. “Good” might not mean “artistic” to you; it might not mean “eloquent” or “insightful.” Good might mean entertaining, or emotionally provocative. Excitement-inducing. Enjoyable to watch and rewatch and participate in fan culture. And in those measures, I’d say BBF delivered.

Because sure, an Academy Award-winning film deserves its praise, but to be frank, they’re not always entertaining. Or they may be beautiful and meaningful, but not move the heart.

Boys Before Flowers was kind of a glorious mess — the acting was sometimes very good, sometimes horribly bad. The music was decent, but applied carelessly in messy spurts like a five-year-old who’s sneaked her way into mommy’s makeup stash for the first time. The writing had its moments, but more often than not was poorly paced, and as we know you can’t build an entire drama upon random nice moments.

But it also had its weird brand of narcotic magic. If you stuck around till the end, you know what I’m talkin’ about. If you didn’t, well, you may still know what I’m talking about, even if you were never under the influence. A film snob may sniff at “the masses” — and I’ve been that person too — but so what? Let the snob enjoy his lofty solitude while we masses can commune with each other and laugh and cry together.

I was actually reading a book somewhere around the middle of BBF’s run, and a paragraph leapt off the page and just about smacked me in the face with its aptness. And who can argue with the words of the (late, great) awesome David Foster Wallace?

“At root, vulgar just means popular on a mass scale. It is the semantic opposite of pretentious or snobby. It is humility with a comb-over. It is Nielsen ratings and Barnum’s axiom and the real bottom line. It is big, big business.”

Truer words, y’all.

Okay, okay, I’m done! Finally!

I’ve had SO MUCH FUN, you guys! I think the drama has reached its time to go, so I’m not sad that the series is over, but I will miss the insanity of this drama. All the discussion, the fangirling (myself included), the plot dissection, future predictions, kvetching about story insanity, snarking about ridiculosity, and yes, even bitching about everything that drove us crazy.

Honestly, I haven’t been this entertained following a drama in a while. True, in a vacuum, this product itself is far from perfect — but thankfully, I don’t consume my entertainment in a vacuum, but out here in the wilds of the internet as part of an enthusiastic community.

THANKS FOR ALL THE FUN TIMES!

 
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Javabean,

Thank you for taking your time to do this. Honestly, I'm Asian myself and I despised kdramas. Unfortunately, I was browsing through Netflix and saw this show as a "new release", chose it out of boredom and got hooked! Because school started I knew I wouldn't have the time to sit for an hour to watch the episodes and your spoilers are so detailed. I would read it then watch it later when I had the time. Again, thank you!

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Reading all of these recaps for BBF exhausted me almost as much as the drama itself! Thank you for the recaps though; you've cured me of my desire to rewatch it! ;)

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thanks a lot javabeans!

i reread your bof recaps when i am in gloomy mood, and sure enough it makes me laugh - mostly caused by your side comments. haha

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Such an addictive and nice serial that i have ever watched....Loved it...

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Regarding doctor jihoo, he did mentioned that it was part of her that kept him going as a doctor. Meaning he still liked her the same way he had since 4 years ago. Which was why he really meant it when he said he would stay back and he really wanted to be with her as much. So I'm not surprised but still sad how it meant his love for her didnt wavered or diminish even slightly, from letting her go.

As for the chemistry between these two, love has always seemed to be one sided. As if they knew love would never occur between them, so relationship is being kept platonic. Hence chemistry isn't felt unless they harbour the potential of actually becoming lovers.

Thanks for the conclusion, I wanted to rewatch some scenes but didnt want to watch the draggy ones. So I referred to the summaries to skip to scenes I wanted to watch :-D As usual really like ga eul- yi jung side couple, kimbum is really v cute and after rewatching and monitoring more closely I really liked how jihoo reacted in the series and thankful for him being there

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hi i really love your comments and updates on the different dramas. your updates on 'you are beautiful' really helped a lot when my internet was down, i do however have a bone to pick with you with regard to boys before flowers. i think you compare it a little too much to the Japanese manga even tho it is derived from it. i think you would see it differently if you didn't compare it soo much to the other one. it could also be that i am biased towards BBF coz its the first k-drama that i really loved. i liked winter sonata& girl in the palace but not as much as BBF. by the end of the day we are all entitled with our opinions and u definitely more experienced in reviews. so please keep up the gr8 work. by the way can you recommend any really great dramas that are not too violent or explicit that i can watch

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When the source material is the same, comparison is inevitable. If the makers didn't want to retain the essence of the original, why bother licensing it? They should have created a brand new series instead.
Comparisons are made to the Japanese version because it maintained the spirit of the characters and their relationship. This is essential even in remakes. The setting of the scene can be changed but the makers should take care not to change the things that make the story what it is

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this drama was so nice and i'm quite interested by this
and think in ending ji-hoo and woobins must have shown

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After finishing watching Faith, I started watching BBF, as I wanted to see more of Lee Min Ho. It has been a pretty intense 2 weeks. I have very much appreciated your synopses.

I find myself continuing to be obsessed with these characters and imagining what their future lives are like, particularly JD and JP. I notice in the last episode JD never told JP 'yes' to his marriage proposal. Did JD and JP communicate with each other during the 4 years he was away? Did that communication allow their relationship to deepen or was it superficial?

What would be the role of JD as JP's wife? Would she give up her own career to travel with him? Would they live in that big house with his parents or get their own place? (Hopefully, the latter.) How would JD deal with having servants or would they opt for a very minimal presence like JiHoo? I am assuming there would be children and that JP and JD would be warm and loving parents. I think JD would be expected to step into some pretty big social roles as JP's wife. Would she handle these challenges successfully? Would her commoner background be a hindrance or could she overcome it.

Anyway, I loved this drama. Besides Lee Min Ho, I'm also now in love with Kim Hyun Joong and am looking forward to watching Conquest of the City/City Conquest when it airs in early 2013.

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Lol.. hahaahah.
That's a wrong way to perform cpr. He should close her nose, that way, the air will not escape through the nose..
It looks like a peck to me.. but overall this is a good drama. I loovvveee ittt.. i love soeul-mate the most. I hope my bf will learn from yijung. I've been telling him to be more romantic..

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thank you so much I got to see every episode up to episode 24 but 25 was not available for me...because of you I got to read a written update so that gives me some closure. I really would have loved to watch it play out though....thanks again

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pLEASE make season 2 for Boys over flowers ! I enjoyed watching the season 1 . so please make a season 2 :)

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Great job, Guys.

I love the part that Jan Di played. I think she is the one who acted Doctor in Faith.

I really do enjoy your films like Faith, City Hunter, Iljimae and Boys b4 flowers.

Please can you send me title of more of your movies which I can buy? I will really appreciate it.

Keep it up.

Wummy from Nigeria

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so cool

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Just like nothing on earth is completely perfect...this series's one of it. But I must confess I just heard about the drama from a friend and at first I was reluctant but when I started...for two days (because of other miscellaneous activities) I started and finished it. I smiled, laughed, cried and sometimes got so angry I wanted to actually be on set and give some punch lines. What am trying to say is that all my emotions...ALL of it were touched. The 5 of you really made it worth my while. <3 you guys. And thank u javabeans..I smiled all through your write up.

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i really loved the trip to macau that ji hoo went and met jan di in the toilet she really screamed and ji hoo left a note saying memory ereased i loved that part

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Luvly story but not a good endin according to the plot of this movie yi yung ended with his second love and ji hoo was tryin 2 end up with his second love it would have been more better

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super.....................

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¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤awesome!.one of d best drama i have ever watched.pls extend such tv series to Africa especially Nigeria.big ups.lee min ho my role model¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤¤

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i really enjoyed this movie and i wish i will be able to meet Guem jandi and goo junpyo

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Thank you so much for your amazing and detailed recap. I didn't want to watch the drama and preferred to read recaps about it instead and I am so grateful to find these recaps that you made. I have just finished reading all of them obsessively. I love how you incorporated pictures and provided your own commentary and interpretations of the scenes to clarify. Thank you again, I am absolutely in love with this drama (even though I just know about it from reading your recap). Keep up with the great work javabeans!

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i rly love this drama but was not that happy with the ending,there was so much detail in the last episode,I wish the producers of the movie added one or two parts so as to avoid the concentration of details and most of all I am really mad about jan di's reaction when meeting jun pyo,how could you react that way for the guy you love & did not see for four years she didnt even hug back when he huged her & we didnt see her saying i do to jun pyo's request although it's kinda obvious bt it would have been really nice,overall it's a great drama,i really love it & its the first korean drama i've seen.shout out to all the actors,producers & directors!

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wooooooooow.......love this, can't believe its over,how i wish it was jan di and ji hoo. Ji hoo really is the guy and there should have been more of woo bin. Its a wonderful recap and i really love this movie,i'm gonna miss the F4.(love you guys especially ji hoo). Thanks javabeans.

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WHAT AN INTERESTING STORY! JIHOO U ARE 3 MUCH. I THINK SOULMATE IS VERY IMPORTANT THAN REAL HUSBAND.

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The movie was attractive but mama kang was so cruel at jan di in which i shed tears that even cause me catarrh.As for jun pyo he doesn't show up when jan di is in trouble that was why i began to think that her 911 (ji hoo)we end up getting married to jan di in season4.

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wel,boys before flower is a Good drama,I really enjoyed it cos geum jan di actually made it look lyk comedy, it made my grandma laugh unlike her,n made her watch over n over with d family.I love all d playbacks...

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Im nigerian..just got interested in korean movies...ur recap makes it mor fun...thnxx...and i love gu jun pyo

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oh my gush.....i alwayz had that feeling that jan di was goin to be with gu jun pyo.And always paradise realy did it for this film and i knew it was gonna be played in d last episoe..long live F4.

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actually i felt so happy after watching the movie. Its d bomb. I have never in my entire life enjoyed any movie like d way i enjoyed this one. Its so touching and romantic. And one more thing that touched my heart was their friendship,they always stood up for each other,no matter the situation at hand. I luv F4 nd most especially Gu Jun Pyo

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i loved every bit of it.i love ji hoo and jun pyo

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Omg BOF was d best i ever watched i love jun pyo.....i love u ji hoo.... and cassanova and love master i love u alll....!FIGHTING!

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Dnt wanna believe it's over,aw can it be wen Ji Hoo is yet 2 find his partner n Woo bin completely left out?gosh,i would have prefer seein Jan di gettin married 2 Ji hoo,anyways twas fun seeing n reading dis drama.

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Agreed, jihoo is more available for her than ju pyo, but it so obvious jun pyo loved her. He demonstrated lots of those love.
I wished their love story were real
I wished there is truelly f4 in real life
Wish to meet jihoo and gu jun pyo for real
Love to see yi jung and wobin
Wished I were the gan di
Can't get over my obsession with these guys
Don't know who to pick jihoo sunbae or gu jun pyo

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Worst ending ever. Seriously, nobody died, instead of making this amnesia plot there should be a showdown between "Dragon-Queen" Kang and Jan Di. And that father-thing was also not used. It would have been a perfect chance for that. I mean, thanks to the manga it is like this, isn't it? I have never read the manga and also won't doing it.

But even though the ending is real shit I must say I am very pleased with the cast in general. Even though that Jan-Di girl (Miss Ku Hye-sun) looks plain and were (when we see it from the outside only) no comparing to any of the other girls (I mean even her best friend is easier to be found pretty than her) she developed, only through her being and her acting to the most beautiful of them all.
Same goes for Goo Joon Pyo (Mister Lee Min-ho), when I saw him the first time I just thought "DA FUCK IS THAT?!" but his acting was extremely convincing. Even though I just like it more when he acts being cruel or self-centered.
It was sad Song Woo Bin (Mister Kim Joon) hadn't so much air time. Would have been nice if there would have been a nice side story for him as well.
But also the other actors were great. Maybe I can't really judge it, because I am more used to german soaps (well I despise german soaps 'cause they are really embarrassing and boring), but there was not one episode that make me feel with the female main character, it was really touching and I am sure that was because of the skills of the cast. I wish there was another soap (with a better story) which would include exactly this cast (and more air time for Mister Kim Joon and Mister Lee Min-ho, and someone has to die..).
Whatsoever, I am trying now to find more movies and tv-dramas of the people from the cast.

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The manga is NOTHING like this

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I really do appreciate the recap made on the ending part of this movies,am so proud of all the actors and actresses of this lovable drama... It always gladens my heart whenever i watch it over and over again....thumz up KOREANS

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Awwwn, I already love you for this. I finally decided to see this series, it was breathe taking', awesome, sweet, amazing, true love, gu jun pyo truly loved jandi, it was so annoying to see her turn him down. I hated ji hoo for being such a distraction, tho he is actually cute. But jun pyo is way cuter, tall, handsome, curly hair.. I love the way he loves, wish it was real. Buh its only a movie. Thanks for enlightening us abt d season finale. U are the best. Love u. Mwah

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Wowee 550 comments! That's a sure sign that this series is a K Classic.

Thanks JavaBeans - I read your recaps because your writing is super duper but also to explain to me what I just watched (I don't always "get it").

Was anyone else incredulous that JP drove his bright red pimp mobile to find Jan-di in the fishing village? He didn't think that would stand out? And no one saw it even when it was in the same shot? Too funny.

Her falling into the pool: huh? So she passed out from holding her breath? She was willing to die, hoping he would jump in? Once you pass out under water, your lungs are going to fill with water. She just coughed a little and was good to go. C'mon writers....

I still don't buy the whole doctor thing - neither of them impressed us as rocket scientists (ie: smart). Ji-hoo should have been a music teacher to little kids. Jan-di should have been a nurse or social worker. Anyhoo...

And did Dr. Grampa die? Ji-hoo is all alone again?

Who is paying for Jan-di's education?

A 4 year pottery school? In Sweden?

I hated how Jan-di non chalantly walks up to JP on the beach. Like: "Soooo, whaddup bro?". Good Gawd Girl - where's the passion? Do you have any feelings for him? TELL HIM YOU LOVE HIM!!! I felt bad for JP to have fallen in love with such a cold fish. Shheeesh.

But I loved it!!!

Ok cheers and fighting!!!

Korea rocks the Dramas!

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i love sooooooo much....thank you for producing beautiful love story. it was really amazing in all above,mainly liked about Gu Jun Pyo and Yoon Ji Hoo

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Showtime!

DB, you guys are doing a great job... Hands down!

commenting from Botswana, the drama aired a long time back in my country,but I still read your recaps and laugh my lungs out! Aigooooo...

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I wish it didn't end! Sobbing!

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My heart weeps for Ji Hoo. I wanted him, desperately, to be happy. Jan Di belongs with him. He deserves to be happy. Such a tragic life. So much taken from him, so much lost. So much pain.

Suffering. It's almost tangible.

heartbreaking

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I thought that it would have been interesting that while Jun-pyo was in America, he met up with "Monkey" in New York and managed to complete the merger with his and her companies on a professional level . . . Just a thought. I understand that these Korean sitcoms play it with the pedal-to-the-metal until the end, but I would like to see Boys Over Flowers do a movie that would tie in all the big scenes and provide more of a "this is what happens" kind of thing for the future . . . I also noticed that this show had American influences: Almost Paradise song (BOF) and the Almost Paradise from Footloose sound similar, and Karate Kid (Ralph Maccio version of course)

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I truely love the act, have seen it like five times now. but what is the husband and soulmate talk? does is mean that Ji Hoo is the soulmate and Jun Pyo the husband i don't quiet get it. as for me the chemistry was more on Jun Pyo and Jan Di, i see no chemistry between Ji Hoo and Jan Di, they are more like a good friend. Kudos to all who played one or more roles to make this act a success. love u all.

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It was really emotional.i was sad it ended there,i just wish for another episode.i really wish f4 and jan di can be here in Nigeria.i enjoy them even as a black.

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Thank u so much for the k series (boys over flowers).it was an awesome love story.i loved it so much and i like all of them and i really loved it.when they are going to come back again and i want to see all of them again.It was amazing and wonderfull script.once again i thank for all member.thank u thank u so much......:-) :-)

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I love this series boys over flowers I've watches it for scene 1 till the ending scene it is really very very awesome the best love story ever but I h have one objection they should have also shown what they did in four years because the most amazing series came to such a soon ending

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a great review...but I think tht this was A great drama...lol we all hav different thots...so ya!

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I really enjoyed boys before flowers and i learned lot for my life too... Thanks 4 all creating this kind of tv series..
From sri lanka

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Thank you so much for writing these recaps so I didn't have to actually watch the rest of this drama. I gave up at epi 14. It is the only one I just couldn't finish...
Anyway, I appreciate your work so much. Wonderful that I got to find out what happened.

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I got a chance to watch bof drama now i jus love to watch this series nd become a great fan of jun pyo,ji hoo and jandi i am never fond of watching dramas bt ths one took special place in my heart :) kudos to entire team(i knw i am so late in wishing them as it came before 5 yrs :D)bt anyways a great job team ,love u gu jun pyo and jan di :)))

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I think overally BBF wasn't bad. to answer on your overall comment on Dr. Jihu pay attention to episode 23 or is it 24 when he becomes more involved with his grandfather's work. being of a privileged social standing it is no surprise that he is multi skilled in some stuff for crying out loud he couldn't make pan cakes before and he learned over time which could also be the same explanation over why he was a good knight in shining armour. also my problem with your analysis on Mama Kang it could have taken more time and deviated from the plot trying to show that she repented and became the real person she was before being chairperson. I actually credit her bcoz her character and role seems to fit with the story line. love conquers all at the end. I have to admit that the story line at times is flawed which I guess is what makes it a drama. my problem is however their over emphasis of love and how they potray some stuff. they make it all too flowery and exaggerate it a bit. a little bit of reality does help. as audience we are not passive or stupid we can think and analyze too. but generally it is not that bad as you make it sound.

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