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Strong Girl Nam-soon week 7 episode 13-14 top post (#1):
Binbin is not Si-oh. Anton/Si-oh was the boy who pretended to be beat so that Binbin could survive, too. How could anyone let this smile fade? Binbin is not well, and he is not Si-oh.
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Si-oh tells Nam-soon that he is out to get the mafia, and she only reacts by being surprised … not by e.g., calling her mum and suggesting maybe they cooperate. I know! He is the bad guy … but also the absolutely most interesting person in this show, by far. So maybe it would be okay to be a little extra lenient towards him?


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But as I already said last week, it was bound to be very sad when he found out he was being lied to. And here he is, learning that having a soft spot just means you’ll be sure to be hit there.

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More gifs to follow in the comments.

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Matchmaker Overview
How is it … who has been giving Rowoon severe chest pain by staring at each other, and who are being matched by parents and/or matchmakers?
I have tried to sketch out the love- and arrange- connection here, but it is lacking. You are SO welcome to enlighten me.
+ I made two gifs of two beautiful encounters.



Woah Indeed!
Middle Sister, Du-ri, and Shi-yeol, who Ye-jin’s fiancé.
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A Very Individual Crime Prevention Scheme
Officer Older Brother Soon-gu sees it as his personal duty to keep one citizen, Youngest Sister/Hwa-rok, Sam-soon, away from a life of Crime:

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I am not sure why our streets and squares are not filled with long pieces of silk swaying gently in the breeze? The National Love Life would definitely benefit from it!

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A Good Night to be a Dog
Finally new episodes. Anybody who has ever been on a school trip knows that for a teacher on night watch, there is no such thing as “overdressed”. It’s a super glamourous event.
Our Rivalesse is up to the occasion.

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The Curse of the Fun Idea
It only took me a little more than an hour to make this. What I’m saying is, I should learn to let go of having to realize any ole fun idea I get.
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The Return of Schrödinger’s Cat
It suddenly occured to me that this whole thing was demonstrating a highly scientific principle.
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Answer Me 1997: Uncomfortable truths
Hi, I just need to say this to someone.
I really hate this scene, that seems to be supposed to be funny.
I normally hate the way heroins “cleverly” get the MLs to do anything but sex towards the end of the story. Like it was some fun game where you came up with reasons for not being able to be together alone.
But this time, the girl is not a coquette. She is not playing around. Whether she just doesn’t want to be pregnant, or whether she is against sex before marriage, that is not the important thing.
The important thing is that she is trying to protect herself, calls a taxi for him, – that they can’t discuss with words why she does not want to have sex. That he just uses all the tricks and his undeniably larger strength to get it the way he wants.
Starting with guessing her code and locking himself in.
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Look at her! She is not pouting and giggling. She is just trying to make things work.
And he get’s that coffee, and then he “needs” to use the bathroom, (Look at her exhausted sigh) and then he “needs” to watch TV, but she tries to push him out, which is undoable without his cooperation, because though she is strong, he is way stronger.
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And then he insists on her kissing him. She gives him pecks rather than kisses, that’s true.
But hey, if she wants to not have sex before marriage, or doesn’t want to be pregnant (seems from other clips that it’s really the pregnancy she doesn’t want) is it not fair to also want to protect yourself from situations where you know it will be hard for you to say no?
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SO he forces her backwards, and he kisses her yummily, and yes, most people including this girl wouldn’t mind being kissed by him all that much, but as I said before – I also think it’s fair to protect yourself also from things you desire; like, if you are an alcoholic, to not go to the pub, or if you are trying to lose weight, not go to the patisserie. And if you don’t want to be pregnant, to not be alone in your apartment kissing your sizzling hot boyfriend at a time where you’d naturally need a lie-down.
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I assume this is supposed to be fun in a “She wanted him all along” way. But as I said, you can want someone and still have valid reasons for wanting them to go. And he ought to give her a chance to let her head decide, like she tries to. He could try to persuade her head that is was okay, if he felt that way.
Also, I just generally hate the “She resists, but then she liked it” trope. Though of course, that resistance is often played as the man actually force-kissing the woman, holding her, while she tries to escape. Here at least he doesn’t hold her down, he “only” exhausts her defences.
But you know what? A lot of people have tried being in a situation where they ended up giving in to things they didn’t really want from from sheer exhaustion. I can’t really find it funny.

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    I have not watched Reply 1997, but yes, this sounds alarming, and not entirely surprising. I might be one of the only folks who didn’t like Reply 1988, in large part because it kept suggesting that the real role of women in society was to take care of men, and that male needs always trumped female desires.

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      Reply 1988 didn’t have any scenes like this, though. And there was the brainy, moody sister as counterweight to the cute, confused, caring FL.

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        Yeah, it isn’t this bad, but even the brainy sister gets told by her would-be boyfriend that she’ll have to put him first if she wants to date him, something that is never asked of the male characters.

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          But isn’t that in some more extreme situation, like, she’s ignoring that he exists or something? Not “I am more important than you” but “Sometimes, you need to cancel other things to actually be with me”?
          Or is it the first, terrible guy she dates? Because as I recall, that guy who is in love with her for years, he is pretty ready to put up with a lot, but not … I must admit, I don’t remember the details, I just mean, if you are a couple, *sometimes* you need to each other at the top of the priority list?

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      But yes, it did have one of those lone “To be a mother bla bla bla” monologues that I hate.
      We are not magical.
      It so happens I really would give my life if it could save my child. But I don’t magically know when one of them is in danger, and I don’t walk around as a self-sacrificing entity.

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      I liked the FL here quite a bit, too. Also even if she was obviously not very smart. I didn’t like how violent she was until after the above scene – the rest of the time I was all: “Kick him, girl! Tear his hair! Punch him! One more!”
      I felt so upset, someone had to do something.

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    By the way, Hi! Here’s a post about Answer Me 1997, and there’s one more on my wall about another relationship in that drama, if you’re interested.
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    @marysadanaga @sp2022 @darkcc @GhostofTim @elinor @indyfan

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    Wanting to chime in as a sexual trauma researcher. There’s this concept called token resistance, which is the idea that women say no when they really mean yes (think “Baby It’s Cold Outside”) – it’s a very harmful concept because, as you said, it basically promotes this idea that if a person doesn’t say no, they want to have sex. Which is INCREDIBLY not true.

    That’s why consent has moved to the affirmative or enthusiastic model, which is “yes means yes.” The Law Cafe actually had a very good explanation of it, lol.

    I also really hate how kdramas portray sex (webcomics, too) with the woman often resisting and not seeming like she’s actually into it.

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Matchmakers
Today was so, so lovely. Love was definitely in the air, and watching it felt like declining on puffs of cotton candy.
When for a minute it seemed like aggression and unkindness would pervail, this happened:
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Later, when this dialogue took place, I thought of other things the dear prince hasn’t tried yet but in time could learn to master:
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    Matchmakers continued
    When they met, our heroin had some embarrassed remark about her everyday looks, and evidence of interest, attention and admiration happened to escape our hero’s lips.
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    Our sweet heroin picked up on the signal and wasn’t quite prepared.
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      Matchmakers PPS
      I also snapshot this beautiful moment;
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      —and this, back from ep. 1, during the first description of the magic matchmakers and their unknown method.
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      Yes, a backhanded compliment! I blame it on his total clumsiness. I mean he made sure to get the point across that he thought she is beautiful. 😃 (Yikes, how much I can forgive due to the beautiful scenes! 😆)

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        He is not used to saying anything nice to anyone. And he is used to being depreciative of everybody. I am not sure he really meant to be paying her a compliment, he was just his usual fragile-ego’ed, judgmental self, but there was love and adoration inside him, and one thing more that he is is honest. (Almost always, more than the average person, and not taking into consideration that he is lying to himself about what love and attraction is).

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        But it’s so funny, this stuffed-up, arrogant man, saying “You are not bad to look at” + “today, where I see more of your face, more so than ever” + also, in so many words “I always see you and notice you” and “I could recognize you everywhere, in any place”.
        I’ve just seen the first episode again, and I am gonna kill the writers if they let any of our mains die because “The Matchmaker’s spouse’s unvariably have short lives”.
        I imagine having lost a spouse give them the longing that makes them recognize love, as opposed to them having the ability and that somehow makes their spouses die.
        And maybe, if they team up again for life (maybe not married, since that seems hard to achieve!) they lose that sensitivity, but keep their lives?
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        I suddenly imagine an ending where *she* as some reward gets to remarry any single man she wants(who says yes) and she frees our anti-hero from his golden prison.

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        Oh, and I was going to say: It’s not so much a backhanded compliment as an … forhanded insult!
        He starts out by confirming her self-depreciation that “I look bland without make-up” by saying “I am glad you are aware of that” and *then* goes on to say she is “not bad to look at”.
        A backhanded compliment would be the other way round … MOre like “You shouldn’t say that, dear. Those layers of flaking makeup doesn’t really help, anyway”, just formulated in a more elegant, mean, Jane Austen-villainess way.

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    I mean *re*clining reclining on puffs of pink cotton candy.

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Answer Me 1997
For once, a drama is clearly showing how wrong this relationship bewteen a grownup and a child is. This is so uncomfortable and so off.
Even if the age difference is not enormous, he is the teacher figure for her, and she went into this in that typical child-like way: “I look up to him and love him, it makes me cool that he likes me! [But it feels strange]” – Many children end up being abused that way. Because the grownups abuse their love, admiration and gratitude. Sometimes even their respect for authority.
But in this show, it is clear to see how disgusting it is. Don’t date your students, teachers! Not your former students either!

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    That set up was icky. Teacher was substituting this girl for her deceased sister too. If I recall correctly. .😵‍💫

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      I thought that was the ickiest part. I didn’t understand how the parents let that go on.

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    Also, it somehow feels ickier to some viewers when the teacher is a man and clearly larger.

    When the teacher is a slight woman and the student is the giant Gong Yoo, it not only gets glossed over but romanticized even.

    I hated Biscuit Teacher so much that it has made me unable to enjoy any highschool show with too large male students and too little female teacher, even if there is no loveline between them. (Eg. School 2013)

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      I don’t know that show. But I don’t like it with either gender. Depending on the relation of power, including occasion to groom, the size of the persons, how old they are when they meet, the relation can be worse or less bad – a night school ceramics class with all grown-ups is def. less horrible than a high school teacher and student (also after school is finished – unless many years have passed with no encounter and the age difference is 5 years at the most).
      But it is a frequent fantasy … I think I can actually better tolerate it if it is closer to an erotic fantasy rather than depicted as something that would make a healthy relationship. Because most people know what a “fantasy” is.
      But in general – it’s just urgh.

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    I saw the colour palette of this gif and immediately knew that it is “Reply…” related, but it wasn’t until I took a closer look that 8 realized it isn’t about the “Reply…” I’m thinking about 😅 Everything about “Reply 1988” is making headlines again, especially about the OTP because Hyeri & Ryu Jun Yeol just announced their breakup after being together for 6+ years

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Perfect Marriage Revenge
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Strong Girl Nam-soon week 6 episode 11-12 top post (#1):
Here is Si-oh, Binbin, Anton.
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He still has plans to get back at them. According to himself, he is new to love and friendship – except that one friend in the clip above. He needs to not be completely alone.
BTW what happened to that friend? Was Anton forced to kill him? Or is he somewhere around … someone we know?


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He is building his hope and his better self on this girl who is big time spying on him. It’s hard to see how that can end well.
Problem is, he is judged not solely based on whether he is nice to Nam-soon.
I know! I know. I wanted him to be the ML all along. I still want that. But the person they present to us here in the drama, he is a little bit too terrible. Especially when it hurts people who are not mobsters at all, like this innocent truckdriver. I can’t even give you the whole clip, it’s so disgusting.

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Still, I can’t help thinking of all the times they have said that people can change, and that they should have a chance. Also, that what they really want to bring down can only be done in cooperation. Everybody storms out alone all the time, without telling everybody else what their plan is. What if Si-oh had shared his plans earlier on?

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    Strong Girl Nam-soon (‘s brother, Nam-sin) w6 #2

    When we left him last week, Nam-sin was in danger of dying. But the whole family gets together and takes care of him, and Mama Geum-ju even pays the shady organisation for the antidote.

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    This beautiful scene happens
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    This part of the story should have ended here. Or Geum-ju could have said something like: “Anything I can do for you, I will help you” or “I don’t base your value on your weight. I will not comment on what you eat anymore”. Instead her epiphany end up like this:
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    “Ha ha”.

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    Strong Girl Nam-soon and civil rights w6 #3
    K-dramas seem to have an ongoing war on civil rights. Especially when it comes to privacy and warrants. Both Nam-soon and Behind Your Touch people’s right to phone privacy. (+ indicating that breaking the bones of prisoners is “cool”. Yeah, cool like when Shi-oh beats up his employees).

    https://www.dramabeans.com/activity/p/1466000/#acomment-1466428

    In this episode, we have two attacks on civil rights. I am not one to know exactly where different limits should be, but this seems like too little confidence in the legal system and too much in the police.
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    I know rich people get away with things they shouldn’t because they can afford lawyers that are cleverer than the spirit of the law, but having a lawyer in itself is not a villainous thing. The law is not made for people to cheat justice, otherwise, why don’t we just leave any judicial process to lynch mobs?
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    Strong Girl Nam-soon w6 #4
    I can’t say that I wasn’t warned, but as long as I could hope Si-oh would get in clinch with Nam-soon in a good way, this whole show was more interesting for me.
    It’s not gonna happen. Nam-soon hates when he touches her even in a non-sexual way.
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    But clearly, the interesting thing is what his reaction will be to having his feelings taken advantage of like they are.
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    Hee-sik seems to finally have given in to the pressure of consummating. Maybe it helped that it was Nam-soon bringing it up instead of her mum or dad, and also, she mentioned the word “love”.
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    I think this was it for now! This last episode was the first time I was not thoroughly entertained. I want to know what happens, but we all knew from the start that this show would not be what it promised to be.
    This crazy writer should work with someone visionary one day – what a fantastic drama it could be. [sigh].
    My favourite “desperate longing” gif. This time representing me longing for what I could imagine this drama to be.
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    @sp2022 @seeker (Cera) @GhostofTim

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      Thanks for keep us in the loop. I do wish I could join you for live watching but I missed the bus setime during week 3 and was never able to continue after that. Sigh. But I do enjoy your gifs thoroughly. If some enterprising soul over at YT makes a supercut of Nam-soon and Hee-sik, I would watch that and call it a day.

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      Thank you for the gifs! I tried to stay with this drama but with with so many live watches and the downward slope it seemed to be on I had to call it a day once I stopped enjoying a few weeks in a row.

      I’ve enjoyed staying connected through your gifs and thoughtful posts. And I completely commiserate on the wanted potential, those at the dramas that frustrate me and stay with me more than the dramas I just didn’t expect much of and then didn’t enjoy.

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Perfect Marriage Revenge
Here, my contribution to the evaluation and disgestion of today’s episode (No.5)
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Matchmakers small things:
So, while waiting for the weekend, here are three funny-peculiar things, and to note:
A mystery of episode four:
In the show, this girl is being treated as if she must compensate for being ugly. Even in this small clip, FL looks like it takes willpower to keep looking hopeful faced with … that face.
Even if we disregard inner beauty, I cannot see other than that she is a pretty girl, right?
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Be Concise!
Mostly this happens when Jung-woo goes on some pedantic rant again; FL answers pacifyingly “Yeah, yeah”, and he says “Once is enough”.
This time is a bit different, since she is correcting herself, sending him this way and that. Still, I think that “Just say it once” is something we will hear again.

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Here, poor Jung-woo suffers quite a bit after FL has demonstrated how to call forth love at first sight
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Noone seems to care for his pain, the poor sod.

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@manichan @sp2022 @marysadanaga

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    I don’t think they found her ugly but not feminin. She lacks the grace and the restraint they are expecting from a noble girl. She’s very energetic, very cute and like an open book.

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    Sister-in-Law’s Love and his hands

    Hello!
    I thought about the hands of that peasant that Soon-deok’s sister-in-law wants to be with. I thought they did not look like hardworking hands. Of course, that could just be a glitch, but they did seem to make sure we got a good look at his hands.
    Of course, mud baths and mud masks are meant to scrub, soften, cleanse, and invigorate the skin, but I doubt hours of hard work in the rice field will yield this kind of result.
    I made first a beautiful romantic “see his hands”-gif, ( https://imgur.com/6drt6kB ) and then I made a mix with people sowing actual rice by hand. It was hard to find pictures of rice-working hands that were not either a hand-photo model’s hands, or the hands of someone older than that young man.
    Maybe all this means nothing, but I find it fairly probable that he is undercover rather than a real rice peasant. Here is the mix clip:
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    Also, he is definitely afraid of being seen holding her hand. That of course would make most sense of all if he was an actual poor person – someone who could be beaten to death for daring to be liked be his betters, and who could not just “disappear” and find his network of rebels and a new identity.

    Sorry to bother everybody all the time – it is really just for fun, and I hope y’all think it is. Fun.
    @seeker @lapislazulii @indyfan @Reply1988 @kurama @sonai
    @manichan @sp2022 @marysadanaga

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      Lot of research and hard work for you but fun for us … also very informative. You make us learn whether we want it or not by making it fun. You are sneaky like that. 🤣

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      Will be staring at his hands going forward 😂
      There are a number of characters going undercover here, so it wouldn’t be a surprise if he were another one. Although if he’s a secret noble it’ll take away a chance for the matchmakers to work their magic to bridge the class divide.

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Comment to Joseon makeup:

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    Oh, is he the actor of the TV show Rise?

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      I don’t know? But I’d like to hear from you, if you feel like sharing.
      We talked (under “The Matchmakers”) about makeup because of the supposedly “ugly” sister. There’s a whole actual song tht the gif is cut from, and you can find that on Youtube, searching for “Girl, you don’t need makeup”. The comedian in the center of this gif is Amy Schumer, the star of the show “Inside Schumer” and the film “Trainwreck”.

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Discussion of female ideals as coquette, alluring virgin ab civilizors:
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Comparing the look of what is clearly a pre-teen child with that of silent movie superstar Asta Nielsen
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The Matchmaker Detective Board
Bigger, slower, brighter!
I made clips of the what Jung-woo was looking at so that they can be watched in slow-motion.LInks below. They are MP4 because it’s better quality and you can make them fullscreen. Also, I have sharpened contrast, and enhanced colours. Know that the colours appear brighter than in “reality”.
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In the first clip I have included an enlarged version of what is at his right, which seems to be the direction he is looking at. Also, I have pointed out where Jung-woo is. Consider this gif just an illustration. To go a-sleuthing, follow the links.

1) https://imgur.com/sW8V3oW
2) https://imgur.com/giomNCq
3) https://imgur.com/4OQxBc1
4) https://imgur.com/3QOawVV

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Privilege
I talked about this comedy pairing in a discussion and is putting this up for reference.
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It is definitely better with sound, for which reason I have put a link up for the same bit in MP4. https://imgur.com/AjKZYwc

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@marysadanaga @sp2022 @darkcc @GhostofTim @elinor @indyfan

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    That is both funny in a horrible way and horrible in a funny way.

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      Yes, they are super sharp. (The comedians, not “Fritz and Paul” the characters). If you follow the link below you can hear their voices speak upper class Danish. I believe you can hear the class sociolect even as a foreigner.

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        I did! We’ve all heard the jokes about how Danish isn’t a language, it’s a throat condition – and yet I can make out individual consonants, vowels, and syllables, so is that what marks their speech as upper class? Danish speakers are as scarce as hen’s teeth here so I have no real-life experience. I want to see more of these guys, though. Part of what I loved about them is they’re dressed exactly like the upper class twits I knew in the 1980s – it could be a time warp. Some things are apparently universal and unchanging.

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          It’s a bit like “The Queen’s English”; They are so relaxed and “well”-brought up that they more or less articulate without closing their mouths. Does that make sense?
          And there’s something typical also in the way they more or less of chuckle and grunt from being so pleased with themselves. It’s hard to distinguish what they say from how they say it, but I thought that maybe you could hear the area North of Copenhagen with the big houses (“The Whiskey Belt”) in their articulation, too?
          Anyways, You can search on “Snobberne”, there are lots of clips on youtube.
          A few of them are subtitled. I checked one out: It is poorly done, the tone is wrong. They speek a mixture of, you know “jolly good” and “Old chap”, call each other “søde” (means “sweet” but is a little less than that, but more than “nice”).
          It’s like calling each other “darling” without being actual homosexuals (More like when women call each other those things, + they are so alike that they love each other for always agreeing it’s a kind of self infatuation) and then they fill in with pretty vulgar swear words. The subtitles I found were in a middle language tone, like I would have translated something I myself said. You will get the gist, but will have to add the tone mentally.
          The way they talk is very authentic, and I know that if I had tried to write this kind of dialogue, I would have made it too nice.
          https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PSmJKWFTbNs

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          The throat sounds in Danish are becoming more an d more softened (like all our consonants) so that sounds can actually be very hard to discern. The Norwegians made an Alas! too, too funny sketch about Danish people not understanding each other anymore and just walking around in bewildered linguistic loneliness. But we do have the glottal stroke, of course. Without that, not Danish. It’s not so much a sound as a short stop in the sound of the rest of the word.
          Also, we have a way of saying “yes” that consists of breathing in shortly. Mainly used for confirming we are still listening to someone who speaks. I didn’t ever think about that until I talked to an Italian, who kept making fun of me by gasping loudly each time.

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Perfect Marriage Revenge

You (Was it Ceecee?) described this situation. I giffed it for you.
@elinor @indyfan @hopefulromantic @sonai @mayhemf @ladynightshade @seeker @lapislazulii @lixie @attiton @DarkCc @kafiyah-bello @mindy @emsel

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    Yes! The awkward handstretch!!!!

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    But who wrote that they should just stay there, frozen in that position, while all the rest of the drama was displayed on their clothes? Did I dream up that prompt?

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      I don’t think I did. But if nobody takes credit, you definitely should take it!
      I was just picturing how they discuss the scene.

      “So, you face each and other with your hands outstretched”
      “So we shake hands?”
      “Of course not. Just leave your hands there.”
      “Ok. For how long?”
      “12 minutes, this is makjang land, baby. Maximal effort minimum impact.”
      “Shouldn’t it be the other way round?”
      “Who cares? Makjang!!!”

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    The strangest scene, they weren’t even touching hands, lol

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      It was very weird. It was so weird that it was maybe the one watch-worthy moment in those 2½ hours the weekend-episodes lasted.

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        Awww … that’s so not true.
        You’re not feeling the makjang vibe then.

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        Come on DK, don’t hate, APPRECIATE, come to us and enjoy the shenanigans. 😜😭😍

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          I have already been joining with a rich amount of gifs. It was quite fun to make the gifs, and other people’s updates are fun, too. But I am seriously SO bored while watching the show. And I don’t think the ML is hot at all.
          I don’t want to hate on him for not being hot – it’s just that I can see other thinks he is, and for me, there’s just nothing to look at. To me, he is the type of guy who would sidle up to one (when “one” was younger) with some really dumb pick-up line that you could see coming from a mile away, and you just really, really hoped he would go away without you having to shout at him. (I know, he doesn’t play that kind of character, but he looks it).
          I think I can enjoy a good “it was his adopted daughter, and later, they found out the plumber was really an undercover chaebol boy, and the brother’s leg was totally fine, and the whole fortune was hidden in a secret underground vault that opened when you turned the snow glass ball” thing … I mean, I am a Dickens enthusiast, and I guess he is makjang, if I has got the genre right?
          But I am bored, and if I could turn up the speed to 1,5 it would be alright, but I can’t do that on viki … so I’m not quite sure I can keep watching this. Or maybe I can just watch half, in big jumps… and then read the recaps. Just to be along here. Because the show in itself has no attraction for me.

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I was inspired by some early origin of the Ministry of Silly Walks.
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    Cue Jung-woo flapping his hanbok wings like a penguin. (He did it again at the end of this scene! @attiton has surely noticed, too 😂)

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    In fact, I know! Bless my kpop education (specifically the legendary banger that is DBSK’s MIROTIC, but trust me, I’ve heard it in maaany songs) for teaching me the expression 넌 내게 빠져 “neon naege ppajyeo” which literally means “you have fallen (in love) with me”. Quick google search confirms that 빠져/”ppajyeo” indeed means “being out of it/not quite where or how one is supposed to be”, also is a part of phrases like “falling into the trap”, “getting in trouble”, “being absent/absent-minded” etc, so I believe this is exactly what you’re looking for. Won’t be surprised if there is more words/expressions with the same meaning since Korean is a rather rich language, but from my decade+ fansubbing experience to express such feelings it’s usually one of the 4 being used: “love”, “like”, “wanting/desire” AND “ppajyeo”. “I’ve fallen for you” – I’m relying on my poor knowledge and GT here – should translate to 난 너에게 빠졌어 “nan neoege/neoyege ppajyeosseo” (a bit insure about formality level with this one, but whatever).

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      Thank you SO much.
      I am asking because a certain character keeps literally falling – all the time , and I started thinking maybe this falling was hinting at something less literal.

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        You’re welcome))) I believe it’s a universal metaphor because, you know, human biology is largely the same everywhere, so week knees due to FEELZ shouldn’t be a region-specific symptom of love.

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          I cannot speak for a lot of languages, but in French it is indeed the same “falling in love = tomber amoureux” but we do not say “I’ve fallen for you”, the adjective amoureux is always present. If you fall with no other indication in French, you fall on the ground or you drop dead.
          Sweeping someone off their feet is faire perdre la tête (to loose one’s head) or subjuger / subjugate.
          But there is no equivalent to head over heels. (Or I do not find a corresponding expression).

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